Taken Against My Will (Kidnapped) | Unpacked with Relebogile Mabotja - Episode 6 | Season 1

[@lesibajaphtamaponyane9265]

As a Father of 19 year princess stories like these really makes one to always be worried when she is out there going to school and/or shopping 😭😭😭😭. May the mighty GOD protects our country and all young girls out there.

[@sydneykasanda854]

These stories are so heartbreaking. I'm so amazed at how Cresilda has pulled herself together. My sister, your life has not ended. You have much more to live for. You're a phenomenal woman, and no one will take that away from you. 🙏

[@buyimbulazi4920]

very heartbreaking indeed

[@mphihlengmagoro2957]

The bravery from the second guest 👏🏾. And to be so alert in that situation is just incredible. Her knowledge came through for her when she needed it most - the importance of education right there.

[@KHOSI.D.KHUMALO]

True

[@zimkhitha.h]

Hey guys we need to Grateful for life everyday

[@zimkhitha.h]

My worst fear 😭😭 even watching this was tough. Great work Rele. I'm happy they survived

[@gracemwewa1292]

We thank God for saving you ladies but am all scared hey.

[@jessieschatz9611]

Thank you both for sharing your stories. You're both incredibly strong women! I'm from Namibia and in 2015 I also jumped out of a car that had two men in it. I had just come out from an evening church service looking for a taxi to go home and they pretended to be a cab and flashed the lights for me to stop them. As soon as I got in at the backseat after giving them my location, one of the men kept looking back at me in a very sick and twisted manner and I could tell that they were both intoxicated. They were driving in a completely different direction from my destination and were hatching some sort of plan of what to do with me without alarming me but I quickly picked it up from their body language and they guy who kept looking back at me really just gave it all away. That's when I knew that I had to get myself out of this situation FAST and luckily the doors were unlocked so I opened mine and yelled at them to stop the car. They started speeding and without hesitation I jumped out and they almost drove over my foot. They drove off and I got away with a sprained ankle and I managed to get help from strangers and safely got home. After that I had so much trauma I couldn't take cab alone after dark and sometimes I would have really bad panic attacks when I'm in a taxi and my surroundings are unfamiliar. So many men have gotten away with rape and murder in Namibia because they are never caught and I know that I would have suffered the same fate had I not listened to instinct. I am abroad now and it's so sad to say but I feel so much safer here and most of the time I just never want to go back home. Thank you Aus Lebo for this platform. You are what we have needed for a very long time!

[@kgomotsomofokeng5984]

Miss Grootboom's book "EXIT" really is a very sad and emotional book and I was never the same after reading it. She's survived a lot and till this day I still can't believe how she overcame all that.

[@KHOSI.D.KHUMALO]

Is it in stores?

[@philisiwemkhulisa2674]

Where can i find it

[@LylieNdeikemona]

Do you know where I can find the book?

[@LethoHali]

Did she go similar experiences as today’s topic?

[@nhlakaniphontuli5966]

I just want to hug Ms. Grootbroom and cry. I'm so sorry for what you went through.

[@Kat231yster]

OMG I would beg to die😩😩 these ladies are so strong, bless you ❤️ Just discovered this channel yesterday and I'm here trying to watch every episode cause wow Lebo you are breathtaking, your interview skills are unmatched, take a bow❤️

[@stellamooibedi9027]

As a mother,aunt, sister, daughter I'm watching this with a heavy heart and pray for healing over the victims's lives 🙏

[@sorayanasser558]

These girls are so strong and so special just to have the guts to sit there and talk about these experiences like this without breaking down.

[@mantelekhitsane3490]

Jesus 😭😭😭😭as a mother of 19yrs daughter I always pray God to protect her not to get in this situation, 😭😭😭😭sis u are blessed that u still alive, jooh u have been through the hell, may God give u strength everyday sis and get comfort 🙏🙏❤💐

[@thandolwethu_SibuM]

Have been running away from this episode ever since i discovered this challenge, my fear is crying through out it's

[@mphihlengmagoro2957]

I can't even begin to imagine how anyone can ever recover from this. How do you even begin to trust anyone again. I'd feel locked up in fear for a lifetime. I pray for your continued healing and strength.

[@lesegoyv]

How do we even trust people? I am always thankful that my arrival in joburg was smooth in terms of these types of traumatic events cause many girls like me came here to learn and be independent but the devil had other plans. These stories are heart breaking and I am thankful to have access to them, knowledge is power. Let's be save guys.

[@Noni4Jesus]

I'm so sorry ladies for what you had to go through...😭😭😭😭 may God give you full healing. I'm so hurt on your behalf. I'm really sorry 😥🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@princesslelaka1844]

Why am i seeing this channel now? I love it

[@relebogilemabotja215]

Glad you could find it! ❤️

[@gomolemoramanteba6876]

...same here...binging on it now🥰❣🥰

[@hoppykubs1368]

The show plays on SABC 3 I've been lazy to watch.Wow I'm glad i watched it on KZbin and I've learnt so much

[@ncumisajuliwe6874]

Jesus😭😭😭. Other kids have been through a lot💔

[@nomsaphetla2838]

Oh modimo as a mother of two beautiful girls...this is heart breaking shrm cant stop crying ... sanding lots of love and hugs ladies

[@linalesia5188]

I am so sorry for these brave young women. As a woman who has birthed and raised a son, I am appalled by the treatment of these women and million others by these horrendous men. You only wonder what dreadful life experiences these men had as children that turned them into these monstrous humans. One can only empathize for both victims and perpetrators.

[@mantelekhitsane3490]

Why do ppl have to be this cruel 😭😭😭why why do ppl get satisfaction by hurting others 💔💔💔aah my heart is bleeding 😭😭😭🙏🙏

[@nkosiyazisukazi3927]

It’s so scary to think that these monsters live normal lives, they are our brothers, our boyfriends, our husbands, our fathers… the world is messed up. Healing to all who have been through such cruelty 🌸

[@nqobilemahlangu6777]

The second lady is such a good story teller wow!! Amazing interview ..insightful as well now I know to always be alert as I pass through hillbrow everyday

[@nomsaconstancemboweni7065]

So heartbreaking wish you to heal ladies. Thank's to God you alive. ❤❤

[@wpp1586]

Omgosh I can't begin to think how scared these ladies were. THIS is not how humans should be treating each other, smh may God bring healing and thank you ladies for sharing.🙏🏾

[@marizechevo1843]

Horrific. I’m so sorry this happened to you. Grateful that you are alive and have come out stronger than anyone could have expected.

[@stellamooibedi9027]

Awo bathong we honestly live in a cruel world with heartless people.

[@modipaditshepisomakuwa4874]

This is a traumatic experience. During the 2021 unrest(looting) in Gauteng, I went out to buy yeast at a local shop, and it was finished, so I had to go to another one a bit further. From the first shop, a guy started following me, I didn't read much into it because there were too many people at the street. Before I could reach the second shop, the guy jumped on my back and a silver Honda stopped infront, another guy came out and they started dragging me , I fought for my life, I screamed and the people in the street stood there a watched. The guys we "my friend" came to my rescue and the two guys let me go and went back to the car and drove off. Even today, I'm still scared to go to the shops alone. I'm still asking myself so many questions on why me, I'm not even popular around my area.

[@princesslelaka1844]

Yhooo relebogile is strong to hear all this n keep a straight face

[@khomotjoramara9315]

This is scary, as women we are not safe 😭😭😭😭😭😭😱😱😱😱😱😱

[@sizakelediya4080]

My heart is in pieces how much women are not safe in South Africa for the purpose of sex 💔😢😔😪 I'm so angry how we are treated as just an object because you want power. There just no words I can say to heal these ladies and more ladies who experience this situation its just devastating. I pray for women who still experience this kind of inhuman experience please God pure your grace and rescue them. Catch these psychopath human they don't belong in society. This terrifise me I won't lie to be women in South Africa. One thing I don't understand with men is sense of not feeling a pain for someone. To be honest even in dating especially if you you do meet men who say they love you but as soon you sleep they take you just an object it's pains how a human being cannot feel a pain of someone else. I'm so grateful for these eye opening show because we learning so much. I pray for your healing for two ladies and bright future.

[@achatwithgoitse]

What comes to mind is sexual narcissism.

[@sizakelediya4080]

@@achatwithgoitse people are really really sick , I love Dr Rumani to bring light to me regarding narcissistic how dangerous it can be. In my family I grew up in that environment my father is narcissistic even though he was not in that level but he abusive behavior I still trying to heal even today. Everything is about him. I hope someday Relebogile can find a therapy who is exposed to narcissistic so that they can bring awareness of this disorder that is in our community. People talk about Mother's day and Father's day tears flow out in your face because 2 people who suppose to love they can't because they are not capable. You go therapy, you mean them you back to squire one.

[@faithsdollsville2662]

Chriselda’s life was so traumatic. May God restore you girl. You definitely have a greater purpose in life to have survived that. Bukelwa I got shocked when you said Maponya Mall cos home where I grew up is Pimville and I went to school in Diepkloof. I could so picture the Bara rank. Lady, we thank God for your protection and wisdom. All that you watched and also learned(CPR) was not a waste of time but an investment (lack of a better word) for your safety. Chriselda’s Joburg outcome emphasised what I always thought growing up: “Don’t trust anyone with your life.” But this sounded like a breakthrough for you. I wonder what happened to that lady who sold you. I wish you all the best in life.

[@margholtz]

I hope she could report and help prosecute those guys who did those horrible things to young girls

[@leratondlovu6601]

So sorry about what happened to you guys no one deserves to go thru what you went thru

[@zintlefanana7941]

she is the reason i cant go to town...her story gives insight of what happens in jozi buildings... first saw her on sabc 3 about 4 years ago

[@matimumat5659]

The filling station in SA feels more safer than the police station 🤞🏽

[@andreapettigrew5908]

This one has me crying so much. I am extremely traumatized just listening. I am so sorry about your experiences ladies.

[@san-mariepotgieter8386]

@ Rebogile, Belated congrats btw, lol! Im so proud of you for winning the award, it was from last week, for mid- March 2022! Right? And I realize that im merely sending you my few simplistic words of congratulations, but im rather sure that Im saying it on behalf of the rest of the country and the world! You should really hear me out when I say that you truly deserve it. *virtual fireworks for you* Im so happy that you got it!

[@TJ-my9nh]

Ladies you are 2 great and courageous women. God bless you

[@Mbalings]

Shivers down my spine 💔

[@sydneykasanda854]

Please post the the social handles for the two ladies. I would really love to follow their journeys.

[@rebaonemabe3456]

This is heartbreaking. I have a similar story like the second lady. I can't stop thanking God that those men decided to take me off their car boot. To this day I still wake up and wonder what would have happened? Where will I be now? I always pay attention to cars, this episode made me aware to watch people also.

[@tabisamlata]

How does these stories affect you, because everytime I watch I find my self crying 😭😭😭💔💔💔 you're one of the strongest 💕💕❤❤

[@prettyngcobo8359]

oh no!!! she is so strong!!! some people do not really deserve to be given life:( how can people be so cruel!!!!!

[@mamosamarera4697]

This just taught me not judge a prostitute because we don't know what led them to be there.

[@samkelisiwentanzi1351]

True

[@judymburu8898]

This world is cruel....it's really not our home. We are passing by. There is something better in store for us. Hugs to those two women

[@nomsazwane3505]

ever since i watched this channel, this has to be the most traumatic topic or rather episode ive watched.. Yooh im broken 💔💔😭😭

[@cyliamotsoenengzengele]

There was supposed to be some warning before watching this Rele, I have heard horrible stories, this one tops them all. I am traumatized and I now doubt the presence of God. Too many horrible things happen under His care, and you all wanna tell Me He just watches such over and over again without stepping in? What for? These scenes play all around the world and He watches? And do nothing? What is that?

[@Mbalings]

He doesn’t exist.

[@akhozilnkangana4772]

Don't doubt, we're what's wrong with this world. If we only live by caring and loving one another like he said. No of this would be happening

[@DinnyM051]

I am traumatized

[@stellamooibedi9027]

She was really brave to thoroughly think during the whole ordeal..nna I would have fainted.

[@africanma_mii6984]

This is heartbreaking 😪😪😪 yah neh ."trust no one "

[@mayumimolotv8523]

Scary too.

[@nkosiyazisukazi3927]

Guest 2 looks so much like my idol Sindi Dlathu♥️

[@SuperSebza]

I realised that as well

[@dimakhoele6058]

This has also reminded me of the horrible incounter with tsotsis in Joburg😭😭 once u understand their mindset, u can survive. I was not murdered or harmed as a result of playing mind games. I was saved😭

[@Gao_Phala]

Goosebumps before it even starts

[@saunlocked]

It's sad world we living in ,to think I only have girls I'm in fear you can actually see pain in Relebogile's face as she narrates I'm so sorry my Sister hope you have a better future.😘😘

[@ratiwabammekwa4219]

We no longer have people who can respond to children's cries anymore. This is so painful and creates fear to many women. This women are really strong, they have survived to tell these painful story. I don't think i could have survived this myself

[@Thoughtsbyme-ts4jz]

Petrol attendants in SA are the only stranger men I trust in SA

[@ShantyKganyagoVlogs]

Her explaining what happened when she was young really breaks my heart, humans are cruel, apartheid stories makes me sick to my stomach, it brought so much pain into her life and everybody who was affected #Edited This whole story makes me sick to my stomach 😢😭😢😭 I am sorry you had to go through all this, people are cruel hle 😭😭

[@achatwithgoitse]

I have no words. No words. I can only pray 4 them. Only God can help. Christians lets take the gospel to those who need it. The name of Jesus Christ can save them.

[@thabangdonald573]

My God......... What have we become 😭😭

[@fariraimapiye9491]

Very Sad!! I am so sorry these terrible things happened to you beautiful Ladies

[@TJ-my9nh]

My sister I am so sorry that people of my gender did all this evil to you. I am so sorry that you had to go through so much trauma and hurt. I am a man myself but I can boldly say the men who did all this cruelty to this lady don't deserve to be call men or human beings.

[@margaretmatsemane4543]

This is such a painful episode 💔.

[@maseolisekoati1374]

This is heart breaking

[@nontobekohlakashongwe1192]

The men in this country are sick💔💔💔

[@Nicole-og6df]

True

[@calltfushia7298]

OMG...this is complete savagery ....I pray for the best for these sistahs....overwhelming..

[@zamangwanekhanyile3962]

I love your show. This is heartbreaking. I am afraid to be a woman in S.A alive today because you can never freely fully embrace your own life abundance someone can easily snuff it out without having done anything to them

[@stellamooibedi9027]

Oh now I remember this lady who got trafficked by her friend!!!Oh my word 😭

[@sanehmondise]

😭😭😭 such cruel men we live with

[@stellamooibedi9027]

Oh man 😭😭😭askies Sisi...I just want to hug her..

[@dimakhoele6058]

I have two daughters, this is very scary. So glad and thankful that these ladies came out alive...😭😭 I ask myself how many didn't survive this horror...their families think they are missing or something 😭😭😭😭. I tell u, the crime is committed by foreign nations obviously working with them local ones

[@xolilentombela1593]

My heart is breaking for these women💔😭May God heal them🙏🏾

[@vevo3130]

South Africa land needs deliverance.....South Africa men scare the hell out of me....am so sorry for what you have been through and all the women went and going through such life.

[@pm1647]

I can't finish this, I can't this is too much

[@silindilepatience1821]

Glory be to the most high God. The fact that they made it through shows the love and protection of God. Oh I love u Jesus

[@Rochelle642]

Couldn't hear the last part of the segment. This was a very good umpacking though, really eye-opening.

[@kelebogilenkaiseng4643]

Grizelda 💔bravery of this woman... Her book is amazing

[@kangwamfula7521]

The second lady looks like Lindiwe from the River... both of them are really strong women!

[@stellamooibedi9027]

Ke moloi selo seo!!!Rhaaaa!!

[@veetlhone2975]

Yhooo so scared😭😭😭

[@nomfundodlamini6550]

may God strengthen and heal u

[@yolimatwa6647]

😭😭😭😭 heartbreaking

[@kelebogilesello3354]

damn... The twist in the Cresilda's story!

[@pm1647]

I could lock myself in the house the whole day because nooo

[@maggiemasai1506]

What's wrong with some men, I can't believe what this young lady has gone through!!

[@nontobekohlakashongwe1192]

What kind of friend was that!💔😭

[@nomsazwane3505]

We truly live in a sick world😭😭💔💔

[@joyent7643]

I'm so sorry. Gosh I don't know what to say. What does anyone have to do or say to be able to be safe in this world? To trust a so called friend? To be guaranteed that when you're going home from work you will reach home safely? Why are people so evil? No conscience what so ever. Does it not haunt you when you sleep at night that you did that to another human being? I'm disgusted at the state of humanity.

[@mrm3764]

Nice shows kelebogile

[@maloase12]

People are really evil,may God protect us and our children

[@stellamooibedi9027]

I always say what we do unto others will be done to us,not in the same, but someone down our generation will pay for the sins they did not commit. I hope karma deals with her.

[@stellamooibedi9027]

Yhuu!uSiso went through the most 😭💔

[@tlholomohlakore9065]

Yoh 💔😭😭😭wheeping 😭😭😭💔💔

[@sybillamula]

OMW so people were moved from the district 6 from their homes to the streets? I thought they moved them to the townships

[@Nicole-og6df]

Towards the end,the audio was so bad 😣

[@fikinaturally_fikiswa2925]

I have heard about district six but it was more of words but this story made me see and feel how it must have been like and how apartheid government has destroyed the fibre of the coloured people. I always somehow assumed coloured people had it better than us and hence they always seem to have a closer relationship with white people than the average with black people

[@naomimotshwari7778]

😭😭😭

[@leoniecupido7322]

My darling may God deal wth them 😭

[@sybillamula]

Is Ms Grootboom coloured or black?

[@sheilafalaza3569]

💔💔💔