The dangers of loving the wrong person

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Ace Metaphor

Ace Metaphor

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The dangers of loving the wrong person

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@beautyandgrit4640
@beautyandgrit4640 7 ай бұрын
“Sometimes a breakup is just a MAKE-UP with yourself!” 👌💯🙌🏽
@Only1QueenOfEverything
@Only1QueenOfEverything 7 ай бұрын
Exactly! 🗣💯🙌🏾🎯🫶🏽👑
@lala5061
@lala5061 3 ай бұрын
Bingo!
@Foeforever3
@Foeforever3 3 ай бұрын
Facts 🙏🏾🙌🏾💯
@md9882
@md9882 7 ай бұрын
Giving yourself up for someone who's only interest is what they can take from you is crazy. I've spent 15 years building the wrong man. Now I'm the one that's devastated behind the ending of our marriage and he's living like it never happened. Life is so fucked sometimes 😢
@Tee-Star
@Tee-Star 7 ай бұрын
I'm sorry to hear that. You live and learn. Next time, build yourself, and allow only someone ready to build you up.❤
@RachelRogers-zw5yd
@RachelRogers-zw5yd 7 ай бұрын
It's ok 👑 snatch your power back🥰
@trellytheebraider
@trellytheebraider 7 ай бұрын
🙌🏾💐💐💐
@maceyr.6583
@maceyr.6583 7 ай бұрын
I feel you. 😢
@Mscoffiedash
@Mscoffiedash 7 ай бұрын
Sorry this happened to you dear!
@glossy1271
@glossy1271 7 ай бұрын
Yes, I most definitely went through this. Trying to change myself for a man who never wanted me. The healing process was hard, but definitely worth it. Thank God for his grace and mercy!
@susanhenderson9739
@susanhenderson9739 7 ай бұрын
That’s what kept me God’s grace…
@LamarVivian
@LamarVivian 7 ай бұрын
Im. Glad giving me my piece by. At 53 of. Age. Tired. Of. Bullshit. At. This. Age.
@susanhenderson9739
@susanhenderson9739 7 ай бұрын
@@LamarVivian Damn right .. Soon I will be 51 years young…I dated a dude 10 years older than me and it was a disaster.. He wasn’t financially stable..
@bdoe3591
@bdoe3591 7 ай бұрын
Facts, I’ve been through this. They try to play victim likes it’s you. It’s them with their narcissistic behavior
@susanhenderson9739
@susanhenderson9739 7 ай бұрын
They like to sit in the damn victim chair…
@ToniWilson-c4q
@ToniWilson-c4q 7 ай бұрын
Amen sis @bdoe3591 , you got that right , socialpaths & disassocial attitudes too & that's not good , stuck in they past bad childhood life
@lala5061
@lala5061 3 ай бұрын
​@user-gj6yq5qy8b yes yes that's right...👏🏽
@erikacruz4296
@erikacruz4296 7 ай бұрын
I swear we break our own hearts💔 and we be knowing and fall for it and ugh this the last cycle, im out 🙌 ty Ace, much ❤ for this one👊🫶
@sadiebaldwin1344
@sadiebaldwin1344 7 ай бұрын
This ✅✅✅✅✅
@skylar6818
@skylar6818 6 ай бұрын
😢
@noramorrison8412
@noramorrison8412 7 ай бұрын
You can’t Change people , But you can change People, ya feel me❤ Preach Ace🎉
@BrittneySamoneSilver
@BrittneySamoneSilver 7 ай бұрын
Yes. I started healing. Then I reached out figuring that we could be friends. It doesn't work. We were never friends. We jumped into it prematurely and never build a solid foundation. It didn't work because the initial work was never put in. Trying to be friends after a breakup will never work when there was deep pain, betrayal, and confusion. You are lying to yourself. Please fast, pray, and love on you. It is not easy...but I promise it will be worth it. Give yourself about a year or so to build yourself physically, spiritually, mentally, emotionally, and financially. ❤
@Trrinx
@Trrinx 3 ай бұрын
I’m qtjust q😅qqt😅q😅w😅wt😅y 😅😅😅y😅 y😊y😊
@Lemthepoetofficial
@Lemthepoetofficial 7 ай бұрын
I swear this channel is the reason why I am sane again. God bless you !
@Youcandoitto
@Youcandoitto 2 ай бұрын
I am literally, balling in my car, driving down the road! Smh when you haven’t loved yourself, the way you thought you loved yourself 🤦🏾‍♀️🥲🥲
@lovemyself9125
@lovemyself9125 7 ай бұрын
You need to write a book because you tell the truth and be on point. You get straight to it. No sugar coating.
@ToniWilson-c4q
@ToniWilson-c4q 7 ай бұрын
Yep , bro ain't never lied
@elainewilliams3114
@elainewilliams3114 7 ай бұрын
Falling for the wrong person can be detrimental for ur health
@dwawnbrown7404
@dwawnbrown7404 6 ай бұрын
I truly got sick behind this bullshit
@susanhenderson9739
@susanhenderson9739 6 ай бұрын
I did too…
@Trrinx
@Trrinx 3 ай бұрын
@@susanhenderson9739ttt5ttt5tt has a y
@Trrinx
@Trrinx 3 ай бұрын
@@susanhenderson9739😂😂 w that t be a problem to
@Trrinx
@Trrinx 3 ай бұрын
The jonly way I could do this up 34:21 😂to 34:22 34:22 would 😂. En j
@GravesFatterCatt
@GravesFatterCatt 7 ай бұрын
" Falling in love with the wrong person just means that they targeted you , to use you for a come up"
@susanhenderson9739
@susanhenderson9739 7 ай бұрын
True…. true…true…..
@Marilynwilliams293
@Marilynwilliams293 7 ай бұрын
Today is my Birthday🎉.... And this message is the best gift I received... Thank you❤
@wandarobinson5612
@wandarobinson5612 7 ай бұрын
🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤
@susanhenderson9739
@susanhenderson9739 7 ай бұрын
@marilynw1266 Happy Birthday Beloved!!! Sending you love and blessings on your special day… Many more birthdays to come… 🎉😊🤩🌟
@tawanamichelle3469
@tawanamichelle3469 7 ай бұрын
Happy birthday to you 🎉
@wanstar1771
@wanstar1771 5 ай бұрын
Speaking MAJOR Facts‼️ I’m soooo glad I woke up and permanently removed myself from this foolery yearrrrrrrrrs ago!!! Selflove ❤ Amen 🙏🏽
@chriswhite7157
@chriswhite7157 6 ай бұрын
A ring doesn’t make him change his behavior. Sometimes it’s to lock you down to tolerate his mess, real talk.
@lala5061
@lala5061 3 ай бұрын
Exactly, it's better for us to not be desperate and be honest and say "I really don't like this person"....
@emilyrene1066
@emilyrene1066 14 күн бұрын
In some cases, so true
@jeaneengant6771
@jeaneengant6771 7 ай бұрын
Man after 4 yrs.. yeah you feel like .. what was it about me.. then I had to realize.. I’m the prize.. his loss..
@christianlynsutton8259
@christianlynsutton8259 7 ай бұрын
Many of us experience this effect from our fathers first. We are broken because our dads resembled the same behavior. We lost ourselves before we even dated the first man. My dad is 70 and still doing this towards me even now. He has 3 daughters, 2 sons, and the way he treats his daughters is not healthy. From a father/daughter perspective, he didn’t teach me proper treatment. I’m in the process of separating myself from that because every man I’ve dated up to now has only deepen the self hate, the conflict, confusion, and lack of confidence embedded by my fathers actions first. I am a woman worth better, but I couldn’t see it myself. Breaks are good even with fathers, brothers, and/or uncles that display no respect or honor to us. This will for sure shift future courting hopefully.
@JenniferBurkett-sj4ls1980
@JenniferBurkett-sj4ls1980 7 ай бұрын
I've read a little, (at least a little bit) about how the relationship between a dad & his daughter/s DOES AFFECT what kinds of guys she chooses as she "matures or, after she matures meaning, going into womanhood, of course" &, in (my opinion, MY OPINION), how, HOW are these guys STILL CONSIDERED MEN MENTALLY & EMOTIONALLY when they say all the sh!! that they say & do, HOW?????????????????? I DON'T MEAN PHYSICALLY, I mean (mentally & emotionally), how the he!! & WHY are they still "considered to be a man, this man said this &/or, did that!?", what the..............& why, why!!!?????????????🙄🙄🙄🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🙏🙏🙏
@christianlynsutton8259
@christianlynsutton8259 7 ай бұрын
I think you have a valid question. I’d love to hear the answer to it as well, but I would say they are only considered “men” because of the gender they were born in only. Not by emotional, spiritual, mental, societal, and sometimes physical as well. I think the immature men have a mental block from traumatic experiences they’ve had in they’re in their life. They wear an invisible mask that’s hard to see without spiritual discernment and discipline. It’s hard work to get back to discipline and discernment if ever the ball is dropped, but it’s possible I believe.
@ifayomiloree4080
@ifayomiloree4080 7 ай бұрын
We have the same story. So sorry we had to live through this but, thx to our power within we are still moving forward today. Much love to you!❤
@candacethomas5206
@candacethomas5206 6 ай бұрын
This right here^^^^!
@christianlynsutton8259
@christianlynsutton8259 6 ай бұрын
@@ifayomiloree4080🫂🫂🫂🫂🌹
@susanhenderson9739
@susanhenderson9739 7 ай бұрын
Ace is in the place!!! “Dangers of loving the wrong person.” Let it Go!! Stop continuing to face the same consequences over and over again..Acknowledge and accept the hurt/pain that was given to you and move forward..In due time you shall find when love is Genuine it will be Patient and Kind….
@AshleyWashington-s2x
@AshleyWashington-s2x 7 ай бұрын
🙏 AMEN. I appreciate your advice because it gives me the strength to do better with relationships.
@LatashaWashington-vt7xj
@LatashaWashington-vt7xj 7 ай бұрын
I needed to listen to this and im glad i did. I cant fix no man but i can remove myself when i know he devalues my worth. Ladies know you deserve better when shit is not right in your relationship 💯
@BarbaraAnnHenderson
@BarbaraAnnHenderson 7 ай бұрын
Hurt people, do hurt people. Youre so correct.
@cola_314
@cola_314 7 ай бұрын
Hurt people CHOOSE to hurt people. I’ve been hurt but I do the work so I don’t hurt anyone else. That’s an excuse to be a horrible person.
@BeKind2UrSelf6
@BeKind2UrSelf6 7 ай бұрын
I appreciate hearing this from a man who can recognize the nuances of emotional labor in a relationship. As women, we fumble us before he can. 😒
@carolyndunbar2300
@carolyndunbar2300 7 ай бұрын
This is so on point!!! I was just in a similar situation. BUT I HAD TO MAKE A DECISION TO WALK AWAY. I knew I was in a bad situation and I excused myself from it. Didn’t waste any time explaining anything. Just blocked him and deleted him from everything. I feel so much better. It was taking a lot out of me. I know I deserve better and took my power back.!!
@shanellem6310
@shanellem6310 7 ай бұрын
Me too. The situation was toxic AF. He was a covert narc. I still have to deal with him, albeit with a limit, because we have to co-parent. He knows where I live for emergency purposes, but he's not allowed over, nor has he ever been over. Doesn't stop him from trying though. I mostly communicate with him via text. When he tries to get me to do wifey things, I remind him that we are divorced and I'm not doing it. When he tries to put his feelers out or call/text me at night, I just don't respond. I pretend that he doesn't exist. If I don't stand firm on my boundaries, he will take advantage. I'm not making s**t up, it's a fact. My peace is too important and must be protected.
@carolyndunbar2300
@carolyndunbar2300 7 ай бұрын
@@shanellem6310 I know what you mean. I wasn’t married but he was someone from my past. He was taking me back to a place that I had prayed my way out of. I refused to let someone treat me like nothing. I learned to love myself and I will continue to do that. I’m proud of myself for real. Nobody really knows my story.
@AshleyWashington-s2x
@AshleyWashington-s2x 7 ай бұрын
I had to do the same thing, but deep down I still have feelings. But u can love and pray from a distance.
@dharts5497
@dharts5497 5 ай бұрын
ALRIGHT NOW!!!😅 SOMEONE WHO GETS IT😅 MOVE FORWARD WITH CONFIDENCE, KNOWING THAT THE BEST IS YET TO COME.😊
@LolaBunni07SG
@LolaBunni07SG 7 ай бұрын
Unpopular opinion. Your husband/ significant other doesn't get to do this bulls$t either.
@belindapadron7175
@belindapadron7175 7 ай бұрын
This is definitely true especially when dealing with a narcissist. Healing is a battle although there is growth & blessings on the other side especially when you are a genuine soul 🙏🩷🙏
@susanhenderson9739
@susanhenderson9739 7 ай бұрын
You’re correct.. I dealt with a Narcissist for 20 years…When he started the Gaslighting I learned to simply walk away from him..
@antoinettemulenga
@antoinettemulenga 7 ай бұрын
I tried ending my life a couple days ago because of him but by Gods grace I overcame it, after a couple of days, I see that he went ahead and followed back the same girl I asked him multiple times to cut ties with her while we were together. I couldn’t believe it… May God be with me through the rest of my healing journey.
@luniaetienne
@luniaetienne 7 ай бұрын
You’re beautiful and deserve better. It gets better🥺🥺🥺
@antoinettemulenga
@antoinettemulenga 7 ай бұрын
@@luniaetienne thank you. I just really can’t believe after everything, he manages to continue to hurt… I will never understand. Do you think I’m wrong for feeling the way I’m feeling after seeing that he followed her back right after the breakup? What would that mean to you ?
@luniaetienne
@luniaetienne 7 ай бұрын
@@antoinettemulenga no you’re not wrong for feeling the way you’re feeling because he basically betrayed you… I know the feeling. I believe he was already messing with her and as soon as y’all broke up he felt free to do what he really wanted to do all along…
@luniaetienne
@luniaetienne 7 ай бұрын
It’s gonna get better though just be patient… it may takes a while but the feeling will go away eventually… listen to motivational podcasts.
@luniaetienne
@luniaetienne 7 ай бұрын
And don’t ever speak to him again.
@anaicebabic
@anaicebabic 7 ай бұрын
Ace went in….im laughing cause the shit ain’t rocket science. 😂 and I normally don’t even comment but had to let you know. ❤
@semajsworld2375
@semajsworld2375 7 ай бұрын
That's so true! That playing in your face is crazy and if US women don't keep us 1st they will always keep playing. Zero tolerance over here.
@melindapear4798
@melindapear4798 6 ай бұрын
That happened to me. I prayed to God. He helped me move on and put myself first.
@sonnenschein154
@sonnenschein154 5 ай бұрын
Energyvampire
@anitaeasamoah
@anitaeasamoah 7 ай бұрын
Such stupid relationships will make you a shadow of yourself. Leave. You first.
@missjackie7983
@missjackie7983 7 ай бұрын
I'm glad Ive come to the realization on two things. Don't nobody owe you nothing especially consistency and loyalty unless they are married to you. If you're single you can do whatever you want, with whomever you want to for as long as you want to as long as it's legal. Just because you spend time with someone no matter how many years have gone by and you've allowed yourself to develop feelings and trust, it don't matter. They don't belong to you. The other thing is that people have limits to their emotional capabilities. And once they reach that limit everybody else is temporary and secondary and will be used. For example if a man has a mama, sisters, kids an ex they were with for a long time? And he's talking to you, involved with you? You playing yourself and he's playing you because his emotional cup is full already with his mama, his family, his kids, his "boys". Don't like what I said? That's fine. Keep breaking your own heart. I've chosen not to!
@shaylanesefamilytv1987
@shaylanesefamilytv1987 7 ай бұрын
If single ppl don’t show loyalty then we won’t ever get married
@missjackie7983
@missjackie7983 7 ай бұрын
@shaylanesefamilytv1987 you play yourself when you show loyalty people don't deserve
@ishaw9894
@ishaw9894 7 ай бұрын
If I could give this a thumbs up 1000 times I would.
@moonlightstargem1006
@moonlightstargem1006 7 ай бұрын
They love the idea of changing you into someone who benefits them. You make them shine while they spit poison into your spirit, telling you that you are not good enough! Stop helping these individuals & start helping yourself. Itcould look like not accepting back seat driving, criticism or insults. It could look like spending the day by yourself. Moving out, breaking up, choosing yourself. Staying abstinent from sex.
@missjackie7983
@missjackie7983 7 ай бұрын
Take as much time as you need to heal from the last relationship. Heal until you are whole! Then, if you choose to do so begin to look for an equal, not a project. You're looking for someone who takes care of themselves and has the capacity to take care of you too. Someone on your level that you can respect and vice versa. Don't fall in love with potential. My table is SET and yours should be as well. You got to bring something to my table besides a fork and knife! When you are confident in what you bring to the table, you don't have to beg and chase anyone to sit down and eat! What category do they belong in? Partner, project, parasite or pond? Putting people in the wrong category will mess your life up! Pain prevention is tied to people being properly placed in your life y'all!! A tolerable level of permanent unhappiness just won't work!!
@comeworkoutwithme9319
@comeworkoutwithme9319 7 ай бұрын
No, we appreciate you. Keep doing your thing I love your show.
@misspheobelee
@misspheobelee 7 ай бұрын
Holy shit ACE! Do not ever apologise for speaking your truth! We ladies are here, to hear you tell us the things we need to know, we need these motherfucking ahhhh haaaaa moments! And if people unfollow you because you said what they weren't ready to hear! Then BYE BYE 👋 Sometimes, the reality of the harsh truth is exactly what I want to hear! I love love love the way you get your point across! YOU have helped me see the light and made me feel so much more worthy and strong in myself. I now am armed with my sword and shield 🛡 so that I can stop laying soft arse boundaries down for a mofo to walk all over. Don't change the way YOU DO WHAT YOU DO. I, for one, am grateful. PEACE ✌️ ❤😊
@susanhenderson9739
@susanhenderson9739 7 ай бұрын
You’re right….
@aliciasnow7866
@aliciasnow7866 7 ай бұрын
Ace done told me!!!!!!! He done put me in my place!!!! And I thank him❤❤❤❤❤❤
@thames308
@thames308 7 ай бұрын
This a REAL SERMON RIGHT HERE. AMEN
@TC-yx3bs
@TC-yx3bs 7 ай бұрын
this is the real deal - thanks for sharing this. - nice to get the confirmation and clarity
@meshiaharris
@meshiaharris 5 ай бұрын
PREACHHHHHHHHH KING BOYFRIEND PLAY N YO FACE ❤💯🌹🌹✔️
@queenb31100
@queenb31100 7 ай бұрын
When you stay wit a person that your changing yourself for you take away from who you are messing up your selfworth setting yourself up for failure for years i was in a relationship trying to be the good woman he wanted n it kept back firing cause he was unappreciative n selfish everything was about him n what he wanted
@susanhenderson9739
@susanhenderson9739 7 ай бұрын
@queenb31100 Same with my husband..Everything I did was never good enough, he complained about everything.. He couldn’t stand that I was stealing his spotlight everyone kept asking “How’s your wife?” He was constantly dimming my light..Darling we are worth it!!🎉
@rachelm9352
@rachelm9352 7 ай бұрын
Real talk and took me 4 years too long to learn.. I learned tho but now I'm a better me for it
@Ingridpm5
@Ingridpm5 7 ай бұрын
Wow it’s like you been right here witnessing all the shit! I’m playing this everyday till I’m healed! No joke this is very much needed daily.
@jackiefrierson2199
@jackiefrierson2199 7 ай бұрын
Not to long getting out of a 5 year relationship and man listen I DONT want to be in anything else any time soon jumping for man to man not going to make shit better so I WILL BE CHILLING BY MY DAMN SELF UNTIL
@lala5061
@lala5061 7 ай бұрын
Please do cuz it's a mess out here...do your research first take your time hun, im telling u 🙄
@jackiefrierson2199
@jackiefrierson2199 7 ай бұрын
@lala5061 oh respectfully I am doing just that I have a lot of seekers but they so messy and at my age of 57.the men think they young with those D`s that don't work have the time lol..lol..lol
@jackiefrierson2199
@jackiefrierson2199 7 ай бұрын
@@lala5061 half the time the D`s are broken
@mieshadashae5718
@mieshadashae5718 7 ай бұрын
This video resonated with me the most while I’m currently grieving this split from someone who didn’t have the capacity to see my worth, I tried with the push/ pull daily never knowing what type of person I would get. It’s insane not knowing when a person could switch back and forth from respectful to disrespect and all you want them to do is keep peace and accept you cause things “were” going good.TheShit feels fake like your minds actually playing tricks on you but it’s reality & in the end he made it seem like he never liked me or cared for me and I was the problem. It hurts but it’s done! when you gotta open your eyes WIDE and step away don’t get scared, it’s the better thing to do.
@Blossombabe612
@Blossombabe612 7 ай бұрын
You are so accurate 👏👏👏👏👏👏
@janiceowens6679
@janiceowens6679 Ай бұрын
I have learned not to disappear on myself. Thank you Ace Thanks for reading me my rights.❤❤❤❤❤
@moonlightstargem1006
@moonlightstargem1006 7 ай бұрын
It takes a high self worth to stand up for yourself. I know what that is like to have low self worth.
@jackiedee7977
@jackiedee7977 6 ай бұрын
This …… My god I needed this. That harsh talk. Straight talk. He told no lies.
@AshleyWashington-s2x
@AshleyWashington-s2x 6 ай бұрын
Thank u so much for u platform. I appreciate your advice and help. GOD BLESS YOU ❤
@babyray7594
@babyray7594 7 ай бұрын
I'm a man who is going through this now, but in reverse. This is happening to me!!
@user-GodIsGood777
@user-GodIsGood777 6 ай бұрын
Facts!!! Isolation from everyone to heal and come out a better, non bitter person 💪 is amazing!!! No victim here! Took control finally of all of what happened. I love me now ❤❤❤❤
@Atlanta718
@Atlanta718 7 ай бұрын
The only way to change the man is to CHANGE 🔁 the man❤
@shaylanesefamilytv1987
@shaylanesefamilytv1987 7 ай бұрын
Woman are seeing that almost 80% of men play games and if we leave every time one has played we’ll be raned all the way through by 25yrs old trying to try again. It’s almost like we just have to be alone or deal with the games. Or have a high body count and then no one wants you if that the case and if we hold off on sex they will play too so where is the win fr
@ciarasmith4984
@ciarasmith4984 6 ай бұрын
I love how you speak the truth, and sometimes the truth hurts. Some of us have to possess the courage to look ourselves in the mirror and be honest about our relationship with Self. YOU are Worthy! You are ENOUGH.❤
@princessserwaa6304
@princessserwaa6304 7 ай бұрын
Everytime he says dusty i just laugh 😂😂😂
@susanhenderson9739
@susanhenderson9739 7 ай бұрын
Hell Yeah back in the day we used to call them “Dust Ass.”😂😂😂
@marzelpaylor7620
@marzelpaylor7620 7 ай бұрын
I’m huge fan Ace, but I always hear you talk about women who get mistreated by men BUT their are women who mistreat good men and don’t see the value in these good men
@alphaberryxo
@alphaberryxo 6 ай бұрын
Ace...you just became my best friend🙏
@TracyKing-x2l
@TracyKing-x2l 7 ай бұрын
I absolutely love this man, he tells it like it is. I love to hear the truth.❤
@susanhenderson9739
@susanhenderson9739 7 ай бұрын
Ace is very hard to replace…… 👍🏽💖👍🏽🌟
@marciam5475
@marciam5475 7 ай бұрын
Thanks for your blunt delivery
@Kaligod3
@Kaligod3 6 ай бұрын
I love the way you speak, cursing and all. If someone can’t handle it they are not ready to hear the truth.
@e.m.4605
@e.m.4605 7 ай бұрын
Omg, you’re speaking so many facts. I wish I had a man in my life at a young age, a teenager, and again as an adult just to remind me. Good job!
@jeaneengant6771
@jeaneengant6771 7 ай бұрын
The breakup is hard for me.. because we had an awesome connection.. our date nights.. conversation vacation etc..he was like my BF.. sounds crazy but yeah
@jacqueline7781
@jacqueline7781 2 ай бұрын
Yesssssssssss 👏🏽👏🏽 you are the only one can stop 🛑 it
@carmennervoso8985
@carmennervoso8985 7 ай бұрын
Sir I have recently found your channel. I totally agree with you. What's missing is to have us women to see their traumas that made us believe we are unworthy. We must heal ourselves as well from our reasons we were never taught how to court a man. How to pick a man not only from attraction.
@MoonBunny69
@MoonBunny69 7 ай бұрын
25:35 Those good men are taken cuz they done got them selves together and found they woman.😅
@sonjadf47
@sonjadf47 7 ай бұрын
Remember that GUY picked her. So he should have put on his best. If he or she in time, will find out where the relationship and then act accordingly.
@BrittneySamoneSilver
@BrittneySamoneSilver 7 ай бұрын
If I have to exit your life in order for you to appreciate me, I don't want you anymore because now I don't trust you. Now I don't feel safe and secure. Now I believe that you only appreciate me when I create distance.
@DeniceDewberry
@DeniceDewberry 7 ай бұрын
L needed to hear this, thank you so much ❤
@KKP20111
@KKP20111 7 ай бұрын
Thank you, Ace! 🙏❤️ Everything you said was 100% true! 💯💯💯 Bless you for reminding us all those important things that some of us ignore!
@susanhenderson9739
@susanhenderson9739 7 ай бұрын
Amen sometimes we do ignore the important things because we have our blinders on.. “I was blind but, now I see.”
@tiffaniknight1069
@tiffaniknight1069 7 ай бұрын
Thank you!!! 💯
@ashleyhutchinson8358
@ashleyhutchinson8358 7 ай бұрын
You were speaking directly to me and it’s so crazy definitely not that person but now but as soon as I applied this to my life baby my life is unfolding before my very eyes 😢
@kaoshi_kutie
@kaoshi_kutie 7 ай бұрын
This sounds a lot like Narcissistic people. My ex was. Covert Narc he could not accept who I was and that I shined brighter than him , he was painfully insecure and kept trying to belittle me and control me. Abusive behaviour! I slammed the door in his face and he is blocked everywhere. ❤
@Oceans1beauty
@Oceans1beauty 7 ай бұрын
You giving straight facts us as women is too easy and don’t stop it when man behave and act out
@tashaallen6763
@tashaallen6763 7 ай бұрын
The truth is the truth Ace and if they allow it to, It will set them free
@MimiTiyana
@MimiTiyana 7 ай бұрын
“Shit ain’t rocket science” 😂😂 na for real some people don’t wanna hear it though. But don’t keep blaming him , you must like it !
@sistachristian660
@sistachristian660 6 ай бұрын
Loving the wrong person is like MaryJ. and Kenduu Issac.Hes 10🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩's
@datronwinston9750
@datronwinston9750 12 күн бұрын
You’re only talking from female perspective bro.
@conniegaar5449
@conniegaar5449 7 ай бұрын
Appreciate the Raw honesty some of us WISHED we heard this years ago!! ME 😮😮😮😮
@RachelRogers-zw5yd
@RachelRogers-zw5yd 7 ай бұрын
Ace you to Real and I love yo cursing because you stand on business and telling the truth 😘😘
@evelynfields4612
@evelynfields4612 7 ай бұрын
You're telling the truth ❤
@moonlightstargem1006
@moonlightstargem1006 Ай бұрын
Just stop liking people all that much!! If you start liking someone and they start taking advantage of you stop yourself!
@jennyaviles1632
@jennyaviles1632 7 ай бұрын
What about if he is my husband????????
@SabrinaMartin-y5f
@SabrinaMartin-y5f 4 ай бұрын
OOOOOWEEEEE YO 🙆‼️ ACE IS TH PLACE, HZ TH HELPFULL HARDWARE MAN🙆😍🙆‼️❤️‍🔥❗ ... PUT IT ON // TAKE IT OFF!! IF IT FIT WEAR IT / IF U CANT SAY OOOPS, SAY OUWCH! 2 KNO BETR IS 2 DO BETR ❣️🙏😚😘🥰🤗🌻🌺🌻🥥🫐🍇🥝🍑🍊🍉🍒🍍🍓🥭🍌🌶️🍋🥑🍠🍒🫐🥝💯🔥❤️‍🔥💌🏹
@tiamaria3123
@tiamaria3123 7 ай бұрын
AMAZING LESSONS being taught... thank you ❤❤❤
@anastasiaanderson9487
@anastasiaanderson9487 7 ай бұрын
Yessssss
@collettelefebvre8392
@collettelefebvre8392 2 ай бұрын
15 yrs with a guy I adored ,,, 15 yrs more being a Friend - No sex ( with anyone ) ,,, neither of us have had a relationship since ,,, and I still can’t get it right 😢
@issadoralogan6655
@issadoralogan6655 4 ай бұрын
Divorced my husband of 21 years for playing in my face! Gave too many chances and that doesn’t work with the husband’s either!
@Foeforever3
@Foeforever3 3 ай бұрын
Thank you for this highly appreciated this message needed to run into this
@brandycollins8918
@brandycollins8918 6 ай бұрын
Currently with him he's not hurting me I'm hurting myself because I keep letting him 😢
@HOOMA-
@HOOMA- 7 ай бұрын
Aceeeee! You have a killer sense of humour but be kind to the ladies who’re hurting I had the time of my life learning valuable perspective and cracking the fuck up at all the many mysterious jokes but I’d be feeling a bit different if I’d come to actually get some advice/ solution .. I mean I absolutely love what you’re saying and advising but just a bit gently pleaaaase 🙏🏾🤍 I’ve watched 2 of your videos and loved it so far .. keep thriving 🧿⚡️ #sunscribed🫶🏾
@bdeezy2962
@bdeezy2962 2 ай бұрын
Whooooaaaa..Ace you might as well have jumped out of my phone and slapped me yourself😂 this one hit me hard today like damn ..I needed that shit and I love the way you talk your stern but not harsh, and your REAL but not shaming or judging..you not trying to make anyone feel bad, bc we trying to see good in someone that's just plain bad and you preach that shit so good it gave me goosebumps❤❤ thank you man, you are def doing what God called you to do cause you really just lit a fire under my ass that I'm gonna put to good use😊🎉
@lyricallycorrect8249
@lyricallycorrect8249 6 ай бұрын
I spent 20 years with the wrong man. I gave away my prime years. My soul was tied to his & it was hard to get away. I lost myself & until this day I'm not fully healed. Dealing with the psychology of regret is a suffering! I will never get that time back! If I had to do it again man oh man lol🤦🏿‍♀️
@kdndahouse3405
@kdndahouse3405 3 ай бұрын
This the first video of yours I could completely agree with and watch all the way through
@NewWaveGirl30
@NewWaveGirl30 7 ай бұрын
Why would someone want someone who doesn't want them and why does the person who doesn't want them keep pursuing them?? And why do they (he and his female counterparts) force you to do sexual acts repeatedly if they don't want you?? This is not just about money
@melissabelluci8242
@melissabelluci8242 7 ай бұрын
That what I wished to knew lived the wrong person fucked myself i was not anymore myself 😢
@MySistersKeeperHp
@MySistersKeeperHp 7 ай бұрын
You betta preach!
@jacquelynsimmons6131
@jacquelynsimmons6131 7 ай бұрын
We good I appreciate how you are putting it some of us including myself need hard core advice God bless you!!
@CompleteHoneyBee
@CompleteHoneyBee 6 ай бұрын
I like what he’s saying but the cursing is just too much for me. I can’t finish it. 9:15 😢😢😢
@brandycollins8918
@brandycollins8918 6 ай бұрын
You are all in my s***I promise you all that stuff you just said I've been saying the same thing he keep treating me like that cuz I keep allowing him to treat me like that cuz I keep staying not after the day thank you for the courage and the wise words to make me make this big move
@TheNeen9
@TheNeen9 7 ай бұрын
Preach! 👏🏾😭 Speak the truth, don’t sugar coat nothing! I finally realized my worth… He’s gone, now he’s hoovering me! I’ll do this, I’ll do that, I’m going to church… 😒🤦🏾‍♀️ Now you can do all that?! 😒✌🏾
@susanhenderson9739
@susanhenderson9739 7 ай бұрын
I will do this and I will do that believe me it won’t last…I’m glad you realized your worth… Always remember you are worth more than enough….
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