How to design your life: 1- deconstruct your life and take away the parts you don’t like 2- identify your values and define your heroes and why they are your hero. Your heroes connect you do your values. 3- reconstruction: based on your values: How to design your life: create a tree (actually draw one): consider your roots. Where do you come from. How has that defined you. The trunk: what you present to the world, branches: the future. 4- Expression: visualize the life you want to live to make it happen. Be playful and optimistic throughout. Design an original life that is coherent with who you are and what you stand for and even how you like it to smell. Go live it.
@Supermiranda785 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@gopikrish27795 жыл бұрын
Wow - Thank you!!!
@杨晟华5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your summary!
@Zoomjah5 жыл бұрын
Love how brief and to the point this is. Will have to give this a shot. Thank you so much for for sharing!
@prathapjainimboriboonporn55705 жыл бұрын
Doa’a Akram thx❤️
@tefypozo3344 жыл бұрын
The most important thing about this video is to let you know that you have the possibility to design your future. It means that only you can choose your dreams and goals, you have the power to decide about your life, if you think you need it you can change your lifestyle because you can do as many things as you think you can. It is important to take the advantages that life gives you to get far And remember, your lifestyle depends on you.
@danielalejandrodelgadovarg96544 жыл бұрын
Tefy Pozo Self-confidence is essential to fulfill a dream and to go far depends only on the work of each one, on their commitment and on their interest in achieving a goal.
@stellaracha57828 ай бұрын
Thank you. Puts a life time if planning into prospective..🎉
@rush82226 жыл бұрын
so what i took from this is look at the same things differently, approach your problems with creativity, and create your own road map.
@dennisr.levesque23206 жыл бұрын
I'm glad to see that someone is finally beginning to see, that design is more than just aesthetics/fashion. The better you are at engineering, the better you are recognizing the value of function. The better you are at valuing function, the better you are at engineering. It's a positive feedback loop. You'll get there. It's your life, and only can live it. Good luck.
@bashful228 Жыл бұрын
"someone is finally beginning to see" ? Ayse Birsel is a designer, all designers know these things, even if they can't articulate it this well. It's part of the designers code.
@dennisr.levesque2320 Жыл бұрын
@@bashful228 Not all designers are the same. Just like not all vision is the same. My comment was more about the phenomenon that the majority of stuff "out there" is borderline dysfunctional (but don't it look good anyway?).
@exoticpash88233 жыл бұрын
"Every challenge in life is an opportunity to think creatively" great words
@LearningEnglishwithDrTin5 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I am designing my life, I have a huge project in this year is to get band 7 IELTS. I know my English is still not good but I always believe myself that I will do it. Because of my future, I have a lot of aim to achieve and one of them will be a good IELTS band.
@mpower47904 жыл бұрын
heyy,so did u get 7 ?
@nuryusufdiriye75613 жыл бұрын
dıd you get that score or stıll ?
@lividkitten6 жыл бұрын
I like her advice to just design my life and see my life as my biggest project. Thank you Ms. Birsel.
@umusagalinantiabdi27944 жыл бұрын
Yeah we can oll be designers ov lyfs....
@mahjabinfahima23444 жыл бұрын
Most of us went through a roadmap as how to build a life. Instead of walk in predominant way we should design our own life with creativity. Nice speech.
@vikyproject6812 жыл бұрын
When i see someone who always smiling like her, she must be very happy from the inside and live in exciting life :). Let's redesign our mind, live in our dream life.
@TheSundance115 жыл бұрын
I believe there was purpose behind the way she designed her presentation. Not being specific as for her to personally design your life...she allows you to use your brain, your mind, your spirit and circumstance to flex your courage to trust yourself to chill, and have fun, and joy in designing your new life for you...by leaving enough unsaid, or by giving you the squeleton you can put the clothes on the way it fits you. God bless her...and you.
@anayazan93484 жыл бұрын
Hi, so life is our biggest project, we have to be objectives with our life, we have to see it in another point of view, just like seeing the same parts of our life differently and being the best at what we love. Ayse said that our values are the foundation of our life. I think that sometimes we visualize our life in a not concrete way, almost without ideals and we never really see what matters, what really matters to us. We need to reconstruct ourselves from the inside to the outside.
@emilyalban4994 жыл бұрын
Yes, that is the meaning of life. We must take advantage of opportunities to live to the fullest through obstacles, emphasizing that values are our human power
@tefypozo3344 жыл бұрын
Ana Yazán I agree whit your opinion, because is more importan kwon about the proyect of the life, know what we want for our life, sometimes it is good to be able to rebuild ourselves seeking to be better, based on our values and dreams to follow
@micaelaoleas59624 жыл бұрын
According to Birsel the life is our big project,which is designed with values, that it must be original and describe as we really are. I want to stand out the steps that are mentioned by Birsel in the video are: First, deconstruct your life. Second, identify your values and define your heroes. Third, reconstruction: based on your values and, finally expression: visualize the life you want to live to make it happen. She gaves a messange "If you can visualize your goals, then you will do it". In my opinion I agree because she expose that the best way for living is be happy and the best part of the video was when Ayse said " when you were a child you dindt have fraid to do errors", for this reason I like this video.
@soulaimanebassidi61463 жыл бұрын
thank you very much I watched your video and I change my point of view of my life, and I noted these ideas : If we can visualize the life we want to live, we can make it happen, - separate all parts and things, change the point of view to any parts and things in your life, design your life as you design aboard , our values are the foundations of our life, designing your life can transform it, Expression is giving form to our ideas, thank you for this helpful conference
@siphiwengubane4265 жыл бұрын
Can we just talk about her love outfit, love it. And that necklace is truly a work of art❤
@thecharteredmc3 жыл бұрын
I want to believe she designed that
@jennynguyen2272 Жыл бұрын
I gained a lot of ideas by this inspring video. Thank you.
@vijayarya9528 Жыл бұрын
Thank you all very much
@danielalejandrodelgadovarg96544 жыл бұрын
Watching this type of videos is very satisfying and fills each person's self-esteem, being able to see beyond everyday life and realize what we really are worth and what we are capable of is a gift The personal improvement and the interest of each one to overcome is something that must be strengthened daily, it is important to realize the things we can achieve if we put interest in the things that life gives us daily
@kinyungukinyanjui6 жыл бұрын
I dont understand what some rude jokers are complaining about. Maybe she was not speaking to you but every part of it is very important n very real.
@annalucky_world4 жыл бұрын
It is amazing speech. We are creators of our life. Every area of our life is in our hands. We just need to believe in it and expand willpower !!
@kaiyan13324 жыл бұрын
"Being rich is important to our life. Why not being rich? Thank you." TED
@anthonammal79986 жыл бұрын
A need for self reflection will take us on a journey of redesigning our life.
@veeherreraJanecka Жыл бұрын
What a lovely lady. And I love this presentation. What an important topic.
@emilyalban4994 жыл бұрын
Life is the biggest project you need to do what you want and what you need example work to be able to satisfy your needs. one of the things we must not forget is to learn from our mistakes like the children who try and do not give up, as if we had super powers, also not to forget to express our values, to be objective, to analyze that what I do is my future without wasting my time, to build my life like a tree.
@anayazan93484 жыл бұрын
Alejandra Albán I agree with your opinion, sometimes we let go our opportunities when we think so much about it, we have to be just like you said, like a kid, kids don’t care about what will happened next, they just live the moment and enjoy the present. We have to keep working in our life like a project, a project that could change our way of perception and make it so much better.
@micaelaoleas59624 жыл бұрын
I agree with you because, the life is just one and we must be happy and we need to think again like a child. The values reflect our way to be and the education gave by our parents in conclution, if you don't like something, you must change it.
@janiramirama96534 жыл бұрын
I agree with your opinion, we must take advantage of all the opportunities that are presented to us in order to project and design our lives and not give up the obstacles that arise, we must continue until we reach our goals and not see the obstacles as a problem, but as an opportunity to learn and improve something new.
@arlinegeorge69673 жыл бұрын
Beautiful impressive amazing soul . Evolve ,design the life you want to live . Thank you, bless you . All your dreams come true.
@shirishthakare98422 жыл бұрын
Nice roadmap for all.
@franktheflyer7 жыл бұрын
Ayse summarizes her elegant design process as it applies to the most important place you could use it = Your Own Life. It offers food for reflection that might be worth remembering time and time again.
@hmmm81585 жыл бұрын
That's such a meaningful speech, however, a lot of us are confused by the opportunities that cause tremendous confusion to ourselves, despite the fact that having a schedule will be vital to your life, regardless having some days that will be out of the designation. In conclusion, life can not be planned for long-term, merely for short-term in my opinion.
@punnaroothsrimongkolsilp62793 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for teaching me.
@hugofredysanchez2 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@KD-cd9bo7 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful, eloquent, creative woman. Thank you for this!
@elsagrace38936 жыл бұрын
Kshiti D what a privileged, lucky, pontificating woman.
@skb92327 жыл бұрын
though I didnt understand even a bit about how to design my deconstructed life, but still I liked the video and her struggle to make younger people design their life😊
@safespaceasmr71664 жыл бұрын
Create your own steps.
@elsagrace38934 жыл бұрын
safe space ASMR example please. Vagueness is not helpful.
@safespaceasmr71664 жыл бұрын
@@elsagrace3893 "Design your life" is a book by Bill Burnett and Dave Evans. Mabey they can be more helpful.
@safespaceasmr71664 жыл бұрын
@@elsagrace3893 1 learn from others. Find people who inspire you and topics that feed your soul. Dig deep! 2 create a plan. Ask people you admire how they achieved the goal You're interested in. Don't get to attached to the plan or road map you created. 3 create a clear direction on where you want to go 4 write down interest and hobbies that you can transform into a clear goal. 5 be enthusiastic about your vision 6 start to envision your dream life is how you want it to be 7 visualise...
@safespaceasmr71664 жыл бұрын
I hope that helps a little bit.
@JillianHollyCoach5 жыл бұрын
Design the life you love by mapping out qualities that fulfill you, muscle test where there is resistance and shift the resistance with NLP. One component of NLP allows you to align that which you want but have resistance to ( limiting beliefs ) with what you already know you are good at.
@shujamateen33355 жыл бұрын
Jillian Schleger please help me and get useful advice to design my life
@GB-gt7yz6 жыл бұрын
I enjoyed your talk. Thank you for sharing your designer mind. Helping me to see from a different perspective. Ready to approach my life differently.
@janiramirama96534 жыл бұрын
This video leaves us a very beautiful teaching for our lives as people, it teaches us to be objectives, to have objectives and goals to fight for day by day, not to give up easily until we achieve our purposes, to have objectives both to improve and people and for our future, this also depends on the decisions we make, we must make decisions for our good, but not crush others, this is not only about being objective, but also we must be kind and help others and not only see for our sake, but obviously our priority is us but in that process, we can also help those who need and be successful not by leaving others aside but apart from being objective for being kind and generous with the rest.
@lanhuongnguyen99882 жыл бұрын
many thanks!!!!!
@martperu11095 жыл бұрын
life itself doesnt have constraints but the society we built up
@jksenglish51154 жыл бұрын
This is beautiful. Thank you.
@johnkeithrobinson73994 жыл бұрын
good job keep up the good work
@freeallday403 жыл бұрын
One of my fave TEDTalks all-time
@teguhkaswanto71792 жыл бұрын
thank you so much
@joseantoniogarciarivas80423 жыл бұрын
Hey guys, this reminds me of the GTD system from David Allen, what other tools you know out there for personal planning and organization? I'm currently using Evernote for Windows, with the GTD foundation.
@xasnaxahd36954 жыл бұрын
As a muslim Our biggest project to design our life is to do good things and don't do the bad things , If you want to know more read Quran
@maireadmaccy4336 Жыл бұрын
As a humanist, my own mind, tells me this, thanks. I don't need to read a book to know right from wrong. 👍
@bonnyguillen14245 жыл бұрын
If you can visualize the live you want then you can create it.
@hezebelbeing6 жыл бұрын
Wait...she forgot to tell me how to design the life I love. So, I went to her website...I think I'll just make a list of stuff I want to do and do it. ;)
@elsagrace38936 жыл бұрын
Heather Griffin exactly!
@erginsagtas65986 жыл бұрын
I enjoyed this talk. Thank you.
@mariarosales77174 жыл бұрын
Gracias por compartir,la vida está llena de retos y si uno no se anima a dar el paso para avanzar y lograr lo que uno desea hacer,nadie lo va a dar por uno,avanza si te caes o no sale como lo deseas levántate y vuelve a intentarlo hasta lograrlo. sólo creé en ti y lograrás realizarte.
@mehmood0203 жыл бұрын
Nice talk for a good designed life.
@vivianpatgreen Жыл бұрын
Brilliant...
@captainjacksparrow53984 жыл бұрын
Our life is our biggest project.
@yamilelizarazo37862 жыл бұрын
amazing !!!
@unzahid5 жыл бұрын
Wow! Inspiration.
@marcusfiniosse14776 жыл бұрын
kinda made sense in lot of ways. i got few ideas i can implement in my own life from her speech.
@sohailahmedkhan89825 жыл бұрын
Very good - Excellent
@tagaway61733 жыл бұрын
Great presentation but I dont like when speakers say "If blah blan blah, you can leave now"
@tagaway61733 жыл бұрын
KZbin recommended me this after listening to A Design For Life 🤔
@charbeltannios5463 жыл бұрын
Great...👍👍👍
@JTEmers6 жыл бұрын
,,, and now the 'how', ,,,
@miraldasanchez5 жыл бұрын
That is exactly what I´m doing this saturday and then this Ted Talk video comes up in my suggested playlist, E X C E L L E N T !
@julie34544 жыл бұрын
Miralda Sanchez what happened since last year ?😊
@supot-oj5xs5 жыл бұрын
Very Good idea
@qorihelda53533 жыл бұрын
Thats a good talk
@damien-ramos5 жыл бұрын
Bravo !
@AB-vq8ho6 жыл бұрын
The takeaway is DON'T deconstruct your camera, you can never put it back together again :)
@Ficktao5 жыл бұрын
A good start would be to redesign this lecture, so it has more usable content for the viewer. This was simply lame, self/congratulatory, and quite useless. It was not even inspirational.
@valeriemonday96495 жыл бұрын
love this
@melissa48566 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing 😄 A great message!
@wordsmithasheesh24976 жыл бұрын
Just by visualisation?
@Oz_Büyücüsü5 жыл бұрын
İngilizcenize bayıldım. Congrats.
@vivianeb906 жыл бұрын
great idea. I will do it. But the deconstructed camera part made me sad. I wanted to repair it.
@elsagrace38936 жыл бұрын
So what am I supposed to do now? “Design your life” is a nice catch phrase. Sounds good but what does it mean? What are the steps? What is she talking about. Not helpful.
@Supermiranda785 жыл бұрын
Just listen, make a list!
@safespaceasmr71664 жыл бұрын
Design your own steps
@safespaceasmr71664 жыл бұрын
"Your life is your own blank canvas. "Paint whatever you want.
@elsagrace38934 жыл бұрын
Caren make a list of what? You are as vague as the video.
@elsagrace38934 жыл бұрын
safe space ASMR you are as vague as the video. And just parroting it.
@yami39283 жыл бұрын
tell me what should i do everyday?
@tagaway61733 жыл бұрын
1:20 Great presentation but I dont like when speakers say "If blah blan blah, you can leave now" 😒🙄 nahh I paid ticket, I'm staying 🤪
@kytmackalyster464 жыл бұрын
Very good
@tashidolkarsamdrupling57206 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏 so much
@mugdhamg7655 жыл бұрын
Beautiful speech😊👌
@natalied69232 жыл бұрын
VISUALISE!
@pamyawonsharon63365 жыл бұрын
Thank you🖤
@engmoh48965 жыл бұрын
It really need to redesign the presentation . I think that points can not help you to design your life .
@abdelazizelgoni2545 жыл бұрын
Fabulous 🤩
@harpalsingh10514 жыл бұрын
Smart speaker 💯🧡🔥
@iqbaluddin51696 жыл бұрын
Less interesting than expected from seeing the title.
@vaiomotioneye4 жыл бұрын
Invited to talk at TEDx? Step 1. Design a good TEDd talk. Sorry but this one just did not cut it ... I so wanted more, but ... nothing!
@dilpreets.madhok80616 жыл бұрын
You need to design this presentation better .. Good Luck !
@dnsgilbert095 жыл бұрын
I agree. It is so vague that I feel like I just wasted my time. I was hoping she could have told us how she found a way to incorporate her work life with her home life.
@ysabelgonzales33335 жыл бұрын
I agree, excellent title but not the presentation.
@MammothBehemoth5 жыл бұрын
the wit was very cringey
@AW-pw4iz5 жыл бұрын
Haha first time I went to see comments, because I wasn’t really impressed with presentation. Maybe she just have trouble speaking in English It’s my 2nd language too
@lynda_lou5 жыл бұрын
Beautiful woman!. Thank you 😊
@khainguyen74035 жыл бұрын
You too 🏹
@АглаяШатова6 жыл бұрын
Well, it's good for English learners, who are excited about her understandable speech, but native speakers certainly get bored and disappointed
@sachin.rathee7 жыл бұрын
Too much unnecessary information..just get to the point!
@herususanto73786 жыл бұрын
Social Justice Warrior ...hahaha...i putted on 2x...its true...we can not getting explanation ..its empty....
@aneunjieroine31696 жыл бұрын
Seriously this guy's love wasting time
@coolarun31506 жыл бұрын
1.5 speed perfect
@changethematrix6 жыл бұрын
ok... but you never talked about how to design your life. You are clearly very lucky. At 20 years old you were able to go to an expensive college and learn the tools to create what was in your mind. But someone like me, I have always had design ideas but never the support or access to the knowledge, funds, tools, etc... to make my ideas a reality. So what then do you do when you are doing everything you can and it's still not enough because to don't have access to the right resources or opportunities?
@elsagrace38936 жыл бұрын
Cari Geldreich sadly that is many, many of us and to be spoken to be a well off, privileged person in a vague way is very disheartening. What she is doing is hurtful.
@Dennell_Mount_and_Blade6 жыл бұрын
I agree some people have a bettercstwrting point than others but they still have to work for it. Look into what you CAN do not what you cannot do or change.
@kjaime70306 жыл бұрын
They came to this video with the intent of looking into what they CAN do, but this speaker actually says ZERO about the process of actualy doing it. The guys at Standford are so much better, like David Evans.
@thumbprint71505 жыл бұрын
@@elsagrace3893- everyone has different obstacles and challenges in their life. I think one has to just accept that, if you don't have privileges in your life, your ladder, your pathway, to getting to where you want to get will perhaps look different to that of someone like this speaker. having said that, we don't actually know what her circumstances were - she may have won a scholarship to Pratt. Feeling hurt by her success is not helpful (though of course it might be a gut reaction!) - she is trying to help. Her ideas could be useful in some way.
@CoolGirl0072 жыл бұрын
Thx to my parents for haven't forced me to do anything
@jabeenfatima2255 жыл бұрын
Easier said than done
@nuryusufdiriye75613 жыл бұрын
Great presentaıon, so ı wıll planıng thıs year to aprove my english language and to acheıve 7 score IELS exsam
@rohitchakrabarti41895 жыл бұрын
Great title but nothing in the presentation! She had nothing to give 😂
@charleshuurmanocoineen93206 жыл бұрын
This could of been said in 30seconds
@abbieamavi5 жыл бұрын
*seems like a sweet lady, love the outfit! Comments are pretty negative, but if you were bilingual I doubt you'd do as well* :)
@umbellavirushowaboutnow99636 жыл бұрын
Where are my phone?
@phillipkanonhuhwa49966 жыл бұрын
Interesting...
@yami39283 жыл бұрын
but why no money
@cndgroff3 жыл бұрын
Your dress is SUPER SCARY!!!
@maireadmaccy4336 Жыл бұрын
Her speech was a bit vague & simplified! It's not so simple in reality!! But I get what she is saying. Maybe some quick examples of successful people and their journeys would add more reality and be more helpful to all us in limbo out there!!!🤔
@omniscientomnipresent55005 жыл бұрын
If I deconstructed my life and take away the parts I Don't like... I would be super violent… other than that, I have a hero and visualised my life
@chetansolanki68826 жыл бұрын
Inspiring but to much repetition of same thoughts.