The science of falling in love - Shannon Odell

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TED-Ed

TED-Ed

Күн бұрын

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@anonymousnation5235
@anonymousnation5235 Жыл бұрын
So getting over a breakup is just the brain's struggle in forgetting the old source of dopamine and finding new source of dopamine. Fascinating.
@BLET_55artem55
@BLET_55artem55 Жыл бұрын
It's like jumping from coke to weeb
@plsss476
@plsss476 Жыл бұрын
It's the brain's transition from loving someone else to loving yourself
@VANAMALASUDHAKAR-i5t
@VANAMALASUDHAKAR-i5t 8 ай бұрын
Sounds good 😅
@Megaman.ExE7
@Megaman.ExE7 5 ай бұрын
This comment gave me more insight than the video
@Joseph-j2v2q
@Joseph-j2v2q 5 ай бұрын
Or Dr Pepper to mr PIBb
@Okari_Plays
@Okari_Plays Жыл бұрын
Ted-Ed really made us emotionally invested in this man’s life. 😩😩😩 Netflix series when? 😳
@sharonmoore3966
@sharonmoore3966 Жыл бұрын
I was over here hurt😢! Then happy and now feeling like how do we move on from here, geesh, I need chocolate now
@patrickjarvis631
@patrickjarvis631 Жыл бұрын
Pixar-level emotional rollercoaster. He even looks like me lmao
@tsukuyomirai5264
@tsukuyomirai5264 Жыл бұрын
@@patrickjarvis631 yes, I had to check it😂
@Aman-qr6wi
@Aman-qr6wi Жыл бұрын
@@patrickjarvis631 exactly, 😂
@goldengold8513
@goldengold8513 Жыл бұрын
Why those emojis tho-
@breadman2983
@breadman2983 Жыл бұрын
I hope having an understanding of how my brain functions can help me be more logical in future, and avoid toxic relationships.
@DanA-pm2hl
@DanA-pm2hl Жыл бұрын
pray to dream Bread Man.... pray to dream
@syedbasiljaved6201
@syedbasiljaved6201 Жыл бұрын
Unfortunately, it usually doesn’t. We often make the same mistakes, and also, learning about something only makes us a fractionally more logical. But maybe in a very very small way, you’ll have that clarity.
@DanA-pm2hl
@DanA-pm2hl Жыл бұрын
@@syedbasiljaved6201 All true. But now, thanks to this video, you'll know the life you have, is the one you have chosen for yourself...
@kobeleonard148
@kobeleonard148 Жыл бұрын
Well played agenda in animations lol love of two bulls and you just have to accept and admit the distorted morals 😂😂😂
@e-ben616
@e-ben616 Жыл бұрын
I have a friend (who is the most logical person I know) in a toxic relationship. It's not that he doesn't know he's being illogical. He knows but it's still a struggle to let go. I understand him because I've been in his shoes as well. It's one thing to know but at the end of the day humans are emotional beings and so Knowing and feeling are two different things.
@secretsri
@secretsri Жыл бұрын
This was an award-winning animated short on its own. TedEd, you always raise your own bar.
@ryanbrimson8238
@ryanbrimson8238 Жыл бұрын
No replies? But yes I definitely agree
@yashatwal5922
@yashatwal5922 Жыл бұрын
What's the name of the short film?
@hazardharvey
@hazardharvey Жыл бұрын
that's g*y 🤮🤬
@jackbean07
@jackbean07 Жыл бұрын
​@yashatwal5922 all. In mm no no job n . Mm JJ in j
@selenay502
@selenay502 Жыл бұрын
⁠@@yashatwal5922yea now I’m curious too
@meaning1780
@meaning1780 Жыл бұрын
as a 19 year old who just entered stage 1 for the first time, I just hatefully love this video for its honesty PS: hoping that it lasts though EDIT: Its been 3 months and while our love was on an exponential growth a few days ago the first tremors creeped into the relationship, something I was theoretically but not emotionally prepared for. I wonder what the future holds... EDIT2: its been a year together and we had a sweet little anniversary celebration. I don't think I've ever matured as much as I've matured in this year ever before in my life. Everytime, I feel I've reached the pinnacle of my love for her and boy does is just keep surging ahead faster. She's no longer a date, she's family
@Zuko-kn4ez
@Zuko-kn4ez Жыл бұрын
Good luck on your journey mate
@kishwar541
@kishwar541 Жыл бұрын
I hope so too 💗
@sharmeenkhan5911
@sharmeenkhan5911 Жыл бұрын
Just don't let the trust go between you both good luck for ur journey 🫶🏻
@novemberninth4392
@novemberninth4392 Жыл бұрын
I wish you luck!
@lordlistowell8054
@lordlistowell8054 Жыл бұрын
It won’t last. Reply when it ends.
@paramgalib040
@paramgalib040 Жыл бұрын
Not a single ted-ed video is lesser than the other. They keep improving and teaching something new every time. ❤️
@incalculable_
@incalculable_ Жыл бұрын
777 likes!! i don't wanna ruin it😩 but you’re definitely right!!❤
@cryodawn
@cryodawn Жыл бұрын
But if they kept improving, wouldn't the old one be lesser than the new one? 😜
@sumanrodrigues9807
@sumanrodrigues9807 Жыл бұрын
“But what is grief, if not love persevering?” -Vision Beautiful video Ted -ed! ❤️
@futuristic.handgun
@futuristic.handgun Жыл бұрын
Love that quote, thank you for sharing! 💓
@sanatanipandit1166
@sanatanipandit1166 Жыл бұрын
Meaning ?
@abubakr8824
@abubakr8824 8 ай бұрын
@@sanatanipandit1166 The loss of the lover doesn't mean the loss of love
@remiidr3660
@remiidr3660 Жыл бұрын
I love how you guys are not only focusing on the scientific side of everything, but now also exploring the complexity of human emotions, nature, and how we navigate through life. It is important to gain knowledge about the physical world. At the same time, shining some light onto human behaviors, what make us who we are and our ways of thinking is, from my point of view, at equal significance. Really hope to see more videos like this. Keep up the good work guys. Regards.
@VOXHUNTING
@VOXHUNTING Жыл бұрын
I'm doing this because I'm confused why I feel this way I can't stop smiling and at random points I cry happy tears
@icysnow57cold64
@icysnow57cold64 Жыл бұрын
I don't think the romantic type of love is special. And I am started to think that the romantic type of love isn't real. I mean about more than half of romantic couples either break up with each other or divorce each other, while most platonic best friends remain friends until death. I think that having a platonic best friend is a lot better than having a romantic partner or spouse is. Having someone who's like a sibling to you is a lot better than having a romantic partner or spouse. Also, you are more likely to be much more closer to someone who's like a brother or sister to you than you would be with a romantic partner or spouse.
@nathanlee6654
@nathanlee6654 Жыл бұрын
Did I seriously have to find this video after going through infatuation, compassionate love, and heartbreak? This would have been really helpful back in February when we first confessed feelings for each other. But even though the heartbreak hurt so much, I would do it all over again.
@dayanamartinez1846
@dayanamartinez1846 Жыл бұрын
i would too
@carterstubel1902
@carterstubel1902 Жыл бұрын
Likewise. Always good to keep ur chin up and view every love as a learning experience (which seems like what you've done) and have fun along the way. It's heartbreaking 4 sure but as my mom always said "sometimes nothing heals but time always will."
@syedsidra3706
@syedsidra3706 Жыл бұрын
How would you have avoided it? Just asking
@bluaurax
@bluaurax Жыл бұрын
I already confessed like two days ago to my lover and I am so happy she felt the same way. Since then, I’ve felt like a completely changed human being and my brain seems to have like altered in a way. I’m so glad that I found this video, so I know what is really going on with me.
@uffu2490
@uffu2490 Жыл бұрын
Oh my god, the feeling of falling in love is wow - it’s one of the best feelings. Never give up.
@etherealmoonlight67
@etherealmoonlight67 Жыл бұрын
It is the best feeling in the world..love is everything
@nabnuon
@nabnuon Жыл бұрын
I feel really terrible after my first heartbreak during adolescence, but I find it rewarding to learn all the faults I made... Still hurtful to think back about the memories, but they're all in the past. I should let them forever be the past...
@BowChickaWow
@BowChickaWow Жыл бұрын
Well said my friend
@msnoodletv8607
@msnoodletv8607 Жыл бұрын
Learn from your faults and theirs we are humans don’t become a monster
@tranvu5655
@tranvu5655 Жыл бұрын
You are vietnamese, right :>>?
@Ourelleetsy
@Ourelleetsy Жыл бұрын
It hurts, still does Especially when you have to ask "am i just that, that much in the end?"
@Kitiwake
@Kitiwake Жыл бұрын
Why don't you, then?
@stereophonic_
@stereophonic_ Жыл бұрын
Absolutely adore the changes in animation style through the video and color palette, along with the story used to educate ^ ^ Very informational and beautifully made
@catdogmousecheese
@catdogmousecheese Жыл бұрын
What I want to know is how does this animation look 2-D and 3-D at the same time?! Doesn't that defy physics?! Are these animators gods?!
@brandonnguyen6718
@brandonnguyen6718 Жыл бұрын
@@catdogmousecheese I'm pretty sure that during the "planner moments", the people are 3D which some 2D effects over top, and the setting around them is 2D.
@joelkirkpatrick5688
@joelkirkpatrick5688 Жыл бұрын
Love is like a rose; It's both happy and painful at the same time.
@Rowosehip
@Rowosehip Жыл бұрын
There's a Turkish saying: The one who loves a rose must also endure its thorns.
@white4346
@white4346 Жыл бұрын
@@Rowosehip wow!
@RosheenQuynh
@RosheenQuynh Жыл бұрын
Yup. There's a reason it represents romance
@alexng4
@alexng4 Жыл бұрын
every rose has a thorn
@mr_man_in_the_white_van
@mr_man_in_the_white_van Жыл бұрын
@@Rowosehip cool, but did i ask? jk im not toxic or bad or anything
@ankit_s
@ankit_s Жыл бұрын
Being a 20 year old and feeling the emotional pain of heartbreak is agonizing. It's the hardest truth of life "you may love a person but the other person doesn't share the same emotion" accept it and find the one who loves you and accept you the way you are .
@shubhmishra66
@shubhmishra66 Жыл бұрын
Love with family is true... Love with opposite gender is false... It's only lust... Only this you must know, and you are set free!
@fat9457
@fat9457 Жыл бұрын
This is true i feel you i've been there
@fetusman2248
@fetusman2248 Жыл бұрын
@@happyandhappyonly yeah bro great idea lol
@franciscochiappero2164
@franciscochiappero2164 Жыл бұрын
​@@shubhmishra66 wtf
@Recoome_Kick
@Recoome_Kick Жыл бұрын
@@shubhmishra66love for family isn’t true either it’s obligation to them because they are consider blood. There is no true love imo.
@hendrasutika
@hendrasutika Жыл бұрын
stages of falling in love: 1. infatuation/passionate love (excessively daydreaming about someone and wanting to spend more time with them - and last for a few months) 2. attachment/ compassionate love (start to observe and know the downfalls of our partner and cope with them or against them)
@austins9742
@austins9742 Жыл бұрын
Imagine being a research participant for this and the doc just says "Alright, so now we're going to look at some pictures of your ex."
@bianca4829
@bianca4829 Ай бұрын
😂 this comment has me rolling
@kurtjohnpalomaria342
@kurtjohnpalomaria342 Жыл бұрын
I had a whirlwind relationship with a girl. It was as passionate as humanly possible. We shunned the rest of the world as we loved and quarreled. Family included. We broke up after 2 years. it was excruciating to be without her, but a blanket of toxic selfishness coated our once loving relationship. 5 years later. I met her on a chance encounter and it was an absolute whirlwind like before.Because of the sins of the past, It was more challenging this time around, but we managed to pull through. Our time apart made me realize that I have always loved her. Even when we were apart, i still loved her. Selfishness just got in the way. I just Hope that everyone gets the same chance as we did.
@ritamatos5871
@ritamatos5871 Жыл бұрын
How long have you been together now?
@gyeomibear
@gyeomibear Жыл бұрын
Thats good for you, man
@ooky4986
@ooky4986 Жыл бұрын
What a chance
@meapyboy12345
@meapyboy12345 Жыл бұрын
Damn good for you man
@Doogalebot12
@Doogalebot12 Жыл бұрын
Bro when update??
@gggg3690
@gggg3690 Жыл бұрын
I understand the video wanted to explain the brain activity of a heartbroken person but their break up made me so sad 😭😭😭
@almaraimilk7805
@almaraimilk7805 Жыл бұрын
Noone cares noone loved u
@schokoloko2092
@schokoloko2092 Жыл бұрын
@@almaraimilk7805 aww, we still love you, sweetie! even if you rather be mad and hateful.
@gurnoor3326
@gurnoor3326 6 ай бұрын
EXACTLY i was rooting for them : (((
@khangphan1245
@khangphan1245 Жыл бұрын
When I watched this video, I saw hope and the brighter future for anybody who belongs to my community
@humptydumpty-m8u
@humptydumpty-m8u 8 ай бұрын
Romantic love is two persons who are willing to be together and love each other no matter what kind of hardship is ahead.❤
@amisharai8699
@amisharai8699 Жыл бұрын
The animation and story board were so cool! I loved his journal entries tho it made me sad when they broke up :'(
@rehanpoonawalla7406
@rehanpoonawalla7406 Жыл бұрын
Why was I actually invested in their story
@abdelabdu3721
@abdelabdu3721 Жыл бұрын
WHY IS THIS SO CUTE? this love story NEEDS to become a book series or something
@cherryblossom1339
@cherryblossom1339 Жыл бұрын
heartstopper exists :)
@adannayoutube4243
@adannayoutube4243 Жыл бұрын
@@cherryblossom1339 omg i just realized all the parallels this has to heartstopper
@rayjustslay
@rayjustslay Жыл бұрын
​@@adannayoutube4243omg ikrr
@danielm.4346
@danielm.4346 Жыл бұрын
"CUTE"???
@etherealmoonlight67
@etherealmoonlight67 Жыл бұрын
Frfr
@emilyharkness9685
@emilyharkness9685 Жыл бұрын
I can’t thank you guys enough for this beautiful animation. It’s helping me figure myself out and how I love the people around me by explaining things in a rational way. It’s a thousand times better than someone saying, “oh, you’ll know when you’re in love”, because I don’t know if it’s that or not.
@kd_ss
@kd_ss 8 ай бұрын
Almost shed a tear for when the guy was longing for his man after the breakup 😢♥️
@uyenhuynhlephuong5612
@uyenhuynhlephuong5612 Жыл бұрын
Omg, I love the way you build up this video's characters. The animation is so cute!
@munyee618
@munyee618 Жыл бұрын
i love this animation so much. And i love that at the end of rollercoaster ride, which represents his experience and journey of love, his partner wasn’t there anymore on the ride, instead of looking very depressed, he looks back and smile. As if he has learned and move on. Knowing he’ll be okay
@Kimm134Saya
@Kimm134Saya Жыл бұрын
I realized a month ago that the reason why I couldn't establish any romantic relationship since I broke up with my first and last relationship in 2015 was because I have already fallen for a good friend back in 2014. However, due to a lot of personal reasons, I could not confess my feelings. Fast forward to 2023, after an unexpected incident, I finally realized and accepted that the reason I could not seem to find the one for me is because I have already found her, but the realization came too late. She has been in a healthy relationship for almost 4 years. I'm experiencing all 3 stages, but mainly the 1st and 3rd, at the same time. It's heartbreaking to live through regret.
@Aspen_K.A._Swan
@Aspen_K.A._Swan 20 күн бұрын
I was eleven. I knew the heartbreak phase would happen before anything even began. I didn't go through infatuation long. I saw her faults, and loved her for them. I always saved her favorite chair for her in the library even though it would put her farther away from me. I watched her from afar and quietly appreciated the moments when she went up and talked to me, or held my hand, or pressed her face to mine. And then, one day, I looked at her and realized that it felt like home. A place where I belonged. Where I fit. This is doomed, but I can still hope. I can still enjoy the feeling of being in love. Because if there's one mistake I won't make, it's being so desperate to get out of love, so afraid of heartbreak, that I don't let myself feel. I'm running headfirst into pain with no regrets.
@sysohil6132
@sysohil6132 Жыл бұрын
There are all kinds of love in this world but never the same love twice ~ F.Scott Fitzgerald
@yolojb7812
@yolojb7812 Жыл бұрын
This is not enough I need a whole series with these two OCs!!
@spookyplaguedoctor5714
@spookyplaguedoctor5714 Жыл бұрын
I remember when my girlfriend and I first broke up, it was especially painful because it wasn't out of an argument but rather because she was afraid her parents would disapprove of it. At least now I'm glad it happened, like developing immunity to an illness.
@zarifmoonwar6949
@zarifmoonwar6949 Жыл бұрын
Mine was also not out of an argument , We broke up happily , but afterwards it had hurt me so much
@strange_and_magnificent
@strange_and_magnificent Жыл бұрын
I really love how Ted Ed used a timeline in the video. Makes it more investing.
@marvsgonz55055
@marvsgonz55055 8 ай бұрын
For someone who's never fallen in love, I totally love this video ❤
@MohitSaini-jy9hd
@MohitSaini-jy9hd Жыл бұрын
I improve my English everyday because Ted-ed makes beautiful and animation videos and it doesn't see bore. It helps me to increase best vocabulary.
@everythingaboutbcs1060
@everythingaboutbcs1060 7 ай бұрын
Listen to metal
@debbyvergoossen7610
@debbyvergoossen7610 9 ай бұрын
In the infactuation stage now.. I always HATE the fact that this ends. It just feels soooo good!!!!
@kumyrmoloditasportu
@kumyrmoloditasportu 8 ай бұрын
I am so thankful to you for the usage of that beautiful homoromantic animated clip. It reminds me I’m valid, everything mentioned applies to me just as well, and it’ll be fine eventually.
@anotheran0n
@anotheran0n Жыл бұрын
Worthy to mention, though, that falling in love is all that chemical activity right before the attachment level of a relationship, and that the attachment level, if successfully passed, is the indication of true love (not just falling in love). This has a lot to do with how the definition of love has been getting ambiguated, specially through the western culture.
@ohbruhwhat
@ohbruhwhat Жыл бұрын
i honestly agree. the infatuation stage is really just your brain in need of that dopamine(not saying that it is 100% of the time) However, once you get into that stage and you learn about their strengths, weaknesses, and what they truly are and STILL accepting them, you truly are in love.
@auun2101
@auun2101 Жыл бұрын
What's anon mean ?
@anotheran0n
@anotheran0n Жыл бұрын
@@auun2101 anonymous :)
@ldxstormeaglex2194
@ldxstormeaglex2194 6 ай бұрын
I really agree with this. It's frustrating that culturally we aren't more specific about distinguishing falling in love VS true love/compassionate love. Especially for young kids who are just starting to experience these emotions, we aren't giving them a good framework to interpret how they are feeling. To them a swashbuckling romance is true love despite the fact it could be (and often is) toxic.
@sristibarai5916
@sristibarai5916 Жыл бұрын
Dude! While everyone is on about the content of the video, I'm like, THE FRIGGING ANIMATION!!!!!!! Another level man!
@saraluisa3261
@saraluisa3261 Жыл бұрын
Last year I went not through my first, but my worst heartbreak so far. Now this video was recommended as I am falling for someone new again. I hope that I have learned from my past experiences and that this time it won't devastate me as much, but whatever comes, I will be enjoying my infatuation for as long as it lasts.
@heartsbreaktwice872
@heartsbreaktwice872 Жыл бұрын
I dated a girl and obviously didn't go well. Soon after, she found a new boy, my friend, who was infinitely better than me I basically just listened to a band I liked (Keane) because most of their songs are breakup songs. Then one day, I woke up, heard a song titled 'Watch How You Go', and it made me open my eyes that at least I wish her well in her life with her new boyfriend, and I don't care anymore, I moved on. I sent the song to her, and said thank you. I don't think she understands what I meant though.
@JansenGlasc
@JansenGlasc Жыл бұрын
This animation style FUCKS. Like for real, I fell in love. Simply incredible
@dev_esh01
@dev_esh01 Жыл бұрын
I want to fall in love. I'm tired of spending all my time being sad and alone, being desperate and lonely. Things are hard right now but yeah let's hope for the best. Everyone deserves the love that they give back don't they?
@timeme5460
@timeme5460 Жыл бұрын
well I think its important to make a distinction between deserving love and deserving the love you give back everyone deserves to be loved, but you shouldn't love with the expectation to receive something in return
@Cthaegon
@Cthaegon Жыл бұрын
@@timeme5460 Absolutely.
@bellezavudd
@bellezavudd Жыл бұрын
Falling in love is no guarantee that a person wont be sad and alone.
@rosecoloredbby
@rosecoloredbby Жыл бұрын
@@bellezavudd that's definitely true, but I think OP means they want that kind of companionship in which they WONT feel sad and alone. As in, specifically.
@emmaogunjimi1579
@emmaogunjimi1579 Жыл бұрын
Jesus ❤
@futuristic.handgun
@futuristic.handgun Жыл бұрын
My last heartbreak broke me from ever wanting to fall in love again. There really isn't true moving on for me. I'm on good terms with my ex and he's still a friend, so it's not because I didn't get closure. But because I don't ever want to go through that pain again. I'd rather be dead.
@alokkumar5123
@alokkumar5123 28 күн бұрын
what is your opinion now?
@futuristic.handgun
@futuristic.handgun 27 күн бұрын
@@alokkumar5123 Same thing. My ex and I don't speak anymore, but yeah, I still am good on all that
@CatherineChu7994
@CatherineChu7994 Жыл бұрын
Love is something that tored up my heart into pieces 2 years ago . But I gradually accepted it as a heart-wreching is inenvitable when you had a connection with a careless man.
@bachvutuyetvoi3789
@bachvutuyetvoi3789 Жыл бұрын
Fantastic video. I watch when I was a bit drunk, just made my girl sad and felt really terrible, but I still can feel it. Thanks for making it. And if my girl can read this cmt, I just wanna say I just think for her, all the time. I love her so much.
@MartinKuras
@MartinKuras Жыл бұрын
Don't tell us - tell her!
@AkaneTendo
@AkaneTendo Жыл бұрын
You should tell her. Please don't build some hopes up that your girl will read this comment. Say it to her instead. She will appreciate that more than reading this comment on KZbin.
@bachvutuyetvoi3789
@bachvutuyetvoi3789 Жыл бұрын
@@AkaneTendo yah I did tell her. Fortunately, we just misunderstood each other a little bit. We're okay now. Thanks guys for caring about me - really don't think sbd will reply to my cmt
@vojislavS8652
@vojislavS8652 Жыл бұрын
This is an amazing video that gives a rational explanation to irrational process of falling in or out of love that most people don't get. It's natural and it needs to happen, i love how your channel is able to explain many things in under 10 min. Nice job and keep being awsome
@moroccanblossom9612
@moroccanblossom9612 Жыл бұрын
I watched this video when everything just started and now I'm watching it again with tears in my eyes
@victoriacastillo6610
@victoriacastillo6610 7 ай бұрын
thank you for this, going thru a breakup ain’t easy at all 🥺😭
@FM-oc7ol
@FM-oc7ol Жыл бұрын
I love how beautifully this is put, social and visual media really makes love a confusing thing where ur not sure whether what u have is love or not, in the end i feel, its the intensity of the heartbreak that tells.
@Ebola-Jones
@Ebola-Jones Жыл бұрын
Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.
@megapp114
@megapp114 Жыл бұрын
Lucky are those who experienced love ❤️
@maryaby525
@maryaby525 Жыл бұрын
Love will be unexpectedly waiting for you during Your Path of life
@catdogmousecheese
@catdogmousecheese Жыл бұрын
Love, unlike matter or energy, is of an infinite supply in the universe.
@Sch0lar4h1re
@Sch0lar4h1re Жыл бұрын
The research is beautifully animated and expertly summarized. Also, Good Luck to anyone looking for love nearing the end of 2022 and into 2023.
@mthuhaha5064
@mthuhaha5064 Жыл бұрын
i love how teded just illustrates fallin in love by bringing 2 men. thats so sweet
@rabukaxen9595
@rabukaxen9595 Жыл бұрын
Is no one going to appreciate the fact ted-ed decided to use an LGBTQ+ example? Props to representation Edit: Y’all are fighting it out in the replies…thanks for the 800 likes ♥
@rudrakshi2256
@rudrakshi2256 Жыл бұрын
Noticed that. That's a beautiful way of explainin ❤
@kh41245
@kh41245 Жыл бұрын
APPRECIATE? Y'ALL NEED HELP LOL
@priyanktiwari5152
@priyanktiwari5152 Жыл бұрын
I hv shared it with u all of my community frnds
@nept6nes
@nept6nes Жыл бұрын
@@kh41245 Cry us a river 🤣 mad cause we’re on top
@rearedrain9722
@rearedrain9722 Жыл бұрын
No one should care ot appreciate it. If people do care about that stuff, the hate and missunderstanding will continue
@thePapermino
@thePapermino Жыл бұрын
The animation was absolutely calming. Loved everything about the video
@gloriousgearhead5367
@gloriousgearhead5367 Жыл бұрын
The journey from first spark to last tear… damn that was deep!
@sreevidhyasuresh3069
@sreevidhyasuresh3069 Жыл бұрын
i dont know which phase i m in but am still having the same strong feelings for him during our first weeks even now although its been 10 months together❤ it feels like the very first day
@salaisyabalqis3776
@salaisyabalqis3776 9 ай бұрын
Last two years was my first heartbreak of my first wlw relationship. And all the stages this video showed was literally what exactly I've been through as long as I'm healed. See this, I just open my mind that yeah, not only me feel this kind of way, and trust myself that I will find another one someday.
@ruchaabhyankar
@ruchaabhyankar 7 ай бұрын
"Given time and the support, most can heal and learn from even the most devastating heartbreak." 👏
@priyanshutogame
@priyanshutogame 5 ай бұрын
i really felt that after love heartbreaks and healing, i got matured and grow more.
@go0d_soup
@go0d_soup Жыл бұрын
okay ted-ed definitely left us hanging, crying for ep 2
@sibrahim3463
@sibrahim3463 Жыл бұрын
I feel like the main reason why people can only have relationships that last only a few months is that they crave that addictive feeling of being in love and when that feeling fades, they feel like they lost interest in their partner. This causes people to have problems maintaining long-term relationships because they need to feel "high off of love"
@alienum77
@alienum77 Жыл бұрын
Thank you, this is just the video I needed. It's been 3 weeks since the most amazing love I've ever known came to an end because my partner wanted to break up. I don't think she doesn't love me anymore, I think adulthood is hard and past trauma is difficult to overcome. But understanding it doesn't make it painless. I think about her often, and passionately. I wish everyone in the same situation a lot of strength. I know you need it, friend.
@ddesai2249
@ddesai2249 Жыл бұрын
I ❤️how every ted-ed video is soo different in terms of animation style and colour pallets ..it's like channel is collection of animation types..
@ihappydawnz
@ihappydawnz Жыл бұрын
the animation is so awesome!! they killed it fr
@ihappydawnz
@ihappydawnz Жыл бұрын
i also love how the colors in the guy’s bedroom is rainbow :)
@strawberrykun6136
@strawberrykun6136 Жыл бұрын
I was really down these couple of days and this video made me cheer up. That quote by Maya Angelou at the start is gold 💕
@sagarikarajbanshi5907
@sagarikarajbanshi5907 Жыл бұрын
Now, i can successfully call those things I love - You're my Dopamine. Also thanks Ted-Ed for voicing and bringing out the issue. Lots of people die because of rejection and unable to accept the situation. It may help them to reconsider it and giving life another chance, accepting life as it is.
@dmtdreamz7706
@dmtdreamz7706 Жыл бұрын
You are loved and cherished. You have nothing to fear. There is nothing you can do wrong. If I had to boil this entire message down to one sentence, it would run this way: You are loved. And if I had to boil it down further, to just one word, it would (of course) be, simply: Love.
@SierNotsruht
@SierNotsruht Жыл бұрын
All of those things are untrue buddy
@dmtdreamz7706
@dmtdreamz7706 Жыл бұрын
@@SierNotsruht A thousand years is but an instant. There's nothing new, nothing different; same pattern over and over. The same clouds, same music, the same things I felt an hour or an eternity ago. There's nothing here for me now, nothing at all. Now I remember, this happened to me before. This is why I left. You have begun to find your answers. Although it will seem difficult the rewards will be great. Exercise your human mind as fully as possible knowing that it is only an exercise. Build beautiful artifacts, solve problems, explore the secrets of the physical universe, savor the input from all the senses, filled with joy and sorrow and laughter, empathy, compassion, and tote the emotional memory in your travel bag. I remember where I came from, and how I became human, why I hung around, and now my final departure's scheduled. This way out, escaping velocity. Not just eternity, but Infinity.
@dimitristypaldos
@dimitristypaldos Жыл бұрын
I have so many questions about life, so TED-Ed is here for all of us, Thank you TED-Ed!
@phanlam5872
@phanlam5872 Жыл бұрын
the short video is of great value to the LGBTQ+ community since I have thought that they will never get depicted in educational videos like this. This has been a great breakthough, an innovative moves that show the care and cosideration that the content team pay to this community.
@Rachel-fi4sc
@Rachel-fi4sc Жыл бұрын
What happens with the brain chemistry when the relationship lasts? What are the later stages? How do big life changes - moving in together, getting a pet, having a child, growing old together - affect your brain and your perception of the relationship? How is the grief different when a partner dies of old age, or in childbirth, or if there's cheating after years of commitment? What causes the "7-Year Itch"? I have so many more questions!
@bluaurax
@bluaurax Жыл бұрын
I already confessed like two days ago to my lover and I am so happy she felt the same way. Since then, I’ve felt like a completely changed human being and my brain seems to have like altered in a way. I’m so glad that I found this video, so I know what is really going on with me.
@gvishwajith1739
@gvishwajith1739 4 ай бұрын
As a 16 year old who was deeply in love and then in heartbreak, the feeling was so agonizing. But learnin the actual biological reasons help me feel much better in understnding things in a logical sense instead of emotionally taking things forward.
@andiearson7853
@andiearson7853 Жыл бұрын
I love the way ted just make this video animation to be a love between to man. That makes it more special to me
@RE_24yo
@RE_24yo 8 ай бұрын
Nope it makes it worse
@amarillo1525
@amarillo1525 6 ай бұрын
You suck​@@RE_24yo
@santonen359
@santonen359 Жыл бұрын
I CAN RELATE SO MUCH TO THIS. Almost the same story in this video. He is a soccer player and yes I supported him on those times. We usually had chat before on a daily basis sending goodnight messages
@RickrollFoot
@RickrollFoot Жыл бұрын
ted ed is stalking you
@NRDM02
@NRDM02 Жыл бұрын
@@RickrollFoot 😂
@artemisphobos3814
@artemisphobos3814 Жыл бұрын
Nooo I was so invested I forgot it's a Ted Ed video 😭 I thought their relationship will keep getting wholesome..I feel sad
@Mobashsherah_
@Mobashsherah_ Жыл бұрын
Can we also appreciate how good the animation is !!!
@maxmcdowell971
@maxmcdowell971 Жыл бұрын
IM CRYING THIS IS SO CUTE
@julialondon9770
@julialondon9770 Жыл бұрын
Do one about those of us who don't feel infatuation as acutely as others!
@willie629
@willie629 Жыл бұрын
Yes, ace spectrum representation is much needed as we're basically invisible nowadays
@sugaudacity
@sugaudacity Жыл бұрын
the guy ending the rollercoaster on his own 🥲
@lance7764
@lance7764 Жыл бұрын
I love the way they use 2 guys as a lover. It makes me smile as a part of the rain ow community❤️❤️❤️
@antonioarcudi1897
@antonioarcudi1897 Жыл бұрын
I've never seen a drawn animation in this style look so tridimensional, I can't understand what gives it this depth effect
@duckydoombringer9206
@duckydoombringer9206 Жыл бұрын
I think it might be a style where they record actual footage and trace over it
@camillalapolentona84480
@camillalapolentona84480 Жыл бұрын
​@@duckydoombringer9206 so a rotoscope?
@bdb3350
@bdb3350 8 ай бұрын
Thank you for confirming a life long theory I hav head since childhood. Love is nothing more than a cruel physiological prank your body plays on you.
@dischorddynne
@dischorddynne 8 ай бұрын
If you look at it objectively. If you don't it can be a beautiful thing to harness.
@akneiva
@akneiva Жыл бұрын
Great video, it made me cry a little actually, seeing two boys in the story, beautiful. Thank you for the representation. 🏳️‍🌈❤
@tsukuyomirai5264
@tsukuyomirai5264 Жыл бұрын
The music and the explanation makes me think that I had gone through all these experiences.
@tutubedo
@tutubedo Жыл бұрын
Cudos for illustrating this TED lesson so beautifully in a non-heteronormative way that is both refreshing and authentic. Thank you. 👍🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟👍
@Doogalebot12
@Doogalebot12 Жыл бұрын
How do you relate to this as a straight guy?
@PinkYellowGreen2023
@PinkYellowGreen2023 Жыл бұрын
To feel love and the feeling of being loved promotes healing! It's perfectly healthy!
@NicoleFrancesSazon
@NicoleFrancesSazon Жыл бұрын
this will never not break my heart every time i watch it
@HunterHogan
@HunterHogan Жыл бұрын
A story telling masterpiece.
@francine4417
@francine4417 Жыл бұрын
i love the animation, it's so cute!! 🤧💖
@Khanhh00
@Khanhh00 Жыл бұрын
The animation in this video is top-tiered. ❤
@Kalaxian80animations
@Kalaxian80animations Жыл бұрын
I agree
@imandac.3737
@imandac.3737 13 күн бұрын
this is so beautiful, thank you TED!
@dem3127
@dem3127 Жыл бұрын
The animations, the presentation, the transition is undeniably amazing
@maitreyasharma
@maitreyasharma Жыл бұрын
It's better to have loved and lost than to never have loves at all... Who would understand this better than me
@DJ-cc7dq
@DJ-cc7dq Жыл бұрын
This video is truly beautiful... The animation is on a level of its own for sure✨
@milires
@milires Жыл бұрын
I can now say confidently that I’ve been stuck in the “infatuation” stage for several months now
@yashmahadik8285
@yashmahadik8285 8 ай бұрын
WOW!!!! its so mesmerizing how it portrayed and explained...great work. TED Ed
@maitrungkien2006
@maitrungkien2006 11 ай бұрын
This is a rewarding video that not only providing us numerous useful aspects of science but also exploring the complexity of human emotions. Anyway, it's something cool
@sachinsuresh4389
@sachinsuresh4389 Жыл бұрын
This channel is a Gem 💎
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