Talk Habesha - Dating Outside Culture?

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[@MondoMotoZz]

My wife is Eritrean and Ethiopian, and I am German, African American, and Native American. Our son is gorgeous, our marriage is beautiful, and I know God would not have it any other way.

[@sonnytewolde2792]

I'm Eritrean, my husband is African American, Native American, and Caucasian, and we've got 7 beautiful kid's. I agree God would not have it any other way

[@somalidhalad3483]

Beautiful friends love and respect from your brother somali, we are one nation ♥ peace and love Somalia Ethiopia Djibouti and Eritrea ' WE ARE ONE family

[@goodnessisforsalf.6259]

Exactly

[@animefan3985]

Amiir somali your face looks philipino 😹

[@somalidhalad3483]

Anime Fan Hhhhhhh you're so funny I'm not look like Philipino I'm look like Eritrein but we're one family

[@abebe31]

@@animefan3985 yours to

[@alemat897]

Yes brother

[@asmaabdv]

Love this! Finally some UK Habesha representation! Can’t wait for more!!

[@ahavatube2404]

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[@yannicktenekeunde3205]

Hi dear is a plesure an privilage to meet you i wish to no you beter if you permit me thank possibl we thank so great

[@user-yx5tm1tt9i]

I have 14years old teenager boys I completely understand what you talking about I myself thinking a lot it all the time my wish my dream would be my son to merry from my country I don't care Tigray, Amhara,Oomo or Eritria but if will not happen I except support him what ever he choose in his life I love you guys you all beautiful and wise I m sure you parents proud of you be good and kind each other

[@adams782003]

I think as an African American it’s very hard pill to swallow, I understand the video and also respect all points of view. I wish I knew from an ancestor or heritage point of view where I come from in Africa, but that fact is I will never know. I can find a region, but I will never know my tribe! To not only be sold, but then generationally down the line be rejected by your own people is tough, and this is not what you are doing in this interview, but I say this if you find love, and it’s not necessarily from your culture embrace it. Because it could be what your culture has taught you, that makes you attractive, the reason I stated that I was African American is because I would love to marry any beautiful woman from Africa but my fear is because I’m American I would be demeaned, and it’s sad to say but for some Africans definitely not all, they will accept a white man, before an African American, but I do appreciate your perspectives, I am much a fan of Ethiopia and Eritrean cultures may y’all continue to live in peace! Shalom!

[@yeshisew9457]

But now you are your own ethnic group... Okay you dont know what exaxt country/countries your ancestors were from but you can be proud of the many things african americans have contributed to the world. And why dont you just marry an african american women??

[@fruitsarelife148]

Trust me habeshas know where they are from but they dont value it, they breed out.. Soo Try to stick to your own, Cause that is where the value is.

[@adams782003]

The both of you made great points, but I was mainly trying to bridge love and culture together, I might not have succeeded in making my point, I love African American woman, they are some of the most strongest, loyal to a fault sometimes women I know, and to bring up culture as an African American we have made tons of contributions to the world, just wish at times we had our own land, because we tend to be exploited a lot, everyone has somewhere to go but us, but I will say this and it’s just for conversation I’m not saying the either of you were insinuating this, but I’m proud to be an African American, there is no shame in my blood, was just responding to the videos of my African brothers and sisters hoping they could see life from a different point of view!

[@rigmarhaynes4197]

Dont sorry about the people stating they will not marry non-habesha or whatever. Their opinions are often just in that particular moment. Me as an diasporic African myself from Curaçao living in the Netherlands it has become pretty normal to be in Black Intercultural relationships. However I still see sometimes that for example that a Somali, Eritrean or Ethiopian would rather marry a European than an African from a different branch. It stinks of the illusion of white supremacy. White/European is better.

[@adams782003]

maya garba appreciate that my brother, may peace continue to be with you! Thanks for your response!

[@aderasview9562]

As an American that era mistaken for Habesha , Somali, or Nubian Egyptian I was almost engaged to an Eritrean and later North Sudanese, I think people should be open minded. So many people carry the same traditions and values that are not Habesha. I’ve experienced all worlds and honestly it’s e same lol. More of my Eritrean friends are open minded but going outside your race is an Amazing learning experience. I like guys from other backgrounds just wish more were open minded. 💕💕💕 that’s how we learn and love each other more. Especially in times like these.

[@yannicktenekeunde3205]

How dear is a plesure to meet you i wish to no you beter if you permit me thank i am call apostle T D yannick from cameroon

[@princehall9037]

My wife is Ethiopian, we had absolutely no issues. Culture wise it was different but I learned and respected hers and she did mine. Her parents didn’t trip one bit now her older sister was something else. When we got married both families had a great time. My family loves her and hers loves me. It’s all about respecting each other’s culture. They were just happy she was treated well, finished school and she was happy at the end of the day. Our three children are immersed in both cultures. They speak the both languages and have the same religion. She doesn’t have to work if she doesn’t and the family is thriving. There are bums in all cultures as long I wasn’t a bum and respected her and the culture it was all good.

[@abdi2166]

Ethiopians don't encourage mixing their DNA with Bantu blood from what I know

[@BF-bb5us]

@@abdi2166 well they better learn their history then.

[@howtotieatie5845]

@@abdi2166 And that's very good.

[@Axiom61]

@@howtotieatie5845 you are in every video on KZbin discouraging Ethiopians or Eritreans having a relationship other than the their culture. Why is it?

[@howtotieatie5845]

@@Axiom61 I don't discourage anybody.

[@user-sw5qw3lg4y]

date each other

[@orererererererereo8yearsag855]

Sudan Nutella I agree

[@hailehaile3090]

I agree too

[@theduke6174]

I'm Nigerian, Habesha girls like me

[@Samson_Hagos]

@@theduke6174 im sure there's nigerian girls that like you too bud

[@rittys81]

Is it just me or people having hard time understanding British accent? Half of the thing I don't know what they are saying 🤗🤗

[@Akili369]

Same

[@Lazy_Bee]

Its u

[@thefrenchfieldnigga8078]

I live in france and yes you are right i have a hard time understanding britsih accent unlike american one

[@kaba_tka]

watch Game Of Thrones once or Twice. i Did it now i can understand all UK accents. British accent is so btw.

[@theduke6174]

We speak the Queen's English.

[@winnieooko]

What happens when you meet someone who you connect with but is not from your culture!! I feel like times are changing and as we travel we meet different people from diverse cultures!!! We should not limit ourselves just saying

[@howtotieatie5845]

We don't want mix with any body.

[@theflagbearer9196]

I cant imagine Marrying a non somali, like i live for having a banter in somali and having that cultural connection. Also somali women like other horners are absolutely stunning,like why look elsewhere.

[@fruitsarelife148]

I respect somalis for passing down what they have been blessed with. Give habeshas a piece of that. Lol.

[@504_jts6]

not really my guy they prolly dont want u

[@ba5092]

Wiilka Qarniga same 🙌 I could never marry a non somali man . I’ve already had enough stress in my life to go and marry a ajnabi. No thanks. Idk how some people do it

[@Nico.Robin7]

Same. Can't possibly imagine marrying outside my culture.

[@redoneberhe1817]

I love my Eritrean women But Damn Somali women are Beautiful!!! Ayyy Abdi’s help me out, to find Somali women

[@IbrahimAdam-fh4sr]

Why you don't have any Eritrean person with you guys, cuz we are Habesha too, specially we who speaks Tigrina as mother language "Tigrina & Jabarti tribes" Keep up the good work & all the love from Eritrea to our brothers & sisters in Ethiopia ❤🇪🇷🇪🇹

[@TalkHabeshaUk]

We will have cast members from Eritrea soon don't worry. Share the love. Thank you.

[@yazzyab5798]

Shut up, we are not habesha wtf. Didnt fight for 30 years for your ass to downplay our ethnicity like that

[@ghirmaiyosief8178]

Ibrahim Adam it is good that they kept it Ethiopian, I don’t feel comfortable among Ethiopians. I would rather be with Sudanese.

[@betiselam]

@@ghirmaiyosief8178 jealousy will kill you, who cares about you any ways? beggars

[@whiteeagleblackbat8338]

I am habesha but weither you are Eritrean or ethiopian , I don't fucking like habesha!! Idiots!! I will sign up that I am not habesha then I am just human!

[@alemzewdholsey248]

Y’all should feel free to merry who ever you want to merry,there no low it says you have to marry your on people 💚💛❤️

[@babylane5449]

I agree with the girl wearing a cardigan next to the sheriff lol

[@leinaddhm1221]

4 girls & 4 young men , I hope on the next video you guys engaged each other & make momma Ethiopia proud

[@oronahili2569]

😂😂😂

[@Haymanotsavedbygrace]

Lool

[@dalac_93]

I am open-minded but why would habeshas want to date outside of their culture? We have all the amazing guys and girls in our culture. Just saying 😀

[@mikelary6071]

@First Name Last Name facts. u a dude ?

[@samiraa3671]

Exactly! Seems like many other cultures are obsessed with Ethiopian cultures, looks, etc, but our people don't see. Every country has it's own unique culture and uniquely beautiful people. That makes life interesting. It will be boring if everyone starts looking the same and acting the same.

[@abdoulayeadam6498]

When I was a teenager I didn’t know that there were such different culture & tribes whether in Ethiopia or Eritrea. And I always used to prepare Ethiopian/Eritrean girl in my life and I’m Sudanese. For me you don’t look different at all 🇪🇹or 🇪🇷. and I don’t understand which is Habasha and which is Amhara or Tigri, and I don’t want to understand either because it’s all means to me is just increases division. Finally I got Eritrean friend he explained everything to me. But what I experienced is that most Africans in general understand how they should accept each other only after they travel overseas.

[@ba5092]

Abdoulaye Adam go marry ur Sudanese trash plz 🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢

[@fruitsarelife148]

You are absolutely right, Africa loves tribalism. But i think the future will be better

[@abdoulayeadam6498]

B A Don’t discriminate plz we should tell each other with calmness.

[@rigmarhaynes4197]

We are the generation we have been waiting for. Forget and neglect those who think around tribal lines. Let this generation Pan Africanize.

[@abdoulayeadam6498]

Mel King Lol My point is that you'll Africans. Bit some how there's colorism and tribalism going on that's reason why Africa is suffering. We should forget colorism & tribalism and establish Africanism and human values.

[@nefsoababelew9245]

Some times Outside of your culture means outside of your comfort Zone But when it comes to relationships love has no boundaries. You either love someone or you simply don’t.

[@gerum009]

Absolutely right - love has no boundaries. However, when you marry and have children, there is more to the equation than just boundless love between two persons. Your marriage brings two families together, who were never together before (not to mention from different cultural backgrounds). Your marriage also brings children. So, there are different levels , types and characteristics of relationships created: you and your wife, you and your children, you and your parents/siblings, you and your wife's family.....your wife and your family...etc...etc. Your love with "no boundaries" may be enough to sustain your relationship with your wife; however, is it enough to sustain all the others? Granted, you and your wife can run away to a remote land and decide not to have children, in which case there is nothing to worry about except your own love to each other. I would LOVE to believe "love conquers all" because that would be nice, wouldn't it? However, the real world works differently, unfortunately for the idealist.

[@kassahunretta8826]

Dear fellow citizens of Ethiopians, our unique culture is different from the rest of the world. Many women date other cultures. They have health issues. Their relationship never last forever. On the other hand, precious children are affected to have Ethiopians name and culture and religion. That is child cruelty. We must be careful love is not a felling it is a commitment and our bodies are not for sale! Many women even they can't walk properly. Once we get into marriage union and we get into the grave we can't get out of it. May God help us by His divine grace to be with the right person on the right time. Amen!

[@Rasdashen1]

Well, I would rather stick with my Ethio girls. Unlike others they eat injera & shero which is the main secret of their beauty. Boom!!

[@ahadualkumelkamunneger4697]

😝pizza

[@binij5708]

Sudan Nutella very true. Lol am currently in rship wit non-habesha girl. Zis is true for many habesha guys outder as well.

[@binij5708]

@Sudan Nutella lol u just said what I was about to say girl😂😂 the thing is habesha girls tend to date a lot outside their culture but they end up with habesha dude at the end lol.

[@binij5708]

@Sudan Nutella not all habesha guys are like that though. Tbh it's the habesha women who usually date outside their culture. Habesha women, especially those not living in ethiopia, seem to think habesha men are not worth dating lol. We habesha guys are labelled like that . Habesha guys on the other hand prefer dating habesha girls above anything. It's not that we don't do 'left overs' but what do you expect us to if habesha women dont value us as much in the 1st place lol?

[@binij5708]

@Sudan Nutella haha I'm not gonna lie I do love habesha women I mean everyone wants to date with in his/her culture. Ain't nothing wrong with that. But I think our habesha women need to stop labeling all habesha guys and value us more.

[@yonathanasefaw9001]

I'm Ethiopian so it was great to see some opinions about Ethiopian life.

[@saraxo6448]

I thought the guy in the top left was cute until he opened his mouth and said he would want to date out side of his culture but not marry😂 PLAYERR “experience” he said 😂

[@ola1707]

Midnight Emperor lol I was in shock when I heard him 😂😂😂player hhhh

[@abaypost]

aybalm

[@easymoney1661]

you should respect honesty. he keept it real and you here calling him names. this is the problem with society we invertly support liars by demonzing honesty

[@saraxo6448]

Easy Money that’s the stupidest argument I’ve ever heard.

[@easymoney1661]

@@saraxo6448 you have too small of brain to understand complex things so you discard them as stupid. its ok i blame your mother for raising you like this. maferya

[@marakiabiy126]

Hey guys! I love what you’re doing here on your channel! Keep it up! Don’t mind the haters, you guys have created a platform which can connect so many different habeshas around the world through very interesting conversations! I just binge watched too many of your videos😂😂 and I’m happy to discover your community in London! All my love from Canada!💕💕

[@jordanmeko]

Amazing video 🎥❤️ Can’t wait for more 🎊

[@TalkHabeshaUk]

Thank you

[@yannicktenekeunde3205]

Hi dear is a plesure to meet you i wish to no you beter if you permit me thank

[@warsameadam5572]

The world is mixing wether you like it or not. We are no longer living in isolated villages anymore. Great video

[@SunnahFollower12]

Warsame Adam dhoqan ya tahay

[@orererererererereo8yearsag855]

Self hating culture destroyer propaganda ALERT!!!!

[@howtotieatie5845]

Shut up selfhater

[@Emebet24]

I love it! Looking forward for more videos ✌🏽💚💛❤️

[@theduke6174]

This is the most habesha people from london I've seen in one room.

[@shetakere935]

@Talk Habesha- This would be an opportunity for you guys to create a dating way/app/site for Habeshas born outside of Ethiopia and Eritrea. This will give you more options, life experiences... However, I also agree with being with who you love whether they are Habesha or not. One thing you have to ask your parents though, what is the real reason they want you to be with Habesha? In my opinion, it isn’t just because of the ease of culture, language..., it is because they wish for you to be connected with others, close to your friends and family or not to be lonely in this world.Most of Western life is based on individuality..., and your parents notice that because they came from close communities and families. These things truly matter in ones life.

[@ahavatube2404]

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[@michaelt2625]

Love love that British accent so beautiful...

[@Somali-Puntite]

As a Somali i won’t marry out, i only date Horn African women, why would I marry out when I have my beautiful Somali and Ethiopian women ?

[@exposedsomalis]

@Suad Ali 💯 some somalains are delusional s

[@mikelary6071]

stick to your own be proud. ethiopian women are for ethiopians.

[@mikelary6071]

@Ebro Big boy yeah but those are not habesha. you and oromos are not ethiopian habesha. you guys are somolian. we dont see oromos and never have as habesha. anyways the point is why do you guys always dip in? lol this shid is mad funny.

[@mikelary6071]

@Ebro Big boy oromo and harari are NOT ethiopian. thats what im trying to tell your dumbass.

[@Liya653]

@@mikelary6071 who are you to decide that tf? Ethiopian women aren't yours to gatekeep.

[@afe2947]

As Ethiopian We have a map not a culture. We don’t have unique culture as a country rather we are a mixture of more than 84 cultures and languages. so I think as u guys said even if u date Ethiopians also still there is some cultural difference that we have to accept it. however that doesn’t mean that we have to marry outside habesha because at the end the cultural difference that we have in between different ethnicitys can be very easy to catch up but it’s hard if u date outside our tiny map from east Africa. It’s hard to feed shero for ur partner 😂 Am very cultural influenced person so u may not like my opinion but you better stick with habesha so that you can eat shero and enjra. Just saying 😂 It’s very fantastic job overall keep it up.

[@kwameopoku3576]

Haylemareyam የጣናው then fuking meet new ppl n learn kmt open ur mind

[@mikreayenew7675]

We have a MAP not a culture???? We do have culture and a map! You are mixing apple and oranges! Meaning you have political agenda first and followed by erasing nationality.

[@zorroronnie]

Mikre Ayenew diaspora ethiopians cannot even communicate since they learn their ethnic language not national language. Just accept that ethiopians are difffent people culturally and in terms of language

[@VeraLarissa]

I am german and I love injera and shiro. It's my favorite dish and the only food I missed when I was in Spain for five months... If you are open minded you can learn sooo much from other cultures. I am dating an eritrean guy for almost two years now and our relationship is not always easy for both of us but at long last it's definitely nothing but a profit.

[@yonifirst9243]

none seance, we have more simillarity than differentes

[@DeyCallMeGeeza]

Excellent first video guys, keep it up :)

[@TalkHabeshaUk]

Thank you

[@hollybishu2613]

To speak to this, I actually intended to marry a habesha and that was where my mind was at. Then I met my husband and it changed. We connected so well and our values aligned (faith, goals, etc.) more than with any other man I’d ever met. And we got engaged and it was so exciting, but I still honestly had to mourn the loss of that, I guess, dream. Now, I feel like I’m blessed because my family totally accepts him and he LOVES Ethiopian culture. We even plan to live in Ethiopia for some time. There has been some hardship, but overall, it’s been good. It probably also helps that I married a white man who is very habesha by tsebhai (if y’all get what I mean). Let’s be real, habesha parents care what race you marry outside of the culture and white people are the most acceptable (from what I’ve heard, at least).

[@hollybishu2613]

GODESTINY sure are! My husband loves the Lord and loves me, and that’s what they really wanted so...

[@hollybishu2613]

Lu na yeah, totally!! There are prejudices in the previous generation towards non-Habesha Africans. Lots of Ethiopians honestly think they’re better than, say, Nigerians or Congolese or whatever other country in Africa. And they harbour the same prejudices against black folks in America/Canada. I find that there is a view that Ethiopians are just set apart. So i likely have it easier because when I married outside of the culture, I married a white person. Because of the lack of colonization (and other reasons), I think white is the most acceptable to a lot of Ethiopians if outside the culture.

[@BBGL02]

Girlll but you have to teach your kids your language and religion bc there isn‘t more gold worth than orthodox tewahedo 🙏🏽

[@yeshisew9457]

@@hollybishu2613 habesha parents dont prefer white people to other east africans tho.

[@bruck2723]

Bedwench alert!

[@LamdaAlpha65]

It is good to have confidence; but do not act as if you have endless partner choices! It takes two to tango. What made you think the so called "others with other cultures" would choose you as a partner? They may not even know you being out there. I think you are focusing on topics that takes you nowhere.

[@LamdaAlpha65]

!

[@kwameopoku3576]

True

[@alemzewdholsey248]

I understand our culture at the end you have to do what makes you happy letter you won’t be regret over all it your life no disrespect to Ethiopian parents I’m one of them💚💛❤️

[@summerwulsebo6147]

I saw on the comment how come there is no Eritrean in the group.i could ask how come there no Muslim in your grouo.Diversity brings you range of idea.

[@soulsessionsradio4234]

The things I find interesting is how here in the U.S they don't educate people on the diversity and awareness of other cultures in the U.K, Canada or even France...they place emphasis on these cultures just being caucasian....which is far from the case. Multiculturalism is everywhere.

[@hanna6778]

Interesting discussion. I agree that race does matter but should it be the deciding factor on who you should date or marry? After all, we derive layers of our identities from our race, class, religion, educational background, etc. but they all don't hold equal weight. I think it's a matter of figuring out what's more important to you. If you're born and raised in London, do you think you'll have an easier time sharing common values/perspective in life with a non-habesha from London or a Habesha in Ethiopia? Would you marry a non-Christian Habesha vs a Christian non-Habesha?

[@fruitsarelife148]

Yeah its very interesting. To me its just much easier to stick to habesha. I love my people and want to pass it down. Also im not the type of person to constantly explain things to others. 😂😂😂 I would love to just fly back to the country and the language, culture is not a barrier etc..

[@paulosmebrahtom5018]

Common values in relationship are irrelevant but race matters.

[@yannicktenekeunde3205]

I like that hi is a plesure an privilage to meet i wish to no more about you if you permit me thank

[@ml.thebeyene2687]

Who ever make you happy love it doesn’t have boundaries

[@Flashkiiddo]

loved the video & the idea 👍🏼, but you should work more on the sound quality.

[@ashtesera6949]

i think the boys are more lost in the middle of the sea. girls are so attached to there culture and heritage, as always, girls see things for long term as well immediate joy. i can see that the boys are going to be like Jamaican boys. my appreciation go to the girls

[@Jstar697]

Your very negative, you know nothing about the boys to judge them.

[@rezeneftwi6454]

Marry outside habesha is bad but u can date any race

[@howtotieatie5845]

Yes.

[@amelwerkgher2506]

when it is Habesha wz Habesha it makes amazing....u all should date each other...

[@icekitty400]

It's great to have Ephiopian and Eritrean people living in my city of which two are my closest friends. But do you have always cook for me whenever I come down to their house? 😂 God bless you all. 😊

[@fissehamengs5366]

My mom says if you are happy then I am happy

[@TalkHabeshaUk]

That is great, everyone is free to make their own decisions.

[@yannicktenekeunde3205]

Hi dear is a plesure to meet you how i wish to no more about you i am from cameroon

[@lucasfekadu7108]

Omds I loved it 😍💗

[@TalkHabeshaUk]

Really appreciate the love.

[@valerieshinia8526]

Am kenyan was dating an eritean my family was soo supportive of him: but his family nope esp his sister wanted him to date her bestfriend it was hard: the family said am black and am not eritean so it can never work unless I was eritean it hurts sooo bad ; but life must move on.

[@valerieshinia8526]

@አደዳይ ኣባይ ፩፫ really sad😭

[@howtotieatie5845]

@አደዳይ ኣባይ ፩፫ They prefer their own race.

[@frankgathers4174]

They just want to keep the prettiest women to themselves but we shalll get emmm😂😂. Jk

[@howtotieatie5845]

Love your own

[@theethiopianwolf5975]

habesha s shouldn't mix #east African love✊✊✊

[@Unaveragemoe]

As in Habashas shouldn't mix with other East Africans Like Eritrea Somalia Djbouti Kenya ect? Yea that's a fair statement East Africans don't tend really mix in the first place The only real mixes I have seen living in Ethiopia for a year is probably Somali Oromo Somali Tigray & in my case Somali Harari

[@theethiopianwolf5975]

@@Unaveragemoe why do somalis lie so much ? 😂😂 if you have lived in ethiopia you would have known how Ethiopians look down on ur people lol keep dreaming ✌

[@theethiopianwolf5975]

@@Unaveragemoe I'm not saying "all" Ethiopian but 99% of them don't mix WIZ zomalians your taking about the 1% thats in the oagden region plus haven't the oromos kicked y'all outta oagden 😂😂 dame you guys are true survivors lets see how long you gonna last ✌

[@Unaveragemoe]

@@theethiopianwolf5975 tbh as long as both are Muslims Somali don't mind marry them But yea youre not wrong in the fact that mostly Somalis don't like to marry out of their ethnicity not only that but their own clan Some Somalis don't marry from other Somali clans so you can't really expect them to go marry someone that's eating raw meat Ohh & no No one can take us out of our land Menlik II Hallie silasi Mingistu all tried & failed it's not an easy task to beat Somalis when it comes to battle as you probably know about the 1977 war between Somalia & Ethiopia probably the reason your parents instilled Somali hatred In you or maybe you got bullied by a Somali Lord knows but fear isn't a great emotion it makes you hate for no apparent reason I got love for all my Africans East Africans Its all love 😂😂😉

[@Unaveragemoe]

@@theethiopianwolf5975 ohh another thing Oromo are the closest thing to Somali so no your point is invalid That being said Oromo have been reported taking large chunks of Amhara land not only that they are bullying you lot in Addis Ababa 😂😂

[@cecelila5844]

I liked and subscribed! Yes to more videos!

[@chuasmare22]

For me as long as you speak Amharic no problem.

[@BLESSINGMARIEE]

Really interesting - love this!

[@TalkHabeshaUk]

Thank you, stay tuned for more videos.

[@ShalomAlem]

I think the environment in where you grow up also affects the way you may be a attracted to someone or even a group of people-maybe ?

[@ashu5958]

Great start guys

[@zhabesha3522]

One person is not interested on this topic OMG I can't focus on the video his reaction I love it tho

[@creativepicture2820]

Culture it would nt mater in real life challenges . personality matters the most but if you go dating someone who is quite diffrent from your mother land you have to accept the other culture that you bring to the table along with having the defense mechanism whenever you fail in some aspect concerning marriage, parents will try to pinpoint where does this come from . So I think its a bit more love related whenever you pick your soulmate. The newly generaion care less about culture .

[@Nico.Robin7]

Honestly I've never met a lot of Ethiopians in London.The only one i've met is my friend from uni. Lol Idk where you guys hide xD

[@livcbef1336]

In any Ethiopian or habesha bar/restaurants in Finsbary park station area, brixton area. Follow the habesha event' s organizators

[@howtotieatie5845]

Why do you want meet them ?

[@medhenalemu250]

Marriage is based on culture and religion. Simple...I don’t like mixd(dikala) only Ethiopian period

[@cheerytimber6048]

Basically dikala is when the father of the child is unknown. So you might want to know what you'r talking about mate

[@redsea334]

@@cheerytimber6048 Idoit Dikala means a (dikil or kilis) person or mixed person from an odd culture. That what we all call mixed foreigners Diqala.

[@cheerytimber6048]

@@redsea334 lol funny how i am full ethiopian benatem bebatem fuckoff

[@redsea334]

@@cheerytimber6048 Dedeb Yematewkewun quanqua atleflif Aheya !! Ante rasih Dikala wey wef zerash tihonaleh yachi shele enatih ezi eza sitil yatalechih likakit Ye buda zer.

[@cheerytimber6048]

@@redsea334 and which one is yealawkew kuwanka ... dmo ethiopia eyalehu dikala blen minterachew abatachew mytawekewin nw

[@semharita]

What I will say, my Eritrean family at first if my significant other was not of them same tribe was not accepting but only due to language and culture barriers. My husband now is black American but he took it upon him to educate and learn about the Eritrean culture and he is the first person to make sure my grandmother is comfortable and tries to learn what she likes and doesn’t like.

[@consciousawakening4799]

How is your marriage today?

[@fruitsarelife148]

If you find the one outside of your culture, then it's alright and good luck. But the amount in which habeshas date outside their race is exaggerated, they litteraly breed out the whole diaspora. No pride. Thousand years of habesha genetics gone.

[@hollybishu2613]

What genetics? Habesha LITERALLY means mixed.

[@eliran9231]

@@hollybishu2613 It means mixed but still there was a line of ancestry that continued for thousands of years in in between habeshas.

[@eliran9231]

@GODESTINY An ethiopian jew, not many of us are thought ethiopic languages from birth, we speak hebrew as our language.

[@fruitsarelife148]

@Wedi Misgun yes we are, but once we are not in our homeland we breed out in like 2 generations. That is mental weakness.

[@handdownmandown4567]

@@hollybishu2613 i think it means mixed as in mixed nation, like theres different people living in the country, but the people historically associated with being habesha(amhara,Tigrinya, etc.) have their own genetics, like on 23andme they can literally guess if you're habesha just by looking at your dna

[@peacewins3281]

It gets complicated ,in practice not good

[@callmeeyu]

Noice loving this congrats pomi

[@user-fe4pw1ww7m]

keep going u guys!

[@selamlehagery5718]

Ok 🤔 but we have lots of problems in Ethiopia right now, why not discuss that? Maybe an idea for your next video?

[@selamlehagery5718]

@@Jstar697 keep your hair on, its only a suggestion 😂

[@TalkHabeshaUk]

That's very true and we are aware of the different issues. We will try to cover as many topics as possible. Stay tuned.

[@selamlehagery5718]

@@TalkHabeshaUk wow can't believe you responded to me 😁 thank you, I've subscribed. Love and peace ✌

[@TalkHabeshaUk]

@@Jstar697 Thank you for sharing. We will all have a read.

[@meganhey2582]

Okay... and? There are problems in America but do you see KZbinrs discussing them? Like that's bullshit, it's their channel and their content. They shouldn't be defined by their country's problems wtf

[@tigrayfirst2261]

The UK patent want thier kid to marry an Ethiopian but Ethiopian parents who live in Ethiopia want their kids to marry from different countries special from the west.... just my observation

[@shire4life]

Here for the British accent 😐

[@twsswt]

I married an Ethiopian, Oromo sister. I actually lived in Addis for 3 years. Ethiopia has taught me so much and the culture will blow you away. I will warn you about one thing.....get to know your significant other and make sure she or he really loves you. I do hate that I can’t speak to her mother. She speaks Amarhic and Oromo. We know how important communication is. My father in law speaks good English.....so that’s cool! If you were to marry woman or man from Ethio, it would be best in my opinion to definitely visit the country and learn the depth of their lovely culture. I’m from L.A. Cali btw. and learn the word “Enday.” 😎

[@Haymanotsavedbygrace]

Endayyyyyyyyyy

[@Rainbow-bb5ef]

How can we contact you ? Can you send your website or link.. thank you

[@thomass5128]

hey I like your channel, great to watch it! funny that this video has the most clicks :) why is your channel called "Talk Habesha" ?

[@selamfe1541]

Sound system is not good. I can’t hear most off it.

[@0505449553]

Could somebody tell me the most popular channel in Ethiopia??

[@hailehaile3090]

Habsha love only. Keep it cultural

[@giftofgodstarnorth6363]

habeshas are very nice. I think we need to bridge the gap between as African culturally and unite because i think there is a lot we can learn from each other. I think all women from Africa are beautiful and we can enjoy the different aspect of our women and culture.

[@Liya653]

No

[@prodbyseiyun]

@@Liya653 no to what ?

[@bethsene9129]

Habeshas with British accent...cute cute!

[@redoneberhe1817]

We out here

[@kalif3056]

Sooo funny omgg😂😂😂😂

[@twinkitten1]

Well caribbean people are so mixed up we find it hard sometimes knowing where we originated, we know we are of African linkage but our African culture it is lost, I'm from barbados, #rihannahomeland

[@redsea334]

then create your own culture.

[@brandonloudermilk2430]

I love this black life

[@privatemail1428]

As long they marry christen then that finny

[@beyhivelavigne4800]

@Sudan Nutella lol I'm a habesha girl and dating outside your race doesn't mean self-hatred. I'm so proud to be Eritrean and I always promote my culture, but when it comes to marriage I think you just have to be connected to the person regardless of their race .

[@beyhivelavigne4800]

@Sudan Nutella I'm so confused are you habesha?

[@beyhivelavigne4800]

@Sudan Nutella some of the women don't want habesha men cause most habesha men (not all ) are controlling and show no love and respect to their wives speaking from what I have seen personally. Dating outside my race doesn't make me less habesha than anyone else .whether I'm marrying a habesha or not my kids are gonna speak my language and they're gonna learn about the Eritrean culture regardless.

[@beyhivelavigne4800]

@Sudan Nutella so if you're not habesha why do you care writing paragraphs and shit clearly you know nothing about us the shit that we go through , just because you grew up with habesha doesnt mean you are educated enough about or culture. Last thing I need is a non habesha guy to tell me who to date . Foh

[@beyhivelavigne4800]

@Sudan Nutella again I'm gonna repeat it you don't know shit about us dont let the things you see online fool you .

[@Meronzed]

Since when did rich the kid been habesha

[@maznaabukar3026]

I’m dating habasha/Eritrean guy same religion but different culture but I’m Somali Will your his family accept it We have so much similarities in culture

[@shacabweynaha801]

😂😂😂🤭 u are dating ethiopian man.ufff

[@maznaabukar3026]

@@shacabweynaha801 noo now I’m in love Somali

[@theduke6174]

American Habesha are more open to dating out than UK Habesha, thats what I've observed

[@lucybelay9153]

You guys know the fact that marriage by itself has its own challenges and when you cross a culture and married you will add to your challenges. As long us you ready and committed to work it out with your differences, just marry a person whom you love. Don’t worry about the rest. It takes a committed couples for a marriage to stay last.

[@MrTruth98]

In Orthodox religion it is big crime to marry outside your faith.

[@0505449553]

I need a lot information about Ethiopia 🇪🇹 Who could help me ?!

[@AEdavirgin]

My opinion is your wife should be Ethiopian but your side chick should be outside the culture.

[@jonashabte4747]

I'm habesha but I'm into white girls

[@Tashaten]

White people...I mean.

[@Mesfin887]

Sorry to say this but everyone is free however I’m against the interracial marriage . I don’t know it could be good but preserving culture is good as well .

[@IStyle714]

Ayy Natanim am single 😍

[@lilystargem]

Girl on the front has the DEADDEST side parted wig I’ve ever seeen 😭😩

[@TalkHabeshaUk]

Lily W Proud to say all the girls in the video have their natural hair. Thank you very much.

[@koriewilliams7076]

so basically, it is frowned upon to date a black American.

[@josef6258]

I love you all. Keep it up nice

[@user-qr8pb6vd6k]

Good job guys keep going

[@TalkHabeshaUk]

Thank you

[@bilienmhasion9411]

my people lovely. good job.

[@TalkHabeshaUk]

Thank you

[@manewalew2845]

What is it's importance having this from Westerns it's not dating it's fornication and adultery no date it's fake name to do sin I don't agree with it but still am sinner and please share good stuff's for yr people

[@asterkidane2328]

We are not understanding your. British ascent may be the British people will understand you

[@breyannacarter54]

I don’t think habesha men really wanna marry in the culture.. 🤷🏾‍♀️💃🏾

[@ketzergaw2593]

Ladies and gentlemen, please speak Amharic too.

[@user-qd1wd9ij1s]

Ket Zergaw አይችሉም

[@alemat897]

Very interesting like it

[@krazywu]

what about religion?

[@Rainbow-bb5ef]

It's looks like.... your own dating

[@TheOkraNetwork]

Many I've met in Ethiopia aren't as strict when it comes to dating outside of their culture though, from my experience. Sure, ideally you'd want someone of privilege in your ethnicity but bring the right personality and have other things to offer (a good job, money, love, etc.) and the conversation changes a bit.

[@patrickngolu2221]

Ivan I always prefer my West african women to those ones. West african women soo good for us.

[@birdsview2785]

Bruuuh in black long sleeve shirt with the braids to the lower bottom right , look in like he don't give a da#$n what y'all talk in about or date who out of his culture😒😒 ,he just tryin get back to the house😂😂😂😂😂😂😂.Forget what y'all talk in about right know😒😒.Real brotha.A , Its all good brutha 👊🏿😊.

[@yetu0983]

እዋይ!!!! ምንድነው ጫጫታ? i like this channel it is interesting keep it up i am with u

[@yannicktenekeunde3205]

Hi dear is a plesure to meet you i wish to no you beter if you permit me thank God i wish to meet an ethiopian lady for serious reletionphip