Vulnerable honesty | Yoram Mosenzon | TEDxAmsterdamED

[@nonviolentcommunicationpro1602]

I don't know why, but almost always when I watch NVC introduction I'm at some point so touched I have tears in my eyes - even if I know these concepts for years. There is so much liberation, joy, forgiveness there.

[@philippebianco4767]

I am touched by the humanity and the umility of Yoram in this introduction to the cnv

[@bell_eau]

I am grateful for NVC and its community because it has provided me the choice to authentically express and make clear my feelings and needs to myself and other people in this majestic collective reality ~ may you be, and flow in serenity

[@LiubovKupriienko]

Yoram, thank you for such a clear distinction of Jackal and Jiraffe, for your humor and vulnerable honesty! I liked your video very much!

[@psychoriginal1670]

one minute into this video and I want to hug this person

[@daniilpesin5731]

After 5 years still inspirating myself and sharing this video with my new and old friends. Thank you, Yoram! Today is NVC an important part of my life.

[@nickidaisyreddwoodd5837]

Most people are completely cut off from what is happening within them. They would not even know where to start. I am grateful to Yoram to offer a psychology education to the public to help people and the to make the whole word better. Those courageous people give me hope. We need to develop therapy Help Centers around the world to offer free group therapy where people Can finally trust and open up about how they really feel inside. I have always known intuitively that if everybody just said how they really feel that we could all be friends and that war would become something that only history books would report about. I strongly believe that through those efforts from Yoram, Peter, Ingrid and all people who live for helping to make the world better we definitely can heal our emotional wounds.

[@malilaure]

Yoram, I finally took the time to listen to it fully - and blessed to have had my 10 year old boy near me watching it too. We both loved it in its clear, relatable messages and also absolutely loved your humour. I am going to share it far and wide and hope to meet you again in Europe one day with my kids. Merci!

[@kpazdzior]

I love your storytelling, Yoram. It for sure helps people to grasp NVC. Good luck with your school!

[@larryermanajrrocksit]

This ended so abruptly! I want to hear moreeee

[@sumayafemke3892]

Great job Yoram! Very well explained. Good to follow for people who never heard about NVC, but also interesting for people who already are familiar with it. I like how you really show yourself authentically....you walk your talk! Keep on spreading this message. You have my support.

[@carchonyoutube6830]

Yea, he hit the nail on the head. Said things ive been trying to get across to people far better than i ever could or even still can. I wish the people in my life that say they care would take 13 minutes & 34 seconds out of their lives to watch it. Might patch up some wounds. He's quite brave. Going to the TEDx website and looking for more.

[@Girackle]

What a clear, concise presentation of the "honesty" piece of Nonviolent Communication! I'm passing this video on to as many people as i can.

[@67paulined]

Congratulations Yoram! You did it! I feel very proud. Looks like Yoram in front of thousends. My dream came true!

[@dimitrisgouvatsos4163]

Yoram, thank you 🙏🙏🙏

[@GMH9765]

I love you Yoram! You are one of the most inspirational people I have ever met in my entire life!

[@waltterre8628]

Yoram is a very great guy, sincerely. I followed some teaching in France with him and Orianne. Both, they are very good "non violent communication" teacher. If you're interesting by this path in your life, don't hesitate to take a teaching with Yoram and/or Orianne...

[@bersgjashta3954]

Powerful and fun talk by Yoram! He seems to own vulnerability and master it truthfully

[@davidlL714]

Thank you for sharing and promoting NVC. I have been learning and practicing NVC since 1995. Best wishes on creating the NVC School that you refer to.

[@MsFelissilvestris]

Thank you! ❤

[@oresttarnawsky1182]

Excellent, clear and helpful, gratitude

[@carstengjelsten1718]

A wonderful introduction to NVC🦒🐺 - in a loving, charming and vulnerable manner. (Thank you from Copenhagen, Denmark)

[@TheFreshspidey]

I really enjoyed this video. It's not what you say, it's how you say it.

[@lisaboshuizengmailcom]

Love it Yoram! It's exactly how I know you! Great introduction to NVC!

[@womenempowered7801]

Love him

[@oriboyer]

Great lecture: how to be real and honnest in a vulnerable way so that I can stay connected with others? Big theme...Greatly recommended.

[@karinvannoort7761]

I learned about NVC from Joram, he's is a nice and warm teacher with lots of humor. It was so valuable!

[@hannaries9618]

I love your introduction of NVC. That's how I know you.... sometime a little bit to fast for me to understand... All my best wishes for the new giraffe-school.

[@tomanonym1168]

You're a great teacher. Thank you.

[@daantimmers67]

Thanks Yoram. I still use the reference to unmet needs!

[@4rutger]

Nice! Inspiring authentic presenter.

[@arlinegeorge6967]

Beautiful amazing impressive soul . Thank you, bless you. All your dreams come true.

[@belovedwoman3398]

Yoram awesome 👍 thanks for your interesting lecture.

[@XandriaRavenheart]

Great video! I'm starting to learn about Non violent communication. I also find that silence helps me too especially when I'm dealing with my parents. When they go on about certain topics and I feel like obviously disagreeing with them and starting a fight, I stay silent and let them talk. Silence works wonders sometimes, there are so many instances where I really wanted be a jackel to people but stayed quiet, and I'm glad I did that now. But what I want to learn from NVC is how to communicate back to the person being rude to you, without being stressed out yourself.

[@adeelali8417]

I'm learning this too. I found NVC works best in emotional situation.

[@bdoor4680]

It's really amazing

[@hairlevelxl]

Really great. Loved it.

[@patrickpilatimoreira4230]

Eu ficaria muito feliz se tivesse legenda em português, pois assim poderia compartilhar com meus amigos e familiares, fazendo que não fosse tão somente meu os aprendizados

[@annapaulaanna7470]

❤

[@unzilegultekin2367]

' otist" kelimesini bu sekilde kullandiginizda kendimi incinmiş buluyorum. Otizmli bir oğlum var. Ve örneğinizi karşılamayacak kadar farklı bir yerde duruyor.

[@chatterjeelinda4]

The basis of Nonviolent Communication is the book Nonviolent Communication by Marshall Rosenberg.

[@Andlett]

Very nice, buddy. I specifically like the "Fuck" you got into it. ;-) Big hugs & good luck with your future endevours

[@deannebednar2861]

I love the content, energy of this work. A concern: the breakout of the word "fine". I'm wanting the F word to be used in the positive, not as "anger, putdown". When did that act be what we refer to when we are unhappy, upset, angry, want to punish? There is a word for that act done in anger against another.... r- - e. I hope, believe, we can listen to the language we speak, and find other words for when we are upset or angry.

[@thejonjon5000]

Vulnerable honesty is a better way to foster connection; it also further exposes your vulnerability. How to deal with that when people still don’t show compassion?

[@mukeshgeorge8298]

...let the people be! People are different

[@carstengjelsten1718]

Ask them which need of theirs, that is not being met. 🦒🐺

[@Abhish1982]

Whats best way to practice non-violent communication? Any online course or workshop ?

[@celebrity_rooster7488]

Aka Laziness Honesty

[@mukeshgeorge8298]

...towards the end I got an impression that Yoram had been a bit judgemental of his teacher. I felt an uneasiness while hearing him say "if you call yourself a teacher. . ." I would have really appreciated if he were more neutral and if his tonality were to be rather humble...

[@juliangiulio3147]

Why do you say this? That sounds like you don't see the lack-of-good the teacher did. He was being-doing as he had been programmed, but you are judging Yoram's aliveness-sensitivity to it, I feel (as he was demonstrating with the mini puppet) This reminds me of some 'spiritual'm people who want to tone down their passion and Wild-ness for they fear it is not spiritual. I feel it is -if not quite the opposite, about no-repressing anything in ourselves, but trying to manage./face/meet all... Not easy, but it is the way to Self-knowledge and fulfilment, and actual Humility!. Sorry for the 'lecture' - I am just curious as to why you say this, as originally asked

[@lila-yw2gn]

I'm no longer into that guy and i no longer cry for him lmao. I only cried before cuz i was a bit dissapointed, i thought my fairy tale fantasies were ruined. I actually wish that he will find a girl or guy that's compatible with him. He shouldnt blame himself, maybe we're just not compatible..he has nothing to regret. There are millions of women in the world. So dont think im still into that guy. Eversince it starts raining hailstorms, thats when i started falling out of love. He can think of anything that will comfort his ego and i dont really care. There are lots of girls or guys out there. I believe he's lovable enough to get someone that he likes. I really wish that guy well even if hates me for some unjust reason.. So yea, dont think im still into him. But i hope he's fine. I dont want to say more negative things to him. I really think he's lovable and very artistic.

[@troyalcorn1184]

Navigating and doing what always gets done it seems to me. Fitting the whatever is missing. Just guessing and feeling about nothing other than the missing stuff What do I know anyway? waste of time

[@jfleminger1]

Starting off the talk by retelling the story of causing someone else trauma is not a strong opener in my opinion. And considering your other example is about calling your girlfriend selfish, makes me think you need to devote more time to understanding gender than communication.