“Sometimes a breakup is just a MAKE-UP with yourself!” 👌💯🙌🏽
@Only1QueenOfEverything7 ай бұрын
Exactly! 🗣💯🙌🏾🎯🫶🏽👑
@lala50613 ай бұрын
Bingo!
@Foeforever33 ай бұрын
Facts 🙏🏾🙌🏾💯
@md98827 ай бұрын
Giving yourself up for someone who's only interest is what they can take from you is crazy. I've spent 15 years building the wrong man. Now I'm the one that's devastated behind the ending of our marriage and he's living like it never happened. Life is so fucked sometimes 😢
@Tee-Star7 ай бұрын
I'm sorry to hear that. You live and learn. Next time, build yourself, and allow only someone ready to build you up.❤
@RachelRogers-zw5yd7 ай бұрын
It's ok 👑 snatch your power back🥰
@trellytheebraider7 ай бұрын
🙌🏾💐💐💐
@maceyr.65837 ай бұрын
I feel you. 😢
@Mscoffiedash7 ай бұрын
Sorry this happened to you dear!
@glossy12717 ай бұрын
Yes, I most definitely went through this. Trying to change myself for a man who never wanted me. The healing process was hard, but definitely worth it. Thank God for his grace and mercy!
@susanhenderson97397 ай бұрын
That’s what kept me God’s grace…
@LamarVivian7 ай бұрын
Im. Glad giving me my piece by. At 53 of. Age. Tired. Of. Bullshit. At. This. Age.
@susanhenderson97397 ай бұрын
@@LamarVivian Damn right .. Soon I will be 51 years young…I dated a dude 10 years older than me and it was a disaster.. He wasn’t financially stable..
@bdoe35917 ай бұрын
Facts, I’ve been through this. They try to play victim likes it’s you. It’s them with their narcissistic behavior
@susanhenderson97397 ай бұрын
They like to sit in the damn victim chair…
@ToniWilson-c4q7 ай бұрын
Amen sis @bdoe3591 , you got that right , socialpaths & disassocial attitudes too & that's not good , stuck in they past bad childhood life
@lala50613 ай бұрын
@user-gj6yq5qy8b yes yes that's right...👏🏽
@erikacruz42967 ай бұрын
I swear we break our own hearts💔 and we be knowing and fall for it and ugh this the last cycle, im out 🙌 ty Ace, much ❤ for this one👊🫶
@sadiebaldwin13447 ай бұрын
This ✅✅✅✅✅
@skylar68186 ай бұрын
😢
@noramorrison84127 ай бұрын
You can’t Change people , But you can change People, ya feel me❤ Preach Ace🎉
@BrittneySamoneSilver7 ай бұрын
Yes. I started healing. Then I reached out figuring that we could be friends. It doesn't work. We were never friends. We jumped into it prematurely and never build a solid foundation. It didn't work because the initial work was never put in. Trying to be friends after a breakup will never work when there was deep pain, betrayal, and confusion. You are lying to yourself. Please fast, pray, and love on you. It is not easy...but I promise it will be worth it. Give yourself about a year or so to build yourself physically, spiritually, mentally, emotionally, and financially. ❤
@Trrinx3 ай бұрын
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@Lemthepoetofficial7 ай бұрын
I swear this channel is the reason why I am sane again. God bless you !
@Youcandoitto2 ай бұрын
I am literally, balling in my car, driving down the road! Smh when you haven’t loved yourself, the way you thought you loved yourself 🤦🏾♀️🥲🥲
@lovemyself91257 ай бұрын
You need to write a book because you tell the truth and be on point. You get straight to it. No sugar coating.
@ToniWilson-c4q7 ай бұрын
Yep , bro ain't never lied
@elainewilliams31147 ай бұрын
Falling for the wrong person can be detrimental for ur health
@dwawnbrown74046 ай бұрын
I truly got sick behind this bullshit
@susanhenderson97396 ай бұрын
I did too…
@Trrinx3 ай бұрын
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@Trrinx3 ай бұрын
@@susanhenderson9739😂😂 w that t be a problem to
@Trrinx3 ай бұрын
The jonly way I could do this up 34:21 😂to 34:22 34:22 would 😂. En j
@GravesFatterCatt7 ай бұрын
" Falling in love with the wrong person just means that they targeted you , to use you for a come up"
@susanhenderson97397 ай бұрын
True…. true…true…..
@Marilynwilliams2937 ай бұрын
Today is my Birthday🎉.... And this message is the best gift I received... Thank you❤
@wandarobinson56127 ай бұрын
🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤
@susanhenderson97397 ай бұрын
@marilynw1266 Happy Birthday Beloved!!! Sending you love and blessings on your special day… Many more birthdays to come… 🎉😊🤩🌟
@tawanamichelle34697 ай бұрын
Happy birthday to you 🎉
@wanstar17715 ай бұрын
Speaking MAJOR Facts‼️ I’m soooo glad I woke up and permanently removed myself from this foolery yearrrrrrrrrs ago!!! Selflove ❤ Amen 🙏🏽
@chriswhite71576 ай бұрын
A ring doesn’t make him change his behavior. Sometimes it’s to lock you down to tolerate his mess, real talk.
@lala50613 ай бұрын
Exactly, it's better for us to not be desperate and be honest and say "I really don't like this person"....
@emilyrene106614 күн бұрын
In some cases, so true
@jeaneengant67717 ай бұрын
Man after 4 yrs.. yeah you feel like .. what was it about me.. then I had to realize.. I’m the prize.. his loss..
@christianlynsutton82597 ай бұрын
Many of us experience this effect from our fathers first. We are broken because our dads resembled the same behavior. We lost ourselves before we even dated the first man. My dad is 70 and still doing this towards me even now. He has 3 daughters, 2 sons, and the way he treats his daughters is not healthy. From a father/daughter perspective, he didn’t teach me proper treatment. I’m in the process of separating myself from that because every man I’ve dated up to now has only deepen the self hate, the conflict, confusion, and lack of confidence embedded by my fathers actions first. I am a woman worth better, but I couldn’t see it myself. Breaks are good even with fathers, brothers, and/or uncles that display no respect or honor to us. This will for sure shift future courting hopefully.
@JenniferBurkett-sj4ls19807 ай бұрын
I've read a little, (at least a little bit) about how the relationship between a dad & his daughter/s DOES AFFECT what kinds of guys she chooses as she "matures or, after she matures meaning, going into womanhood, of course" &, in (my opinion, MY OPINION), how, HOW are these guys STILL CONSIDERED MEN MENTALLY & EMOTIONALLY when they say all the sh!! that they say & do, HOW?????????????????? I DON'T MEAN PHYSICALLY, I mean (mentally & emotionally), how the he!! & WHY are they still "considered to be a man, this man said this &/or, did that!?", what the..............& why, why!!!?????????????🙄🙄🙄🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🙏🙏🙏
@christianlynsutton82597 ай бұрын
I think you have a valid question. I’d love to hear the answer to it as well, but I would say they are only considered “men” because of the gender they were born in only. Not by emotional, spiritual, mental, societal, and sometimes physical as well. I think the immature men have a mental block from traumatic experiences they’ve had in they’re in their life. They wear an invisible mask that’s hard to see without spiritual discernment and discipline. It’s hard work to get back to discipline and discernment if ever the ball is dropped, but it’s possible I believe.
@ifayomiloree40807 ай бұрын
We have the same story. So sorry we had to live through this but, thx to our power within we are still moving forward today. Much love to you!❤
@candacethomas52066 ай бұрын
This right here^^^^!
@christianlynsutton82596 ай бұрын
@@ifayomiloree4080🫂🫂🫂🫂🌹
@susanhenderson97397 ай бұрын
Ace is in the place!!! “Dangers of loving the wrong person.” Let it Go!! Stop continuing to face the same consequences over and over again..Acknowledge and accept the hurt/pain that was given to you and move forward..In due time you shall find when love is Genuine it will be Patient and Kind….
@AshleyWashington-s2x7 ай бұрын
🙏 AMEN. I appreciate your advice because it gives me the strength to do better with relationships.
@LatashaWashington-vt7xj7 ай бұрын
I needed to listen to this and im glad i did. I cant fix no man but i can remove myself when i know he devalues my worth. Ladies know you deserve better when shit is not right in your relationship 💯
@BarbaraAnnHenderson7 ай бұрын
Hurt people, do hurt people. Youre so correct.
@cola_3147 ай бұрын
Hurt people CHOOSE to hurt people. I’ve been hurt but I do the work so I don’t hurt anyone else. That’s an excuse to be a horrible person.
@BeKind2UrSelf67 ай бұрын
I appreciate hearing this from a man who can recognize the nuances of emotional labor in a relationship. As women, we fumble us before he can. 😒
@carolyndunbar23007 ай бұрын
This is so on point!!! I was just in a similar situation. BUT I HAD TO MAKE A DECISION TO WALK AWAY. I knew I was in a bad situation and I excused myself from it. Didn’t waste any time explaining anything. Just blocked him and deleted him from everything. I feel so much better. It was taking a lot out of me. I know I deserve better and took my power back.!!
@shanellem63107 ай бұрын
Me too. The situation was toxic AF. He was a covert narc. I still have to deal with him, albeit with a limit, because we have to co-parent. He knows where I live for emergency purposes, but he's not allowed over, nor has he ever been over. Doesn't stop him from trying though. I mostly communicate with him via text. When he tries to get me to do wifey things, I remind him that we are divorced and I'm not doing it. When he tries to put his feelers out or call/text me at night, I just don't respond. I pretend that he doesn't exist. If I don't stand firm on my boundaries, he will take advantage. I'm not making s**t up, it's a fact. My peace is too important and must be protected.
@carolyndunbar23007 ай бұрын
@@shanellem6310 I know what you mean. I wasn’t married but he was someone from my past. He was taking me back to a place that I had prayed my way out of. I refused to let someone treat me like nothing. I learned to love myself and I will continue to do that. I’m proud of myself for real. Nobody really knows my story.
@AshleyWashington-s2x7 ай бұрын
I had to do the same thing, but deep down I still have feelings. But u can love and pray from a distance.
@dharts54975 ай бұрын
ALRIGHT NOW!!!😅 SOMEONE WHO GETS IT😅 MOVE FORWARD WITH CONFIDENCE, KNOWING THAT THE BEST IS YET TO COME.😊
@LolaBunni07SG7 ай бұрын
Unpopular opinion. Your husband/ significant other doesn't get to do this bulls$t either.
@belindapadron71757 ай бұрын
This is definitely true especially when dealing with a narcissist. Healing is a battle although there is growth & blessings on the other side especially when you are a genuine soul 🙏🩷🙏
@susanhenderson97397 ай бұрын
You’re correct.. I dealt with a Narcissist for 20 years…When he started the Gaslighting I learned to simply walk away from him..
@antoinettemulenga7 ай бұрын
I tried ending my life a couple days ago because of him but by Gods grace I overcame it, after a couple of days, I see that he went ahead and followed back the same girl I asked him multiple times to cut ties with her while we were together. I couldn’t believe it… May God be with me through the rest of my healing journey.
@luniaetienne7 ай бұрын
You’re beautiful and deserve better. It gets better🥺🥺🥺
@antoinettemulenga7 ай бұрын
@@luniaetienne thank you. I just really can’t believe after everything, he manages to continue to hurt… I will never understand. Do you think I’m wrong for feeling the way I’m feeling after seeing that he followed her back right after the breakup? What would that mean to you ?
@luniaetienne7 ай бұрын
@@antoinettemulenga no you’re not wrong for feeling the way you’re feeling because he basically betrayed you… I know the feeling. I believe he was already messing with her and as soon as y’all broke up he felt free to do what he really wanted to do all along…
@luniaetienne7 ай бұрын
It’s gonna get better though just be patient… it may takes a while but the feeling will go away eventually… listen to motivational podcasts.
@luniaetienne7 ай бұрын
And don’t ever speak to him again.
@anaicebabic7 ай бұрын
Ace went in….im laughing cause the shit ain’t rocket science. 😂 and I normally don’t even comment but had to let you know. ❤
@semajsworld23757 ай бұрын
That's so true! That playing in your face is crazy and if US women don't keep us 1st they will always keep playing. Zero tolerance over here.
@melindapear47986 ай бұрын
That happened to me. I prayed to God. He helped me move on and put myself first.
@sonnenschein1545 ай бұрын
Energyvampire
@anitaeasamoah7 ай бұрын
Such stupid relationships will make you a shadow of yourself. Leave. You first.
@missjackie79837 ай бұрын
I'm glad Ive come to the realization on two things. Don't nobody owe you nothing especially consistency and loyalty unless they are married to you. If you're single you can do whatever you want, with whomever you want to for as long as you want to as long as it's legal. Just because you spend time with someone no matter how many years have gone by and you've allowed yourself to develop feelings and trust, it don't matter. They don't belong to you. The other thing is that people have limits to their emotional capabilities. And once they reach that limit everybody else is temporary and secondary and will be used. For example if a man has a mama, sisters, kids an ex they were with for a long time? And he's talking to you, involved with you? You playing yourself and he's playing you because his emotional cup is full already with his mama, his family, his kids, his "boys". Don't like what I said? That's fine. Keep breaking your own heart. I've chosen not to!
@shaylanesefamilytv19877 ай бұрын
If single ppl don’t show loyalty then we won’t ever get married
@missjackie79837 ай бұрын
@shaylanesefamilytv1987 you play yourself when you show loyalty people don't deserve
@ishaw98947 ай бұрын
If I could give this a thumbs up 1000 times I would.
@moonlightstargem10067 ай бұрын
They love the idea of changing you into someone who benefits them. You make them shine while they spit poison into your spirit, telling you that you are not good enough! Stop helping these individuals & start helping yourself. Itcould look like not accepting back seat driving, criticism or insults. It could look like spending the day by yourself. Moving out, breaking up, choosing yourself. Staying abstinent from sex.
@missjackie79837 ай бұрын
Take as much time as you need to heal from the last relationship. Heal until you are whole! Then, if you choose to do so begin to look for an equal, not a project. You're looking for someone who takes care of themselves and has the capacity to take care of you too. Someone on your level that you can respect and vice versa. Don't fall in love with potential. My table is SET and yours should be as well. You got to bring something to my table besides a fork and knife! When you are confident in what you bring to the table, you don't have to beg and chase anyone to sit down and eat! What category do they belong in? Partner, project, parasite or pond? Putting people in the wrong category will mess your life up! Pain prevention is tied to people being properly placed in your life y'all!! A tolerable level of permanent unhappiness just won't work!!
@comeworkoutwithme93197 ай бұрын
No, we appreciate you. Keep doing your thing I love your show.
@misspheobelee7 ай бұрын
Holy shit ACE! Do not ever apologise for speaking your truth! We ladies are here, to hear you tell us the things we need to know, we need these motherfucking ahhhh haaaaa moments! And if people unfollow you because you said what they weren't ready to hear! Then BYE BYE 👋 Sometimes, the reality of the harsh truth is exactly what I want to hear! I love love love the way you get your point across! YOU have helped me see the light and made me feel so much more worthy and strong in myself. I now am armed with my sword and shield 🛡 so that I can stop laying soft arse boundaries down for a mofo to walk all over. Don't change the way YOU DO WHAT YOU DO. I, for one, am grateful. PEACE ✌️ ❤😊
@susanhenderson97397 ай бұрын
You’re right….
@aliciasnow78667 ай бұрын
Ace done told me!!!!!!! He done put me in my place!!!! And I thank him❤❤❤❤❤❤
@thames3087 ай бұрын
This a REAL SERMON RIGHT HERE. AMEN
@TC-yx3bs7 ай бұрын
this is the real deal - thanks for sharing this. - nice to get the confirmation and clarity
@meshiaharris5 ай бұрын
PREACHHHHHHHHH KING BOYFRIEND PLAY N YO FACE ❤💯🌹🌹✔️
@queenb311007 ай бұрын
When you stay wit a person that your changing yourself for you take away from who you are messing up your selfworth setting yourself up for failure for years i was in a relationship trying to be the good woman he wanted n it kept back firing cause he was unappreciative n selfish everything was about him n what he wanted
@susanhenderson97397 ай бұрын
@queenb31100 Same with my husband..Everything I did was never good enough, he complained about everything.. He couldn’t stand that I was stealing his spotlight everyone kept asking “How’s your wife?” He was constantly dimming my light..Darling we are worth it!!🎉
@rachelm93527 ай бұрын
Real talk and took me 4 years too long to learn.. I learned tho but now I'm a better me for it
@Ingridpm57 ай бұрын
Wow it’s like you been right here witnessing all the shit! I’m playing this everyday till I’m healed! No joke this is very much needed daily.
@jackiefrierson21997 ай бұрын
Not to long getting out of a 5 year relationship and man listen I DONT want to be in anything else any time soon jumping for man to man not going to make shit better so I WILL BE CHILLING BY MY DAMN SELF UNTIL
@lala50617 ай бұрын
Please do cuz it's a mess out here...do your research first take your time hun, im telling u 🙄
@jackiefrierson21997 ай бұрын
@lala5061 oh respectfully I am doing just that I have a lot of seekers but they so messy and at my age of 57.the men think they young with those D`s that don't work have the time lol..lol..lol
@jackiefrierson21997 ай бұрын
@@lala5061 half the time the D`s are broken
@mieshadashae57187 ай бұрын
This video resonated with me the most while I’m currently grieving this split from someone who didn’t have the capacity to see my worth, I tried with the push/ pull daily never knowing what type of person I would get. It’s insane not knowing when a person could switch back and forth from respectful to disrespect and all you want them to do is keep peace and accept you cause things “were” going good.TheShit feels fake like your minds actually playing tricks on you but it’s reality & in the end he made it seem like he never liked me or cared for me and I was the problem. It hurts but it’s done! when you gotta open your eyes WIDE and step away don’t get scared, it’s the better thing to do.
@Blossombabe6127 ай бұрын
You are so accurate 👏👏👏👏👏👏
@janiceowens6679Ай бұрын
I have learned not to disappear on myself. Thank you Ace Thanks for reading me my rights.❤❤❤❤❤
@moonlightstargem10067 ай бұрын
It takes a high self worth to stand up for yourself. I know what that is like to have low self worth.
@jackiedee79776 ай бұрын
This …… My god I needed this. That harsh talk. Straight talk. He told no lies.
@AshleyWashington-s2x6 ай бұрын
Thank u so much for u platform. I appreciate your advice and help. GOD BLESS YOU ❤
@babyray75947 ай бұрын
I'm a man who is going through this now, but in reverse. This is happening to me!!
@user-GodIsGood7776 ай бұрын
Facts!!! Isolation from everyone to heal and come out a better, non bitter person 💪 is amazing!!! No victim here! Took control finally of all of what happened. I love me now ❤❤❤❤
@Atlanta7187 ай бұрын
The only way to change the man is to CHANGE 🔁 the man❤
@shaylanesefamilytv19877 ай бұрын
Woman are seeing that almost 80% of men play games and if we leave every time one has played we’ll be raned all the way through by 25yrs old trying to try again. It’s almost like we just have to be alone or deal with the games. Or have a high body count and then no one wants you if that the case and if we hold off on sex they will play too so where is the win fr
@ciarasmith49846 ай бұрын
I love how you speak the truth, and sometimes the truth hurts. Some of us have to possess the courage to look ourselves in the mirror and be honest about our relationship with Self. YOU are Worthy! You are ENOUGH.❤
@princessserwaa63047 ай бұрын
Everytime he says dusty i just laugh 😂😂😂
@susanhenderson97397 ай бұрын
Hell Yeah back in the day we used to call them “Dust Ass.”😂😂😂
@marzelpaylor76207 ай бұрын
I’m huge fan Ace, but I always hear you talk about women who get mistreated by men BUT their are women who mistreat good men and don’t see the value in these good men
@alphaberryxo6 ай бұрын
Ace...you just became my best friend🙏
@TracyKing-x2l7 ай бұрын
I absolutely love this man, he tells it like it is. I love to hear the truth.❤
@susanhenderson97397 ай бұрын
Ace is very hard to replace…… 👍🏽💖👍🏽🌟
@marciam54757 ай бұрын
Thanks for your blunt delivery
@Kaligod36 ай бұрын
I love the way you speak, cursing and all. If someone can’t handle it they are not ready to hear the truth.
@e.m.46057 ай бұрын
Omg, you’re speaking so many facts. I wish I had a man in my life at a young age, a teenager, and again as an adult just to remind me. Good job!
@jeaneengant67717 ай бұрын
The breakup is hard for me.. because we had an awesome connection.. our date nights.. conversation vacation etc..he was like my BF.. sounds crazy but yeah
@jacqueline77812 ай бұрын
Yesssssssssss 👏🏽👏🏽 you are the only one can stop 🛑 it
@carmennervoso89857 ай бұрын
Sir I have recently found your channel. I totally agree with you. What's missing is to have us women to see their traumas that made us believe we are unworthy. We must heal ourselves as well from our reasons we were never taught how to court a man. How to pick a man not only from attraction.
@MoonBunny697 ай бұрын
25:35 Those good men are taken cuz they done got them selves together and found they woman.😅
@sonjadf477 ай бұрын
Remember that GUY picked her. So he should have put on his best. If he or she in time, will find out where the relationship and then act accordingly.
@BrittneySamoneSilver7 ай бұрын
If I have to exit your life in order for you to appreciate me, I don't want you anymore because now I don't trust you. Now I don't feel safe and secure. Now I believe that you only appreciate me when I create distance.
@DeniceDewberry7 ай бұрын
L needed to hear this, thank you so much ❤
@KKP201117 ай бұрын
Thank you, Ace! 🙏❤️ Everything you said was 100% true! 💯💯💯 Bless you for reminding us all those important things that some of us ignore!
@susanhenderson97397 ай бұрын
Amen sometimes we do ignore the important things because we have our blinders on.. “I was blind but, now I see.”
@tiffaniknight10697 ай бұрын
Thank you!!! 💯
@ashleyhutchinson83587 ай бұрын
You were speaking directly to me and it’s so crazy definitely not that person but now but as soon as I applied this to my life baby my life is unfolding before my very eyes 😢
@kaoshi_kutie7 ай бұрын
This sounds a lot like Narcissistic people. My ex was. Covert Narc he could not accept who I was and that I shined brighter than him , he was painfully insecure and kept trying to belittle me and control me. Abusive behaviour! I slammed the door in his face and he is blocked everywhere. ❤
@Oceans1beauty7 ай бұрын
You giving straight facts us as women is too easy and don’t stop it when man behave and act out
@tashaallen67637 ай бұрын
The truth is the truth Ace and if they allow it to, It will set them free
@MimiTiyana7 ай бұрын
“Shit ain’t rocket science” 😂😂 na for real some people don’t wanna hear it though. But don’t keep blaming him , you must like it !
@sistachristian6606 ай бұрын
Loving the wrong person is like MaryJ. and Kenduu Issac.Hes 10🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩's
@datronwinston975012 күн бұрын
You’re only talking from female perspective bro.
@conniegaar54497 ай бұрын
Appreciate the Raw honesty some of us WISHED we heard this years ago!! ME 😮😮😮😮
@RachelRogers-zw5yd7 ай бұрын
Ace you to Real and I love yo cursing because you stand on business and telling the truth 😘😘
@evelynfields46127 ай бұрын
You're telling the truth ❤
@moonlightstargem1006Ай бұрын
Just stop liking people all that much!! If you start liking someone and they start taking advantage of you stop yourself!
@jennyaviles16327 ай бұрын
What about if he is my husband????????
@SabrinaMartin-y5f4 ай бұрын
OOOOOWEEEEE YO 🙆‼️ ACE IS TH PLACE, HZ TH HELPFULL HARDWARE MAN🙆😍🙆‼️❤️🔥❗ ... PUT IT ON // TAKE IT OFF!! IF IT FIT WEAR IT / IF U CANT SAY OOOPS, SAY OUWCH! 2 KNO BETR IS 2 DO BETR ❣️🙏😚😘🥰🤗🌻🌺🌻🥥🫐🍇🥝🍑🍊🍉🍒🍍🍓🥭🍌🌶️🍋🥑🍠🍒🫐🥝💯🔥❤️🔥💌🏹
@tiamaria31237 ай бұрын
AMAZING LESSONS being taught... thank you ❤❤❤
@anastasiaanderson94877 ай бұрын
Yessssss
@collettelefebvre83922 ай бұрын
15 yrs with a guy I adored ,,, 15 yrs more being a Friend - No sex ( with anyone ) ,,, neither of us have had a relationship since ,,, and I still can’t get it right 😢
@issadoralogan66554 ай бұрын
Divorced my husband of 21 years for playing in my face! Gave too many chances and that doesn’t work with the husband’s either!
@Foeforever33 ай бұрын
Thank you for this highly appreciated this message needed to run into this
@brandycollins89186 ай бұрын
Currently with him he's not hurting me I'm hurting myself because I keep letting him 😢
@HOOMA-7 ай бұрын
Aceeeee! You have a killer sense of humour but be kind to the ladies who’re hurting I had the time of my life learning valuable perspective and cracking the fuck up at all the many mysterious jokes but I’d be feeling a bit different if I’d come to actually get some advice/ solution .. I mean I absolutely love what you’re saying and advising but just a bit gently pleaaaase 🙏🏾🤍 I’ve watched 2 of your videos and loved it so far .. keep thriving 🧿⚡️ #sunscribed🫶🏾
@bdeezy29622 ай бұрын
Whooooaaaa..Ace you might as well have jumped out of my phone and slapped me yourself😂 this one hit me hard today like damn ..I needed that shit and I love the way you talk your stern but not harsh, and your REAL but not shaming or judging..you not trying to make anyone feel bad, bc we trying to see good in someone that's just plain bad and you preach that shit so good it gave me goosebumps❤❤ thank you man, you are def doing what God called you to do cause you really just lit a fire under my ass that I'm gonna put to good use😊🎉
@lyricallycorrect82496 ай бұрын
I spent 20 years with the wrong man. I gave away my prime years. My soul was tied to his & it was hard to get away. I lost myself & until this day I'm not fully healed. Dealing with the psychology of regret is a suffering! I will never get that time back! If I had to do it again man oh man lol🤦🏿♀️
@kdndahouse34053 ай бұрын
This the first video of yours I could completely agree with and watch all the way through
@NewWaveGirl307 ай бұрын
Why would someone want someone who doesn't want them and why does the person who doesn't want them keep pursuing them?? And why do they (he and his female counterparts) force you to do sexual acts repeatedly if they don't want you?? This is not just about money
@melissabelluci82427 ай бұрын
That what I wished to knew lived the wrong person fucked myself i was not anymore myself 😢
@MySistersKeeperHp7 ай бұрын
You betta preach!
@jacquelynsimmons61317 ай бұрын
We good I appreciate how you are putting it some of us including myself need hard core advice God bless you!!
@CompleteHoneyBee6 ай бұрын
I like what he’s saying but the cursing is just too much for me. I can’t finish it. 9:15 😢😢😢
@brandycollins89186 ай бұрын
You are all in my s***I promise you all that stuff you just said I've been saying the same thing he keep treating me like that cuz I keep allowing him to treat me like that cuz I keep staying not after the day thank you for the courage and the wise words to make me make this big move
@TheNeen97 ай бұрын
Preach! 👏🏾😭 Speak the truth, don’t sugar coat nothing! I finally realized my worth… He’s gone, now he’s hoovering me! I’ll do this, I’ll do that, I’m going to church… 😒🤦🏾♀️ Now you can do all that?! 😒✌🏾
@susanhenderson97397 ай бұрын
I will do this and I will do that believe me it won’t last…I’m glad you realized your worth… Always remember you are worth more than enough….