The Bachelor's Rachael Kirkconnell SPOTTED IN GEORGIA- Rachel Lindsay Calls Her Actions 'Vapid'

[@vivygal]

To Karen and everyone who feels it’s getting boring talking about racism, I wish we didn’t have to talk about it either, I wish I wasn’t judged just by the colour of my skin. To be honest, I’m bored of living it everyday so do what is morally right, show compassion and do your bit to really stop racism. You may not see it cos of your privilege but it doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist.

[@DaveNealComedian]

Thanks for this!

[@sueshe5953]

I wish I wasn't judged by the color of my skin either as a white person. calling us Karen is kinda like calling you all jaquita

[@vivygal]

@@sueshe5953 I hear you. Continue living in your own little bubble. Judge you based on the colour of your skin? I have no words.

[@CharniseRockstar]

@@sueshe5953 oh please

[@oliviaisnicole1835]

@@sueshe5953 ah yes because you are totally judged more than bipoc because of a recent meme that literally only started about two years ago - so 400+ years for my people to about 2+ years for you .... mmhmm it’s not really adding up, love. ATTENTION EVERYONE! KAREN IS TRYING TO ABOARD THE OPPRESSION BUS!!

[@sudukemsn]

I heard Matt and Tyler C got a new apartment together recently; not the moves of a man who wants a serious relationship

[@ams3344]

Like I said all along, Matt is not in this for the right reasons 🙁 ...remember that comment Matt made about how the show worked out for Tyler (I think that's his name ~ the guy who came on the show that played pool with Matt ) so he feels it will work out for him...noooo Tyler is Single and got celebrity status that's what Matt’s getting too, which is fine if you are in it for the right reasons. LOVE. That's why I take issue with Matt. I honestly don't think he's ready for a lifetime commitment (marriage) Matt has NEVER been in love before and to rush into love on national TV for the first time ~ I question that 🤷🏼‍♀️😬

[@kcc-karenschroniccorner9432]

Well, many thought Tyler would get Matt’s final rose 😜

[@ams3344]

@@kcc-karenschroniccorner9432 🤣🤣

[@ams3344]

@@kcc-karenschroniccorner9432 that's just funny 😅

[@jigiw]

maybe i'm wrong but (Matt-tylerC-Pilot P and justin are roomate now, NY)...this four don't look like husband materiel at all?they give me vibes teenage want to date and have fun? not ready at all to be engaged and serious relations.

[@j..e..m]

The "You don't see the American Indians crying out" part made my eyeballs roll so hard. 1st off don't call us Indians Karen, we don't like it & 2nd We have been "crying out" for support and recognition for decades upon decades, you just don't hear us because you don't want to hear us.

[@briandabarrera6690]

The bachelorette is going to be filmed in New Mexico. It would be cool if they could recognize the indigenous land on the first episode or something.

[@j..e..m]

@@briandabarrera6690, oh I totally agree. I actually live in New Mexico, it is kinda neat they will be filming here, not gonna lie. The Tamaya resort is a really nice place, beautiful scenery, the photos of it online don't do it justice.

[@daniej125]

@@j..e..m I was thinking about this the other day, is there a broad term that you and your family identify with? People were pointing out that there are black people who are indigenous, and I know there are more specific classifications like Apache etc., but is it just Native Americans?

[@j..e..m]

@@daniej125 thank you for asking this question, I appreciate it. Yes, Native American or even just Natives

[@karishmadesai1408]

Lol as an Indian-American (parents from India), I'm there with you! I hate that people are still going off Christopher Columbus' mistake. 🙄 We are different groups of people. They really just don't want to say Native Americans.

[@shircas01]

I have to disagree on the part of Rachel Lindsey wanting change, yeah, maybe she does but is going about it the wrong way. She's EXTREMELY divisive and is an instigator.

[@Z.ahmad99]

I agree she’s not Approaching situations in the right way it’s almost always negative and giving off the wrong idea

[@Xoxoxoxoxc]

The only ones who should be exhausted about talking about racism are the ones who have experienced racism themselves.

[@angelsmusic2560]

Then don't talk about it.

[@melaniebrooks4409]

Omg let it go. Everyone is treated equally smdh

[@a.sydney5036]

Me. I’m tired.

[@melaniebrooks4409]

@Celine Jalalifar I honestly don’t think many know what the word racism means.

[@angelsmusic2560]

@Celine Jalalifar It doesn't but talking about it seem to not make it go away either.

[@jessicarae6879]

Bruh Rachel Lindsey is getting more heat for being upset by racism than other Rachael is getting for ACTING RACIST. Karen's everywhere, let that sink in.

[@laniedav8078]

Rachel Lindsey is just courageous. I agree Dave. Additionally, I know that Black intelligent women who speak facts especially on sensitive subjects like this are often suspected, resented and sometimes ( even) hated. She didn’t even do anything wrong but represent. Rachel speak your truth , you are never going to please everybody, that’s the world that we live in and it’s okay.

[@karibu1361]

So very true...Rachel is the real deal who lives the truth.

[@Perfumegod]

Karen lives in a nice world, I wish I could go live in her world. Too bad it’s not reality. Her voicemail does nothing for change. I’m honestly tired of hearing those same cheesy lines when my reality does not match it. It’s like she wants people to applaud her for saying the bare minimum lol.

[@DaveNealComedian]

You should have heard her 25 other voicemails she left,

[@Perfumegod]

@@DaveNealComedian haha, I am not sure I want to.

[@gj1695]

@@DaveNealComedian Karen left more voicemails than the ones we heard?! Wow. She obviously has a whole lot of misdirected pain, fear, anger and anxiety. I still can't get over the fact that her name is really Karen. 😉

[@jannapenas1543]

I think Karen will always have that view. I think she considers herself ‘sympathetic’ without having real empathy for disempowered voices.

[@Mariej123]

I hope ABC doesnt choose someone obnoxious to replace Chris Harrison. Tyra Banks for Dancing with the Stars was unbearable

[@el6220]

Tyra was a great choice. Better watch out Rachel Lindsay will say you are racist.

[@Mariej123]

@@el6220 did we watch the same show? Tyra asked awful uncomfortable questions, messed up lines & was very unnatural on live TV.

[@olivergarrick672]

Not Tyra banks we all rooted for you lol 😂

[@Jaxxon123]

I'm Black, and I think Tyra Banks is obnoxious.

[@scovyaporsha777]

@@Jaxxon123 Ditto! !

[@jaimebarratt183]

Dave's the real *spoiler alert* MVP

[@DaveNealComedian]

haha i mean i dont wanna be the guy that ruins it for others but all the articles are putting spoilers in their titles so what am i waiting for, lol

[@robinvolpi]

😅😎

[@foodandwinefromhoneyblonde8346]

💯

[@orthella1997]

Thanks for clarify...Dave you obviously are a logical, reasonable, understandable guy..ppl dont think of the many factors within a conversation/ dialogue..if they did, they wouldn't be so damning, etc..👏🏾👏🏾

[@tashadorsey4406]

So true

[@jesslee2149]

Karen’s like her are what scare me. The people who don’t realize walking around in my skin is a target for discrimination hate or even crimes against me. It’s a happy world where they aren’t caused harm so how could anyone else be in danger

[@glendaburleson541]

I am sick of Rachael Lindsey. Ridiculous!

[@jesslee2149]

@@glendaburleson541 Glenda girl if your racist just say that.

[@MRSACeee]

@@glendaburleson541 what are you sick of? In order to foster racial equity these discussions must be had. Things will never improve in this country if we keep turning a blind eye to ignorance and bigotry. This closed mindset is not ok. It fuels an environment of supremacy if people aren't called out and held accountable for their actions. This is not just a black issue. We must all work together as this affects everyone.

[@el6220]

@@jesslee2149 I'm sick of Rachel Lindsay too! She goes after people and ruins their life! She needs to get a life. She has nothing better to do than go after people and crucify them to the world getting everyone against them and get them fired. This is the highest form of Bullying!!!! Shame on her what a horrible person!

[@olivergarrick672]

@@el6220 you look hurt just say your racist period

[@brooklynooklyn]

It’s been really cool to see your channel grow. I subscribed at about 7-8k. Keep it up! You are funny without having to overly criticize others.

[@DaveNealComedian]

Hey thanks!!

[@kifleyohannes344]

19.5k subs?? wow. been here since 2k. proud of your hard work.

[@DaveNealComedian]

Thanks! Wild start to 2021!

[@Shay-yg7nm]

Matt never wanted to get engaged. Another wasted season.... This show is nothing but drama now

[@infotech6075]

That's a damn lie.

[@Jaxxon123]

@@infotech6075 Tyler, is that you?

[@whitediamond5230]

Matt will be back just like they always do. I think this is getting old only for ATTENTION. 🙄

[@kaeleighpontif6835]

If Rachael K had some random fiction book in the background, folks would’ve commented with something like, “wow, she has the time to indulge in mystery novels but no time to learn about the impacts of her actions?!”. I think reading this book is a great first step, as she’ll undoubtedly be having many uncomfortable conversations in the near future, and she should. Rachel L has her opinion, and I respect that and love her, and Rachael K doesn’t need to appease her. Thanks for giving us your take, Dave!

[@CamiRoupe]

The way you carry yourself and view the world will take you very far in life! I can tell you're meant for great things Dave!

[@DaveNealComedian]

Aw thanks cami you’re so kind

[@kimhouchins8653]

I totally agree. Dave, you are doing great things. Thank you for caring enough to keep this discussion going. Growth and learning is never a bad thing!

[@nadaleenatasha]

I find it funny her name is Karen

[@DaveNealComedian]

Ya I can’t make this up

[@SassySmall1]

Personally, I disagree with the statement "when a white woman sees three black men across the street white women are taught to think danger", as someone with trauma I see all groups of people as 'danger'. I'm 5'0 it has nothing to do with race but the fear of assault itself. I can't speak for all women but I can only speak for myself.

[@lilyelizabethstevenson8613]

I agree. That has nothing to do with race. If I'm on my own and I see a group of men (of any race), I put my protections up

[@LizNeptune]

think about her age though. She's over 50.. that is what they thought and probably what other women her age think... during the 70s, 80s and 90s that was a stereotype that was pushed heavily.

[@DaveNealComedian]

I guess it’s different for everyone.

[@SassySmall1]

​@@LizNeptune Yeah age is a factor and stereotypes are absolutely a thing. Personally, that isn't the case for me I am only sharing my own experience. :)

[@SassySmall1]

@@DaveNealComedian It is, I just wanted to share my own experience!

[@LizNeptune]

The 'Conversations' book propped in the background WAS a bit cringey and corny... she should've just took a picture STRAIGHT ON and said that this was her first start on the path to knowledge.

[@DaveNealComedian]

Ya exactly, post it saying- this is what we are reading, boom.

[@JayeElleDee]

Right!

[@abepresume8132]

Everything Amerikkka is cringey and corny. MLK day is a joke, considering black ppl are literally doing worse since "integration" and prior to his death he was quoted as saying, "I fear that I have integrated my ppl into a burning house." This is the same performative bullshit that allows white supremacy to happen on such a big, institutional scale while giving off the carefully managed faced of change and progress yet nothing changes. The truth is during segregation, the racists spouted "separate but equal" but DELIBERATELY deprived blacks despite blacks paying their fair share of taxes. Tbh, if things were fair separately, NONONE, would want to integrate with such evil ppl...

[@brandy-jasmincovington2416]

i agree! it felt very performative.

[@hanabae_]

@@abepresume8132 yep true!

[@kcc-karenschroniccorner9432]

Thank you for pointing us to Emmanuel Acho’s channel. Have watched a few videos and it’s very eye opening. Highly recommend! Australia is a multi-cultural country and we’re not exempt from racism. PS I looked up “vapid” too lol

[@kimberlymercer9766]

You are really good at being non-bias, and fair in all sides to a perspective.. especially giving the benefit of doubt. thank you for being one of very few. It makes a big difference in the world in hard times like this.

[@DaveNealComedian]

Hey thanks so much! I try and operate with the mindset that everyone is trying their best with the information they have.

[@jeffmiller3596]

If Rachael Kirkconnell did nothing in public, Rachel Lindsay would complain that she isn't trying. If she shows that she is trying, Rachel Lindsay thinks she is pandering.

[@ShakedownsStory]

What I see is that people will critique everything Rachel Lindsay says or does. At this point media sites use Rachel as draw to bring in racist opinions. They feed into the idea of her being a bully. Everybody in the bachelor world has had opinions, but they only exploit Rachel for her emotional labor and send racism her way. I think a lot of her opinions come from that place. It’s vapid to post a book and somehow you’re supposed to absolved of everything you’ve done, but somehow everybody is mad at Rachel L. still for asking questions and having opinions. I think that was her point.

[@DaveNealComedian]

It’s a fair assessment! I wonder if anyone’s minds are changed at this point. I always say get the news from the source, listen to the woman talk, don’t just take the headline as a stand-alone thing

[@bukib4407]

Very true, a whole lot of bachelor ppl talked against Rachel K & Chris H, but all the podcasts are headlining Rachel Lindsay says this or that...its interesting that it's mostly whites doing that, they know all the racists will come to bash Rachel. It is what it is, we see through it

[@Blueeyesinthesky]

I support what she stands for but she thinks that her opinion is correct over others most of the time. She expresses self righteousness quite often and I personally don’t like that. Her being black has nothing to do with that. It’s literally how she’s representing herself as a human to the world.

[@bukib4407]

@@Blueeyesinthesky that's your opinion and I do believe you wouldn't have the same feelings if she wasnt black. Check your reaction to Rachel K and Chris H's interview with Rachel L. That will tell you all you need to know

[@Blueeyesinthesky]

@@bukib4407 well thats too bad because I don’t care what you believe. I just explained why I have my opinion. I’d think the same thing if she was white, Asian, Hispanic etc. Just because someone is black doesn’t mean I have to like everything about them 100%. That goes for anyone no matter the color.

[@mollyboo7555]

Who feels it knows it......easy when you not dealing with racism every day.....it hurts.....

[@carolyntran6364]

It's always a red flag when someone says 'I don't see color.'

[@DaveNealComedian]

Ya its something that i think meant well but now its like, ok thats a biased way to begin the chat

[@estelitat.6412]

Yeah, it shows ignorance.

[@aprilrae6551]

Its usually a lie. People who actually don't see color, don't talk about it.

[@Jaxxon123]

That is extremely dangerous. Because it implies that there is something wrong with color. It sounds noble, but it is damaging. I shudder when Black children are adopted by people with this mentality. They will be set up to be used, manipulated, lost and confused. Because they will be treated differently.

[@tamamoni8908]

Yep and she was the only non-white contestant to say that. She said it on the spot. If she had nothing to had why make that disclaimer?

[@an6955]

Love your commentaries! ❤️ Funny, thought provoking, and informative.

[@susan_from_washington]

You make this discovery a shared experience for us and that feeling of growing as a community feels more accountable than passive thoughts we might have going through this experience on our own. We are in good hands with your leadership. Thank you.

[@gj1695]

Regarding Karens... "Being a product of your culture is not always your fault, but not examining that further as you age and grow up is your fault." -- Chelsea Handler

[@DaveNealComedian]

yes that was an amazing quote wasnt it?

[@bambams87]

That voicemail makes me so sad for our country :(

[@DaveNealComedian]

Ya it exists and my hope is that it’s going away with generational change

[@SummerBailey8290]

Why do I have a feeling that Matt and Rachael will get back together at AFTR if they broke up?

[@DaveNealComedian]

I hope they go wherever their hearts lead them

[@SummerBailey8290]

@@DaveNealComedian ME TOO! also I just followed you on clubhouse - CONGRATS ON 19.5K followers! your growth is amazing!!!

[@el6220]

I hope they do. They love each other and they should not let someone like Rachel Lindsay ruin that like she did Beccas relationship. Her bf said nice things about his police family and he got slammed for that. What the hell is wrong with people today!!! I will support my police family every single day!

[@acutiepieb2011]

@@el6220 Rachel has nothing to do with this, Chris answering questions is how society and the cast responded. Rachel kept quiet until she started to be Called upon to respond. Also Rachel had nothing to do with Becca’s break up, Becca is a grown adult who realized she was dating a white supremacist blue lives matter proud boy. He didn’t just support his family he publicly supported racism, anti immigration, and much more; the dam broke during 2020 just like it did with Chris. Chris has said many fucked up racist shit in the past, look it up it’s all there, this is a pattern of behavior just like with Garrett the white supremacist. Do your research before you spew your ignorance against Rachel

[@alfonsogayman9699]

@@acutiepieb2011 tell her. We won’t stand for rot anyone defending racist behavior

[@newbeginnings3859]

Wow, Rachel Lindsay was on a very high horse there. vapid? The girl is trying to learn. I’m an anti racist and I would never shame peoples attempts to learn even if awkward

[@KaitAC]

That's a classic Rachel move; in her world you're dammed if you do and dammed if you don't.

[@el6220]

Yep and Rachel said in a previous video when she was interviewing a black man, that she doesn't judge or want to tell someone what to do. What a hyprocrite. She is watching and stalking Rachaels every word and move. This should not be allowed. How would Rachel feel if people were on her ass constantly ridiculing her every word!!!

[@kellysharon6625]

Now's a time for the song to be played we are the WORLD we are the PEOPLE. I love how most of the contestants go on to find real love off the franchise. Jared Jordan Hanna B they found some special people..... CONGRATS.. Zac play it again.. Works for all walks in life.!!!!! I'm not responsible for people places or things. ONLY ME!!! Remember "WE ARE THE WORLD" WE ARE THE PEOPLE!!!

[@theduchessofessex6418]

Karen from Huntsville literally has the same energy that Chris was giving to Rachel Lindsay during the Extra interview.

[@DaveNealComedian]

lol both are from texas

[@terriboucha4030]

I like everything you touched on here, I like everything Rachel L stands for but I think her need to remark and watch Rachael this closely is judgey. This is social media today, this is how most people operate with it. Not everything we put out is going to resonate with others in the right way. We’re always going to reveal some superficialness when we share online, there’s rarely ever escaping that. That is in regard to the Instagram story being vapid.

[@Raissa0416]

I don't doubt that Rachel Lindsay means well and sees herself as the spokesperson for POC in BN but she keeps poking and poking and poking and pressuring people to respond right away. It takes people time to really educate themselves and during the Hannah Brown incident, Hannah stayed silent for about 3 weeks but Rachel just kept going at it. For Hannah and for Rachel K, its damned if you do and dammed if you dont although Rachel K's situation is more complex than Hannah's was. It seems better to shut your mouth and walk the talk by spending that time educating yourself rather than bowing to public pressure. IMHO.

[@sonia62067]

Vapid seems harsh. I had to look up definition too. 🤔🤪 You hit the nail on the head. ABC created a horrible pressure cooker trying to create the most dramatic season ever. They might have succeeded this time. 😢 I truly feel bad for all. 🙏

[@MRSACeee]

@dnealz Dave, your content is great! I really appreciate you opening up the lines of communication and being so willing to discuss these tough topics. You do a wonderful job at articulating the issues of all sides and holding each person accountable without feeding into cancel culture. Keep up the excellent work!

[@DaveNealComedian]

aw thanks so much, i appreciate having you in the convo!

[@susiehart2007]

Dave, you are enjoyable. Thank you for your delivery.

[@KaylaNatalie]

To the Karen who said “it’s getting old”... you have privilege. Just by not thinking about racism every day, that is a privilege. There are people who just go to the store and fear or experience racism.

[@el6220]

Ok karen

[@KaylaNatalie]

@@el6220 that comment literally makes no sense.

[@oliviam6100]

I am glad she posted that book. Many people that wouldn't otherwise have bought that book did because of that post so any enlightenment is good news to me.

[@samanthanagy2128]

I really enjoy your non-biased feedback. I find myself thinking the same way you do but I never hear it. 👍👍

[@DaveNealComedian]

Thanks! Let’s try and keep checking all angles!

[@crystalprocrastinates2500]

Karen really thinks the First Nations people are happy with how they continue to be treated?

[@ilovegoodsax]

You must be from Canada! 🇨🇦

[@crystalprocrastinates2500]

@@ilovegoodsax yes, but I’ve heard the treatment in the USA isn’t good either.

[@ilovegoodsax]

@@crystalprocrastinates2500 If not worse here in the states! I commented to your post knowing you are from Canada because Canadians say "First Nation" whereas we say "Native American."

[@crystalprocrastinates2500]

@@ilovegoodsax I wasn’t sure what was used in the US, but knew even in the US the term Karen used was the same as using the “N” word.

[@el6220]

Ok Karen thank you

[@bmlane09]

Almost at 20k Dave!!! Congrats!

[@DaveNealComedian]

pretty wild ay?!

[@jenmurphy7777]

@@DaveNealComedian Dave, it's spelled 'eh' not 'ay' ;)

[@ACosta-be2ie]

I think if Matt doesn't choose Rachael Kirkconnell it will be a big mistake, caused mainly by the influence of the media and, in particular, by Rachael Lindsay's ‘against everyone’ activism. Why Rachael Kirkconnell stood out among all competitors: In the presentation, she presented herself, did not use external support, said that they would have fun (something that was in Matt's mind) who doesn't want a partner to have fun with? She was the only one touched directly with Matt's prayer, which pointed to a spiritual connection between the two. She was also the first to declare that she was in love with Matt and the only one to say that this was completely! She was also the only one to declare directly to him that she wanted to have a life with him. The two had a very strong mental and emotional connection - an internal communication between them, revealed when Matt said that she didn't need to get his attention like other women, because she already attracted his attention naturally. Another important point is that Rachael was intelligent in winning Matt, not through intense physical contact, as others have allowed, but with thoughtfulness as they got to know each other more. It was the only one to whom Matt declared love and presented it. It was the only one he found, in addition to being beautiful, sexy, despite so many other women who were also sexy, some maybe even more from Rachael. It was the one that he praised most about his personality and behavior, saying that his interaction with her was easy, fluid. It was the only one he declared he was afraid of losing it after the parachute incident. Anyway, I believe that if they were without any external influence they would (or will, God knows) have a beautiful love affair!

[@jeffmiller3596]

I also like how Rachel Lindsay said she knows everything about Rachael K that she needs to know by seeing this picture. Give me a break. So its not about cancel culture, but you have already cancelled her? Got it.

[@queerkyra2684]

I don’t think she was cancelling her she was saying she can do more on her platform than that. Racheal K has since posted a video talking about her past actions and how she is making efforts to change and educate herself. She also included links to educational Instagram pages, articles on why her past actions were hurtful, asked people to stop saying there was nothing wrong with what she did, and her understanding of why people aren’t accepting of her apology until they see change and validates that. I think that video was more aligned with what Racheal L was hoping for from her. Dave does a video on it too if you look at his recent post.

[@dadamahe]

Thanks!! I truly just love listening to your insight and opinion on all of this. Exactly how is she supposed to show that she is growing?

[@DaveNealComedian]

It’s a great question and would probably be way easier to assess once the show ends.

[@kimhouchins8653]

That's what I was wondering too. Maybe "they" want another statement.

[@dadamahe]

I truly hate to use the word “grace” bc of previous interviews and conversations but really just bc one person would have been on the social media immediately to voice their defense doesn’t mean everyone would. We all have different backgrounds and some people are more inclined to listen to “authority” I.e producers and some are more bold (have a law degree, so they know their rights) and will speak immediately. Let’s all give some time; I know people are so uptight about the “she waited 6 weeks” but we all know the contracts they sign can be very confusing for a most people.

[@phoenixgirl70]

To me she could have placed the book in a less conspicuous way. It’s a very distinctive cover. Her purse was on one or 2 other books. That’s why it looked performative. I’m sure she is trying to better herself but that photo just didn’t seem genuine. Plus the “oh look at my delicious tea”. Some people aren’t trying to be mean, they’re just really in tune with their gut feeling/intuition. That’s the feeling I got. I’ve learned the hard way that feeling is always right. But I do think she’s trying to educate herself more.

[@bennisecreto4933]

Yo bro, you are almost at 20,000 subs! Congrats!

[@daniellemitchell3118]

I am proud of you Dave. Looking to educate yourself. Using that book is a good step. I just got it for Christmas, and I will be reading it soon as well.

[@Black_Rose1234]

That's a great idea Dave. Since she has the book, a chat with Emmanuel Acho would be very insightful

[@tobconnected]

This is something that I don't understand. Did she tell Matt or did Matt find out? Regarding her apology is the apology because he found out? Thank you.

[@karolinafonfara1862]

I think a post of RK did a lot. How many people knew about this book before? And why RL is so hard on her. She is new in this business, she probably doesn’t know how to handle this attention. The only advices she is getting are from The bachelor producers.

[@DaveNealComedian]

Ya as someone mentioned hopefully she can promote the book in more of a deliberate way

[@karolinafonfara1862]

I agree, but I feel like she will get hate no matter what. I’m just happy she is trying. Lets give her a chance to change.

[@SolsticeBeautyByJessica]

Nice video. New subscriber 💜

[@danielaguadarrama3785]

This is what happens when you propose to someone you only know inside a resort and for a short period of time. You come out to thr real world and get to know that person, their past, family, real temperament off camera, etc.

[@DaveNealComedian]

Yup, the show isn’t exactly how life goes

[@danielaguadarrama3785]

But I appreciate people going into it to entertain us and show us there’s still emptiness in people. Good distraction from real life drama. It’s like people who signed up for vaccine trials, very much appreciated. Of course with the $ in their Pocket.

[@cdubya1]

Can we retire the word, "woke" when we are not referring to waking from a literal sleep?

[@DaveNealComedian]

I don’t know if I have the retire power but I use it sparingly

[@ll2323]

11:00 Funny Scary fact, around huntsville, tx there are signs that say "Don't pick up the hitchhikers." throughout and around the county its scary.

[@DaveNealComedian]

Wild! I’ve seen that around other prison towns too!

[@veronicastern5411]

Dave, I really enjoy your videos! Thank you, keep up the great work and commentary :)

[@DaveNealComedian]

thanks Veronica!!

[@bsbhouse173]

Dave keep up the amazing work. Thanks you for continuing to discuss the subjects that nobody else wants to. Practicing kindness and sharing perspectives from both sides and give us stuff to think about. I'm not surprised about the promise ring I teuly don't think he was ever going to get engaged he wasn't ready for that or I believe it would of been Michelle.

[@DaveNealComedian]

aw thanks BB!

[@suzannegallicho7283]

This is all very eye opening. Thanks for sharing. My eyes are being opened more and mote

[@DaveNealComedian]

Thanks for being part of the discussion!

[@annettearties8538]

I feel everyone is capable of change, sometimes people become a product of their environment.

[@jamiegrennell3159]

No matter what she says or does it's not gonna be good enough for some people. She needs to do her best in life and try moving on from this and do better in the future.

[@ams3344]

I'm not big into spoilers. Here's the season's spoilers 😃 Love this guy!

[@luv2467]

As a minority...I’m Latina...we need to do a better job of not getting offended at every stinkin little thing!!! I get more flack for being short than I do because my skin is brown!!! The enemy, satan, wants you offended at everything regardless of your race...as a child of the most holy living GOD...we are royalty and have favor....we just need to know our identity in Christ and walk that out!!!

[@oliviaisnicole1835]

yikes - ma’am maybe you grew up on the better side of the street than me because I’ve been getting unwanted attention about my skin for years. when I was younger, to pre-teen, teenager, until now being a young adult. i agree that we don’t need to jump and get offended at every little thing, but I would never shut anyone down if they did find said thing to be offensive.

[@luv2467]

@@oliviaisnicole1835 why?? Mans opinion doesn’t count...what GOD knows about us is infinitely more important than someone’s opinion of us...we have a sin issue NOT a skin issue

[@-Lily7415]

Matt never wanted to find a wife on the show.This was made clear the first episode when he said to Chris ,that when he is seeing a girl and it is time to take things to the next level he doesn’t commit. Why did they even choose him for bachelor then??? I think he used the winners past as an excuse to break up with her ,because he never took the show seriously anyway.

[@alfonsogayman9699]

Racism is a valid reason to break up with someone especially if you’re black. You sound very out of touch.

[@-Lily7415]

alfonso gayman It certainly is a valid reason ( in touch here👍) butttttt I can’t take him seriously BECAUSE he has a problem with commitment.

[@terrinegron]

Thanks for your feedback.

[@DaveNealComedian]

My favorite line

[@Mirandanns]

This is insane behavior. Everyone cheering at the whipping post should be praying to their higher power/god/gods that the mob doesn’t turn their rage towards you. Where are the keyboard warrior/influencer armies tasked with combing through the history of the heroes condemning whoever happens to be on the chopping block that particular week? If we are going to systematically persecute people let’s be thorough.

[@amandaluvzu22]

If Karen’s tired then I’m asleep lol.

[@gabitanew]

Your video is right on top of the search on KZbin, I got notification and after 3 min here I am and you are on top, you must do something right 😄 I am still watching, see what spoilers you have 😄😄😄

[@DaveNealComedian]

man i have no clue how youtube finally likes my channel, much appreciation for everyone who comments and subs, this is cause of y'all!

[@jenmurphy7777]

@@DaveNealComedian Hey Dave, even some of your Vlogmas videos are popping up I my recommended vids now. So happy KZbin finally found you. Look at you grow!!!

[@greenqueen4241]

Love spoilers! I like to see how it plays out. Something like reading the last chapter of a book first.

[@DaveNealComedian]

That’s an interesting take! I like that for certain shows but I refuse to watch survivor if I know who wins lol

[@d.l.n.7133]

I always read the last chapter first 😂👍🏻

[@Black_Rose1234]

Let me start by saying that I live in South Africa and racism is still alive and thriving here too. One evening a couple of years back my then boyfriend and I were walking home from dinner when a group of white men in a car pulled up next to us and sprayed a fire extinguisher on us and threw eggs at us while calling us all sorts of derogatory words. This is just one of the many racist experiences I've had in my lifetime. Hearing thw comments from Karen is upsetting, but I hope she can educate herself. I appreciate the work you are doing with your videos Dave, keep going!

[@annie.58]

And xenophobia towards other black Africans. You guys are not any better than the white folks you accuse of racism.

[@Tabmaj]

Lollll the voicemail 😭

[@annetuttle560]

I am SO tired of Rachel Lindsay. Why is her opinion SO obnoxious and damaging. It feels like she is adding fuel to the fire and keeping all the controversy going. I agree everyone needs to look at racism in a very real and practical way, learning and doing, but have a spokesperson who has some compassion and doesn't bash everyone because she doesn't like something. How does she know what is in someone's heart when they issue an apology. Let's get Mike Johnson or someone who is more positive to bring things to our eyes.

[@ReneeBachmann]

Yes! She's so harsh and so negative. It's hard for me to respect her opinions or even listen to her.

[@annetuttle560]

@@ReneeBachmann You are SO right.

[@joanlynch5271]

I hope that Rachel is doing well. I was really concerned when she landed hard after the parachute ride.

[@mariocannon224]

She's fine I saw her in Atlanta Thursday. But her face is not those plump cute cheeks anymore. She's lost weight.

[@chrissyg9576]

Omg!!! I digress!!! You’re hilarious 😂

[@laura27torres]

glad you're doing well this morning Dave!

[@ashl2119]

All I have to say is great video!!!!🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@DaveNealComedian]

thanks Ash! great comment ;)

[@rachelheller1396]

Matt can forgive Rachael K, however, he doesn't have to stay in a relationship with Rachael. If Matt and Rachael broke up before ATFR, I think that's fine. Maybe after some private conversations and reflection Rachael K , who he doesn't know that well, Matt decided to break up with Rachael K. Matt needs to do what is right for him.

[@Whoeverheardof]

I really want to know when/how Matt broke up with Rachael. And I think it must be more than the antebellum picture and the backlash. My guess is he got to know more about her and realized it wasn’t going to work out.

[@aprilrae6551]

I can't wait to find out what actually happened between Matt and Rachel. I think he always planned to go back to his house with Tyler.

[@infotech6075]

Hell no, it was because of Rachel Lindsey pressuring him.

[@Jaxxon123]

I think he was never ready for marriage. This is more for fame and clout. He will go back to Tyler.

[@allisond4916]

It's ok Dave. I had to look up "vapid" too.

[@bennisecreto4933]

“I’m just the conductor of it all” as he waves his pen in the air... 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@mycoshe]

When Matt put out his statement last week, I went like, yup, he broke up with her.

[@DaveNealComedian]

Ya wild day to cover that! Got dozens of messages all at once!

[@lizzybennet7645]

Dave I love your videos I've watched you i think since jojos season and I love the content you put out now. thankyou for you bringing up awareness to close minded people.

[@DaveNealComedian]

hey thanks lizzy! i recognize all my peeps that were here in the early days! ;)

[@a.j.9115]

“You can’t change anything when you’re in denial.” So true. My entire family, which rarely drinks and never does drugs (‘cause you say perhaps she was on something 🤣), would stand behind her words 100%. It is unfortunately a HUGE and common opinion that POC need to “get over” wrongs done by ruling authorities “in the past” and that racism today is not a thing. 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@oliviaisnicole1835]

exactly! all my life I’ve been told to “get over the past” or to be “thankful” to have the small amount of perks “given” to us by yt people and yet when I even slightly try to voice my opinions on issues that are still affecting my community - ex. racism. I’m constantly told those same words and lines over and over.

[@laniedav8078]

Bring it on Dave!

[@gj1695]

Respect to Chelsea Handler. You are so right about comics. Since much of comedy is self-effacing and reliant on finding common ground with the audience, comedians are innately self-aware and open about their flaws and failings. I have always admired comedians for putting themselves out there. An actor can hide behind a playwright's or screenwriter's words and/or literally mask him/her/theirself in a character. I have respect for any and everyone who puts their voice and artistic expression out there for the public to scrutinize.

[@krisoldroyd7259]

On the first episode Matt seemed really concerned about picking someone that wasn’t BIPOC/someone the nation or his race would approve of, wasn’t that nice foreshadowing? Dang producers. Poor guy, this is a lot of pressure on him when he was privileged to the full picture. Bachelor needs better screening and/or the lead should be allowed some phone time to look up contestants- this could even be aired with a friend/past lead helping out.

[@ilovegoodsax]

Matt was looking for a come up by being in the show, much like his BFF Tyler. In fact, it was Tyler's mom who suggested Matt apply for the show. Besides that, Matt had PLENTY of time to look up contestants (Clare did. She even confessed she peeped Dale's Instagram prior to the start of filming her season). Remember -- Matt was originally chosen to appear as a bachelor contestant on Clare's season. The producers quickly switched gears after the George Floyd murder.

[@el6220]

That makes no sense. His mom is white

[@infotech6075]

Exactly, they been gunning for Matt ever since he became the bachelor.

[@krisoldroyd7259]

@@ilovegoodsax his contestants weren’t announced prior to filming like Clare’s were (due to the shutdown and the return home after their original production date) so he couldn’t have checked them out prior.

[@jaydahbieber411]

I love Rachel Lindsay! I’m so happy she’s speaking up. Also Rachel doesn’t want Chris jobs!! She’s done with the Bachelor franchise after her contact is up! Rachel has so much going on for herself. She doesn’t care about Bachelor. I agree Rachel K is VAPID AND BASIC AF!!! Just bc she post things on IG and “learning” doesn’t mean she’s actually doing anything! Rachel K is fake, she’s only apologizing bc she got called out for everything. She doesn’t really care.

[@JayeElleDee]

I'm tired of talking about racism too Karen! I'm exhausted as a matter of fact. 🙄

[@DaveNealComedian]

Very efficient and perfect post. WE WANNA WATCH PUPPY VIDEOS- but also we aren’t there

[@JaiClaire880]

Hey girl! You have great taste in YT videos!

[@nananichole]

Of course her name was Karen 🙄 DONT BE A KAREN!!!

[@amandaluvzu22]

Yeah we ALL are made in God’s image, but folks like Karen don’t seem to think that way when it come to blacks, etc. Maybe if ppl like her kept that same energy about everyone being made in God’s image, then racism wouldn’t be an issue, now would it?

[@teenatravelsabroad]

great video Dave. I do think videos like yours is helping open up dialogs about these uncomfortable but very necessary discussions. Black people cannot do it alone we also need White Americans to admit to, and change their racist behaviors. I must preference by saying not all white people who display racist behaviors are racist, like Chelsea Handler said, it's mostly ingrained due to stereotypes and lies fed by the biased media about black Americans. Sadly, racism will problem get worse in America because of the True colors of America was put on full display while Trump was President, which is why I moved to Europe 5 years ago. But I am still hopeful. :)

[@andreazwecker1457]

Great show Dave

[@DaveNealComedian]

thanks!!

[@cindywitty8646]

Here’s the issue that I have about Rachel Lindsay judging Rachel Kirkconnell’s apology. Someone who is truly apologetic will exhibit what is called the, “Five A’s,” Is the person acknowledging what the person did was wrong? Is the person trying to make amends for what she did was wrong? Is there person acquiring new knowledge to avoid what she did doesn’t happen again? Is the person making steps to be accountable for her actions? And finally, is she accepting the boundaries to earn back the trust she lost? I believe the apology & steps that Rachel Kirkconnell made were all of those things & if Matt is the Christian he says he is, then he needs to address how much he truly loved her in the first place. Bc, love is patient, love is kind....

[@estherteddyoh8134]

Please where are the paparazzi videos from

[@DaveNealComedian]

It’s from the sun

[@gabitanew]

Btw 19,5 k subscribers !congrats , any longer livestream coming at 20k? 😊

[@DaveNealComedian]

im gonna hit 20k while im in the process of a move, so in stead im gonna do a 5 for 25, 5 hour livestream when I hit 25k ;) prob in a few weeks

[@megab1857]

I THINK THAT IS THEIR BUSSINESS. NOT OURS

[@theoneonlymichelle3.082]

Hey Dave how is the move going? I hope it is very smooth and that you all enjoy your new bigger place. How exciting for you both. Hey you can always get rid of the couch and just sleep in your lawn chairs lol. Thanks for the content as always

[@redbarnhomestead7384]

Rachel Lindsey says mean things. I don’t agree with the way she “calls out” people because she never gives any room for her opinion to be wrong.

[@gak2008]

hmmm....maybe because she's not

[@raegan_price]

16 minute mark- 17 sooo good!!!

[@Mariej123]

karen literally a karen

[@tigrezangel]

I wonder (and please do not read on my words more that what I'm writing, my question is sincere and without anything behind), What can Rachel K. say or do to please everyone? what I feel is that nothing can redeem her in the eyes of others. and that is a sad thought. honest question, What can she do or say to be believed that she is willing to grow out of her racist past?

[@DaveNealComedian]

It’s a good question, and I appreciate it. I think when she’s allowed to talk, she should use her platform to explain where she came from, where she’s headed and a plan for using this whole life issue as a net positive. In the mean time, she won’t be able to feed the hunger of the wolves who want her to disappear

[@phoenixgirl70]

@@DaveNealComedian Yes Dave I really hope she takes that advice. It would be interesting for people to understand what she was told/normal for her growing up. I’m always shocked because there was a whole civil rights movement, an actual MLK day, Oscar winning movies about America’s racist past. Is it just not having a curious nature to want to watch these movies? Excellent documentaries like The 13th on Netflix? I’ve heard she grew up very privledged and so was her upbringing like some fictional thing we only see in movies and her world was super insular? Will she be shamed by her hometown people/friends? I hope she can do these things for a bigger purpose, to really move some people forward, for a look into how some people grow up and think Antebellum Balls at plantations are ok. I think it would be a fantastic learning experience for all kinds of people. And just her, because I’m sure there’s some team working on talking points. I do think the pressure/spotlight on her has gone overboard. I hope she’s getting help dealing with this.

[@a.sydney5036]

Nothing. She needs to be beamed up to space at this point.