the behemoth topic of sexuality

[@catsocksnyaanyan9107]

i get you, being queer is like really important to me but I feel like a poser with any kind of label or community

[@kamxpossible]

this is so real!! saying i'm straight for years because i genuinely couldn't decipher whether my interest in girls was real or just friendship crushes, then coming out as bi but feeling it felt wrong, coming out pan but it still not feeling okay then going back to straight after trying incredibly to be a good christian but feeling stuck and crying. coming out as bi again because maybe it wouldn't be as bad because atleast i liked boys but then reading the lesbian master doc and realizing that i resonated with so much of it but also being so terrified that i wouldn't be able to take it back if i came out as lesbian. i never came out to anyone but i felt all of this alone and it's so hectic and by come out i mean to myself. i'm currently trying out the lesbian label and then gender started to feel like something that feels off and everything is off the rocker, i've just decided to live and love because labels have been so tough and embarrassing to me but also dealing with the fact that I don't have a community. I thank you for making this video because i feel very seen and you are so valid for being unlabeled, we exist!!(aro spectrum is a whole whale that i'm too scared to even try to discuss it but definitely on that spectrum lol, because all my relationshis end in me feeling violently trapped even if the person is the sweetest ever but also it's only been men so what if i'm just not interested in them,idk and i don't want to know anymore!!)

[@onlyvixieee]

OMG YOU GET ME!!!!! especially ur last point about feeling trapped despite the other party being the sweetest and kindest person... thank you for sharing i'm seriously so glad to see someone talk about all this! appreciate ur comment :) I hope u dont feel the need to label urself ever, just live comfortably and happily

[@pop_rocky]

Ngl as a lesbian I really do relate to your experience, and I appreciate how down to earth you are in this video :DD

[@pop_rocky]

Also I deeply relate to keeping sexuality more private to me because even though I talk about it online sometimes in comment sections or whatever, people who aren't close to be irl don' t need to know this information. Especially since I consider sex to be an important part of my life, but I feel hesitant to get into romantic relationships unless I really know the person

[@onlyvixieee]

@@pop_rocky thank you! i appreciate ur comment and thank you for sharing with me ur own experiences! i feel heard here #SHOUTOUTLESBIANS 🔥🔥💯💯

[@kimchiquesadilla]

22:36 I would be that is that do with the hetero normative culture rather than something about you.