Early Signs You're DATING a Narcissist You Don't Want to Ignore

[@tamiemjoyce]

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[@garysmith7137]

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[@tamiemjoyce]

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[@caroledorr463]

So, I have a different slant. I’m rather old (77) so I meet widowers. Long term marriages! So you think this is a sign this is a good person.The last two checked every box on your list. Especially lack of boundaries. I came away quite disgusted, and sure they shortened their wives lives. A kind of murder that you can’t prosecute. Your work is outstanding.

[@Kellers-Ma]

You definitely hit _all_ the signs. And it's sad that they don't ever seem to change. No matter how much you love & care for them... you just can't fix or stop them from being themselves.

[@kidrosskidrossproductions2906]

It really is sad.. i tried so hard to help and fix her but then you realize they don’t want help and don’t want to be fixed .. they don’t think there’s anything wrong with them selves and think you’re the one that’s crazy and need help ..

[@JanetNewnes]

I was always made to feel “not enough”. I didn’t know what that was and didn’t understand it. I finally learned about narcissists and realized that’s what I was dealing with. Been NC for 2 years now!

[@voncellcardenas7181]

I have a covert narcissist. You are spot on. I'm trying to break free as you are speaking. I'm days clear.

[@garysmith7137]

This info is so right but not just intimate but in so-called friendships

[@flz_5848]

There's a lot you can tell about a person by the way they talk about people who aren't in the room 😌

[@hannahshmulsky7119]

I went through at least three of these relationships/situationships and these are all very on point. It’d be a short period of boundless adoration, followed by a cold snap and eventually rejection altogether. I met these guys after a 5 year relationship with someone who pretended to want to settle down with me, so when the love bombs dropped I ate them up against my better judgment. I was trying to recreate a faux fairytale and I got burned. 😅 Now that I’ve spent two full years single, no attachments, I think I finally realize that I can’t take shortcuts in relationship building. If a guy pushes to move too fast, immediately starts telling me all about how wonderful I am, I feel vaguely repulsed. Solitude is far preferable to a charlatan who makes me feel worthless!

[@beegirl8884]

Amen sister!!! Can’t put a price on our personal autonomy & peace.

[@Carol-lynnMulcahy]

Lots of hindsight. Very much like this in beginning. I've pieced this together over the years. And that's my realization. Taking care going forward. And will find my voice ❤

[@vdl3984]

It' s crazy how some of those things are encouraged when you learn about game and seduction. Making feel like the other person has to mesure up, making them feel insecure, providing them with intense emotional experiences, etc.

[@tamiemjoyce]

This is why you want to be very careful who you're taking advice from.

[@judithargitay9860]

I'm so grateful I found your channel. I live very far (in Hungary), but narcs and narc abuse are everywhere, sadly. Being the daughter of a narcissist father, even after years of therapy and educating myself on the topic, at the age of 50 I'm still not feeling safe from them. My last "try" at least was short, after two months I woke up and dumped my date. He was a covert one, and besides all the other red flags, initially he showed himself extremely supportive in his deeds as well. I told him that I had gone through 2 surgeries a year prior to prevent cervical cancer (caused by HPV), and it was essential for me not to catch the virus again. The next day he said he'd asked for an appointment to test himself for HPV "to make sure he'd not cause harm to me in any way". This may sound nice, but we were less than 2 weeks into dating and I was not even prepared to go sexual with him. But after this "grand gesture" of his I felt kind of obligated to have sex with him once his negative result arrived. Now I know it was pure manipulation, but I'm still baffled how "creative" they can be in their manipulative ways to lure you in.

[@sarahfishman1175]

That's pure coercion he used in you , the fact that he had decided to get tested was a for gone conclusion that ( without you knowledge or say so ) you were to have sex , outrageous behavior. It really tricky to have a relationship when you don't want sex at the end of it whether it be because of your surgery or not . I wish you well and never give in to their demands just because they decide . Xx

[@velvetgardenia]

Oh yes, the data mining...building their information arsenal to leverage at a later date. Meanwhile, they may say they are "private," when they are actually withholding any information about themselves that might give you valuable insight into just who this chameleon IS.

[@hannahshmulsky7119]

I remember the data mining! Just met the guy and I felt like I was in the middle of a pretty damn successful job interview…😅

[@MeCynthiaAnn]

Thank you sooooo much for your detailed videos. They are ALWAYS very helpful. From JANESVILLE, WISCONSIN USA

[@jamiesmith6260]

This is spot on 💯

[@bettejanowicz5799]

Another great video!! I have learned so much from you !!

[@mymiracle79]

Excellent advice!!!!

[@IzabelaWaniek-i1x]

Thank you for brilliant advice Tamie😊 God bless you❤

[@tamiemjoyce]

You're welcome! Thanks for watching!!

[@deborahbloem1325]

Thank you for sharing Tamie, your video's, lessons are the best!

[@tamiemjoyce]

Hey, Deborah! You're so welcome! Thanks for tuning in!!

[@WillyNillyBaptistBilly]

Shared on my facebook thanks

[@JanetNewnes]

He talked about all his exes which I thought was weird. He also spoke to them a lot which I thought was even weirder. I told him an ex is an ex for a reason! Good riddance!!

[@bernicesmith4126]

Does your star sign make a difference?

[@tamiemjoyce]

No.