Power of a single decision | Zara Noor Abbas | TEDxGCULahore

[@sarakh9261]

I loved the fact that she gave her talk in Urdu, props to her❤️

[@samyakjain2193]

Her voice was so fragile. I was feeling all the while that she might cry very next second. She kept me captivated.

[@NuzhatFatema1999]

She is actress because

[@priyanshisorot1578]

Same here

[@sulemantanveer2635]

She is in a fair and lovely commercial

[@muneeburrehman4156]

ALLAH is true source of hope !! MashaAllah

[@syedaysha4453]

Ofcourse

[@M.Moin9466]

Beshak

[@mominakhan5573]

I can understand that her problems are too small for many people but we can never understand what she has been through. Sometimes even the smallest problems can tear us apart.

[@learnwith-hamna]

I really didn't care whether she was from a middle class family or upper class and nor I care where she studied she just made me realize that no matter how hard it is never ever give up

[@NuzhatFatema1999]

Do you think never ever give up is her line? No it's line of any successful person but it is said by Winston churchil

[@afridii.0707]

✅💯

[@abhishiktachatterjee4906]

she is so graceful and her pronunciation is so elegant...😍

[@abhishiktachatterjee4906]

@WASI No I don't...it just came in recommendations but found her so elegant and real....🙂😍

[@AbdulGani98]

Her voice is so mesmerizing.. and her experiences built her.. of what she is proud today 👏

[@aliyashaikh6435]

Jbh

[@truewords4193]

WW

[@sheikhokasiyaapa2752]

kahania bana rahi hai jhooti kahi k

[@afiyasultanaoishee1137]

Hmm check muniba Mazari...

[@ranairfan1079]

Allah Khush rekha

[@blogshk2074]

I just got inspired of one thing that dont marry a man to fulfill ur dreams marry a man just to be you🔥💯

[@TariqAMajid-en6cg]

333333w

[@TariqAMajid-en6cg]

E5w5w5⁵5554

[@nikithagowda4874]

Don't marry a man to fulfill ur dream marry a man just to be you

[@jaibhagwa3444]

Same situation I'm going through. My parents r forcing me to marry a govt professor but my heart doesn't want it .🙏 Plz pray for me

[@bhavaniadduri4749]

@@jaibhagwa3444ayyo it's very painful...don't marry

[@priyaljain6027]

Her voice, way to present and poise to carry herself is so graceful!

[@akifejaz5158]

best line *"the biggest nightmare for a girl is to be married or divorce"*

[@Shikshika980]

Yes...or ye bas ek ladki hi samajh saqti h

[@cutesong2608]

Sahi bole heart attack jaisa feel hota hai

[@suraiyakousar4523]

Ys

[@palaksrivastava4398]

Dmn

[@wasim1313]

@@Shikshika980 h

[@s.mughal310]

She is just telling her story guys just relax !!! It takes alot of courage to share ur life story

[@farhan3519]

Very true. But it should make sense. This talk clearly does not. Smacks of being fabricated very cutely.

[@bakhtiarsaleem5060]

Purely idiotic and time wasting story...

[@tanyaghafoor2576]

Bakhtiar Saleem coz ur probably idiotic everyone else understands it

[@luisaalbarracin6864]

@@farhan3519 escuchar musica

[@shahryarmalik7186]

@@bakhtiarsaleem5060 exactly

[@navyarajvlog2348]

You r an inspiration for women she thinks that she have nothing.😞.!.. love from INDIA...❣️❤️

[@adr9651]

Why is everybody criticising her? I found her ted talk so real and inspiring.

[@smitapatil5499]

Why ppl are criticizing her about her middle or ellite class... Problems are same for all people...

[@kohistanfsd]

kyuo k wo jhoot bol rhi hai ek tu middel class say ni es ki baki family may kafi log TV film kerty hain father army may achi post pay thy or BNU may study ki tu middel bol k ghlati ki na us nay baki sb story ko teek man layain no issue

[@avishesingh6558]

Yeah and actually she say she was middle class earlier

[@abdulbasit-]

lol you live in a imaginary world if you say that

[@pervaizabbasi2867]

Outstanding words👍

[@desaicomplexcollegeroad1932]

U r brave very nice

[@toallahisourreturn.3528]

Such an adorable actress.....her acting has really improved over the years...

[@tiktokcompilations963]

This really was an inspirational story.🖤♥️ Ignore haters zara.♥️🖤

[@aheebakhan9563]

This is an extremely emotional story,that is based on the moral values of life and our so.called"society"which is always trying to pressurize us down in every aspect of our life,her message to make the right decision on time by the help of your family and it's importance is shown here,Zara has given us a meaning and told us our power of decision,that it's our life and we have the right to make our own choices on free will and privacy from the society and people in it😊😊😊

[@handsome393]

I just listened this coz of her attractive mesmerizing voice.. otherwise my experiences and skills are far beyond :)

[@saheenajabin8382]

No words can explain, what I'm feeling now. Just I wanna thank her for such a positive vibes, thank you so much ma'am ❤️🥀

[@amarahwajid6947]

مڈل کلاس لڑکی یا لڑکا کہہ کر اب ہر کامیاب انسان بہت زیادہ ہمدردیاں سمیٹ لیتا ہے۔ یہ ایک success symbol بن گیا ہے۔

[@she1855]

The only massage i understand from this story is :do not marry someone to escape from some situation . It would only end up in in divorce (the same thing happened to me)😫

[@Khushbakhtsiddiqui1996]

Have faith dear

[@sabreen4561]

Even the same thing happened with me

[@kamalshah8752]

@@sabreen4561 Allah bless u

[@kamalshah8752]

@@madihachangazi3699 stay strong ..Allah bless u ..Ameen ya Rabulalameen

[@iramali418]

Also same to me

[@pearls2733]

Such a sweet lady and a powerful speech regarding being yourself and being labelled as a divorcee. Lovely to see that you married a man who loves and respects you for who you are are. All the best from the U.K.

[@world2574]

You are lucky that u managed to turn your life around by making a difficult decision while still being in the middle of the biggest turmoil of your life..... Not everyone is that lucky Allah pak bless u all the way

[@just_cric_stuff]

Awesome courage, faith, guts, standing tall in the dark days !! Worth watching it like literally !!

[@TechTalkXplore]

I belong to a middle class family and now I am going for a conference with Bill Gates (Microsoft owner) ;-)

[@souradipsoudipabhattacharj3888]

why?

[@maak9122]

How ?

[@introvertleo7036]

MashaAllah , how did you get this

[@alsheikhelectronics70]

Best of luck

[@umarbhai2204]

🤣😂

[@mah-noush1083]

Aik bat to hai she is pretty Gorgeous Talented Actress Mein ne jab Ehd e wafa drama dekha Muje laga mein Indian kajol ko dekh rha hon Bht mazay ka character hai zara ka. ALLAH bless us all.

[@zeryabkhan9087]

"Aik bat to hai she is pretty Gorgeous Talented Actress" Your'e such a creep

[@सनातनजनता]

Sach me salute hai apki himmat ko ....... Ab lgta hai dunia q itni khubsurt hai ...... Aap jaic beti hi nam Roshan kr Sakti hai.....

[@fantube2935]

Learning things : • No one can become responsible by birth. His responsibilities and his failures make him like that. •Mariage is a crucial part of our life journey. So chose it wisely not in influence of present needs . •We most of the youngsters think that we want freedom , we want to goo out from the house . Just to escape from various things we r facing in present. Bt if u can't solve our things in present situation then we will not able in future too. So just try to make ourself more better in present and enjoy present 😊😊

[@catoicequeenASMR]

Exactly

[@RomanchRayamajhi]

💯

[@affiaja7736]

I love you sweetheart . N you are so humble to call your self middle class. It makes me feel like we are sisters.😊

[@ramshasiddiqui8382]

I Wwatch and rewatch this talk so many times...Zara's voice is so frail and expressive..her expressions and her personality is equally graceful...and this experience of hers is really eye-opening and inspiring..always feel like showing this to my family

[@anishaanju9502]

me too❤

[@ashrafkhan7728]

I much inspired for u that never giveup in any bad situation.We have to face the situations.May god bless u aapi 👍👍👍

[@usamamohammad6502]

Agar yeh log middle class hai toh phir hum toh bohat he ghareeb hai.

[@sumairasafi2356]

🤣🤣

[@learnwitharsh43]

😂😂

[@anumalam7200]

Ageee

[@shiekhqasim4326]

Hahahaha

[@HBLTV]

first listen carefully for what someone is saying , she said i was a middle class girl,

[@laibashah6078]

Lady you made me understand something which I didn't even knew I lacked... Thank you so much for putting your story out there.

[@HRinformation-g8r]

Amazing speech. Everyone need to understand her concept behind it to make her joke that what she was trying to make us understand. As per my views first she tried to deliver us to take care of your family respect(brothers, mother & father) & always speak truth with family, second she said that "be your ownself" avoid diplomacy or buttering to get the good things. Get every things with efforts and belief in God.

[@eshitasharma11]

There is so much to learn from her simple speech, which was as good as story telling!! Stay blessed Zara!!

[@asmatahir7234]

Amin

[@renugupta5271]

I like your boldness to accept your life's truth

[@sarahbabar1496]

See the smile when it came to her talking about her now husband.... That's love😍😍

[@she1855]

Hmmmm

[@himanshiadvani6580]

She is very strong girl👍👍 Very talented 💕💕💕

[@amusingh6922]

Who I am and what I want to be... Really a good question should be ask to our self daily and blessingly I got my answer 😊

[@hussai750]

I just love the meditation part..... I also want myself lock in the room and want to cry and think what I want....but I think it is also impossible fr me to lock myself alone in a room....

[@strollerfeet4391]

Never do it . Talk to someone who understands you this will help you alot .

[@sscrayzee]

Love it! Haters gonna hate but Zara you are an inspiration. Totally relatable

[@anila7487]

After your drama Ehad e Wafa really i love u sis , after listening these things really proud of you 💖💓

[@sanakausar6851]

I needed this badly i dunno y i m watching one after one these inspiring talks..seeking for piece of mind

[@abbashaider2022]

In the entire speech, she projected herself as a character of a play.. A lot of self made stories she added in this speech with a smiling gesture...

[@Mfsh_56799]

Zara noor Abbas is one of the best actress in Pakistan She is gorgeous

[@allgamesgaming2324]

Daughter of Asma Abbas a well known actress, niece of Bushra Ansari the most influential actress of Pakistan. Still she is saying she had to struggle to get permission for acting. She studied in BNU, where one semester's fee is more then fee of a whole degree in a Public university.

[@asmatahir7234]

😂

[@Amanullah-dx5uy]

🤣

[@bushratariq9840]

Point h boss

[@Amanullah-dx5uy]

Kenjer family kehte hain!

[@shayaly2196]

Attention seeker ha kya yeh

[@shanzashai7997]

Please guys encourage her for her decision that she want to live her own life with her dreams.

[@sabamarium8186]

Shanza Shai hahaha yes offcourse 👍🏼 she can use her insta for this cute purpose

[@stellasamuel5338]

I am from India. I love your acting. You are a superb actress. Beleive me, I really appreciate only when I find someone doing a great job. This comment is from a Professor.

[@Sarah-zh4xj]

Thank you so much for giving us an amazing character in *Ehd e Wafa* ❣ That proves how amazing girl u r..❣

[@Heart1430-z1v]

Zara I love you so much and respect your words. I never ever write any comment and say k “Urdu main bol lain English zarori hai kia” etc but to be honest I feel so connect with your words. I connected emotions with language. Now beside that I want to say it’s so sad that hamare zindagi mardon k ird gird he ghumti hai. First father, brother and then husband. Won’t it be so liberating if we can choose whoever we want to be... so happy that you got your calling. Much love ♥️

[@CreativeOblivion]

Niny Niny please subscribe my channel

[@Heart1430-z1v]

Creative Oblivion ok I will see, if I like it than I will subscribe. Don’t force others for subscription. Make your work speak for yourself. 🙂

[@CreativeOblivion]

Niny Niny There is no such work even if they are creative,you tube won't let them go ahead..Then faced copyright issue most of the time!

[@deepanshishokeen6660]

She nicely explained everything ❤️ much love from India🇮🇳 🙏💕

[@imranansari-iw3ch]

Jazakallah khair Allah aapki tarah har ladki ko strong bnaye..

[@sunnykhan9681]

sharam Karo aap uski baat suno acting k liye talaq li.

[@Missanonymous1sept1997]

Exactly this happens to me the same enxiety ,the same depression , the same cry ,I am going through the same phase now

[@ataturk9974]

It is quite amazing to see that she is so casual about her divorce.

[@shumzxd3090]

There are few things about this talk that doesn't inspired me in any way. 1- She belongs to a background which is not anywhere near to a middle class. 2- Half of her family have faces that appear on our television screen off and on. e.g. kapoors of Hindustan. (for reference) 3- She has completed her degree from Beacon house national university (BNU) which cannot be afforded by people belonging to middle class, I reckon. 4- The references that she has mentioned in this talk contradicts her lifestyle. Perhaps her personality, too. Also, I am disappointed that only already privileged woman like her had this chance to deliver a TED talk while there are millions of women in Pakistan who are young entrepreneurs and influencers, I hope someday they'll get a chance too.

[@saksheekumar]

Bro its India not Hindustan :)

[@syedainayaqadri2326]

True ...

[@Run_Recite]

ai totally agree with you

[@thinktech8306]

@@saksheekumar India ko urdu me Hindustan hi kehty hy.

[@mariaahsan8481]

agree. n wht her mother n khalas r acting already.

[@akrakraliraza1238]

key things to remember for me from Her life, Listen to your parents in all case otherwise you will have more chances of mistakes and only your parents will accept you in all your hard times so respect this blessing of God before they leave you. Life will never give the time back. Take your decision with consultation of expert. considered all aspects when you take your decision and take them right in time for the first time and than dont regret.

[@mahnoorslifestyletalk]

akrakr AliRaza123 we’ll noticed! Same

[@ulkapatil9735]

From 13.30 min and onwards... Life changing prospective...🙏🙏

[@husnagulzar6572]

She is daughter of a professional actress and she had to struggle for becoming an actress. That’s odd.

[@NuzhatFatema1999]

Yes yes yes same as my point she is only giving speech because its her job

[@snippinisq9528]

🤣😂🤣😂🤣

[@Abhi_14789]

Precisely what I was thinking 👍 Her mom decided to live for herself and be happy however when it came to her daughter marrying a stranger was a solution. So cooked uo stuff. .all of it

[@urjaraghani2797]

bcs. by grace of God there's no Karan Johar there😂

[@ayeshahassan1662]

exactly made up same bhi zoya

[@Syeda_Rida22]

Jo kbi apne past main na kaam hta hai whi agy jaa kr kamiyab hta hai love ur story ma'm hr ksi k ps hmmat ni hti apna past btane ki 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏💔💔😭😭😭😭may Allah bless u many more

[@rockpaperscissor2205]

Dearest zara, Kindly ignore the negative comments.. I am a divorcee and a doctor too...i can very well understand wt u want to convey through ur talk, some people dnt even knw the depth of situation and just troll u cz of ur few lines. Goodluck and congratulations fr ur marriage. I just completed khamoshi series... u r awesome. Love u sister zara❤️❤️

[@dr.sanakausarbiolectures9005]

Yes i can also understand her. I am also divorced too

[@alenasanoski1112]

she got a place in our heart ♥

[@anisaali602]

Ahh is it my story or what!!!! Kya kya yaad dila dya zara. Ek Ek word truth. Love you!

[@zainabsarfraz3682]

Everyone has problems in life ... So we should not compare our problems with her.... Just motivate from her and we should strong our will problem... As according to some comments...should cancer is little cute problem?🤔

[@Soniyaa_Soni]

M speechless. I randomly click on the vedio nd feeling better after watch this ❤️

[@mandiradahal3184]

God bless u ...keep moving in life..dont care about people who lets u down..u cannot please everyone in life..u enjoy ur life

[@freakingcold1385]

So much negativity in the comments.Instead of scrutinising her and the details of her story,just get the point she is trying to convey, which is the reality of our society. 'WE MARRY FOR All THE WRONG REASONS' .

[@Seerat.fatima.28]

It's just the collection of sympathies nothing else. Agar aap chah rhy hn k hum dramay baazi pe bhi seedhi baat naa kren to negativity aap mn hy. Comments mn nh.

[@Jeezu-kx3nz]

whatever it is every woman either actress or simple woman go through all this in complishment of their destination

[@fariraaz4880]

NOT a middle class family... only now i know that she is asma abbas’s daughter. And the legendary bushra ansari’s niece!! So basically she was telling her story, so get to know about her through this talk, because she might not tell this story today.

[@seeratzahra1211]

Wow I so like how she makes everyone understand to stand for themselves with the consent of our families

[@ShaktisS-zw5jq]

I am an Indian, even I can say that Zara does not belong to middle class. Apke pita, apki Maa ko nhi roke or apko roke. Ye kya logic Hai.

[@farinanasir786]

her mother was an actress before marriage , but after marriage ,she got permission for acting after got aged .

[@aishaiqra9279]

Shakti.s S zabrdast logic

[@wasiaaamir]

upper middle class is different than elite ...elite are like bhuttos and nawaz and owners of group of companies while upper middle are those who may be living in elite neighbourhood but earns in millions and do not have countless money

[@aqibkhanday6778]

Chutiyapa hai Pakistanio ka😂🤣

[@saazedil777]

Her mother belonged to a very well known family of Pakistan and famous herself even before marriage. All her mother side is in media industry, performing arts, journalism, film, singing, comedy production, direction, writing, poetry etc They r not elite but upper middle class.

[@shahwargul2216]

Hats Off to you ZARA NOOR ABBASS ASAD... A WOMAN WORLD SHOULD BE PROUD OF.

[@ubsmenu7630]

This shows whatever we provide our kids in their childhood they naturally get attracted to that as she also told that her mother used to keep them busy in songs & music & this led her interest in media industry ....

[@umamaqureshi8790]

Such a strong woman MashAllah ❤️

[@hijabigirl2191]

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[@zainisb]

I had to open the TEDx page yo see whether this vid was coming from official TED or someone relukata. Tedx, ideas of elite class worth spreading.

[@eshagull4634]

Ma ap ko criticize Nahi Karon gi but ma sirf Yahi kahon gi ka waqi ma Muslim women ka Liya bohot mushkilat hoti han💯. Aur ma ap ka sabar sa inspire hoi hun mane Sirf ak cheez par focus kiya ha ka to stay positive💞💞 and l saw your bz I had to present a topic for my mids and i have chosen this one bz of only positive attitude and it was just amazing presentation ma ap ka Bhi zikar hona tha bz ap ki video par tha topic and all of my teachers appreciated me after my presentation so thank you for your time and this video❤️❤️

[@neetukhan2327]

Very honestly told- I’m glad she spoke Urdu

[@TheMaqsoodahmed]

وه تو ہے ۔۔۔۔۔

[@neetukhan2327]

Tom Ford she’s at Pakistani tv actress and she’s talking about making poor choices that lead to her getting divorced which is taboo in her culture

[@neetukhan2327]

Tom Ford divorce is taboo in culture. Culture and religion are two different concepts. I’m not getting into multiple marriages it’s a lengthy discussion

[@neetukhan2327]

Tom Ford 👍🏽

[@Syeda_Rida22]

I really appreciate her thoughts that is amazing ku k hr koi yha negative log bht hn but positivity bht km hain....

[@rimshajaffar5558]

Very encouraging and enformative for girls thanks zaraaaaa api

[@soofianaz65]

Zara is soo much amazingg person....just love her🤩🤩🤩

[@eshitasharma11]

Just LOVE the way Zara speaks, lovely!❤️ Love from India🇮🇳

[@saadawais3752]

Eshita Sharma Zara Noor very nice l love

[@kellraimedicals5230]

Yes she's a greatest of all time

[@asmatahir7234]

Me too

[@nagalakshmipanjagala6293]

Wow how strong lady she is !!☺️

[@ProudToLoveAfghans]

Though she is a good actress but she never ever remained in "middle class" throughout her life. Instead she was born in an upper class family.

[@n_aaytareen9417]

Can a middle class family plans for a trip to USA?

[@followsparx143]

According to her Yes 😁

[@maryamawais3970]

Yhi me soch rhi

[@elifstyle2650]

Stop pointing on irrelevant issues.

[@anjilaprajapati5301]

Hahaha

[@syedadarakhshy7408]

😂

[@Kaleshi_chori12]

She went to America and iran bt still she was frm the middle-class family 😂,mujhe abhi aaisa middleclass bnna hai

[@gullhere9125]

Just drama Na Mami was actress father was army man😏

[@natashagul8096]

Me too kirty jangral

[@areeshaasif9939]

You can be middle class and rich enough to go to another country. Stop spreading hate

[@islamicpage476]

tum bhi america apni dy

[@areeshaasif9939]

@@islamicpage476 well in order for me to understand, you do need to speak a language we both know.

[@engrusman6395]

There are other women who had more impact on the society than Zara.She is just an actor.We respect it but there are other girls who play a vital role in helping our country and society.These girls are better option for motivation and ted talk to inspire others.

[@arfabasharat3643]

Such a god gifted girl ....ALLAH bless you more and more

[@RadeonArch2437]

This is the best TEDx talks

[@anamfatima3069]

Zara ki awaaz bhot pyari h😍

[@zimalrayyan2199]

بولنے کا انداز اس سے بھی اچھا

[@deepakbadaya2060]

Lose weight now ask me how 9782899880

[@rinat9274]

@@deepakbadaya2060 yelo🤦🏻‍♀️

[@afridii.0707]

💯

[@sanamunarmsunar3970]

jis py guzree wo hi jany "" God bless you "" 🎊 zara

[@HarpreetKaur-kd4gw]

Superb its give me positive strength to start my life again without think about past bad experience 👍👏

[@Mohinijugran]

Absolutely love this woman 🙌🙌 Much love ❤️

[@perpetualnadeem]

Time to realize as a society that it is okay to be a divorcee, and it is okay to make tough decisions and chase your dreams. Absolutely loved your talk, ZNA. Keep being yourself. Cheers!

[@madihadehalvi9357]

People are criticizing her bcz this d WY they can think I just wanna ask y can't just v appreciate her courage being an actress she is sharing everything moral is problems are the part of life just go with the flow n smile ☺

[@rabiyariaz2099]

Absolutely loved this conversation from the heart, resonating the right chords!

[@hamadbaba7199]

Allah almighty always best planner ❣️❣️

[@asmatahir7234]

Best of best

[@hamadbaba7199]

@@asmatahir7234 yeah ☺️

[@kamalshah8752]

Allah SWT is the best planner

[@fantube2935]

Your way of telling your story was really cool 😎 . And the emotions that you face in your life is soo relatable as a girl . And personal relatable part was your careless wala incidence 😛😜😁😁

[@nudratilyas1997]

Wonderful... Feeling awesome after hearing you.. Love from India 👍

[@thejugaadman]

Very encouraging and inspirational

[@mariadeshmukh359]

Heart touching story..very nice speech

[@nasreenkausar5470]

im surprised k log ye nahi soch rahay k vo kia msg dena chah rahi ha sharing se un girls ko strength milay gi and vo life ko samage jain because not end of life best vishes for Zara

[@malghalarasuleman1488]

More power to you ma’am❤️❤️❤️❤️you are an inspiration