Telling His Story After 11 years | A Mother's Stillbirth Story

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@brilliantbutblue 5 ай бұрын

Jennifer, l have no words. I am so so sorry for what you went through. Thank you for sharing your precious Son Nicholas James 💙 with us. May he rest in peace. 🤍 Jennifer, l want you to know that looking at the few photos you have with Nicholas that you were not a hostile patient, l see a broken, grieving mother who advocated for her baby boy. I hope this gives you comfort. Sending you a big virtual hug for the strength you have shown to share your experience.

@itsjentoyou 5 ай бұрын

Thank you so much 💙

@mychinapig 5 ай бұрын

So beautiful to hear your story. Beautiful ears. Big feet. Good memories. Nothing you did could have changed the out come. You are a strong mother.

@justelleslife507 5 ай бұрын

To add insult to injury on top of losing your baby son, they said uncaring, downright mean things, thank goodness your mom was with you! I've never had a baby but I have been in hospitals like yours, I've heard similar things said to me, I even had one doctor tell me I needed my head examined. I've had staff laugh at me, the apathy is real. Jennifer you came to the right person, Winter, to tell your story. I could see Winter wince with you, this is the only channel I will watch on this sensitive subject. Winter, I love how sweet and thoughtful your questions are to each mother and father featured, you know and understand their pain, a pain I wish no woman would have to go through💔

@cindyjones3216 5 ай бұрын

Awww, sweet little baby! My oldest son's name is Nicholas and he is 45 years old now. He goes by Nick. I had a miscarriage at 14 weeks in 1991 and that baby was going to be James. Two of my favorite names. I also have another son, Justin, who is 43 and a daughter, Darla, who is 40. So sorry for your loss.

@clothdiapersandrainbows296 5 ай бұрын

Mama, im so sorry you experienced all that. No mama should ever have to suffer through a loss that way. He was beautiful and i love the name!

@itsjentoyou 5 ай бұрын

Thank you 💙

@kimkelly9046 5 ай бұрын

I am appalled at how this lady was treated! What the Hell. My heart weeps for you. Your son was beautiful

@itsjentoyou 5 ай бұрын

Thank you 💙

@itsjentoyou 5 ай бұрын

Thank you again, winter and Lee it was really great to meet you and tell Nicholas story💙

@StillAPartofUs 5 ай бұрын

Thank you so much Jennifer for sharing Nicholas's story with us, it was our pleasure and honor to spend time with you.

@donnamorgan2522 5 ай бұрын

Jennifer,thank you so much for sharing the loss of your son. Nicholas looked so perfect. I hope this is theraputic for you-it’s such a safe place here. I know in past years,people were less willing to LISTEN when a mother wants to talk about her lost baby-he was born,he was yours,he was precious & he was LOVED❤ I send you hugs from Australia

@Singersavannah0 5 ай бұрын

Oh honey I am so sorry you had such a horrible hospital experience. That was so un professional the way that they tried to force you into not getting the autopsy done. The way they treated you during your pregnancy. The way they did you with the photos the way they labeled you as an “Aggressive” patient is beyond unprofessional it would have taken everything in me not to go off on somebody. Every loss mother deserves to do as much as they want to before they have to say goodbye. Thank you for sharing your precious baby Nickolas

@karenadams882 5 ай бұрын

He is so beautiful! I am so sorry for your loss!

@patf4780 4 ай бұрын

So sorry for your loss. The way they treated you was so wrong. No one deserves that. Nicholas is beautiful and I am sorry you didn't get to spend more time with him. I hope you didn't go back to those Doctors or hospital with your other birth. Thank you for sharing your beautiful baby and story with us.

@elizaconey3738 4 ай бұрын

He’s a beautiful little angel ❤. I’m sorry you had such a horrible experience at the hospital after losing your son.

@gordonakers8247 5 ай бұрын

How awful the treatment those doctors gave her. They should be ashamed of themselves. Jennifer, i’m so sorry for your terrible experience. He was a beautiful baby and he went on angel wings to heaven. You will see Nicolas again one day. 🥰🦋💖

@christinem.carter-wanner5304 5 ай бұрын

God bless this family

@2312Marco 5 ай бұрын

Im so so sorry for your loss. I think the way you were bullied in hospital is horrible. May the terrible staff see this and learn something about greef and kindness. Please dont blame yourself anymore, you are his mother and you did fight for Nicolas as a real tigermom. Hope you can let go of the blame, i am sure your Angelchild have never blamed you, and want you to only remember him, and the love between you. 😢❤

@mori.kurogawa7936 5 ай бұрын

There are actually places like that, where you feel like "am I the only sane person here?". My son was born in such a hospital and certainly I will not step a foot in there ever again. I think it is because normal staff leaves the place gradually and only weirdos stay who agree with the craziness. Over time, it totally turns into an asylum. I felt Winter's kinda "eww" so much when the group of 8 doctors was mentioned. Who would ever want to do an obgyn rotation. Who even comes up with such a crap idea. Very sorry for this woman. Little guy rest in peace 💙

@lisasteimer5860 17 күн бұрын

Jennifer I’m so sorry about Nicholas and the way you were treated. Hopefully things have changed. Stay strong.

@kathyerb3134 5 ай бұрын

My now 38 yr old yr old daughter was dx with 1 kidney at age 4 yrs old . Solitary right kidney. However she had been dx with a very rare lung disease Immotile Cilia Syndrome or now called Primary Cilia Dyskensia.

@mesquitemagic 5 ай бұрын

I'm so sorry you went through all of this. That hospital and staff were absolutely horrible. I'm angry for you.

@nancykistner7167 5 ай бұрын

He is beautiful. 🩵💙🩵💙🩵💙🦋

@donnamorgan2522 5 ай бұрын

It is both disgusting & heartbreaking to me that Jennifer wasn’t treated as a grieving mother-she wasn’t treated with the compassion or care she deserved AT ALL. Even the way she was told Nicholas had passed isn’t caring-it was clinical-like the Nursing standard she got. Just a little empathy would have made SUCH a difference for her & helped. Instead,the attitude she got compounded the agony she had to be feeling.

@Bethlam 5 ай бұрын

I’ve found that MANY doctors are incompetent. Not only you had to deal with the death of your son then treated like you didn’t matter. I’m so sorry for your loss and the horrible way you were treated. You did NOTHING wrong. Unfortunately, sometimes things just go wrong. My last pregnancy was up and down the ENTIRE time I carried him. I had to go to the hospital every other day for two months to make sure he was okay knowing he could die the minute I walked out the hospital doors. I was blessed he ended up being okay but he has a few throat issues and slight hearing issues that I blame myself for not doing everything right (which I really did) but still I feel like maybe I ate something, missed a vitamin, didn’t exercise more. You can’t blame yourself. If anyone is to blame it was your doctors.

@vivianholland6575 5 ай бұрын

That's is very sad that 😢❤

@JessicaSmith-d4p 5 ай бұрын

This is heartbreaking. Not to disvalue her experience but it sounds like there was a bunch of miscommunication. The poor momma felt like they were punching her stomach to get out her placenta when in fact they have to use tons of pressure to get it out. Or pictures deleted could also be from lack of communication not malace.