How to Deal With Users and Low-Effort Men. What I'd Tell My Daughter!

[@ichomej3837]

I had a guy on a dating app actually say: "please reach out to me when you lower your standards" and I replied with a laugh, thinking it was a sarcastic joke comment and he's like "no, seriously". I just laughed more and said "how about instead you reach out when you level up".

[@somav8]

Aww, that was kind of you to ask him to reach out.

[@lt827]

"They don't see your worth as something to cherish, they see it as something to consume" Spot on!

[@Suessserat]

A partner, not a project...thanks for these words!

[@user-cg8if3eq7d]

If you arent a priority, you arent with the right person

[@patriciafernandez4024]

Well said!

[@jazzgal51]

For the first time in my life Brian, I am with a great man. And it is wonderful. Thank you for your help in reminding me what I waited so long for a good one.

[@elarisa10]

God bless you both!❤

[@colleennicholson8600]

Thank YOU!!! As a woman who is in her mid 40s I tell you what! I WISH I would have found this advice! I would have dated so differently! Either way, I appreciate your thoughtful and honest feedback! You sir are so awesome! You daughter would be a lucky girl to have a dad like you ❤

[@dianagentile7636]

ThankYouBrian 💕Just came across this… “Loneliness is dangerous. It’s addictive. Once you see how peaceful it is, you don’t want to deal with people.” Have A Blessed New Year 🥂🥳🥰

[@SarahMarie-j2n]

It's peaceful, yes absolutely, but at times it's also very lonely

[@catche85]

Very good advice. I wish we'd collectively raise the standards of love and companionship back up. I encounter many men all the time looking to use me and get something from me they are not entitled to. It's worth remembering it's not a reflection on me, they start the interaction with that intent, irrespective of the woman. The prevalence of "bad" men does leave you feeling like you are the common denominator. But when you meet good men, you see how different it is.

[@annasokolova2153]

My imaginary Daddy, you're freaking amazing.😂 With your pep talk You make me feel valued in the way I want to. So, I truly appreciate whatever you do, just because what you do gives me incredible moments of synchronicity & resonance, which are so unique in this Universe🙏🔥

[@ayanita761]

Thank you for the advice. I really like it when you say "imaginary daughter" 🥺😊

[@trudiatherton7112]

This was my favourite video, I feel strongly that people need to 'back' themselves, we need to build confidence and work on ourselves as a life long project, not try and fix others. I loved everything you said in this video, honestly, the people in the comments that dont think your imaginary daughter is awesome need to take a walk- somewhere else. Thank you for all your wisdom xx

[@Gobby-z3u]

Please make more of these. I really needed to hear this; especially today. You're amazing too

[@LadyCamilleE]

I always appreciate your kind advice. Some of us ladies need to be reminded or taught that we are the prize. We give so much to men who take us for granted.

[@ronniephilip1680]

Thank you daddy Brian!! You are the best daddy a girl could have, teaching those of us who never had a daddy in our lives.

[@JET1969]

Thank you for this encouragement! I am 55 years old, my ex abandoned me 5 years ago for another woman and I finally feel ready to find someone to spend the rest of my life with… but at my age, it feels hopeless. I am prayerful that God has someone for me. 🙏🏼

[@mountainmama9209]

Having been raised by a narcissistic mother who was always in competition with me, I was taught to believe I had no value, whatsoever. So when my then boyfriend told me I took myself too seriously (when I was considering ending the relationship for its lack of forward movement), I didn‘t run away as fast as my legs could carry me. Oh, about my legs: I was a tall, thin, pretty woman with a dress size of 4. On a day at the beach, he commented that my thighs were just a little bit too rounded. Unbelievable. Once again, I didn‘t leave him. Mommy Dearest thought me that no one would ever love me and that nobody wanted me, yet I never failed to attract men (most.y narcissistic types). Even now, decades later, I have no problem attracting men, but the young woman inside still hears her voice putting me down.

[@renavieira7923]

Number 5 😂 we girls must listen again

[@soyearold]

You are amazing, I am size 8 and my sister is size 12 and we can only dream to be available to buy clothes in your sizem" 4"

[@Laura-cx7jj]

Jealous woman are the WORST!!!! Even if they are our own mothers😮💓💓💓

[@ireefree2024]

I hope you have done some therapy. Some people like your mother doesn't deserve children at all. You're perfect and your only issue is to let the wrong people into your life but that's possible to change. All the best ❤️

[@saadiawasim6323]

It's a wonderful n helpful topic ... I always appreciate your efforts . Thanks for being a big support . Every time you say" No " to a wrong person you give importance to yourself is magical

[@janine8933]

A great video. A person should never be a project, if you're looking for a project go to Michael's and select one.

[@pearlluber5849]

Thank you Brian, It would have been so nice to have utube 30 years ago

[@PatODonnell-gk9sx]

You are dropping gems! Thank you for your insights... I wish all you ladies lots of love and prosperity in 2025!🎉

[@vcastro7990]

Great message, it's wonderful when people lift each other up especially strangers who have nothing to gain by helping you except knowing life is better for you. What a gift in life !!!

[@Amysbiblereads]

I’ve been subbed to you since before I met my husband! I still watch your videos ❤

[@tanikae966]

Love this💕

[@meloniekilpatrick7324]

Brian, thank you from the depth of my being for this video & many others. As I replay this & memorize it & analyze the words, I believe it will change my life for the better. What a profound impact you are having in my life & likely countless others! I grew up without a dad, and what family I had was loving but also judge mental, critical, abusive, neglectful, ignorant of so many things. I wish you had been in my life when I was dating. I have a husband who is a good, but broken man, like so many. He settles for less in life due to his low self esteem. So have I. But, as long as I draw breath, there is time & room for improvement. Marching on! Thank you so very much for posting this nugget full of wisdom!

[@ZomCage]

Thank you for making videos like these. It's been a month since I broke up with my best friend, someone who I thought was my forever partner, and my feelings and loneliness come and go like waves. Your videos are truly valuable!

[@Greenplanet949]

If I had heard even a fraction of this when I was a girl, I would be in a completely different life.

[@B-londoner]

My father couldn't tell me but I really needed to hear all this. Thank you 🥲

[@Sunny.Amy44]

Thank you for another amazing video. I Love the content and format... it's speaking to the "young girl" in me who never heard those encouraging, loving and protective words earlier in life. Thankful that you are dedicating some of your time to share your knowledge on healthy relationships with us all ❤

[@vylia]

Love to see your monthly videos, Brian.

[@lynneweatherly9007]

Thank you, as always, for the advice/pep talk!!

[@sandramcleod9723]

Thank you❤ broke it off with a toxic man. Learned alot and am working on myself and attracting not chasing

[@vanessahello9888]

Brian you are amazing!!! thank you for these wise words

[@AnnelizeViljoen-uq7ri]

Wow I needed this today....these low value men will drain the you ...

[@emonyt]

I never see any channels that teach men how to treat women. All I see is how women should deal with all the bad men..

[@tam_to_evolve]

Love all of these points and especially the one on being lonely and how we can use this time to grow and do things we wouldn't necessarily do with a partner. I love this!

[@humansacademylife]

Thank you Brian! Loved this video ❤ Please, keep doing this format, I love it! Sometimes we need someone who comes and tells us these messages as raw as you did. Friends can help too, but sometimes they don't have the understanding nor the abilities to be this clear and direct.

[@saadiawasim6323]

Without a doubt, I'll wait more on this topic . Thanks once again

[@ellenmykkanen3865]

Thank you - this was exactly what I needed to hear today and probably many more times in the future. I have settled for men who put in minimal effort or who need "fixing" too many times

[@marwaabdelkader2409]

Thanks Brian for everything !

[@christinewakim4172]

Amazing video, Brian! I’ve shared many of the same ideals with my own daughter. She’s a prize, I’m a prize, we’re all prizes! ❤

[@lottie563]

It is always worth to check one's own standards, not to lower them but to see if they truly represent you and your values.

[@GillianAnnBlower]

My aha moment. Sad but enlightened. At last. I understand. I am enough. That's enough for me. Thank you. I'm not an option or a nanny.

[@ewalichorowicz4614]

Brian, you give excellent advice! I so like your sense of humor! I said that once before and I am going to say it again: I consider you an Expert in this area. Thank you so much for helping women find the best partners🙏❤😊

[@rebeccacooper287]

I cannot love this enough!!!! Thank you! ❤

[@pamelamashaba4515]

Thank you Sir Knox🎉

[@eileenchang2173]

Great advice for any relationship! ❤️🇨🇦

[@axentelivia]

great one! thank you!

[@nextgenkid1]

Thank you brother for your advice and your books are very informative.. listening to you Is encouraging

[@leslieg4006]

Thank you for this sweet reminder. I need this video today. ❤️ Yes more of these would be so appreciated. You Sir and your videos are amazing too 😊

[@doloresvillagomez6465]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts, they mean a lot 🥰

[@ozlem3293]

I really needed this pep talk! Perfect timing! Thank You!

[@shassani555]

This is a beautiful message. Thank you.

[@saskiafaelens]

I hope you get more of those kinds of comments. You're beaming like crazy. Full with passion, fire, motivation and determination. I absolutely love the energy of this one. Thank you 💛🙏

[@elianarodriguez3377]

Thank you Brian for such an insightful video! Love this format, by the way ✨

[@ljroberts3739]

Thank you, Brian ❤ Happy Healthy New Year 🎉🎉🎉

[@jbon7556]

😌 thank u. U are great to Brian

[@tanikae966]

I love your videos, i love your humour, you always manage to make me giggle. I will always stay until the end🥰. I appreciate how you always reinforce standards are a great thing to have. Cant wait for you to hit 1 million subs❤

[@katemizu]

Thank you, Brian. This advice should be taught to every girl when they are kids. Thank you Brain for reminding us something that we almost forget ❤

[@gret9815]

Yes we want more of this! You have good advices!

[@scarlettfrancesca]

Thank you! I greatly appreciate you and these thoughts. I'm definitely interested in more of this topic and subject ❤

[@flyingkikidesigns]

Awesome reminder thank you so much❤

[@kellyburkin500]

Such a great video for me at the moment Thank you Brian 🙏

[@s.h.3622]

I loved this message so much! I will be listening to it on repeat❤

[@natalie8439]

This is very good advice that I wish my dad gave to me too

[@gabrielaxyz9577]

I totally agree. With each and every idea od this video. Thank you.

[@christellesjodin3312]

Thank you, This was so good to watch for me right now! You are great...

[@jackimoon8284]

This one is extra sweet Brian. Thank you 🫶

[@thekirst8359]

Please tell all your children how amazing they are. If it gives them a big head, life will knock it out of them. Then they will deal with the shock by remembering that you said they were amazing.

[@ritaguillen1767]

Thank you Brian for your wisdom.. you’re freakin amazing! Luv your videos

[@IleanaFilipescuLove]

Beautiful! 😊 thank you Brian

[@anitchlikadze3451]

Happy New Year🎄❤️🌟

[@ЛюдаЛ-ж6л]

Thank you! I really appreciate your videos, especially series for imaginary daughter; would be so glad to see more of such :)

[@donnajames6067]

Thank you so much Brian! I really needed to hear this today ❤️ I would love more like this. I really appreciate what you do xx😘

[@cinderling5472]

Thank You Geert🥹🥹🥹🙏🙏🙏💕i needed this!!!

[@TameraReynoldson]

Brilliant video! Thank you Brian 😊

[@amy6174]

Thank you for the advice from this video, thank you for me and thank in the name of my daughter

[@bobbiemichaelsNyc86]

This is such a helpful video. You have incredible insight!

[@DLee756]

Thank you very much for this video, Brian.😊 I love every one of them. You’re very insightful, and your information is valuable. Yes, I would like more videos, such as this one. Thank you!😊 💓

[@jerilynnschisser516]

More of this :) thanks Brian, I love your videos ❣️

[@angelaschnettler5013]

Thank you 😊 ... your videos are always ❕️amazing, but this one especially so 😊

[@SG-xw8js]

wow ❤...thanks for this video...i really needed it ..

[@clairexxx0405]

Thank you Brian (Geert) I think anyone who is you're imaginary daughter/Sister/grandmother is very blessed ... I think to be you're imaginary sister is very good for my mental health and soul 🤗🙌💯 Thank you for these Beautiful insights sadly those emotional vampires really consumed me as did the violent one, I need to listen to you're wise words as I'm always feeling it is my job to fix those in my life and after watching you're videos for a very long time I know to trust you're advise and words. You always make such sense Thank you. Attract instead of chase and yes I have been that doormat that made me feel terrible & crapity, so to try to feel I'm worthy is good so I'll try my Frickin Amazing imaginary Brother. Yes please I'd love more of these format videos.... Thank you for reading to the end I love it when yoh do that! 😁🙌💯

[@ritagreenberg5236]

Yes please more like this!

[@IBreakTheNews]

Setting the tone for 2025! 🎆Thank you! You are amazing too! ☺

[@sonasharma5109]

you and your videos are amazing Brian, thank you

[@cherylrussell1542]

Love this. Needed to hear this 🙌🏼🫶🏼❤

[@user-do8nw5br7m]

Thank you ❤

[@ldtzone]

More empowering videos? YES!!!!!

[@elarisa10]

God! The men I meet are just talking about themselves and when you say something about you they pretend not to hear a word .... I am just sick of blocking.

[@jessicagrevis579]

Yes, more please!!! Thank you 😊

[@katjasaukkonen1874]

Fantastic video Brian, thanks :)

[@paularodrigues9188]

Great advice for any relationship

[@SuzyLemke]

Ok.. its official.. I want Brian Nox to be my next husband... lol.. U have no idea the uncanny timing of this video. Its like it was God sent to me to hear.. right now. Thank u is an understatement. I so needed to hear this pep talk. Right now I feel like Mr. Brian Nox is the only good man out there.. lol.. I am hoping that perhaps there are at least 2 others out there like him as well. How many other ladies feel as I do?. If we could only clone this Mr. Brian Nox so we could get a kind and normal soul instead of all of these manipulative , time waster men out there.. the world would be a better place.

[@leonita2252]

Brian is not genius, but a life safer ❤, Thank you Brian 🙌

[@BettiePapier]

Spot on my brother

[@LindaAllison-b6r]

What you say makes so much sense

[@maggierockstar1018]

This video is amazing. Thank you❤

[@flowerbabyliz]

I wish it was ur voice reading the books on audible. I like the way u speak lol

[@FaceToFaceWithYolanda]

I love this! Thank you!

[@andreatorluemke4982]

No you must tell girls wonderful things. They must believe they are amazing. They literally make and raise all the humans. That’s pretty amazing alone❤

[@princessmoon5595]

Amazing video !! 🫶🏻