The Insidious War on Men: The Destruction of Masculinity

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[@titoamadio6858]

Wear a dress if you want, but 1) Don't try to force me to like/be attracted to it and 2) Don't demonise us men who refuse to wear one.

[@adamjenkins7653]

And when all of you are ocama or cross dressers don't complain when we lose the ability to tell the difference.

[@jordanevans7499]

They aren't.... Harry styles chose to wear a dress and people freaked ( including Sydney).

[@Bradley_Lute]

Exactly. When a principal you hold starts to look like a scapegoat or a dunk on your political opponent, you know you've taken a wrong turn somewhere.

[@kacperparzecki7164]

It doesn't even fit my dummy thicc butt!

[@denisionescu5072]

3)not in public or in front of children.

[@TheDraconnian]

When I was 13-14 years old, my mother, who is a social worker, took me to a lecture at her job, which was about domestic violence. She felt that as a man I should attend such a seminar to learn how bad domestic violence is. I was happy to attend because I always considered it a bad thing. The first thing the woman who gave the lecture said was that she was a lesbian. Ok, no one asked her, but ok. The next thing she said was that she wouldn't start teaching as long as I was there. Everyone was shocked, and logically my mother mostly. I was the only man, and the other women rebelled and said it was discrimination, that I was a boy and that I should hear those things. My mother got into a heated argument with her and told her that if there was no room for me there she would not attend either. However this woman who taught said that either I am going or she will not start talking. Not wanting to put my mother in an awkward situation, because it was her job after all, I got up and left. I have never felt so humiliated in my life.

[@alix6xgorg839]

Yeah, humans sometimes cant be taken.

[@donvee2000]

I think u did the right thing for your Mom. I'm sorry you felt humiliated...but that is a perfect example of what they are trying to accomplish. Getting men feeling guilty for absolutely nothing.

[@jinji0205]

in reality or internet, extreme lesbians hate man Than any other groups

[@lucaspanto1442]

That lecturer should be fired

[@charlesmartinjr3971]

@Chandler Burse Yeah, this is odd. We're going to rail against men, demand that they not be abusive, but then kick them out of anti-abuse lectures? That's like demanding that people give up alcoholism, but then kicking all the alcoholics out of AA.

[@paigehc6659]

Personally, I don't care if men wear a dress. But when you're demonizing men who are masculine, that's a problem.

[@rudytheduck4776]

yes

[@sindelscat9336]

I agree

[@vosaemify]

amen!!! I got yelled at by a girl because I SAID she looked super beautiful....I am still perplexed til this day. She insisted that she did not dress this way for compliments. SMFH

[@paigehc6659]

@@vosaemify As a girl, I know she's wrong. If she's dressing a certain way, then yeah, she's doing it for the attention

[@rudytheduck4776]

DJ GLITCH Vosa Em yeah... that’s how some people are, crazy that a compliment is taken as an insult

[@GenXfrom75]

Another point: my husband is a long bearded combat veteran, rides a Harley, and people never fail to make assumptions on his character based on appearance. I make no apologies for wanting a traditionally masculine man. I'm a very feminine woman. We have traditional roles, by choice. He respects me, cherishes me and I, in turn, respect him for all his contributions. There's nothing *toxic* about a man being traditionally masculine.

[@anablackwood6141]

Same here. I love that mine is more traditionally masculine. He once jumped between me and an aggressive dog that was going to bite me. I never forgot it even though it happened years ago. He was terrified but he still did it because he loves me.

[@QManagerin]

in my experience, most "masculine" and maybe "threatening" looking men are really teddy bears inside. IMO it's because they're confident and don't need validation.

[@Furienna]

I grew up with very gender-normative parents, so I know that it can work.

[@p382742937423y4]

Is he a nice Guy?

[@GenXfrom75]

@@p382742937423y4 not always. Not when he needs to get stuff done. He is nice when it's appropriate to be. He doesn't sugar coat. He can be rough around the edges and downright blunt. He's not cruel.

[@Pete_R63]

There's a line I love in one of the Rocky movies where Sylvester Stallone says something to the effect of, "I won't ask you to stop being a woman, don't ask me to stop being a man." Loved that.

[@edgarcs2510]

Rocky 2 isn't it?

[@Pete_R63]

@@edgarcs2510 Could be. I wish I could remember. I think in the first one he had a couple lines I liked- "I wonder if you wouldn't mind marrying me so much" and "I won't leave no hair in the sink". ; )

[@edgarcs2510]

@@Pete_R63 Right after this I looked for the scene and it is Rocky II indeed

[@edgarcs2510]

@@Pete_R63 His lines are so simple yet so memorable

[@Pete_R63]

@@edgarcs2510 Completely agree!!

[@UnchartedWalters06]

Masculinity isn't toxic, the lack of understanding what masculinity is, is!

[@danieltakawi9919]

No one said masculinity is toxic. They said there is masculinity, and then there's toxic masculinity. Just like there are cars, and then there are blue cars.

[@SandShark350]

@@danieltakawi9919 wrong, MANY of them claim masculinity, all of it, is toxic and needs to be rejected.

[@jeimisonvaldezmedina8346]

@Eric M if is true what you say about young mens then i agree that’s sad and no one should feel ashamed of how they act but me being someone who doesn’t fit the “correct” definition of masculinity i can agree with you in the “there’s no such a thing as toxic masculinity” but there is such a thing as a toxic way to express masculinity and you can perfectly see it in people like candice owens or other people who like to mock or bully people because they don’t fit their definition of masculinity and if you don’t believe just go to Twitter and see the comments that people are making under candace post related to this ( and sorry for the bad english, it isn’t my first language🤣)

[@jeimisonvaldezmedina8346]

@Eric M thank you, I couldn’t agree more with you ✌️🧏‍♂️

[@danieltakawi9919]

@@SandShark350 Provide evidence. I've been involved with liberals and leftists for a long time and I've never seen anyone say so.

[@scottclark3761]

"Helping men isn't about helping men" And people wonder why we don't want to ask for help.

[@CaribbeanPirate]

We ask for help, we are called weal, insecure, not man enough.... yeah...like i'm really gonna ask for help to only get ridiculed and in a way have my manhood shamed to the point of breaking down emotionally.

[@sboz86]

@@CaribbeanPirate are these other men doing this to you?

[@CaribbeanPirate]

@@sboz86 No, it's women. The men i know, sure we'll have some banter, but they'd still help me out and not make it too invasive, giving g me that space to be comfortable in myself. with women... ah geez..the comparing begins and you have to work hearing them talk just loud enough for you to hear.

[@CaribbeanPirate]

@Global Man I would say our ability to defend ourselves may be ruined, but that doesn't mean we still can't try to seek help. I'm glad I have a community that was there for me in my time of need, who knows where I'd be if it wasn't for them.

[@CaribbeanPirate]

@Global Man that would be geralizing, let's not follow their pattern, there are a dew good ones out there, but with all things, the loud ones tend to drown them out.

[@carolyngrey2853]

Men shouldn’t have to act like women and women shouldn’t have to act like men for us to have equality…

[@HANKSANDY69420]

Yeah, its about removing (bad) extremes and tweaking the scales, not swapping one another to the opposite scale

[@WillFredward7167]

Very true. Equal does not mean identical

[@oykuylmaz6105]

Why you try to surpress free people. They can act however they want unless they hurt someone.

[@oykuylmaz6105]

@@WillFredward7167 No equal mean WE ALL FREE! I hope you can understand this one day and express your emotions better.

[@WillFredward7167]

@@oykuylmaz6105 Ok. Let me try to express it better: Equality means that everyone has value, every life is precious, and people are free to make choices and have agency. Equality does NOT mean that all people must actually be the same. Two people can be extremely different, from different backgrounds, and with different beliefs, and yet they can still be *equal* in worth and freedom. An effort to make men more like women and vice versa is horribly at odds with equality. Forcing everyone to be the same means taking *away* freedom.

[@tmauntler]

My art and math teachers were walking doormats... My dad wasn't there (new wife, new life), my step dad was a doormat. My mother thought I hated her because i was always angry... In a house with a single mother, 3 sisters and no masculine role models. I joined the army, went to school, deployed a couple times and am now married to a beautiful wife who shares my distaste for everything covered in this video lol

[@theblackknight101]

I suggest keep your wife out of videos like these.. women tend to take these videos as attacks on themselves, because they think with emotions. Very rarely will they logically reason that this is about you, not her. She may not say this to you, but will cause a strain in the relationship in the long run.

[@helcurt2509]

@@theblackknight101 did anyone ask your advice?

[@xLionsxxSmithyx]

@@theblackknight101 you clearly misunderstood the point in the comment.

[@joemaxwell7892]

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[@theblackknight101]

A lot of people seem to have gotten triggered, but you cant run away from the truth guys.. you have to be more sensitive when talking to women (despite what ever is being said about both sexes being equal and what not).. including content you watch with them.. honestly im too lazy to answer to everyone so heres my last response in this comment chain.

[@joshuastokes3142]

I am a single male and dating is a nightmare. Something as simple as holding a door for a date is grounds for an argument on "toxic stereotypes". I have begun getting more thrilled about spending time with my dog than going on dates. I know good women with common sense are out there, but the search is getting more scarce.

[@balazszsigmond826]

Consider this: by being who you are and who you want to be, and by hearing these women complain about this, you are not spending months in meaningless relationships, while these women show their teeth. Now is the time, when they feel they are supported by society, and now they don't hide their venom. "Toxic masculinity, you say? Oh, glad we are on the same page here. I'll go home now."

[@lewisaino]

In my case I don't talk to girls in a sudden since I don't to be accused of Sexual Harassment.

[@lucascampestrini467]

Did this acctualy happened? I realy doubt it

[@meiko431]

@@lucascampestrini467 it happened to me with a guy , he was like what do you want, stop invading my space there are free benches elsewere aaand i left 😂😂😂😂😂😂.

[@gustaf3811]

Steve Rogers is a perfect example, he isn't strong and tall with a beard. He was selected to become a super soldier because he was a good man, he was brave enough to be humble and humble enough to be kind.

[@tonycleek4981]

Your words reminds me of that meme that says, “Hard times create strong men. Strong men create good times. Good times create weak men. Weak men create hard times.” One of the many issues is that we don’t allow men to have their own space. We don’t let them be creative in they way that men have been in the past. As you commented, strong male role models are needed for future men to succeed.A family man can teach boys how to treat women. I was luckily to have both of my grandfathers around me when I was growing up. They taught me several life lessons that have benefited me to this day. It seems most young men could benefit spending time with the older generation.

[@2OldGeeksTalking]

Well said.

[@mmcc5070]

Yes men need their own space!

[@tonycleek4981]

@Nic Name 10 spaces that are exclusively for men.

[@tophercIaus]

That's not just a meme, it is from a novel by G. Michael Hopf.

[@davidcox9371]

@@tonycleek4981 How about a urinal...?

[@zlinky1113]

I'm so fed up with women being terrified of me and treating me like there is something wrong with all of us guys. Most strong guys are really vulnerable inside, we are certainly not out to hurt anyone. Our natural instincts are all about protection, providing and kindness. You are actually helping women everywhere by looking after us. I salute you. : )

[@senormarston]

Yeah, I know what you mean; I'm a long hair metalhead with 6'5 height that workout and sometimes I see that women kinda feel scare when I try to talk or even make an eye contact hahaha

[@BansheeKing22]

Thats your natural instincts but thats not universal.

[@susmitabasu1549]

Read more the rapist are out there and its them who do it.

[@elisabeth9947]

As a woman, the injustice and idiocy of this behavior towards men infuriates and saddens me. I hate how (some) women do this stuff to them and try to appear strong by fabricating a victimhood for themselves.

[@Springfairy92]

@Global Man Are you okay..?

[@CaribbeanPirate]

That's basically this in a nutshell; woman calls rape, man is dragged through the mud, even if he's innocent. Man said he's raped, they asked him why complain for the freebie. The way how different acts are treated alone shows how bad the scale is tipped.

[@timallen643]

Elisabeth: As a mature real man unlike some of these people here, I'm proud of you stating what's on your mind despite the fact that other women won't share your opinion. I see that some people on here are viewing your opinion with skepticism. I guess they can't believe people with real life opinions are actually telling the truth. Because continuing down these diverging paths leads to a broken Society. It appears that the some of the younger crowd of women believe that you can sleep with an endless count of men and expected to remain valuable in a man's eyes. What this Behavior leads to his lack of self-control, which in turn promotes the lack of trust on our part , which also means she has a stronger chance of cheating to get her next fix so to speak and the same goes for men also. After all Beauty and value are in the eye of the beholder.

[@timallen643]

@A. M. I believe most are immature ill informed broken young boys who are mad at some women's behavior. They have no real life ambitions just video games & non-real human interactions.

[@timallen643]

@A. M. & Elisabeth just view us as carrying torches that are lighting up the dark & know that we will never drop. Do not go gently into the night.

[@charlesminton7021]

Boys are falling behind. I tell my son to never be ashamed of his talents, intelligence and accomplishments. All too often he comes home and says he got the best grade on a test or something, but is admonished by the teacher when he feels excited in class by his performance. The dismantling of competition based on skill, intelligence or some other measure, robs boys of a sense of accomplishment.

[@ameilioracryptos5298]

I'm a girl but I enjoy competition as well

[@CreativeCreatorCreates]

I took my kids out of school. I have three boys. They really thrived once they were out. I gave them the choice of staying in or homeschooling and they all chose to learn from home. They are respectful, kind, helpful and they love volunteering in our community. I wish I could have done this, because school was terrible. Then again, back when I was in school starting from the early 80s, we could also be physically punished in school, so I’m sure that acted as a deterrent. Now it’s mental abuse they are dolling out.

[@calvinjohnstone2664]

Everyone gets a participation trophy. There are no winners because that makes those who lost feel bad😕🤔 bullshit.

[@jazzman1626]

Eh? Your son got told off for being pleased with his accomplishments? I would have had more than a few words with that misandrous, psychological abuser of a teacher for that.

[@josephdillard9907]

That's this notion of "equity" that they are pushing so hard. It doesn't allow for success, it doesn't allow for people to thrive, to shine, to excel, it doesn't allow for greatness, it only allows for one thing: everybody being pushed down to the "equal" level of the lowest common denominator. Meaning all people will ultimately be forced down to illiteracy and abject poverty and serfdom. It's a process that has already long since began, and is progressing more and more every day. It may take a little while for us to get down to that rock bottom level, but we are on our way and accelerating toward it constantly, and we will get there soon enough if nothing is done to change it or to stop it.

[@Goregreet]

I will always be a manly man And i will always be proud of it

[@Deejaay83urj38]

As you should be. But effeminate men are still "all god's children". Or if no god . .equal citizens with right, whether unattractive to some, or not. Good and bad in every group

[@pamelasindisiwemutasa9320]

OK manly man as a 16 year old guy I have a question. It's OK for a guy to cry right?

[@Beregond1861]

Same

[@Beregond1861]

@@pamelasindisiwemutasa9320 Yes, but emotion it complicated. For example, if everyome always acted willingly upon every single emotion, evil acts would be unbelievably common. So while some emotions should be ignored at certain times, *yes* it is perfectly okay to cry regardless of your gender. I've honestly and openly done so multiple times while watching the Lord of the Rings.👍❤

[@Goregreet]

@@pamelasindisiwemutasa9320 even though i personally can't cry i have to say To cry doesn't mean to be a man or not It means to be human So yes it is okay

[@michaelsantangelo6192]

I pointed out the high suicide rate in men to my feminist sister who is a therapist. Her response? "Men kill women. Men kill men. Men kill themselves." Wow, such compassion and empathy from a therapist.

[@Blakmage3]

If toxic masculinity was a thing, then the children raised with Dads around would be turning out worse than kids raised without one. That’s not what’s happening though, is it. 🤨

[@natsumiyumiko9644]

Imagine boys arent only influenced by dadas but also tv, peers and teachers

[@Blakmage3]

@@natsumiyumiko9644 TV influence is very indirect. Peers are too busy being uninfluenced by their own absent Dads. The vast majority of primary school teachers are female. Children need real, live stable men in their lives.

[@bastardhyena7882]

The saddest thing about this comment is that fathers never win custody of children when abuse is inflicted by the mother. And so they were raised without one, no father figure destroys our children.

[@j.danaclark89]

And let's not forget, it's more common to see a mother abuse a kid than a dad.

[@madzz5925]

@@Blakmage3 Reminds me of my childhood where I lack male affection. Seeing other kids having father that treats them well made my younger self jealous

[@martinmehus1406]

Honestly, this discussion is really simple: stop telling people what to do. Stop telling men to be less masculine. Stop telling men to be more masculine. Let people do whatever they want as long as it doesn’t harm anyone directly. It’s fine that women have preferences. It’s fine for a woman to say that she will not be attracted to a man who wears a dress, but it is not okay for anyone to tell them that they aren’t allowed to. Same thing goes with basically everything else. I’m not attracted to girls with blue hair, but I am not going to tell anyone that they shouldn’t dye their hair blue if that is what they want. Do your thing, as long as it is not harming anyone else. Thanks.

[@gulpgulpgulpgulp5417]

This beautifully written comment here deserves more likes.

[@mariacamilaarredondovargas3577]

@@gulpgulpgulpgulp5417 couldn't agree more

[@cadethumann8605]

Agreed. It irritates me when people dictate how exactly men and women should act. Just be kind, don't dominate over others (at least without their consent), and other basic civilized behavior.

[@cadethumann8605]

@Bernkastel Frederica Dude/Miss, where did I say that I had a problem with men wearing dresses? I even said that I don't like it when people dictate others in how exactly to behave (it irritates me, for instance, when men dictate what is masculine/manly and what is not). A man wearing a dress is of no concern to me.

[@f.ylimee]

True true true

[@meghanmary4566]

My cousin is a high school teacher at a school in a low income area, and is also the boys baseball coach. He's the closest thing to a father figure for many of these boys, and I respect the hell out of him for making sure these boys have a strong male role model!

[@stephenc2481]

All kids need a strong male and female role models. to think a father figure is trivial, the kids suffer.

[@donixion4368]

@@stephenc2481 Shhhhh, those are blasphemous words to hard-core feminists.

[@benlotus2703]

@@donixion4368 the "complexity" of a VVoman's mind, generally speaking, is simply being ruled by emotion and lack of stability. Don't sugarcoat an inferior quality

[@dinimueter539]

@@benlotus2703 found the incel.

[@saintofsinners]

@@benlotus2703 Sounds a lot like you're projecting. Bad childhood?

[@WillFredward7167]

Since the first time I heard it, I have always been highly suspicious of the term “Toxic Masculinity.” To me, if a behavior is toxic, then it simply isn’t masculine, but a corruption away from it. Also, thank you for drawing attention to the seething hatred behind how so many men have been mistreated. Any victim of abuse deserves compassion and help. Accusing them of misogyny simply because they felt abused… that is so evil.

[@Furienna]

I will agree that toxic masculinity is a corruption, or it really is a display of an attempt to hide insecurities or other issues. But I don't have anything against the term, since it really explains what it is in my opinion.

[@imopman]

“And if you think tough men are dangerous, wait until you see what weak men are capable of.” : Jordan Peterson

[@crazylizze98]

Masculine does not equal strong. Feminine does not equal weak

[@FelixVDW]

@@crazylizze98 Morally, not physically

[@crazylizze98]

@@FelixVDW define "morally"

[@imopman]

@@crazylizze98 Gandhi was masculine , he had courage and moral fiber , masculinity is (not) - ( edited , I forgot the not in this sentence ) exactly how physically strong you are ( although being a physical wreck will not be helpful ( imagine Gandhi as obese ? )) but requires strength of character. Young Gandhi had a normal masculine upbringing , he roughhoused as a child , got into fights , smoked , ate meats and even went to a brothel with friends , bring him up with the indoctrination currently being pushed onto boys in schools forbidding even the game of tag as too aggressive and he would not have had that strength.

[@imopman]

@@crazylizze98 True , but for men and especially boys there needs to be a physical challenge to their lives , boys will wrestle AGAINST each other and race AGAINST each other unless you actively prevent it. There is an larger aspect of physical strength and ability for boys that is needed for them grow into a healthy and happy adult.

[@OliveDoctor]

No person in this world will make me deny my masculinity and my role in my family.

[@marchedgie6838]

Same here brother.

[@aswd90]

Preach!

[@ravenclawthestral3964]

Oh dear god do you call yourself an alpha male?

[@OliveDoctor]

@@ravenclawthestral3964 nope, just male

[@blossom6265]

@@OliveDoctor iconic response

[@turdferguson9356]

woman: spends last 6 years gaslighting men about the nature of masculinity also woman: confused why she can't find a good man

[@rexfrog]

She can always adopt 100 cats and live happily ever after.

[@CapnTytePantz]

Fact! 🤦‍♂️

[@RedRoseSeptember22]

Feminism in a nutshell lol.

[@sonycans]

While I am trying to see your meaning to your response @@CapnTytePantz however there are plenty of media produced articles where women are unable to find good men.

[@smartgoku9048]

@@sonycans probably because the good men don't want them. would you want someone who can't bond with you and is most likely a gold digger. i know i don't.

[@silver1021]

Emotional suppression is an extremely toxic trait, whether for men or for women. Emotional control and understanding are positive and necessary disciplines that, again, both men and women should work towards.

[@HighSpeedNoDrag]

Hear Hear!

[@mrfenris4416]

The closest I'll come to wearing a dress is my kilt, goes well with my combat boots and my sword.

[@memesfromdeepspace1075]

And Shield don't forget Shield as for me i take double trowing Axe or one in kratos have

[@mrfenris4416]

@@memesfromdeepspace1075 I don't own a shield yet but I am looking at getting a buckler.

[@weswolever7477]

Q: What’s the difference between a kilt and a skirt ? A: if you’re wearing underwear, it’s a skirt

[@overlordwarlordtheomnilord9473]

I hope the world in the hopefully near future can look back at these times and wonder how certain humans can be so stupid. Them trying to bring men up is actually putting them down completely to the point where the word man could be looked at with disgust. If we got rid of women hood completely I wondered how they would react(I’d put my money on the same way)

[@KeizerSosebee]

The closest thing i have to a dress is my robe....over my perfect titanium alloy full body armor. Doom out

[@ahmadsyed9714]

Nobody: Society wants men to show their feelings Also Society: Men dont have feelings

[@southwestoklahomaairsoftcl9889]

I have feelings I feel recoil from my rifle.

[@ahmadsyed9714]

@@southwestoklahomaairsoftcl9889 LOOOOOL THE AK GO BRRRRRRR

[@ket451]

I only have 2-4 (publicly shown.) feelings as a male. -Happy (to a degree) -Completely Normal (straight faced, no smile no frown.) -Angry (depending on situation) -Man (oo oo ah ah.)

[@akashverma4280]

No, the moment you show your feelings someone is gonna use it* against you. Like a fking leverage.

[@chrisgould101]

I have quite dynamic emotions but am also a pretty tough boi . No one usually messed with me. Though lately I have closed off my overt emotions , due to a traumatic experience. Who even knows. Well aware of the narrative and agenda though, I did 8 years in family court as a man. 4 dismissed refusals to attend "anger management" a whole host of leftist court appointed females out for blood, a natural refusal to comply undeserved punishment, even an outright refusal with jai time threatened if I wouldn't comply with the phony order. And guess what. Nothing happened. Nothing. It empty threats and is turning men from women and our children. They cannot stand a strong, uncompromising, incorruptible male father role model. I wonder what my daughter will think of all this not just family courts but how she's been alienated from me her loving father and being exposed to this disgusting agenda.

[@sg2412]

That teacher part legit hit me hard. I was just talking to my mom about my middle school days. My female class teacher at the time used to make me sit with 'intelligent' students and told me it would help me since "they knew more than I did.". I legit carried the belief that this would always be true, that I would never be as good as those students.3 years later my maths teacher came along, and I started to attend his extra classes since I was a weak student. He told the class on my first day there," Beware of him! He has the potential to be the best here.". Those words of encouragement were boon to me. I realised how I was undervaluing myself. I studied hard, he encouraged me. Later on in high school (probably the best years of my life NGL), I carried it on with the same belief, that I was enough to get myself anywhere. Not to brag, but I became the vice-captain of my team, broke the districts record for marks in physics and chemistry. I would like to thank you, Mr. Arora, I wouldn't be in my dream college if you hadn't encouraged me.❤️

[@drscavv2661]

Dammit this is too wholesome

[@The_amazing_dust]

That's awesome! Good for you man! 👍

[@longstrider2734]

Good for you.

[@Deejaay83urj38]

Fantastic

[@dorothyhill5056]

One of the most significant experiences in my sons education was a male teacher in the second grade. He taught my son so much beyond reading etc, including discipline with respect and kindness, expectations and other masculine traits. I am forever grateful for this teacher as is my son who is today a teacher.

[@sillisalli8207]

There’s toxic masculinity and there’s also toxic femininity, doesn’t mean all masculinity and all femininity is toxic though.

[@dyingwaffle95]

What would you define as toxic femininity?

[@sillisalli8207]

@@dyingwaffle95 radical feminism for example

[@Vortex20000]

@@dyingwaffle95 Amber Heard...

[@iconikevans327]

@Akshay 004 or simply just individuals carrying out shitty actions

[@christopherblondell4340]

@Akshay 004 I agree. No part of femininity or masculinity is toxic. They are at the least, neutral or benign and at the most, essential.

[@joshualowe618]

Strong men aren't being destroyed, they're just walking away. There will come a time when society will wonder, "Where have all the good men gone?", and nothing but silence will meet them.

[@dannym3613]

I feel that time might be coming soon, or has probably started. My older friends and family, who are single, are asking that very question when relationships come up. I just smile and say maybe they will show up some day.

[@wastelandlegocheem]

It's already jappening. But instead of silence, we meet those people with not a response, but quoting the same people basically scaring away said good men.

[@ilincagagafan]

@Sesshomaru Uzumaki this is the only rational comment in this entire comment section

[@kube410]

@Sesshomaru Uzumaki True. Think about landsknechts :P

[@justabraziliandragonborn3642]

"And were are all the gods..."

[@anthonygonzales207]

"Do you want to go throw rocks at Construction Workers while they lift heavy things? We're fighting the Patriarchy today." I was weak. 😂😂😂😂

[@colinklang]

Also pink hair Sydney: we need to do something about the housing and infrastructure. Fight for $15

[@acedelta12]

"CAN'T YOU TWO SEE I AM MOURNING?!"

[@amandasamson4513]

I Love my husband because he makes me feel safe, he is my protector and my best friend. I love being the housekeeper and looking after the children, I love that he want to take care of us and be the provider. we each have our roles within our household and it suites us so well

[@Antonio_Todd]

It's refreshing as hell to hear young modern women talking about this.

[@sillisalli8207]

@Beetlejuice who hurt you?

[@darrinmcgann]

Indeed

[@uheavy_ideas5142]

@Beetlejuice But she puts effort in her videos and proper research tho. Your thinking and accusation is unjustified and biased based off your personal experiences. If she was a female chameleon she would put in no research and effort into her videos.

[@mnomadvfx]

@Beetlejuice "Don’t fall for it blue pill. She’s a chameleon. They’re adapting to their environment" It's pointless anyway. Why the hell do we need social media commentators womensplaining about how men should dress and the implications of it? It's fucking mindlessly disingenuous at best. Women have such an excess in choice for clothing shopping that they literally become racked with indecision from it when they lack the capital to spend on what they like, I've witnessed this on many occasions and it is alternately both hilarious and horrifying. It's their excessive fashion privilege in stores that effectively denies us any real choice in shopping for clothing. Go into any department store and check out the clothing sections. You will immediately notice that mens fashion takes up less than a single floor - often less than half a floor. Meanwhile womens fashion takes up usually 2, sometimes even 3 floors. So to be painfully honest I don't give a flying fuck for any over privileged womans opinion of male dress code - when men have an equal share in choice again they can be judgemental till their hearts content. As it is it sounds a lot like salty fear that fashion designers might actually start pandering to men for real for the first time in 2-3 centuries since mens fashion started down the road towards the ultra conservatism it exists in now. For those girls thinking it's odd for men to wear a dress, how about a skirt? How about school girls being able to wear a skirt for their uniform in the summer in place of trousers/pants? Meanwhile us poor boys in school have no choice but to cook in our trousers all day long. Mens fashion has become so conservative that it is literally stifling - while I grant you that switching to dresses and heels is ridiculous, something does need to be done on several levels to correct the imbalance.

[@TheAnalyticalObservers]

@Beetlejuice I'm with you on this one brother, Ive done a little research (when I spelled research it started to auto spell red pill lol) on this lady, and I've gotta say, her making these videos is quite odd. She definitely has some agenda. Our enemies will often use spies, in order to flush us out.

[@zerosin4100]

In my school days all my teachers where female and they'd ignore all male students struggling but rushed to help a girl

[@sillygostly]

Zero Sin : I went to a partially sex-segregated private school, and the girls had the best building/facilities/opportunities. Meanwhile, us guys were confined to shitty demountables and were treated like a pack of oafs that will never amount to anything. I was a one-man anti-sexism campaign for a time, but I had no support.

[@Englishsea24]

Probably because they have no clue how boys learn, which is totally different to girls

[@ameilioracryptos5298]

@@Englishsea24 they don't have good attention span and prefer hands on learning but all they get is long pages and pages of theories to memorize

[@tyrellthiel2201]

Every school counselor I ever had to deal with.

[@Endoptic]

Research says the same. The only boys good enough are hyperfeminine who are more likely to be teacher's pet for overcoming the evil of their unfortunate masculinity. The rest of us are just defective females. www.bbc.com/news/education-31751672 www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0272775718307714

[@seminolekilla]

Sexually assaulted men in prison feel they were made “to feel like a woman” - women most affected.

[@Skeleton-bs7zy]

It because when there degraded the say they feel like women, hence the feel women are beneath them, also have to do with fem doesn’t mean it effects women the most giving them better ideas of gender roles would make dealing with that stuff easier Also which side is tying to solve prison problems, is the right trying for prison reforms or help men talk about abuse?

[@KipdoesStuff]

@@Skeleton-bs7zy The left isn't trying to solve anything except happiness. No one deserves to be happy in their view.

[@Skeleton-bs7zy]

@@KipdoesStuff pal where are you getting that

[@Skeleton-bs7zy]

@@KipdoesStuff there are large movements for prison reform

[@JackHaveman52]

@@Skeleton-bs7zy It's because making them feel like a woman is making them feel like someone that's not them. They're men. They want to be men, not because they feel better than women but because being who they are makes them feel better about themselves. Try to change who they are and they feel alienated from themselves. That's what they're talking about. It would be like forcing you to become a Christian or Muslim or atheist if that's not who you are. The pressure will cause a great deal of stress and unhappiness.

[@himurahaibara1459]

As much as i love Harry Styles voice i don't believe he wears gown or any other woman clothing because he's comfortable in it. I believe it's a brand he built consistently to create a specific unforgetable image to target specific demographic. And it works.

[@al-imranadore1182]

He's like Nikokado Avocado.

[@Moayad56]

"I just want you to cut me down a tree and build me a house" -Sydney watson

[@thagiraffe2010]

If you actually did this, most girls would just complain about the house you built.

[@skytronixgaming8724]

As if 1 tree could build a house

[@CapnTytePantz]

On it, ma'am. You want a two or three bedroom house? Also, there will probably be some leftover lumber, after we're done clearing this plot. You want a shed and a wraparound porch to go with? Sorry, someone like Sydney asks me to build her a house, I do it. 😅

[@RedRoseSeptember22]

@@CapnTytePantz A real man right here ;)

[@RedRoseSeptember22]

@@skytronixgaming8724 As if you understand sarcasm.

[@xcyted4now]

Oh I've seen feminist say something along the lines of " time to see if I'm having a girl or an abortion!" It sickening!

[@alkebabish]

I'm a man who has quite a lot of feminine qualities. Like I'm drawn towards caring jobs that are mostly done by women, I'm better at talking about emotions than putting up a shelf and so on. And I enjoy being this way. But in recent years I've noticed that any time I express masculine qualities, I get shot down and accused of being egotistical. I've also dated a few women who hated masculinity, yet were attracted by it, so basically the relationships were confusing AF. I've noticed that the more manly of my male friends are having a hard time, made to feel bad about themselves for being who they are. I'm cool with people not being super constricted by their gender roles... but society has already made this possible. What's happening now with the demonisation of masculinity is to me part of a wider pattern of human disempowerment, basically it makes us easier to control.

[@fum4491]

I think that most people forgot what masculinity actually means. It's not agressive Rambo-like violent, or Han Solo opressive flirt - charisma. It's being compassionete, thoughtful, brave (being brave means winning the fight with your fears). Being masculine is also something to be proud of, just like women should be proud of their unique traits (not acting like ,,toxic masculinity" they have commonly issues with, to prove they are ,,not weak"...). That said, man needs to be a bit like a women (for example - caring), and women a bit like man (for example - brave). I don't know it that makes any sense, but I am sure that it's great to have femine qualities, as long as they are positive traits (it's hard to deny, that both of us are born with flaws). We are born men and women, to learn from each other and live in peace, not compete...

[@greasysquid1857]

Human disempowerment.. that's the perfect way to describe this era.

[@MDBowron]

sexism is unfortunately a two-way street, men can be sexist towards women, and women sexist towards men, along with other gender varieties. I also have some feminine traits, like empathy and intellectual strength. The thing is man and woman aren't genders, they're sexes, biologically speaking. genders such as masculine and feminine are cultural, but there are many different cultures. I was wondering if feminism was more of a western trait, as the west seems to focus more on individuality and autonomy, while the east tends more towards communalism and submission to some degree, in a very generalised way of course.

[@MDBowron]

@Charlton Jones yeah I wouldn't recommend doing the bugs bunny technique of kissing other guys like elmer fudd and so on to distract them and get away from being bullied, you tend to more get marked as gay and bullied for now entirely a different reason. I had to learn that lesson at 10 or 11 years of age the hard way.

[@lionelthawne7723]

Not to mention weaker as a whole

[@Creepy_Cuckooclock]

I am late responding to this, but I am so sick (as a woman) of society pushing the message that I need to be more assertive and man-like. I quite like domestic life, and am soon wanting to start a family. I am young, and in the peak time of my life to bring children into the world. Also, it is so toxic to make fun of women who are more "traditional," too. The women who love make-up, high heels, and everything. I only like some jewelry, and light make-up, but still. Women need to stop defining that being a woman in this modern day means having to act more manly. On another note, as a child of a single mother, my mom did the best she could raising me. But, I wish I had had a father; according to studies, children need fathers. Children growing up without them have a higher rate of depression, and mental disorders. Yes, I realize that in the modern day, it is important to have both parents working (especially with the economy the way it is). But, I am fine with living being a stay-at-home mom, because my job would be to raise my beloved children to become good, and responsible members of society. That is a very important duty.

[@johnrborges2363]

As a mature man, I send you a loving strong manly hug, with lots of love and concern. I will pray you meet a man to love you and your child to make you happy as you deserve and desire. Don't lose hope! Peace in Christ. JB 🧑🏻

[@BansheeKing22]

I was raised by a single mother, im fine. If I have issues then oh well I dont care.

[@dae6831]

As a woman, i send you a strong manly hug

[@veroniquecastel9582]

What studies? Please provide links.

[@renesanchez270]

What was the point of you speaking?​ @@BansheeKing22

[@majesty9985]

I kinda feel like there's a war on gender as a whole, the whole "fluidity" and "toxic masculinity" and "women can be like men" too is quite worrying. Lines are no longer there and no one understands the importance of feminine and masculine energy, the balance is incredibly important AND beautiful !

[@silashurd3597]

I know who I am, I’m a male and always will be. I don’t need a society to tell me what I am, because I already know

[@SundayMourningLove]

Yes!!! The beauty of our differences is being not only ignored, but outright demonized today! It is so sad to see where everything is headed...

[@breakmanradio2530]

Yin and yang in the East. Order and Chaos in the West. Both represent, in part, the balance between the masculine and the feminine. Look at the little black dot in the white and the tiny white dot in the black. Every man has a feminine side and every woman has a masculine side. That complex aspect of the masculine-feminine balance has been corrupted by the minds of people without critical thinking skills. Ideological possession rejects the use of logic and evidence to come to conclusions. You think what you're told to think. Feel how you're told to feel. The ideas have you, you don't have ideas.

[@toomanysandwiches8665]

because gender is "fluid". men can have feminine interests and women can have masculine interests. yes there should be a balance, but every individual is unique and different. telling some one they have to behave in a certain way to fit in, is very wrong and dangerous. let people express their true selves, without harming or hurting others. if a man wants to wear a dress or put on make up whats the big deal. just because he's doing it doesn't mean everyones going to start copying him. that's the beauty of individual freedom. people can be themselves.

[@comrade3720]

Noone cares

[@gopipo123]

On single-parent households: yeah well, of course. By blurring gender roles, you start pitting men and women against each other in every aspect of life, instead of forming powerful couples that cooperate and complete each other. Do not let your role be defined by screaming turd-wave feminists, no matter your gender.

[@thetileguy1492]

I refuse to apologize for being a real man, and you know I am proud of it.

[@lyletanner744]

As a veteran and a retired LEO I'm with you buddy.

[@brown2833]

As a newly recruited soldier I will never apologize for being a manly man

[@ngonyamastudios2542]

Amen,Amen,Amen That's the best thing I've heard .

[@ngonyamastudios2542]

Amen,Amen,Amen That's the best thing I've heard .

[@oksbpodcast7005]

That’s why I chose a male only MOS, with the exception of a few female officers.

[@hannacamacho]

My husband fixed the washing machine and the pipes not because he was too proud to call a professional but because he wanted to prove himself he can take care of our family. And that is why I love him so much!! When he fixed everything I never felt more attracted to him. Masculine men are sexy. Period.

[@johnrborges2363]

You are so blessed. I do the same in our home. Peace. 🧑🏻

[@BansheeKing22]

Thats weird.

[@susmitabasu1549]

Its not exactly too masculine definitely not feminine but mixed.

[@ScienceDiscoverer]

You need brains, not muscles to fix the machine/pipes. Brains are not related to masculinity.

[@umbrasyl]

What are you gonna do when your husband leaves you when you can't even fix your own washing machine 😂😂😂

[@ShivSai123456]

Fully agree about the male teacher thing ,the best teachers I have had at school were all men.

[@ilarious5729]

Mine were women 🤷‍♂️

[@Lucifer-do7mf]

true. my female teachers where horrible most at the time and didnt even aknowledge boys with problems exept for that one student who was best in all subjects.....

[@AvengingAngel2035]

It mostly depends on experiences.

[@specialopsdave]

My favorite teacher was a woman (AP Chemistry) but the next 4 on ny list of favorites were all men...

[@SHAZZZZZA]

Same

[@StepIntoGodsLight]

I want a masculine man so that I can be feminine and protected. I also want a masculine man, with an ax, walking towards a forest, to build me a cabin, so that I can decorate it and turn it into a home.

[@alaster1403]

Woow Actually that's a pretty cool thought

[@stephenc2481]

You should marry men who stick around, protecting you.

[@RTRTM_]

cool

[@diesertan4181]

I Love this comment cause it's littarly the ultimate Win Win for both sides

[@goldstein10493]

Well, for me, I just wish I can be more masculine, or know how to. All I know is that masculinity is largely genetic and physical.

[@Lordbaccus]

Aristotle said: When your Men & Women are interchangeable, your society is in Decay...

[@peterstrom9618]

From the Gospel of Thomas, found in Nag Hammadi Egypt, one of the gnostic gospels that describes the secret sayings of Jesus. Jesus said to them, “...and when you make male and female into a single one, so that the male will not be male nor the female be female...then you will enter [the kingdom]." Just as a counter argument. From: gnosis.org/naghamm/gosthom.html

[@theredheadwiththread1275]

@@peterstrom9618 I mean, if what you've said is true then you're actually agreeing because it sounds as if Jesus was saying "when men and women become the same the rapture is nigh".

[@joemaxwell7892]

Blessing's; Alert.! For those with eye's too see. "Here is wisdom"! KJV Bible Strong's Concordance ... C- Ovid 19 > C = 3 = Abaddon (satan) Rev 9:11 ... Ovid ... From old Roman Latin = Sheep ... 19 = Slaughter. "Hence, satan, Sheep, Slaughter''! A rtifical Intellegence = A.I. = 19 = Slaughter. The 5G network. 5 G = 57 = Sorrow's Matt 24:8. The Fee Mason G = 7= perish, destruction. Exactly what's going too happen too this world, Our King Christ Lord Jesus Immanu- EL; us coming for His; people. Repent brother's, and sister's. Keep the Ten Commandment's, Especially the Fourth (Remember The Sabbath Day Keep It Holy).. Check out ... www.JonathanKleck.com It's worth a 'Crown'! 2020 = " Deliverance "! Time is short. ''We are going home'' Amen.

[@GeneralProfessor]

@@peterstrom9618 From that link Jesus apparently also said: -"Those who have found themselves, of them the world is not worthy" - "If you do not fast from the world, you will not find the (Father's) kingdom." - "If your leaders say to you, 'Look, the (Father's) kingdom is in the sky,' then the birds of the sky will precede you. If they say to you, 'It is in the sea,' then the fish will precede you. Rather, the (Father's) kingdom is within you and it is outside you. When you know yourselves, then you will be known, and you will understand that you are children of the living Father. But if you do not know yourselves, then you live in poverty, and you are the poverty." And he continually describes the kingdom as something small or hidden or something that needs to be discovered: - "The Father's kingdom is like a merchant who had a supply of merchandise and found a pearl. That merchant was prudent; he sold the merchandise and bought the single pearl for himself. So also with you, seek his treasure that is unfailing, that is enduring, where no moth comes to eat and no worm destroys." - "The Father's kingdom is like [a] woman. She took a little leaven, [hid] it in dough, and made it into large loaves of bread. Anyone here with two ears had better listen!" - "The (Father's) kingdom is like a shepherd who had a hundred sheep. One of them, the largest, went astray. He left the ninety-nine and looked for the one until he found it. After he had toiled, he said to the sheep, 'I love you more than the ninety-nine.'" - "The (Father's) kingdom is like a person who had a treasure hidden in his field but did not know it. And [when] he died he left it to his [son]. The son [did] not know about it either. He took over the field and sold it. The buyer went plowing, [discovered] the treasure, and began to lend money at interest to whomever he wished." - "The person is like a wise fisherman who cast his net into the sea and drew it up from the sea full of little fish. Among them the wise fisherman discovered a fine large fish. He threw all the little fish back into the sea, and easily chose the large fish. Anyone here with two good ears had better listen!" So maybe the kingdom is within us. Deep in the subconscious. It is small and difficult to find but is so valuable that it may as well be the meaning and purpose of life itself. Carl Jung talks about this in his book Aion, and if he is to be believed before one can even attempt to reach the kingdom, or the tiny white fish symbolizing both it and Jesus throughout time, one first has to integrate their shadow. Confront your dark side and bring it under control. Then one has to do the same with their anima / animus. That is where your quote comes into play. To integrate your anima / animus is to incorporate your sexually opposite subconscious element into your being, bring under control it's negative aspects and allow the positive ones to thrive. For a man, for example, that would mean to allow some of your positive feminine qualities, like nurturing or emotional intuition, freedom to function in harmony with the rest of your being. By the way I think the idea of complete replacement of your primary category with the secondary one (for example the common leftist insistence that everyone should completely adopt their opposite sexual element and discard the primary) is misguided and is based on incorrect literal interpretation, as is their insistence on androgyny (assuming they are motivated by what I'm describing here). Once this second step is complete then one can attempt to find the divine spark within them and try to use what is best described as a sort of magnetic force to draw said spark out of hiding and into consciousness.

[@angelacox96]

Smart guy 😂😂

[@susanfisher2581]

Masculinity is not toxic. I have strong supportive and masculine men in my life. These are men who support me, their family and take the role of being a protector seriously.

[@Evija3000]

Well for the most part toxic masculinity isn't meant to be any masculinity, but a specific corrupted type of it. Like when some men are needlessly aggressive or putting down women. Although there are some idiots who will equate the two.

[@xjosephwilliamx9076]

If a bloke wants to wear a dress or make-up, more power to them. When they start bugging other people to do it, then we have an issue.

[@analigiabatres9114]

Well said

[@fleurbee8360]

you have to be an australian for a 'bloke' to wear a dress and make-up.. he he....

[@vibreitor43]

omg yes, like you do you, but make others do you too.

[@saulelcrack8177]

Thisss

[@xjosephwilliamx9076]

@@fleurbee8360 or brit ;)

[@richardaaron4454]

This is what made Jordan Peterson so popular. Men who have grown up without a father, I believe see Jordan Peterson as a father figure. Which they needed desperately.

[@sg2412]

Hi fellow lobster 🦞

[@VFFP54]

well, it depends on what you mean by "a father".

[@richardaaron4454]

@SkillsDND You think Jordan Peterson would be a bad dad?

[@richardaaron4454]

@@VFFP54 Well I was lucky to have my grandfather who was a Marine in WWII at Guadalcanal who filled in for my absentee father who I never met and I’ve only seen a black & white picture of... my grandfather did everything he could that a father would do to raise a good man. I can’t imagine what my life would’ve been like if he wasn’t around in my formative years.

[@richardaaron4454]

@SkillsDND Well hopefully we can just agree to disagree

[@GeorgeWMays]

"Manly Men" will not argue with anyone about this nonsense. They'll likely smile, wag their head and walk away.

[@Human_2.0]

When we snap it will be ugly!

[@tommymacander32]

Amen. Who gives a crap?

[@bettermanchannel770]

Truth needs no defense

[@Human_2.0]

@@deepakpatnaik8457 I don't do "stiff upper lip" I don't even count to three. That ship sailed years ago!

[@RetroMannGaming]

I really agree with the education part. At 16 I was a bit "out of control", more like not being myself and was very lazy. If it wasn't for a very good male teacher of mine (maths teacher), I don't know if my life would have been the same. He told me he was proud of my previous academic achievements, but had fallen extremely behind lately. He then asked me if everything was alright and if I needed help (he also "challenged" to do better the next semester and he would give me a better overall grade). As a "man", I did not really give him much feedback, but his desire to help and just him approaching me was a very important milestone in my life. I had countless female teachers, but none of them took their time with me. tldr: a man needs male (and masculine) role models.

[@Evija3000]

There are good female teachers that care about boys. My uncle was about to be sent to a correctional facility, but his teacher visited his parents and talked them out of it and the young thief and problem child became a pastor later on thanks to her standing up for him and defending his future. But overall I agree, would be great if there were more male teachers, we need a better balance.

[@poetofending]

As a man going through divorce and almost being a statistic, I appreciate you standing up for men and our plights. Manly men aren’t gone. It’s just harder to find because it has to be hidden.

[@alicerose2683]

Im so sorry you guys have to feel that way. You never should feel this way and it needs to be stopped. Never stop being the men you want to be! Stand strong! And we will stand by your side!

[@alicerose2683]

@Nunya Biznuzz Im sorry for the pain she put you through. Just know we are not all like her. Sadly there are to many out there that treat men this way, to make them think the way you feel. We are out there. I have never left my mans side till he left mine. I understand what you are feeling in ways, but it will never stop me from knowing there are great men out there, i just have to sift through the swamp sludge to find one who truly is there for me no matter what.

[@alicerose2683]

@MrPitjoey But as men attack us that don't matter? Both men and woman go through similar pains. I have been very mistreated by men in my life. But i know not all are like that. And men should never feel sorry for who they are, as well as woman. Look for the better not the worse. Even if it feels like there is no better. If anything i feel sorry for human kind because we are both mistreated, but we are mistreated by certain people not by all people. There are billions of people in the world... we cant all be the same right? Always treat others how you want to be treated. And always be yourself, not the self that has been beat down by others. Those people want to mold you into who they want you to be.

[@fuzzman5371]

@@alicerose2683 I like you, you smart.

[@alicerose2683]

​@@fuzzman5371 Thank you so much, you are very kind. i like you to! =^ o ^=

[@flyingpaladin2712]

I am a toxic male. Former military, protector of those weaker than myself, provider for my wife and children, and Peacekeeper Capable of violence in a protection of God family and country.

[@KaiisEgo]

“Dang man your pretty evil!” How they expect people like us to respond to that PROPAGANDA

[@_.BlackArmor._]

Respect, sir.

[@jay21597]

I'm surprised they haven't started throwing rocks yet

[@no-stresscat1519]

Thank you for your never ending service.

[@lyletanner744]

As a veteran and a retired LEO I'm behind you on this one my friend.

[@themodernmusketeer877]

What’s wrong with men and women being different. We can be different but still equal

[@ChaoticButterfly]

Currently? In Western culture? Mostly the fact that femininity (being a woman) is seen as lesser. People, individually, might say they don't see it as lesser, however, using feminine traits/terms/etc. as insults, or as means of describing how you feel... "feminized" vs. "emasculated," even though, even in the definition of emasculate it associated femininity with cowardice ("make effeminate and cowardly"). Feminine traits are bad. Masculine traits are good. This is society's message. Predominantly feminine jobs aren't valued as much. Computer programming used to be female-dominated. The position got paid more when men took over the position, mostly. Hell, female work isn't valued as much. As more women become Biologists, the pay drops... same happened with Designers. I'm hardly a raging feminist. I look at facts, though, and facts are unfortunate, in many cases... for both sides. I'd like to think we can be different but equal, but we can see how that went in the Jim Crow South... it takes both sides being equally _valued,_ equally elevated. But, as long as there are "chick flicks," "chick lit," etc... I don't think equality is in the cards... unless we are gonna start calling some books "dick lit," or something... where the woman is not "the other."

[@stephenpenniket9976]

Is that the equal where some are more equal than others?

[@Scott90314]

@@ChaoticButterfly I think be feminine in some cases is bad and conversely masculine can be bad also it is the context that is important. I don't mean to be that guy, but biology has shaped us in ways that in the current year we still do not fully comprehend. I think it is silly to compare men and women as it is more of a apples to oranges comparison we are similar in some ways, but are different on more than just a skin deep level. The way we think, act, and carry ourselves is shaped some by our upbringing and environment for sure, but also by virtue of our sex in others. The jim crowe comparison is a bad comparison on a few levels, as those laws where made to sabotage and subvert the budding black middle class in the 50s, and secondly their is very little difference between a average black man and another average man. Where as the average man and woman compared the difference can be quite jarring in most cases. Shit the fact that there is no shortage of chick flicks or generic superhero/action flicks and people still gravitate to them is not that we are not equal by virtue of we are not the same, and to compare the two needlessly is just a attempt by some to push an agenda or be decisive for it's sale just my two cents anyway.

[@bryanfeliciano4102]

@@ChaoticButterfly "the wage gap" is more than just a gender thing (experience,education,negotiation as far as raises go,hours worked, wether or not you take maternity leave,etc.)

[@ChaoticButterfly]

@@bryanfeliciano4102 I am well aware, it's still pretty damning.

[@starrymoonlight]

Even if there was only one gender, one sexuality, one religion, one country and one race, humans would find other excuses to be at war w each other.

[@paolatropical]

There's nothing sexier for me seeing my husband fixing his bike and buying new pieces in eBay. I love my masculine man a lot.

[@benlotus2703]

MGTOW

[@bobbydyne]

@@benlotus2703 Are a bunch boys that cry victim

[@benlotus2703]

@@bobbydyne Sometimes The media tells women that they are a ''star'' while the government pays them royalties (with Mens/Husbands monies)

[@benlotus2703]

@@bobbydyne Bobby, you will cry during your divorce :)

[@bobbydyne]

@@benlotus2703 I agree that women have many advantages in today’s culture but to ignore them, wholesale, because of fear is cowardice.

[@moosechuckle]

“Masculinity is a sickness” Don’t worry I’m wearing a mask... hope my beard doesn’t get in the way.

[@michaelt.b264]

Never had a problem with performers rock stars wearing dresses David Bowie Freddie Mercury probably my most favorite performers. Straight white male

[@Primal_Robin]

When you have a full mountain man beard it sucks to wear a mask

[@moosechuckle]

@@Primal_Robin my beard is my mask.

[@rikijenkins6729]

That's sound manly. Manly is bad. Whimpy is good. Ha ha ha

[@statesrights01]

Epic!!

[@fenrirtheicewolf2019]

"Hard times create strong men. Strong men create good times. Good times create weak men. And, weak men create hard times." - G. Michael Hopf

[@ange1098]

Correct. One of the reasons why the west is now becoming communism and all that entails.

[@lordofthepizzapie9319]

And of course women have nothing to do with the situation at all, right? Just disregard the agency of roughly half the worlds population and instead put everything on men. Because as we all know burdening men with having to fix everything while not even asking if women can do anything to help worked wonders for us up till now.

[@elainewalter8685]

Certainly true and i hope that when i have my own boys that they will grow up to be strong men

[@loki76]

@@lordofthepizzapie9319 You are literally one of these "weak men" and sound like a male feminist and the very reason this video was made.. Now go put on that dress and kiss some women's feet. You clearly don't understand the quote he made.. Men built this world. Women are tearing it apart.

[@lordofthepizzapie9319]

@@loki76 So continuing to disregard women's agency and impact on the world are we? It's hilarious you're saying _I'm_ just like feminists when one of the consistent behaviors of feminists is the complete refusal to view women as agents, what do you think patriarchy theory is? It's an assertion that only men have an effect on the world and women just exist in a void where they can only be acted upon. Equally it's hilarious that instead of trying to argue against my point you're attempting to shame me for not fitting your (rather small) mold of what masculinity is. That's what female feminists and women in general do to men who aren't doing what they want. For the record it's generally not women tearing things down, it's men desperate for approval doing it at the behest of women. So maybe if enough women stopped demanding everything be torn down and instead convinced men that they have value men would stop, how about that?

[@davidstevens4392]

As long as there women like you there will always be "real men" around. Thanks for doing what you do

[@AoiKaze2000]

... I wonder what Sydney would do if some guy showed up at her door, sweaty with axe in hand and said "so I built you a house"...

[@rogueboner8138]

Them jeans.. be creamy.. guaranteed

[@mode4801]

Him... That's what she'll do...

[@sbyrstall]

Now that's a silly question. She'd drop whatever she was doing.

[@mrpickles2573]

Whatever she pleases as its her call lol

[@mallardofmodernia8092]

Im a guy and im not into that but fuck id go for it, seems like he would be a decent dude better than most people nowadays

[@l1nk987]

To be honest, can't we just promote good values and morals in humans rather than label everything in a negative view? To me that's true equality

[@tyrellthiel2201]

There is no place for well grounded sense lime that.

[@yoink128ify]

Humans naturally notice negatives more than positives. They are more of an existential threat than positives...

[@greg_austin]

Romance languages, such as Spanish, assign gender to every noun. English, however, is considered a neuter language, whereby our only vestige of gender representation is in our pronouns, which are themselves under attack.

[@nthgth]

@@greg_austin to be fair, it's kind of absurd to assign gender to inanimate objects

[@greg_austin]

@@nthgth To be equally fair, all of love is absurd. Nothing objective about a force that slaps two carcasses together so that nine months later a baby comes out of only one gender, a gender that is clearly insane. But the entire survival of the species depends on this absurdity alone. Hence, a "romance language."

[@captainconundrum8463]

"She doesn't like that ugly table that ya bought in 2009" Excuse me, it was 2008 and actually my roommate found it lying on the side of the road.

[@drgunnwilliams5185]

The Curb Store! You can always find great things. Put some pretty nice antiques in my home from there!

[@captainconundrum8463]

@@drgunnwilliams5185 This table is real sturdy! You won't find any IKEA junk that can hold a TV for this long without breaking. And yes, the table from the side of the road is right there in the focal point of the living room. I just like money.

[@J8n3eyr3]

@@captainconundrum8463 Slap some white paint on it and call it "rescued" or "distressed." Now you are the hero of the story.

[@rembrandt972ify]

You should have kept that roommate you had in 2008. She was sexy.

[@allyourpie4323]

Was it a spool?

[@08krishni67]

Thank you Sydney, as a white heterosexual male I have been dodging bullets for decades, and your words help to deflect them.

[@Mykool-1]

Thanks Sydney well spotted and presented. The unfortunate result is that men are walking away from women.

[@michaelsmith1481]

This surf shark is the best lmao “I think he’s stalking someone else”

[@tammylaronde8593]

😂😂. That was so funny.

[@ThinWhiteAxe]

It was fabulous 😁

[@superchicken6b610]

Lol, I think she has a secret little crush on a certain person. This is how my daughter talks about someone she hasn't told me about yet😁

[@Neal7891]

I got a chuckle out of it.

[@MarcoMazziniYT]

A man wearing a dress is not a problem. A man wearing a dress and bragging about it is.

[@uhmnope4787]

I am in full agreement with you!

[@TheAvos18]

Only a kilt is acceptable with strong calves and a beard

[@nigsbalchin226]

A kilt is neither a dress nor a skirt, and a real man has no need or desire to brag about wearing a kilt; for bragging comes from insecurity.

[@jasonlee8497]

Oh....they're both problems

[@scottjackson1636]

@@TheAvos18 more places to hide knives :)

[@b-side3682]

_"Take away the men from the house, just like you take away God from humanity. And watch them collapse."_

[@petrusstreamrock5315]

Where did that quote originated from? Info please?

[@smartgoku9048]

@Xelbayria i don't think that is the work of a god. after all nature can be destructive all on its own. it's just humans are the ones who keep building and living in danger zones.

[@andhbhakt4369]

@@smartgoku9048 it's because china loves to play with Nature. Remember they had distinct "sparrows" and end up decade long food and economic crisis.

[@smartgoku9048]

@@andhbhakt4369 don't know anything about that but don't we all like playing with nature

[@bettermanchannel770]

A culture without men is doomed

[@TwistyTrav]

In my experience as a man, the single most defining aspect of masculinity is the ability to say "no" when necessary. Having an openly strong opinion with principles that you always consistently stick to is the epitome of manliness. It's the building block of a safe, strong foundation that family grows upon. Its the primary factor that acts as a mechanism of protection and trust because of the expectations of the role model father figure.

[@TwistyTrav]

@@HeckenschutzeMoHTrue, but you can't really be competitive if you don't stick to your principles and form a strong opinion. This is what makes masculinity at odds with femininity because it promotes compassion instead.

[@kristislow4484]

"We're a generation of men, raised by women" - Tyler Durden

[@hugomaritz692]

is another woman really the answer we need?..

[@mminibabylizard]

we always have been raised by women aka our mothers, our fathers were off either, hunting, building, at war, or working XD

[@ihatestupid.people4611]

I was raised by my father and mother for 10 years till my mom moved away from him

[@mminibabylizard]

@zoomzoom491I agree they did, im just talking about the majority of the time our mothers were around..because they simply had the time to so. I dont think now were bing raised by only women, now our father have more time for actuality raise their kids...MORE than ever, some are even taking fathernaty leave and let their partner work if they so choose to because they find family more important than a job. So i dont think its true that "We're a generation of men, raised by women"

[@jamespaton3853]

Ask young men involved in gang activities how many of them were raised by single Mothers. The absence of a Father or other male role model in a boy's life can mean he will search for one. The gang leader and the protection the gang brings will go some way to provide this.

[@MFMP007]

The real toxicity comes from the media.

[@joeyyy4864]

I am a man and proud

[@ahsidodna3355]

The fact that we need statements like this is pretty sad

[@mirali4467]

It’s fine to be a man.. you just can’t be straight... or white.

[@ahsidodna3355]

@@mirali4467 lol

[@joeyyy4864]

@@ahsidodna3355 yeah a statement like this used to be for the exceptions not the normal male population.

[@joeyyy4864]

@@mirali4467 😂

[@freakazooidd]

You successfully put my thoughts into words. I'm sick of seeing this awful behavior from these delusional women. Thanks for making this.

[@Mykool-1]

I think we've all been brainwashed by the media to divide us, men and women. It is political control through fear and division. The value of the Sheconomy should not be underestimated either.

[@TheSarinaide]

I see that Sydney has now joined the hitlist of contemporary intellectuals hated by the left. Well done Sydney, keep up the good fight.

[@worsethanjoerogan8061]

That's an important milestone for any commentator

[@richardcaldwell6159]

LOLOL. Sydney is intellectual?!

[@TheSarinaide]

@@richardcaldwell6159 more so than someone whom lolol's

[@richardcaldwell6159]

I don't hate Sydney at all. Instead, I'm saddened that GOPpers have such a shallow creed. When I consider a topic I dive deep. I generally learn something when I watch an intellectual's stuff. Not so with her. Sydney didn't make a single point that was more substantial that a coat of cheap paint. I get the impression that she's a decent person, but for whatever reason she doesn't dive into a subject. I suppose some folks like to float comfortably instead. Intellectuals don't float. We constantly seek refutation of our current conclusions. Now, I've only watched one of her videos (along with a bit of this one), so I can't place high confidence in my conclusion, but the odds of my learning anything new from her are low enough that I doubt I'll watch another

[@bwconn1317]

Typical lib type projecting, nothing new here, gop’s are not the notorious ones who are shallow btw scurry away now

[@kasia1995sz]

I wrote my Criminological Dissertation about this issue.... A Hardcore feminist checked it and surprise surprise failed it.... so yeah ..

[@larry5272]

Sorry about that fail. But doesn't sound like too bad of a read if what I say means anything to u.

[@kasia1995sz]

@@larry5272 Thank you! I will be posting it on the academic site soon for everybody to read :)

[@nthgth]

Don't be discouraged by assholes! Not that you need to be reminded

[@UnprofessionalProfessor]

>Criminological dissertation "I think I'll fail a student who, if I'm not a shit teacher in the field of criminology, potentially knows how to perfect crime my ass into oblivion! What could possibly go wrong?"-Presumed Dead Feminist Teacher, maybe

[@jewelsvermin8866]

Im just commenting so i get update when its posted so i can read it

[@deanr2853]

Woman 1: My boyfriend is too emotional. I want a manly man Woman 2: I want a man to be in touch with his feminine side. All Men: Confused 😕

[@M44Pumpkin]

They want the feelings when it's about them. And being a trans dude who doesn't pass I've basically had the female life experience. The best option is to find women who look beyond gender and value you as a person but if also loves her own femininity if you're into that. Otherwise they actually want the protection and biological chemistry but pass that as this fantasy of oh if only he would open up...only to me...about things I want to hear 😑. It s not done out of ill will tho, most girls just don't even realize the standard.

[@alexa-fx2fb]

Never wanted anything but the first one

[@jamescoakley4319]

There’s a very simple answer to this. 3 steps: 1) find out what makes you comfortable being alone, but not lonely 2) be yourself, and don’t focus on trying to attract someone. Being confident in yourself, is the most attractive thing you can be 3) don’t change yourself for anyone but you. Be you. 24/7/365. There are 1 billion people on the planet. 330 million in the state, almost 1/2 of which are female. Put yourself out there, and someone will be attracted to who you are, and will fall in love with you for it.

[@gulpgulpgulpgulp5417]

People should be able to show emotions regardless, but valuing femininity or masculinity in your partner is just preference. Like some women can like femininity and some women can like masculinity. though i agree it can be harmful to force femininity or masculinity your partner, which is the real problem that should be focused rather than people's preferences.

[@ryanandrews321]

I wouldn’t worry about it just be yourself, do you and be confident and the right woman will appreciate you for you

[@jdalfonso4341]

Every time a woman has ever accused me of mansplaining the situations have been as follows. 1) Having dinner with a group of friends. The subject of philosophy comes up. A woman I have just met starts talking about Machiavelli and characterizing him as Satan. I step in and say, "If you've read Machiavelli's the Prince, then what you just described is actually very far from his philosophy." I then pointed out how he was not even remotely concerned about the subject's she was bringing up. She then accuses me of Mansplaining. I ask her if she read the book. She admits she had not... I ask how I was mansplaining? She says "of course a white male needs me to explain." I then inform her that I am actually the first generation American born child of Cuban parents (you would have thought the Spanish ass fuck name would have given it away) and that my father is half black, meaning I have, aunts, uncles and first cousins, that span pretty much every shade human beings occur in. She gets up, storms out of the restaurant, and everyone at the table looks at me like I'm the asshole. 2) Another dinner setting. I get into a debate about with a leftist Portland born 26- year old barista, where she talks about the War in Afghanistan having zero first hand knowledge, completely talking out of her ass. So I challenged her as a Marine with actually severed in Afghanistan. I very calmly informed her how she was completely wrong about the policies on the ground and how the military actually moves and functions in a combat zone. You know, the kind of esoteric knowledge one can only have if they were actually on the ground performing these tasks as a regular part of their lives for 7 months. She accuses me of mansplaining War to her.... I then point out that "you trying to educate me about war, when you have zero first hand experience is the definition of mansplaining... so you... just womansplained... Me. (I stare at her dumbfounded). She calls me a mysogynist, storms out. My friends look at.... again like I'm the jerk. THREE OF THESE DUDES SERVED WITH ME!!! I was like WTF? This is why I moved from Portland... and got better friends.

[@DeJay7]

These stories are genuinely really sad. You were looked at as if you wanted to humiliate the woman in both situations, when in reality you just corrected their mistakes with your better knowledge and experience. But because you are a man and they were women you were demonised.

[@JosephOliver-th9se]

Why do men dress like that if would be funny that transgender women and drag queens dress like that

[@kadran3263]

Far out. Man, fight on!

[@intrepidvirgo938]

I enjoy being a red-blooded, masculine man from Texas. I enjoy the fact that I was brought up to love and protect women, children, and my dogs. And I will never backdown or apologize for any of these inherent qualities that makes me the man I am today and all of the tomorrow’s. Keep up the good work Sydney. Never backdown from your intrepid beliefs! 👍🏻

[@udhav423]

Women don’t need your protection just so you know, calm down clown. 🤡

[@arthurshaw8368]

@@udhav423 and guess what? When a girl is getting murdered she would still prefer to call a man for her rescue rather than a woman.

[@eminenception]

@@udhav423 wut

[@udhav423]

@@eminenception i said what i said & you heard what i said

[@AnT-ik1fh]

@@udhav423 That's not what he said... It is not about women needing protection, it is about (most) men wanting to do so regardless of what you need. You and your comment are part of the problem.

[@melissasouthern2774]

I just found this video now, almost a year later. I see no problem with men being masculine, and don't want to see men feminized because there is a group of women who are obsessed with "bringing down the patriarchy" and who just want to put down men. What's wrong with masculinity? Just because a man is masculine doesn't mean he is a bad person or "toxic." I like my husband being strong as well as smart; chivalrous as well as supporting me in my goals as I support him in his. I think at this point in our society, the pendulum has swung in the other direction and we are getting to a point of toxic feminism.

[@spoonfulofserotonin5629]

I feel like the true form of feminism that wants an actual equality is good, well-founded and still important because some things my women friends tell me actually infuriate me and make me feel shame but it’s always the toxic and agressive feminists that are the loudest (and the most profitable for media to cover) which creates a stereotype and fear

[@alejandrocamberosrodriguez4222]

Thank you! Your pendulum analogy describes perfectly what's wrong in today's world: toxic attitudes haven't been broken, they've just changed users. We need balance.

[@PinxieShowOffical]

If men are gonna be oppressed and bullied why isn’t their a international mens month

[@chamarasajith6395]

On point!You understand well.

[@GenXfrom75]

Yes!! I love this. People look at my husband, who is a combat veteran, has a long beard, and rides a Harley, and they make immediate assumptions about him. My husband IS highly masculine, and I LOVE my femininity. We have mainly traditional roles, by choice. But he has always supported me and my career decisions, and we made decisions about our children together. There's nothing *toxic* about traditional masculinity. It's wrong to assume strong, strapping men are in any way a danger. ✌️

[@markhewitt4307]

First "Orange Man bad"..now all men are bad. Guess I'm just horrible..😂..it's not that we men are acting "over masculint", its everybody gets a trophy and most kids are raised nowadays thinking their feelings are more important than facts.

[@ameilioracryptos5298]

Watch the suicide rates go up...these self hating people... natural selection will runs it's course and only the same ones will remain in 25 years

[@vipulvaibhav7353]

I agree, I saw an ad where they said "what kind of a victory isn't awarded to everyone" And I was like, WHAT? If everyone wins then why are we even competing

[@seandillon1359]

My first GF and her roommate were raving about Harry styles picture. I then said “would you say that if i took that pic or is it just because it’s Harry styles” and they both admitted it’s just because of who wore the dress

[@pauljohnson600]

11:46 hits the nail right on the head. More and more, guys in the workforce are trying to not interact with their female co-workers as much as possible. And women who have no respect for the opposite gender are going to judge men no matter what they do. For example, I had this one job back when I was 19 and had this very beautiful female coworker who was very nice to me. She flirted with me and even gave me her number. Naturally, not knowing any better I flirted back and eventually asked her out. Next thing I know, my boss is calling me on a day off and firing me over the phone because she went right behind my back and accused me of sexually harrassing her. There was no proof. The accusation alone was enough to end my job there, and I was homeless for almost 2 years before I could recover from it. I'm a robotic welder by trade and am 35 now and when I was working for Caterpillar, there were three women who were always trying to flirt with me and get my intention. I ignored the shit out of them and just focused on my job, and learned from other co-workers that they were offended at me ignoring them and were telling everyone that I'm "shy around women". I ain't shy, I'm just older and smarter than I was when I was 19. I thought I was alone in this paranoia that I had to develop in order to survive, until my stepdad confessed to me one day that he doesn't even ride elevators alone with a woman to avoid being accused of something he ain't guilty of and he's exercised that habit longer than I've been alive.

[@Visibletoallusers12]

I know this is a public comment section and this comment is not directed at anyone but I just want to say thank you for telling me this

[@rikkichadwick3548]

😕 what a b***, sorry to hear that...

[@kijiawachowicz-ramgotra5391]

Wow. Smart move. As a woman, a “pretty” woman, I get flirted with a lot. It’s difficult or it was to be simple and appreciate male attention. I learned to say no thank you and be reciprocally flirtatious, yet not insinuate attachment. I’ve been hyper aware to not accuse men of “sexual harassment” because of the extensive attack that’s brought upon them by domestic violence law. The consequences are severe. They’re denied work! Live homeless, rejected by society, for no good/provable reason; even when the accusation is false. Thank you for being respectful by protecting yourself. I wish for a more inclusive period of humanity. Where we don’t assume, first speak to gain clarity, and don’t attack by way of the law. Thought* Allow the accuser to hold the weight of their accusation. Male or female. I’m not sure how this would be done. We avoid responsibility these days, and consequences, especially women. American woman. Huh this is making me sad. My father and grandfather were falsely accused by my mother of sexually assaulting my sister and I when we were around age 10 and 12 in court! It was denied. She didn’t win.. but my grandfather and father never came near us again for threat of my mother. I grew up without them. Losing the men who love me, is my deepest regret in this life. 🙏 I kinda babbled on there.

[@kurtkriz6891]

Sorry you had to go through this brother.

[@richynix3693]

@@kijiawachowicz-ramgotra5391 Sorry you had to go through that. I hope that you are now able to connect with your Dad and GrandDad now, wishing you the best in life

[@Ashtarot77]

My dad was a manly man, but he also understood issues that women had to go through. He did not have to give up his manlihood to show his feminine side.

[@esppupsnkits4560]

You mean his soft side?

[@KlaudiaShaefferr]

@@esppupsnkits4560 same thing

[@Ashtarot77]

@@esppupsnkits4560 Everyone has two sides. Masculine and Feminine. Some people will have a more masculine, or feminine energy to them, and in others, it will be equal. So I meant feminine. It might not be the way you think, like him wearing skirts etc. He was just equally in touch with, like you said, his softer side.

[@sergioalvarez1919]

Know the feeling too well. I would consider that I have outward feminine energy but inward masculine energy. OuTwardly, i'm quite, emotional not in the crying type of way but I sympathize with people and I would feel down when bad things happen to others, sensitive and scared to hurt others feelings and I know that is not always good. But inwardly, i'm also not afraid to stand up defend those that need help. I know there is a time a place to cry and do well under pressure but I picked that up in the army. And yes, physical activity like lifting, or Manuel labor is something I have to do to release stress. And not afraid to flirt in the right circumstances. But because not being outspoken about women like that or I didn't act rowdy, or tended to overall just mind my business and not say much and act like a dude should. Dudes would think they could punk me but anytime they would try to fight. Well less just say not many people wanted to start problems with me despite me being a quiet type and hating conflict and violence. But in that experience. It made me learn about women. Is that what women go through? They have outwardly feminine energy and dudes take advantage of them or push them around. Unfortunate for them they also have inner feminine energy and dont know how to step up when conflict arrives. Thats why despite being quiet, despite not being afraid to be emotional, and despite being sympathetic to others. I never got pushed around and I was always doing "manly" things. Mainly fixing things around the house. I knew when to speak up and when to hold my tongue. I knew there was a time and place to be emotional and what things were worth that emotion. And I knew sympathy people would try to take advantage so you had to be cautious with being over sympathetic.

[@davidroudebush6947]

Men shouldn’t have a feminine side

[@MH-br3th]

I really don't care what people do in terms of self-expression. If it makes you happy then go for it. However when people start attacking me based on my race or masculine nature then we have a problem.

[@SaneAsylum]

If you were a parent you might care about how they mold young minds and their worldview; how they re-shape your society, and the massive fallout that will very much cost you much in your life. If your neighbor wants to build a sewage treatment plant/playground on his land what do you care?

[@SaneAsylum]

@cosmic donut The idiots are the ones with the dresses and the people dumb enough to fall for the psychological shit their fed.

[@SaneAsylum]

@cosmic donut Mad? Project much? Why does pointing out the truth elicit such ire from the spinning eyes set? kzbin.info/www/bejne/b5O3ZYKkj5d8rtk

[@Joshua-fr1xp]

Except it's the other way around. Y'all are the one's attacking men who don't follow the norms.

[@lewisaino]

I respect them if they do the same for me.

[@GenXfrom75]

This one hits close to home. My husband and I are a married couple raising boys. We've been together 19 years, married almost 18 years. He even adopted my firstborn son when he was 10 years old (his biological father died when our son was 5 months old). We are raising GENTLEMEN, regardless of how society is trying to absolutely demolish chivalry. How society says men are trash, unneeded, and disposable... I pray there are parents out there raising daughters who will one day be SEEKING a partner who also has traditional values. It feels overwhelming most days but it's my genuine hope that our sons witnessing their married, in love, respectful, and faithful parents will show them the right path when they are old enough to start wanting a family of their own.

[@IsabellaKouppi]

I'm ok with feminine women and men, and masculine women and men. I'm not okay with demonizing or shaming any of them though.

[@DangerousArmyGuy]

A, effin', men! I would be that way too, not caring about that part, but draw the line at demonizing and shaming either one as well.

[@MTJAZZ-ic6bb]

Try explaining that majority of feminist

[@hellothere-bo7bn]

@@MTJAZZ-ic6bb you obviously haven’t met a real feminist in your life

[@dylancross1039]

@@hellothere-bo7bn Where are they at? Oh right. Staying silent and not saying a damn thing until they're in the cross hairs. Any "real feminist" wouldn't call themselves a feminist. That would be an equalist

[@sirsteam181]

@@dylancross1039 "That would be an equalist" I'd say Egalitarian more than Equalist, it just sounds nicer.

[@CaribbeanPirate]

Honestly, just being a male gets you into trouble. Nothing is good enough, always ridiculed, but they always saying "i want a strong man to take care of me."

[@lobbymccawker2083]

@@DarkSymphony777 bullsh#t

[@DarkSymphony777]

@@lobbymccawker2083 how is it bull? I'd like to hear your thoughts Or maybe I'm getting the wording wrong by putting strong in quotation marks

[@lobbymccawker2083]

@@DarkSymphony777 What you said is wrong and insulting to men.

[@DarkSymphony777]

@@lobbymccawker2083 well it's true, there are some men and women out there who'll claim they are strong, they will help you and make you a better person and then take advantage of those vulnerable men and women who were expecting a true relationship. Like my ex girlfriend did to me. What did you think I meant when I said that first comment?

[@lobbymccawker2083]

@@DarkSymphony777 you are a terrible person.

[@samtalkstoomuch8854]

As a mom of sons, the thought of petticoating is heartbreaking. I'd never humiliate my boys like that

[@TheStraightestWhitest]

My father send me a link to a woman complaining about the ''White maleness'' of her sons... You'll be amazed at how many do this.

[@dudep504]

@@TheStraightestWhitest i feel like we are headed to a society where killing a newborn boy is normal.

[@Retrofire-47]

@@dudep504 I've seen tweets from feminists bragging about getting male abortions.

[@TheStraightestWhitest]

@@dudep504 It already is pretty much. 6 Month abortions are already fine.

[@samtalkstoomuch8854]

Woken up to these responses and they're heartbreaking. Here's to doing everything possible to building our sons up and bringing up good, strong, kind men.

[@katiepg6168]

As a mom of 2 boys & 1 girl, this makes me so sick. I hate that today it’s seen as such a bad thing to be masculine! It’s really hard for me as a mom to teach them how to be a real man. Boys are pushed to be much more feminine & if you don’t agree with it your a biggot. My ex husband was brought up by hard core liberals, so he believes everyone is equal. He doesn’t understand the man’s role as a husband, father, & provider. It’s so sad and makes my life so much harder because I am a woman & don’t know how to properly teach them to be real men! I wasn’t meant to be around in 2022, I wish I was a mom in the 50s.

[@CheesyLittleMouse]

Movies can help. Male role models are well shown in Batman, Braveheart, Gladiator, The Lord of the Rings for example. There are also some books like Meditations from Marcus Aurelius and Letters from a Stoic by Seneca

[@SK-tk6bi]

I feel sorry for your boys. Hopefully they can find their own path to becoming confident individuals.

[@Furienna]

Define "a real man", and be glad that your sons at least have a father around.

[@umbrasyl]

Your husband doesn't undersatnd a "man's role" because he believes everyone is equal? You need let go of social constructs honey, you sound mentally ill and your sons seem better off with their father.

[@fairygodmother139]

Ummm why marry him then? Also you’d be getting punched in the face for not having cooked dinner in time back in the 50s be grateful…tf is wrong with ppl man.

[@Anarial85]

This is such an important topic we keep tossing to the side and need to talk about! Thank you for sharing the information!!

[@UnprofessionalProfessor]

@Charlotte Jones Oh, irony.

[@conspiracybear1564]

Me likey you so muh Sidney 😍 if you were a bear Id eat your cubs so you would mate with me... that's actually a very nice thing I said in the bear community.

[@azkadeliaray521]

@DARREL X You don't look good anyway.

[@matheusfinatelli9353]

Let's keep hitting the gym boys. Our civilization really needs a generation of strong men, with strength of mind and body.

[@mr.0lvera922]

Dilly! Dilly! 🍻

[@Necracudda]

I’ll wait for when this year is over to do that since I don’t want the weights to crush me due to the crappy luck this year has

[@Diao7]

Better yet go learn some boxing or muay thai brazilian Jiujitsu aside from Gym.

[@zedkkkhusie2931]

Stfu

[@seanmoore4248]

@@marcbrown382 go take a midol crybaby.

[@schuylergeery-zink1923]

Teenage Nephew was so funny when we were cooking the other day. I had a very bony cut of lamb rib rack that I was struggling with. He said, “I don’t mean to mansplain but this is how I’d do it.” So I gave him the knife and replied, “don’t mansplain. Man do. Be careful.” And he cut it and we had a lovely dinner.

[@yucheung5853]

hope you can learn how to do it from him so that next you can do it yourself, just in case when he is not around

[@jade254]

That's actually so cute! I'm sure he felt better knowing you didn't bash him with iM aN iNdePenDeNt wOmAn stuff

[@knightu1642]

He's already corrupted with the toxic femininity in this country. He should make no excuse for things he does naturally. If he wants to explain something, let him explain as he knows. If a girl or woman feels threatened, then that's their problem!

[@darrensucksatgames]

As someone who was regularly called the real F word in high school, I today would be considered overly masculine and that quite bluntly is INSANE!

[@ladycoyote992]

"Dominant men are seen as toxic." *Laughs in the BDSM lifestyle community.* For real, though. This got out of hand a long time ago and now humans are evolving traits that will only be our downfall in the future.

[@ariheready28]

before, dominance was neither considered good or bad. it was just necessary as mens' role in society was very important. now it is just labelled cuz it does not fit within the emotional-based society. i can go more in depth but this is as brief as i can go

[@thomasfell-smith7662]

@@ariheready28 Please do, I am interested in your take on the situation

[@ariheready28]

@@thomasfell-smith7662 genetic makeup: females posses more feminine qualities due to their biological structure, which define their approach to certainty, communication. certainty: they must use tactics to gain certainty (mental stability - feeling of safety, happiness and certainty). this is through manipulation. manipulation: women say: "dominant men are seen as toxic" their defence is: "men being equal to women is better" no, women want men to be lower, so their implication is: "be a weak man, or you're not a real man." women don't want dominant men because they know getting that certainty feeling would be a lot harder when the man is more dominant - they have boundaries, expectations and morals with women. society - rejection of femininity: dominance is what they secretly desire, it's in their DNA to want to submit to gain certainty because naturally love the chase, they love competition. many women would disagree with this to try and manipulate me to believe their disagreement (dominance is toxic, weakness is better) so their difficulty in gaining certainty is lowered. other manipulations on lowering men's value, which have worked, have been integrated by western society. as a result men have easily become more feminised, through the domino effect. this is what women wanted, to know that men are below them in the sexual market, to fulfil their void in search of certainty. linking back, women today enforce men to be weak and label dominant men toxic so they can have easy access to the feeling of certainty.

[@thomasfell-smith7662]

@@ariheready28 Thanks for the effort and info! Got a lot to think about from that

[@giasharie274]

@@ariheready28 Is femininity weak?

[@elixorvideos]

I'm really glad I've discovered your channel, I've been consuming almost exclusively leftist content and a lot of what you criticise the left for is very valid. I like being able to recognise that I was in an echo chamber, it means that I can continue to grow as a person. Every time I learn something new, a less educated version of myself perishes.

[@azkadeliaray521]

Except it's not valid at all, because opinions on how people dress has nothing to do with politics. She herself is in an echo chamber and is a propaganda agent. Where is her criticism against Trump's attacks on free speech? Where is a criticism of conservative prejudice against disabled people and people on welfare? She'll sit there and moan about men being "feminized", yet those same men could be made homeless or denied needed support and she won't give a fuck. Where I live, conservatives have been kicking sick and needy people off needed support for decades.

[@atmanempress]

Same here, so relate to this. Ex liberal here... it’s sad that it no longer means what it used to.

[@DontbeanNPC]

@@azkadeliaray521 you're an id10t if you believe all of that nonsense. The bad orange man is still living rent free in your head, huh? 😂 Cool way to tell us all that you're brainwashed without actually saying you're brainwashed.

[@EPW142]

@@atmanempress You're confusing liberalism with leftism. Jordan Peterson for example is a classic liberal.

[@TheChemistGaming]

@@azkadeliaray521 It doesn't matter if she is an echo chamber as long as you don't only buy into her POV. She makes plenty of solid points of various topics. To say "why doesn't she cover x issue?" Is sort of unfair because nobody is going to cover or care about all the issues you do. For example mass starvation across the globe is a much bigger issue than homelessness in western countries and yet here you are not brining it up even once.

[@notanumberafreeman6903]

The rugged, masculine, independent and self-sufficient male is tougher to bring to heel under a totalitarian state.

[@sirsteam181]

" The rugged, masculine, independent and self-sufficient male is tougher to bring to heel under a totalitarian state." Depends on the Totalitarian State now doesn't it

[@edgepixel8467]

Lol. You forget the nazis, my friend. It was all about rugged masculinity. Didn’t help any manly man escape the clutch of tyranny.

[@sirsteam181]

@@edgepixel8467 Well to be fair they were the ones who supported said tyranny

[@robertbeckman2054]

This also fits with the state wanting women to be married to it, instead of a man.

[@edgepixel8467]

@Cody G Rugged masculinity is no guarantee against authoritarian regimes. In fact, it might justify it in the eyes of the population. “Might makes right” and all that crap. So no, you can’t build the modern world on machismo. We evolved past beyond that as a society, even if some still dream of the good old days.

[@belh4wk]

you're a breath of fresh air in terms of what and how you cover certain topics. when you covered the way people feel when wearing certain attire; i immediately went "yes, this", as much as nice clothes can affect a woman to feel powerful or sexy, in the same sense, a certain outfit can make a guy feel a certain way too. when i first put on my uniform back when i joined the belgian army, it immediately gave me a certain sense of not just belonging, but i knew it also made me look a certain way and it was quite a special feeling (even though a uniform is inherently meant to not make you feel special about yourself compared to others who also wear it).

[@masterninja74]

I have been feeling more and more masculine over the late-year; feeling better and more confident in myself. I'll be damned if you're going to take that away from me.

[@archades115]

I grew up in a matriarchal family. Not feminist. Just a lack of men, good men. The women had to fill both roles, and couldn't teach the boys how to be good men. I am a result of this doctrine, and hate it. I have learned to mitigate the negative results to a degree. But it has been a difficult journey. And I have never seen feminized men result in good things.

[@MASTEROFEVIL]

Sad

[@aSinisterKiid]

well David Bowie was a good thing. But that's literally the only example I can think of haha

[@Ewelina2501]

Exactly, men are men and women are women and We can't change Our genetic diferenced by forcing someone to Wear make up or a dress.

[@Urdman]

Same. My stepfather genuinely believed in “Happy wife, happy life” all that’s happened is my brother and I are now emotionally distant and codependent (him more so than I). I refuse to be infantilised by my mother, my stepfather, or anyone else anymore. I have made it my mission to become my family line’s first patriarch. I refuse to believe the feminist doctrine of “masculine man bad, bleh”. I’ll make it work. And I’ll prove that a patriarchal home can be a good home.

[@hugomaritz692]

these feminized men pose more of a threat to women than normal men do.

[@Inimitable]

Someone once asked me "What's wrong with Australian women?" My reply was, "They want to be Australian men." QED.

[@mousaey]

The fact that they're going after Stoicism as "toxic" should tell you everything you need to know.

[@sirsteam181]

Hell the only Toxic thing that can really be supported is the suppression of emotion but that depends on context.

[@edgepixel8467]

Whaaat? Is that a thing now?

[@greasysquid1857]

Yo what? They're trying to tear down a leading, global philosophy that was a huge foundation for western and even eastern thought at one point or another? This is a meme, right?

[@YuYuYuna_]

@@sirsteam181 Well exactly. Largely speaking though being stoic in the face of life's many hardships will train yourself to deal with problems in the future while also making the most logical decisions you can. Much like training your body regularly at the gym will allow your body to not get anywhere nearly as sore as if you didn't exercise at all and tried to move a bunch of furniture around in your house or do any other physically demanding task for an extended period of time.

[@sirsteam181]

@@YuYuYuna_ "Largely speaking though being stoic in the face of life's many hardships will train yourself to deal with problems in the future while also making the most logical decisions you can." There is a problem with it though for one a person can be logical even if they aren't stoic but not overly emotional, being stoic more most of the time however causes one to hide their emotions letting them sit and fester causing even more pain like if one were to exercise way too much. However with that said it comes down to a balancing game of stoicism and emotion.