How Women Choose Men

Dear Men: Don't Chase Her....Let The Woman Choose You..
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Oshay Duke Jackson
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[@elroy3]

Biggest take away: Be the best version of yourself and see who pays attention.

[@naffs1069]

I liked a man who was not his best. I loved him just for who he is. But he still did not want me.

[@liancassius2361]

You prolly dont give a shit but does anybody know a tool to get back into an instagram account..? I somehow forgot the account password. I appreciate any tricks you can offer me.

[@rehakmate]

No one

[@jackmanslightpepper]

The psychology behind female attraction lies in a woman's emotions. Being female means a woman is emotionally grounded. A woman will gravitate towards whoever stimulates her emotionally, and there's no physical type that all women gravitate to. Take her through those emotional changes and you become more addictive to her than crack.

[@RomWills]

That's game.

[@extendedclips]

Facts 💯

[@ACruz-kq9di]

@Kleo the thugs or the drugs

[@mathulizagoba2103]

Bravo!

[@depy2762]

That's why women chase players, womanizers, and dogs because they know how to stimulate a woman emotions.

[@goobman1981]

I ignore women, and that burns them up when im at work. I deal with the public. I've seen women walk directly in my path just to get my attention. But on my job my bosses say dont approach women cause of sexual harrassment which happened to some guys. So they have to approach me.

[@robertmoore294]

It's call the ghost game

[@robertmoore294]

You pretend they don't exist

[@righteousmasculine]

That’s how you have to be but some men get ignoring women and being rude confused don’t be rude be polite but just don’t feed into their validation like most me. It’s a 1000 men chasing the woman you’re ignoring don’t be the 1001

[@dwcromartie9280]

This one of the secrets of the game. Women choose but most men think it's the other way around.

[@RomWills]

That's why many men get in trouble.

[@depy2762]

It's the biggest misconception because women want men to believe men choose so women can avoid accountability.

[@mauricehaye6483]

@@depy2762 great point

[@bradmiller7741]

Looking like a clown 🤡

[@larrybradley3809]

Women can be sneaky too. I asked my ex how she picked me out. She said she saw me and then proceeded to investigate asking anyone she knew what they knew about me. She even got in touch with some people I worked with. All this before we went on a date. All I saw was her saying hi and putting herself in my vicinity.

[@alvinhollingeriii2562]

The return of the REAL MAN. Excited to see this happening!!

[@imzak3563]

It's a beautiful thing when a woman is tryna seduce you... It's the best feeling in the game Rom.

[@reggiecoleman4627]

Yes the women does the choosing but that doesn't mean you have to choose her back she may be attracted to you I'm interested in you but you don't have to be with her that's the beauty of it and the thing is when you reject her she can't deal with it that's why they don't approach men they give you choose and signals and the majority of the time being insecure they do what they do.

[@ACruz-kq9di]

Women are the choosers. Briffaut's Law; "The female, not the male, determines all the conditions of the animal family. Where the female can derive no benefit from association with the male, no such association takes place." This varies for women depending on many different factors, but most important is how she is feeling during certain days of the month.

[@tbursee]

good info my brotha . And you're right . the woman choses the man , because she determines the outcome . That's also why I hold them 100% responsible for chosing the wrong one . I might add , women chose men , based on what's important to them. For the women raised in a nuclear family..... she places a value on character , integrity , discipline , honor and peace of mind , because that's what the nuclear family is based on . For the woman raised in that environment , her daddy is the minimum acceptable standard for a man . You learn your value system ( or lack there of ) at the dinner table. Raised outside the nuclear family , she wont put a value on character , integrity , honor or discipline. That's why she spreads her legs for men that don't have any. Her only criteria is that not only he not leave like my daddy did , but NOT BE ABLE TO LEAVE like my daddy did . So she solicits men that are socially handicap ( bad boys ) by evaluating them based on their weakness , instead of their strength. And just like someone who is physically handicapped , someone who is socially handicapped will always have to depend on her for something , and that's her leverage to keep him from jumping ship like their daddy did . But now do you see the dysfunction feminism ( strong independent black woman ) has created by destroying the nuclear family? This is part of the appeal that white women and women of other ethnicities have on successful black men . Its not so much a sexual fetish as it is the fact that they came from cultures where patriarchal authority is held in high regard and men are still respected.

[@RomWills]

Well said.

[@326ka8]

exactly.

[@mrtrelle1977]

TWB thats the truth..BAM😉

[@LGoromonzi]

Man, that's deep!! Kudos, brother...

[@hueyp5977]

TWB is the time of

[@Robert-gw4st]

Yes young men it's true...l found at the age of 52...kept wondering why l attracted only certain type's of women...now l choose who gets my attention...yes l had to admitt...it was controlling...fine but not pretty women..l let alot of women go because ...they where choosing me...my mistake...let them choose you but becarefull..its not going to be the one's you want...just remember they can play the good girl...untill the crazy comes out...deal with the drama now...not at 52 .

[@robertonditi7715]

Roll ,thank you for these kinds of fire chat conversations. They really filled i void that's been hollowing inside me.

[@francorodriguez160]

Rewatching this and maan I’m clueless when women choosing me that when I notice it’s hilarious. Stuffs just adding up in my head like damn that’s why she be doing that.

[@RomWills]

It takes practice.

[@chh340]

I wish i heard this at 23, not 28. What a video and masterclass of human *heterosexual* attraction between male/female. Been missing this all of my life

[@jorgepineda9634]

This channel deserves all the respect and then some.

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@extendedclips]

This is homework. Saved to my playlist “Powerful” Salute uncle Rom ✊🏽

[@RomWills]

THank you.

[@Soluchi-InfiniteCoCreatorGod]

Very well said.

[@chriswalls4277]

15:50 is the master key... on ALL levels!!!

[@RomWills]

That's what it all comes down to.

[@chriswalls4277]

Rom that 1 sentence changed my life. its so fkn deep i believe a man cld meditate on it his entire life and never find the bottom to that well of wisdom. It tackles the issue of manhood at its core. & Places women as simply a natural by product of being the best man a man can be. Nothing short of genius .

[@macc2061]

Man between you and Oshay...deadly venom..keep up the good work

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@kylereese4542]

Oshay brought me to this channel, then I come to find out I'm already been subbed. Lol

[@Engagenumberone]

I tell women that all the time. Either i'm watching Star Trek or i'm in the middle of a stock or option trade. Don't bother me ! btw. Oshay brought me here.

[@RomWills]

Welcome aboard. Star Trek and stocks. Both those things are more important than a woman talking about something her Uncle Henry did, or who her girlfriends are sleeping with.

[@kj3887]

There's so much game in this podcast, I had to come back to it and listen.

[@treece-oneel511]

lmao @ the "DAMN" principle...

[@RomWills]

Very useful principle.

[@joejones]

The only way men truly choose is when they have multiple quality candidates 👌🏿 Appreciate this vid brother

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@SuleyDina]

Or milliom dollar in bank account

[@roystongibbs7189]

Ahoy matey!!! Definitely had me laughing sir. Great video once again.

[@prometheuscall5759]

yeah I am finding that out

[@trunks2505]

OH SNAP!! I recently read this dude's book within the past 6 months. Now he has a youtube channel. Subscribed.

[@RomWills]

Thank you for the support. Honestly I'm just really getting into this youtube game. I had made some sporadic videos but then I noticed an increase in book sales.

[@trunks2505]

Rom Wills Alan Roger Currie mentioned your book in his book. I bought it. Good read.

[@RomWills]

-COSMIC WARRIOR- Thank you.

[@MKULTRA_Victim_]

I think I already understood this intuitively but it's good to hear someone vocalize the thoughts I've had

[@prometheuscall5759]

Good information, I been out the dating game for a couple of years. . . be starting back her in a few

[@RomWills]

It's a minefield out there bruh.

[@Slender-sj6gh]

Ur right I am 5-6 and my girl is 5-10 drop dead gorgeous

[@RomWills]

That's what's up. It's all about mindset at the end of the day.

[@MellowMusic1]

Crazy game. Much love and respect

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@grapeape5154]

i told one of my x's that no matter watt i said to her at tha end of tha day she chose me n wen she thought bout it she said i was right

[@RomWills]

Truth.

[@SuperRoGee]

I'm late, but Oshay brought me here as well.

[@cashflo41]

I always let the women(girls) choose me since a teenager and mean things happen when or if I ignore them... All the Seniors called me a pimp in HS... Lol, At the time, I had no idea why

[@RomWills]

You learned the game early.

[@19678897]

Hello Rom......it's truly inspirational and educating, listening to your outstanding commentary!.....looking forward to reading both of your books!.....I'm a 49 yr old , Mother of 2 awesome sons!......Retired Military.....OIF/OEF Iraq Combat Veteran!......Just wanted to give credit where it's due.....love your intelligence & Stellar Looks!...lmbo!......Tammy

[@RomWills]

Thank you. I'm honored by your compliments.

[@mrwoody121471]

Oshay suggested your site, good points...

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@qnorman7872]

Thanks for making these videos

[@sjoerdvermeijden]

Came back to this video, love it!

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@ms.bjackson1687]

most men are only out for looks n not what's inside the woman. u got some good points to a degree.

[@righteousmasculine]

Yep that’s our mistake we think a pretty face will go far. But if she can’t pray for you and don’t have your best interest at heart ❤️ you just got a mirror magnet 🧲

[@ContraereaSerba]

I don't understand the availabilty part. Why should i approach her if she hasn't given any signal?

[@RomWills]

You shouldn't unless she is a Dime. You only do it if you don't you'll see her again. You don't want to have any regrets.

[@trickywily2823]

Oshay Duke suggested your channel. .subed

[@RomWills]

Welcome aboard.

[@brionbraziel7968]

Chance or choice, are the main ingredients of selection, both have power...

[@donnelladams340]

Unc you speak the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth. Im trying to find the choosing signals and reading body language.

[@legendarywinner2355]

Found Oshay and You the same day. Downloading both your stuff

[@RD-uq6qk]

M. Wills Briffault is known for what is called Briffault's Law: The female, not the male, determines all the conditions of the animal family. Where the female can derive no benefit from association with the male, no such association takes place. - Robert Briffault,

[@RomWills]

Seen.

[@RD-uq6qk]

Rom Wills But in westernized society the big daddy government corrupted or hajack that natural dynamic between men and women. Or let said women hypergamy nature replace men by the welfare state .

[@nevonb2000]

Well I missed my damn moment with the one I wanted. Just to later find out overall she wasn't the woman I needed.

[@RomWills]

That's deep. Hindsight gives us that wisdom.

[@undertaker11ism]

Good point

[@GLERiko]

I was the guy in highscool who was friends with the top dogs 😆

[@Imakebeatsss]

lol when you where talking about if they like pirates they like pirates

[@alvinhollingeriii2562]

Fantastic!

[@isaacgodbolt9244]

you have a keen eye sight I subscribed to you don't let me down.

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@reggieeverett90]

Rom I'm 51. u preachin nigga. real talk. 23 min ish. clickin the fukkin bell

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@cashflo41]

I'm watching Star Trek... lol, if they clown you and some will don't be mad she not really into you...

[@RomWills]

I ain't miss any episodes.

[@grantjoh2931]

Would call your approach natural game.

[@rdalldmaster]

Great Game.

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@CharlesGilmore3]

I liked this video. Great work and on point!

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@DC-zs9ly]

this is 100% game

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@jay_howard_83_5]

You definitely put me on game with these videos than you sir!!

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@mr.hester5671]

good stuff

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@siry0ggdstinguishdgent.680]

What up...what up.. Bro. Rom

[@sarahrobinson8882]

Rom, very interesting topic especially coming from a man...who is very "real and authenic". Just a quick question, while reading some of the comments... I noticed that one of the gentleman stated that he was reading, a book about manipulation and mind control. I thought that was interesting because as of late, I have been reading about how and why men play mind games with women ~

[@RomWills]

Yeah unfortunately some men feel they need that to get women. My thing is that a man just needs to pay attention to the women who show an interest. In the cases where that isn't happening a man needs to be direct and honest with a woman.

[@manythoughtsreality7151]

Oshay brought me here too

[@RomWills]

Welcome aboard.

[@assaa5069]

Exactly

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@kj3887]

Oshay brought me here

[@RomWills]

Cool. Thanks for stopping by.

[@KNByam]

Same here.

[@ebaneezadarrk1897]

Women going to do what they want to do its all about the type of woman you come in contact with like my mother told me water seek its own level and the best thing is to find someone who compatible with you some woman like guys who aint shit because they aint shit some woman like guys who are about something because they about something so remember water seeks its own level

[@rollingtinfist]

💯 on the controlling woman. Just finished with one. Or rather she finished with me, because I wouldn't cede power to her. Luckily I had plenty of practice with controlling women growing up. Just like you said, it is usually better than average at first and even downright hot in the beginning. However they always eventually show their true colors. It worse when their an 8+ because they dine on thirsty men. If she says shit like, I own you, run!

[@Teddymwenda]

Ok so what do you think I'm in college sitting at the computers and I see one looking over once in awhile, what do I do ? Wait till she's leaving or just take it slow

[@RomWills]

Wait for the opening and then go for it.

[@bruseervan578]

TRUE

[@engineerin]

Jumped in my Time Machine to watch this video 😅

[@Joelitoo]

The "damn" rule i'll keep that in mind player ; )

[@RomWills]

I still use it. Keeps a man focused on quality women.

[@aManWhoNeverGivesUp]

20:06 I thought if a woman sends a man signals and he doesn't see it, she'd think he doesn't get any, or he's immature, and not want him anymore. Is that wrong? I hear that from a lot of other channels.

[@RomWills]

It depends. When women really want a man they will keep trying. This is particularly true if she sees him on a consistent basis.

[@vickgeneral7549]

Brother Wills, where could I pick up a copy of your book?

[@RomWills]

www.romwills.com

[@luulips]

I'd be watching Star Trek with you because I'm a Trekkie 😂

[@RomWills]

We would be chilling.

[@luulips]

Rom Wills Most definitely 😄

[@majorcyrus9969]

True uncle rom, but alot of men i know complains that when they finally approach a woman who selects them, then suddenly they rejects them, why?

[@RomWills]

The men did something to turn the woman off.

[@KurtisStryker2015]

OMG you are so Good my brother Thanks this I learned hahahaha your sense of humor I rock solid

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@KurtisStryker2015]

Rom Wills welcome bro

[@ONLYALEXISOMAR]

I used to work at this place I saw this woman I was attracted to we would look at each other during meetings and she'd laugh at anything I said but I always kept it cool one day I mentioned I like to box in my free time couple days later she told me about some boxing competition she knows about and she asked for my number so she could send the information (she never sent any information obviously just wanted my number) the days went on I decided to leave that job and had some business lingering that dealt with my father so obviously she took up the case and met with my father afterwards asked him if I still was boxing and she told him to tell me that she missed me mean while I barely spoke to her the entire time at the job I'm currently outta town and I'll pick that back up when I get home

[@KurtisStryker2015]

I had a woman do this to me before being in control

[@RomWills]

Seen.

[@astroud2011]

ole' head u outta pocket but u spot on tho!!! # jerzy boyz in the hillz

[@RomWills]

LOL! Thank bruh.

[@MackeyDeez]

I would be in some swashbuckler boots.

[@ceemee9461]

Rare to the see truth of the game on KZbin. There's a lot of bullshit being put out on here keep giving that gospel brother game recognize game believe that!

[@RomWills]

Thank you cee mee.

[@andretownsel2989]

Okay so let's say she chooses me but what if I don't choose a back then what.

[@RomWills]

That's the whole point. It's YOUR choice on what to do with her. YOU have the power.

[@42Keez]

oshay

[@unknowned3815]

Arrrr !!! hahahaha

[@bbw420latinajayvlogs9]

DAMN!! 😂🤣

[@joefromdc]

Rom, help me understand why being nice to woman at wrk makes u look bad. it comes off as if ur trying to talk to all of them

[@RomWills]

Some women just have egos like that. You're being courteous and the women think you want sex. Yet they'll think you have a problem if you don't say anything.

[@joefromdc]

just purchased ur book kindle version nice guys and players

[@RomWills]

Joseph Monroe Thanks for the support.

[@OshayDukeJackson]

Pastor I see you preaching these truths!!!! I got a part two podcast on you coming up!

[@RomWills]

Oshay Duke Jackson I'm just trying to be like you, Rev. Dr. O. Yo peeped that a female tried to question this knowledge on your video. Women who deny this don't want the game to end.

[@RAY-THE-WAY]

song in the begining?

[@RomWills]

"Ohm's Law" by Mia Miata.

[@RAY-THE-WAY]

Rom Wills thanks bro

[@andretownsel2989]

Okay Rom Wills Playboy Dre Day is back with another question. Okay So I already spoke on this super fine highly attractive spanish woman at my Job. Her name is Carla now I think she has put me in the selection category do to her giving me some strong eye contact my first day on the job. Now I've been working at my new job for approximately 2 weeks and I'm on a 90 probation for the job. Now everytime I see her she still gives me subtle eye contact and sometimes I can feel her looking at me even if I'm not looking at her. Now obviously I could go approach her and ask her out. But I don't think that would be a good idea since we both work at the same job. Cause I'm the type of guy that would take her out on one date and when she ask me if I'm going to call her later on I would lie and say "SURE BABE I'll give you call later on and then I never call her. My intuition is telling me if I go out with this girl and pull one of those corny stunts. She would make my job a living hell and then she might get me fire so what should I do get the number or just let it go.

[@RomWills]

You have to be careful about women on the job. Just keep things friendly and document your job interactions.

[@edwardgaines6561]

This also works at your job too! Say the boss wants to "give" you a promotion. (One that you didn't seek out.) You say no. Now, as soon as they start begging you to take it, you KNOW it's a shitty job. Cuz otherwise, they'd move onto the next cat. There'd be a line of applicants, right?! So I get what you're trying to say with desperate women...

[@deebeautiful84]

the in guy is still tall and darkskin lightskin guys have to look ultra sexy and thuggish or he'll geg called gay. darkskin guys and brownskin guys with dreds and tattoos are SUPER in and if you can grow a beard, you da man!!!! beards, swag, tattoo's, and dreds

[@RomWills]

There's actually some deeper aspects to what you wrote. I'll address it in an upcoming video.

[@deebeautiful84]

Rom Wills I will say black women, or women in general look for these exterior but superficial qualities as an extention of manhood. Some follow it up with substance others not so much

[@RomWills]

deebeautiful84 I know exactly what you are talking about.

[@angeleonce1]

I love how I will never fit that stereotype hahaha. I have my own steez can grow a beard but I attract ladies of other races. However, I have love for black women. How odd

[@gloriousjohnson9679]

Sibuna Het-Ra X: King, EVERYONE likes what they like. Just be who YOU are! Stay blessed!💋

[@briananthony4151]

I just now figured out WTF a discription box is.😭💀

[@RomWills]

Cool.

[@baconhigh3882]

I kinda disagree that women are the ones that choose who mates with who. cause. Actually men and women do the choosing because if a women is attracted to a men and she chooses him but he is not attracted to her then he didn’t choose her sow she can’t mate with him the same with women sow men and women do the chose who is select and who is not select of there is a girl and no dude want her then she is not select the same with women sow men and women decide who is select and who is not select I know these got nothing to do with these video but I do remember you saying that the women chooses who is select and who is not select what are your thoughts on that

[@RomWills]

I'm going to do a video to explain choice.

[@robertgrays8790]

♪♫Peace♫♪ :D

[@andretownsel2989]

I see the signals. But I just don't care honestly when a woman choose me I'm just going to pump and dump her in 3 months. and do you know why because that was my choice.

[@RomWills]

Do your thing fam.

[@robertmoore294]

So all I have to do is be me and women will chase me OK very well than.

[@RomWills]

Depends on how you carry and present yourself.

[@supersaturn956]

Dude does not know what he is talking about and is afraid of being rejected go check out Mr. Locario. (Locario Fan)

[@RomWills]

Do you mind explaining your comment.

[@supersaturn956]

I disagree with your perspective on cold approaching. Cold approaching is efficient and allows men to generate confidence in other avenues in their lives. Getting with women is all a numbers game. I remember working tons of hours and still approaching women on my breaks and getting with some of them by approaching them by getting to the point. I have had women of all races get surprised and excited with this kind of approach and say that they are not used to men being this bold and direct with them. Most women respond well to cold approaches, if you have the confidence and the directness to do it. I you are her physical time, it makes the interactions even greater. I remember approaching a business woman at a grocery store, and she was excited and walked up to me and smiled in my face with only an inch or so away in front of me. She was minding her business before then trying to get some eggs, before I approached and complimented her. Most women are not going to give you signals, even if they are REALLY interested in you. Some women who do give signals are trying to use you for attention and just want you to approach them, so that they can harshly reject you. Attention whores are the women to avoid. I do this by going mode one and flirt with them a lot of the times as soon as possible to avoid having women use my for attention by having me talk to them for 5 to 10 minutes over pointless crap. An effective approach takes less than 2 minutes and can be done anywhere. I have picked women up from Target, at their jobs, at other stores/shopping outlets, the street etc...in broad daylight. I could be going to the train station downtown, and there can be a couple of attractive women, and I can go up to them and flirt to find out which woman is into me like that. Rejection builds backbone and resiliency. Cold approaches are VERY good, and the more I have done them, the more I notice women can just pick up on my natural confidence with how I carry myself, even before they talk to me; my presence now turns on more and more women. Day game is great, because you don't have other guys really competing with you. I have wowed some hot women waiting in line at Starbucks, and the credit union, just ordinary places most men are too scared to make a direct approach.