the ultimate guide to situationships...

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Tam Kaur

Tam Kaur

Күн бұрын

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@journeytoyou.podcast
@journeytoyou.podcast 3 ай бұрын
Situationships are such a weird concept, we’ve all been there but once you work on learning your value and figuring out what you want in a relationship (or don’t want) you’ll no longer settle for someone you don’t want to be serious with or someone who doesn’t want to be serious with you.
@Kimdebbie
@Kimdebbie 3 ай бұрын
Very true
@vampvrs6786
@vampvrs6786 3 ай бұрын
“That’s why you probably clicked on this video” me who clicked just because it’s Tam’s new upload-
@ArunimaMandal15
@ArunimaMandal15 3 ай бұрын
Same lmaoo I am just here to support her
@Jeeprepdairies
@Jeeprepdairies 3 ай бұрын
Sameeeee.....
@Jeeprepdairies
@Jeeprepdairies 3 ай бұрын
Sameeeee.....
@shrutiranjan0511
@shrutiranjan0511 3 ай бұрын
Same
@victoriaschubert5911
@victoriaschubert5911 3 ай бұрын
Same
@ChaiaurReddit
@ChaiaurReddit 3 ай бұрын
the yellow subtitle , that moon thing near each chapter name and you giving dark feminine vibes are so oddly pleasing
@sparklesparshi108
@sparklesparshi108 3 ай бұрын
Omg yess!!! ❤❤❤
@waterlily3522
@waterlily3522 3 ай бұрын
Literally the only reason why i clicked to watch this video. Just wanted to absorb some of the dark feminine vibes from the scene. It's the dark night city in the background, the black hair, black suit, black pillows. Contrasted with cosy white things, and the almost glowy kind of lighting on her face, and Tam being so passionate.
@Diana-tm4nt
@Diana-tm4nt 3 ай бұрын
I left the situationship this year after 5 months of thinking, energy draining and being attached. And I’m so glad I did, that was the biggest act of self love and self respect. To all the girlies out there, I know you love them, but they don’t or maybe they don’t the same you do. Someone who truly loves you won’t waste a second to be with you, you should realize that you deserve the truest form of love.
@gothmommy0520
@gothmommy0520 2 ай бұрын
can i ask? was the person not officially asking you out?? is that why it was draining
@Diana-tm4nt
@Diana-tm4nt 2 ай бұрын
@@gothmommy0520so basically we were together before, then he was like I feel like I’m not fully committed to that and I’m not ready yet for a relationship, so let’s just wait til m ready. And yes I was like sure (which was a mistake obv), thinking that it would take max a month or two. We didn’t meet for a while then, we saw each others (I literally begged him to meet) and started acting like a couple but we were not officially one yet. Every time we would talk, his words would give me hope that he will ask me, yet he never did. So I kept waiting and waiting and each time I bring that up, he would say the same things like I want you some stuff like that but don’t expect much from me cause I can’t commit now I’m focused on my self I am not ready…. Until I got so tired and finally had the courage to say enough disrespecting my self and walked away.
@DMCI.Heather.Teehera
@DMCI.Heather.Teehera Ай бұрын
@sarahh.2379
@sarahh.2379 Ай бұрын
Thank you for you message 🫶🏽
@Miranda-uf7xb
@Miranda-uf7xb Ай бұрын
yessssss, when someone genuinely wants you and wants you around, YOU'LL KNOW and THATS where our energy and love needs to go. Situationship boys make you question whether they even want you around or not sometimes, like am I inconveniencing him or??? cause I am confused...they keep us close, but not too close, and far, yet not too far. When someone wants you, you know, no confusions whatsoever. it sucks and is a wake up call, but necessary to know how to better approach relationships in the future.
@lavenderhoney777
@lavenderhoney777 3 ай бұрын
Tam, I was in a situationship last year. It was mentally draining. He was broke and took my money. He was a liar. He used to say that "atlest I'm loyal to you Noone is loyal as him bla bla" he was so broke , he Even took 3.5k from me and he asked me to pay a fine too. He used to compare me with other girls. Even though, I moved on from him this year. I blocked him from everywhere. Now he sometimes email me and called me so many times and I didn't replied. That's it. I promise you tam , I'll never be in that type of situation again. ❤
@lindsey4935
@lindsey4935 3 ай бұрын
You go gurl you deserve better ❤
@lavenderhoney777
@lavenderhoney777 3 ай бұрын
@@lindsey4935 I know right :))
@urmom8689
@urmom8689 3 ай бұрын
Help a girl out here who’s stuck with her ex 😢 it’s not like we hate each other ( we kinda do) but I can’t get move on from him. We call each other every now and then but deep down I know I shouldn’t get back with him neither should he. We just can’t live our lives without each other’s presence. We’re definitely not good together but at the same time we’re not letting go of each other. I tried so many ways to heal or I thought I healed but nothing helps 😭 I just can’t get this out of my head and I have no one to talk about. Another thing is, all of my friends are toxic. They go back to abusive toxic relationships and situationships. It’s giving misery loves company 😢 I need help please 🙏
@sarvaepc
@sarvaepc 3 ай бұрын
YEAH GIRL U TELL EM WHO THE BOSS IS
@Missdior-yi1ni
@Missdior-yi1ni 2 ай бұрын
Gurl remember that KARMA IS REAL. And he will pay for it. Whereas for you, only good things are coming your way now ❤
@encismith
@encismith 3 ай бұрын
I'm 24 now. I had been in situationships for almost one year, the last one ended in summer. Though I had always wanted to be in a relationship instead. So after ending things with my last situationship, I sat down and wrote down all the red flags of him, it was a long list. 😄Around that time, I found your KZbin channel and started binge-watching your dating advice videos. I recognized that "okay, I've never been in a relationship before, so if I want to be in one, I should do something that I've never done before". So I sat much stricter boundaries and higher standards in dating, basically changed my whole dating strategy. I met a guy almost 1 month ago on Hinge, and now we're officially a couple. ☺
@sarah-janepryce821
@sarah-janepryce821 3 ай бұрын
Happy for you deserve it ❤️
@danielatirado9741
@danielatirado9741 3 ай бұрын
The timing is INSANE
@s0lfl0wer1
@s0lfl0wer1 3 ай бұрын
Someone literally tried to pull me into a situationship. I was already thinking that we were dating, but suddenly that person said that they think of our connection as a situationship. I then immediately told that person that I do not want to have that if they’re not fully committed I want to stay friends. after a while blocked them. So glad that I made this decision
@shalurai1149
@shalurai1149 2 ай бұрын
today i am promising myself that from now the word "situationship " doesn't exist in my life and i am not going to neglect my feeling my desire and my happiness for any random person that just came into my life
@fatemaabdelrahman8964
@fatemaabdelrahman8964 3 ай бұрын
Tam I love ur content . I am a 19 years old former (people pleaser , doormat , who let people play with her feelings and walk over her ) and now I wanna focus all my love and energy back into myself.
@zaibelli6968
@zaibelli6968 3 ай бұрын
Thank God i started my self love era this year. Situationships are THE WORST NEVER EVER AGAIN BABY BOY
@Mystic_Paths
@Mystic_Paths 3 ай бұрын
It highlights the importance of communication, boundaries, and knowing your worth in a relationship where things aren’t clearly defined. It’s a reminder that even in situationships, you deserve clarity and respect, and this guide likely offers some real insights on how to manage those gray areas
@shivangiyadav1295
@shivangiyadav1295 3 ай бұрын
Walked away from a situationship last year and I am so proud of myself for doing that :))
@Sky029-rk2ep
@Sky029-rk2ep 2 ай бұрын
yes u deserve better
@user-christiexz
@user-christiexz 3 ай бұрын
The film location and your outfit is INSANE
@monisolaolubuyimo6024
@monisolaolubuyimo6024 3 ай бұрын
wait no cuz i can’t get over it lol. she looks like a rich luxurious girl in new york with a white persian cat
@missaxsi
@missaxsi 3 ай бұрын
I was in a situationship exactly one year ago. I had a fling before that, but at least with that, things were clear-we weren’t even holding hands, so I knew what it was. I knew what I was doing and why. But with that situationship? It had me start going to therapy, actually working on my self-image and self-worth. It was one of the most emotionally draining things I’ve ever experienced. No surprise, it went up in flames. I realized I was just as much to blame as him, waiting for a narcissistic mf to say the right thing at the right time, but it was never going to happen. Months and months passed working on myself, and Tam’s videos were literally the biggest help ever (thanks ❤️)! Now, I’m with the absolute love of my life. And you know what? He knew my value from the start and has acted accordingly, never changing from day one. Because your worth isn’t something you can leave to the mercy of an immature man to decide or make into a toy on the playground. Get rid of those situationships.
@MaryamYaasir
@MaryamYaasir 3 ай бұрын
Never dated AND IMMA never be in a situationship... im just here for the vibes. Congrats Tam, you've built a community. Also i needed some damn exposure from someone not my family.
@absolutelyanisa
@absolutelyanisa 3 ай бұрын
1:06 girlie, I clicked because it’s your video and I was just here to see what confidence boost you give 😅.
@ayushinavik
@ayushinavik 3 ай бұрын
After being in an emotionally draining situationship 2 years ago I have started focusing more on what the person is saying, are they meeting my standards, needs, etc. I get to know them enough still things don’t progress in the right direction I walk away from that person for good and never look back. Learned this the hard way but listen carefully to what they say, if they don’t match up to you walk away.
@fairuzadriti
@fairuzadriti 3 ай бұрын
i just love how she leveled up about her youtube videos SO MUCH these days and the way she becomes herself and comfortable with how she is and record wherever and not that one particular place in that one position the captions, the backgrounds, the position/posture/gesture, her ACCENT got so much better🤌, the camera quality, the voice quality, the way she talks, the outfits, the timing of recording (like she always used to record videos in the morning before), THE GLOW UP in her face, the new hairstyles, the way she looks NOW is so different from before honestly (like she literally radiates a whole different energy now), her nails look so much better as if they're made for her nails like SO perfect (this is so important about her looks cause the nails she used to get before didnt even suit her perfectly!!)the way she advertises the sponsors, the fact that she changed the intros, outros and instead of "video chapters" she provides us the name of the chapters on top which i think is so much better and the whole new way she EDITS HER VIDEOS NOW!!
@devil_in_the_cqmu
@devil_in_the_cqmu 3 ай бұрын
I liked a guy/my friend and I proposed him. He rejected me because he said he can’t find any future with me and to be a friend with him. I was being a friend with him after that and also I was a new friend of his friend. I found my friend being so jealous whenever I talk and being grateful to be with his friend. Then after a month, I found him being jealous of every boy with whom I talk to / being a normal friend. I clarified him that I only have feelings for him and not on his friend. He said he acknowledge that and told the same reason. This time we had a serious talk like why I need a relationship? What I expect ? How our values , morals and beliefs aligns ? After that also , he said he doesn’t find any future with me. He rejected again. Then he kept on sitting with me in the class, during night time we watched series together , newly we started to hug each other and he complimented on my looks a lot than before. I found that he developed feelings for me. I put all my energy and effort for him. I was with him along a hope that somehow he will accept me. But he didn’t confess it. One day he came and told me that he developed feelings on another girl with whom he can see future so he is going to spend all the time with her. I told him to go , it’s fine ( my heart was tearing apart for the first time ). 1) Was I in situationship ? 2) Whatever I did was correct ? If no , then where I did the mistake ? 3) How can I identify that I’m doing to hurt myself next time ?
@RikaSagaPradhan
@RikaSagaPradhan 3 ай бұрын
Omg girl your story is the same as mine but I cut him off completely. Now answers to your questions : 1. Yes, you were in a situationship. 2. You did nothing wrong. When we like/love someone there is always this hope that they will accept us and love back and so we put more efforts and that's fine you are not at fault. 3. Stay away from guys who never give commitment. Like if you confessed your feelings and they say something like "I'm not ready yet and blah blah blah" just know that they are gonna play with your feelings and never commit to you. No matter how much you like them, know your worth and stay away from those guys.
@devil_in_the_cqmu
@devil_in_the_cqmu 3 ай бұрын
@@RikaSagaPradhan😢 okay sissy! I’ll take care of it now on wards 😢
@onepiecewajitsuda
@onepiecewajitsuda 3 ай бұрын
Sister just learn one thing from this never ever in your life make the first move. It's okay now you did it forgive yourself and just forget that situation but from now on just be hot and say this when you wake up every single day ,I don't chase I attract that's it
@lindsey4935
@lindsey4935 3 ай бұрын
Honestly I wish I had a big sister like tam kaur that could literally tell me to get out of the situationship I had 3 years ago. And trust me based on my own experience, it’s not great and I wished I knew sooner than later. I swear to god please if you are in a situationship please leave trust me once u don’t leave it will be harder to leave and it will get bad over time
@Cevolution
@Cevolution 3 ай бұрын
DIVINE TIMING GIRLLLL
@miss.bishhhh
@miss.bishhhh 3 ай бұрын
Weirdly, ive just been going through thissss and crying and the universe just answers. I feel so much better and stronger now. I dont feel helpless or sorry for myself. I want to come back stronger and be better than who i was. I was a mess before this video started and now i just want to fucking reclaim my self respect and values. Thanks Tam. Thank you universe
@Shubhangiee
@Shubhangiee 3 ай бұрын
Girl!!! you are healing something you didn't break
@bestever6879
@bestever6879 Ай бұрын
I asked multiple married men, "how/ when did you know she was the one?", They all said the first moment they touched hands, or kissed or even the first time he saw her. He knows she's the one almost immediately. Situationships are placeholders. Situationships is so he can stay single while having some comfort. (I'm my opinion)
@hebashahid8952
@hebashahid8952 3 ай бұрын
from someone who enetered a situationship at the start of 2022 and ended it in august 2024 yes I get the ickk and it got more ickyyyy with your video. Tam, I tell you YOUR OLD VIDEOS HELPED ME GET OUT OF IT. KEEP MAKING VIDROS. KEEP SENDING REMINDERS AND KNOW I AM HAPPY YOU EXIST. YOU CHNAGED MY LIFE !!! SO GLAD I FOUND YOU
@ausrinesakalauskaite
@ausrinesakalauskaite 3 ай бұрын
The way even the dates you wrote matches with mine...🫣😂🫣
@lauradanielczyk8401
@lauradanielczyk8401 Ай бұрын
I agree! I’m Polish, and what you’re talking about in your video is incredibly strange to me. In Poland, we don’t have anything like that at all, and there’s no such thing as “dating” for several months. Usually, people go on 1-5 dates, and after that, they decide whether they like the person and want to be in a relationship. A lot of dates end after the first one, but if it gets to the fifth date, it usually means both people like each other and are already together. During this time, there’s no sex either; it’s just about getting to know each other and meeting in places like a café, restaurant, or going for a walk. This idea of dating for months is so strange to me-I don’t even understand what it means. And the concept of a “situationship” is the weirdest thing I’ve ever heard of. In the US, it seems like men have set things up completely in their favor-splitting bills 50/50, dating for months with no commitments, and this whole “situationship” thing with no responsibility. It looks like men are just taking, taking, taking! They get a woman’s attention, and I assume also a clean house, cooked meals, sex, and on top of that, you’re paying half the bills! Girls, respect yourselves and don’t let men take advantage of you like this! I’m rooting for you and sending hugs and kisses your way!
@elaloves_you
@elaloves_you 3 ай бұрын
THE MAKEUP W THE THIS HAIR N A BLACK FIT⁉️⁉️ TAM U LOOK SO SUDUCTIVE AND MESMERIZING😭😭 IM NOT FLUENT ENG THO SO SRY IF I SPELLED SMTH WRONG
@fairuzadriti
@fairuzadriti 2 ай бұрын
@@elaloves_you seductive*😭 not fluent IN english*😭
@Mihisam-p40
@Mihisam-p40 3 ай бұрын
Her timing 😭🤌❤
@fairuzadriti
@fairuzadriti 3 ай бұрын
i was like there's no f-ing way she just made a video about a topic she absolutely HATES but yeah there she is with her best advices about how to get rid of that mindset!! love you queen🎀
@murzelsa
@murzelsa 3 ай бұрын
This video popping up in my feed after I said I was staying on my own for 3 months and after the Universe brought back a man into my life that I like but I would NEVER be in a relationship with to test me is truly a sign
@uzmaghazal2912
@uzmaghazal2912 3 ай бұрын
out of situationship for more than a year and LOVED THIS GALLLL,,,
@cinthaa1
@cinthaa1 3 ай бұрын
Was in a situationship for 6 months with a guy who was still married and took no steps towards divorce (which he said he was about to do). I only focused on this delusional fairy tale happy ending which never happened. 💯 recognizable with your video Tam. And if I think back to him now, I get such an ick. Vouched myself to never ever get into one again and keep my standards high.
@Luciferindia07
@Luciferindia07 13 күн бұрын
Oh god this girl is a blessing for the people who r facing it
@Sudhiixo
@Sudhiixo 3 ай бұрын
tam i"m really thankful tht you"ve uploaded this !! cuz it"s so useful to me n relates to my current situation and the fact tht it"s really draining n he"s not even fulfilling the bare minimum n refuses to commit etc n thts why i chose to take my energy back n focus on myself rather thn pouring into someone who actually don"t care !! so yes i choose myself n not letting some one take over me ! cuz i"m imp to myself and again tysm tam i luv you.
@vaasavirao6805
@vaasavirao6805 2 ай бұрын
i got this video right after i ended my situationship. I'm glad i left the moment the red flags started to show, now watching this gives me so much relief.
@lispnhr
@lispnhr 2 ай бұрын
I always watch all of your videos, that's why I'm here. True fan. But I just love how you defined all of situationships out there. I was a situationship girl a few years back, but when I really started to put myself first and not accept less than I deserve, it changed my life SOOOO MUCH. I can sure say that no one can find true love or a real relationship if they don't learn to love themselves first. Cause then, they'll just be accepting the bare minimum because they think they deserve that. Girls, listen to Tam, she's the boss, alright? Love yourself first and I can assure you, you'll meet the ideal partner who's looking for a girl just like you. I say that from experience, cause I'm with an amazing man these days and he gives me the whole princess treatment. I'm sure if you put yourself first, you'll find the right partner too!
@sarvaepc
@sarvaepc 3 ай бұрын
Tam when passionate about the topic >>>>>>>>
@KarpovStefanik
@KarpovStefanik 3 ай бұрын
THE TIMING IS SO ACCURATE
@Ginathequeen
@Ginathequeen 3 ай бұрын
I agree about me being the one to bring the good things to the table. He is a great guy and I really like him. But I am the one that brings the real energy to the table. The excitement, the sensuality. Imagine what It could be if this person was the one meant for me
@MaoriKanno
@MaoriKanno 3 ай бұрын
this video’s take really clicks with some of the things I've been reading in the book Magnetic Aura from Borlest
@m0tivationalz0nenf
@m0tivationalz0nenf 3 ай бұрын
Stop spamming
@Caroli.Colibri
@Caroli.Colibri 3 ай бұрын
[21:07] " *Situationships are staying in 2024* " 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽💯💯💯💯💯💯
@Marwonderful
@Marwonderful 2 ай бұрын
I’ve re-watched this so many times and it comforts me and keeps me away from ever letting that kinda energy into my life. Thankful for your content 🥹
@andreaingelmo
@andreaingelmo 2 ай бұрын
thank you so much for this video. I have same mindset that Tam has. I hope that you guys realize that you are waaay more valuable and deserve more than a mere situationship to have both parties entertained. It gives me the ick and enrages me, the whole thing, seriously. I hope that this video has made someone wake up and leave these kind of dynamics. 💓💓💓
@parshotamparadhi5840
@parshotamparadhi5840 3 ай бұрын
I'm not in relationships or situationship, I'm not dating anyone, I'm not even talking to anyone.... But I'm watching this... Bcz IT'S TAM bruh!!! ❤
@mrfeosarea632
@mrfeosarea632 3 ай бұрын
I actually got the ick when you said the part where someone shows ne a movie of my life.. Thank youu!
@Purpleisthebestcolourever
@Purpleisthebestcolourever 3 ай бұрын
mother comes when u MOST need her...this is CRAZY
@SarahKhan-q4q
@SarahKhan-q4q 3 ай бұрын
Me watching while being a single pringle because our Queen gives amazing advice and who knows I might need for future!! You could really see how much Tam hates the idea of situationships😆
@isabellacampione
@isabellacampione 3 ай бұрын
i feel like the conversation around this needs to be more nuanced though. I absolutely do agree situationships are a bad thing overall. However, there are some other things to consider. Sometimes, people just want to have fun without strings attached. Sometimes, people find people attractive enough to be able to enjoy their company and other things but they can't find themselves connecting on a deeper level with that person and thats ok. I think there are so many kinds of relationships human beings have and should have as well try to figure out who we are and what we want. Of course, if you are being treated poorly, that is a different conversation. I think as long as both people are on the same page about the situationship, that's ok. Like, you could consider a four month fling with someone while in a different country a situationship, but it could also be an absolutely beautiful experience. situationships aren't always bad. they can teach you many things about yourself. maybe you don't want anything serious at all, and are just looking for a fun companion. So while I absolutely love this video Tam and agree with your points, I still think it is important to acknowledge we are human beings and are allowed to pursue/enjoy relationships that we know might be temporary, as long as we are not being abused or emotionally damaged from it. :)
@InvestHerPodcast
@InvestHerPodcast 3 ай бұрын
I literally was thinking this !! And I agree
@N-hx2ls
@N-hx2ls Ай бұрын
The clarity about this situation that won't ship is good for us😂. Thank you Queen
@saloniPanwar-q1g
@saloniPanwar-q1g 3 ай бұрын
Divine timing 😩🤌🤌
@NightMare_Hunter_EXTRA
@NightMare_Hunter_EXTRA 3 ай бұрын
Ok I'm just gonna say it this is one of the first videos I have seen of you and I was in such a unhealthy situation ship and now I am literally sooo over it . Thanks for posting ❤
@shivanisoren602
@shivanisoren602 3 ай бұрын
Such great timing! 😍 I was going through your videos on self love and solo dates the whole day today to be able to move on from this situationship, and you just posted this! Universe is really helping me go on the right path. Thank you Tam ❤ Thank you universe ✨
@Lexi0626
@Lexi0626 3 ай бұрын
I'm not even in a situationship, but a committed relationship but I still watch every one of your videos. I wish 19 years old me was able tk watch this video
@unknowngirl5963
@unknowngirl5963 3 ай бұрын
Tam your confidence, emotional intelligence, wise and thoughtful thoughts are so insperational. I hope you know that u change lives
@yashiguru3281
@yashiguru3281 Ай бұрын
she feels like a big sister helping me to stay in line !!!
@sarvaepc
@sarvaepc 3 ай бұрын
I was in a situationship for 2 years from ages 12 to 14, and I’m so glad it’s over. The person I was in a situationship with was my birthday twin, and as an Aries, both our personalities clashed and it was an addicting/repulsing relationship. It ended with a fight but now we’re on good terms and he has a girlfriend and I think they are soo cute as a couple and they are meant to be. And now I found Tam, and am now a single boss-bitch. Looks like that worked out for the both of us.
@JazmyneAutry
@JazmyneAutry 2 ай бұрын
I was crying about my situationship and saw this ! I love tam
@dhruvithakkar2205
@dhruvithakkar2205 2 ай бұрын
I already did everything before watching this video and now I am more happy to know I did right by cutting connection with him.. will delete the photos too.. hope so
@zolandlovu44
@zolandlovu44 3 ай бұрын
Talk about perfect timing! Listen!! Tam I love you so much! ❤
@Kiki2005newme
@Kiki2005newme 3 ай бұрын
I'm not even talking to someone, but I listen to you just to be more clever with my life ❤✨️
@mylittlelife2443
@mylittlelife2443 3 ай бұрын
Seriously Tam, it was a perfect Timing!!! I’m almost got myself indulge in a situationship. This is video meant so much for me cause I freaking needed that Tam!! love you always Tam🤍
@BiancaFanu
@BiancaFanu 3 ай бұрын
Tam being the therapist we didn't know we needed
@Wisdomind1
@Wisdomind1 3 ай бұрын
*You are my saviour Tamanna* 🥺💚🌻
@Srishti122
@Srishti122 3 ай бұрын
Omggg mumma thanks for this video I really need this! I love you so much and everyone who reads my comment, you deserve someone who makes you feel that you're not hard to love! Choose quality over quantity! Ily and I appreciate you! 🎀🌻
@dhruvavora7263
@dhruvavora7263 3 ай бұрын
The ick area was just so relatable 🥹🥹 thank you so much Tam for making this video ilysm 🥹🤍
@spailpin710
@spailpin710 2 ай бұрын
ya know, the funniest thing is I've ALWAYS HAD this mindset with romance... But somehow, with friendships, I fall for "situationships" all the time. Ew. Thanks for the eye-opener!
@NewERAofMEEE
@NewERAofMEEE Ай бұрын
LOVED IT SO MUCH! can we please get a video on "one sided love" how to deal with it
@ShreyaSingh-f6b
@ShreyaSingh-f6b 4 сағат бұрын
Thankyouu so muchhh for these advices! I am so greatful to you. I have no one to share my problems with, continuously crying in my room. But uk what? Your advices feel like big sister advices. Thankyou so much tam! Lol🫂
@Wanderlust10947
@Wanderlust10947 Ай бұрын
Idk why this video is so underrated Literally opened my eyes my took me out from my delulu world Tysm girl❤❤❤ Sending love❤❤❤
@Mini_bugg
@Mini_bugg 3 ай бұрын
Am I the only one who decided to watch this while taking a break from my work. 😅 I'm not in any kind of situationship but listening to Tam is like a boost so 👀 I'll just listen to Mother Tam
@tamkaur
@tamkaur 3 ай бұрын
hahahaha love it
@IoannaT02
@IoannaT02 3 ай бұрын
THANK YOU for this video Tam. Almost got myself in a situationship and then this video showed up
@sunvavachi
@sunvavachi 3 ай бұрын
I ended one this summer after a decade of being in this. Was horrible and I hope the stay away forever. Gathered my self worth back.
@bigcatenergy3707
@bigcatenergy3707 2 ай бұрын
Your point here 05:45 is spot fucking on. If they don’t have a good connection with themselves, they can’t connect with you.
@serendipity_2997
@serendipity_2997 3 ай бұрын
Why are you so pretty.. Why do i love listening to like tam I'm already in one sided situationship with you at this point 😭😭😭😭🌺🌺🌺💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗
@Itskenny-
@Itskenny- 2 ай бұрын
She is so gorgeous omg omg
@pmao1998
@pmao1998 3 ай бұрын
Tam can you make a video on how to know whether a person actually likes you like on ig that you have never met before 🤗 would be really helpful
@lasalsa111
@lasalsa111 Ай бұрын
Tonight I just told him we gotta keep a distance from now and blocked him. Not because I hate him (it's the opposite ugh) but I gotta do this for me and leave behind situasionship in 2024!!!
@L0neWolf_333
@L0neWolf_333 Ай бұрын
I’m crying I needed this
@angelinacasucci7749
@angelinacasucci7749 3 ай бұрын
Please do a Q&A, please tam! I love you!
@SakshiSingh-vz6sk
@SakshiSingh-vz6sk 3 ай бұрын
I NEEDED THIS SO BADLYYYY Thanks a million ❤!
@Hope-uf3cu
@Hope-uf3cu 3 ай бұрын
Could you PLEASEEEE make a video about how to stop chasing and start attracting and what to do when your getting mixed signals
@TravelSphere-v2w
@TravelSphere-v2w 3 ай бұрын
Hey tam i just wanna say that your videos are so nice and inspiring and motivating so yeah i just taught id shear hope you see this & keep doing what your doing
@aanchaljain
@aanchaljain 3 ай бұрын
Loved your energy. One of your best videos Tam
@shrutiranjan0511
@shrutiranjan0511 3 ай бұрын
I'm not even in a situationship but still clicked on it just because it's a Tam's video
@YasmineRadochka
@YasmineRadochka 3 ай бұрын
Ive had two long term relationships and I thought Id marry them. Unfortunately both ended because the boys lost feelings and literally changed over night. Since that I told myself I wouldn’t go for love anymore. It hurt really bad when they ended. I thought I could die. I was depressed. And told myself I would never go for love ever again, only for lust. I feel like situationships are short term and you reap benefits of the start of relationships where there are sparks. This one boy I had a situationship with, he was the school crush and he even bought me a gold bracelet while we never even held hands only flirted over text
@danifam128
@danifam128 3 ай бұрын
I LOVE YOU TAM!! Always giving the best energy and support 👑
@daylight6312
@daylight6312 3 ай бұрын
Right after my situationship ended, I read reclaim your heart by yasmin mojahed & it was truely life changing🍂
@phizzy123
@phizzy123 3 ай бұрын
i’m gonna buy that book 😊
@daylight6312
@daylight6312 3 ай бұрын
@@phizzy123 🫶🏼
@pauc.f.8146
@pauc.f.8146 3 ай бұрын
Honestly, situantionship also applies for boyfriends that can´t even do the bare minimum or have been "not ready" for taking the next step for years.
@frecklesflower
@frecklesflower 3 ай бұрын
Love this video Tam, preach girl! I’m wondering what’s your thought on going for coffee as a first date?
@PearlReem
@PearlReem 3 ай бұрын
I was boiling in anger all through the video. The situationship with that guy had ended few months ago. Still I feel this urge to take revenge so badly
@_claudiafdo_21
@_claudiafdo_21 3 ай бұрын
The best revenge is glowing up without him in your life. You deserve best ❤
@rushialeema8321
@rushialeema8321 3 ай бұрын
Look at all the stages of grief it's okay. You won't accept rubbish again x
@phizzy123
@phizzy123 3 ай бұрын
i feel you. your feelings are valid ❤
@vinyeett_hgm
@vinyeett_hgm 3 ай бұрын
Literally perfect timing
@pratiksharathod543
@pratiksharathod543 3 ай бұрын
You are just amazing tam love you 💗😭 thanks for always being here
@akul2007
@akul2007 3 ай бұрын
Any video for next 90 days before new year to achieve /catch up on things planned,manifesting would be nice
@miguelalexandro4153
@miguelalexandro4153 3 ай бұрын
TTE TIMING 😢 I WAS ABOUT TO CRY God/The universe " OPEN KZbin" And THIS.... THIS popped up ❤
@sumanxmandal
@sumanxmandal 3 ай бұрын
Your passion always screams through the screen love itt
@Anyuta_05
@Anyuta_05 3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much, Tam! You're the best, love you!
@rainasharma1749
@rainasharma1749 3 ай бұрын
Happy birthday tam🎉🎉🎉🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🌻🌻🦋🦋🌈! Sending Lots of love and positive energy! May the universe bless you in all areas of your life! May all the wishes of your inner child complete !
@rutuharke
@rutuharke 3 ай бұрын
Not in a situationship and I'll never still watching this video for tam bcoz I love her sm❤😭😍
@sherry3886
@sherry3886 3 ай бұрын
Gurrlll! I love your energy!!! ✨Something is different. LOVE ITTTT!! I am so charged after watching you, even tho I have nothing to do with situationship thing.
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