Teens Like Phil -- Gay Bullying Short Film

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9 жыл бұрын

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@src3360
@src3360 5 жыл бұрын
It must be exhausting trying to fix something that isn’t broken 😔😔😔😔😔
@Kevin-oh9ov
@Kevin-oh9ov 5 жыл бұрын
Talking bout the movie pretty boy?
@src3360
@src3360 5 жыл бұрын
the beast 147 Are you saying I’m pretty?! 🤗🤗🤗
@soapydragon5741
@soapydragon5741 5 жыл бұрын
Ok pretty boy
@skyeisntemo4298
@skyeisntemo4298 5 жыл бұрын
Lmao, the pretty boy film?
@special.snowflakey4982
@special.snowflakey4982 5 жыл бұрын
@@skyeisntemo4298 like your profile, bio, and name. Coolio 👌
@rolanddoucet9437
@rolanddoucet9437 5 жыл бұрын
Some people are born with red hair, and some are blond. Others are born left-handed. Some people have green eyes. Some people prefer the companionship of the same gender. It makes no difference. Don't hate, don't fear, love one another and you'll enjoy happiness.
@graysonevans8402
@graysonevans8402 5 жыл бұрын
I trieded that, never work, only pushed anger in me deeply, left me broken hearted, left me to, die. BUT Hey Im Alive Today!!! And my family still hates meh? Mirakles are fake, im douting my god is real, im loseing hope in everything. That's why I have up making friends...there is way more to that, . . . But I'm not saying anything more. - Abigail E. I need help people, real help. Not fake help. Pls, a little suport will do. Im a Monster.....
@aracaoui9261
@aracaoui9261 5 жыл бұрын
Wrong wrong,very wrong
@leionwings8432
@leionwings8432 5 жыл бұрын
@@aracaoui9261 ur wrong
@KatherineVoegtlin
@KatherineVoegtlin 5 жыл бұрын
åҚŖÅм ćЖĀỔÚị definition of natural: existing in or caused by nature. homosexuality exists in over 1500 animal species. that computer you’re typing on however, isn’t so natural. yet here we are.
@KatherineVoegtlin
@KatherineVoegtlin 5 жыл бұрын
grayson evans you’re not broken. trust me, i’ve been there, i’m still there. what i can tell you is that if your family can’t love you for something you can’t control, then how much of a family are they? trust me, i know that’s hard, but you have to live for your own happiness, not someone else’s. and i can’t tell you what to believe in, that’s something you have to figure out on your own and come to your own conclusions. i never believed people when they told me things would get better. it’s still not perfect, but i can finally see a light at the end of the tunnel. and i know you’ll be able to as well. if you need to talk, i’m here 💞
@petervankeuren6644
@petervankeuren6644 4 жыл бұрын
I'm 77 years old. I came out to my family at 17, in 1960. Thankfully, except for my sister, they were accepting. I now live openly in a very small town in the desert. All I can say is that if you want to live an open life, you cannot care what other people think. You can only give of yourself.
@cyrill3000
@cyrill3000 4 жыл бұрын
Peter Van Keuren , you are right, but it’s a process of learning, trusting and developing courage. In some societies it’s suicide. All the best of luck to you! ☺️
@vitoriaseraffim
@vitoriaseraffim Жыл бұрын
I'm happy for you
@bruno_kyouka
@bruno_kyouka Жыл бұрын
Coming out in 1960? i envy your courage.
@richardharries5825
@richardharries5825 Жыл бұрын
I only wish that I could of said I was gay from the early age of 10. Although I’m 53 now found it difficult to come to terms with being gay. Because of the stigma back then. I was beaten up in the care of social services. Beaten so bad there was nobody around me ( white in the care system ) to talk to in that way. That was 1980 onwards. ( I was only 10 at the time ) at the age of 9yo I was given the beating of my life. And for my 10th birthday I was covered in bruising from my eyeballs to my bollocks. They were the homophonic years of my life. I could never come out and say I’m gay. Or all my school mates would of filled me in. It was ok to talk about girl friends. But not say my boyfriend is. ( you reading this ) All I can say is you my older new found 77yo friend. You were brave to come out in the 60’s that was 9 yrs before I was born. I mean coming out to your family at 17, in the 60’s. That was a brave thing to do. However I’m pleased that your family accepted you for being gay. Except for your sister, I’m pleased they were accepting. You for being you. Reading your comments has helped me. Come to terms with my own personal problem’s. As I live in a very small town with plenty of bigots. And my own family make up most of them. And yes your correct if you want to live an open life, you cannot care what other people think. And that’s just one of my many problem’s up until now.
@krishnateja7873
@krishnateja7873 11 ай бұрын
Hii Peter, i wanna talk to u r u available ?
@diabangical
@diabangical 5 жыл бұрын
Plot Analysis [Spoilers] The beginning (in the field) is a dream sequence. The woman at the door is foreshadowing his suicide attempt and shows her side of it (we see his side later). In the park, Adam didn't get rejected per se. Phil liked him, but he was closeted and didn't know about Adam (also closeted). So he pulled back from the kiss as a defense, just in case. (It's exactly what I would've done). Adam didn't know if Phil was gay, so he interpreted this to mean that Phil was straight. He was scared that Phil would tell everyone that he tried to kiss him, so he probably told people Phil was gay/tried to kiss him instead. To stay closeted, he has to join in, but since he's closeted, he feels like he has to do more to prove to everyone that he's not gay. He also probably feels like he has to go even further because Phil is the only one who can tell everyone what really happened. Adam's brother probably doesn't know, and just teases him about being gay because that's just the way he picks on him (I'm not sure about nowadays, but it was *VERY* common in the 90s). The mom is surprised that he's wearing lipstick, so Adam is probably not out to his family (or his brother). But he's still being beaten up by his brother for being gay... Not knowing that his brother probably *doesn't* know if he is or not, he *assumes* he does. He tries to "beat the gay" out of himself, except he does that through Phil. By picking on and beating up Phil, he's picking on and beating up his own "gay side", hoping that it'll just disappear... except it doesn't because "sexuality is something you can't get rid of" (which is why he runs by Phil's house, even though he bullies him) Also, it looks like Phil made 2 attempts, one with poisoning (probably pills) throwing it up in the bathroom, then gets the idea with the rope after surviving the first attempt At the end You see Phil's 2 faces, he's Janus (like the writing assignment), one half in the past, one half in the future. But he only turns to one side, so that you can see the "unbeaten" side, the future side, the "it gets better" side. Also, the Alan Watts dub is synched line for line to the visuals: "Beat it into submission" > Adam being beaten up by his brother... " I beat my body into submission > Phil spankin' it And: "[love/sexuality] is not something you should look upon with regret" > cue shot of Phil.... "it is only something regrettable if you didn't know how to take [love/sexuality] when it was time" > cue shot of Adam. The painting looks like a mask, a broken mask with its eyes closed. Masks are used to hide your face, but you can usually see out through the eye holes. The eyes of that mask were closed. Nobody could see in, and he couldn't see out. It's a symbol for him feeling not just "disguised" but trapped, he can't see a way out from behind the mask, and (he thinks) nobody can see "the real him" behind it. I think Mike is a symbol for love/sexuality. It's something you can't get rid of, even when you want to. I think he's also a callback to when things were worse. "It's already gotten better from how things used to be" He's the "back in my day" guy, despite not saying a word. Brilliant piece, but "too real" for me to be able to go to bed any time soon. I gotta shut down on a more positive note
@lickerwishstick9217
@lickerwishstick9217 5 жыл бұрын
Wow! Wonderful Insight. Thank you.
@christhebear2003
@christhebear2003 5 жыл бұрын
Thankyou for this explaination! really did help me understand the message better
@ancyg7401
@ancyg7401 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the analysis ❤️
@pokemonftw3652
@pokemonftw3652 5 жыл бұрын
diabangical Thank you for this analysis...
@judithendricks233
@judithendricks233 5 жыл бұрын
diabangical this is a long comment
@Darkhillpic28
@Darkhillpic28 9 жыл бұрын
I'm straight, but this film is an interesting view on gay teens, and I feel really sorry for them for what they have to go through. I really hope that one day in the distant future we can all gather together and accept each other as people with a unique backgrounds. I'm glad that I was raised well with my open-minded parents. Being open-minded really is the key to understanding people.
@sfernangarroj
@sfernangarroj 9 жыл бұрын
Eres una bella persona Darkhillpic28
@Darkhillpic28
@Darkhillpic28 9 жыл бұрын
Thank you, kind sir.
@chandler2210
@chandler2210 9 жыл бұрын
Maybe one day :\
@nataliesilberberg4344
@nataliesilberberg4344 9 жыл бұрын
agree
@halimarobinson8154
@halimarobinson8154 9 жыл бұрын
No one could have said that better
@cricketjumper8004
@cricketjumper8004 5 жыл бұрын
I’m in tears but I’m glad he didn’t die and that he’s finding help for him. Sexuality is a hard topic and covers everyone’s lives. Sometimes I wonder why some people just can’t accept some people.
@jesuszunigas8947
@jesuszunigas8947 5 жыл бұрын
Cricket Jumper sexuality is NOT a hard topic 😂. People should learn to let it be...
@wotayouk6879
@wotayouk6879 5 жыл бұрын
@@ABIGAIL3246 How can someone like you even be considered as a member of our society?
@spamspam5741
@spamspam5741 5 жыл бұрын
@@ABIGAIL3246 People like you are an abomination. Bet you just wanted some attention with that comment
@rajivsingh5385
@rajivsingh5385 5 жыл бұрын
these things bring tears to my eyes
@bazilgoldberg4055
@bazilgoldberg4055 5 жыл бұрын
Abigail Osei- Mensah Blocked and Reported
@vanesaramos3831
@vanesaramos3831 5 жыл бұрын
I don't get how people get so mad about lgbtq people like it doesn't affect or involve you at all
@davidmendez174
@davidmendez174 5 жыл бұрын
People are just stupid and dumb as you saw in the movie the bully was confused and he he took it out on the other guy because he thought I would help him but it wouldn't just treating people like that isn't fair hurting someone who's gay but who can't fight back that's just f***** up I hate people who are like that and I want our world to change this s*** happen way back then why is it still happening things need to change people need to change and start accepting other people for who they are I bet God didn't just create us just for all of us to be straight he would have wanted us to be who we want and who we want to love it's so easy it's not hard but people make it hard for themselves
@pedomcpedoson6213
@pedomcpedoson6213 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly, like how the f does my being a pansexual ped0romantic affect THEIR life? My fellow LGBT friends are fine with my sexuality, why can't cisheteros be?
@pedomcpedoson6213
@pedomcpedoson6213 4 жыл бұрын
@TheInkCanvas What business is it of yours who I am attracted to? We love everybody, at least my LGBT friends, it's only lovephobes we have a problem with. LOVE IS LOVE.
@toyinniyot9808
@toyinniyot9808 4 жыл бұрын
Ikr, I’m still trying to understand. Like whyyyy?? Some people are just so stupid!!
@elagardpro2670
@elagardpro2670 4 жыл бұрын
TheInkCanvas it’s not a fucking choice asshole
@mossysketches2623
@mossysketches2623 5 жыл бұрын
I am adopting Phil.... he’s mine now.
@unicornbaby629
@unicornbaby629 5 жыл бұрын
Bruised Octopus let me help you take care of him please
@dangetsjealouseasysoim2phi509
@dangetsjealouseasysoim2phi509 4 жыл бұрын
Unicorn Baby iconic parents 😂
@pedomcpedoson6213
@pedomcpedoson6213 4 жыл бұрын
Haha, hands off he's mine 😂
@tayla6550
@tayla6550 4 жыл бұрын
Let's all just raise him together 😩❤️
@tayla6550
@tayla6550 4 жыл бұрын
Carlos Nunez whats him being gay got to do with it 😭😭
@Boy2Game
@Boy2Game 8 жыл бұрын
BTW That teacher is really cool, I wish all schools had such great teachers who care about students.
@max-_-6352
@max-_-6352 6 жыл бұрын
My math teacher is like that but he's leaving fml
@tanishardy9495
@tanishardy9495 6 жыл бұрын
Drasko all of my teachers are like that, and I agree with this is true all schools need teachers like this
@lilodawg
@lilodawg 6 жыл бұрын
Drasko same me to
@prasannathapa6830
@prasannathapa6830 6 жыл бұрын
Drasko you are totally right
@miryalayno5456
@miryalayno5456 6 жыл бұрын
Drasko kinda sad that most of them don't. My biology teacher cares so much, you can't even joke about anything. Our whole class likes her though, and it's comforting that she cares
@zul873
@zul873 9 жыл бұрын
People don't understand that if you insult and bully someone bc of his sexuality or for another reason, words hurt people. You don't know how much it hurts for some people, they even try to kill themselves. And it's so sad how people still don't understand.
@kaykaynott4024
@kaykaynott4024 9 жыл бұрын
I 100% agree
@leahmclane
@leahmclane 8 жыл бұрын
Phaneom member hi
@noodlehead7224
@noodlehead7224 8 жыл бұрын
+Leah mclane yes we're taking over the interwebz
@lalorodriguez4874
@lalorodriguez4874 8 жыл бұрын
exactly 😑
@renerconcepcion4275
@renerconcepcion4275 8 жыл бұрын
+Zulmarie Vazquez true.
@milo_from_mars
@milo_from_mars 5 жыл бұрын
When he started tearing up I screamed, “NO BABY DONT CRY!!” I can feel for this boy. I just want to hug him and tell him everything is going to be alright. 😤❤️❤️
@thatweirdo5048
@thatweirdo5048 4 жыл бұрын
Same i want to be his friend
@martuwu2159
@martuwu2159 5 жыл бұрын
I'm gay and I'm proud. Don't worry for other people, do what you want with your life and that people go to hell
@octaviomedrano1675
@octaviomedrano1675 5 жыл бұрын
Why Do U Have That Photo Of Me And Midoriya?
@marcotw2298
@marcotw2298 5 жыл бұрын
ANOTHER TODODEKU FAN WHOHOOOO!
@rustyfuture3993
@rustyfuture3993 5 жыл бұрын
Hmm tats great
@They_luv.ya.gurl_zo
@They_luv.ya.gurl_zo 5 жыл бұрын
But are you a boy
@aliciakrauser9881
@aliciakrauser9881 5 жыл бұрын
Santana Jones fudanshi (I probably spelled that wrong) is a term for a guy that like yaoi
@foster517
@foster517 7 жыл бұрын
I just wanted to give him the biggest bear hug omg
@ishloveheart7487
@ishloveheart7487 7 жыл бұрын
same here
@MrBananaGuy-eq4it
@MrBananaGuy-eq4it 7 жыл бұрын
Nasir Foster same lol
@mayaribrahim4425
@mayaribrahim4425 6 жыл бұрын
Same pitch 😂😂👌💓
@ari-gm1hc
@ari-gm1hc 8 жыл бұрын
this literally broke my heart into a million pieces. it's so sad what lgbt+ kids have to go through just because others aren't accepting and don't understand
@ireallyneedtosneezebutican3199
@ireallyneedtosneezebutican3199 8 жыл бұрын
nice profile pic
@ari-gm1hc
@ari-gm1hc 8 жыл бұрын
Thanks, you too
@johndoe-ic6kp
@johndoe-ic6kp 8 жыл бұрын
+unicorn harry and that is exactly the kind of bullshit that keeps homophobia going. Where do u get your facts and numbers from? If u are straight i hope u reproduce and ur offspring will be gay, i guess that is the only way idiots like u will learn to understand.
@leorose9900
@leorose9900 8 жыл бұрын
+unicorn harry That is a very biased opinion and it is actually considered homophobia... A little fact about homophobia is a lot of the people that participate in it are scared of something in themselves. So, next time you want to insult the lgbt+ kids like me think about what is wrong with you. God Bless!
@unicornharry7995
@unicornharry7995 8 жыл бұрын
+Carlina Rose I'm not insecure I'm just a Christian and if you read Leviticus 20 specifically 20:13 you will under stand so my lord God bless
@chloedicken5544
@chloedicken5544 5 жыл бұрын
I’m bi and I’ve told everyone who I care about. Today I told my best friend about what I am and she was asking me how I knew and if I liked her and why I was this way and she started acting all weird and I kind of wish I had never told her. Edit: thank you all so much for all of the advice and support💕 my friend has finally come to terms with who I am and I feel so much better😁
@unxprienced9548
@unxprienced9548 5 жыл бұрын
hopefully she understands soon i'm in a similar problem with my mom like she just doesn't understand which is hard for me and her
@alannamarkert1670
@alannamarkert1670 5 жыл бұрын
i am bi as well. never doubt who you are no matter how people may view it. you are not alone. if your friend was only herself because she thought you were straight, was she ever there at all? i lost many people due to this same thing, but never regret it feel bad for being yourself. know your worth, you are loved.
@bryandelgado2910
@bryandelgado2910 5 жыл бұрын
😉💚👌
@ronirose2653
@ronirose2653 5 жыл бұрын
I had a best friend and she said she couldn’t be my friend anymore because my sister is trans and she felt ‘weird’ around her and ‘uncomfortable’ and also because my family supported it.
@ronirose2653
@ronirose2653 5 жыл бұрын
She’s not your real friend if she doesn’t except you
@heyyall7413
@heyyall7413 5 жыл бұрын
*crying* *also crying because on period frickin hormones*
@mijaantonia5514
@mijaantonia5514 5 жыл бұрын
Nobody Girl SAME
@ethelb6237
@ethelb6237 5 жыл бұрын
Hot baths and dark chocolate
@rosieposiemrs5886
@rosieposiemrs5886 5 жыл бұрын
your period is like a dementor, you feel like you'll never be happy again, and the only thing that helps is chocolate.
@reggie6871
@reggie6871 5 жыл бұрын
you and me both buddy
@samanthadinkel1223
@samanthadinkel1223 5 жыл бұрын
SAME
@taiinted5371
@taiinted5371 6 жыл бұрын
I love short films who don't have a definite "perfect ending". It really shows the reality of the situations, and that even though one part of this situation is hopeless, there IS help waiting for you.
@w0rmery867
@w0rmery867 6 жыл бұрын
taiinted do you know the film 'why does god hate me?'. it's one of my favorite short films that touch upon this subject and also doesn't have a perfect ending.
@clairedesroches2745
@clairedesroches2745 7 жыл бұрын
everyone looked the same that was really confusing
@For_Show
@For_Show 6 жыл бұрын
Like when the guy was in class and he had a flashback to him kissing his friend and his friend ran away after. I thought the guy who was having the flashback was the guy who ran away at first. And I was thinking wait why did he run away aint he gay😂😂
@shutupdumbass5356
@shutupdumbass5356 6 жыл бұрын
OMG DEAR LORD I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE
@TheRosemaryWest
@TheRosemaryWest 6 жыл бұрын
Wow I'm glad it's not just me 😂
@TheCottonCandy707
@TheCottonCandy707 6 жыл бұрын
Claire DesRoches ikr
@zipzaezaveon9438
@zipzaezaveon9438 6 жыл бұрын
I'm so confused still. I don't know what happened, but I made my own story in my head with the pieces I do get.
@GrotrianSeiler
@GrotrianSeiler 5 жыл бұрын
The kid who played Phil was remarkable.
@daph1117
@daph1117 5 жыл бұрын
i am a simple person i see gay, i click
@ididntgetthejoke7116
@ididntgetthejoke7116 4 жыл бұрын
Omg I saw your comment on another video Prora, i think
@nelsonalexandercorrea6333
@nelsonalexandercorrea6333 4 жыл бұрын
I browse youtube with that only rule
@catnolikepepino7977
@catnolikepepino7977 4 жыл бұрын
@@ididntgetthejoke7116 same lmao
@pedomcpedoson6213
@pedomcpedoson6213 4 жыл бұрын
Same lol 😂
@itsxavier3493
@itsxavier3493 4 жыл бұрын
Yes everything Gay I click
@SP-mf9sh
@SP-mf9sh 6 жыл бұрын
There's always a gay film where one of the closeted gays beats the hell out of his crush. And there's always a lesbian film where the girl leaves with a man.
@thierrydumont3413
@thierrydumont3413 6 жыл бұрын
sarah Owens
@automaticbzootie8441
@automaticbzootie8441 6 жыл бұрын
sarah Owens
@trickytreyperfected1482
@trickytreyperfected1482 6 жыл бұрын
True though
@SpiceyYT
@SpiceyYT 5 жыл бұрын
"boys" are violent "girls" just be like fuck u
@tou7331
@tou7331 5 жыл бұрын
sarah Owens
@hey_mamas4254
@hey_mamas4254 5 жыл бұрын
I accidentally clicked on this vid, I don't regret it.
@depressedloser5975
@depressedloser5975 5 жыл бұрын
Me
@paulledesma8850
@paulledesma8850 5 жыл бұрын
Same !!!
@Viperxrae
@Viperxrae 5 жыл бұрын
RockyGarlic 8375 same
@ronaldsteele6151
@ronaldsteele6151 5 жыл бұрын
Very powerful
@pedomcpedoson6213
@pedomcpedoson6213 4 жыл бұрын
Same!!
@CSS343
@CSS343 5 жыл бұрын
i’m confused, so the guy who kissed him is also the guy that bullied him?
@carlotamiguel5549
@carlotamiguel5549 5 жыл бұрын
TheColleenSingsStuff yes he is
@Paul2377
@Paul2377 5 жыл бұрын
TheColleenSingsStuff Yes. The bully was gay as well, but was petrified of his sexuality, so he took out all his frustration on Phil. Obviously that's not the right thing to do, but remember the bully was scared of being gay because of society's reaction to homosexuality. So the real villain is homophobia.
@williamconklin161
@williamconklin161 5 жыл бұрын
I ran into that with two friends, two different times. Alone, each was the perfect boyfriend. When we were out in public they were complete idiots. That's a problem with not being completely out. First, in 1996. Second in 2017. The second time, older and wiser, I was like, ummmm no! I never was beaten nor physically abused, though. I can't imagine going through that AND the emotional stuff.
@Gnomiestonie
@Gnomiestonie 4 жыл бұрын
TheColleenSingsStuff denial bro
@anthonyhill3177
@anthonyhill3177 4 жыл бұрын
I know but that was fucked up when he hit him
@teddysmith4094
@teddysmith4094 5 жыл бұрын
He got help. Good for him. I'm glad he didn't die.
@thisfluffylittlesquirel2850
@thisfluffylittlesquirel2850 4 жыл бұрын
cool ... but kinda dark
@gomez7339
@gomez7339 2 жыл бұрын
he should've tbh would be more interesting
@g3tcreative663
@g3tcreative663 7 жыл бұрын
I just want to hug every lgbt kid/adult anywhere and tell them they are perfect and amazing and I love them and someone will make them happy :(
@imnotemo6751
@imnotemo6751 7 жыл бұрын
Me too❤️
@DefiantVillain
@DefiantVillain 7 жыл бұрын
You both are awesome!
@chriscorduroy3564
@chriscorduroy3564 7 жыл бұрын
omg ur cute
@michladd24
@michladd24 7 жыл бұрын
Totally awesome policy...as long as its genuine. They seem to know a fake when they see one!. Not calling you a fake, but I always could tell because they rambled on about me for 10 seconds than about Jesus for multiple hours.
@mrman4516
@mrman4516 6 жыл бұрын
I could use a hug after watching that
@patrickborro2000
@patrickborro2000 8 жыл бұрын
Watching this is like getting kicked in the balls. It's so depressing.
@danielhuaut20
@danielhuaut20 8 жыл бұрын
or trying to eat 10 lemons
@factbeaglesarebest
@factbeaglesarebest 8 жыл бұрын
+nOnOy borbun i agree. although, this is entirely based off of my own experiences, when he denied the kiss.. i almost felt more sory for the bully... I feel more empathy towards that fear and loneliness, related to rejection and fear of never finding someone... If someone, who was also gay, rejected me in that manor in high school... idk maybe i would have reacted the same away.. i've spent to much time feeling as though i'll be alone forever... fear does wierd thigns to people... the kid in this story came out to obviously another gay kid, and was embarassed. I'm not defending bullying. I'm pronouncing an aspect of gay teens that is ignored in a lot of comments here. The bully came out first, was rejected, and surged into fear... I can't imagine. I never came out in high school. Instead i found solace in drugs. It ruined my life. I only ever wanted that guy (how many times i caught feelings for a guy) who i could come out with. I never feared being a gay person, just being gay alone... It's very touching to me because I feel attatched to both characters... Im several years out of high school, but this brings be back, reminds me of how my reaction to my sexuality hamstrung me. If we (gays) could just be ourselves, we woldn't be driven into these various ways of coping (depression, anger, victim, bully)... It's not fair to blame the consequences i've faced in my life based off of my reaction to the consequences i've faced in my reactions to my experience of my sexuality, but it's most certaintly fair to examine the fact that future generations could most certainly be spared my life's (i'm 21 very young but in tihs stage of my life i can see where i am effected from this) consequences by changing the way that sexualtility changes, moulds, and creates young men/woman
@patrickborro2000
@patrickborro2000 8 жыл бұрын
Drew Francis Don't worry, I really believe that time will come.
@Varris_64
@Varris_64 8 жыл бұрын
+nOnOy borbun you screamed in agony the whole way through?
@patrickborro2000
@patrickborro2000 8 жыл бұрын
V!BE Yes! And run around the neighborhood in my underpants.
@metee.7368
@metee.7368 5 жыл бұрын
14:15 I really feel his type of crying. When you feel like crying deeply, but you can't at all. You just flex your lips and close your eyes. You can't cry as usual, because you have lost a big matter; be it your feelings, dreams or a person you care about. Maybe you lost them for that moment or for eternity. At least you feel that way. That's extremely relatable for a mentally unstable gay boy, or anyone.
@christopherevans1311
@christopherevans1311 2 жыл бұрын
Hi baby Love you Christopher
@miladsharifi8122
@miladsharifi8122 2 жыл бұрын
سکسی
@sheepen9000
@sheepen9000 5 жыл бұрын
This is heart wrenching. To know that some people go through this and that it’s not just a film is honestly heartbreaking
@alap9136
@alap9136 8 жыл бұрын
Oh my god it's 3 A.M. and I got school tomorrow but I'm just sitting there watching this and crying
@Fancyman181
@Fancyman181 8 жыл бұрын
Same..
@raymondhernandez468
@raymondhernandez468 8 жыл бұрын
me too homke
@abigail5728
@abigail5728 8 жыл бұрын
OMG its also 3 am here and I am sitting here crying too. D,x
@dimasanjasmara2195
@dimasanjasmara2195 7 жыл бұрын
It's crazy . but i just like u now 😢
@oookitsorintime394
@oookitsorintime394 6 жыл бұрын
Ala P 1 am here
@quesadillawhore9226
@quesadillawhore9226 7 жыл бұрын
all-white uniforms would be the death of me. Once a month I become a living ketchup packet
@aeroPlane314
@aeroPlane314 7 жыл бұрын
Ikr same
@iagreebut7269
@iagreebut7269 6 жыл бұрын
Same
@davidgervais7840
@davidgervais7840 6 жыл бұрын
Get help. You are not alone. You deserve to see that “it gets better”.
@onaevolution
@onaevolution 6 жыл бұрын
I go to an ALL GIRL school and so we are only allowed to wear black pants and plad skirts
@millerstuffishere5857
@millerstuffishere5857 6 жыл бұрын
Same tho
@hurremsultan6942
@hurremsultan6942 5 жыл бұрын
IM GAY and I am proud of myself))who want to be a real very good friend?
@danamcclelland263
@danamcclelland263 5 жыл бұрын
GOOD FOR YOU!! NOW HELP OTHER KIDS who are struggling!
@hurremsultan6942
@hurremsultan6942 5 жыл бұрын
@@danamcclelland263 ❤❤❤🙏🙏
@kansasescalante5231
@kansasescalante5231 5 жыл бұрын
Cool ❤️
@lyndidelzeith3526
@lyndidelzeith3526 5 жыл бұрын
Hey!!! I'll be so down to be friends!!! I've always wanted a gay friend!! (I'm sorry of that offends you. I mean no harm.)
@bence3056
@bence3056 5 жыл бұрын
ADMİU Students i proud you too❤️
@potatonugget6859
@potatonugget6859 5 жыл бұрын
Excuse me...if they gay they gay... don't abuse someone for what they are, love them instead *edit* and I love how they put Alan watts in it
@aramax1001
@aramax1001 8 жыл бұрын
I gotta admit...the main character, the young man in this video, is totally hot, cute, and adorable!!
@aligorzeimet4029
@aligorzeimet4029 8 жыл бұрын
Agreed.
@vicbalerio
@vicbalerio 8 жыл бұрын
+Michael Greenwell Agreed too.
@madebytanne6066
@madebytanne6066 8 жыл бұрын
+Michael Greenwell TRUUUU
@eddiezuniga1268
@eddiezuniga1268 8 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@coi
@coi 8 жыл бұрын
+cs:go God maybe
@maddygullickson4543
@maddygullickson4543 7 жыл бұрын
This one made me cry. It was to sad not to shed a tear
@EquinoxxHerps0470
@EquinoxxHerps0470 5 жыл бұрын
The amount of emotion and meaning this video hold is so powerful. So powerful. It makes you feel so bad for realizing the world you live in and how it's affected by you. When in all reality, how many of us are actually standing up for the person in the most pain? How many of us are willing to put our life out on the line? It all starts with acceptance. If everyone accepted that people have the right to like who they like and be attracted to who they may be attracted to, there would be so much less hate. I'm honestly a very neutral person, but when it comes to this, I see no point in all of the hate that is spread around... It's sad, but that's why we need people who will stand up for rights. People who will put their life out there for something they believe. These people are rare, but they do exist. But so do the people that believe everyone is different and their problems and life shouldn't affect their own.
@cutiecakes1232
@cutiecakes1232 5 жыл бұрын
Marriage, dating, and sexuality is about love. Not gender. Like if u agree. ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈
@kurvolicious5905
@kurvolicious5905 3 жыл бұрын
Not gender, age or species. Love is LOVE no matter what ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈
@EternalMuscovite
@EternalMuscovite 3 жыл бұрын
No is about gender and love
@ou8206
@ou8206 6 жыл бұрын
Why are short films better than actual films.
@jamessandy5873
@jamessandy5873 5 жыл бұрын
Short films are "actual films." I think you mean why are short films better than FEATURE-LENGTH films. :)
@mikileigh1659
@mikileigh1659 5 жыл бұрын
mate i understand skjdksjkdsj, there like oneshot angst fics or something lmao
@andreawiseman6418
@andreawiseman6418 5 жыл бұрын
Better than twilight in so many ways
@Thebustermann
@Thebustermann 5 жыл бұрын
Because they cut out the bullshit and get straight to the main points.
@leegolden7435
@leegolden7435 5 жыл бұрын
Because short films like this are made by people who want to share what's in their heart. Feature films are made by Producers and Studios who want to make MONEY $$$. Thankfully there are those who continue to make films like Teens Like Phil. I'm gay and my teen years were pure hell. I lived in fear every day I went to class that someone would somehow find out. I wanted so badly to find someone else like me but the risk was too great so I went on being lonely, depressed and closeted. Thankfully teens in most modern countries today live in a much more liberal climate, but there is much work to be done to change the hearts of the hateful.
@kmdeese06
@kmdeese06 6 жыл бұрын
I'm straight but god this hurt. I am depressed, anti social, etc and I hate hugs. But I wanted to hug him tight and never let go.
@goblin_essays1496
@goblin_essays1496 6 жыл бұрын
Aaawww that's cute! (I hope you can end the depressions)
@jiashanuhai3222
@jiashanuhai3222 6 жыл бұрын
Dat nugget I'm not straight I'm lesbian but I don't care you can be u don't let anyone make u feel like ur nothing I'm depressed sometimes but not suicidal
@AdfMel
@AdfMel 5 жыл бұрын
Same but be strong!❤️
@leegolden7435
@leegolden7435 5 жыл бұрын
Thankfully there are those who continue to make films like Teens Like Phil. I'm gay and my teen years were pure hell. Back in the late 60s, I lived in fear every day I went to class that someone would somehow find out. I wanted so badly to find someone else like me but the risk was too great so I went on being lonely, depressed and closeted. Thankfully teens in most modern countries today live in a much more liberal climate, but there is much work to be done to change the hearts of the hateful.
@cyrill3000
@cyrill3000 4 жыл бұрын
Dear Lee, it’s saddening to read about your situation in your adolescence. At least I hope, that life developed more positive after that struggle! Have a wonderful day! 😉
@leegolden7435
@leegolden7435 4 жыл бұрын
@@cyrill3000 Thank you. I now write LGBT novels under the pen name Cameron DeCessna and some of them address the struggles of gay teens. One, in particular, Clay Parker, Growing Up Gay in1953 is a feel-good story about a boy who discovered his nature in a most difficult time. It has a happy ending. I publish with Amazon/Kindle.
@cyrill3000
@cyrill3000 4 жыл бұрын
Lee Golden Thanks, I will watch out!
@Ciin_Hass
@Ciin_Hass 2 жыл бұрын
Realmente amei o final, e o filme em geral retratou o que vem passando e com o tempo, e a sociedade em si continuará. Então é bom passar uma mensagem real e positiva ao mesmo tempo no final. Mesmo que existam pessoas retrodicas que não aceitam o que é diferente, existem também aqueles que te irão apoiar. Fico feliz e agradeço que tenha superado e procurado ajuda profissional, odeio essas pessoas que julgar sem conhecer. Esse ensinamento ajudaram muitas pessoas em depressão e que sofrem coisas iguais a não desistir e saber que existe quem apoia e há soluções para qualquer conflito e este com certeza não é o suicídio. Muito obrigada de verdade, feliz que ele continue viva
@electronick2001
@electronick2001 7 жыл бұрын
I'm proud to be transgender and bisexual and this film made me realise just how brave we all are
@moreaugriffins2494
@moreaugriffins2494 7 жыл бұрын
nickniggle same. I don't care if my family don't believe me or think it's 'just a phase' I know who I am.
@fancyslothgamesgayboy5476
@fancyslothgamesgayboy5476 7 жыл бұрын
what are you gay
@yann1ck666
@yann1ck666 7 жыл бұрын
FancySlothGames What are you? A homophobe?
@kampfer7742
@kampfer7742 7 жыл бұрын
Yannick De Mal sarcasm
@kimberlykuykendall539
@kimberlykuykendall539 7 жыл бұрын
Yannick De Mal That was the best comeback ever!
@kalenvuysher4988
@kalenvuysher4988 5 жыл бұрын
in my English class, age 15, I wrote a story about a gay kid committing suicide. NOTHING was ever said directly to me by any teacher, all I got was a comment at the end of the story along the lines of " a very interesting story, being gay is a difficult issue for a lot of people. If you wish to discuss the story please come to see me". Putting the onus on a scared kid crying out for help to make the 2nd move after already making the 1st. I grew up in Thatcher's 80s, the time of Section 28 and rampant homophobia. I had a load of pills in my bedroom at the time that I took out on a number of occasions with the intention of taking them, however the fear of a painful death was stronger than the fear of the continued taunts. it took another 10 years before I finally got passed the bullying etc and came out and accepted who I was. I was disowned by my mother but my thoughts on that were if you don't accept me I don't need you in my life, that was the last time we spoke 22 years ago. I have not seen any member of my birth family in 21 years but have created my own family of those around me. I have also lost my best friend who, unable to deal with his own sexuality, got religion and is now, as far as I know, in his 2nd 'heterosexual' marriage.
@nellythomas3492
@nellythomas3492 5 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry you've struggled but I'm glad you're stronger now. I relate with what you've said.
@oikawasupremacy6632
@oikawasupremacy6632 5 жыл бұрын
I support you, your mother has issues if she can’t support and love you
@obec_18luv19
@obec_18luv19 5 жыл бұрын
Sending nothing but good thoughts and love to you 🤲💕❤️
@kingglitch8866
@kingglitch8866 5 жыл бұрын
Wow you know what is was for the best things happens here and there but we have to stay strong no matter what because at the end of the day it all comes down to us being able to deal with it all
@euekesouborrego318
@euekesouborrego318 5 жыл бұрын
I'm a 65-year-old man today. I know what you mean. I know about bullying and loneliness, hiding, pretending, listening to jokes. I found my way not belonging to any group, not expecting anything from any body, running away, I did run away a lot, I travelled a lot, I often felt betrayed. But I found my way, and never turned my back on love. I had lots of partners, lovers, colourful friendships. They're all gone now. I met my partner when I was 50 through the internet. We've been together for 15 years. What would've been my life if I had turned into what my parents, my teachers, society wanted form me when I was 15 or 20? Not certainly what it is now. I'm happy but I know how hard it was.
@landonthis_3499
@landonthis_3499 5 жыл бұрын
i adore this so so much. showing the harsh realities of these kinds of situations is so essential especially today. the production is amazing and the actors are phenomenal!! it’s not cheesy or cringey or hard to watch in that sense. very well done, i’m extremely impressed.
@astrangerhere
@astrangerhere 5 жыл бұрын
This is beautiful and heartbreaking at the same time. I was bullied relentlessly in high school for who I was and am. I just want to reach through the screen and put my arms around Phil.
@AlainBruno
@AlainBruno 9 жыл бұрын
Being gay is not a crime, there are more serious issues society should be focused on.
@AntiDot43
@AntiDot43 9 жыл бұрын
but being gay is against religion
@mailinwinder3442
@mailinwinder3442 9 жыл бұрын
i cried watching this :((
@gelu4in
@gelu4in 9 жыл бұрын
put a shirt on you
@ACorn0894
@ACorn0894 9 жыл бұрын
chris friemiento and religion is always right? :L what's it to you anyway??
@gabbyburton1999
@gabbyburton1999 9 жыл бұрын
chris friemiento no its against the social norm, which scares people. People fear what they don't understand. I'm a christian and I have no problem with gay people. Its pisses me off that people of the church make people think that God hates gay people. It pisses me of that they think they can speak for god. It pisses me off that people even listen to those hate filled bigots anyways.
@artsytyler
@artsytyler 8 жыл бұрын
this was such a range of emotion. please adapt this into a full length motion picture.
@matthewcriddle7123
@matthewcriddle7123 2 жыл бұрын
I think that this is such an important video to see. I’m a straight teenage boy, and it reminds me that everyone is different and everyone deserves kindness and respect and love. No matter what color, height, sexuality, gender whatever it may be. I think this happens a lot in our world today and I think we need to start letting ourselves see it and jump on it and stop it before someone ends their life. When he had that rope around his neck, I lost it. I started crying. I hope that people will stop bullying, now I know that’s realistic but at least if you’re being bullied please reach out to someone. Tell them. It’s okay to say you’re being hurt. I beg of you if you or someone is reading this and you’re currently being bullied drop a comment to me. Let me know so I can help you, or give you advice. Please don’t end your life!! Something that’s always stuck with me is “it maybe a part of your story but it doesn’t mean it’s the end.” I love that quote so much because I went through junior high being bullied for having long hair and I always sat alone at lunch, no one ever talked to me. I was all alone. I got depressed I didn’t get suicidal but I was really depressed. Then one day someone random person gave me a compliment. And it changed all of me. They shortly after that became one of my best friends and we are still friends to this day. I have given myself a challenge to make a new friend each day. So all I do is say hello to someone or smile or give a compliment and I’ve seen it really makes the other person so happy. Or like when I’m driving home I’ll let someone cut in-front of me cause they’ve been waiting for a while now and so I smile and wave.”In a world where you can be anything… be kind.” That’s a popular quote I really like. Please be safe, be kind stand up for each other. Be a peacemaker. Show people who you are, if you’re gay be proud but be kind, If you’re trans be proud but be kind, if you’re straight be proud but be kind if you’re lgbtq be proud but be kind, if you’re just here living your life be proud but be kind. You can change a life, look to those who are different with an open heart and mind. ❤️
@wearetheavocados4917
@wearetheavocados4917 5 жыл бұрын
I give this a round of applause 👏🏻 this was really good but really heart breaking at the same time
@PSrecording
@PSrecording 9 жыл бұрын
really heartbreaking but such a great short film
@user-hf3vx2fx8u
@user-hf3vx2fx8u 6 жыл бұрын
نت
@zachsteidl3018
@zachsteidl3018 6 жыл бұрын
yeah its hard to watch
@rmcintyre1779
@rmcintyre1779 6 жыл бұрын
PSrecording iii
@Sariine436
@Sariine436 6 жыл бұрын
2:18 im that kid walking and ignores SAME
@Exarch35
@Exarch35 6 жыл бұрын
PSrecording when he started crying I started as well
@shay-yr8cd
@shay-yr8cd 5 жыл бұрын
Me last year: why are you watching this ur straight Me 6 months ago: wtf man ur straight 3 months ago: well you’ve never really had a crush... 1 month: ooooo what is bisexuality? edit: thank you for the likes.. it's nice to know i'm not alone sometimes. edit #2: i am gay, i've come out to a few friends, and the supportive or relating comments have been so nice to see frequently throughout the year on the side. thank you for the love and support and i would love to reply to more comments :) love is love 💗
@edavidlp1312
@edavidlp1312 5 жыл бұрын
Yep it works just like that !! It is something you discover ... Don't push anything into your head, just keep an open mind and be free to be who you are, that's it.
@TheZaru
@TheZaru 5 жыл бұрын
Nigga ur gay
@cadebrady5673
@cadebrady5673 5 жыл бұрын
LGKMGKHMGKG THATS SUCCH A WHOLE GAY ASS MOOD but like same
@angeknowsit
@angeknowsit 5 жыл бұрын
Same.
@shay-yr8cd
@shay-yr8cd 5 жыл бұрын
David Larrea P25 thanks! I appreciate it!
@marsrosewood7099
@marsrosewood7099 2 жыл бұрын
I think this is one of the best short films I’ve ever watched. Now i watch a lot of short films so it says a lot . This one was slightly different then the other ones where it’s always just coming out and that’s the entire plot. With other ones they never really get to the aspect of the toll it takes on you, mentally. It’s not just depression and being sad, there’s a lot more than most people think. I will be rewatching this till my eyes are dry.🙂😊 have a great day
@keepitsmooth9498
@keepitsmooth9498 4 жыл бұрын
This is probably the best gay short I’ve ever seen. It’s acted very well, and everything said in it corresponds to the actual truth. Only by loving and embracing who we are we can be free from evil and we can be able to interact in the right way with the world around us
@user-se1rr2fc9r
@user-se1rr2fc9r 6 жыл бұрын
*Boys* like *Girls* *Girls* like *Boys* *Boys* like *Boys* *Girls* like *Girls*
@inkyguy
@inkyguy 5 жыл бұрын
JK, and there's more than just without genders. There are boys who feel female inside; there are girls who feel male inside. There are boys who act more like girls. There are girls who are more like boys. There are boys with more than one X chromosome. There are girls with a Y chromosome. There's a lot of variety out there. A lot of people are afraid to show who they really are because there are also a lot of people who out of fear will punish and hurt them if they appear to be breaking the rules about what is supposedly "normal." If someone fears someone who is different then he should ask, what is it about myself that makes me so afraid of someone else who is different from me or who doesn't conform to "the rules."
@amazinglytoxic1399
@amazinglytoxic1399 5 жыл бұрын
Why feel the need to even say this, love is love, no matter who it’s between
@JackAndP
@JackAndP 5 жыл бұрын
#im14andthisisdeep
@somkeshav4143
@somkeshav4143 5 жыл бұрын
AmazinglyToxic 13 depends on the kind of love whether it’s genuine or not and whether it’s harmful
@caneloc5860
@caneloc5860 5 жыл бұрын
JK And I like you....😏😍😘😉😂. HMU if you wanna talk haha
@stage4poison
@stage4poison 6 жыл бұрын
At 1:02 there is a DAVID Bowie poster on his wall. I already respect this film
@romeo209
@romeo209 6 жыл бұрын
seth fields SAME
@teachmedad2078
@teachmedad2078 5 жыл бұрын
I could tell by looking at your profile picture mannnn
@rainbowsforbreakfast7155
@rainbowsforbreakfast7155 5 жыл бұрын
I’ve seen this in my feed for a while and finally watched it. It’s really sad, but I like the message that is put across.
@EltoV
@EltoV Жыл бұрын
One of the best movies about struggling with your real identity. The quotes of Alan Watts makes it even more powerful... A true Masterpiece, a must watch.
@princepeterwolf
@princepeterwolf 9 жыл бұрын
hating someone to the point of beating them to death; bullying someone to the point they want to take their own lives; taking basic human rights to someone just because of their sexual orientation yet using religion to back them up, something that has no real evidence of being real. Society is fucking messed up
@cessatiolux6250
@cessatiolux6250 9 жыл бұрын
Sure did work for Ghengis Kahn's people's survival.
@oliviersouth9712
@oliviersouth9712 8 жыл бұрын
+Loui Furgasson ..you lie..
@oliviersouth9712
@oliviersouth9712 8 жыл бұрын
Chez Jimenez Hate makes ppl ugly
@emmyperez9695
@emmyperez9695 7 жыл бұрын
what if it's a pedophile. Do they deserve to die for their sexual orientation ?
@icry8020
@icry8020 6 жыл бұрын
princepeterwolf Im so glad he didnt end up dying from that
@mamafuncool
@mamafuncool 9 жыл бұрын
That was powerful. That douche had a chance at a happy ending, but because of popular opinion, he continued to lie to himself and cause others pain. Powerful message from that film. 10/10 for sure.
@arianagrandeskingdom9456
@arianagrandeskingdom9456 5 жыл бұрын
Omg. My heart is broken. I Love This Movie , so brilliant and powerful and touching .
@adudewhosimps4229
@adudewhosimps4229 2 жыл бұрын
lesbian short films: Them getting together happily in the end Gay short films: Bullying, suicide,the characters feeling bad about themselves..
@nickyedits8174
@nickyedits8174 8 жыл бұрын
People in 3016 will look back at this and cringe at how stupid society was
@kubilius11
@kubilius11 7 жыл бұрын
Lets hope, but for now we have to deal with stupid society.
@nickyedits8174
@nickyedits8174 7 жыл бұрын
Sarunas Kubilius >.
@anthonybonet3336
@anthonybonet3336 5 жыл бұрын
Beautifully done. Adam Donovan should be congratulated for a beautiful, truthful performance. Dominic Haxton has crafted a genuinely touching poetic short film with tremendous resonance. This film - in its understated brilliance can speak directly to an experience shared by so many of us who just don't fit in. They break your legs and then persecute you for limping. Thank you for making this extraordinarily moving film.
@elliot7962
@elliot7962 4 жыл бұрын
Who’s watching this in 2020 and started listening to these talks and cried over 5 times in this...
@cartercolenutt5225
@cartercolenutt5225 7 жыл бұрын
I want to give all the people in this movie a hug
@caleb700
@caleb700 7 жыл бұрын
So sad, but I'm so happy it ended with him at a support group and not in a coffin. 😭
@bxnwxghxrn
@bxnwxghxrn 6 жыл бұрын
SAME!!
@EverAppl14
@EverAppl14 Жыл бұрын
Heartbreaking and so well conveyed. As someone in my late thirties, I just want to let teens and kids know (and even adults) that if things feel empty and hopeless, it is never the entire truth about life- it's just what we might be surrounded by in that moment. Life has the horror and loneliness and misery we endure, but it also always has everything else, too. Love, comfort, joy, exhilaration are there for you, but sometimes we need to really reach hard and seek those things out to balance out the bad stuff, because the bad stuff is so effortlessly impactful. That's a survival mechanism- your brain makes it easy for you to see what's dangerous or threatening and become overwhelmed by it, because avoiding dangers keeps us alive, so bad stuff will always FEEL insurmountable. It's okay to feel hopeless and it's okay to hate the pain you're going through, but there will always be other possibilities waiting for you in the future, and you deserve those possibilities, especially if you're suffering now. It can feel impossible to wait for or reach for those better things, but it's not really impossible. That feeling is an illusion. There will be beautiful moments, beautiful times spent with people who love you, and there will always be another day and a chance to feel something that isn't agony. Don't give up. The worst times are often the ones when things can only improve the next hour or the next 24 hours. Find something positive and distracting to get through the next few minutes and then the next few after that. Even if you feel a resistance to it at first, it can help you feel less trapped for the few minutes or hours you need to make it through those worst moments. You are valuable because you make the world matter more simply by living and experiencing it. Some people are limited and lack the capacity for empathy or understanding- but not everyone. You will get past those limited people if you keep going- they are temporary. Especially if you're young, things will get better because after high school you get more control of your life and you can choose where to go and what to do. It becomes easier to reach for what you need and meaningful experiences become more attainable. If you aren't safe now, then hold on because you deserve safety and you can find it in time. There are freedoms waiting for you out there in the wide, wide world. It does get better, and there are people who will care about you and hold you who you haven't even met yet. We need you in this world, because we need people who understand pain and have an evolved empathy for others as a result. That makes you uniquely suited to make the world better, just by being you and connecting with others like yourself. No matter how stuck you feel, there are always always always people in the world who can help you, because the world is absolutely gigantic and imponderably full of options and choices- at some point, someone out there will have new or different options to offer to you. If you feel like giving up, it may feel equally hard to reach out for help, but why not try waiting for help if you really feel that you're out of all other options anyway. And if you can't today, maybe 4 hours from now or tomorrow it will feel a little bit easier to figure this stuff out. Give yourself the gentleness you deserve, give yourself time to regroup your thoughts and heal, give yourself a fighting chance. Our brains process grief for us while we sleep, so it does not require any effort to feel a little better tomorrow or the next day or the day after that. We need you, and I believe in you, even if we will never meet and I'm just a whisper into the void of the Internet. Take heart, dear one. There is more in this world for you because the universe is infinite.
@hamoushi151
@hamoushi151 5 жыл бұрын
For those looking for the Narrators words - it is Alan Watts. Ignore the grammar :) "The physical world is transient; it's impermenant, it falls apart. And bodies that were once strong, smooth and lovely in youth begin to wither and become corrupt and turn at last into skeletons to the degree that you identify yourself with the body, and with the pleasures of the body. To that degree you are simply going to be something that is sucked away in the course of transiency. So therefore hold yourself alouf. Keep your mind like a mirror; pure and clean, free from dust, free from flaws, free from stain and just reflect everything that goes on but don't be attached. You are an irrational soul, in-charge of an animal body. If you belong to the old fashion school, you beat it into submission. As St Paul said, "i beat my body into submission". We are all falling apart in some way or another, especially after you passed the peak of youth. The very fact you see that the world is always decaying and always falling away, is the same thing as it's vitality. Vitality is change. Life is death. It is always falling apart. When it comes to love, sexuality; timing is of the essence but that's not something that one should look upon with regret - it only is something regrettable if you didnt know how to take it when it was timely, because it is after all through sexuality that we have our most fundamental relationship to nature and it is the point at which we can become most attached. There is no way of making a hedge grow like pruning it. Sexuality is something which you cannot get rid of. Do what you may - life is sexual. We get a hang up on all the various things that we are told as we grow up; by our parents, our aunts and uncles, our teachers, above all by our peer group. A lot of the current quest for identity among younger people is a search for an acceptable image - what role can I play? And the first thing that everybody wants to tell us is the difference between ourselves and the rest of the world. I can never get to look at me - real me. It's always behind. It's always hidden. And so if you are perfectly honest about loving yourself and you don't pull any punches, you don't pretend that you were anything other then exactly what you are - if you can do that, you have no further problem."
@dominick7464
@dominick7464 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you ! I was wondering who was this man who spoke on the radio ... French and not understanding English well enough, I had trouble perceiving everything (follow the story of these teenagers and understand Watts' words ) ... I will try to understand this text because I guess it will be difficult to find 1 translation of what thinks to be a radio conference ... Thank you again!
@madisonconley2689
@madisonconley2689 7 жыл бұрын
Every time I watch one of these films I end up crying so frickin hard 😭
@dylanbechar3735
@dylanbechar3735 7 жыл бұрын
+Marco Maassen why the FUCK r u watching a gay short film and then have the nerve to say that....??
@Jess-ez7uu
@Jess-ez7uu 6 жыл бұрын
Dylan Bechar shut the fuck up and btw pen addiction me 2
@lorelielliot4678
@lorelielliot4678 8 жыл бұрын
omg when he tried to hang his self iliterally busted out in tears...
@danielhuaut20
@danielhuaut20 8 жыл бұрын
😭😭😭😭😭😭
@cdshill4978
@cdshill4978 6 жыл бұрын
Ch3ck M8te where is that? I wanna skip it..
@satansbitch9524
@satansbitch9524 6 жыл бұрын
I’m shaking
@jaguarantony
@jaguarantony 4 жыл бұрын
I'm gay and I really Love this short gay video. It was like me some. Bullied by people when I was in High School. Great short movie.
@alainb68
@alainb68 2 жыл бұрын
What a good and touching short movie. It is indeed hard to fix something which is not broke, to try to love yourself for who you are and to come to term with the past.I am so glad he didn't die because in life that's not how it always goes unfortunately. Well done and thank you
@KeitonHarrison
@KeitonHarrison 6 жыл бұрын
I'm straight, but this film is an interesting view on gay teens, and I feel really sorry for them for what they have to go through. I really hope that one day in the distant future we can all gather together and accept each other as people with a unique backgrounds. I'm glad that I was raised well with my open-minded parents. Being open-minded really is the key to understanding people.
@haleyshea6768
@haleyshea6768 6 жыл бұрын
um not trying to offend you or anything but um... did you copy and paste that or copy everything someone said lol?
@rosefae7393
@rosefae7393 6 жыл бұрын
Copy!!
@Ronno2978
@Ronno2978 6 жыл бұрын
You really hope that one day in the "distant future"? So what if it was copied, ignorance rings true from the original and plagiarized version. My hope is that one day in the NEAR future we will all see that we are essentially the same, human.
@starryviolets3029
@starryviolets3029 6 жыл бұрын
guys, stop interrogating. he was supporting and helping us!! oh my godd
@fucklufjr6195
@fucklufjr6195 5 жыл бұрын
Striker same im strait too i don't have any friends so it doesn't matter to me
@JerinFulfordOfficialPage
@JerinFulfordOfficialPage 8 жыл бұрын
This made me cry. The fact that it's so relatable just made it so sad
@mikecericola9177
@mikecericola9177 3 жыл бұрын
I have no words to describe how much that encapsulated everything.
@markwilkinson1441
@markwilkinson1441 5 жыл бұрын
What a wonderfully written and well acted piece!
@dyroc
@dyroc 8 жыл бұрын
How can someone do that at school and not get charged with aggravated assault? How can they not be spelled from school? Or transferred to another one to protect the victim? Since I came to this country, USA, I always wondered that. This system is so crazy. My brother had a prob at school and mom called the cops. School staff were mad but since then, nobody messes with him, thanks god. Something needs to be done to deal with these kids that go to school not to learn and make friends but to make others life as miserable as theirs.
@michladd24
@michladd24 7 жыл бұрын
There is a code of silence even among the teachers at all public, private, and Christian schools! NONE ARE EXEMPT FOR FEAR OF A LAWSUIT.
@tommo9176
@tommo9176 7 жыл бұрын
what's your background? you say you came to the US, from where? agree though. shows how broken the system is when your mum has to resort to calling the police in order to get something done about it :/
@chaoticneutral8040
@chaoticneutral8040 7 жыл бұрын
Because the usa doesnt care
@michladd24
@michladd24 7 жыл бұрын
I didn't come to the "US" I was born here and I am a teacher in training and I can tell you that even the aides are threatened if they want to speak up for a LGBT kid. I feel bad...but it 6 years of education in which I cannot afford should I have to pay for it by myself.
@HIBYROSE
@HIBYROSE 7 жыл бұрын
It's like this in most parts of the world. And that sucks.
@MrAudienceMember2662015
@MrAudienceMember2662015 9 жыл бұрын
Easy to see why it earned the awards. Well deserved.
@gaysandliberalways801
@gaysandliberalways801 9 жыл бұрын
that was so touching
@Joker-ne9dw
@Joker-ne9dw 5 жыл бұрын
The best gay short film ever. Everytime i watch this film, i'm in tears. Great Work !
@bentleyfruits7316
@bentleyfruits7316 5 жыл бұрын
All the gays in these are decently muscular and im like... wtf unrealistic
@dangetsjealouseasysoim2phi509
@dangetsjealouseasysoim2phi509 5 жыл бұрын
i feel attacked 😂
@chasehauraki971
@chasehauraki971 5 жыл бұрын
Yaaaaaasssssss omg i can totally relate
@angelics0phie
@angelics0phie 4 жыл бұрын
Niconicosknees kinda realistic. Many gay men really care about their appearance because they don’t have that much chance of finding a partner. Majority of men are straight...
@pedomcpedoson6213
@pedomcpedoson6213 4 жыл бұрын
@Thanos Is a cool 12345 I'm gay and I like twigs! 😂
@LocalConArtist
@LocalConArtist 4 жыл бұрын
I an gay and one of the only things that make me happy is going to the gym.
@maliapiscitelli261
@maliapiscitelli261 9 жыл бұрын
6:17 "It kinda just happens.." larry omfg
@arlettelazalde
@arlettelazalde 9 жыл бұрын
omfg I love you
@sailorspice
@sailorspice 9 жыл бұрын
Addie Mae will you marry me? ;3;
@leedsome787
@leedsome787 9 жыл бұрын
Addie Mae *hugs you*
@MmorangOO
@MmorangOO 9 жыл бұрын
Addie Mae I literally started to fangirl when I heard that
@a7mxdi127
@a7mxdi127 9 жыл бұрын
Ikr!!thought about the same thing
@mayhowe426
@mayhowe426 7 жыл бұрын
Proud to be gay ❤️💛💚💙💜
@elisiaalvin7618
@elisiaalvin7618 7 жыл бұрын
hell yeah. Me too
@valeveira
@valeveira 7 жыл бұрын
Same here!
@PaytonRobertz
@PaytonRobertz 7 жыл бұрын
Me too
@aariia._1850
@aariia._1850 7 жыл бұрын
Me too 😊😊
@skythornsberry8938
@skythornsberry8938 7 жыл бұрын
Same, had to copy those hearts never know when i might need them XD
@kraziegzb4706
@kraziegzb4706 5 жыл бұрын
Imagine Taking a Role and Its just you laying down mext to a tree lol
@lierrio
@lierrio 4 жыл бұрын
One of the best short films I’ve ever seen. Amazing message
@markpark9539
@markpark9539 9 жыл бұрын
he rejected the bully. they both loved eachother....show how close love and hate trully are.
@issacmiria1632
@issacmiria1632 9 жыл бұрын
Yes
@markpark9539
@markpark9539 8 жыл бұрын
***** im gay and was bullied and molested at 9 yo. so i kind of know what im talking about.
@markpark9539
@markpark9539 8 жыл бұрын
+Lee Victoria my point was self evident. i think they offer remedial reading classes . i cant promise it will help you though. one can not teach common sense.
@danaterrell3099
@danaterrell3099 7 жыл бұрын
This was excellent. The acting in this was really convincing. Good show. Dana T.
@thelawnmower6534
@thelawnmower6534 2 жыл бұрын
This broke, shredded, and teared my heart into pieces.
@Reemuphill
@Reemuphill 5 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful film extremely necessary this needs to be heard
@christhorton6512
@christhorton6512 8 жыл бұрын
18:00 -- this is one of the most emotional and well-acted moments I have seen in any short film.
@satansbitch9524
@satansbitch9524 6 жыл бұрын
Chris Thorton it’s almost like it’s real emotions like this actually happened
@AMonkeysDoneItMedia
@AMonkeysDoneItMedia 8 жыл бұрын
Jeez, if that's acting there at the end, it actually deserves an Oscar. A brilliant performance.
@elliot7962
@elliot7962 2 жыл бұрын
Re watching this makes me cry every single time.
@anotherweeb8196
@anotherweeb8196 5 жыл бұрын
Nice plot. Great actors. Realistic acting. Timely topic. It's awesome. Keep up your good work. 👌👍
@tommyflorida9204
@tommyflorida9204 8 жыл бұрын
I have been bullied but I fought back so hard against the bullies that they dare not touch me again. You need to learn to be confident in yourself and in your strength and beat the crap out of the bullies. Most of them are cowards and are scared when they are alone. Be strong and never be ashamed of who you are.
@notsofestive
@notsofestive 6 жыл бұрын
this is my favourite gay short film, hands down
@CC2755
@CC2755 6 жыл бұрын
It's depressing. Not all gays are depressed and suicidal.
@sharkiegamer1182
@sharkiegamer1182 6 жыл бұрын
Gracie Jackson I know I want a part 2
@CC2755
@CC2755 6 жыл бұрын
Flea Balzary, I just watched We Are Animals and liked it.
@pizzarolls6008
@pizzarolls6008 6 жыл бұрын
Watch "Pretty Boy"
@brazzyofficial3843
@brazzyofficial3843 6 жыл бұрын
gracii jackson I like this film but my favorite is come over
@anthonywatts2033
@anthonywatts2033 2 жыл бұрын
I hope as a father I never never said to my two boys "we can't discuss this". As a parent nothing is ever off the table for discussion.
@carlarosso46
@carlarosso46 5 жыл бұрын
"The radio commentary used throughout the film is from excerpts of Allan Watts' recorded lectures on human sexuality." I had to search in Trivia from IMDb where the radio excerpts were taken from. I found them to be really interesting.
@tinfoil2149
@tinfoil2149 6 жыл бұрын
I don't understand y people make fun of LGBT people it pisses me off 😠
@NevahBeMc
@NevahBeMc 6 жыл бұрын
Enjoli Stone same here
@tinfoil2149
@tinfoil2149 5 жыл бұрын
@Harley Bukin well said
@augustinebeausejour5383
@augustinebeausejour5383 5 жыл бұрын
Don't pay no mind To them at all if they say something whoop their ass
@ABIGAIL3246
@ABIGAIL3246 5 жыл бұрын
And it shall be so
@Gogetaa
@Gogetaa 5 жыл бұрын
religion
@OneMunchyBoi
@OneMunchyBoi 6 жыл бұрын
*Tmw you remember shouting "IM GAY" during class and coming out to everyone in your whole grade and not getting any homophobic comments cuz everyone in school is chill* Yes
@bxnwxghxrn
@bxnwxghxrn 6 жыл бұрын
Damn i wish that was me lmao
@lovelyafternoon
@lovelyafternoon 6 жыл бұрын
Kiren Patatastilatas The worst thing coming out of telling people I’m bi is that someone spread a rumor about me dating my best friend. The rumor died within a week though lol
@m.b3839
@m.b3839 6 жыл бұрын
Yeah I'm in an all girls school so tbh it's kind of expected were all chill in our school
@prideshallows3579
@prideshallows3579 6 жыл бұрын
hi I am in high school so...I'll get fuuuucked up lol
@cryingcouk6267
@cryingcouk6267 6 жыл бұрын
Kiren Patatastilatas I wish
@generichuman2044
@generichuman2044 Жыл бұрын
I think the biggest take away from this film is how difficult it is for a young person to get the help they need. A teacher spotted every single sign of a child in trouble but the school was only interested in grades and behaviour because that's what makes their reputation. I struggled a lot in school and thankfully I had a teacher like the one in this film. Things like therapy were never brought up but he would always take time to speak to me and keep an eye on me. I still believe what I endured at school still effects me over a decade later and that's where the true damage is done. My life may be completely different if I wasn't bullied and ashamed of myself
@janezvolanek1084
@janezvolanek1084 4 жыл бұрын
Phil has the sweetest voice ever❤️
@Genesis1613.
@Genesis1613. 5 жыл бұрын
yo this needs an AWARD i'm SO FREAKING GLAD HE"S ALIVE
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