Ten Things Elegant Women NEVER Do

[@blueazura]

1. Eating On The Go 2. Blowing Your Nose At The Dinner Table 3. Trolling On Social Media 4. Giving Service Staff A Hard Time 5. Don't Dominate A Conversation 6. Don't Turn Up To A Date Empty Handed (i.e. Bring enough cash or funds to cover the meal) 7. Blowing On Food To Cool It Down 8. Wearing Fake Designer Items 9. Don't Flaunt Your Cash 10. Overly Concerned About Other People's Affairs

[@ifrahasim392]

wow I tick all those 🥰🥰🥰

[@AB-ro3fu]

Can i have a meme page &stil be elegant🥺✌️❤️

[@sharonmccode4360]

thank you Great tips very useful

[@theangel5416]

@@AB-ro3fu I do. You gotta have a personality. 🥰

[@missosato]

Point well taken. Elegance is one of our favorite attributes, of equal importance are nowadays. It will separate you from the rest of the pack, it will also set you apart as being unique.

[@jahblessangelina8707]

I'm 24 and I'm on my journey of becoming more elegant because for me there is nothing more beautiful than that.

[@africanTHEfire]

It's the hair It's the blue It's the flower Excellent points particularly about the blowing on the food!!. Onwards and upwards for this channel!! I would love to see how elegant women handle conflict. And how to socialise elegantly !!!

[@stephnoraeddyson2177]

Thank you

[@lessonswithdelmi4495]

What do you mean by the blue and flower? Please

[@millieholmst6628]

Learning alot Thank you

[@onevenus6040]

​@@lessonswithdelmi4495 her outfit is blue and the bouquet of flowers in the background

[@jamiepaulse9898]

I would love you to do a video on harsh/uncomfortable situations. Elegantly handling jealous people etc...

[@healthychick9450]

THIS! I live in NYC and it seems to be getting worse. Everyday I struggle to maintain my femininity in a toxic, aggressive, masculine place. I have to be in my masculine to protect myself from the rude, mean hateful walking around. Women are becoming more vicious as I move through the world so their attacks have become more frequent. It's becoming difficult and making me depressed. I feel so unprotected

[@elizabethtangata326]

Hi Vivian, another thing you could mention is nails that are too long. For some strange reason they have become fashionable but they are so trashy

[@cutecatsdiam]

and eyelashes!!!

[@kayloveheart2513]

As well as rainbow colored hair/makeup excessive jewelry.

[@jennifercox1098]

I agree, my opinion is that it looks dirty and how do you clean yourself with that nails .

[@carmenhanna7867]

They look creepy.

[@KCelestial]

Simplicity is the best form of elegance and class. Yep, them long nails are so skanky 🤣

[@giftchikwendu2417]

Elegance is timeless, Elegance will never go out of fashion!

[@edl6398]

I love that your videos really apply to any woman anywhere. Grace and class is recognizable in all societies,no matter what the social norms or economic status. It’s universal.

[@MisssPearl09]

Great advice again for EVERYBODY! I particularly like point 10, if you’re focussing your attention on others rather than yourself you’ll never be truly elegant because people will sense it’s just for show

[@caenterprisellc6922]

You know what's funny, I almost always end up talking with waitresses and waiters at restaurants and they generally talk back. We don't have full blown conversations but I've found that when you say thank you to them and you are nice, it supports good service. I love to sit down to eat at restaurants and I love timelessness. These are all great points.💖

[@redeemed5906]

I enjoyed this. Im 50 and learning a WHOLE lot from you. Thank you so much

[@sistereve2502]

I love your makeup. It's perfection!!! So elegant and pretty!

[@Imaraabeson]

You hair is always pretty, but this hairstyle in particular is gorgeous. I love how in depth you go with your videos. Thank you for your knowledge and wisdom

[@delightharriet1711]

I'm proud of you Vivienne as a black woman

[@Weeflowerofscotland]

I’m so delighted that I have found your channel and all the wonderful content.I am now in my late 40s and want to become more polished and classy. I have always been a very casual dresser but it’s just not working for me anymore and I was beginning to feel a bit lost when choosing clothing now etc. I was brought up with impeccable manners so I think i am ok in that department 😅 however I have never been overly feminine. I am soaking up all your advice like a sponge , and thoroughly enjoying it. Many thanks again .

[@roxannehintzen1010]

You are truly a woman of class and elegance, thank you so much for your brilliant teaching❤

[@WomanOfElegance]

Thank you so much💜

[@cassiemaie9308]

Just come across your YT channel, and totally binging on all your videos - they're fab.

[@marilynbradley8487]

Hello my beautiful young teacher. I got my nails and toes done yesterday. French tips. Doing hair and make up today as well the shadow work on my personality. Thank you!

[@centrineomondi8221]

Hi Vivian, Thanks for educating me about this simple mistakes.

[@karencollins2440]

Another Excellent presentation, Vivienne. Thank you!

[@octaviahicks-braye9859]

Thank you. Eating on the go or while walking does seem quite rude. It also causes littering in our environments, making them deplorable overtime. Cups, plastic bags, fast food containers, and chicken bones everywhere. Wondering if this is the cause of acid reflux for many in our community. Thanks for helping to raise the bar in our lives.

[@faraboverubies2020]

Acid reflux is caused by eating large meals, especially before bedtime.

[@mrsnaomim3219]

Hello woman of elegance, I just saw your channel the other day and I must say you are doing a great job..

[@funsewingwithdrife]

You're so polished and i love your earrings 💕 and your timeless lessons.

[@Elegance33Refine]

💕♥️🦋🌸A lot of Beautiful words from your mouth! Thankyou for helping others and me to inspire to become a more elegant adequate lady which I am but could use more tips! ♥️♥️🦋🌸

[@ngoiriblessedofficial3710]

It's the way you put out your words, for me Viv...Elegance at it's best. Learning daily. Ty 💃❤

[@jacquelinesmith-gaston2071]

Yes! Thank you for addressing this issue...blowing your nose at the table. I'm married, and hate when my husband takes me out and I see a lady do this in the restaurant, at the table. Such a big no no! Thank you.

[@jennifercox1098]

It’s really disgusting , they can just excuse themselves and go to the bathroom .

[@brendarewan7441]

I don’t like it when a man does it either.

[@ayotmisticka3768]

This is highly exquisite content Ladies. Thank you Vivianne.

[@mnameno7713]

I love enjoying your videos because it's teaches me a lot of things that am not in line with, but as of now I will try to level up things better to become the most elegant Lady as I will be

[@Maria_Svetlana_5923]

Hi vivian, mentioning people who are good at identifying fakes vs real items its real . After having classes in making our own designs its gotten easy to also spot people with fakes and its A Lot in the east someone can tell if i see a fake by eyeing at them no emotion at all they get nervous to flaunt their fake designer item .

[@gladysdpenha6241]

You are truly so very elegant. Thank you for all your beautiful tips. God bless you.

[@aaronisamonkey2]

It's been said once, but I'll reiterate. Great advice for Everybody! Really loved the video, keep up the great work.

[@vaselisaavgi9767]

Thank you for this content! There really is not enough classy, elegant ladies in existence. In my little town maybe 1 in several hundreds is put together. Others are wearing clothes with big holes and tight tops overflowing with their bodies. 😔

[@paulinemairs9729]

Very educational and practical videos. Our self-worth is not tied to our achievements. What valuable lessons learnt. Thank you

[@schawnettarobinson8584]

Beauty, class, and brains.

[@charlottekirchner2612]

You are always spot on! Thank you for your elegant advice! I’m striving to be that elegant woman and you have helped tremendously to get rid of some nasty habits

[@casandragatewood1202]

so needed to hear this, much appreciation!!!! Love, Love your channel

[@winniegoafitha2205]

Im learning here in Botswana Africa.thank you

[@prayerawaji6368]

Thanks you! Your video is educative

[@leahmartin3643]

Im happy I found u! 😃💗 I love your content!

[@eyramahafia9593]

Excellent video. Do not think for people, let them think whatever they want about you. You are wonderfully, gorgeous perfect.

[@anitepierre8427]

Thank you and Thank you Queen. May God bless you more.👑💐

[@royalhighness6263]

Oh my gosh . I love and enjoy your videos. They are very unique and amazing like you and most importantly because we woman need to hear this . Like seriously. I wish sincerely that your platform grows big and watched globally as your work is super important to remind woman to polish their qualities on a daily basis. So thank you and much love to you 🙏💯❤️

[@WomanOfElegance]

Thank you so much♥🌹

[@royalhighness6263]

@@WomanOfElegance your welcome 🥀🦋❤️

[@marychristophi6688]

Love your Chanel thank you 🙏

[@monicachanda3258]

How does one respond to accusations that aim to destroy your character in an elegant way without losing yourself?

[@OctaviaH-u3q]

Thank you Vivian.

[@kv7282]

You taught me many many things. Thank you.

[@edithhall7831]

Excellent elegant points I believe I got a 10 out of 10 of things not to do as an elegant woman I'm still working on number 10 I do enjoyed riding around and my Rolls-Royce I worked hard for my car

[@saprianntimane7235]

Wow thank you so much dear

[@vladalukianova]

Always enjoy!

[@nadinembu3654]

Hi Viviane. I really enjoy your videos a lot, they are so rich and full of teachings. Thank you for them. I wish to have a video on how elegant women set the table for meals. Maybe you can do one or direct me somewhere. I look forward to reading from you. Thank you

[@ramonajohnson757]

Thank you beloved! Great advice!

[@judithelouisjean8863]

Thanks very much !

[@learnlanguageswithshabnams1261]

You are my queen. I love you. you have taught me more than my mother and my teachers.

[@WomanOfElegance]

❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@chantalmarie8361]

Thank you so much for this video!

[@MD.Simple]

Thank you for your great videos🌸

[@christellelarissajohoutcha135]

School etiquette, please🙏 And I absolutely love your videos, they have been so helpful to me.

[@lessonswithdelmi4495]

💕 thank you MS. vivian, this was helpful.

[@shantakoa8596]

Catching up on videos ❤

[@florencemuya2803]

This the kind of content I need

[@michelletilghman6766]

Much gratitude Vivian.

[@Lucy-ql7tt]

Yes! Very valid points...cant be sitting at the table blowing steam out the soup🤦🏾‍♀️just wait joh!

[@irenetata6864]

Hello Vi keep it up. I like your ways

[@Onikawilliams1992]

I'm new here!! I am taking notes❤❤

[@folasadeoniyitan4998]

Excellent content Vivian

[@Jilrosesj]

Thank you for your content. Side note, I always admire that you have flower arrangements behind you, did you arrange them yourself? The roses are so pretty

[@victoriabridgetteszziwa3367]

Vivian thanks for this wow your really changing me to the better me ,anyways wish you could potray some examples of clothings that are classy and fashionable please

[@msbellamy07]

Thank you for this video. I always have a problem allowing someone to pay for my meals after business outings. I usually have to forcefully and aggressively pay. I am not sure why I am uncomfortable with allowing others to pay. How do you feel this is viewed by the other party? I don't want to offend or be viewed in a negative light.

[@zippyblessed839]

I cant do it I just split the bill

[@pbjt2396]

I think it is perfectly ok if someone offers to pay for you, and you should gracefully accept if they do! In some instances, you might be weary because you may wonder whether there are ulterior motives involved. Worry not- if there are, and the person, for example, throws it in your face at a later time then you will see that ulterior motive in the future. It feels like someone paying for your meal is a harmless “weapon” if they choose to weaponize it, so I think using this logic will put your mind at ease. If you worry what will others think- well they will think that was nice of the person paying. If you want to be viewed in the same light, you can offer to pay for the next round. If they weaponize this in the future, just take solace knowing that that would be a ridiculous and ugly thing for someone to do to anyone, and no healthy, classy Individual would stand for that type of rudeness. Such a person would be evaluated for their crassness and likely left out of future social gatherings for their tacky mistreatment of others. I hope this helps!

[@anapierce8204]

@@pbjt2396I would suggest to thank the person who treats you and send a card of thanks. Maybe next time, even if it is business, day it will be your treaty this time. From then on it will be easier for each to pay their own way and cause no more anxiety of who will pay. If someone treats for your birthday be very gracious with your thanks and do not refuse the great. You may do the same for them in the future. A card of thanks is not only elegant but good manners and a requirement in society, even among family members.

[@lydialal.l.f8382]

That was very helpful, thanks you!

[@msniki7103]

Love it 👏🏽 thank you!

[@NaaKomley]

Oh dear, the Nene Leakes meme just got me😂😂😂😂. All valid points and you’ve more than outdone yourself hun. 🥰

[@AyeshaRameez]

You are a beautiful soul. You really are so elegant and beautiful

[@Oshakz]

🤣 Vivian that picture of the lady eating on the go is epic!

[@beverlyrobertson9723]

Hi Vivian. So excited to listen to your videos. I appreciate you coming on line and teaching me the value of being elegant. I'm professional, just need the elegance. I always take notes to refer to in the future. I'm working on my wardrobe, and fitness. Elegant clothing will look terrible if you're not fit. Also, elegant women don't gossip about other people. They are focused and happy with themselves.

[@lauradenogean7572]

Great 👍 share Vivian thank you 🙏

[@deejeneve4961]

Will you please give us a brow + makeup and hair tutorial? 🙂❤🌹

[@hildrethhady6433]

Am happy i found this channel

[@ariseshinewithchido]

Be more ladylike and more sophisticated.

[@srividya9238]

Love your videos 👏👏 so classy 💯

[@jocelynruiz9118]

i love your videos! 💖💖💖

[@melluques8475]

The points are what you teach your kids at home🤷‍♀️ girl or boy all sure have manners and sense of looking good and clean. Designer items are an statement that you can afford it. Be elegant and with class has nothing to do with it🙏🏻🙏🏻🕊🕊

[@DarnisaDavis-ec7pu]

What is your advice on wearing wigs/weaves or hair extensions??

[@2ndhandanxiety719]

I’m a woman & if I invite anyone out, I always pay. People usually object & I have to be a bit aggressive to do so. Is this tacky?

[@kitchenkrafts1575]

Thank you so much 😘

[@rahrahei6413]

Hi there, at first, you are a very beautiful lady, second, your videos are very useful, thank you so very much ❤️💕💖

[@melodybwalya4495]

Beautiful stuff

[@AvionOrr]

THANK YOU!!!

[@WotsterGamer]

Great video,I wish I can like it more than ones,👍

[@WomanOfElegance]

Thank you so much for watching ❤

[@howtoproject4]

Great hairstyle❤

[@angelacoleman67]

The comment about talking too much, such as yourself being shy, is a comment about your self esteem, not a tip of elegance.

[@anapierce8204]

You are right, but not the wrong place to mention it. It might benefit someone.

[@הילהקובו-ו6ל]

Hello, I enjoy hearing it, but I don't speak English very well and it's a shame that the subtitles can't be translated into other languages, like Hebrew. I would be happy if there was such a possibility. All the best.

[@NatashaJohnBaptiste]

Great advice loved the point on designer items I fully agree.

[@domingasjanuario3767]

Gratidão . thank you 😍

[@edehnwakaego]

M a new follower...Nd I love you so much ma'am

[@B3bita1215]

Woww!!! Excuse me ma'am, but you are absolutely beautiful!!!!! 😍

[@WomanOfElegance]

Thank you so much💕

[@anitasheriff6390]

I agree with you

[@justineawatey3007]

I just chanced on your channel and I love what you're doing, it's very helpful Please can you help me with this: is it okay for your date to mention out loud how much he's paying for the bill? Thank you

[@anapierce8204]

Yes, it would be.

[@nnekanwaorgu]

You’re Elegant beautiful with brain,keep it up.❤the tips

[@terraiznajem105]

❤thank you

[@pamelamunyama7884]

Thank you beautiful

[@camilegrimes29]

Eating on the go, is something I need to work on.

[@danny270875]

Beautifully put together, gents can learn from these as well....let others 'blow the horn', point no.9 the one and only Nene(HWOA) Fame .Lol