Why Compatibility in a Relationship is Not About Sameness

[@jelenaristic8398]

Many times in my life I was asking myself: Oh why can't I find a person that is like me - empathetic, people pleaser, "nice person" who does everything for others and would put me before him, someone who will care about my feelings and tell me pretty things, maybe lie a bit so I can feel better about myself. And you know what I got? A man that is brutally honest, often says: I love myself so much, I look so good, who knows he's good looking, prioritising himself, social butterfly, loved by everyone. And I got it. I got that the incompatibility I thought existed is actually exactly what I needed. I'm learning so much from him and he's my greatest teacher, after Teal Swan. He helped me to define my boundaries, express myself better, be honest, exit the victim mode and love myself more. 😄🥰

[@laurenlockridge5583]

Love this 🙂

[@leahflower9924]

Oh I thought you were complaining about the guy but I see him in your photo I had to read the comment more than once, lol as an introvert and always worried what others thought I was impressed by extroverted I don't care what people think people

[@RitaLynn444]

Nice!

[@HidingPlainSight]

Hopefully, we people pleasers will move toward taking care of ourselves first.. I often think of the steward/ess during preflight instructing us to put the oxygen mask on ourselves before we put the mask on those in our care. Be blessed 🙏

[@RitaLynn444]

Amen Beth! 💯

[@LEVIAHAN]

For me, compatible emotional intelligence is VERY important.

[@beautyonabarnbudget]

As it should be

[@jesse_campbell]

Same values, same goals, different personalities, different emotional needs (but good at meeting each other's needs) is a recipe for compatibility I encountered a few years ago.

[@banziimavusotv]

Sounds like a great match. Your strengths and weaknesses match each other. It becomes hell when values, goals and attachment styles are wayyyy different while one party refuses to meet the other person's needs.

[@cameronmcfarrin4587]

I'm an outspoken, explicit, opinionated and talkative person. I went out with a woman who was also very talkative and she talked for 3 hours straight on the date! Even though we were similar, I knew we were not compatible. That was the worst date I ever went on.

[@cchangandco]

1000%! My girlfriends and I are type-A entrepreneurial visionary types. We all have husbands that are grounded and patient - opposite of us, because it is compatible! I’ve dated people who are too much like me and it was not compatible for day to day life. It may sound unromantic, but when choosing a life partner, there are functional compatibility things that must be considered. Just as you may love some of your friends but would NEVER travel with them, when choosing for long term, you must consider who you want to spend everyday life with. The traits may be different from someone you would have a fling with. 🙂

[@whitebirchtarot]

Absolutely. What do you do though when you marry someone you’re not attracted to and they’re attracted to you? That’s what happened with me and my husband and now that he has passed away, I feel so guilty. He deserved someone who loved him in that way, but I just didn’t. But I loved him so much that I would have done anything for him. I took care of him when he was suffering from Lewy body dementia even though he became violent and hit me many times. Previously he was a very gentle man and would’ve died before hitting anyone, especially a woman. Romantic love is so confusing to me. I think it always will be and I’m in my 60s.

[@BlackPearlMona369]

"it is the transactional element in the relationship that provides the gravitational force in the relationship and it gives a reason why two people needs to be in each other's life" Teal Swan

[@dancerlella]

couldn't this so easily contribute to codependency though? "needing" your partner to fulfill some needs, and them "needing" you to fulfill some needs?

[@RhonyHart]

@@dancerlella its not a need. You are paying them they are paying you like a job. I pay my partner with dinner because he woke up early to take me to the doctor. Transactional but helps both people.

[@BlackPearlMona369]

If you don't recognize how sameness can lead to incompatibility, then you might end up in a relationship where you have nothing to give to the other person and he have nothing to give to you... Well said Teal Swan❤️💕...

[@FrancisTrach]

Often times I've found life will bring us people that usually do NOT have the same preferences as us on the external level , to challenge our capacity to unconditionally love the other even though we both have different preferences. Of course this isn't always the case, but a lot of the times it is , and I find that there are a lot lessons to be learned to increase our capacity to hold the frequency of unconditional love when someone like this comes into our life. Great video Teal ! Thanks for being one of the people that inspires me to post videos every single day . Much Love 🙏

[@potapotapotapotapotapota]

Yes I agree the most important compatiblity you can share with someone is to love each other unconditionally and stay committed despite the differences that may come about. I mean, if you followed Teal's advice, you would be left with pretty much no one because no one is perfectly compatible with you. But plenty of people still know how to commit.

[@RitaLynn444]

This!!🙏

[@carly582]

@@RitaLynn444 yeah I love her videos but was starting to think damn it's going to be impossible to find the perfect person and wondering should I dump my partner (and father of my child) because we aren't 100% compatible?

[@corporaterobotslave400]

Going through exactly this while trying to find the right musicians to fit my new band. So far I found a bassist who is committed to play my songs, and a drum machine I can order around (lol). I was working with a friend guitarist but his musical influences and mine were galaxies apart; we tried to make it work, but failed miserably. With some musicians you feel the "click" immediately, while others never even come close to "getting it". Peace.

[@itskelvinkkc]

Awesome! Completely agree! Sometimes being the SAME is the worst!

[@metavinci427]

It’s sort of the opposite of sameness. I see my wife and I as puzzle pieces. What is similar is our general treatment of humanity and nature is rooted in respect that manifests as Kindness and generosity (time not money), Those two things are the cornerstone of any relationships growth.

[@TealSwanOfficial]

Incase You'd Rather Read About It Instead: tealswan.com/resources/articles/compatibility-does-not-equal-sameness-r495/

[@ys-kv3ug]

Love you teal ❤️ you’ve helped me so much

[@beautyonabarnbudget]

You also have to remember that you don't stay the same throughout your lifetime. Someone who loves to clean but hates to cook, can start cooking and luv it! This is just an example. Obviously if your partner grew to love ❤ cooking it's probably not going to break up the relationship. But, someone who was content to stay home with the kiddos and then became career driven again-that might cause issues. Or someone who was nice and then became an asshole-yeah that's gonna be a problem lol

[@beccabean2207]

I found that in trying to have a conversation on how we are compatible vs incompatible solidified how we are not compatible. It only lead to anger and his misinterpretation on what I was trying to say. This conversation really needs to happen before you move in together, before you have a child and before you run a business together, cuz now its a hella harder ...

[@dann5480]

Teal, your voice and face calms me to the deepest level of my existence.

[@adeviyat]

Thank you again Teal for this strong and important issue..totally agree on the symbiotic aspect..I took your advice on simplyfying life in 2022, it really slowed me down....feeling so much better in lowering my demands..and now this too..accepting not being the same as my husband and yet having this stability our differences give on all levels...you are one of the greatest teachers in all of your topics...many thanks from Belgium 🙏🙏❤❤❤

[@adeviyat]

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[@EtherealMaryJane]

Funny , I read an article today on how opposites don't attract anymore but this video confirms to me that it aint all black or white. Compatibility is not the same nor is opposites , I believe it's the combination of both similarities and differences.

[@aretha6055]

Can you post it here? I'm curious

[@silver2zilver]

I've heard all sides and I have seen every reality people try to make work but only a few are life-term successful and meaningful. Teal is good at pandering. I mean, we're listening to a woman who has never been in a real relationship for gods sake what reality could she possibly speak except her own lack there of? Hmm .. Think I just realized something...

[@chichishi3516]

There should be growth and room for personal development where only "oppositeness" can provide while having the same core values, principles and empathy towards each other which "sameness" can provide. I believe this is what comprise a healthy relationship.

[@cm-yu6gu]

Ooh what a great topic I feel like I could listen to 3 more hours about incompatibility and compatibility and sameness

[@katrin6388]

i honestly fell for this for a very long time. i thought that i need someone very identical to me to be happy. someone that looks a certain way, has certain beliefs and so on. but these people always turned out to be problematic. so now i´ll learn to not judge based on appearances anymore. so i feel like when people say "opposites attract" they mean, stuff like likes and dislikes, personality and so on, but people attract similar when it comes to the emotions and level of self esteem.

[@tropicaoptica]

Teal I love these relationship videos you are doing lately… we need to be complimentary couples not competing

[@arbividz]

WE LOVE YOU TEAL ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@MarigoldSundays]

There can be unhealthy compatibility, too. If you like to intimidate, you’re compatible with those easily intimidated. If you like to shame, you’re compatible with people who have an overactive conscience, etc…

[@petersbayley]

The definition of a Sadist is someone who is very, very kind - to a masochist :-)

[@Mr.CreamCheese69]

imo the most fascinating relationships come from 2 people being entirely different, but are both totally open, and both find each others view points deeply fascinating.

[@sharpiesarecool814]

yes!!

[@goldysalomon]

i was always confused about this topic, thanks for bringing light to it 🌺

[@LBI-oe7dj]

This sameness relationships are really good for growth tho. Excelent for teacher - student relationships, for learning. Its like working together shoulder to shoulder rather than face to face(like in a compatible one). Just like 2 magnets. Meeting someone like you, who makes arguments like you make will cause conflict and growth but 2 people like this cant live together. Also compatibilty is really good but it can cause so much validation that it can even lead to stagnation ... i think both kinds of relationships are important

[@AmyFerguson]

I feel this. A person that’s similar to you can really see you and know how to push you farther. They can see what you’re capable of. Everyone else might just think you’re good enough. They go down similar thought patterns so it’s interesting to you. But no one is exactly the same so it’s like having two brains.

[@johnholme783]

Teal swan, plumbing the depths of the human psyche. Yes, differences can enhance a person’s life considerably! I used to have a girlfriend who was much more outgoing than me; this brought me out of my shell and improved my life considerably!

[@ys-kv3ug]

I was so happy when you posted this because I noticed we were on KZbin at the same time!

[@LisahTali]

I tell folks, Find a person who has strengths where you have weaknesses, and have weaknesses where you have strengths. This is very akin to puzzle piece

[@user_abcxyzz]

Priority is physical attraction and chemistry. If those two don't exist then no need to bother with compatibility, unless it's a friend you are seeking and not a romantic engagement. But I'm sure we didn't click here to know about friendship...

[@minalpuntambekar1239]

@@user_abcxyzz ❤️❤️

[@Helen-jw6yb]

You've beautifully put into words a concept I was trying to explain ti myself about my ex...he offered to cook, make gifts look pretty etc but I am capable of doing those things myself, what i needed was a Handyman type who coyld do the DIY I wasn't good at! Ironically my new partner couldn't cook etc...so I taught him, which did make me feel a little vulnerable in a way...oh & he cant do DIY either....msybe We're doomed!!😂 Thanks Teal as ever & love from England 😊

[@theskyizblue2day431]

So you dumped him because reasons but then ended up with the same type of guy?

[@Helen-jw6yb]

@@theskyizblue2day431 There were more reasons why I dumped him of course, we weren't good for each other ...but yes, the present guy has worse DIY skills than me lol!! 😂 However we are more compatible in other ways & are learning together & I think despite being opposites in many way, compliment each other well as Teal mentiins here. We are at least having a laugh & fun...an important element of a relationship whilst each growing as individuals by being with each other....for now at least...but who knows re the long term, hopefully it'll work out!😊If I'm being brutally honest, I feel he's learning more from me than the other way round but he's loving & kind ....something that my life lacked in childhood ...so you see where this is going....😊

[@beautyonabarnbudget]

@Pinned Teal Swan.. why is there a phone # listed 🤔?

[@justinedse3314]

@@Helen-jw6yb Wow! This is an incredibly shallow way of looking at people!

[@dsTinyCat780]

Why oh why is she so awesome!!! Thank you, Teal!

[@catherineschwef1632]

So damn profound ! I’m wiser forever after listening to this Teal 🙌

[@digitalbrand2930]

Thank you, Teal!

[@whitebirchtarot]

Oh my God, this is so funny! My husband passed away recently and he was the love of my life, but for some reason I’m so lonely that I keep thinking of an ex-boyfriend who really wasn’t very nice to me, but to whom I was extremely attracted. I’ve been having the urge to call him even though I know that’s not the right thing for me and I really don’t want to because it hasn’t even been a year yet since my husband passed away and I’m grieving something terrible. I cry every day, but I can’t get this other person out of my mind. When she said to think of that person that you’re so attracted to as the ugliest person you’ve ever seen and then reassess their behavior, that completely changes the way I think of him. He was so self-centered that he never even noticed when he stepped on other people’s feelings. I’m not sure he even knew people had feelings. He was kind to homeless people though. 😊

[@kamalsarraj-andaloussi5593]

That Symbiotic element really hit home, I found myself a whole for two life script until the eyebrow risen from another recall me to continue focusing till the very end of the lesson, I do as a matter of fact like stepping deep in the shoes of the affectionate role , the slow down parachute both vertically and horizontally ? Vertical quarter mile speed racer, horizontal ? I got U no matter what even if one chute lands us both on our feet touching ground safety preferably on a Saturday or Sunday.

[@Ohkeh640]

When you’re too different you may not love the same or understand one another. Not saying you have to be the same. But compromise understanding and learning how to talk and overcome conflicts etc

[@PinkYellowGreen2023]

I want to applaud whomever put this video together! If there is conflict, there is no compatibility. Im tired of men that Im incompatible with trying to form intimate connections with me. IT IS A TURN OFF!!!

[@anthonylalev4583]

Opposites attract and opposites attack. And the learning begins

[@leahflower9924]

The thing is 2 people don't necessarily end up being the same or the opposite what about middle ground what about having stuff in common and some differences

[@ExistentialJeny]

Yes, but opposites can also be compatible: consider someone likes to give, someone likes to receive. - opposites yet compatible. It likely works the other way in other areas too. It's different for everyone what these things may be. It's all about awareness. Yes learning for sure! Always learning 😅

[@anthonylalev4583]

@@leahflower9924 everyone has a different path and to experience different things for different reasons as in two puzzle pieces may fit but they are not the same. I acknowledge what you say God Bless

[@Ohkeh640]

Opposites attack is not good lol

[@argeniaparkinson3891]

Oooh brilliantly said!

[@adriel8843]

This was such a good video, I'm loving the concept of compatibility in relationships. It is making relationships alot more intentional and especially conscious which I absolutely adore. It gives a sense of empowerment and awareness in how we create our lives 💞💞🥰

[@bernardbujard9944]

Best explanation of compatibility I've ever heard.

[@Dr.EricBerg-m8z]

◾ᴛʜᴀɴᴋs ғᴏʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛɪɴɢ, ᴍᴀᴋᴇ ᴀ ɴᴏᴛᴇ ᴛᴏ ʟʏɴɴ ɢʀᴀʏ ʀᴇɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ ʙᴛᴄ/ᴇᴛʜ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɪᴅᴇᴀs 𝚃ᵉ𝚇ţ𝄍𝑾𝒉𝔮τ𝑠𝑨𝑝𝑝 ±𝟏𝟐𝟏𝟎𝟓𝟕𝟎𝟐𝟖𝟐𝟏 ʟᴇᴛ ʜɪᴍ ᴋɴᴏᴡ ɪ ʀᴇғᴇʀʀᴇᴅ ʏᴏᴜ..

[@stanteacher943]

Teal, could you please make a video on relationships/how to find one? I've watched your Soulmate video 100 times since it came out years ago and still single lol. Love your frequency shirts, I've got the self-love one 😍

[@debrahunter3113]

thank you again every thing you say is helping me think some of your words are way over my head but i am learning so much thank you

[@kpec3]

Finally somebody understands this!

[@nnglnd]

Youve made some good points. Thank you

[@Studio-pg4sq]

Teal - Thanks for exposing the truth about relationships.

[@starlightmusicdisk]

Your videos are healing, thank you❤️

[@gonzalez6701]

I love you Teal! You are an inspirational, strong, wise woman! Wish you the best ❤️❤️❤️

[@AB-ws4kt]

Hey Teal, would you mind linking the videos you mention in your description? It would make it a lot easier to jump to them rather than searching. (If that’s something you’ve already considered but isn’t something you think is worth the time/energy in your production, I totally get it 😁)

[@joncolunga673]

Basically compatibility means being able to offer something and/or accept something which creates a reaction of joy and satisfaction. Someone else cannot make you happy if you're already able to give what they have to offer to yourself.

[@margaretcullagh5954]

Thanks for the clarity, Teal 🙏🏻

[@margaretcullagh5954]

@Pinned Teal Swan.. Hi...it seems I’m again ‘looking for clarity!’ ...what do you mean ‘beneficial knowledge’ ... I’m also not sure what the number sequence means.

[@1962Andre]

I really enjoyed watching this video, and for sure opened an eye for me. Even though I am not in relationship, for sure this is something to think off when I encounter a possible partner.

[@michaellakyjonkova8495]

Such a powerful content! Thank you for sharing!

[@Tylervrooman]

Oh yeah... difference is important.

[@lucymadelengregg4482]

She sais what I think all the time. AGAIN 100% agree.

[@philly111]

Thank you for this video, much appreciated!

[@Dr.EricBerg-m8z]

◾ᴛʜᴀɴᴋs ғᴏʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛɪɴɢ, ᴍᴀᴋᴇ ᴀ ɴᴏᴛᴇ ᴛᴏ ʟʏɴɴ ɢʀᴀʏ ʀᴇɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ ʙᴛᴄ/ᴇᴛʜ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɪᴅᴇᴀs 𝚃ᵉ𝚇ţ𝄍𝑾𝒉𝔮τ𝑠𝑨𝑝𝑝 ±𝟏𝟐𝟏𝟎𝟓𝟕𝟎𝟐𝟖𝟐𝟏 ʟᴇᴛ ʜɪᴍ ᴋɴᴏᴡ ɪ ʀᴇғᴇʀʀᴇᴅ ʏᴏᴜ..

[@D-A-N-]

no one is going to be fully compatible . we have to compromise to make it work.

[@ingridblohm-hyde805]

This was really brilliant - thank you

[@Dr.EricBerg-m8z]

◾ᴛʜᴀɴᴋs ғᴏʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛɪɴɢ, ᴍᴀᴋᴇ ᴀ ɴᴏᴛᴇ ᴛᴏ ʟʏɴɴ ɢʀᴀʏ ʀᴇɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ ʙᴛᴄ/ᴇᴛʜ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɪᴅᴇᴀs 𝚃ᵉ𝚇ţ𝄍𝑾𝒉𝔮τ𝑠𝑨𝑝𝑝 ±𝟏𝟐𝟏𝟎𝟓𝟕𝟎𝟐𝟖𝟐𝟏 ʟᴇᴛ ʜɪᴍ ᴋɴᴏᴡ ɪ ʀᴇғᴇʀʀᴇᴅ ʏᴏᴜ..

[@allysinlombard]

Lydia sounds like a good fit for me…just putting it out there energetically

[@sulyy_1]

Amazing message. Thank you

[@brunolima8506]

Have found my love for that mind, again in this video, your eyes are sublime, and the tune of your voice delightful, it feels good to sync.

[@Dr.EricBerg-m8z]

◾ᴛʜᴀɴᴋs ғᴏʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛɪɴɢ, ᴍᴀᴋᴇ ᴀ ɴᴏᴛᴇ ᴛᴏ ʟʏɴɴ ɢʀᴀʏ ʀᴇɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ ʙᴛᴄ/ᴇᴛʜ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɪᴅᴇᴀs 𝚃ᵉ𝚇ţ𝄍𝑾𝒉𝔮τ𝑠𝑨𝑝𝑝 ±𝟏𝟐𝟏𝟎𝟓𝟕𝟎𝟐𝟖𝟐𝟏 ʟᴇᴛ ʜɪᴍ ᴋɴᴏᴡ ɪ ʀᴇғᴇʀʀᴇᴅ ʏᴏᴜ.....

[@janinweinkauf5900]

Thank you so much for every video! I love you Teal

[@Dr.EricBerg-m8z]

◾ᴛʜᴀɴᴋs ғᴏʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛɪɴɢ, ᴍᴀᴋᴇ ᴀ ɴᴏᴛᴇ ᴛᴏ ʟʏɴɴ ɢʀᴀʏ ʀᴇɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ ʙᴛᴄ/ᴇᴛʜ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɪᴅᴇᴀs 𝚃ᵉ𝚇ţ𝄍𝑾𝒉𝔮τ𝑠𝑨𝑝𝑝 ±𝟏𝟐𝟏𝟎𝟓𝟕𝟎𝟐𝟖𝟐𝟏 ʟᴇᴛ ʜɪᴍ ᴋɴᴏᴡ ɪ ʀᴇғᴇʀʀᴇᴅ ʏᴏᴜ.....

[@MaryBelle1111]

This was so Amazing ! ❤💞💫

[@VictoriaWonders]

most people are excited about someone, I guess not everyone experiences that same passion, everything is a transaction to they of which they have no understanding of, like for example they dont understand social and spiritual caring aspects they only think in career ladder, possession and monetary wise.

[@VictoriaWonders]

then there are upbringing conflicts from our childhoods and we choose partners who reflect a parent because it is that safe, when in reality there is a LOT of shadowwork wich most people cant understand and live thorug

[@maricelaelizondo2482]

This was totally mind blowing and of course it makes total sense. Thank you very much Lee fourth amount successful and symbiotic relationship

[@taltalit2]

Great one with all. Great topic

[@cassiestevens8382]

Awesome & amazing. Thanks.💜🌹

[@ISLANDHARMONYSTJ]

Excellent video. Thank you ❤️🙏❤️

[@daminidalai]

Teal please make another video on parts work with some more for us to know..!!!!!!!!!!

[@markb9347]

Well articulated.

[@nf7334]

good timing

[@rolandr9131]

Loved it!

[@darthfiende1]

This was helpful.

[@mayahmorgenstern6063]

That was simple basic and usefull. It's funny your can brilliant, you can be simple corresponding to my actual sentimental immaturity. Thanks Teal Thanks

[@martinaunterreiter8945]

Thank you 🙏🏽💫

[@HeartSpaceMagic]

Lovely video💞🌟

[@berniv7375]

Thank you for the video.🙂

[@Dr.EricBerg-m8z]

◾ᴛʜᴀɴᴋs ғᴏʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛɪɴɢ, ᴍᴀᴋᴇ ᴀ ɴᴏᴛᴇ ᴛᴏ ʟʏɴɴ ɢʀᴀʏ ʀᴇɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ ʙᴛᴄ/ᴇᴛʜ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɪᴅᴇᴀs 𝚃ᵉ𝚇ţ𝄍𝑾𝒉𝔮τ𝑠𝑨𝑝𝑝 ±𝟏𝟐𝟏𝟎𝟓𝟕𝟎𝟐𝟖𝟐𝟏 ʟᴇᴛ ʜɪᴍ ᴋɴᴏᴡ ɪ ʀᴇғᴇʀʀᴇᴅ ʏᴏᴜ....

[@mariedeloine7734]

I think this is what the polarity mean. Too people with too much yang for exemple can never match. For exemple I’m a really sensitive person and my ex was like me really emotional make a lot of drama. And it was really complicated because I needed someone to be stable. To be more rational. For exemple I like to cook I’m a really creative personne si i like really intelligent guy in tech for exemple. I know I can bring him joy and softness. And he can bring me security and stability.

[@myjohnsonnuranus8053]

yeah I don't think anybody could be the same as Lady Swan

[@LeNoir2411]

My best friend of over 10yr is complete opposite of me but we're so attached to each other.. we started out as 'enemies' in middle school , naturally because of how different we are, she's very private and hates friendly people, that's me 😂 while i just don't like her tenseness..but guess what, we slowly warmed up to eachother in highschool, and surprisingly! We just somehow get along, yes we argue a lot, due to her lack of communication and my habit of confrontation.. but along the way, we learn to try to understand eachother and yes, my ego is kinda small, I'm quite shameless and honest, no I'm not putting myself up on pedestal but rather being more self aware than people around me, while she on the other hand, is very loyal and puts so much efforts in something or someone she loves.. so i tend to acknowledge my shortcomings and apologize while she likes showing her efforts by actions so for example she'd cook something for me as an apology.. we're so different and that's what makes our friendship grow, because we can learn something new from eachother thus broaden our perspectives..but the things we have in common is actually we both tend to shove our feelings down ,we both craves for something meaningful but are afraid to lay it all bare, we both tends to wants to be a better person, we both are 'childish but old souls' deeps down so, when things are hard, we'd open up about our feelings spontaneously..

[@Dr.EricBerg-m8z]

◾ᴛʜᴀɴᴋs ғᴏʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛɪɴɢ, ᴍᴀᴋᴇ ᴀ ɴᴏᴛᴇ ᴛᴏ ʟʏɴɴ ɢʀᴀʏ ʀᴇɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ ʙᴛᴄ/ᴇᴛʜ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɪᴅᴇᴀs 𝚃ᵉ𝚇ţ𝄍𝑾𝒉𝔮τ𝑠𝑨𝑝𝑝 ±𝟏𝟐𝟏𝟎𝟓𝟕𝟎𝟐𝟖𝟐𝟏 ʟᴇᴛ ʜɪᴍ ᴋɴᴏᴡ ɪ ʀᴇғᴇʀʀᴇᴅ ʏᴏᴜ..

[@carlykit2975]

This is so interesting. 😳

[@michaelbrookins2720]

Your best friend and oltamet lover that is what we are looking for !!

[@GypsyEyes]

teal u genius

[@erickf0xxx1]

I just broke up with my gf of 4 years because I was in denial we were compatible. The universe kept sending me messages and I ignored 🙁

[@belove2091]

Thank you 🙏😊❤️

[@anufdo9554]

I love you 💕 I love you 💕 I love youuuuuuu teallll

[@Dr.EricBerg-m8z]

◾ᴛʜᴀɴᴋs ғᴏʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛɪɴɢ, ᴍᴀᴋᴇ ᴀ ɴᴏᴛᴇ ᴛᴏ ʟʏɴɴ ɢʀᴀʏ ʀᴇɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ ʙᴛᴄ/ᴇᴛʜ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɪᴅᴇᴀs 𝚃ᵉ𝚇ţ𝄍𝑾𝒉𝔮τ𝑠𝑨𝑝𝑝 ±𝟏𝟐𝟏𝟎𝟓𝟕𝟎𝟐𝟖𝟐𝟏 ʟᴇᴛ ʜɪᴍ ᴋɴᴏᴡ ɪ ʀᴇғᴇʀʀᴇᴅ ʏᴏᴜ....

[@rural_girl555]

i just realized now that me and my ex-'friend" were no where near compatible. but i became friends with the person because me and that person had lots of common interests and likes and dislikes and were like: "omg!! we're like twins, we're so alike!!" 😒

[@pocketfulofposey]

Well, I’m not attract to someone like me so that’s good. The incompatibilities I come across are I’m a fast mover when I know what I want and he’s a slow mover who takes time to get to know what he wants.

[@gmlgml780]

I almost dropped my mind listening to Teal. (No, not 'cause she looked especially good this time.) But once I was with a girl who liked the sex more in the evenings, but I like it more in the mornings. This was a big conflict, we can say we were quite much incompatible. But it was resolving easily by having sex all the day. From morning to evening and from the evening to mornings. We thought that we are compatible. In the first few years. After that, the incompatibility showed its true face.

[@dreamadii]

Can you make a video about differences and incompatibility

[@Dr.EricBerg-m8z]

◾ᴛʜᴀɴᴋs ғᴏʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛɪɴɢ, ᴍᴀᴋᴇ ᴀ ɴᴏᴛᴇ ᴛᴏ ʟʏɴɴ ɢʀᴀʏ ʀᴇɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ ʙᴛᴄ/ᴇᴛʜ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɪᴅᴇᴀs 𝚃ᵉ𝚇ţ𝄍𝑾𝒉𝔮τ𝑠𝑨𝑝𝑝 ±𝟏𝟐𝟏𝟎𝟓𝟕𝟎𝟐𝟖𝟐𝟏 ʟᴇᴛ ʜɪᴍ ᴋɴᴏᴡ ɪ ʀᴇғᴇʀʀᴇᴅ ʏᴏᴜ.....

[@raneenalsayegh2950]

Haha her example of the friendship thing is exactly like the podcast call her daddy 😂💯

[@Ohkeh640]

Please talk about how to know if you are compatible

[@jm543]

Opposites attract each other but it's in a short run only. If you don't have the same values everything will go to waste. I love intelligent men. Once I was in a relationship with a man who was less intelligent than me, who constantly needed support and reassurance. He was like a woman really or that is how I perceived him. In the end he diguisted me because he could never stand for himself and was like a doormat in a work envinorment. Also problem solving was always in my hands. I started hating him in the end. I liked how sweet and gentle he was in the beginning but the more I get to know him the less attracted I was in the end.

[@kimberleykooijman5848]

Teal has this other video about this, called: the dupe of dating I have experienced this also, and having a kid and feeling duped absolutely broked my heart. This broken masculinity and unhealthy symbiosis with their (toxic) mother is a really big thing.

[@Helen-jw6yb]

So maybe opposites not only attract but could well be right to stay together!😊

[@LuisRomero-bw1jp]

The binding question I bind you and mote it be ~hecate~ love

[@catherinekittykat]

Perfect!

[@jadaaleeshamindexpert7365]

As a person who came into this world "different" and has knowledge to teach, I would like to know how people like her started out sharing their knowledge. Did she start giving it to people he knew? Like family, friends? Because for me, no one wants to hear it. And it seems like I cant manifest a career in the knowledge if I'm not sharing it. But how do I do that if no one wants it.

[@debrabloch3003]

Wooooo watch out for if you dont value some valuable just because you have a lot of it

[@evantochydlowski4787]

Look for symbiosis, not sameness. Noted! ☯️

[@Dequa21]

I feel like in a "healthy" relationship...having the ability to have and recognize a mutual understanding of given feeling or emotion to the self versus the other. There's something that has a natural gravitational push and pull in the connection. Relationships don't have to be so analytical. If you are attracted to them. You are going to want and need to be there. Bit let's be honest here shall we? As a collective we also believe in longevity of life...how can your intimate relationship with the other bring you and all of us..."success" in the universe. It's only then...in the art of allowing those people for the people to say...yeah those two would make sense. Or NOT make sense come to fruition.

[@zafirorubi8251]

Excelent⭐👏

[@mohaameed3609]

Great video and super channel dear beautiful moon good luck dear