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[@jordanglasper1064]

I feel you, never engage with them for a relationship, that's just what every girl I ever knew labeled me all but one. I'm glad I'm a good man, I just stay to myself, there's too many women that are about a use. I'm not sweatin, or worried about em, just workin on my monetary value. I know my time will come.

[@underrated7725]

Jordan Glasper Amen brother

[@marquezradcliff5349]

You're one of the only few people who tell it like it is. Most people sugarcoat it, but great video keep up the good work.

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@FGAlele]

'Men Can Not Put Themselves in a Category or Willingly choose to'.' Hit The Nail on the Head with that Statement regarding this Topic.

[@RomWills]

Thanks.

[@alvinhollingeriii2562]

If there's one thing I'm not holding My breath on, it's that the majority of women will actually listen to well meaning men and logically shift their ideas towards the men that would be better for them. The General Female Ego about who she is, what she brings to a relationship, and what she feels she deserves is at an all time high . There's Minimal responsibility on her part , because there's minimal consequences for her choice , and she is more comfortable with the emotional drama of dealing with less refined men, which creates a twisted sense of moral superiority for them. There's safety measures for too many bad choices , and downright incentives for poor behavior , especially around having children in these situations. Its gotten to the point that men as a group can only really talk amongst themselves and develop a code. The women have to feel that code and be forced to react to it .

[@RomWills]

On point.

[@elitesuperbrand]

Alvin Hollinger III facts

[@roneymcintyrejr9714]

Experiencing this now. She refuses to admit she just want drama and toxicity.

[@houstonlivinjarettokungbow2402]

After listening and watching your videos. I look at relationship different and people. I am a real observer so i cant help but observe relationships and people. So Ill analyze and try to watch people energy, body language and more. I don't even trip on how woman chooses men, now I know its deeper than what it looks. your videos and books really borden my scope. I enjoy studying human behavior and psychology btw.

[@RomWills]

My main mission is to change a man's perception of the game.

[@DmarquettePainter]

I’m a nice guy who developed enough of a mouthpiece and acting skills to become a masked gamesman lol. The first few women I was intimate with were all black women but from different backgrounds and countries. One thing they all appreciated was good conversation with just enough sexual tension thrown in the convo to get the gears going. I’m a true introvert; a soft spoken kind of guy. but I’m thoughtful..so when it’s time to talk, ideas flow, convo flows, and if the attraction is there I up the flirtation, read her response, and it’s go time. I have a good opening game and can Mack my way into the sex when things go well but the longer the relationship drags out, the more my nice guy qualities appear and jeopardize the relationship.

[@RomWills]

Keep developing and you won't need the mask.

[@health5227]

DmarquettePainter hit the gym, develop style, focus on getting money and basic resources and tweak your personality and game and you'll thank your self

[@TheImplerazure]

This knowledge and wisdom you have shared is truly priceless. Your book, "Nice Guys and Players" is awesome and I thank you for telling the truth that I always suspected was the case.

[@RomWills]

Thank you. Most men have seen this. Now we are starting to talk to each other and share info.

[@Waltjoh100]

Finally found the infamous video that breaks down non select select

[@MoveInSilence23]

This is gold. Esp on the nice guys. It's true. Nice guys actually care about women in the esoteric way. Sistas truly shoot themselves in the foot... all because of LMS (looks, money and status). They miss out big time on the love they SAY they want because of this reality. I started out as the classic nice guy. I quit caring. So I went across the color line. I still demand from the rip that I come first. They can't/won't do it... they get forgotten quick. You SHOULD do a ppv hangout on this if you haven't done it already.

[@RomWills]

I have to look into a ppv hangout.

[@erictbrown1]

Great video and that was one of the reasons a lot of men went MGTOW because of this. I myself learn to stop being so nice and started trying to get after more woman I got a lot of no's but I do get a few yes's . You do have to change to make your self better and I am loving your book nice guys and players. And you never get rejected if you never try I almost gave up on dating and went MGTOW. But got tired of being alone and a little bitter I worked on me like crazy I am getting a few dates here and there now but I have the guts to go to a woman and talk to her and get her number I would rather get a no and be too scared to ask.

[@RomWills]

Thank you. Yes the best thing is to work on yourself. Not just for women but for a happy life.

[@BGSIBMOR]

Grabbing my pen and paper...

[@RomWills]

You've seen the same things from a different angle.

[@BGSIBMOR]

Rom Wills True. Many times. I learned that women had clay feet long ago ...lol

[@RomWills]

True...

[@jordanglasper1064]

When I heard the top tier option, and you went down the list, I was saying to myself please don't say nice guy please don't say nice guy please don't say nice guy. When you said it I lol so hard and said got dang it they call me Mr. Nice guy.. Smh

[@RomWills]

Leave those women calling you Mr. Nice Guy alone. Only check for the ones calling you Mr. Goodbar.

[@busyrand]

This will be required study material for my children when they come of age for the truth of the world. Thank you Sir.

[@martywilliams8927]

Very good points brother. So, while we can agree black women's mating selections are based on a narrow set of physical defining characteristics - which, in and of itself isn't a problem - the issue is when those same women lack the same "hotness" factor they themselves seek in a man, despite their degrees and cushy corporate jobs. Black women largely lack the ability to successfully compete on an open dating market, and are reduced to browbeating, cajoling and otherwise shaming those "good guys" who wouldn't otherwise be attracted to them. This is the root of most black female relationship frustration.

[@RomWills]

Very astute observation. I agree with you. The issue with many sistas is not a shortage of "good" men but the reality that they cannot attract the top tier men. It's actually an issue that extends to other races in American culture as well though not to the same extent. I'll be talking about the search for the perfect man by women in my next video.

[@KhemistryIBMOR]

Good video as usual. As you know I am very familiar with your work. Of course the four types of men are not absolute. I started off as a nice guy, but now I don't know which category I fall into, perhaps a little of all 4 now. These days I am pretty much a disciple of the late Patrice O'Neal's philosophy.

[@RomWills]

Thanks.

[@glennjohnson6897]

Great video as always Rom

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@IWantMyVisionBack]

On the external I guess I would fit the goodbar guy. Pretty boy, good looking, naturally muscular and cut body type. But on the inside I'm a nice guy. I've never lied to, manipulated or played women for anything let alone sex. I've been friendzoned twice lol but I said no thanks to both women and kept it moving. I need to become more sexually aggressive, I think this is what put me in those situations. On the outside these women find my physically attractive, but the energy is of a nice guy. I'm not no simp and I respect and value myself and my self-worth though. I have had many women, especially older women since I was 15 try and come on to me but I wasn't having it. Especially since most if not all had families or partners.

[@RomWills]

Interesting dynamic. I've talked to quite a few men like yourself. They get the attention but are really stand up guys trying to do the right thing. They always complained about women being too aggressive.

[@plt4019]

I hope you meet your ideal woman in life, not many men like you that are classy out there.

[@IWantMyVisionBack]

plt4019 Thank you, I really appreciate the love!

[@djmichaeltimex4511]

@ 13:30 i was like "ahhhh ok i knew i wasn't the only one thinking that" LOL. Once again great video Mr. Wills.

[@RomWills]

Thank you. I touched on that issue in my video, Black Male Relationship Pimps.

[@therealdelaneyislive7326]

Powerful message!

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@jusschillin]

If you at the club and you meet a woman there and you get the number and might possibly even leave the club with her all without copping her 1 drink, you know what category you fall in lol 👍🏾

[@baileyedward774]

Here’s my selection criteria for Black Women-two categories:(1) Assets and (2) Liabilities.

[@eteold]

To an extent, the same behavior is seen in all women. But many American Black women take it on a whole new level. Great video. Btw, can you do a video on weight loss? And how important it is to attracting women?

[@RomWills]

I did one called, "The Body Game" kzbin.info/www/bejne/onSvqWt7hKuBjs0

[@eteold]

+Rom Wills I'll listen. Thank you and I'll look into your monthly program.

[@doncalypso]

Would the "Masked Men" be the brothas Obsidian refers to as "Masters of the Universe"?

[@RomWills]

Exactly! The "Mask" isn't a facade. It's simply what women see when they look at a man. The women are looking at the man's status, his clothing if it's high end, his car, where he lives, etc. His character is the last thing they are checking for. If most of those "Masters of the Universe" will lose their status the women will be gone as well. It's like when women say they are looking for a Doctor or Lawyer. The Doctor could be a drug user and the Lawyer could abusive but women will check for them because of their titles.

[@davidcollins5932]

Great video. I’m not ashamed to say that I’m nice guy.

[@deborahyisrael5258]

Excellent analysis! I was like WOW!! This guy REALLY knows women.. Can a "nice" guy be handsome with a nice body?

[@RomWills]

Yes there are handsome nice guys. Some men don't know what to do with their looks.

[@jabbaweezy]

6:39 wow I never knew that. I'm gonna look into it

[@doncalypso]

Excellent video!

[@RomWills]

Thanks bruh.

[@user-nb7ve6vt4y]

Rom knows, gained a lot bro.🧠📝🔒

[@Sage1821]

Well spoken bro.

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@_only_one_god_1]

The SHIT about PIRATES AND PITBULLS is DEAD HILARIOUS LMFAOOOOOOOO and that’s the DAAAAMN TRUUTH LMFAOOOOOOOO SMFH

[@TheCuttaz]

Rom these videos are just a synopsis to your books? where your books at?

[@RomWills]

Not really. My books are more focused on self-development for men. My videos are about whatever I'm thinking about at the moment. You can get check out my books at www.romwills.com.

[@TheCuttaz]

yo Rom will a white women appreciate a black man in the non select category...Mr. nice guy....I like being a nice guy I don't want to change. maybe, I should just change the women.

[@RomWills]

Depends on the woman. They follow the same criteria.

[@supadupa6891]

TheCuttaz white women arent all that simple to get either in my opinion. They maybe simpler in relationships but harder to get.

[@supadupa6891]

TheCuttaz but you always want to expand your horizons and selection of women. Expand and open up to white, brown, asian women too

[@supadupa6891]

TheCuttaz be real cautious of nonblack women who may tend to emulate black women- as in mannerisms and behavior, not in body type solely.

[@RomWills]

supa dupa Real talk.

[@carltoncorreia8309]

Well done.

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@assaa5069]

Good points

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@joefromdc]

Rom in ur opinion, why do woman not want to be held accountable for their selections

[@RomWills]

Check out my video, "Little Girls vs. Grown Women" kzbin.info/www/bejne/Y4KzkqFnlq5ghNE. Many women who are in that little girl phase will blame everyone else for the problems. They want to blame a man for getting them pregnant but not ask themselves why they choose the man. Indeed they probably chased the man to begin with.

[@joefromdc]

+Rom Wills , thanks for ur reply. i am the good guy but also possess a little bit of the other archetypes. i went to college in ohio, 8 woman to 1 man. lived in Italy for 5 yrs near Venice so my view on woman is slightly different. Rom honeslty i got more play with African American woman when i acted a dam fool compared to now when im open and honest. its been an amazing experience to say the least.

[@RomWills]

Other men have said the same thing.

[@NkrumahTure]

Brother, I'm loving your videos. Keep em' coming.

[@RomWills]

NkrumahTure Thanks bruh.

[@GamerGee]

5:45 yes looks matter most if not all the time with the sisters. Lol

[@RomWills]

Yep.

[@assaa5069]

True

[@dtharlem5801]

i wonder what category i fit into

[@RomWills]

Find some women who love you enough to be honest with you.

[@devohnmitchell]

Shit I'm just a regular nice guy..WTF..I got change that Shit for 2018 DOC...

[@RomWills]

Always evolve.

[@devohnmitchell]

Rom Wills Yes Sir

[@TheBsheep]

Brilliant! absolutely Brilliant!!..smh

[@inferno7156]

Classic video

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@neckofthewoods790]

I'm a brown skinned brotha. Black females have told me that I'm handsome a few times in my life, but I feel they put me in the non select category nonetheless. I know that I'm handsome but black women don't feel me. I'm not a games man, and I used to be a nice guy, but I'm no longer nice to sistas due to me being tired of running into a brick wall. I'm basically a handsome ex nice guy, with little pick up game and No Swag as a Black man. What do you think my problem is??

[@RomWills]

A lot of it depends on your body build. The main ingredient of a Mr. Goodbar type is an above average body build. A big chest and a smile goes a long way with Black women.

[@neckofthewoods790]

+Rom Wills I have to be honest with you. I'm mainly in shape with a more slim build. I've noticed that women in general, especially Black women like guys that are more muscular. I've started working out 2 years ago trying to add mass to my frame, it's hard but I've bulked up 10 to 15 pounds in 2 years. I'm noticing a lot more attention from all races of women since then.

[@neckofthewoods790]

With my finances, I make about about 30 grand a year, not a lot of money; but I'm a hard working brotha. I already know that Black women would prefer a man that makes at least 75 grand a year or more, six figures?? That's a godsend to them, more a ideal. Plus I'm not flashy, Ive noticed Black women tend to gravitate to flashy Individuals for some reason.

[@RomWills]

Women are more visual than people believe. A woman can have an orgasm from just looking at a man. If a woman's eyes dilate her cervix will contract which can cause an orgasm. That's why women say they will choose or reject a man within a few seconds of seeing him. Also if a woman is turned on sexually by a man he can be homeless and she will still have sex with him.

[@assaa5069]

Rom Wills truth

[@balance6016]

How do I purchase your books?

[@RomWills]

You can get them off of my website, www.romwills.com.

[@balance6016]

Rom Wills Thank you.

[@Felicia_Plans]

The truth!

[@Hannibal730]

22:00 i always say black women don't know how to use men anymore. And that's why a lot of brothers fail in life.

[@mauribush88]

You described me perfectly. lol.

[@RomWills]

Which category?

[@mauribush88]

Mr. Goodbar. :)

[@RomWills]

That's what's up. For real though, it's too easy. Fine ass women are trying to give it away. I'm trying to help men get there.

[@mauribush88]

Keep up with the good work Rom!

[@taronbrown8389]

TRUE

[@RomWills]

Seen.

[@Black-Mind]

Did you say Mr. Goodbars are usually light-complected? Oh my God, I'm laughing so hard, my wife is threatening to leave for waking her up! In my age group and younger, you can be light-skinned if something else compensates, but to look ambiguous is a guarantee you will be mistreated by sistas, and they'll brag about it, too.

[@RomWills]

I know who is getting what in the Black community. Many Black women are colorist regardless of what they say publicly.

[@Black-Mind]

@@RomWills, yes, they absolutely are colorist, but in both directions. They tend to dissuade each other from whichever colors and phenotypes they don't like, too, as you know, from your prior mentions of pre-selection.

[@earthsign28]

Nigga I ain’t never dressing up as no pirate. Arggg my ass😂😂😆✋🏽

[@RomWills]

You know somebody going to do it if Big Booty Branda says that's what she likes. LMAO!!!

[@ronibeziako]

Whats below the nice guy?

[@RomWills]

Nothing. "Nice Guy" is one big tent.

[@BGSIBMOR]

Invisible. True Forced Lonely

[@ronibeziako]

BGS IBMOR Instead of "Nice Guy", they would be "Scary Guy" or "Weird Guy"....

[@RomWills]

Shaking my head.

[@joelrobert4053]

The creep

[@eseibio]

I'm a games man

[@RomWills]

Okay since you know where you are you can work to upgrade.

[@eseibio]

Yes..sir....thanks for..all the good game your giving us...thanks sir

[@Kyofitnesscoaching]

lol so true!

[@RomWills]

Thanks.

[@heysissubscribe4763]

Everyone 'pre-selects' their mate, not just black women. ALL WOMEN. And guess what? MEN DO IT, TOO! It's innate. Attactiveness=Health/Vitality. Success=Stability/Security. It's absolutely egregious that you're trying to shame and blame black women for having standards. This whole attack on black women for profit and popularity is redundant and quite frankly a beta move. Here's a few tips: 1. Go find women that you think will like you for you. 2. If you can't find any women step your game up physically/financially/spiritually. 3. REAL men protect women not attack them.

[@RomWills]

BeautyBeholder, Standards? I've known HUNDREDS of women who get with no good men for no other reason than they look good. Yet the same men did not have good character. The same women will have children with these no good men and YET expect the men who DO have their stuff together financially/spiritually and even physically to take care of them AND their bastard children. Many of the non-select men actually have Stability/security which is why women check for them after the pretty boy dogged them out. Get the fuck out of here with that bullshit you're talking. REAL women take accountability for THEIR choices.

[@ennobleone]

BeautyBeholder don't try Uncle he provides real game. Logical too.

[@demetriusarmstrong5154]

@@RomWills facts