THAT'S IT, I'm Wedding Shaming ! - REACTION

[@CharlotteDobre]

For those who haven’t seen it, here’s a link to the Bridezilla comedy sketch! kzbin.info/www/bejne/hqnOd2yKjt2Lr9E

[@datgaydangernoodle1315]

I have and it was AMAZING!

[@immortalsofar5314]

Gave me nightmares!

[@jordanwoodrup8020]

I have and you are fantastic as always 😜

[@majh8red]

That video was hilarious!

[@aussieleanne17]

question...✌️ With nasty mum wearing a white dress can't you "photoshop" it? She'd be in snot green or orange in her copy of pic😂I've never photoshoped anything, not my interest. Have an awesome day New Zealand 👍

[@golfwidow]

If the bride asks you not to wear a dress that looks like a wedding gown and you do it anyway, I think you forfeit the right to complain if the bride asks the photographer to photoshop a different color onto it (or a different face onto you).

[@marshawargo7238]

Change the color was my Second thought on that one, First thought was Throw Her Out (with police)!!!

[@a697ag]

Photoshop that dress a different color in every picture. Here's MIL in her pink dress. Here's MIL in her yellow polka dot dress. Etc.

[@DrT0705]

@@a697ag ooooh, that's nice and extra petty, I like it!

[@Flinabin]

@@a697ag 🤣🤣🤣!!!

[@shaunah.1165]

Lol they'd just be denied entry at my wedding, Im THAT petty if someone were testing me. Its essentially setting a presidence of how you're willing to be treated, especially if its coming from someone on his side of the family attempting to get a rise out of you. Just remove the issues complete presence and enjoy YOUR day😏👌💯

[@YveWin]

I’ve said it once, I’ll say it again: Maids of Honor are slacking on the job nowadays. If anyone shows up in anything REMOTELY resembling a wedding dress, they get doused: ink, shoe polish, hair dye, wine. The bridesmaids should have taken that SIL and dragged her behind the garage and fixed the situation. C’mon bridal parties, step up your game! 😇

[@triciagore6856]

Lol. was honestly ready to do this at a wedding I attended as a guest. But Maid of honor and brides maids said the happy couple hadn't noticed her so I wasn't going to make a scene. Did point out that I was in a black dress (doesn't stan) and shose I could run in

[@survivedandthriving]

I have a close friend with a future MIL who would show up in a wedding dress just to be the centre of attention and gain narcissistic supply. I already plan to recruit our other friends in shaming MIL. The plan: Me [spotting MIL in white dress]: hey friend 1! [pointing to MIL] I think you won the pool! Didn't you have MIL showing up in an inappropriate dress? Friend 1 [option 1]: Yes, I had that guess! I'll buy you a beer with some of the money later. Friend 1 [option 2]: No, I think friend 3 had that guess. [pointing to MIL] Hey friend 3 I think you won the pool! Didn't you have MIL foolishly showing up in a wedding dress? Option 2 is preferred, with the message being passed among several others before someone finally claiming the (entirely fictional) money/prize. (my friend would enjoy the idea of someone spilling ink, etc. on the dress but would hate it if we did it in practice. But my friend would also enjoy the calling it out, and yes, I'd check with her and future husband before enacting the plan).

[@mandiemoore3272]

You're the kind of chick I'd want for my maid of honor actually my maid of honor was pretty badass too but

[@cjljl]

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@ThoughtsonThoughtsandFeelings]

Yes!!!

[@jessm.5385]

We had a family member OFFER to photograph our wedding for us as her gift as she knew we were saving up to adopt our oldest child (long story. We already had custody but wanted it to be official). We gratefully agreed and still look at those pictures with gratitude. We could've gotten higher quality by paying somebody, but these have significantly more value to us because of the gift aspect. We have since tried to support her small business whenever we can without ever asking for or expecting any kind of discount.

[@LaineyBug2020]

That is lovely! Probably happened because you're pretty great people and had been there for that friend many times over. You sound like you aren't the kind of people to expect stuff for free from everyone, but instinctually give what help you can when you see a need for it! May you continue to receive many such blessings in your life!

[@ashlynadventures912]

You understand the assignment. She offered so it was her gift to you. And you have been paying her back by supporting her passion. The article was talking about getting freebies. Anyone specifically cutting corners for free or cheap photography better be mindful that they still treat their photographers with respect and at least feed them. Also if you are getting a friend or family member, you better understand that they may want to enjoy your wedding rather than be busy taking photos every few minutes, or we get a repeat of the photographer deleting story from reddit.

[@Amber-yq9ee]

That is GREAT! What a cool move from BOTH sides! Honestly, if someone OFFERS to do it, then as long as the ppl are respectful & appreciative there's NOTHING wrong w\that! It's the ungrateful jerks that sour ppl on doing for others! & I KNOW too that sometimes a friend\family can make an offer about doing something for free for a loved 1 early on. Like you know, when you get married whenever, I'll do the catering for free & we can use my property. & They make that offer you know when there's no upcoming plans for a wedding. Then later when it happens whether it's a year or 5 years, you're thinking & you go BACK to that person & ask if they will, I don't think there's anything wrong with that either or that you're disrespecting them or taking advantage by wanting their work for free bc THEY OFFERED 1st. But in the same vein, you can't be mad if their circumstances or situation has changed & they CAN'T do it for free either. Ppl just need to start respecting ppl & being kind! & Entitled ppl are ALWAYS well that's what I'm saying! Why can't they be kind & just do this FOR FREE! Umm no. It's not kind to DEMAND good or services for free! Ppl kill me!

[@rabeaw6646]

As a mom of three boys (all really young still ^^) i really hope they ask me to bake the cake. I love baking and already done a few wedding cakes. I think i would be mad not to be the one who made the cake XD

[@Thumper-dx3yn]

@@rabeaw6646 As someone who is learning cake decorating at present (looking to change the course of my career interests) I have to say you are awesome! When I started I had zero idea how complex cake decor really is. The amount of money and practice that goes I to it is staggering. You rock to one day give such a wonderful gift to your future daughters.

[@jessicagustafson8882]

I was the maid of honor at my sister’s wedding. Instead of having specific dresses we had to buy to be in the line, she asked us all to find a black formal dress that we loved. It didn’t matter the style, it just had to be the color black. While I was looking for a black dress, I came across this gorgeous floral dress that was half ivory and half black. My mom absolutely loved the dress too and asked my sister if it was okay if I had a dress that was half ivory. My sister didn’t like the idea, so guess what I did? I kept looking and found a nice dress that was all black. I don’t understand people that purposely show up in clothes that don’t follow the dress code. It’s really not that hard.

[@eraldadevole]

You should have still bought the dress for yourself 😊 you deserved it.

[@tats763]

My MIL gave me this adorable bracelet with blue, silver, and white beads/charms before the wedding. One of her friends made it per her request. Her face just lit up in surprised joy when she saw me wearing it at the ceremony. She was such a sweet, wonderful woman.

[@Amber-yq9ee]

Awww! 💜💕 How SWEET! Maybe that was her way of welcoming you into the family, as well as honoring old traditions. You know, something old, something borrowed, something blue? Honestly, bc of the thread I was WAITING for you to be like, it was made by a witch who cursed it, or it belonged to his ex or something awful! 🤣😂 So glad it wasn't! That's sweet! & Very sweet of you to make sure you wore it so she knew you appreciated it & all!

[@katebet07]

She sounds like she was amazing. From your words, I gather she has passed? If so, I'm truly very sorry for your loss 💕

[@tats763]

@@katebet07 she did pass, thank you for your kind words. I could not have had a better MIL than her. I was truly blessed to have been her DIL.

[@tats763]

@@Amber-yq9ee LOL, I know, it's totally opposite of what we saw in the videos! I had a wonderful wedding, and after some of these clips, I appreciate the good memories even more!

[@golden_leader9227]

I love good people stories! Thank you for sharing (and also, i'm deeply sorry for your loss, she seemed a great lady!)

[@mamapetillo8675]

I dunno if this is wrong, but I think “dog of honor” ought to be an official wedding party position.

[@crzyicehkybabe2106]

I had a dog as the ring bearer for mine! 🥰

[@amandashare1281]

Oh yeah!

[@nataliaalmeida-nacillustra5954]

My dog is my ring bearer

[@AnnaBelll.e]

Absolutely

[@fluffy.dilligaf]

This is a fact. I will be dressing my dog up as my maid of honor lolllll and my future husband is just gonna have to roll with it 😂😂

[@heatherhofmeier8605]

I wonder how some of these mother in laws that wear white to their sons wedding would have felt if it had been done to them on their wedding day? It just blows my mind how inconsiderate, disrespectful, and just plain dumb some people can be.

[@mariondesousa7718]

I got lucky, my MIL refused to come to the wedding because I was not the one she selected. Not that she even had anyone selected....total narcissist

[@jennifermcgoldrick6323]

I think being obsessed with your adult son is a baby boomer mom thing. Their moms wouldn’t have behaved so badly, they’d want their kids to move into adulthood. Like when people could afford to buy houses and have kids lol

[@mandiemoore3272]

I had to run point on my brother's wedding to keep my mother from absolutely karening out I removed her white dress from her bag she swore she was going to work the next day but I know my mom

[@darcy5761]

she wants to sleep with her son

[@phastinemoon]

At least half of these MIL stories, I’m comfortable armchair diagnosing them as narcissistic - full NPD - and it’s less a case of not realizing or understanding how hurtful it is, but not caring about anyone else’s feelings.

[@thisisme2681]

We couldn't afford a photographer at our wedding, but we never asked someone to spend the evening taking our pictures. We just asked everyone to send us pictures if they happened to take any. My family treated it like any other big gathering and we took a few group pictures. Kept it relaxed. We have a lot of wonderful pictures and no one was stressed out about it.

[@meisjeViv]

Yeah, this is what I'd do :) if you don't care about 'perfect' pictures and/or don't have the budget for a photographer it's a good solution. No stress :)

[@eraldadevole]

We did the same, we had a very littlr but elegant wedding with our closest members of our families. My mil loves to take 100 of photos anyway, even for just a normal dinner so we have lots of photos.

[@mercedesvelasquez8781]

At my sisters wedding the same done but with a twist where we put disoable cameras on all the tables for wveryone to take photo's, at the signing wedding book we had a instant polaroid camera for folks to take photo's & add into the book along with their special message w/signature(s) and our cousin who does photography was more then happy to take some photo's but she focused on taking immediate only photo's of the bridal party, bride & groom plus bride & groom with in-laws

[@katreno]

You FINALLY found the culprit of who wrote the article on "How to NOT have to pay your wedding photographer"! Get em'! Lol

[@amandafigueroa3108]

What people could do...is get a bunch of disposable cameras and everyone at the reception could take pictures. I went to a wedding where the couple did that and it was a lot of fun.

[@mbr7156]

@@amandafigueroa3108 i think that the episode of Friends wherein Chandler and Monica did just that made the practice even more popular via "exposure" -- (i'll let myself out.. kthxbai)

[@cardridj]

I saw the photos for one wedding where they got a family member to do it for free... and they were the worst photos ever - blurred, tops of heads not in the photograph etc. Guess you get what you pay for.

[@s6r231]

@@amandafigueroa3108 My sister did that in addition to having a photographer take nice staged photos before the reception. Official photos were beautiful, disposable photos were shockingly crap but hilarious.

[@EH23831]

Cannot believe people don’t wanna pay for photography!! Our photographer was excellent and worth every penny! We worked out what he could do within our budget. We have some beautiful photos that we will cherish forever… Some people are such cheapskates! 🙄

[@homemakingwisdom]

My mom wore a white dress but I didn't let that get to me. I new going into this wedding planning that my mom was going to be a pain to deal with. I was right, and she started drama right away, making it all about her. At one point, we had ordered the flowers for the wedding and my parents and in laws both decided to pay for the wedding equally between them. My mom was supposed to pay for the flowers, we got them order and they were ready to pick up, them my mom started throwing a fit. To this day after 23years I still dont know why. She told us that she was not going to pay. Me being 18 at the time was like ok, this was expected so we will not have flowers. But my mother in law told me in private that she will pay if my mom will not. My mom heard about that and she didnt like that so she did end up paying. I kept my cool because this was all to be expected. Living with my mom u just know nothing is done with out drama or trying to make about her. Seriously my mom actually cut herself a piece of the wedding cake at my cousins wedding before they had cut it them selves. She wanted cake so she just went over there and cut herself a piece.😳 Who dose that? There were time I would say, you see that crazy women's creating drama over there, ya I don't know her. I know I might sound heartless, it's more of a mellow acceptance. It is what it is. 🙄 I have a great relationship with my mother in law. She has treated me better then my own mom ever did.

[@Kade_gaming05]

I'm sorry she cut the cake before the bride and groom got to? Wtf is wrong with her

[@caffeinatedkatie4696]

It's not heartless at all

[@jalenc1997]

I'm glad you were able to have a nice relationship with you mil..

[@0blivvy8]

Aw I'm so sorry. I know if I ever got married my mother would cause drama. She's a narcissist and it's always all about her. She starts fights and ruins every single special day (Christmas and anyone's birthday that's not hers, even my child's, every single year). It sounds like your mom may be one too. That's great that you're close with your MIL at least. Sometimes chosen family feels more like family. Sometimes with my mom it helps to fawn over her a bit, give her the attention she wants. For example, at my baby shower we did low cost, so both sides of the family made the food. My mom yelled at me, was giving me attitude, and making me feel bad when it's the only type of special day I've ever had (only had a few birthday parties as a child, no graduation parties, no parties for my 16th, 18th, 21st, etc., nor engagement party). I didn't need any special treatment, I just didn't want any fighting or drama. She made one of the dishes and people loved it, so when I walked around greeting everyone and people said they loved the food, I made sure to loudly exclaim how my mother made it and she makes the best! People complemented her on how good it was, and she was beaming! She stopped being nasty to me that day. So, for any future events mom is at, give her a role that makes her feel important, but that she couldn't ruin, and k*ll her with kindness.

[@InspirationalSmiles]

Girl sounds like you’re just numb to the fuckery, which is prob the best way to go about things like that anyways, acceptance 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@ambervanbrogen3172]

Here's the thing....... I decided I wanted to a painter. (Not canvas) I started working at this company. I had zero experience! They trained me in a SKILLED TRADE. I can take this and go many places with it ( I won't, I love my job and the company I work for). Even though I didn't know what I was doing and had a natural talent for it, THEY STILL PAID ME FOR MY WORK! So a "budding photographer" still deserves to be paid for their work! Js

[@violetsnotviolence]

They sound cool, what kind of company is it?

[@ambervanbrogen3172]

@@violetsnotviolence it's Vermeer. It's a manufacturer. Started with 1 man named Gray Vermeer. The way they treat their employees is like nothing I've seen.

[@violetsnotviolence]

@@ambervanbrogen3172 I'll have to look into that, thank you!

[@southerncatlady]

That dog at the end is ABSOLUTELY entitled to upstage the bride! What a precious baby! You steal that wedding, sweet pup! 🖤

[@flitsertheo]

As long as (s)he doesn't steal the wedding cake or other food too.

[@berthaadamson1225]

Well if Mom is going to stand on top of the awesome stinky spot you want to roll in and take home for the other dogs at the park to sniff what else is a pup to do? 🤣

[@southerncatlady]

@berthaadamson1225 exactly! 😂

[@southerncatlady]

@@flitsertheo no food stealing, definitely! But who could say no to slipping that sweet face a tiny bite or two of some chicken or beef?

[@jaspr1999]

Welp... My first dance at my wedding reception was with my niece, so I'm a pretty terrible guy. My wife was being helped by her sister and mom straighten her dress after someone accidentally stepped on it and my newly minted four-year-old niece wanted to dance with me (by standing on my feet) while we were waiting for my lovely bride. The photos are adorable and my wife's and my favorite. We didn't have any idea that we were being photographed so it was pure happenstance. It's a weird thought as that sweet baby is now pushing 40 years old now. Now, I feel old.

[@CrazyPlantLady911]

Dancing with a 4 year old before the bride is totally acceptable! I wish the person who posted that story had said how old the cousin was. If it was a kid, no issues ... if it was an adult, then that's very weird.

[@apfelschorle28]

Well, I think this "replacement" is acceptable 🤗❤️

[@juliarunn5009]

Omg that’s so cute 😭😭

[@TheKickshaws]

That’s a really cute memory!

[@Amber-yq9ee]

That's a GREAT memory & cool & adorable story! I bet those are the sweetest photos! But that doesn't make you a terrible guy. Lol! Those rules don't apply for your situation. IF the cousin was an adult, then they know better for 1. But also, your bride wasn't standing right there literally waiting for your 1st dance. So, a bit diff. Idk that I'd be bothered either way. I mean it's family not some "friend" & Idk that it mattered to me if my hubby & I were the FIRST to dance at the wedding. Ya know? Regardless, itll be OUR FIRST dance as husband & wife & that was all that mattered. So🤷 assuming that the bride in the video isn't some lady that gets worked up over stupid stuff, I don't blame her for being upset. It was important to HER & that's what matters. But congrats on your wedding & what I'm hoping is now what a 36+yr marriage. Hope that y'all are having an amazing life! & I wish you could comment w\pics on KZbin bc I'd LOVE to see those photos! So sweet!

[@merelmeister]

Always after watching these videos I realise what an amazing wedding we had! People sat in the grass, everyone was wet from playing with water (because it was the hottest day ever recorded in Holland) people where dancing with each other, we had a donut wedding cake (because my husband wanted that) and my sister was wearing a purple wedding dress that I picked out for her! It felt like a festival and it was amazing. All the complaints from the bridezillas never even crossed my mind. 😊

[@stonefox2546]

I just have to say that Charlotte's editor is AMAZING. Laser eyes and burning advice columns? *chef's kiss*

[@colorcutie97]

Round of applause for them doing the lord's work. Not all heroes wear capes guys.

[@Socal44]

Yes lol loved that part 😆🔥

[@michellebaker6302]

The dog one: that's what they get for putting that HIDEOUS pink dress on that doggo! SOOOOO many cute dog outfits for weddings and they chose THAT?!? I'd roll around trying to ruin it too. 🤣

[@neilprice513]

Heard on Reddit about a service a lot of wedding photographers do now. Which is to photoshop some idiot guest's dress a different colour if they turn up to the wedding in white.

[@roll3886]

She had one like that in one of her old videos and she loved the idea. Tbh it should absolutely be the norm

[@andrewthezeppo]

And hopefully do no other retouching to them and use shots where they look uggo LOL

[@juliarunn5009]

That sounds like a great way to keep the drama low while still enjoying the wedding photos. That way the bride and groom don’t have to kick anyone out and potentially ruin their moods and the person seeking attention will fail in their attempts.

[@gilded_lady]

I'm 100% here for it.

[@tannhauser7584]

@@gilded_lady Or....have people with airbrushes at the doors for a quick color update on that inappropriate whitish dress.

[@chubbybunny6975]

"Imagine paying $1000 for your wedding outfit just to sit on the wet grass" WHO PAYS $1000 FOR A DRESS TO WEAR TO SOMEONE ELSE'S WEDDING???? CHARLOTTE WHAT KIND OF WEDDINGS ARE YOU GOING TO XD I'm spending $800 MAX on my future wedding dress ffs lol

[@meisjeViv]

That was what I was thinking haha, I have a small collection of nice dresses and I'll just wear one of those to a wedding - no way I'll ever spend so much money on any outfit, probably not even my own if I'd ever get married 😅

[@joyfuljaj]

I thought the same thing. Even though I probably have something in my closet suitable for a wedding, I would probably still use it as an excuse for something new. I still would probably end up spending 50 dollars or so; I might would find one at a consignment shop for extra cheap. I also want to stay under $500 for a future wedding dress.

[@chubbybunny6975]

@@meisjeViv The most I ever spent on a dress that’s nice enough for weddings and fancy outings, was under $200 from Le Château. I’ve worn it many times for celebrations like dinner out on New Year’s Eve, weddings, etc.

[@ColoradoMelody]

A LOT of family members would. Even if they couldn't afford it.

[@CrystalRuizEnriquez]

I'd pay, at the very absolute most 300

[@allisonsmith7779]

I have a rhyme for that grass one. “You’re being an ass. Don’t sit on the grass. Provide some comfy chairs for people’s derrières.”

[@cindy846]

😂

[@katebet07]

That was awesome!! 🤣

[@katyvanhouten1487]

I came up with "I'm cheap and have no class, take a blanket and sit on your @$$." 😆

[@allisonsmith7779]

@@katyvanhouten1487 🤣🤣🤣

[@colleenobrien8212]

Hahaha

[@ayceleijae]

I was in a new girlfriend/+1 situation, the bride who was marrying my boyfriends brother threw a fit about him not being allowed to bring me because I was ‘new’,the mother of the brothers paid for the wedding and said she is coming, I attended. They divorced a year later and my boyfriend is now my husband of 5 years and we have 2 children 😂

[@nanaberry4120]

My niece is a photographer and we are very close. Never would I ever ask her to do a photo shoot of any kind for free. I respect her way too much for that.

[@claracerqueira5]

You’re cool! Nice

[@addie-eileenpaige6460]

Too many times, people take advantage of family members or close friends. I have a friend who does photography. NEVER in a million years would I ask her to shoot me for free. I always tag her & praise her on Instagram & Facebook, but I ALWAYS pay her!!!!!

[@AuntLoopy123]

Exactly! My niece is an artist, and she's the one I'd hire first. HIRE being the operative word.

[@malevolentsnow9867]

I always thought the friend discount was a weird concept. Like as a friend, wouldn’t you want to support them as much as you can instead of taking their time for free? I have a couple crafty friends and we do very informal trades (I’ll give them some of a new baked good I made, they’ll make me a funky craft to try out a new technique). And when I say trade I mean like we’ll go up to each other one day and be like “sup? I made you a water bottle, let’s go get some food.” If we’re doing it for free, it’s for fun or for gifts. We have actually paid each other for things too! Point is Friend Discount is silly.

[@elizabassett-wilson5656]

That’s because you are a good aunt!!! You rock!!!

[@curiousman1672]

I've photographed around 1500 weddings. I've seen a lot of unfortunate things, e.g., churches on fire, drunken bridal parties, drunken officiants, passed out grooms. Every wedding there is somebody inappropriately dressed. When I first started, in the 70's, it was pretty rare, maybe a tipsy groom. Now, it's often a shitshow, and often impossible to get paid. We, as a race, are devolving rapidly.

[@dtulip1]

The flip side of that Holidappy post was that I hired the photographer that my friend used the year before, the guy turned up at the house, did a load of really cool shots, came to the wedding...more cool pics, hung around for a couple of hours AFTER the wedding took tonnes of photos and cost a fortune that I was happy to pay for as the pics were out of this world; even today, long after the marriage ended I STILL have stunning pics of what WAS the happiest days and all my friends and family, some who are no long with us. SO PAY A PROFESSIONAL DAMMIT

[@SoManyRandomRamblings]

Exactly

[@alexshaw8167]

I work in the wedding industry and I would happily do any job related to weddings …. Aside from photography. They work LONG days and don’t get nearly enough recognition for the amount of work they put in to your special day

[@gummysnacksandknives9229]

That's the one thing I wouldn't skimp on if I was getting married and had to cut costs

[@simplywonderful449]

Having the "HELP" sign on the bottom of the groom's shoes is an old joke, I've seen it at 2-3 weddings in my life. It brings a laugh to the audience, while the "Happy Couple" is oblivious to it!

[@sethfreakinrollins9889]

Charlotte is married to her self conscience and dignity. She doesn't need no man.

[@datgaydangernoodle1315]

No man deserves the potato queen. She is superior to us all.

[@amberf3599]

Absolutely!!!😁

[@christinecole6565]

She's reading this thinking... I still want a man!! Just for funsies!! 😂

[@pablodelsegundo9502]

So it seems. But "need" vs. "want" is understandable.

[@christinecole6565]

@Neil Are ya sure.... ..she's a human?

[@BrandonErina1972]

Charlotte, i love hearing you being Canadian. I live in Texas, but i am from Windsor. It puts a smile on my face. Keep up the great work:)

[@reginamachamer821]

World: "Everyone knows stories about 'a florida man' are the craziest" Florida maid of honor: "hold my 40.."

[@LivingMyLife22]

Lmaoooo

[@FrankWolenczak]

40? Amanda Willis the Maid of Honor in question got Commode hanging drunk in twenty minutes off of ONE bottle of Fireball and the rest of her imbibements, She stole a man's ride as he jumped in, hanging out of the window and had to yank up the E-brake to get the car to stop, so she's got the following charges, Battery, GTA, AND a Probation Violation as this was her ninth arrest in Charlotte County, Florida...and this was from 2017...so something tells me she got more arrests after that one.

[@justinzarbo]

Ok the first one was just plain wholesome ❤

[@pinkarmadillomd]

PAY. YOUR. PHOTOGRAPHERS!!!! When you are 75 and sharing your album with the grandkids, those photos are what you will have. Not the flowers, not the chocolate fountain, not the reception dinner. The PHOTOS!! I would posit that the photographs are the single most important expense for a wedding, because THAT is what you will have to remember your wedding by. Love you Charlotte🥰

[@SonjaElizabethTeal]

This!!! Also that point about "being more comfortable when knowing a person behind the camera..." I call bullcrap. I find that when people are "friends" that photograph or video always seem to take THE MOST awful photos. I've had several "friends" on several occasions who have taken photos and posted them on social media where I looked terrible YET they looked FANTASTIC!

[@SonjaElizabethTeal]

...and as Grandma used to say... "You get what you pay for..". 😅😅🥂

[@SoManyRandomRamblings]

When my brother got married his in-laws paid for an entire 7 person photography/media crew to be there.

[@K100-b3e]

Exactly!!!

[@heidiullrich966]

Can you imagine 90 year old Grandma and Grandpa having to sit on the ground at the wedding? Smh. Think of your guests comfort!! The only one allowed to disrupt my wedding it is my dog!! 🐕 😃 because it's just cuteness!!

[@debrasedgwick4697]

I remember someone telling me about a wedding they went to. They had to sit on bales of hay during the ceremony. They did not put blankets or anything on the bales of hay. I guess everyone complained about being poked in the bottom by the hay.

[@jayare6804]

"Apologies up front, for our lack of class, thanks for dressing up, but you're sitting on the grass."

[@golden_leader9227]

I love it! 😂

[@kasm_nME]

Perfect👌

[@jimmckay2337]

You did an awesome job in the Bridezilla video with Marc and Austen. The chemistry you three shared was what many actors aspire to achieve and very few do. Gonna need more.

[@zaynamoore]

I used to sew Medieval costumes as a hobby. When I first started I used what I had lying around. Over ten years I invested LOTS of dollars in patterns, fabric and notions...thread, grommets, hooks etc. I also invested hours upon hours learning and honing my skills. Never ceased to amaze me how in one breath people could marvel at my work and then gasp when I told them how much it would cost for me to make one for them. "It costs that much..." :D

[@christa2373]

I'm so blessed, my MIL called me and asked what colour she can wear to our wedding and if she can wear a suite tipe thing as she feels to old for a dress. Every wedding video of Charlotte, I just say thank you for my wonderful MIL 😊

[@stephaniecurrslife6301]

In the Groom who had the "Help Me" on his shoes defense, I know I have seen that done several times before as a joke by the groomsmen. Also the Audacity of that dog at the end.... Way to steal the show. 🤣

[@DClark-zl8xb]

At one point in my life I thought my wife and I had families full of drama. Then KZbin and Reddit were created and I discovered just how little I knew. I miss the ignorance sometimes.

[@njabatsis]

When Charlotte shows these wedding videos, I'm more and more glad me and my husband eloped and got married at city hall. BEST DECISION EVER!!! We had our wedding feast at McDonald's with our 2 boys. I wouldn't trade it for anything.

[@lunava5489]

Yeap, eloping is the best! you dont have to pay for an expensive party and put up with people you dont like

[@debrasedgwick4697]

@@lunava5489 I am not seeing anyone at this time, but my sister and I were talking about who would I invite if I got married. I came up with 10 people. My daughter, my sister, my niece and nephew, their spouses and their kids. I have other family members, but don't really like them, so why do I want to spend a ton of money of people I do not like. I would rather have a nice small party. (I realize the groom would have a list also.)

[@Vessecora]

I just keep wondering if there's any point to getting married to my partner after 9 years together!

[@jvalot]

at my aunts wedding, my uncle brought a dress and makeup and hid it in his room, like 30 mins before the bride (my aunt) threw the bouquet my uncle decided to dress up and get ready, this man is 300+ pounds and 6'4" and came out with a blue frilly dress and makeup..it was the funniest thing i have EVER witnessed in my life. Note* my uncle in the story was not the groom, he was my other aunt's husband.

[@MirrorMagic-yi2gq]

Love that!!!

[@ciomaria6137]

Lol, my mom wore a white dress to my wedding, it was more white than mine🤣 (mine was ivory) in my/her defense, I honestly didn’t care as she NEVER dressed up and honestly didn’t know that there was such a rule as it wasn’t the same rule in her country. I was just happy to see her dressed up. I didn’t realize she wore white until looking at the pictures later 🤣🤣🤣 RIP mom, miss you 💕

[@Amber-yq9ee]

As long as you didn't care, that's all that matters! It's only a problem for some ppl. I mean I understand it. I don't feel that other women are wrong or silly! It's natural to want to stand out on your day & not blend in. But some other women just DON'T care about it. & You knew that your Mom wasn't trying to upstage you. & I'm sure you still stood out & looked BEAUTIFUL! I am sorry for your loss! Glad you have great memories w\her tho. & I may not be that concerned with someone else wearing white on my wedding day (idk for sure bc I got married 16yrs ago at the age of 18yrs old! So, not sure if it would have bothered me back then) but bc I. Completely understand & I'm a nice respectful person, I'd NEVER wear white to a Wedding. Well, that's a partial lie. ID NEVER pick out a white dress to wear. However, my BFF got married years ago & I was a bridesmaid & the dress she chose for all of us, was White! A white strapless dress. & I remember ppl complaining about it & my bff worried she'd done something wrong & didn't know about that rule beforehand. I ASSURED her that she was FINE! That the rule is for the brides sake of being the only 1 on white so thru stand out. But it's HER wedding & if she doesn't care & more importantly if that's what SHE wanted for her dream wedding in her mind, then there's exactly what she'd get! & Nobody had ANY trouble of Corrie not standing out! I'm ALL for less stress when it comes to weddings! 💜💕

[@lygophilia4127]

My mom wore a flowy chiffon 3-piece pantsuit thing in ivory. I wore a light gold dress with ivory lace, so we practically wore the same color. But we picked hers together, randomly finding it at Goodwill for $12. Saved her $100+, cool. My cousin's girlfriend at the time did wear white. It was a ridiculously short mini dress though, so it didn't like too bridal, except maybe for a Vegas/beach wedding. I don't think it hit me she was wearing white until after either. No one showed up in a wedding dress, so I'm good.

[@wyndiva]

Both my MIL and SIL wore white to my wedding but I didn't care. They didn't look at all like wedding dresses. My MIL passed away a few years later, I'm just glad she was able to attend. Side note: The HELP on the groom's shoes was probably a prank played by his friends.

[@giterdone9013]

@@wyndiva Yup, that had groomsmen written all over it, lol!

[@joyfuljaj]

@@lygophilia4127 My mom found her dress for my brother's wedding at Good will as well! It was cream lace over a rose/mauve underlay. I understand the reasoning for not wearing white to a wedding, but according to how it it done, it won't upstage the bride.

[@jakestephens4939]

It always brightens up my day when Charlotte posts. She does a great country accent. 👏 Yall is hilarious. I'm from Southeast United States and she has got the accent down. Once again, great job and keep it up.

[@BeeWhistler]

I got married to a man I’d known for 1 1/2 years. Our 29th anniversary is next May. So it isn’t that short of a relationship. And I still think way too much money is spent on weddings and professional photography is freaking expensive, and I hardly ever look at my wedding photos because I was so damned ugly and naive... but the cameras and the skills to use them cost a lot, so for the love of all things well framed and in focus, please pay people what they’re worth.

[@marieclapdorp1417]

"for the love of all things well framed and in focus". I'm loving it.

[@golden_leader9227]

It was the same for my mom and dad. Dated less than 2 years, happily married for 30 (going straight onto the 31st anniversary). 😊

[@thisisme2681]

Agreed

[@arkham_inmate3276]

Regarding the first clip where the groom's phone goes off: I got married in Las Vegas at a nice chapel and before the ceremony began the pastor made sure to ask everyone to please turn off or silence their cell phones. Right at "you may kiss the bride", imagine our surprise when THE PASTOR'S cell phone went off and he ran out. I have pictures of us laughing right after the fact, lol.

[@helenas7948]

My brother also got married in shoes with "help" written on their soles :) It was the groomsman's prank (the groomsman was the bride's brother). He is a soldier, so he offered to shine my brother's shoes since he is good at that. My brother thought the prank was funny, the family also wasn't offended. They are still friends, many years later, and my brother is still married to the same girl :)

[@ColoradoMelody]

That was my first thought too! Could those be pics of your family? LOL

[@helenas7948]

@@ColoradoMelody No, it's not my family, but it looked quite similar :)

[@angieemm]

Weddings are the actual worst time to prank someone. So rude. My bf went through Iraqi Freedom with some great brothers but, man, if one of them did that for our wedding, I'd kill them with my bare hands.

[@helenas7948]

@@angieemm I don't agree with you at all, but hey, it's your opinion.

[@tonyagibson7986]

Not cool. Not cool at all.

[@MooseKrazysFlowingCanvas]

Thank you Charlotte for always bringing a smile to my face. I love that you said "artists" when you were talking about that photographer post. 💖

[@missalisha9644]

Thank you Charlotte for getting the message out, about how sickening it is for influencers or just people not wanting to pay for their wedding photos. I get it, it's expensive but it's expensive for a REASON! IM NO photographer but I value the work they do. And I know that the wedding photos/videos is likely one of the MOST important thing's to have done so you can always look back at your special day. I appreciate that you make sure to let all your viewers know that it's NOT ok to expect FREE/HUGE DISCOUNTS on the photography of your wedding. I've heard you talk about this many times now & makes me so HAPPY that you stick up for this subject & tell people to STOP expecting FREE photography for their weddings or expecting them to do it for "exposure" . Your awesome 👌🏻👏🏼😎 OK I said my piece, now on my way to check out your 👰‍♀️+🦖 skit!!

[@buddymack9606]

10:50 we attended a wedding where something similar happened. All of us sitting in the pews could see SAVE (left shoe sole) ME!! (right shoe sole) in white paint vertically (parallel to the length of the shoe). The best man was responsible

[@Rachelief]

My goal is to not end up on here when I get married next year lol.

[@katebet07]

Good goal!! All the very best wishes for your wedding 😊💕

[@desmariewilliams8216]

Congratulations

[@colorcutie97]

The fact that you are even concerned about that proves you definently won't be lol. I wish you all the love in the world and I hope it's a great day for you all

[@caricaturecontest7899]

Congrats 🎉

[@amandawood2018]

I work as a health care worker and after some long shifts I come home and watch your videos. You make me laugh so hard it easily makes my day so much better. ❤️

[@corkeysmom2538]

Yea I was bullied into having my brother in law photograph my wedding ( he's really good and will do an amazing job) we did have someone recording the ceremony (mid 90s wedding) not only did we end up with "interesting" wedding pics, but he wanted to make a whole thing of presenting the pics and video together, so convinced the videographer to let him have the tape. Got the cassettes mixed up and taped over half the wedding. So please don't let family members get involved with the photographing or recording such an important event. We did have a budget for the photographer, but was bullied by my sister (maid of honour to let her hubby do it.)

[@SoManyRandomRamblings]

Yikes. Sorry that happened to you. And I don't understand why any family/friends would want to work during a wedding, cuz either they have to be super professional and IGNORE all the people wanting to mingle with them and not enjoy the event.....or they will be a terrible photographer. I don't understand why anyone would agree to that in any situation. 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♀️🤦 Your experience is even more proof that it's a terrible idea, your scenario turned out waaaaay worse than my hypothetical one.

[@alisamadoo134]

Yay! I just recently found Charlotte and I already binged all of the wedding videos. Thanks for a new one!

[@themaggattack]

"Help" on the bottom of the grooms shoes is SUCH an old gag. I think they've been doing that since at least the 1950's!

[@clayformations1638]

I'm amazed at how we've been having weddings since biblical times... and we still don't know how to behave.🙄

[@alybot2.059]

Actually weddings we’re quite different in the biblical times. And they weren’t anything like what modern day American weddings are like.

[@paveladamek3502]

Well in the Middle Ages people married to secure lands and peace, and they had side pieces for "love", so the word behave is very relative here.

[@lannah080907]

Hey CONGRATS on the millions of views you’ve had this month. I could never get enough of the videos.

[@SherryEllesson]

I'm not made at the German Shepherd in the last few seconds. If I were ever to marry again (heaven forbid) my Briard would absolutely be part of the wedding party.

[@irisravenhild9060]

Agree. If I ever get married, my "kids" will be with me as bridesmaids. And they will steal the whole show! My eldest is kind, calm and cuddly, while my other one are so Attention sicking, that she will complains, if she has to stand still for less than 30 seconds around people. But they are my treasures and I love them more than anyone else.

[@creativedesignation7880]

Not mad either, that is just cute.

[@katebet07]

I want to get married again just to have my pets in my wedding...anyone know a place that does wedding party outfits for goldfish??

[@carolinegrova8707]

My sister's German Shepherd, Ginger, was our Flower Dog. (Fortunately she didn't show up drunk like this naughty pup!)

[@hollyshaw-elliemae]

@@katebet07 lmao.. im dead now

[@MegAbplanalp]

I just want to say that your makeup and hair = FANTASTIC for these last few videos. Well done!

[@eggnogalcoholic]

I’m engaged frantically wedding planning so your wedding videos give me lifeeeeeeeeeee

[@datgaydangernoodle1315]

I hope all goes smoothly and you dont end up in one of these vids :)

[@loreleiford700]

Congratulations!

[@sonyaberry9805]

Congratulations!

[@Amber-yq9ee]

Congrats! Hope you have an amazing day & a happy marriage! 1 piece of advice I'll offer. (You can take or leave it bc it's unsolicited! Lol! Sorry!) Try not to stress yourself out or worry & obsess about EVERYTHING being PERFECT! That makes it SO hard! You're so stressed out that you can't actually just be in the moment & ENJOY this wonderful day & make the best memories! Bc it's a day you've been waiting for! So, revel in that! Revel in the joy & the love & bask in that w\your groom! There's NEVER not 1 wedding that doesn't have SOME mishaps or mistakes! But if you let them overwhelm you, you lose that happy, joyful feeling! & You lose that happy, joyful glow! & It'll be so much better when you look back at pics & it shows how happy you are, that you're in LOVE & glowing beautifully for everyone to see for YEARS to come when they see those pics! So, again sorry about the unsolicited (& wordy) advice! Again congrats & wishing you all kinds of happiness!

[@FlamyV]

Heey, me too! 😂 Sending you all the luck for planning and that it all goes smoothly! 😊

[@kristenbauer7456]

I'm getting married October 2023, and if someone shows up in white, I will specifically tell my photographer to either a) not include that person in any photographs, or b) have my photographer photoshop their clothes to a different color. My photographer has mad skills lol.

[@karmagal78]

With the blanket thing, there’s also the problem of adults with arthritis or other joint problems. Once down, they have difficulty getting back up without help.

[@JN-nw9gp]

Why do I enjoy anything that' has Wedding/bride etc on Charlotte's channel so much!!!??? 😁

[@anthonystike6034]

The "Hunt is over" one is more hilarious because of how the deer seems to have an angry look on its face.

[@sanafarooq9828]

I thought the dear looks really happy

[@debtheguru]

Looking amazing! Hair, necklace and blouse look simple but elegant! Keep up the good work!

[@pratyushakarmakar7487]

Yes I did see your Bridezilla skit right after it was released!!!! It was amaaaazing!😍❤ And scary how well you portrayed the character🤣🤣🤣

[@kata7628]

Great editing as always! The photographer bit especially well done.

[@shirellejacobs4519]

Just for you Charlotte... to remind you not all people suck. We choose not to have a grand wedding ... only he, the kids, and I... but we got married on a local dock in the early hours of the morning so no intrusion on others. But we did pay a pretty penny for a photographer. We still love our pictures. You wouldn't know just by looking at a picture that no one else was there. Fabulous job on the photographers part!

[@ashnatay6909]

Thanks for being you...heck don't think I'd care if I had something go wrong at my wedding, I'm 34 and never had the chance I'm to busy raising my deceased sisters kids and don't have time so I'd just enjoy finally getting to have "my day" as most girls do. ❤️

[@pixietwitch]

When my husband and I got married, everyone knew we didn't have much money, so family members offered services (music, food, photography) and other perks (karaoke, limo, honeymoon suite) as our gifts. It was fantastic! Everyone came together (except MIL) and helped out. It really did make it special, and took so much of the stress out of the planning.

[@meisjeViv]

I went to a few weddings like this and as a guest it made me feel even more involved and invested as well, helping out with things :) those weddings feel like the couple's families and friends are in it together and I think that's a pretty good basis for a successful marriage, as well.

[@joyfuljaj]

I helped put out reception food at a friend's wedding in which family members had made the food - mostly heavy finger foods, not a full meal. They labelled them things like "Aunt Mae's lemon squares" etc. It ended up not being much work for me and I think very special for the family. The wedding party worked hard, but also were supporting their friends marriage. Unless I meet a wealthy man, I won't have a lot of resources for big and fancy; I don't even know what to consider reasonable for anything but dresses because you can research those easily.

[@ciaranwallace9543]

Charlotte...thank you for being my daily go to ...you are one in a million ... love your content and humour ...(yes, you now know I'm British lol ) ...so happy for you...Ciaran ...xx

[@whyamigae9666]

“It’s not a threat, it’s a fact.” Me explaining to the police that I didn’t threaten a random person saying I’m sinning with a non-threatening children’s insult.

[@fabh9674]

What

[@ColoradoMelody]

@@fabh9674 And 160 people liked it. Are we missing something?

[@fabh9674]

@@ColoradoMelody I believe we are

[@QueenBreezer]

I literally had a "covid" wedding. Small family only and our very best friends that are married to each other. It was low key I was dressed up in a pink flower dress. Very beautiful. Everyone else jeans and tshirts we grilled out and it was the best. We spent about 800$ total on everything. Vegas couldn't happen so this was the second best choice and we had a blast

[@QueenBreezer]

@@user-gj1me4mf5c we had a front porch wedding after the first restrictions were lifted we had vows and food with 9 people plus us 2.

[@newforestukulelefestival]

I got my wedding photos for free. My Dad was a professional photographer!! It was his wedding present to us. 'Help' written on the groom's shoes has been a running gag in the UK for years ... my brother did it!

[@dougmartin7129]

Viewed your bridezilla video with your friends, it was fantastic. You were scary. Subbed to their channel on the spot. They are so talented and funny....thanks for introducing them.

[@patriciatriolo1585]

Your bridezillas sketch was very funny! Loved it.

[@lindavenne8038]

The dog at the wedding... Hilarious and cute! 😂😂😂👍

[@carleyjames8950]

I watch so many of your videos in a row I start talking like you and I love it !!! You're the best 😂😂😂❤❤❤❤

[@jenna6149]

Once again having a kind of crap day. I sat down to have a sandwich and literally said out loud "Please let it be time for Charlotte!" and it was. You are my reliable mood booster!!

[@LittleDeamon0358]

SAME!!! EVERY day I watch her videos to try and keep the depression and anxiety at bay, and everyday, she gets me through it all!

[@jenna6149]

@@LittleDeamon0358 It is such a nice break from the chaos and rumination. I hope she realizes the true good she does being so real and silly.

[@StarriannaIsa]

See, you say you don't have pearls because you're not classy, but I was literally thinking the other day how I think your style and mannerisms are SO very classy. Seriously lady, you are goals! Keep up the amazing work. 🖤

[@paperkay]

Hon, if they want their teenage niece who is "really good with Instagram" to be their wedding photographer, let them have her. Once or twice I was so petty, knowing the people, that I went with someone and took photos 'just for myself' and then posted delicious shots so anyone could see them. (Not just weddings - any event they refused to pay me for, I would just photograph the person I was there with, like a stage play or a concert or something...) With a big fat watermark over it, of course. Which, almost always, people then tried to crop out and steal the stuff they didn't think was worth paying for. Eh, small pleasures in a photographer's life.

[@jengsci8268]

OMG! When you eye-lasered the Holidappy, I was in stitches! 🤣

[@naomif9964]

For my brother in law's wedding I wore a white petticoat under my knee-lenght, dark blue dress. You can barely see it when I'm wearing it. When the groom and his aunt came into the house we were getting ready, and saw it in my suitcase, they were horrified thinking it was a full on white dress lol. That was funny

[@toshirolover312]

Ok the blanket thing is kinda cute idea for like a winter themed wedding as long as seating is actually offered to guests. Like if you gave out blankets as a gift to the guests I think would be kinda cute :) I like the "to have and to hold in case you get cold"

[@dai-jaemorgan528]

My husbands mum wanted to dance the first dance with him so we locked her in the bathroom 😆 she was pissed 😆

[@carolinegrova8707]

Mom's who have that sort of attachment to their grown sons need therapy. When that's not possible, experts recommend locking the daffy b*tch in the bathroom.

[@boom2278]

You make me laugh so much Charlotte, your content is funny but I come here to watch you cause you make me laugh, LOVE YOUR SENSE OF HUMOUR!

[@addie-eileenpaige6460]

Charlotte's face reacting to the free photographer one just said it all! I'm starting to get more into photography, myself. $800-$3,000 for wedding photos is pretty reasonable. "You just press a button." *sarcastically said "By all means, then YOU do it!!!!"

[@lucaleone4331]

Ok that first one is actually pretty cute I love it. And him with mic and how the wife handled it. Love em. Best wishes!

[@Athlynne]

At my sister's wedding, our 7-month-old nephew, right beside me on his dad's lap, kept yelling in baby-language, embarrassing his poor father, but the bride and groom were cracking up so hard... :)

[@sarawildheart8386]

I'm already subbed... Where's my invisible potato???!!! Lol thanks for all the laughs! Love you Charlotte!

[@xavier71a]

It's not the same scale, but I get the same feedback from people I know when they ask how much to work on their computers. "All you do is click the mouse, press buttons on the keyboard"...you do it then if it's so easy.

[@golden_leader9227]

I think that's the same matter, unfortunately. Good old excuse used to underestimate someone's skills, money and time.

[@v.connected]

I live for these wedding shaming videos 👏 Also… that shirt Charlotte is wearing 😍 girl, let us know please !

[@lindyanne3936]

I asked my sister if she wanted to photograph my wedding (i would pay for it though) but she said she rather be a guest and just enjoy the day with us! And i love her so much for saying that🥰 Edit: what i wanted to say with that is that your friends and family probably rather enjoy with you then be a FREE photographer. And if they do say yes you should really pay at least some money to them i feel..

[@SoManyRandomRamblings]

Agreed on both points.

[@alexshaw8167]

I find the drama over who is invited/ who is left out to be so funny. I recently went to my good friend’s wedding and my partner of 4 years wasn’t invited because we aren’t married and they wanted to keep numbers down. My partner is a groomsmen in an upcoming wedding and I wasn’t even a thought on the invite list because I do not know the bride and groom very well. I don’t see any issue with not inviting someone’s partner to an event, unless you’re all equally friends because that would be pretty rude 😂

[@lyndsycarson8302]

It has literally never crossed my mind to were anything close to white to someone else’s wedding, i’m 31 and i’ve known this since i was a child. For someone to claim ignorance is beyond me! It’s not okay ever and anyone who says it was an accident or that they didn’t know, they were lying and wearing that dress on purpose and no one could change my mind ever!

[@FrankWolenczak]

Lynds, I agree with you on that. They wanted drama, and to be talked about whether good way, bad way doesn't matter. One wedding i was a part of, the bride had the bridesmaids in fuscha...I think I spelled that color right, and she wasn't a bridezilla, And the wedding was in my back yard on that day it looked like a botanical garden way back when with a trellis to match. And the grub, was on the grill...it was a very nice day in the summer for June,

[@ColoradoMelody]

@@FrankWolenczak Fuchsia ❤ I was secretary at a stucco company in Colorado. I am proud to say, that at least 10 men learned about that color from me when I bought the hottest little (fuchsia) Ford stepside!

[@tiggerpup_nz]

My mum got married and I had no money. I used the only nice dress I had, which was white. It wasn’t a wedding dress. It was a summery one. But I put a nice little purple cardi over it. I feel guilty when I see these videos with people wearing white. lol. I didn’t mean to, and hope that my mum wasn’t secretly annoyed at me. I’ll never know now

[@SingingSealRiana]

@@tiggerpup_nz I wore white and purple too at my parents wedding, she married in lilac. But with me having been an teen I doubt anyone could have mistook me for the bride and she was involved in that clothing choice

[@floraposteschild5169]

1:00 Dear mothers-in-law: you know the expression "mutton dressed as lamb"? You may dislike your daughter in law enough to do this, but guess what: you'll never outshine her.

[@cateharding]

As a some-day m.i.l I want the focus to be on my daughters if they ever get married. It's the couple's day so why would I want the eyes on me. My kids are beautiful and deserve to have all eyes on them!!!

[@andrewthezeppo]

I just don't understand the mindset there. How can anybody have lived long enough to have raised offspring of marrying age and not know how gauche it is to wear white to somebody else's wedding. Do these people also wear red to funerals?

[@rosegoldhiips]

The difference between you and these mother in laws that do this is that you're not a narcissistic psycho 🤣

[@cateharding]

@@rosegoldhiips ty 😁

[@Amber-yq9ee]

I mean, I'd never wear white (except the time my bff got married & I was a bridesmaid & SHE picked out a white dress for us.} Bc I know that it's an etiquette thing & that it bothers ppl. BUT, I don't personally think it's that big of a deal for me or for some ppl. So, I choose not to. But there's MANY MANY ppl who have NEVER heard this rule. & So, they might not know any diff or be from another culture. So, I'm not gonna be hateful & rude if someone TRIES to or asks. BUT if the bride or groom Express to them that they do NOT want them to wear white & explain this wedding etiquette, & they STILL try to anyways, then I'm gonna be rude & call them out & do what needs to be done. But, my point was that some ppl just don't care. & My friend I mentioned above was made to feel bad & like the wedding she had in mind & her preferences were wrong & ugly. So, I explained to her what the rule was & WHY it was a rule, that it's supposed to be the brides day & it's symbolic etc but that this way the bride is who stands out & is noticed & all that. But it was HER wedding & we were HER bridesmaids & if that was what SHE wanted & thought looked good, & she wasn't worried about standing out or someone "outshining"her, then there was NO NEED to worry or be stressed about breaking a "rule". Lol

[@AlllieBow]

Our main budget item was the photographer. Both hubby and I were journalists and took photos in our job. So we know the skill set. Love the memories she took.

[@dinasilva9263]

Charlotte your Channel always makes my day better. Thank you for all the laughs. I don't care what anyone says...you roasting these people is the most funny thing i ever saw. That's a fact LOL. ❤️

[@My3jtr]

Already saw your Bridezilla video. HILARIOUS!

[@donkeyshreksbestfriend4938]

This is 3am my time and I'm only awake because I want to watch the Charlotte dobre video love you Charlotte

[@heidibrandenburg8449]

The “help” on the grooms shoes, was done at my wedding in 1975! And no we’re no longer married!

[@wsgoodie]

3:50 honestly I love this cake! I’m not a hunter but this is amazing. Nothing wrong with this!

[@nicoledorman8484]

So the cake is gorgeous, I'll agree. My problem is this whole idea that men don't really want to get married, that they're forced. This heteronormative idea that you have to hate your partner or something. So it's the toxic idea behind him being dragged to getting married against his will that isn't it for me. If it was a birthday cake for an avid hunter or something though, take away the bride and groom, it would be an amazing cake. Bet it tastes delicious though

[@makaylabyron972]

@@nicoledorman8484 Good point. Women want to be seen as equals, men should be able to as well. Mens rights are very overlooked.

[@makaylabyron972]

I like it too. Lol I have to agree with the other comment about it though. I'm actually from Montana, it's a very common wedding theme here. Lol

[@ironwolf56]

Right? If the bride and groom are both into outdoors stuff and hunting this is probably the cake they loved. Why shame them, it feels snooty.