Talk Habesha - Dating & Relationships

Brought to you by Talk Habesha! In this one we discuss our individual dating experiences, cultural differences that exist within the dating sphere, age preferences and much more! The shahi was definitely hot for this one, so don’t forget to comment below what you think!
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[@ethiopiangirltravels]

holymoly Ethiopians speaking in a British accent ......23 and this is my first time experiencing this woah.... LIFE IS DOPE.

[@yonathankebede9694]

Yeah I know its freaking me out

[@yemiartventures5806]

same shocked reaction over here😮😮... I love your british accents, damn!!😄

[@TG-ox6kd]

This topic is sooo important to address! I'm glued to my culture even though I grew up in Canada (still have alot of learningto); It's really about interest! Never forget your roots. Eh elelelelel for our culture 💚💛❤

[@ananias-]

Tigest Nigatu 😊😊😊😊🙏eleleeeee

[@binyammahari1194]

these guys are so confused about the idea and mindset of love. love does not come from nowhere, you the one that build love with the person you want to build with. if you really want a habesha man, set yourself to find a habesha man. go to habesha gathering, event and celebration, you will find tons of habesha man that are glad and willing to find habesha woman. talk to them, be friend with them and create honesty and mutual and common interest with them, after these are the source of love, that is where love comes from. love is not an object or something that comes to you suddenly or randomly, it is you who build love with the person you want to build it with. it requires desire and dedication to accomplish something that is so essential to your life. good luck from eritrean guy!!

[@african8846]

I kissed 4 diffident country gils I married the one only habesha now

[@dtdcharity]

I love this

[@dtdcharity]

How would you describe meeting someone for the first time and you cant stop thinking about them?

[@binyammahari1194]

@@dtdcharity how did he get you to love him to the extent? facial feature should not be the one that makes fall in love with the person.

[@mickyyimerb]

@@dtdcharity infatuation not love

[@Oneofakind49]

I'm not Habesha, I'm Somali but this is A1 content. This whole channel is fire!!

[@MrBezagreen]

Its crazy how habesha people from all around the world act alike. I''m from America but I feel like I could have sat in on this conversation.

[@jacobgetachew1241]

Beza Getahun that’s facts I’m from Australia and feel the same

[@MeronAddis]

Love it, this was loads of fun and interesting to hear all our different perspectives!

[@marakiabiy126]

Love what you guys are doing! So interesting 👍🏽 Proud to be in the habesha community 💕

[@livcbef1336]

Because I'm habesha, I want to create a habesha family, so I looking just for the habesha women and so trought my habesha family, in our small try to support a movment to improve my habesha community in my city and so back home.

[@howtotieatie5845]

Yeah, we need to work hard on that.

[@bezawitmengistu7923]

Habesha tinder would be helpful hhahah

[@christiannewaye7306]

its called jebena

[@chernetful]

literally speaking the crew is so lovable and the topic is a timely issue to discuss. you guys are really #cute#Amalay

[@AEdavirgin]

Relationships are the school of life so I would say people should go out and gain experiences from different people. Dating outside is a great thing for gaining completely different perspective about the world.

[@tlemlem]

You guys are beautiful, wise, young, and matured God children! 🙏🏽😍 I’m sure your parents will be happy if you end up on good hands and taking care of yourself! These are the things all “ habesha!” Families wishes for our children!😍 anyway, I see my daughter and my son from now in the future 10/15 years in your life experiences. So I’m very happy to follow your program and learn about my future teens and young adults!:) Please put out some videos so I can understands my first generation EthioAmerican / African American children dates and life journeys! Anyway, thank you and God bless you all and stay smart and beautiful like your people!🙏🏽😍👍🏽#💚💛❤️

[@king-yq5xj]

honest discussion! thank you and keep up with job well done

[@indigobeauty1]

Classy discussion! Loved it 💛💛💛

[@abbelnichola3792]

I am 100% Habesha like you guys. I love you so much for representing my roots .👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍✌ Yo'all have unique personality

[@grandmasteryoda4943]

Sorry Elsie, but I don’t see the correlation between “being modern” and “dating outside your race.” The preservation of our Ethiopian Identity should be something to instill in the younger Ethiopian generation as opposed to relaying the message that love of self “doesn’t matter.”

[@mikelary6071]

BINGO. Bc our identites will be lost as soon as we mix. Weaker genes.

[@DeyCallMeGeeza]

I have sooooooo much to say on this topic, but I'll only highlight what I feel is an important point when it comes to the whole idea behind dating and relationships. I have been guilty in the past where I've said that when it comes to dating or marriage in the end, that its got to be strictly with a habesha person/within the culture. I'm glad to say that my mentality has changed because I've started to realise that in life, its going to be hard regardless of what you're doing (regarding the future), and you shouldn't over complicate life by doing things, such as limiting your options, my advice is always try to look for someone who will always support you and love you for who you are and what you do. If said person is habesha, then thats a big W :) I really loved everyones stories and I can sense that they've all got a good head on their shoulders, and clearly know what they're after. Also, intro/outro song is such a good choice 💪🏾❤️ Love, peace and Eskista x

[@AdenBae]

The Loudest Ethiopian 🙌🏽

[@michellesingleton8344]

Beautifully said.

[@libyawedisabe5680]

It's good to be open but the other party will or will not accept you 100 percen , Ethiopian girls have to give the Ethiopian guy a chance don't go and experience other guys then come bk to the habesha guy when u get dump just get lost n don't come back.

[@melakbiazin7704]

You guys raise the very important issue specially for habeshas who live abroad and discuss with maturity based on logical reasoning.I apreciate that and I Share your opinions but dating habesha is the first and most important and dating others must be the last option

[@risack8640]

You are all mature and articulate in your opinions, I like that. U earned my subscription now ;)

[@AdenBae]

This was a great topic! My parents never had that talk with me about dating and relationships, so they were a little shocked when I dated a non habesha. Fast forward to today, my husband is non habesha. I think it was more important in the end that the person you are with is respectful of your family and your culture, and they are willing to learn and be open minded. My husband can now speak Amharic and even dances eskista 🤣 GREAT VIDEO!!!

[@hpclick8744]

I guess you got married to Orange, am I right?

[@TalkHabeshaUk]

@AdenBae thank you for your comment and sharing your story with us. It’s really nice to hear.

[@martinmazivisa1326]

I want to learn ahmeric language I don't know how to go about it,i was to invest in your country and probably remarry there,how can I go about it,I don't want language to be a great barrier during my hunt

[@mayajohnson2677]

Actual gems 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍🇪🇹✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨

[@awetkiros9442]

it's good to see you guys

[@yohannes7677]

I don't know about the U.K. but here in the states, we don't really date each other cause growing up we are constantly told that we are 2nd or 3rd cousins and that mindset stays with you for a long time trust me lol... I honestly don't see habeshan women in that kinda way cause I can't help but look at them as a sister or a cousin...

[@AdenBae]

Moses T truth! Everyone is your “cousin”

[@yohannes7677]

@@AdenBae I can't even fly across the entire country to the west coast without still being introduced by my parents to long lost cousins twice removed lol

[@fruitsarelife148]

@@yohannes7677 😂😂😂I have ten cousins from my father's side only, and of course the whole habesha diaspora

[@yohannes7677]

@lobsterbale Legesse Just because we (the younger generation) don't do it doesn't mean it's not practised in Ethiopia, 1st cousins is a big no but 2nd cousins are up for grabs lol

[@roadrunna0075]

Moses T Because habeshas are heavily inbred.

[@jordanmeko]

Looooove this video! ❤️❤️

[@samahf1669]

Habesha girls want to date habesha man after they have done dating,then they want to marry good habesha man. Habesha man say next!

[@danielmekonen6031]

Sam Ahf hahahahah

[@christianoronald6110]

True. My friends always say that.

[@chuasmare22]

😂 😂

[@redfill68]

They can stay on the streeeets

[@cecelila5844]

Keep up the good work!

[@bamlaknegash1510]

A very important topic. Thanks for covering it👍

[@ermiaskibrom7546]

It is good guys.you have better information about habesha specially those who are new comers .they need every thing but hard to do to them

[@fruitsarelife148]

Everybody is so happy in the comments that dating out is accepted 😂😂

[@HeyHels]

Looooovee it!

[@Lqemhgawi]

Helen Haile u killed it the show 😂👍

[@ourland44]

Love u helen keep it up

[@vivilala9115]

ኣምሐረይቲ ዲያ ኣዴኺ ኣቲ ህበይ ዋሒድ

[@danielmekonen6031]

Vivi Lala what's wrong? Ir u understand everything negative?

[@eritreanhabesha2095]

I could not believe my ear that you date amharay. Ati torserawit kabi lomi unsabscribe gereki aleku hibey

[@ashu5958]

Great discussion!!! But you need to work on the camera so we can see you guys very close.

[@efremmogos2952]

Really good discussion, There is a lot of habesha boys starting from me kkkkk but I think there isn't any specific meeting place or website to connect us.

[@TalkHabeshaUk]

Efrem Mogos it would be a really good idea for someone to do

[@kamalfozan9839]

Love habesha, from Arabia. We a lot of history and shared culture.

[@dianat8536]

Same energy as the Champions shirt guy, what’s the point of an relationship in such a young age.

[@e.f.aethiopianfilmassociat3350]

Hey guys I’m currently working on a film script about dating outside of your culture or what not and it was quite interesting seeing you guys discussing about that so I wanted to ask a question if you guys are willing to answer. Is loving, sweet talking, or romances sexier in a Amharic ? I mean do u find it appealing,sweet rather easy to express your feeling?

[@michellesingleton8344]

Enjoy life.Whoever you marry always have respect in understanding.In be good to each other.Life is short .

[@TalkHabeshaUk]

Michelle Singleton thank you for your comment

[@mickeyghebremeskel9750]

Girl 13:53 “ I would love to date Habesha people but I don’t know where to find them”. 😂 😂

[@binyammahari1194]

these people give give mixed ideas on dating subject. if she does not set herself to find habesha man she will never find any. habesha are everywhere in the world but not in her miidle school. lol

[@user-gt5qi2kb7r]

Nice vid guys! Interesting topics :)

[@TalkHabeshaUk]

Fabienne Malkinson thank you for your support. If there’s any topics you feel we should cover please let us know.

[@user-gt5qi2kb7r]

Talk Habesha Ooo food will be a good one!

[@awulogson]

I love it From Ethiopia

[@Aisha-xt1ui]

Love thisssss

[@123lebornjames]

why you all look like you came from the village here and on your insta you all on a different level ? anyway i enjoy your content look forward to more

[@yonifirst9243]

Its very great show , thank you for you courage ..

[@TalkHabeshaUk]

Realself -core thank you for your support

[@benmsgna3472]

I really like this video well done guys

[@kassagetu408]

love it great topic

[@bossmanjr7934]

Well done

[@42empress]

Love it great Topics, interesting people, very knowledgable , Gosh you are also intertaining to say the least , which you could get older folks to be a party to your discussion . One Love to you all. 42Empress.

[@tekilenotekileno5647]

Thank Helen you respect your culture.

[@bichegnaw_yebichenaw05]

you Guys are a wonderful team... i have watched every single episode of ur video....i want to join you

[@salisvlog45]

Its nice guys specially for those who are outside of Ethiopia

[@medicalquizbank1]

Don't y'all think its kinda weird to hav habesha Tinder!! We all are cousins afterall!! And its gonna be like...our parents be joining just to findout how pervert we are!! Lolll 😂 Am looking forward to it tho! 🙌

[@robelkahsay4111]

Love u guys

[@ProudlyETHIOPIAN]

Rophnan will be like “my generation”

[@treycampbell3533]

The girl to the right of the guy with the hat, the girl to the left of the same guy and the girl at the end with the braids, they my type, beautiful girls, fr.

[@gersamb4548]

You all nice guys, habesha habesha

[@hailehaile3090]

HABSHA LOVE only!!

[@Jafar.Jamal-175]

If a Habasha girl dates a West African her value goes down dramatically in the Ethiopian community Habasha men won't go near her.

[@elshadaiabrham9787]

Umm no, who told you this? And are you even habesha?

[@Jafar.Jamal-175]

@@elshadaiabrham9787 Umm yes, it's true habasha parents will always tell their son not to consider her because she's been with a barah. this is very common I don't know why you mad.

[@elshadaiabrham9787]

@@Jafar.Jamal-175 yea that’s literally older generation, most habesha teenage guys in this generation don’t think that way

[@Jafar.Jamal-175]

@@elshadaiabrham9787 Yes we do think that way, they just don't tell you to your face.

[@howtotieatie5845]

@@elshadaiabrham9787 That's true, she will be isolated.

[@keyakeya2199]

ምንም አልገባኝም እንዳልሰማችሁ አክሰንታችሁ ግራ ይገባል ትንሽ የማቃትን እንግሊዝኛ ነው ያጠፋችሁብኝ የምን ሀገር ቋንቋ ነው

[@siyacanada2998]

Ye British accent new Awo yikebidal tinishii

[@keyakeya2199]

@@siyacanada2998 ዋው ሁሉን ነገር በውስጣቸው ነው የሚያወሩት አመሰግናለሁ

[@seragena1539]

keya keya 😀😂😃

[@user-mj3mg3gf3b]

ክክክክ

[@muller19961]

I think that will be cool idea

[@isaiahkenny3544]

7:34 y'all had me rollin 😂 😭 😂🤣😂😂 yes they from Spain!

[@lidyahabte8431]

Helen Habtey 🌹

[@AnidBirr]

​@UC5IQRrdl8__C2a5wJwiEJWw channel is growing rapidly!🎉 Happy for you. God is using you in so many ways to touch lives!🙏🏾❤️

[@fruitsarelife148]

👍interesting

[@supremejo5859]

i love your accents

[@icekitty400]

I think one of the nicest compliments Ive had from a person was from my Ephiopian friend (Hana) when she said I'm like her people. I'm of Italian decent. 😊

[@darin2502]

Hey guys-;)) it was a good topic but you have to be very skilful in bringing it not easy atmosphere as well as, example as you are putting in space and against each other asking the question should not be too personal otherwise perfect keep going guys👍👍 much more love Ethio ❤

[@bonhammbenza4300]

shit maya is hella lit seriously summery wooo!

[@peace8494]

If you are speaking Amharic I’m not consider this video as Habesha because language is important to say I’m Habesha

[@solomoncomedy7332]

you the boys have you ever date any African girls ? be side habasha girl ? and how long did you stayed in the relation ship ? the girls have you ever want to date habasha guys born and grow Ethiopia ?

[@mtagsewgaalweonelove6882]

❤👏👏well all

[@isaiahkenny3544]

Much love to.my Falashas of.the East from your brother of the Falashas of the West

[@firewayele4154]

goood...But may be if it has a subtitle..that would be more good

[@giftofgodstarnorth6363]

habeshas are very nice. I think we need to bridge the gap between as African culturally and unite because i think there is a lot we can learn from each other. I think all women from Africa are beautiful and we can enjoy the different aspect of our women and culture.

[@howtotieatie5845]

What do you mean ?

[@osazuwaogbeide1540]

@@howtotieatie5845 the only self hater is you you need to fix your country war

[@Axiom61]

@@howtotieatie5845 what he wrote is clear

[@mikelary6071]

I get what hes trying to say but the only problem is that if mix then theres no more habesha. Imagine if everyone did it.

[@andersr8341]

Can you guys do the ethnicity tag each :)

[@TalkHabeshaUk]

F R thank you for your video idea. We would love to do this video at some point. Stay tuned

[@shire4life]

I just love their accent😊

[@supremejo5859]

it is amazing isn't it

[@astrophotos8368]

@@supremejo5859 no

[@zewisdom4822]

I LIKE the way you are. But try to address Amharic speaker habeshan aswell, like the one living in arabian peninsula and also individuals fron USA may not understand your beautyful accent I like. I live in NI I have awkward accent but I love it.

[@samt8883]

💕 nate

[@tiruworktesfaye1782]

Who’s here for the accent? 😂

[@marakiabiy126]

Everyone 😂😂

[@Sage1821]

I'd like to be the nim in Natanim 😍

[@dianat8536]

It’s so true it’s so hard to find habesha guys!! Where are they?

[@godislove1056]

Diana T everywhere 🤣🤣

[@melbee5767]

in DC metro area of the USA. black American girl...marries to habesha guy ...I'm so happy with him and he with me. I make a point to learn his culture..our child will definitely speak Amharic and hopefully a bit of wolayta

[@abduhaj8481]

Just l lovely Eritrean people

[@ZjLOopy]

Hey Meron... So charming...

[@hekoncheay6651]

gays if want to meet habesa you have to speak the language and one thing you have to now the original habesa

[@mavbagu6205]

Satamaruu enaaye wudoochii

[@cleopatra6614]

I’ve never seen a second generation habesha couple. Why don’t y’all marry each other?

[@frita7992]

what? I know 7 sec-gen couples that were married just this past year.

[@abicutz]

I need to learn amharic nd tigreiga so that I can pull up on ma Brown thing u get me elsa Sara mili haregu kedish actually sorry about de last 2 names 😂😂 but trust me they r de gd 1ns

[@samsonermias6303]

Lol Habesha next generation is finished , especially for Eritreans the majority of the population is living abroad and if the majority of them have the same opinion as those on the video we are finished 🙈

[@christiannewaye7306]

Samson Ermias what you mean?

[@pride7416]

@@christiannewaye7306 everyone race mixxing

[@christiannewaye7306]

pride as a person living in diaspora it’s feels bad

[@dokorobia8713]

I am a random Nigerian and I find this all funny. If many other people spoke the way you did about marriage, they would be called racists. I completely understand wanting to date your own people in general but wanting *others* to date their own people exclusively is honestly selfish. Yet you seem to be more fine dating white people than other black Africans...then you say it’s self hate to marry outside..

[@christiannewaye7306]

D oko Who exactly are you even talking too?

[@haleluyaalex1617]

I don't need any lesson I know what I want and like

[@FunTechandMore]

Who is dating... Only Helen raises her hand lol^^lol come on everyone knows what means dating. Like in what time are we living lol.

[@rezenarezena1612]

🙏🏻

[@maxlilly7961]

It's my opinion. I don't see the reason why an Etiopian can't marry another race. As Bob Marley song, :"one heart one love lets get together and feel alright "

[@tewodrosalemneh5389]

Nate is good expiration about you and ethiopia on your,s closth with god.

[@messimessi1400]

Nate I like you 😘😘

[@giftofgodstarnorth6363]

I was never too aware of habesha in the uk. Not been rude but if i saw a habesha i would think they are mixed race. Not been able to differentiate am sorry to say, its sad but that how they came across.

[@howtotieatie5845]

We are working our best not to marry out of our people, so it doesn't matter for you if we are mixed or not.

[@ado-tabe3324]

By the way I am a man and 28 year old I really love your discussion and looking for ward to date Habesha girl from your community.

[@howtotieatie5845]

Are you habesha ?

[@ado-tabe3324]

@@howtotieatie5845 Yes I AM

[@bilengeb593]

Good topic but you guy need to spike you on language ( Amrich )

[@nanyetata8071]

Yene mikir Haymanotega kehonacoh, zeracoh melikacoh, bahilacoh, endiketil lemitifeligo ke ahono kom bilacoh esebo bay neg! Ene nech agibiche new yeminorew, fikir be mikniyatoch yigedeb kemilotm ayidelehom !

[@meronmeron5583]

The lost sheeps. but apologies in advance!

[@melski50]

Can somebody tell me why it’s difficult for a habesha girl to find her man 👨🏾?

[@loveandfaithfulness4479]

wisdom and discretion based on the Word of God is more beautiful than what’s on the outside! A heart that loves the Lord. Value inner beauty not outer beauty, External beauty will fade, We all know that our physical bodies erode and deteriorate over time-but inwardly, we are daily renewed through the life-giving Word of Christ. each day our inner beauty can blossom. The Bible says that our focus doesn’t need to be our external appearance, but instead we need to focus on having a quiet and gentle spirit. And When you look to find a spouse, look for someone who strives to seek God in all they do. Cultural norms and traditions come and go, But the Word of the Lord endures forever. Early in the relationship connection, express your desire to avoid premarital sex. When you express your desire to want to honor God with your sexuality before marriage, this won’t be a shock to a real Christian. That is just a basic biblical command all true Christians must follow. But if you say this to someone who is just pretending to obey the Bible, they will leave you quickly because they will not be willing to wait until marriage for sex. Someone can deceive you with words. But when you see their obedience to the Lord that matches their words, then you know they are trustworthy. They need to be visibly producing the fruits of the Spirit because this is a mark of a true Christian. Anyone can claim to be a Christian. And we can’t know someone’s heart. So the Bible says we are to evaluate people by their actions. Christians will not be perfect, but they will be bearing fruit that is evidence of their true salvation. Hebrews 13:4 Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge."

[@nanyetata8071]

Ye Nate selamta melikit tilik new, ye Ethiopia amilak🙏🙏🙏

[@berekethadgu8403]

We have different story we are just nebours with Ethiopia like other countries in Africa

[@howtotieatie5845]

We are the same and I am Eritrean.

[@ashtesera6949]

watching your video,i could predict that habesha diaspora in western country will be lost. and they will end up with mixed heritage and end up identity crises or lost in the host dominant community culture.being modern ,doesn't mean, you can date and get married out side of your race. it means stick your own race and culture. take example of Jewish community,Asian community. are they not modern???? i think habesha community has a totally wrong concepts of being modern. judging from this video and the trend i observing in my city, habesha people will be end up like JAMAICAN people. you will feel the pain after many years later. mixed heritage,belongs to nobody. is just like a man in island.

[@ephemeraljaunt]

@do you like pizza? cuz I want a pizza dat ass the difference is that there are 1 billion other Asians that dont

[@howtotieatie5845]

@@osazuwaogbeide1540 Nigerian selfhater, We don't want mix with you guys.

[@howtotieatie5845]

@@osazuwaogbeide1540 no problem we will fix it, Fix your problems with boko haram first, How much do you hate your big wide nose ? How much do you hate your beautiful black skin ?

[@osazuwaogbeide1540]

@@howtotieatie5845 seem like you cant fix the war happening in shithopia that been going on for two years. Self hate seem like you are jealous that Bantu make up the largest group in Africa. There loads of Ethiopians are Eritreans with characters you described

[@howtotieatie5845]

@@osazuwaogbeide1540 A bunch of 🦓🦓 Are the largest group.