The Cooperation Paradigm: How to Get People to Listen & Cooperate | Janine Driver | TEDxWilmington

[@thinkoutsidetherock]

you are an amazing speaker. I can't believe I never heard you before - April 5, 2020 is the day I discovered Janine Driver. This is the fifth of your videos I have watched and you leave me in tears, cheers, and YES! I love your passion and your sensitivity.

[@MindsetMom]

Same here. First time seeing her. I'm addicted. Watching Dec 2020.

[@denasellsKC]

Ikr I just found her an hour ago. This is my 3rd video that I've found of hers. She is an excellent teacher and speaker.

[@annaayoub551]

Found her yesterday. Made me cry in every video. What an amazing woman!

[@alabamajenny8751]

I wish I had a TED talk with Janine every single day. I am just in awe of her relatability. She was created to lead. Thank you Janine. You are the real MVP!

[@TIANAPAUL-h8d]

Janine words could not express my gratitude for your infinite wisdom, your insight to uplift others and your kindness to make a difference in the lives of all of us. This platform gives me so much hope!

[@dbroenen]

Janine, the Like button is not good enough for this talk. I wish there was a LOVE button to click for you!

[@MDzVQPln]

agree!.....SO much!

[@marisagallegos1738]

I completely agree

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[@babybloo1818]

Janine is incredible! She's one of the best speakers I've ever seen! Thank you so much for this video!

[@QCDoggies]

Janine's techniques are incredible, I'm watching all of them! Now I want to check out her books.

[@alabamajenny8751]

Ive actually spoken on phone with Jim Kavanaugh when I worked at our local police dept in Hoover AL. He is a superhero. But then, so are you Janine!

[@nourhanahhamdy1425]

i have just seen the body language video in 2019 n now i am tracing the rest of ur series without even noticing their topics !! Janine Driver is my new incredible name on my idols list !

[@leah387]

Same. We just want MORE, Janine!!!

[@leah387]

Even in 2022

[@jocelynstewart1186]

thank you for being my teacher. a blessing to us all.......

[@suneelewitzky6797]

A mama in tears over here. Thank you for this and for sharing your stories. I am going to try this with my kiddos.

[@kellybarnes9434]

BEAUTIFUL! Thank you, Ms. Driver! I've only just "found" you today and am already A HUGE fan! Thanks so much!

[@debfebruary]

Janine, you have a wonderful gift. You've taught us so much and I'm so grateful to you. Your emotion is your truth about what is most important. Thank you.

[@lisafeck1537]

I really like Janine Driver. I've watched 3 of her Ted talks, all good.

[@drummermomcjs]

Thank you Janine for sharing this. Having watched several Ted talks featuring you, I must say that I appreciate this one the most. All of your talks are great, and useful, but as a mother I appreciate this one the most. I want to speak words that bring life to people, not fear, anger and sadness. I am eager to put the wisdom that you shared in this video to use with the people around me and no longer assign traits that I abhor but rather assign traits that build them up. Once again thank you for sharing.

[@nspector]

Holy cow, Janine. I don't know if you look at these comments, since this isn't on your channel, but, damn, I'm glad I found you. Thank you, thank you, thank you.

[@prepperjonpnw6482]

She has her own channel? How do I find it?

[@artoffthegrit]

Janine, I am obsessed with your videos! You deliver messages that are truly life changing, wise, authentic, and with just the right amount of humor to make it all fun to learn! What a gift to the world you are. Thank you immensely.

[@miachevaisav2285]

One of, if not the best, talks I've ever heard.

[@TheRealJanineDriver]

Thank you for your kindness Mia! You rock!

[@chcamerica22]

Beautiful presentation, Janine, you are a smart intuitive woman and I thank you for sharing your wisdom. The answer to your unasked question is YES, you prevented many of us from going down a destructive path by showing us how to make intelligent choices. Job well done.

[@emiliana1767]

How can you grip me emotionally within a second janine?! I instantly cried when you did, i felt your regret so much. And learned A LOT! thank you so much dear 🙏

[@miachevaisav2285]

Ditto

[@dudelmicha]

Yes, me too. It just triggered me instantly, burst in tears, made me searching in the comments for likewise people. I believe in you as a great mom!

[@ItsaShortLyfe]

Jeanne Driver is a powerhouse. She provides people with the tools needed to navigate tough situations. Though I cannot promise you that you will WIN every time. I CAN PROMISE that you will be a better version of yourself. More aware, stronger, faster version of whoever you were before Jeanne blessed you!

[@RudeBwoyKaban]

your passion is captivating ✓ I'm cooperative 100% Love & Gratitude Thank you 🕉️

[@gnuman1841]

This talk, and Janine herself, is an amazing lesson/speaker and an amazing paradigm/communicator to learn from.

[@michelleglowala2360]

Janine. You are a phenomenal leader and teacher. I just discovered your talks and I will look to purchase your books. Amazing.

[@STORYTIMEWITHGRANNYK2024]

I listen to this two times it is one of the best beaches you gave. Thank you so much for opening my eyes this

[@kathleenreyes4345]

Just beautiful Janine! Thank you for this talk!!

[@mike-yp1uk]

I'm a big fan of Janine and she detects lies but she definitely speaks the truth. This content is so true

[@leahdamron2176]

Damn it, I'm sick of this lady making me cry. The best ted talk EVER!

[@annajeanblackburn240]

I just found this yesterday and again right now...and am already awed. Do you happen to know What the T.E.D. stands for ?

[@barbievallot9146]

Best Ted Talk Ever! Thank You!

[@musicfanmic]

Beautiful Brilliant Bold. Thank you Janine! Thank you so much!

[@TheRealJanineDriver]

Thanks for the love Michael! You rock! xo, Janine

[@ozdigg9254]

Brilliant, thank you. Allow What and How, Say Bye to Why. Assign a positive trait to them. The real life situations you illustrate your talk with are very helpful. Thank you for your emotional honesty, Janine. All peace and strength to you. ❤ 🌹🌹🌹

[@adefay7813]

TED talks has made a significant impact in my life. I can't express my gratitude for the things I've learnt . Thank you so much.

[@dorothybailey1789]

Thank you for your talks Janine. You are a very inspiring speaker

[@theresagarcia6699]

God bless you Janine I appreciate all you share with us 💕

[@rememberyj]

so i have of course watched this again because its so awesome and i need repetition to integrate...and i had a thought. Angus didnt think you were mean on thanksgiving. which is beautiful. it also makes me think about how when we talk negatively to our kids they absorb it so easily they dont even remember it as trauma or abuse. omg big ah ha. we teach out kids what negative comments about them to accept as normal and believe.. :-( yikes thats huge. thanks SOOOO much for shifting my paradygm.

[@digitalheartistry8018]

Janine is Brilliant.

[@carolinepuno8788]

You're darn good, Janine! Your mundane exchanges with your son are loaded with lessons to learn from a mom like me. Thank you.

[@staciwalters2065]

I was in the audience that day and Janine is amazing! You will laugh, cry and learn so much from her talks!

[@asabove_sobelow_333]

What a Great talk. Thank you for your transparency & love.

[@DrSantiagoHolyday]

unbelievable! Amazing talk! I teared up and I never cry!

[@MRS.SammeK]

Beyond wisdom. Parents are not perfect and love always matters. You are doing amazing. Doing it through anxiety. I did it the sand way. Thank you for pointing it out. These boys are amazing! They aren’t the norm! Sounds like my boy!

[@barbierimando8133]

thank you for sharing this video...i needed this...i just said things to my son this morning that I totally regret right now..i have to make it up to him when I will pick him up from school this afternoon keeping in mind what Janine said...

[@rememberyj]

holy shite!! this is incredible. i cant thank you enought for sharing this. this should be taught to all new parents. should be a requirement. thanks you so much.

[@ClearlyHinze]

Wow! You are an amazing speaker. I was moved and gained so much wisdom at the same time. Thank you so much for sharing yourself and what you know. It's helping me so much.

[@florakoutouzakis9615]

I LOVE hearing you!

[@toniques7]

She’s awesome! What she says is very practical and easy to use.

[@pieterlast4864]

Wow Wow. You brought tears to my eyes. LOVE you. AWESOME job.

[@hydro58]

Thank you! This is a great life lesson. Thanks for your time and effort.

[@vickydittfield9822]

Thank you for inspiring me ! Phenomenal is the way to describe your gifts. I want to view everything you have written and spoken !I have a Solike Angus, too! He is my favorite of the gifts of life !

[@CrystalNibarger]

Someone in my life needs to watch this.

[@greatape2522]

Incredible! That really opened my eyes, thank you so much.

[@cintremblay9795]

Thank you, you have no idea what you just unlocked for me. xxx

[@yeame1033]

so relatable and easy to understand, you make us live your moments. Thank you for sharing,you are truly inspirational!

[@wondafaith8621]

Love your realness! Thank you.

[@shaniroga]

I Love, Love, Listening to this Lovely Woman!

[@TheRealJanineDriver]

THANK YOU SHARON!!!!!!! YOU ROCK! XO, JANINE

[@prepperjonpnw6482]

Another awesome video! This is the third video of yours I’ve watched all in a row lol Yes I’m about to search for more of your videos lol Cheers

[@danareed2729]

I absolutely loved your talk.

[@jnina247]

This is phenomenal!

[@chybrennafitch-minton7291]

Very good lesson!

[@2muchtalk173]

Great Talk !! Love you Janine !!

[@scootydub]

This was fantastic!

[@latinkeys1]

Incredibly awesome

[@kathywinkler9802]

Well done!! ........... I will remember this.......

[@jenniferhizzy6591]

I love this lady

[@spbtch]

I LOVE this woman!!!

[@digitalheartistry8018]

Thank you.

[@ouafieddinenaciri3783]

Nice and Great Talk .. Thank you so much Janine

[@writerinfact1768]

Just wow! Thank you.

[@innerpeaceproject]

Wow! Awesome presentation and valuable information.

[@yavrum22]

Thank you 🙏

[@ChavaMalka-z8k]

❤❤ amazing speaker- useful for business or home ❤

[@JacquelynnFaye]

I needed this. 😭❤❤❤❤

[@jenniferrumsey9887]

I wish this was taught to DCS workers.

[@pattyoreilly1097]

Amazing ... wish I heard this presentation years ago!

[@christineh4782]

💗💝💖💓💕👍 Janine Driver is fantastic! Wish I could her a question.

[@TheRealJanineDriver]

Janine here, what's your question?

[@christineh4782]

@@TheRealJanineDriver I don't remember. You may have already answered it. I watched this video again. You are excellent at your job. Glad I found you. Lots to learn from you.

[@beyourselfbekind4371]

How and what!! Only questions to ask. Forget the why!

[@sunflower-mr5nj]

amazing!

[@StasherDragon]

Didn't expect the feels!

[@sabinewk625]

🙌🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼thank you !!

[@araratqarachatani3806]

Thank you

[@kyleneeley9200]

Thank you so much

[@sherikennedy4117]

you are fabulous.

[@theblackroe8832]

I love you jeanine

[@kevintewey1157]

2:21 DONT Assume to raise your voice unless the sound ALLOWS

[@alexisbarlow5148]

I love this!!

[@transamsteve1]

Great points. Will definitely keep in mind in the future. Don’t think the emotion was authentic.

[@magma9138]

EXCEPTIONAL!

[@moniquemurphy4851]

You are awesome!

[@cecilsingh970]

you are the rebirth of god. thanks. I have a 4 yrss old autism son and I get too uptight

[@AragonaAlessandro]

Gosh ..she made me crazy again 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽😘

[@samantharimmer6270]

good video

[@jameslipke354]

Wow. Just Wow! That's all I've got.🤯 ❤ ~ APRIL LIPKE

[@mittenkitten89]

Amazing

[@unshackledandsoaringhigh]

credible talk.

[@joycereese6731]

Tears

[@exposingunconditionalselfl8731]

Is that what the basis to hypnosis to get control over a person or does it work the same?

[@malk6277]

TERRIFIC talk Janine. I'm only three minutes in but feel pretty confident I'll still feel this way by the end.

[@chrisjones2625]

Wow

[@brendashenda4249]

holy. wow.

[@nikital.8255]

What’s ur plan? How will you implement this? No ‘why’ questions cause it makes one think ur questioning their judgement.

[@Steve-uw4un]

Great job. Call next time in town. I'll show you some chicken houses and Little Debbie cakes being made. lol