Left For Heaven After Only 2 Months | A Mother's SIDS Story

[@tammyroberts4272]

I want to say thank you to each everyone that have said kind words. I wanted to share my son Cody to help others . My heart truly goes out to each and everyone. ❤

[@tyleralbritton5671]

I'm Tammy's daughter, Tyler, momma you are so strong for sharing your story. Thank you to the creator for allowing my mother to share her story about my brother. I love you Cody ❤

[@StillAPartofUs]

You are so welcome! It was a pleasure to talk with your mom and hear about dear Cody.

[@tyleralbritton5671]

It was absolutely beautiful listening to it. ❤ There is not one day that goes by that I don't think about my little brother ❤

[@kg3858]

I've never met your mom but our eldest son was born a year after Cody. Your mom is really amazing. ❤

[@loriroy8352]

Tammy is my best friend. The courage she had is something I still have a hard time wrapping my head around. She never allowed this to make her bitter in life. She faced it with such grace. Tammy, I love you so much more than you will ever know. I am so incredibly blessed to have you in my life. You are so brave for telling your story and sharing your sweet Cody with the world. I love you forever!💜

[@janahibma7961]

I had my baby girl on November 7, 1980. She died of SIDS on January 7, 1981, exactly 2 months. The grief never goes away. I also had people tell me, “you’re young, you’ll have more children”. God blessed me with 3 beautiful children after that but we always talked about their older sister in heaven. Thank you for sharing your story. May God richly blessed you and your family.

[@tammyroberts4272]

Thank you for taking the time and listening to my story. It means a lot to me

[@juliek2196]

Thank you for sharing your sweet son with us. #CodyIsRemembered

[@brilliantbutblue]

Tammy l feel honoured that you have chosen to share your Son Cody with us. Thankyou 🤍

[@tammyroberts4272]

Thank you for watching and listening to my story

[@maryellenblount6376]

Such a terribly sad story. Even though many years have passed you are still very brave to share Cody with us. Thank you and God bless you and your family 🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@valeriereed7654]

I was born in ‘97 and my brother was born in ‘95. Something about that made listening to your story of Cody hit so much harder.

[@christinem.carter-wanner5304]

God bless this family .

[@irinarose7553]

He is such a beautiful baby boy. I'm sorry about your loss. As a parent, I can not even imagine the heartbreak you went through. No parent should lose a child. You are strong and beautiful. ❤

[@chipflorida]

many blessings to those mother. Thank you for sharing Cody’s story, he must be happy his family remember him and kept him present all these years. I lost my baby about three months ago to stillbirth and I could relate to her pain. God bless you and your family

[@beckymadrid5894]

I sobbed through the whole video 😢😢

[@TT-cu7ze]

My youngest daughter was born in 95, it seems like forever sometimes and then a very short time other days, I remember several people losing babies to SIDS during the 80s and 90s. I was very young in the 80s but I remember the sadness. Is it still as common or have they figured anything out? In the late 90's my cousin and her husband were doctors and they had their first and only baby. A girl. In OKC. They did a feature in the newspaper on her for mother's day. It was about being a mom and doctor. Sadly a few days before it went to print her baby died of SIDS. It hurts her so much that she adopted a child that was past the SIDS window.

[@karlaparker7988]

I am sorry to hear about your cousins loss, I hope she is OK as best she can. Following a cot death of a UK journalist Anne Diamond who did a lot of research at a time in the UK when 1 in 500 died 7 a day. Its extremely rare now following her research of putting babies to sleep on their back about 1991, her work has saved thousands of babies worldwide

[@princessodette1471]

Thank you so much Tammy for sharing your story. Your son is absolutely adorable. The angels are blessed to have him.❤🎉❤🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@princessodette1471]

Wanted to add to this. The very next day after watching your video I got a call regarding good news about my son who is currently in the hospital. The social worker stated his name was Cody made me think of your son as a guardian angel. I can’t see this as a coincidence.❤🙏🏻

[@tammyroberts4272]

​@princessodette1471 oh wow that just put tears in my eye. I know my son watches over others. Bless your family

[@jeanneg9374]

Beautiful Angel 😇 I am so sorry for your loss so huge by a soul so small ❤🙏👣🩵

[@TT-cu7ze]

Sorry to post a second time but I wanted to share a story. I got pregnant 3 months after I got married. I was only 18 and we lived in SLC, I had an ultrasound at the U. I was 18 weeks and the tech was struggling to get good angles so it took a long time. When measuring her skull they acted strange and suddenly I'm being told that it looked like she had spinal bifida! I was sobbing and they gave me pamphlets. They told me she would be expensive and I was young and I should terminate. I would be able to get pregnant again soon. I told them absolutely NOT! God never gives us more than we can handle. Our family friend is an obgyn and my step mom worked for him so he told me to bring the VHS tape (they used to record the images for us) they also gave us printouts which were heat sensitive and are now almost white. I went straight to him at St Marks and he looked at it and said "your baby is fine!" They made a mistake. The spine looks like a railroad track. No reason to worry. It was just a bad angle. I'm so grateful I didn't make a terrible decision based on that angle. She was born at 42 weeks only after induction. Cottonwood hospital after a terrible snow storm. The day before Thanksgiving. She was born with group B strep. My doctor was so good that she picked up on my symptoms and immediately gave me antibiotics during labor. Miraculously her organs were not affected by it either.

[@valerienelson3296]

Amazing how strong and knowing you were at such a young age yourself. I have friends that have lost a child and in ny heart I knew that little soul came & left for a reason, no accidents but I would never tell a grieving mother that, however totally appropriate for your pastor. No many how many years pass our children are always a part of us.❤

[@Valentina-Steinway]

Losing a child can sometimes bring parents closer together or create a wedge. In my case, it created a wedge. We ended up divorcing. Thank you for your story and sending many blessings to the whole family.❤

[@Singersavannah0]

“ at least you didn’t have time to get attached” oh no she was attached he was and still is her baby boy. I’m so sorry someone said that to you momma. Your sweet little baby boy was so cute

[@brilliantbutblue]

That cut me to the core!!

[@aprilmapp3140]

What a wonderful story of Cody ,God bless you x

[@tammyroberts4272]

❤

[@kg3858]

Tammy, our eldest son was born in September of '96. Your story brought me to tears. Listening to you speak, it felt like a conversation instead of an interview. Cody was so beautiful. The manner in which SIDS was dealt with was just awful. When you had to pump after his passing, my gosh. Thank you for sharing your story. Thank you.

[@tammyroberts4272]

Thank you for the kind words and listening to my story ❤

[@iangeorge2361]

Thankyou so much for telling your story of your beautiful boy Cody. I am a grandmother and lost my grandson in 2020 to stillbirth but could see how it would have been in that time period as SIDS had really just come into being when my daughter was born in 1985. I am hoping one day she will be able to tell her story as well.

[@phyllismontoroula6454]

I'm sorry for your loss

[@indigobunting2431]

Your story really touched me. I am so sorry about your loss. I was able to donate extra breast milk that was then given to premature babies. (The hospital picked up every few days, unfrozen.)

[@natalietrujillo7455]

My heart goes out to you and your family. I’m no stranger to losing children I’ve lost 3 at different stages n life “miscarriage, still born at 32 weeks (Trisome 9) and a daughter recently at 38 years old who left 3 children behind. What you describe takes me back to 1998 when I lost my son (still born) when at that time ultra sounds were not given until 20 weeks or at the very beginning stages if needed for some reason. Such a familiar story on OB gyn care at that time. Also the way people reacted to loss of a child “so familiar”. I didn’t have anymore children after my son in 1998 but I have 5 grandchildren “3 lost their mother “May 4, 2023”. This video came across my channel on UTube! The story helps me with loss of all 3 of my babies even though one was 38 “she’s still my baby”. Thank you for sharing your story and God Bless you all.

[@tammyroberts4272]

My heart ❤️ goes out to you. Thank you for listening to my story. Your story is important as well. We ĵust want to talk about our children. Bless you and your family

[@tammyroberts4272]

I am thinking of you today. ❤❤

[@annabrahamson4320]

Back in the 1970s my brothers worked with a gentleman who's grandson died in his arms of Sids, they couldnt bring hom back.

[@Dianerose203]

I am so sorry for your loss God bless you an your family😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@annabrahamson4320]

My daighter has sleep apnea she was diagnosed at 36, we were told she has the type that her brain wouldnt restart her breathing, told me I was lucky she wasnt a sids baby.

[@indigobunting2431]

SIDS is a quiet killer. It is horrible for parents.

[@megtaylor1027]

I can tell you were a beautiful Mama to Cody 🩷 I wish I lived closer to you so I could get to know you and go to church with you and lend an ear. You just seem like such a wonderful person and your kids are so lucky to have you ❤️♥️