The Benefits of Having Enemies

[@Forged88]

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[@baki484]

It's not about proving your enemies wrong it's about proving yourself right. Remain steadfast.

[@anonenoemos4895]

No wiser words have been spoke like this thus far

[@natherahkarim7146]

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[@SunshineSuperstar]

While this is true in theory in practice it is the same thing! By proving yourself right you are simultaneously proving your enemies wrong!

[@HeatherWinkler1331]

He'll don't have prove a damn thing ti anybody and he'll distance myself cause they ain't nobody but myself gkt to worry bput what think and he'll dont have plans and lol think what they like cuz he'll if gkt like all then he'll that cause I'm not damn settle for the things thst I dint need them for anymore abd they are not gonna damn take me back down and ti what they just thinkna queenvis sonebody tgat just runs around and fucks all abdvtgat one that don't care sblyt anybody they like use that to smdamn use us for what sick mf and there wants and that is what they thinkbthey can keeo ya a prisioner to. Andvall but guess that they cant vstand it cause women are dovabd not depending in others to do for them and he'll so they try takevus back down by break or damn keep us. Feel bad for things cause they try ti damn breakbya down cayse they can't have others due tj there damn vdmfake abd things they dontvlike bout them self lol haha not threat just started. Chasing better things for myself abd am looking for my twin flame and soul connection abd. Sonebody that. I'd truly out for a ride or die and ain't got to damn plus din need snybody and he'l especially to nothing ain't. Fighting to fight. For any Damm. Position and all. Hell so he'll don't bother. If. Ain't or need. Anything that usnt gonna give me the sane and. Respect or loyalty if can't do that then don't bother. Even be anything in. As for me. Cuz don't care anymore he'll sint got shit to lose abd damn sure ain't need gain anything tgst is just not gonna. Gldeel me with all tgat searching for within myself and. If ya are that one then when ya find ya self abd think that ya. Need sane as needthen we will see

[@legate7158]

This is why "Peace" means having a bigger stick than the other guy but having the courage not to use it immorally

[@xnomadx5686]

Or the wisdom of restraint

[@williemherbert1456]

But in other way, also the stupidest way to maintain peace, as proven with this approach when dealing Germany's question in the aftermath of WW1 when compared to the Revolutionary French's question in the aftermath of Napoleonic War at the Conference of Vienna and Paris, at the end result on maintaining peace between each other. It's over-exaggerating overall human capabilities in avoiding error and lacking of their own, we need to acknowledge that human is just really stupid and selfish being but doesn't mean we have to stuck in there as if we're static being. Sure, you'll have enemies is normal, but to what extend they're rivaling & opposing you is the extend of question we really now have to discuss, disagreement isn't in any way equal to confrontation and non-cooperation as social being.

[@xnomadx5686]

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[@xnomadx5686]

@@williemherbert1456 zBusy How are you

[@redseagaming7832]

That's exactly what Teddy Roosevelt's Saying Meant I speak softly but I carry a big stick.

[@mr.ironmindset1973]

the reason why you have enemies is because, they are intimidated by you, your potential and values its like they see that you are becoming big in the next 5 years and they are not ready to see that, so they chose to hate instead of supporting you because they are afraid who you may become

[@Zillennial-g9k]

*FACTS*

[@atmosrepair]

Jealousy and envy

[@The_Crimson_Wolf_]

Be afraid, very afraid

[@izzydeadyet7336]

I think so too.. people who put you down are worried you'll overtake them

[@mr.ironmindset1973]

@izzydeadyet off course, most people are cowards by nature. If insecure ones put you down, they better be ready when you get up

[@kshitijshinde9]

Life is like a game, if you find enemies in your path it means you are going in the right direction.

[@ast3077]

100

[@kennethhall9202]

Amen to that bring it on

[@mikemadmusic]

Trophy

[@Dee-iy9uq]

Facts man. The moment I gave up fake friends and bad habits that I developed from hanging around them I became a target by everyone around me and the hate was beyond real. The love is fake, but the hate is real. The hermit life is underrated and undefeated.

[@EstanislaoSantino-xk8uz]

​@@Dee-iy9uq you also be fake friend to other too bud.

[@panos617]

"You have enemies? Good. That means you've stood up for something, sometime in your life." Winston Churchill.

[@Zillennial-g9k]

*FACTS*

[@cautarepvp2079]

legit quote

[@milacolman]

The fat man never said that

[@panos617]

@@milacolman He did. And so respect. He defented his country and after he win the WW2. You? WTH have you achive? Nothing. So be silent.

[@milacolman]

@@panos617 oh my god he won a war congrats to him! too bad he's dead now

[@williamj.dovejr.8613]

Sometimes your closest friends and some lovers want you to fall... discard them and keep moving.

[@nolesy34]

I will discard them like my finished sandwich wrap

[@saltysandy5879]

i think the main message is to toughen up be careful and compete in life

[@skdfdjkdfjkd]

"If you have a lot of enemies, maybe you're the problem" - Quote by me, right now.

[@xxxYYZxxx]

The capital "P" stands for Pussy, eh?

[@peaceonearth351]

I'm Mr. Asshole to you.

[@boslyporshy6553]

Enmity starts when you piss someone off. What pisses you off? ~Some guy

[@redcecrossans2189]

Maybe both of you are.

[@2bjjones]

Trust me, there's more than enough trouble and conflict in life to be looking for it. It will find you.

[@mr.ironmindset1973]

if someone is not supporting you and you call them FRIEND they are more likely worse than enemy, either you with us or against us.

[@Keniisu]

One must also be wary to not confuse 'not supporting' with genuine disagreement and well-intentioned behavior. Your friends may not realize the vision yet, but a real friend will support you when they see you're dedicated.

[@TheDevestatorX]

And at the same time, a real friend can point out how fcking wrong you are at times

[@izzydeadyet7336]

I noticed when my ex told me to shut up it was much worse than when my friend tells me to shut up, when my friend does it it's a warning, like you better shut up before someone whoops your ass, not a malicious shut up when someone doesnt agree

[@cardboardbox191]

I hand the term friend around like jelly babies. My view is to enjoy it. If someone gives you a nice chat whilst your waiting for the bus good it's not a fake friendship it's a shallow one. Just don't lean all your weight on it and don't support all their weight. My instinct with your with me or against me is fine I'm against you.

[@apgamin5971]

This channel is the only self improvement channel that hits hard on the right spot and actually teaches you

[@floatingchimney]

This is the most brilliant collection of thoughts about enemies and tackling them I've seen.

[@jeanalexandre1105]

Don Juan teaching quote what is the difference between a man and a warrior. A warrior take everything as a challenge, ordinary men either take things as a curse or a blessing

[@mr.ironmindset1973]

be selective in your wars. i would rather be an enemy to successful person than someone who is not even in a great mindset

[@forever000]

beautiful wording. crucial message

[@Cretaal]

I've found that more important than enemies are rivals, friends who can take an adversarial position to you that you have someone to constantly test your mettle against in an honorable field of mutual growth. You need someone to measure against if you're on your way to the top. Then, when the chips are down, they're your best ally. We grew up on this as a videogame trope, and it works in real life. Someone who you take pleasure in conflict with, someone who will split a drink afterwards. Sometime who won't plateu and won't let you, lest you never know victory again. Conflict can, in the end, become a game in its own right.

[@bryanlayton6400]

tom and jerry...?

[@Cretaal]

@@bryanlayton6400 Something like that. The sibling dynamic they have is a good representation of rivalry. Popeye and Brutus also have a rivalry where they aren't exactly enemies but competitors on a field.

[@markward6076]

Friends when they need you and foes when they don't. Never fall for the " trust me " line.

[@R4GNAR0G]

"I always prefer True Enemies over Fake Friends, anyday~" ~Me

[@williamj.dovejr.8613]

If you don't have people challenging you and setting themselves up as your enemies, you are not doing enough... don't be afraid of being the best. Leaders are assailed because they are leaders... that which deserves to live...lives.

[@abdulsamad.abd007]

This reminds me of the polarity strategy from Robert Greene. Declare war on your enemies

[@randywise5241]

"You can know more about a person by their enemies than you can by their friends."

[@LionelKnight]

Conflict is the fire that fuels creation and gives purpose where there is NONE! - Davoth (The Dark Lord)

[@adrianmargean3402]

I hate this world. It seems like I only have enemies.

[@krzstarfarr1216]

Same

[@trialanderrorbym.f]

Everyone has enemies, no matter how u try to be nice to ppl,take it from me,inus3d to mold myself so everybody can like me,it's doesn't work.its tiring

[@adrianmargean3402]

@@trialanderrorbym.f I'm just trying my best to be normal and survive, but so far I can't do it.

[@trialanderrorbym.f]

@@adrianmargean3402 trust me I know what u mean,I used to be the same way,I used to be a social butterfly to a loner,I feel happier,it was depressing at first,now im fine,I can go weeks without talking to ppl.i got used by friend ,family everybody.I started setting boundaries. It's hard when u an empath,but im trying to do what's good for me.

[@adrianmargean3402]

@@trialanderrorbym.f I'm happy that you're doing better. 🙏

[@lonehawkwhitlock1310]

Stand tall. Be strong. Fuck Their Ways!

[@DEATHRAGE157]

"Do you want peace? Get ready for war".

[@connorcohen7258]

You don’t have enemies. The truth is nobody has enemies.

[@Anon00074]

Wake up to reality

[@redcecrossans2189]

Until someone say something opposite on your philosophy...

[@foreverthestudent]

With the day I've had, I needed to hear this

[@dutch_steel8923]

I wish the algorithm wasn’t actively suppressing your content and other content creators like it. It’s so blatantly obvious with videos of your quality.

[@Fruitcupper]

Strive to be better than who we were yesterday. Learn, grow, evolve, thrive 👊♥️

[@devinedude3690]

EPIC CONTENT!!!!!!!! THIS VIDEO IS A PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT BIBLE.👑

[@menacingowl]

i cannot recommend searching out trauma and misfortune with a goal of stoicism. trauma will change your life for good. some things will never be the same, and you may weep for them every time you’re alone.

[@alfredpaquin3563]

It's very important to have enemies, it re-enforces the the fact that you don't have a weak personality.

[@iaaaiaaa5169]

They say that you can tell a person by the friends they keep, but also you can tell the calibre of a man by the enemies he engages with just as well (and just as equally important in knowing those in your surroundings).

[@awakenedsoul2638]

This opened my mind by having sudden enemies where every I go, whatever I do and whatever decision I make. These people who will become or your current enemies is a reminder that you should get better in the thing that you are doing!

[@SupremeOmniscience]

Enemies and haters/ jealous people are not the same. Most people are just jealous and haters because they aren’t doing well in life. So they decided to become a parasite to the next person. It’s really disgusting and disappointing.

[@mamapapaforgiveme]

Gosh your so right I believe you so much !

[@JustLor7777]

I have no enemies...I think(beside of the system)..., but sadly...there is a lot of envy..., but I understand..., that not everyone who comes into your life...or passes..., likes you, and they don't have to..., I accept that one hundred percent..., I always say this... *I dont have to agree with you, to like you and respect you* ❤️

[@tylercarey2337]

You have no enemies. No one in the world is your enemy. There is no one you need to hurt

[@peaceonearth351]

Give shit, get hit.

[@lightweightbuddy835]

Bro I came from that vid too this on my fyp😭

[@tylercarey2337]

@@lightweightbuddy835 "A true warrior doesn't need a sword" ~The greatest viking philosopher, Thors

[@sa-amirel-hayeed699]

​@@tylercarey2337 wew lad. The greatest warrior doesn't need to unsheathe his sword, but he always has it.

[@Ronin_72]

I have been casually studying psychology this is what they call narcissists. I'm getting tired of these labels. I personally believe that a person acts that way is just your ( in their mind I suppose everyone is) enemy. We need to stop with labeling, humans endlessly try to predict a persons behavior. It never works out.

[@Forged88]

You are tired of labeling others, and yet here you are labeling me as a narcissist & a public enemy. Human beings WILL ALWAYS categorize others because we are heirachal & territorial in nature

[@Ronin_72]

@@Forged88 Relax, I clearly came off in a way I didn't intend. What I meant was these labels need to stop because it's just how humans are. Not right not wrong, it just is. I'm agreeing with you. I'm merely stating that psychological community isn't helping anything. They try to understand human nature so they can make labels on people, such as a narcissist, to remove them from society and end up weakening society. Because being that way is "bad" and there is "only a small percentage" when in reality ALL humans have the ability to be a narcissist or any other type b personality. My other intent for my comment was people decide your their enemy and these behaviors come out. Which the psychological community deems narcissistic and that person must be removed from society, when reality, doing what you showed in this video is actually the way to deal with these people .

[@cardboardbox191]

I didn't read either accusation of you being a narcissist or a public enemy in Ronin's comment.

[@OnlyWaifuYT]

@@Forged88 The fact that you made it about yourself clearly shows that you're not only a narcissist, but also an idiot lmao

[@WarriorPrime1]

One of your best videos, in a collection of excellent videos. Thanks.

[@Sam60420]

A smart man you are my friend, competition drives innovation Haha

[@drsundipshenoy2471]

Such a beautiful narration on treading minefield of needless conflicts traversing mindgames sprinkled politics.Excellent no nonsense approach.congrats👏

[@markh4926]

Sometimes they have you at checkmate and patient is your only defense while waiting for an opening. It's been going on for two years and I can't find a way to stop this person from attacking and isolating me, while others join her. She has issued a threat of pulling the sheriff into the mess and other men naturally side with her.

[@OnlyWaifuYT]

Bro here is a sex offender 💀

[@YouHateLogic]

@@OnlyWaifuYT not necessarily there is crazy manipulative women out there and you don't know the details.

[@YouHateLogic]

@@OnlyWaifuYT I could do what you did and say here is a crazy hateful lady defending a crazy hateful lady. Grow up.

[@Anonynamalam]

Thanks for the word, well said

[@dualsense8193]

just what i needed. Thanks man, good vid!

[@RamonChiNangWong078]

I believe we had this in school, we got bullied, we look for friends we can trust to stand up against them. we had these social lessons, but of course we have these modern helicopter parents who are watchful 24x7 over their grown ass 20 something adults

[@MRWOODS1983]

This content is SPECTACULAR!

[@GIRLTALK101WithBB]

WOW that sounds like the strategy used on women to get manipulated. Except your going into the psychology of the character. I love it.

[@ablprose491]

Well said,.. lump it. Now learn from it & carry on!

[@waheedsahebzadha7439]

Your videos are just amazing! And the command of English language !

[@Forged88]

Thank you mate 👊

[@Zillennial-g9k]

Thank God somebody *finally said it.* And this was posted on Easter too??? Let’s goooooo!!!

[@shaunmcinnis1960]

I’d rather make my enemy the hatred of other human beings thank you.

[@captnrobvious47]

Nice timing on the posting. Got a guy at work who has given me death threats. Never had anyone do that to me before so I've been coming to work with hand cuffs and improvised bo-staff. He's been increasingly hostile to me every time I see him despite my coworkers telling me "Nah,he's cool." This guy has been trying to push my buttons and get a rise out of me ever since I started working here. He's condescending, boisterous, he's basically a school yard bully and my coworkers are more than happy to roll over and let this guy walk all over them. I think just he's salty at me just because I got the balls to tell him I won't tolerate his behavior. He's probably more intimidated of me than I am of him. Took this to my Boss, he doesn't think he'll follow through with his threat and I honestly don't think so either. I'd rather make peace with the guy over a drink; I suspect we have a few things in common but "si vis pacem, parabellum" and all that.

[@Forged88]

The bully will always feel threatened when someone stood up against him. And mostly, its those who are looking for trouble who are unable to handle/fix the trouble they've caused. Respect the attitude mate 👊 Never let someone disrespect you, ever.

[@AlternicityBlogspot]

You could consider talking to a lawyer. You might end up with a pay out if your boss is apathetic to this. Good luck.

[@-scrombie-8139]

Great video , very helpful

[@SAM-dm5qg]

Thank You For Sharing 🇺🇸

[@jenpachi2408]

Very valuable video

[@Kevin-gg1bp]

Wow, good vid m8t. Enjoyed that.

[@atomict1974]

Those who cant handle my Friendship can enjoy my Enmity

[@SunshineSuperstar]

Utterly fantastic video mate! Bravo 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻!!!

[@roschhieee]

You have a brilliant mind. Do you plan on making and publishing a book? Especially one on self and mind improvement cause that would be awesome. :))

[@Forged88]

Currently working on one mate 👊

[@xdrazormon454]

We all need to be hated by someone it’s just how it works

[@oraliuga]

Listen to me budd, You have no enemies...no one has enemies...in this life, people are always wrong until proven something that, as an imperfect creature, we think is right. Your duty is to show everyone else that kindness exists, and that You My friend, are a representation of what being a person truly means.

[@Mike-uf6wf]

@tasry2463 I don’t get what you’re trying to say. You said people are always wrong until proven right? What if you having enemies has nothing to do with being right or wrong what if that person hates you for no reason or because of skin color what you like or what you believe in and you did nothing to that person personally and they want to bring harm to you or people you care about that sounds like a enemy to me.

[@Zillennial-g9k]

Okay so answer me this if you will: Why have ancestors ended up dead? I’ll hold…

[@milacolman]

@@Zillennial-g9k bc cancer or cardiac arrest who knows

[@PinPoint524]

This is so true in my life.. I like this

[@aprillove9947]

Thank you so much for this information 🙏

[@themakuachronicles]

Bravo this is superb

[@davidthouvenin5839]

ty I am watching this 100 times.

[@cyberneticbeast]

GREAT!

[@dont.ripfuller6587]

I don't really have enemies. There's no need. Challengers from time to time, sure. But as a focused point of concern in my life, all those that might be called "enemy", such as the World Economic Forum members, exist outside of my real life encounters, and become a reflection of some flawed aspect of me, thus, making my own worst enemy...myself....

[@mitrasarkar3087]

Your voice is so harmonic

[@pistaniche1217]

We can apply this to our inner enemies as well. We no longer need to ignore or judge them we can face them and get som real inner progress

[@Bxdarealest]

Great vid. I’m subbed

[@modernamericannomad]

This is why I stay strapped..never leave my home without my gun and knife

[@nikolaus6989]

Thanks for this

[@gregoryfuzi4745]

Don't G.A.F. about enemies anymore got lot's and going to make more.

[@lissettevalentine2707]

Thank you do t understand why they are like that ☺️💪💪💪💪🙏🙏🙏🥰

[@dutch_steel8923]

I’m done skipping ads for this channel.

[@derrickholzhey9685]

My enemies are a positive note for my life I just ignore them and laugh my ass off as they go against me that's my view towards people even family but I work hard and make good money and live life and pay my bills and look forward to my Future of life plus I thought I had a mental problem by how my parents treated me growing up but I've always been more of a rebel from when I was young till upon my adulthood but I learned more about myself and Life running the streets hanging out and meeting new walks of life then I ever learned going to school but I was convinced thinking to trust my parents by going on medication but the minute I tryed skipping a day without my medication the curtain fell and I was back in my strong outlook on people and life and I feel all bad intentions right at my feet and the enemies against me are puzzled

[@Mr_Yow]

Speaking the truth can both create and destroy enemies.

[@TrippyVision220]

Very nice

[@steveanderson508]

I dont have any and if i do they're fighting themselves 😂

[@MuerganoZFG]

Incredible! Thanks for this!

[@DavidNefelimSlayer]

An epitaph, which Sulla composed himself, was inscribed onto the tomb, reading, "No friend ever served me, and no enemy ever wronged me, whom I have not repaid in full." -Plutarch

[@ennardthefuntimepuppet6456]

Just like how people don't love my love for Yosuga no Sora or The Coffin of Andy and Leyley, People don't understand why love is love

[@Jupiterxice]

Enemies lets you know that you stood up for yourself and your stance is clear.

[@peaceonearth351]

I like to apologize when I'm wrong but I've rarely been apologized to when I was wronged.

[@garicrewsen1128]

If you're the one (the channel owner) who determines if a particular video can be saved to a private and locked playback list, i.e., I have one such playback list titled "therapeutic," would you please make this video (and realistically all your content like this) available to other KZbinrs for this purpose? My Google account is set to delete info on a regular basis making it impossible to reference videos like this under specific conditions and contexts, like after a shitty day and I want some mental/behavioral reinforcement, but it's been "X" number of days since viewing/liking respective video and any info residing in my account records has been deleted per my choice of autodeletion. Having it reside in a private and locked playback list is beneficial in the above regard to me while also protecting your copyrights. Plus I'll (almost) always have a link back to your channel. Thanks. Cheers!

[@Noahwillwalk]

Keep your friends close and your enemies closer to meeting God. My mom taught me that.

[@trialanderrorbym.f]

English is my 3 language, i dnt even know if that's the proper way to say it,or my second language, i got to stop n rewind,i find some key lessons in that video.

[@AshtonRogers-se1zj]

Funny that your thumbnail is a picture of Venom's face. As a lifelong enthusiast of reading comic books,I can tell you that a successful and entertaining superhero character or team is largely defined by the quality,depth,and impact of their villains. Batman,Spider-Man,and X-Men are three of the most successful IPs to ever come out of the medium,and they pretty much have the best and most memorable rogues galleries. In the specific order I mentioned them,even.

[@charlie-girl72]

I'm.almost destroyed by my own parents, fake friends and a former on law b i.t.c.h ... once you've learned you lack patience with people, I learned the hard way though. Don't keep them closer, that stupid quote go keep your enemies closer is NOT TRUE. Just avoid those and make your life new. Once you're out the picture and NO reaction. Masked them crazy inside, they lost control. The NPR contact no reaction will let them in deep grief for the rest of their sad lives. Be wise never look back

[@hanchiman]

My philosophy is that there is always unpleasant assholes who dislike everyone and prefer being an asshole for no apparent reason and when they are being seen as an "enemy" by you, they act all surprised and play victim why you are against them when they become label as an enemy is all their own fault to be an asshole to you.

[@davetheknave666]

you're friends and family aint gonna help you survive n conquer..no no its the peeps y as gotta keep one eye peeledf ferr!

[@j.wilmararcila4150]

Thanks 🤍🙏

[@georgepalmer5497]

If it hadn't been for the Punic Wars, Rome never would have become the empire it was. ... The development of antibiotics was spurred by World War II, but 60 - 70 million people died in that conflict. The price of the kind of progress that comes from war is high. Capitalism is based on competition, and a lot of good things have come from that, but I think Edison would have invented the light bulb under any circumstances.

[@marsoblivi0n945]

The problem today is everyone thinks they’re right and the good guys. While all remaining to be brainwashed sheeple. Never worried or seeing real problems.

[@orlando8825]

The worst ones, are the family 😢

[@NotOfThisEarth9]

WORD

[@whitesugarsweetchristine1023]

Sometimes enemies and hatred sound like a sore excuse to waste time. When there is nothing better to go, it's easy to hate and make something up.

[@YoFernando2000]

I got a lot of enemys but i don't hight from them some of them know were to find me