That moment when you no longer care to keep up appearances.

[@DeniseHedberg66]

In 98 I got cancer. I was a single mom of three pretty young kids. I learned then, at 33 years old, to not sweat the small stuff. I had to learn to not worry about anything I had no control over.

[@thomasbarrett2812]

I watched that show with my Grandma years ago. I can still laugh at it and fondly remember enjoying being with her.

[@JessicaKimball]

Love you Jim! Thank you for sharing your honest wisdom and experience. Any lady (yes Lady) would be blessed and favored by your company. Love your message. God bless you!

[@BAGHEERAPROSPER]

You're waking up Jim, you're awakening from the amazing illusions of human vanities, concepts and narratives.

[@justinw3765]

It’s a beautiful thing to see someone wake up! We’ve been lied to about everything.

[@christineviking1578]

I'm Aussie, and we Aussies really appreciate down to earth, no bullshit people like you Jim. Can't beat English humour...another old favourite of mine is "One Foot in the Grave"

[@gerdahenirich8733]

Keeping up appearance is a great British series very funny and entertaining...Old but still love it...Another great video Jim..Love from Ireland ❤

[@armoredghost6180]

Jim does what he wants when he wants. Like a honey badger.

[@NarmadaaBohara]

❤for this video! Life is fragile and uncertain. I lost my mom 7 months ago 😢; all the luxuries and name/fame are futile. There are no other happiest moments in life except giving/ helping others. I also donate blood (A+) regularly and grocery in an orphanage.

[@PamHaynes-oo3ck]

I used to watch this. Very enjoyable 😂😂

[@rodneyrichardson8286]

I loved watching this show.

[@Jesus8508s]

Jim,thanks for making this videos here on KZbin I'm in a really deep depression your videos keeps me going and I see you as father figure to me ,my dad passed away and I really don't know what to feel he wasn't around much also single no kids 39 years old.

[@kimbaker4352]

Pajamas in Walmart is where I draw the line.

[@noahbrown4388]

Apparently half of Walmart shoppers don't agree 😅

[@user-ew1sk9zp5v]

Thanks for your inspiration Jim👍

[@BeautyforAshes-r7d]

Powerful- thanks for sharing the wealth of words she left behind for us. They live on to change our lives. Puts our troubles in proper perspective so well.

[@katrinmalts7562]

Oh my😊 I loved that programme, British humour is the best. We are similar in Estonia, I bit dark.

[@maryellenguisinger9016]

I started giving blood regularly maybe 4-5 years ago…it is a good feeling especially as I have some friends who cannot because of their own health conditions…great talk😊

[@BrunoBerryhoneybuns1370]

i like what you said about acknowledging that you COULD have more "things" I traded all that stuff to spend what modest income i have on having a family. everyday im looking at my baby grow and just enjoying the process. i dont know how much time i have left but im going to appreciate every waking moment. thanks again Jim

[@annettegutkind]

Bless you … you’re waking up … very difficult and painful - Keep going 🪻

[@Rameman33]

I remember that old British sit-com. Highlighted the pretention of the class system here and all it's idiocies. Still here I'm afraid for some... Holly's thoughts are obviously very poignant Jim. So young and inciteful. I'll tell you. In the last decade I gave up mainstream work to look after my folks, I'm in my 50s. I nursed them to the end which was of recent times. I became invisible to most, family especially, as I became a carer. Listening to my parents in the last stages of their lives gave me a great and privileged insight into what's important and what's not. Discernment is everything Jim. It's for us to use it wisely. I hope I find you well. Andy.

[@kce6025]

This video, especially the letter, had a strong impact on me. Thanks for sharing the wisdom of this content Jim.

[@justinw3765]

Love all your videos Jim B.

[@OutWestwithJeff]

Hyacinth and the gang were a riot - the show is an all-time favourite of mine! I really enjoy and appreciate your thoughtful, insightful and eloquent videos, Jim. Best wishes to you from Vancouver, Canada.

[@BrunoBerryhoneybuns1370]

Outstanding video Jim. i remember this young woman back years ago. Its amazing the level of awareness she attained facing her mortality. She had a short time to accept her death and she did it with dignity and wisdom beyond her years. thank you Jim. i loved todays video. ❤

[@recabitejehonadab2654]

Great insight Jim 👍. I still like to get the garbage cans in promptly 😊.

[@Weezerrebel]

Refreshing to hear a person to whom the world actually does owe something. Grow a beard to go with that wisdom, Jim.

[@dianekoralja2154]

Hi Jim. I used to love that British comedy show, especially all of Hyacinth's kookiness, but it was very funny. You are a special person and I do like your content. 🙂👍

[@alopez1196]

Any man or woman who goes through what Mr. Bucket goes through, definitely has a beautiful pair of wings waiting for him/her in heaven. And Mr. Jim B, you have no other choice, in my opinion, but to find a younger woman so you can have kids. In the states it will be in her late 30s early 40's educated, without children and probably wants to be an equal partner with shared duties. Younger if out of the states and that involves eventually getting visas for her close family, financially demanding, and who knows what else. But love, or infatuation, conquers everything!. My humble opinion. You remind of some men in my family and how they are so set in their ways.

[@alopez1196]

And, you're a handsome man Mr. Jim B. However, never expect a partner to tell you. Some women feel that if the guy knows how cute good they look, it may awaken them to look for something better than what is standing next to them. Do expect compliments for good actions when with a mature woman regardless of age. Another humble opinion. Your videos make me reflect about life a lot. Though don't agree with some things you've said in previous video. Respect for other decisions as you've said.

[@ILTOMBA]

I like you Jim! Greets from Germany.

[@alerobabes01]

That show was hilarious and so is time goes by. 😂😂

[@DermotHynes]

Thank you Jim Godbless

[@Proj.A.Z]

Mr. Jim B? We…human beings…as men and especially as women we care so much for “Appearances”…particularly when were in our headspace about status and authority… I hate to say this but I still care about certain “appearances”… I hope to prepare my affairs where people know exactly the type of person I am… A man who doesn’t care anymore but to keep my living space and accounts free from being a “rag bag”!!! Much better the crap I had to clean up from my own family! I love what you shared about the show…I have a fondness for British humor!

[@leosbanyhernandez4939]

Greetings from Miami a Cuban American

[@sarahbrown1881]

Soo many good points there Jim. All ego based investments. Sounds like living your authentic life. I looked at the keeping up appearances you mention to see where l'm a slave to it. I would say the age gap romantic relationships are triggering to me. There's a bit of ego investment in pleasing others there. Great talk thanks Jim.

[@experienceeverything581]

34 American I have watched the episodes of KUA available on KZbin hilarious Hyacinth reminds me of woman I grew up around

[@josgoossens9059]

Yes thankyou

[@BecomeConsciousNow]

Live an Authentic life and let go of your ego. Yes, NDE'S are real. We will go home very soon. So, love yourself and others.

[@Mika77Top]

So true. 🙏

[@Melissa-x1z7f]

Awsome

[@alexmarques2398]

To impress is rarelly a hood idea, but why not *to express*? To express you're not garbage. (Garbage is a popular word these days 😎).

[@godssoldier101]

read the book Ecclesiastes in the bible (really read it and study what's written)... more wisdom in that one book than that of what ive gained from all the people ive met in my whole life

[@noahbrown4388]

Ecclesiastes is my favorite! "Nothing new under the sun"

[@MessengerRising]

Next video: Jim grows a Jim Carrey beard.

[@Swamivivekanandastrengthandins]

Jim... I wish this text reaches you.... Seeing your journey I feel.... You are at Home with yourself.... Do read the book called Najwa Zebian and you will understand that you are at Home with yourself.... Many humans struggle for that. . The book Welcome Home by Najwa Zebian is for you

[@Mike-p9n]

I did watch it

[@ninaallchurch3101]

haaaaaa over 50 baby - dont sweat the small stuff. look good, feel good but dont worry about fastidious detail!

[@jonhutchinson2902]

Who gives a flying fuck about what other people think about age gap relationships. Love is love

[@noahbrown4388]

Just turned 40. I have less fvcks to give every year and that's alright with me

[@jonhutchinson2902]

How does your channel keep growing like this when you videos have mostly low views. 1 or 2.viral videos will get you to 10k within weeks. That's super rare

[@omitimehernandez2010]

Did you feel offended when Tony Hinchcliffe called Puerto Rico floating trash? It wasn’t funny, and will probably cost some important votes in PA.

[@kirsty7608]

What’s with that Nazi type salute that you see Trump supporters do at his rallies? That’s a scary sign even tho I was born on the other side of the world!

[@AllenCarr-r6f]

Holly Butcher wrote that for clout. Kind of narcissistic of her given how many books on the same topic existed for centuries. Read Greek mythology instead of some random American. Bleh

[@ninaallchurch3101]

Life is a gift- we should help each other more ...