The Art of Feminine Charisma *game changing*

[@iamawesome829]

I really loved this video. I watched in the morning before work and found myself doing some of the things you mentioned (smiling at strangers, being more soft spoken) and it each time I would feel so warm inside. knowing that this warmth will continue to grow and begin to radiate off my person makes me so happy to continue my femininity journey and to watch more of your videos! thank you jasmyne

[@JasmyneTheodora]

Wow, what a lovely testimony 🥹 thank you so much for sharing

[@kaitlynkenney5417]

"Seek to understand rather than be understood." What a beautiful idea!

[@JasmyneTheodora]

Yes, it really transformed how I approach disagreements!

[@sarahd1706]

I agree. It’s from Steven Covey’s “7 Habits for Highly Effective People “.

[@DISLautomatic]

As a man, it's refreshing to hear this type of perspective. It's not a very "mainstream" way of thinking, nowadays at least. Hopefully people like you will bring this wholesome notion of Womanhood more into "popular culture". Keep up the great work. ❤

[@JasmyneTheodora]

Thank you so much for taking the time to comment this 😃

[@bmruby26]

i love how nuanced and detailed ur ideas on femininity are, because these days i swear the accepted attitudes about femininity r either superficial or just str8 up gross lol ! thx u for sharing ur ideas, i think they r rly helpful and can be applied in women's lives in many useful ways

[@JasmyneTheodora]

Thank you so much!! Im so happy to hear this

[@RandieLynn0621]

#9: My lovely co-worker improved my statement on how flexible we are in the HR team by stating, "We are not flexible, we are fluid. Even flexible things can break, but fluid can move over and around obstacles, even mountains, and carve new paths". Such a beautiful way to look at it ❤

[@LightBeingsBE]

@@RandieLynn0621 I like the analogy

[@viiviibrown6]

Look at God , I was literally searching how to boost my charisma but I wanted to hear tips from a woman 😍 thank you!

[@JasmyneTheodora]

Oh yay!! I hope you liked the video

[@brooke96591]

I LOVE how you are bold and weave biblical truth into your videos (I just discovered you today, but have watched several). I expected the videos to remain on a pretty superficial level, but you drop wisdom. Men and women alike could gain from listening to you. Thank you. God bless you in your channel, family, and ministry.

[@atiyacozycorner]

I love how eloquently she speaks. Her explanations are on point and gives just the right amount of detail. Thank you so much Jasmyn for these videos, you are a gem!

[@amyj.4992]

I adore, being a woman. Feminine charisma: 1. Warmth - people feel like I'm "too nice" when I show warmth, I don't want to be manipulative. I believe in sharing kindness. 2. Vulnerability & Openness - truth is authentic and organic love. People are always telling me, I'm too sensitive. Empathy cultivates, and holds space for warmth. I'm not afraid of being open. 3. Emotions - being an artist, healing through my emotions allows me to connect to my spirit and connection with God. I get shamed for being in touch, with my heart. I cry to music and movies, and I love being a woman with the ability to discern feedback 4. Neuroticism & Sensitivity - I love the efforts I put forth, when I care. I love how I feel, to share care with others. It allows me to strategize, fulfilling needs and wants to those near and dear to me. Which people try to drag as "people pleasing" just for wanting to accommodate the needs of others out of appreciation for their complexities and individuality. I'm just nurturing 5. Soft Spoken - when I am soft Spoken, I get accused of being passive aggressive, insecure, and weak. When I'm just respecting the environment of others, to not trigger anyone. Plus I've been taught by my grandmother," when two people are yelling during a conversation/argument. Speak quieter." 6. Insecurity & Self Awareness - when I try to walk in my confidence quietly, I'm always called being "stand offish" or "full of myself" but I just like to keep the peace quietly in the environment without overstepping others. My security is deeply cultivated in the joy, and love of Christ peace filled within me and I have nothing to worry about. And move forward, with beliefs and there will be challenges of others expecting the "impossible" over me. 7. Playfulness- I play too much sometimes lol. However, others look at me like a weirdo and judge me terribly for being light hearted and delighted in my momentary joygasms. Alot of times God and I get playful together. I love being playful, my parents and elders played with me growing up and gave me so much play space in nature. 8. Nurturance - is my attentiveness and my deep desire to serve and uplift the mood by being a big ol' hug and provide specific needs and not replacement of what I think is helpful. Only if I need to do that. 9. Cooperation, flexibility, and Flow- my mother has always taught me " be of stewardship, a cheerful giver, and not a stumbling block to others" I love being an effective team mate towards a healthy cause of sufficient and long lasting results. 10. Wholesome & Good sense of Humor- I make corny jokes all the time, that people don't always find funny. However, I can't promise you that I won't be crass. My father and grandfather and sometimes my own mother, make crassy and dark jokes with each other. ALL THE TIME 🤣🤣🤣 but I was taught "laughing at others is bullying" 11. Elegance - my grandmother and mother, have raised me in the ways of Christian Southern Belle mannerisms all my black ass life. We are also country, fighters, and hard workers so I have been taught "there is a time, and place" kind of mindset. Subtle make up to no make-up, and my grandfather taught me how to properly debate amongst men. And modern women often accuse me of trying to be "snobbish" or "judgemental" And being a well rounded woman, are my grandfathers trained gift to me.

[@ladiilinee]

simply put: i LOVE your videos. i can honestly watch them all the way through and never feel overloaded with information. your speech is so advanced and highly organized. your aura is light and warm. i enjoy your content very much. thank you!

[@JasmyneTheodora]

Thank you so much, you are so kind! This really means so much

[@nakpangi7611]

Absolutely cackling at the dad joke demonstration 😂😂😂😂 And the satisfied “Oh. 🙂” at the end!

[@amethyst6073]

Yes we need the video on removing uptightness and pride Jasmine!

[@JasmyneTheodora]

Got it! 😃💕

[@Vananessaa]

Does playfullness go hand in hand with inner security?🙈

[@amethyst6073]

@@Vananessaa I think yes

[@JasmyneTheodora]

I’d say so! It’s so much easier to be playful, silly, spontaneous and to just let all of your inhibitions and fear go if you feel secure in yourself. Being playful requires a certain amount of comfortability in yourself and others - comfortable enough to be a little off-beat and engage in things that aren’t necessarily “normal” like playing hide & seek in department stores and randomly biting your loved one’s arm 🤪 you need to be secure & comfortable in yourself in order to just let go and spontaneously create fun times

[@dawncosmic90]

@@JasmyneTheodora hi Jazz can you please recommend some “playful” gestures (ones you use) that I can incorporate into my feminine personality ? I’m sorry but it’s actually so bad that I don’t even know how to be playful 😣

[@megmegbark2013]

As a 26 year old Christian wife this is exactly the type of content I’ve been praying for. Thank you!

[@cassybri9524]

I just want to appreciate you for sharing this type of content. I’ve seen myself blossom into this feminine lady from simply watching your videos. And I love how it’s affecting the ones around me🥰 thank you.

[@JasmyneTheodora]

Oh this is amazing!! I am so glad you enjoy the content!

[@Gena777-r95]

I needed this 40 years ago. I've been way too hard all of my life. I kind of had to be that way I guess. I'm a nice person but I've lived a rough life so yea, I had to be tough and toughness makes you unfeminine. I'm not cold hearted though 😊💗💗💗 always great information on your channel

[@JasmyneTheodora]

Thank you so much. ❤️

[@daniqsaa]

I feel like I could've used this 15 years ago too 😅 But we can always make up for lost time~

[@ofentsentshabele4362]

I relate deeply

[@alanikeiser]

I feel you here. I’m 43 and needed this 20 years ago because I was so lost about who I am and how I should act with everyone pushing me in different directions. I’m grateful for this now though. Hope you can also instill all this and be yourself femininely 💛

[@Nkeabands]

I strive to embody such feminine energy that you exude!! You are amazing. Thank you for using your platform to help young ladies like me

[@noorfatima.4555]

Your voice is so soothing. 😭❤️ Btw it is great video ✨

[@JasmyneTheodora]

Thank you so much. I’m so glad you liked the video

[@TakaraoftheElves]

Jasmyne, I cannot tell you how much I needed your video this morning. 🌻 Although I've been leaning into/practicing feminity a lot more this year, I had a very bad weekend and came into work this morning thoroughly stewed in an inner cauldron of resentment, bitterness, and aggression. In other words, totally out of my healthy feminine energy. Your calm, healing energy, the soothing background music, and specifically the segment about feeling our emotions did a lot to help restore me to myself...and probably saved a couple of my coworkers' lives on this fine Monday morning! 😅 Add: Also 1000% YES PLEASE to a video about how to be less uptight!! 🥺

[@mrskhan597]

same here. I also second a1000% YES PLEASE to a video about how to be less uptight!! 🥺

[@christinasternitzke3536]

Your content is helpful Jasmyne. I admire your articulation and eloquence.

[@alias.9500]

I struggle to find balance between responsibility/being appropriate, have composure + my feminine etiquette and being basically uptight.. A video on how to be less uptight would be so amazing!

[@theamberturner]

You can digress...I love your metaphors. Absolutely beautiful 😍

[@JasmyneTheodora]

Ohh thank you so much ☺️

[@kpsalm]

Wow. I do all these things already which warmed my heart because I try really hard to be my best self and feel like this is the first time I’ve watched a self help video where I actually was finally doing the right thing! You are so well spoken and I’m so grateful for your message and videos.

[@mafer9108]

Jasmyne! You are truly amazing, thank you so much for every video you make. Knowing that there are other tradicional women that still practice values and love is so nourishing. I'm 17, you help me not to fall into that horrible university environment where everyone drink alcohol, smoke weed, have meaningless sex and live a bad life. And I know I'm not alone. Thank you. Pd: Could you talk about how to behave towards men, you have talked about being submissive, soft and gentle, but I'd like to know how to put that in practice. Love from Mex 🇲🇽❤️

[@marinetter.8423]

just be yourself. do whatever feels OK.

[@yoojungisabouttobeyourbias6444]

I'm 18 and about to go to university in a few months and I'm telling you. You are not alone. I wanna remain a virgin until marriage

[@ambergaston4059]

I love how eloquently and passionately you speak about the art or femininity and softness. Very intriguing to watch

[@Ty-cd3jo]

I used to be feminine when I was in middle school, and I was picked on for being weak. So, in high school I gained a rough exterior. I was very mean and closed off, so I wouldn't be weak. When my dad passed, I took on his job of the protector, because it was just my Mom, my older sister, younger sister, and I. Now, I'm trying to become my feminine self again, because now I can't show emotion. It's very hard, but I find myself doing it to certain people. I'm a work in progress😊

[@TeKeyaKrystal]

your curls look so nice ! it's so cute how they're full spirals

[@JasmyneTheodora]

Oh thank you so much! I finger coiled a bunch of front pieces and that makes them more spiraled but typically, they’re more kinky 💕

[@alysciatravis1860]

Wow thanks for the video Jasymne ! I transition to this softer state recently and started to notice the benefits 😊

[@leylaclareozkan]

This helped me so much thank you. As someone who often feels overly sensitive and emotional you out such a beautiful take and understanding on it. Thanks you ❤

[@MaybeJulie2251]

I just started watching your videos and I love how it makes me look at things differently. I’ve been looking a lot for a source to learn about femininity without a lot of the judgment that is usually included, so grateful for hearing your intakes. Also besides the point- as someone who loves words and the beauty of languages I appreciate your word choice and learned a few new beautiful words from your videos! (English is not my first language).

[@elizabethpettigrew7804]

I'm really enjoying being encouraged to express my feminine side of myself Thank you Jasmyne.

[@sunnyblue1244]

I recently went out with a guy friend of mine to one of our states park to spend our off day together. I’ve always knew I was feminine but I never knew how feminine I was till I was with him. He’s very masculine and chill meanwhile I’m just this soft bubbly, warm marshmallow. I kinda felt a bit silly but he doesn’t seem to mind it.

[@khushbookhan3992]

Hey i heartily thank you so much for making these videos. i used to have a very feminine energy but after my father passed away something started to change slowly & gradually within me due the pain i was hiding by not feeling it. This year i experienced that i feel so uneasy & anxiety then i came across your video, i realised that i lost touch with my feminine aura that's the reason i am feeling this way. Everyday i am practicing to bring back my feminity & it feels so relaxing. Thank you so much again. you go girl❤️☺️

[@jayhurtcoaching]

This is awesome! I appreciate the research you're doing and your content around understanding how important feminine charisma really is. It's interesting how warmth is such an important part of developing one's charisma. I think your content is spot on! Keep making great content!

[@seedmonchermonchcronch3222]

Earlier today youtube recommended me something like "how to be seductive" and I knew it was going to be ridiculous but it left me wondering, does anybody actually try to play these role playing games in public? What do they do when they attract somebody, when do they start being themselves? Your video is soo much better and tied to reality, I absolutely adore vulnerability, I think it's such a strong force in positive social change especially nowadays

[@HeavenlySunset24]

I like that you give directions on how to do it

[@JasmyneTheodora]

Thank you!! Ill keep doing that then!

[@abxv_]

This is the soft feminine, wholesome Christian content I’ve been looking for. Thank you and God bless ❤

[@notokek]

I'm happy to have found your channel, Jasmyne! Thank you for your videos, they are so lovely and inspiring. I have been very masculine my whole life and am grateful to be able to learn from you It would be so awesome to see a video on playfulness, I do struggle to losen up and tend to take myself to seriously Have a good day!

[@brianna4474]

To your point about atheism - It’s astounding how Jesus is really the solution to every challenge. My relationship with Christ has propelled my entire being including my femininity, my ability to attract commitment from a masculine (God centered masculinity) man and experiencing peace and child-likeness I would have never otherwise known. Thank you for your inspiring efforts Jasmyne. You are a light! ✨

[@carole-rosemelanie-jane6570]

Hey I loved this video! I would love a video on how to be less uptight or more playful BC I struggle with this sometimes!

[@dashofdes3508]

I’m glad I found your channel I’m really trying and want to become more feminine!!

[@domallaire7179]

Love your voice and personnality. You genuinely emboody femininity :)

[@JasmyneTheodora]

Thank you so very much

[@thiswillnotdo6027]

the playfulness is so hard for me. i think its the main thing holding me back. I want to be charistmatic and social instead of being so quiet and serious. ive met some feminine women who are just so charistmatic and funny, and not in a crass or masculine way. its like they exude femininity even while being loud and funny and goofy. its so charming and i want to be them so badly. please make a video on this!!

[@skywatchersdreams]

Yes please make a video about being less uptight. I have that problem,and I'm sure alot of others do too. God bless you girl.

[@keraraX]

You’re so well spoken. I truly admire you ❤

[@ankitamohanty4710]

You are sooooo pretty 💗

[@JasmyneTheodora]

Thank you so much! You’re so kind

[@kuda7633]

thank you for the video, I think I'm really freely authentically charismatic when I'm with fellow ladies, I feel really self conscious around men and it's starting to feel really uncomfortable and affecting my self esteem HELP!

[@changed7226]

Thank you for this! I love your hair, and feminine look! Not saying looks are what make you feminine, but it does have impact.

[@siphevuzani]

You are glowing😍

[@JasmyneTheodora]

🥹❤️❤️ thank you

[@vivi8258]

Your Chanel is a gift of God 🙏 Thank you for sharing love and softness in this world 💕💕

[@hannah1234xo]

Love this video - congrats on 40K subscribers! Just noticed that it went up.

[@pepper72375]

Beautiful message

[@JasmyneTheodora]

Thank you ☺️

[@Lee-zz6mb]

Damn girl i would love a video about playfulness and about how not to be so serious anymore. I'm really struggling with this and i feel like I'm drowning every bit of positive energy when I'm like this

[@aminaamirova5995]

Jasmine, thank you for your wonderful videos! Every time I watch your videos, I learn something new. Greetings from Kazakhstan 🇰🇿

[@elizabethmumba3378]

Please Jas,do make a video on how to be less uptight cause I take myself too seriously uncontrollably

[@mrskhan597]

1000% YES PLEASE to a video about how to be less uptight!!

[@blessupjess]

Really enjoyed this! Have you ever thought about creating a podcast channel on Spotify? I think it would be great!

[@steelresilience]

Thank you. I've been vetting your videos to eventually show my girlfriend. I love how articulate you are with your vocabulary. If I may request, could you make a video on how to introduce your loved one to femininity and softness?

[@lpereira7866]

I love your work…. These are beautiful. Thank you!

[@Maggs3]

Yaaasss I'd love a video on how to be less uptight 💃🏾 💃🏾 💃🏾 💃🏾 your videos are soothing for some reason.

[@JasmyneTheodora]

Im so glad to hear this. Thank you so much.

[@Maggs3]

@@JasmyneTheodora ♥

[@mrskhan597]

@@JasmyneTheodora 1000% YES PLEASE to a video about how to be less uptight!!

[@esete7232]

Yaaay she's back 🥰🥰

[@JasmyneTheodora]

🎵 Guess who’s back. Back again 🫣💕

[@Tessybriggs]

Such a great teaching thanks so much for sharing ❤❤

[@5everfull641]

So many gems 💎 thank you for sharing

[@JasmyneTheodora]

Thank you so much, and thank you for watching ☺️

[@Sun-fe3dt]

you are so amazing, a great inspiration :))

[@JasmyneTheodora]

Ohh thank you so, so much 💕

[@keraraX]

Could you possibly make a video about how to be more open?

[@faz1232]

My agreeableness comes out 1 or 2% on personality tests EVERY TIME!! How can you be more agreeable when its not in your nature 😭😭😭

[@chihirohel9090]

Maybe try to put yourself in other people's shoes and develop your empathy. Imagine if you were the other person and you meet a person who is cold or mean towards you, and makes you feel less than, or not worth it, you wouldn't want that, right? Thus, try to treat others the way you would ideally like to be treated, and most if not all people want to feel loved and be treated with respect and love (or at least just respect and warmth), so perhaps by keeping this idea in mind, you can become more agreeable. Sending you positive vibes and prayers !! Good luck.

[@faz1232]

Thank you xx

[@torilan2672]

And there is me.. who agrees with almost everything… I’m trying to be like you! 😭😭😭

[@faz1232]

Lmaoo well at least you’re more likeable, warm and empathetic.. thats not something you can learn if its something that doesnt come naturally. But an agreeable person can definately learn how to say no - yet still be a good person at heart. Trust me, I’d rather be you than me! There’s loads of youtube video’s on how to be less agreeable - check Aaron Doughty out!

[@Saint96291]

I love your channel💜, can you talk more about insecurity and awkwardness? I’m 26 yo And I struggle so much with this, thank you

[@daniwatchesyt]

Hi I love your videos💕💕 Please can you make a video on how to be feminine despite having social anxiety. Thank you

[@JasmyneTheodora]

Absolutely ❤️❤️ thank you so much for watching

[@deenaccount8994]

I’d say just being there and allowing and accepting your anxiety, don’t expect too much of yourselves and go with whatever you feel is right.

[@deenaccount8994]

If you want to go speak and talk to a certain person, just do it and remember that you are going to speak to them as YOURSELF.

[@wateenal_sayadi679]

It was incredibly useful and u r gorgeous 🥰 . Yes we want a video on decreasing uptightness .

[@JasmyneTheodora]

Thank you so much. And yay, got it!

[@saffron1874]

I realized that I have quite a number of these qualities myself. I used to be quite competitive and generally unyielding but since I started to work on my femininity, I've been more open and generally more agreeable. But you're right. It's not an innately virtuous trait and there are times that people would want to take advantage of this.

[@saffron1874]

It's good to know when to put your foot down. I've had people call me rude because I was agreeable and easy-going at first then I set and enforced boundaries but they were expecting me to just do as they want. But generally, being more agreeable and less abrasive has really helped me get in tune with my femininity. Loved your video as always! Ps. Have you ever been told how soothing your voice is and your videos are?😍

[@emmeinfluence]

beautiful video , thank you Jasmyne

[@daniqsaa]

For me femininity has been an antidote to cynicism and I'm so happy I found it!

[@AdrianasWonderland]

such an amazing and helpful video, thank you so much

[@biancaaustin5859]

This was AMAZING! Thank you! ❤❤❤

[@prettygirlwhispers]

Beautiful Video thank you for sharing. :)

[@mk-oz7xt]

Waiting for the video about being less uptight please 😁 I’ve always had issues with making myself too serious and it’s been quite disadvantageous to me😔

[@kinahpolkadots397]

Yesss I would love a video on how to be less uptight and more playful

[@ricolesantiago9585]

Really love your videos , I was wondering for a video idea if maybe you can list the top 10 books that have you in your journey .

[@aurianawalker5626]

I think I can be somewhat uptight and struggle with being playful so that would be a great video. Also I was wondering if you could possibly do a video on being a wife or some of the characteristics a wife would need to have a beautiful/successful marriage. I love your videos and really have been learning from them so thank you.

[@Sun-fe3dt]

could you make a video talking about people who have a hard time being patient and kind in a natural way? in the case, people who do not have this "nature" of birth and how can we deal with it?

[@ashleypace7993]

i love your hairr😩

[@QueenAthena0903]

I appreciate you content…you remind me of me. I’m happy you are sharing this information.

[@JourneyswithJaye]

Beautiful. I’d definitely love the video on being less uptight.

[@ancac4362]

Another lovely video. Your voice is so soothing :)

[@ameliap413]

Omg I could not help but push click the like button after the dad joke 😂

[@Lavender3333]

I'd love a video on how to embrace your playfulness as an adult and less up-tight. 🙌🏽

[@meccashields1415]

@JasmyneTheodora

[@danielaandreagomezjamboos559]

The video about how to be less uptight sounds wonderful.

[@Yostacoo]

PLEASE MAKE A VIDEO ON BEING LESS UPTIGHT, you spoke to my soul 😩

[@aliceapples4794]

Would loveeee a whole video on that topic of playfullness!

[@HeavenlySunset24]

Wow, congratulations on the pregnancy!

[@JasmyneTheodora]

Thank you so very much!

[@hannapettersson105]

I want a video on how to be less uptight! I lost my innerchild 😭 i feel like im getting Boring and negative and this is not me 💔 i want to find myself again!

[@imnoemit]

Loving and enjoying your videos very much! You seem to love books, may I ask, have you thought of making a video of your fav books? Would love to see it😊. Thanks for your videos

[@mrskhan597]

Thankyou for always putting out great content. 1000% YES PLEASE to a video about how to be less uptight!!

[@JasmyneTheodora]

Thank you for watching ☺️ and yes, I have it on the schedule!

[@cindytroyer7205]

I would love for you to do a video on being playful!

[@sare83]

I love watching your videos💕💕

[@QuLice]

I would love a vid about not being so uptight, dear Jasmyne✨

[@veggied4life]

I’m so glad you’ve slowed down your delivery! I had to unsubscribe for awhile because I would feel so hyper after your videos but this one is calmer.

[@JasmyneTheodora]

I used to be a lot more anxious speaking to the camera. Now it feels more natural so I suppose that helps me slow down 😊

[@cringeproof100]

Sister, your content is so perfect! O God, our heavenly Father, who loves mankind, and art most merciful and compassionate, have mercy upon thy servants for whom I humbly pray, and whom I commend to thy gracious care and protection.

[@kalkidandavis3416]

Would you be willing to share your hair routine? I have similar hair as you and want to learn more on how you nurture it.

[@Daisynine]

I am in a dire need of being less uptight :(. I struggle with this a lot

[@mrskhan597]

1000% YES PLEASE to a video about how to be less uptight!!

[@gerrimiller3491]

Warmth, is chicken soup for the soul😊i love your beautiful channel ❤

[@jazs2300]

I love your videos so much. Also, the spelling of our name is very similar! Mine is Jazsmyne ☺️