talking about our age gap while we dye my grey hair ♥️

[@J.N.B801]

4 years is not a lot and you guys were full fledged adults at the time when you met it’s not like he was 18-22

[@LiliannaWilde]

that's what I think too!! that the same age gap is so different at 24-29 vs something like 16-20 which wouldn't be okay

[@J.N.B801]

@@LiliannaWilde right!!

[@beabunny.]

It’s really not a crazy age gap, people are just rude bcs society views slightly older women as unworthy for some reason. You guys are a beautiful couple 💜

[@LiliannaWilde]

Exactly!! like if he was the one 4 years older nobody would care

[@shamar777]

4-5 years isn’t a lot. I consider true age gaps when it’s closer to 10 or more years, maybe starting at 7-9 years depending on the people. I would imagine that a 5 year age gap may feel like a lot if the people are at vastly different places in their life. I think I felt age gaps like that when I was a teen or in my early 20s, but when you get into your later 20s it’s less obvious. I think the people saying that to you are likely really young. If you didn’t say anything, I wouldn’t have known. You two are cute together 💜💜

[@renzavala3376]

I loved all of this! From sharing about the hair to your relationship 😌🤗🤗🤗🤗😊✨💗☝️😌🌅🌼💖

[@LiliannaWilde]

thank you!!! ☺️

[@KOKOKOKfjeij]

i think this is just a case of children run amok on the internet and spreading really juvenile opinions. a 4 year age difference is very normal/common and i couldn't tell who was older

[@LiliannaWilde]

I think its totally normal to! sometimes comments just get in my head but im trying not to let them :) and we met at the same stage in life so I feel like that makes the age gap even less

[@jessierose5319]

4 to 5’s is nothing. I know so many who are 8-12 years apart. However, sadly I’m aware that society will always be crueler if the woman is older and normalize it if the man is older.

[@LiliannaWilde]

exactly! like if he was 29 and I was 25 nobody would even think about saying anything

[@vatsalamansharamani1410]

I am 28 and have grays too but I absolutely love them. 🤭 I am just glad you are doing what you really want to do!!

[@LiliannaWilde]

@@vatsalamansharamani1410 I’m trying to learn to love them! just not quite there yet, I recently at least switched to the semi permanent hair dye instead of permanent so that when I do fall in love with the grey, it will be easier to blend

[@TarynRMartin]

I’m 35 and am still just hanging out with my random greys, which are aggressively silver against my dark mane. 😎

[@vatsalamansharamani1410]

@@LiliannaWilde ohh you are doing greattt as it is. I am sure you will also come to love them in time! 💗

[@vatsalamansharamani1410]

@@TarynRMartin hahhaha, yess even my streak of gray hair are just bundled together and shine against my other black hair! 😂

[@TarynRMartin]

@@vatsalamansharamani1410 Are yours all placed together in a single streak (like Michelle Visage?) Mine are just randomly dispersed throughout, which is so much less interesting.

[@christinamarten9840]

❤

[@Agoncor]

Thanks for sharing. 😂

[@LiliannaWilde]

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