Telling my girlfriend about my porn addiction (her reaction)

[@drewclarke8650]

Dude has some massive kahones for being publicly open about this on such a large scale. Mad respect bro

[@yourmomisgay1420]

1st world problems

[@ComboKingMC]

Facts

[@Maxorepak16]

Fax

[@ezikiel121212]

This is how you actually fix the problem. Darkness can't exist in the light.

[@robertmayes2548]

Cajones. Take it from someone who lives close to Mexico. It means drawers in Spanish, but in slang, it's testicles. I wouldn't have known how to spell it either. The j sounds in Spanish sounds like an h in English.

[@keystoneplumber]

People don't realize exactly how big of a problem porn has become to society and I'm glad to see a vast amount of young men turning the tide for the sake of their mental health and relationships

[@jamalm.167]

Hard times create strong men it’s time to throw this shit in the trash for good 🤝🏽💪🏽

[@eb_tigers0775]

m.kzbin.info/www/bejne/q4vHp2CKqc6Aock

[@truthinthis10]

It's corruption onto chaos and disaster.

[@slitherygoopda]

Look up the article "Oppression by Orgasm? The Porn Industry as Jewish Anti-Fascist Activism & Cultural Terrorism" Pornography is a weapon.

[@TinyTales_Tube]

​@@jamalm.167 Strong men create easy times and easy times create weak men

[@selim20k]

I'm currently 17, had an addiction since my 14~ and finally successfully quit it on the last summer. Actually, it's not that hard. If you really want to stop doing it in the long term, you absolutely need to stop doing all the other bad habits at the same time. It's necessary to make drastic change on your life : no social media, no video games, no junk food ; the less instant gratification activity possible. By this way, I completely stop it and it has been 3 months by now since the last time I have done it.

[@Chadlifter]

You need God

[@mariomariu4394]

I am proud of you young fella ! Doing all you do with your age is setting you up for a way higher probability of being happy in your life! Not only doing all you said, but just the realization, acknowledging things and trying to do , working on it and of coruse having success, but doesn't mean you can't fail, failure is a teacher as well, don't beat yourself up if you fail, try to learn from it and take the positive. Very important mindset as well. It is a process, new challenges will always come. But building the mindset already in your age is a great foundation! Avoiding, resisting when it is sometimes not so easy with all the easy triggers for many things that your body might want in the moment but is bad for you especially over the long run is really one of the keys for a great, good feeling mind and body! Stay strong in your mind, grow wise ! Just some words from a 33 year old friend, I am thinking about this stuff since I was in your age as well!

[@selim20k]

@@mariomariu4394 Thanks for these wise words! You are completely right, the acknowledgement of what determine us in your daily life completely change the way we perceive the world, that's crazy, after that, as you said, it's way more easier to do the changes we have to do and build a solid foundation, even if we can fail sometimes, it's life, we have to stay faithful in the path of our journey!

[@blueidk4502]

Don't be comfortable about it, dont be confident and test your yourself, don't think you beat your addiction yet, get away from provoking pics and video even when you think it won't affect you. If not you will go back to your addiction

[@Conformal]

You're a Hamza fan aren't you? 🙌🙌 Proud of you :)

[@riogon10]

3:10 DUDE I LOVE THIS KZbin CHANNEL ! Christian here! Finally some bodybuilder guider with some personality instead of just weights and dumbbells. This great bro ! God bless u.

[@BrianScalabriniFitness13445]

This problem needs to be talked about more in schools, they teach about drug, alcohol, and nicotine addictions but never porn addictions. The health education standards need to change.

[@Dodanos1]

Yea because porn adiction is totaly at the same level as drugs with same consequences right? lol thats bullshit think about it a bit more.

[@jarkohs]

Porn is the worst man. I’m praying for you and am inspired by your boldness

[@JoseVega-vw9hn]

Hey man, I have struggled with porn for just over a decade. I am about to be 23 years old. I haven’t watched porn in 5 months since I met the the love of my life and we agreed we cannot get married or even engaged if I’m still addicted. It’s still a struggle and I get temptations more often then I care to admit. Anyways, I stumbled across the first porn video a few weeks ago when I felt very singled out since my girlfriend had been in a class that was talking about the dangers of pornography and she heard some nasty stuff (which granted, is definitely true) and was scared and speaking to me as if I had just fallen to porn the day before. I felt guilty and very alone in my struggle till I saw a KZbinr who posts about fitness and lifting science, whom I was very fond of, post a video laying out his struggles for the world to see. Your bravery gave me strength to keep kicking and be the man my Audrey deserves. Thanks for the motivation and strength man. Your humility and love is genuinely inspiring and makes me want to be a better man.... and get off my fat ass so I can start looking like a beast! (My gf’s dad is actively a body builder so I bug shoes to fill lol). God Bless brother, we got this! ❤

[@MrWhite00001]

Hey man, when I was 23 I became a Christian and really felt convicted over my struggles with porn and decided to confess it to my wife. She didn’t take it well as she was still immature in her faith as well so it opened up a lot of arguments at first. But opening up the door to this kind of communication brought us so much closer together. Much respect man. Keep fighting the good fight.

[@rick-toast7302]

Yeah u wanna know why it blew up?? It's bc almost everyone struggles with that at some point in their life and to see someone who inspires others and who has a massive impact on others and for someone I look up to confess and speak about something so hard and personal... it means a lot and once I saw it on my homeboy page I had to watch it bc like I learn things from u lol. And ur just a great guy from what u show... ur dope dude and it means a lot having people like u come out and do this for not only ur own benefit but others also. Keep doing what ur doin dude. Like really ur amazing. I hope life is good or gets better for u.👍❤️

[@johnkirk8650]

This is one of the most wholesome video and channel I’ve ever seen

[@1onlypatch]

Man i really appreciate this type of content, i'm currently 16 and i have been doing no fap for 10 months. Everytime i did it i felt extreme guilt and sadness for myself and i started to view humans as literal sex objects and it didn't help that i was exposed to it at the age of 12 and at one point was doing it up to 3 times a day. Working out has became a huge factor into getting rid of my endless need of masturbation and i discovered your channel a few weeks back through a short and have been watching all of your vids you are an extreme inspiration and role model for young men to get behind being able to become open with our problems and find a solution. I am glad i was not the only one dealing with this uncomfortable truth many of us face.

[@killahasbigrpk8711]

you can really see this has emotionally impacted him a lot. I gained so much respect for him after that. Even though the internet has normalized it, it’s still hard to come out with stuff like this.

[@makunguchabalala1508]

Most times your partner is on your side. I remember telling my girlfriend about my porn addiction and it became something we wanted to work on together. So brave Dylan, you deserve the world man🙏🏽

[@zacb450]

It took me years to finally tell my family about my addiction to porn. But it honestly couldn’t have gone any better. They were extremely loving, and supportive. And together with the help of my family. I will beat my porn addiction for good.

[@zacb450]

In those 12. Almost 13 years of porn consumption. I have only taken a week of rest from masturbation. The last few years I got up to doing it six times a day. And was still doing it six times a day just recently. I knew it was time to cut it out completely. When it just recently started affecting the time I spend with Family, and Friends. Porn uses the same centers of the brain if you were to use drugs or alcohol. It really makes me mad. That porn addiction isn’t as big of topic as drug addiction or alcohol addiction. At the end of the day if it destroys your life. And ruins relationships with the people you love and care about. It’s an addiction.

[@Andy-pr5be]

I respect you so much Dylan, very inspiring, we all have flaws, its the new drug most men struggle with this

[@fraannco]

My gf left me after opening up about that So im glad have someone who is understanding

[@Squatzoatz]

I dont shame myself for viewing porn anymore. It might not be good for maintaining a healthy relationship with a woman and im working to avoid watching it but the shame that i was putting upon myself because of it was killing me. If you can quit then its probably a good thing but we have evolved in a way that makes us easily addicted to porn. I think it is great that more people are being open with their feelings and struggles. We can figure this out and be able to live our lives in the process

[@ceedeeznuts2595]

Not hard you just don’t watch the video. They’re addicting but maybe get a grip of your life

[@Squatzoatz]

@@ceedeeznuts2595 keep coping, hypocrite

[@ceedeeznuts2595]

@@Squatzoatz I have the strength to not watch porn

[@muscleymanarts]

Unlike the idiot who responded to you and didn't actually read what you wrote I applaud you for your candor and honesty. It's a good choice you've made for yourself and don't listen to anyone who would contradict you or compare themselves with you. Shame on CeeDeezNuts for being a dick to you.

[@royaleagle-brawlstars6113]

​@@ceedeeznuts2595Addiction is a lot deeper than that my friend. It's not really a choice or failure of willpower. You should read yourself up on it. It's quite interesting. And don't jugde anyone for having problems with any type of addiction really.

[@insid3493]

Good job man, your inspiring all of us to quit or most of us at least! But it's really not anything to be embarrassed about just because it's a problem everybody struggles with

[@SnapInsider3]

In the path of life we get lost from our self and source sometimes, then the time to get back to our core nature awakens us and we ask to our selves "where had I been?" I found you now I wont lost you anymore cause I love and respect you and learned how valuable you are. You are so brave my man, you are an agent of change, those who help breaking up the chains of pain in society for making it better, well done!

[@jauadoglah7744]

Thanks dude for this video. I am in the same situation as you are and never told anyone, you being absolutely vulnerable and man enough about it gives me and many others the courage to do the same. Thank you and I wish you the best. I would really like to see more videos like this.

[@zacb450]

I’ve been watching porn since I was 12. I’m now 22, almost 23. And finally am quitting for good. Porn has destroyed me both mentally, and physically. I don’t desire to have a relationship. Because porn messed me up so bad. I am now ready to repair my body, and mind. I will no longer let my urges control me.

[@taigaaisaka6378]

4:03 Peaceful warrior is such a great Movie !

[@adamgeller5361]

i love how youre trying out different forms of editing. I really loved this video. the inclusion of meme edits and whiteboard illustrations is phenominal

[@gershomalex6544]

I totally love Dylan's videos

[@whotfisenso]

WOW Drew’s looking great, y’all both have went through such crazy transformations

[@rayhinto]

Great work! One of the Creators who is making stuff where people get impulses if followed they get a overwhelming big upgrade for their future and specially for those around them. Stop train to your brain to be a predator. Only as a protector you will get deep satisfaction. Porn and hookups will always leave a deep hole behind after the high...

[@flubberguy4370]

I am currently quitting my addiction because I don’t want to deal with this anymore you go bro❤

[@spencerainsworth269]

Let's go, Keep it up bro you are helping dudes out everywhere. I haven't watched corn once since your first vid.

[@yoellopez82]

Stay up bro you strong for saying whats been on most young adults mind.

[@georgeparadis1510]

It's a complex issue.. I mean, on one side, there is nothing wrong with enjoying masturbation and fantasizing/etc. The danger to me seems to be lie in the very stereotypical nature of most pornography and that indulging excessively in this fake can hurt relationships/interactions with real actual people by changing the way we react to people-not as they are, but as this fiction that has been reinforced over intense participation. I totally respect Dylan and his friends for discussing this openly and honestly, this is what we need to keep the indulgence in the healthy side of the spectrum. The fact that obsessive masturbation/porn use coincides with isolation and hiding is where the danger lies. But having friends (especially other male friends for men) to share feelings about this is a good way to counterract the worst effects. The whole concept of "toxic masculinity" where men can't talk about their feelings to other men, without risking some gay association is hurting men in so many ways. With real friends that you can be open with about your insecurities, you not only get support, but you also begin to take power away from the isolationist behaviour AND you can begin to see the interaction between men and women with more nuance (and not in an Andrew Tate way, which seems to be acting like real life is like bad porn scenarios, esp those that display a stereotyped imbalance of power).

[@abelnickerson4470]

thank you so much for doing more content about this, keep on going for self improvement. I'm with you all the way

[@jacobgordyn]

mad respect for being open about something like this.

[@solscreams]

Mad respect to him for hiding his steroid use too

[@jacobgordyn]

@@solscreams didnt know about that, at least he finally admitted it instead of hiding it tho.

[@keelanenns4548]

NNN actually helped me a lot. 22days strong

[@Derek_All_Man]

I hope you can continue with this hardship, you’re a huge inspiration to me personally and i can relate on a spiritual level i’m going to talk to someone because porn is unhealthy and not okay. thank you and i wish you a good one.

[@user-xl1jl4sk3v]

Thanks man this definitely needs to be talked about more

[@gabrielrojas2781]

Really strong maan🔥💪🏻

[@bruhgetoutpls3259]

I’m sorry but that thumbnail was hilarious. You just look so… 🫦 LMAOOO

[@mayapaya314]

I've got so much respect for you dude

[@wowowowowowowowowowowowowowo7]

the girl im in love with hates me because of my porn addiction i trying my best to stop and seek help

[@humblenegroinchrist]

it's ok.. Jesus is there for you..

[@porternakayama1481]

Dude I love this guys videos keep it up please

[@shogoyamada945]

I’ve seen this end relationships

[@Electric_]

I struggled with it for years. The key for me was two fold. One, I didn’t want to offend God, because I love Him and I see why it’s obviously an evil thing. The other is filling the void with other activities. I didn’t even let myself go to bed unless I was exhausted. Not encouraging a sleep disorder or anything, but I just kept busy reading, playing video games, working on my business, and taking my mind off it. I poured all my energy into improving myself too and finding a good wife, then I poured all my energy into making sure she was happy and we could have sex almost daily, as that is a productive aim for arousal. Quitting it helped me grow wealthy, get a great marriage, and exert control over myself in other areas when I’ve always been a low impulse control kind of guy.

[@danielafkhami1856]

I have the same problem as you bro....

[@dewaldoosthuizen7413]

Mad respect bro 💪🏻💪🏻 Much love❤️❤️

[@tkutfkutrhgdjhdjhfs9598]

I honestly remember when I first told my gf about this and I was super embarrassed but she ended up helping me through with it and its super hard to be honest about it.

[@austinzizzi1142]

It’s so important to talk about

[@abyheek7037]

Well I have a p*rn addiction but don't have a girlfriend to tell .... What can be done ?

[@HappyHayHay]

Just stop. Tell friends and family about your problem and you will see that your not alone. You will definitely be relieved when you don’t have to carry so much weight of stress of if someone finds out without telling you

[@ondraslezak1666]

The most Gigachad move I've ever seen.

[@willsmith5915]

How you gotta porn addiction and girlfriend that just doesn’t make sense

[@faresbeltaif8978]

Thanks for this channel

[@troycastellitto]

Love how your channel is shifting towards this kind of content! I think we all enjoy it a lot plus it will help you reach even more people in the long run. It's great to hear other guys open up about this stuff. I've definitely had these conversations with friends but not many have the balls to talk about this on such a large platform. It's also cool to hear about your religious upbringing in this video and the last, never knew that side about you

[@30__]

This is amazing for speaking out, bro.

[@timothyblack3322]

Dylan, You are simple talking about life. Lots of people watch porn, just in moderation. Addition is something you can recover addicts.

[@glgl1472]

You are a weirdo but I'd like the fact that you had the guts to talk about your porn addiction you probably helped people I'm glad the internet was not around when I was young

[@DragonMasterBG]

Now do one about your steroid addiction!

[@ryancurry1457]

Haha!! Putting up Christmas lights and talking about porn. Classic.

[@fooeatshorts4764]

This was comedy 😂 loved it man

[@ljhoward5125]

mad respect bro

[@H3t3r3x]

Your content is amazing Dylan, keep up the good work. As a man who has been struggling with a porn addiction for 11 years now. I am finally getting my life back into my hands. It sucks when I realized how much time I have wasted. I recently have watched so many self improvement videos on KZbin, and your videos have helped me more than any of them. My life has changed drastically. Thank you so much for the help on this

[@robinlederle6661]

That triceps has a triceps

[@noahpohomovs8561]

Bro its ur life, and u could do what ever u want with it😎😎

[@kennykimono]

Hell yeah bro stay strong and transmute that sexual energy. Retain for gains or bust for lust !!!

[@tcs778]

imagine looking like 3:36 every time you remove your jacket 😳

[@gintokisakata3014]

Bro Jesus Christ give him a chance

[@jackhacks3234]

I love you dylan you got me into the gym and motivated me to gain weight and I have so much respect for you making this type of content. Also Drew is a Legend

[@luxuriousrelaxations5278]

when he spoke to his girlfriend he sounded and looked with his body and face language like patrick bateman himself

[@danielyeruhimovich8107]

He is simply not there

[@bradteddy3645]

I respect for been open about it brother.

[@Av_2valid]

We all got demons at the end of the day it’s only up to us to conquer them and strive to be better .

[@sonnyifindleaks]

Much love brotha- a ton of respect. Keep moving forward and be strong. I would say I was in the same boat - except I got 'busted' which is a worse feeling because I couldn't explain or feel like I could come up with a reason to explain. The fact that you were able to notice it and come forward to the ones close to you shows them that you're aware and being more than honest.

[@mochigrapes5599]

Also starting changing my bad habits ☝🏻

[@jct3439]

7:53 Damn dawg. She is fucking RUTHLESS😭😭

[@ProdBC]

“you look like you would be” 💀

[@michealsmith28]

You're so cute to see how you turn into a marshmallow when you talk to her

[@AZON__]

God loves you

[@cocstudio9377]

Don't worry I was olso problem from porn and masterbation but in 2022 I focused I on self-improvement path I was addition to for 5 years

[@cocstudio9377]

And I also told my parents I had enough of the weaknesses

[@johanflatmark9169]

Dude the thumbnail😂😂

[@xcolectorx5422]

Big w from dylan. I really respect his honesty because i know the struggle of addiction. I am 21 years old i used to do hard drugs when i was 18 almost died. Now i am 21 "only" drinking and smoking weed. I am still unsatisfyed but i am recovering. Coming out on your addictions may be hard but standing true to yourself is very important. Mad respect to dylan for beeing this open.

[@lillee4207]

Good shit brother, drugs are a struggle I'm 17 and have had my fair share of drug use, and it's hard. My mind is slow now, its all bad. Now I'm "only" smoking weed with the very occasional harder drug use, and I hate it. I want to quit but I feel like I'll fall back onto harder drugs because I'm not strong enough. Mental shit is difficult, keep going brother

[@xcolectorx5422]

@@lillee4207 you too brother

[@NoteFromSELF]

What did you expect? Come on.

[@johnathonrolle1454]

I’ve watched it last night but there was no masturbation involved! And bro truth be told I feel like shit for what I watched! As time roll on I’ll get back better!

[@SEANxGEN]

I understand this would be hard to come out to but don’t see how telling the internet would help. if it helps you then I’m happy but think this society always says men should show feeling and I feel otherwise so don’t think everyone should see this and copy it because it won’t help everyone.🙏

[@IvanIvanov-vp3nk]

Dylan, my guy, you should not give up! You have maned up and opened up about your addiction and this should be inspiration for others, man! Now is not the moment to quit! You shall keep going and share your victory with us - the Millions of men out there that have the same problem! You must show us the way! You must inspire us and lead us to success! YOU ARE THE MAN!!! YOU ARE INSPIRATION!!! YOU ARE MOTIVATION!!! YOU ARE A LEGEND!!!

[@primalinstinct4418]

I can’t wait to get my own planet 😊

[@EmpowerHour101]

I like this kind of discussion about reality. I know u can men

[@truthinthis10]

I love you bro.

[@tylertelford1766]

I've been addicted to porn and masturbation for years, and i'm trying to get out of it. I'm scared to tell someone, though.

[@user-xl1jl4sk3v]

I hear you man 💪

[@LinusScrubTips]

Honestly dude I’ve been getting off using porn this month. It feels good man. Anyone making the same change keep it up.

[@topherjn]

You do realize that what you wrote is ambiguous, right?

[@AmpzRL]

Dude that does not sound the way you intended it to LMFAO

[@1Jason]

@@AmpzRL So it wasn’t just me who had to read it twice!

[@alexanderlensby3874]

LMAOOO sorry to laugh but that waterbottle joke was class🥹

[@eatyourgreens7300]

0:01 man popped into existence 😂

[@tyler_funk]

That video went viral because people needed it themselves man, you helped many many people just by making that video.

[@hupe5836]

1:19 what are you.... *had me in the first half* ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

[@m43988]

Dillon, it's perfectly natural to be in tune with your body. You're more than welcome to video your sessions and share them with the rest of us. Just sayin.

[@berserker3778]

She left him after this?

[@TheGravitonVon]

Remember, just like you, everyone has vulnerabilities at different points in their life. Also, masturbation can be healthy in moderation and is good for your body and brain. Addictions can be treated, recognizing it is the first step.

[@NYCBigBull]

Bro, when are you gonna grow some chest hair?

[@magoo4251]

James 5:16: Therefore, confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person has great power as it is working.

[@w4ffl3z79]

This guy is true gigachad he is bettering his life 💪

[@raccoonkiller2896]

Keep on going man, don't ever stop!!

[@haydeng2464]

Proud of you bro

[@mansour3185]

luv u