The Dark Side of Love: Scams Filipinas do to Get Your Money

[@theverdict4322]

If everybody is scammed why not yourself Mike or you wife never ask you any?

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Just goes to show you comment but never watch any of the Videos. I 'm very open about being scammed .kzbin.info/www/bejne/fXmxkoOOir12n5osi=Oqf6XxcGZYxkzcE0

[@GerinPhils]

He never said everyone is a scammer...just that we need to be careful because you will be targeting.

[@haighton]

You know, if women and/or men in my country would/will do that (scamming), I will feel very low and rotten being a fellow country person of them. When will it stop? They are poor because of the sub-standard (below par) education-system in PH. Plus being religious (on the surface only) doesnt make them better off. And if the PH culture is so damn good then why does nobody benefit from that culture?

[@tupoa360]

Everybody is scammed, it is just whether you know it or not and how far you let it go. Even the best woman in the Philippines will do this for small things occasionally, as it is the nature of life in a very poor country where you have to save face. Instead of pressing them and cutting off your lovin and making them look bad, it is sometimes better to let them walk away with an extra $20 for her poor sick dog that got hit by the scooter. The secret to love in the Philippines is to set a walk away threshold and do it without looking back.

[@Always.Something-40]

I've been there numerous times. And over time you learn to read the girls. Some of the women scammers you can notice right away. We call them buy me girls. Meaning as you walk down the street with her she's asking you to buy her something at every store you pass. If this ever happens just walk away. Same thing online if you've never met her in person never ever send them money ever!Then you have other girls that will play the long game. They are a little harder to spot. So just take it slow and time will tell. Their's no rush.

[@kurt2800]

Everyone I have met in the Philippines has been a scammer your exactly right. Every foreigner should watch this video!

[@chosen_one1602]

This video should be required on all incoming flights to the Philippines. Mike just listed every possible scam. I'm impressed.

[@listerine414]

Lol.

[@ExpatExperts007]

I feel sorry for incoming new American expats. If you need to be taught, or reminded, of simple scams, you deserve it, sucker!

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

so many I could never be able to talk about all of the possible scams.

[@peter-pg5yc]

A stiff butto has no conscious.

[@tedrobertson1344]

Hsha😂🎉

[@stevehatten209]

You are so right on these scams. A lot of these men won't even tell anyone it's happened to them.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

some guys are to proud to share what happened to them

[@garretdoi6218]

@@stevehatten209 yes because it would be to embarrassing 🫣😳 & it would make us l👀k too, stupid & foolish..🫨😬🤐

[@Farmboy420-v5i]

🎉 don't ruin it for the fresh meat and the new Filipina culture. Girls gotta eat 😜

[@Dantheman14536]

​. #fact

[@koufax174]

Another great messages! Heard this so many times. Arrogance and ego is huge part of this. Living in deprivation in the US sets these guys up to fail. I have told guys I met and asked me for advice, there is only two speeds to dating, slow and stop. They rarely listen and the consequences are brutal, marrying someone in a week and not knowing the woman, her family, her additions, her unstable emotional health, her controlling and manipulating ways. One of my best attributes in my life has been learning from others mistakes. I also heed my advice and go slow or stop. I’ve worked too hard my whole life to abandon myself and sacrifice my peace of mind and contentment. Thanks Mike 🙏🏼

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

many good points Koufax

[@SYED-s6x]

As a 65 year old who likes much younger, prettier fit girls I know these are transactional relationships and they always cost . Why else a young woman will choose man decades older? I can exercise all I want, color my hair to perfection, seek medical intervention but 65 years old me will never be 30 year old me…

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

it is all good as long as you understand what is happening and your happy

[@rustynail3630]

Well said.

[@davidsim5636]

@@mikesphilippineretirement Amen sir.

[@DexterSmith-d6l]

@@SYED-s6x take vigra

[@gobfranklin6759]

The truth! :)

[@jongibbs8115]

Maybe an unpopular opinion, but this is the best video you have put out in a long time. Helpful and not soft like other videos. I always get tired of hearing "my girl is different".... It maybe true (10-20%), but usually isn't. Guys jump in too fast. They need to learn the long game and not think with the wrong part of the body. Guys need to wake up. If you want long term success living in PI, you have to look after yourself first and set boundaries. Know what you want and stick to it and you won't get played.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Thank you ...

[@darlayjones669]

That's really a great topic. Keep them coming and be blessed.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

thank you I will

[@michaelorfanos7416]

Mike, I admit that I also go scammed, LOL I learned my lesson the hard way. Great video and hope guys listen to you.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Your not alone.

[@localtime824]

Wise advice Bud. Yea I see guys fall for it again and again. Even the experenced guys fall for it, when they know full well, to beware.

[@rickyzanchez7328]

Great video Mike. Being one of the "unwanted men", I have fallen for many of these ripoffs sadly. I just wish we could stop with the BS and call it what it is, they are liars and theives. If a guy did this to us that is what we would call him. We would have no sympathy because he has kids to feed, or is poor, etc... But again, great lesson as usual that applies here in South America as well as the Philippines.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Thanks for sharing

[@carlosduran4408]

Greetings Mike, will be visiting Dumaguette soon and I thank you for your advice. As a 37 year old male from the US, these tips are useful.

[@karlenzmann]

A few years ago I chatted with a Filipina who’s grandmother passed away 3 times in a year 😂 It was a Festivus Miracle every time! You are speaking solid truths. Guys need to think with their upper head. I know it’s difficult. Trust me I know, and I’ve made my share of mistakes in the past. I’ve not purchased any cars, motorbikes or houses, but I’ll admit I sent $20 for load, $30 for groceries, $50 for school supplies…but thankfully that was pre-pandemic on my part. Live and learn…

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Thank you for sharing your story

[@gobfranklin6759]

We've all been there 😊

[@dubaicanary2016]

I knew a guy who got really fed up with his staff skipping off because there was 'a death in the family'. One day he got so irritated he called all his staff in and said "I DON"T WANT ANY MORE DEATHS IN YOUR IMMEDAITE FAIMLIES" !! It seemed to do the trick because relatives suddenly stopped dying after that dressing down !

[@bryonhogg485]

On Man ! - 3 times ! - That's her story and she's sticking to it . . .

[@SteveLopez-q4o]

Beautiful and so true, totoo, well said Mike And they are all teachers Love the X on the door One of your best Probably the best

[@ivannovotny4552]

Mike, you're always a breath of fresh air and common sense. I enjoy "Bait & Switch" issues. Side Note: Karma is unforgiving.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

that it is

[@Tony-dh]

I am sure my one will end up worse than she was before i gave her all this money. Going by how everyone else that didn’t repay me ended up over the years. Loaning money, even to friends snd family is the quickest way to lose them.

[@riccholland585]

Keep those true stories coming, they are educational. Enjoy your story telling. You and the "old dog" are great!!

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Thank you! Will do!

[@andyrose5576]

Thanks Mike, the truth is always painful…

[@jeremypick4132]

This is a terrific primer! I have been on a couple of dating apps. I have talked with dozens upon dozens of women. Virtually 100%, by day 2 at the latest, are asking for load, a new phone, or food for their hungry children. Then, as Mike says, come the emergencies, usually involving a phantom, sick relative. Also, often, they are very clever to not blatantly ask for money. Instead, they will tell you that they are very sad, or feeling stressed. Naturally, you ask why? Then comes the tale of woe: she can’t pay her rent; her son is in the hospital with dengue; her dentures broke….. I have heard them all.

[@ericjames7819]

First, stop talking to women with children

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

All the sob stories are just the beginning

[@Ego-Kills]

I tell them me too having money problems and they disappear fast 😂

[@Mikeyyyy_L]

Mike, I heard this one from you a while ago. A good example of the scams they do

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

yes a wake up call. it was one of my first videos that got 100k views

[@lazylarrylee2421]

Mike, the best way to never get scammed online is to never go online to find a girlfriend.

[@kuyaeddnis8026]

Mike, word for word, this is what I went through. Now, I'm looking for an annulment lawyer.

[@garyzies3486]

Deception is a mother....never trust, always verify.

[@JamesHickman-g5c]

No need to pay for an annulment, just go home (or Guam) and get a divorce. Let her or her next guy pay for an annulment. Actually, no need to remarry at all, unless you want to have your own kids. If you have kids together that may be a different story.

[@gobfranklin6759]

Sorry to hear! Hope it was not too bad but sorry to hear just the same

[@gobfranklin6759]

​@@JamesHickman-g5clike that!

[@stevenichlson6085]

@kuyaeddnis8026 depends on what country your from. Like what someone already commented to you. You can divorce in your country. Research it.

[@Ego-Kills]

Getting scammed is not the biggest problem. The problem is too much $ and too long. Guys should cut the cord as soon as they are scammed for the smallest amount and never repeat the same mistake

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Good advice for soon

[@davidsim5636]

I am looking forward to future videos on your house build, keep them coming.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

it will be when we start

[@herbwitt7710]

Thanks Mike for heads up with the scams.😮

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Your a wise man Herb

[@erictaylor3897]

Don't even send her a dollar. You lead with your wallet and you pay at the end. If a woman tells you she doesn't need your money and never asks. You've got a keeper. Don't send money ever.

[@gst6905]

You’re a very lucky man if you find one like that. Still searching 😂

[@Ego-Kills]

Unless she is playing the long game

[@erictaylor3897]

@Ego-Kills That is true, this has happened quite often. It is better to get with someone with stable finances. I would say that from experience Japan and Singapore are great countries to find a partner. Some Polynesian countries are laid back. I've dated many beautiful Maori women, they're like Filipinas but more shapely if she's fit. Polynesian women are very family oriented and much more direct. Also down to earth, I've always enjoyed having conversations with them.

[@Ego-Kills]

@erictaylor3897 99% of these issues in developing countries is poverty related and in the developed countries is greed related. Thanks for idea

[@glow1815]

I'm Cambodian woman live in USA totally agreed.

[@MichaelAnthony-r2h]

Hey Mike I'm really liking your email perspective and and stories I would like to hear more of it and as always Great advice 🤗

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Thank you for watching More to come

[@TomM60]

I had a girlfriend from South America that didn't work out so I started writing to a Filipino who is working in China. She can't use Skype without a VPN in that country and she said she wouldn't use a VPN because it's against the law. I quit writing to that one and another one wrote to me who is also working as a nurse in China but she has VPN and we finally had a chance to talk and see each other. Her contract is up early next year and I plan on having her visit me in the USA. Then we'll see how well we get along. She said she will work as a nurse here if she can find a job. Nurses get paid quite a bit in this country, enough to where they can raise a family without a guy but that's not what she wants. She says she's waiting to give love to the right man. That's where we are at now. Time will tell if this works out. She doesn't ask for money and doesn't need it but I can't understand how anyone can work 16 hours a day. That's how they have to work in China. 😞 No live in nurse in this country has to work a 16 hour shift.

[@GBU61]

One of the hard rules every man should follow is do not send any money to her until you meet. Then once face to face, only pay for things that directly involve him while he is with her. The initial talking period online is to get to know each other. To be fair, If he is not willing to get on a plane and see her within a few months, then he shouldn’t be online in the first place. Some of these LDR’s go on for years.

[@GannicusIsFree]

@@GBU61 yes, guys are chatting and have no passport, no vacation time, no money and no plans to go there. The desperation is real.

[@keinlieb3818]

Absolutely agree. Luckily, my wife wasn't like that. I remember i actually tried sending her money, and she straight up refused to take it. We've been together for 6 years now. Have a baby together and living a beautiful life. Even to this day, she has a hard time accepting money. I had to trap her in the mall a couple of months ago and wouldn't let her leave until she got a couple of new dresses. But, I was scammed hard by the 1st Filipina I ever talked to.

[@humungushumungus213]

Yeah , your perfect example of SIMP, they all say what you say, until you don’t . Just be ready to get the hell out of there, when time comes. And stop with this : but mine Filipino is different, cause I am smarter then the other expats😂

[@chriselmore1969]

@@humungushumungus213 Believe it or not, there are good women out there, yes there are bad ones as well. There are also good men, who are not SIMPs. Just because a man cares for a woman and wants to take care of her if she takes care of him does not make them SIMPS. Then there are those who treat women as property or don't believe in being kind and generous to them. Men who believe they are the gift and women are the recipients, and they should be grateful the man pays attention to them. Men who believe that if they see a man complementing a woman without degrading her or being trustful and helping out that the only reason they are doing it is for the kitty or attention, they are SIMPS. He never said he was smarter, he said he was lucky. When you find a good woman it is a bit of luck and also a bit of learning how to read the red flags. I have a good honest Filipina also, now. Have I been scammed before? Yes! But, I knew enough to recognize it was a scam before I got scammed for a lot. Someone mentioned knowing to set a limit, especially when you start noticing red flags. I also talked to several women online, not only Filipinas, before I started a relationship with my now fiance'. It is such a jaded outlook on life to live in the belief that everyone is out to take advantage of. There are good honest people in the world, learn to recognize the ones who are not. Be kind to one another! Enjoy your life!

[@Ego-Kills]

You are not 100% sure if she is good. She may be playing the long game.

[@keinlieb3818]

@Ego-Kills As is true with any person. You probably shouldn't get into a relationship if you think the end goal of a woman or man is going to be to screw you. Also, why you need to protect yourself with prenuptial agreements. If you do feel the woman is possibly out to get you, it is best to never buy a house either. Just rent. Then, if things dont work out after 10+ years, you don't have to worry about losing your house or your wealth.

[@Ego-Kills]

@keinlieb3818 agree 💯%

[@darkroast66]

I prefer the saying, you can lead a donkey to water, but you can’t make the dumb ass drink.😂

[@JamesRaley-lu3vv]

Mike, you are doing a great job. So enjoy your your blogs.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

thanks James

[@bert-bb3cm]

Hello Mike, hope all’s well. You have great contents in your video. New sub here. Hope everything will be awesome from here on. Take care bro 😎

[@oceanbreeze369]

There's absolutely NO reason to be sending money in any online relationship. NONE!

[@chriselmore1969]

Thanks for your opinion. That's all it is!

[@frankellis9627]

That's right! NONE 🤨

[@Sullitude87]

It depends. Believe me. 99.9 % yes youre right.

[@JamesHickman-g5c]

100%, I already see objections in the comments. They are encouraging more scamming, so it's not just an innocent act. Gents, please wake up she is only a CHAT MATE! I've been here 5+ years, and you must meet her IN PERSON, and spend time to get to know her, just like anywhere else. You're taking a big chance if you skip these steps. You are also ruining it for those coming here. Why? Many ladies are scamming men online for their livelihood and have have no intention of meeting them (or YOU)--EVER. It's a harsh truth that men need to hear.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

so many do. Why do you think they send money?

[@DonFarmer-hq5sw]

Excellent work my friend 😊. The consequences of our easy internet connections and phone calls have been detrimental to our lives.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Yes indeed

[@jeffshackelford5662]

He’s right. Don’t sweat the small things like an expensive cab ride or paying to much for the fruit. This stuff can really sink you, wreck your life.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

good point Jeff

[@gobfranklin6759]

Great advice! Thanks man

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Any time!

[@theadaptivefitnesschannel4308]

Great video, Mike! You are so right about everything you said brother. But no Mike! My girl wouldn’t do that. Really not my girl.🤣🤣

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

lets talk in a month and see how it is going

[@theadaptivefitnesschannel4308]

I will be in the Philippines for my eighth trip in January. Your advice has been priceless and very useful. Thank you.💯👊🏾🇵🇭

[@Ego-Kills]

​@mikesphilippineretithazrement It was sarcasm

[@Tusrista]

Great video Mike. I have no sympathy for anyone who sends money to someone who they never met in person.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Thanks for watching you need to take care of yourself

[@JanGeldenhuys-u3w]

Mike if she ask you for money the first time don't even answer her just block her and forget her

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

easy to sad..sometimes hard to do

[@Phil4me-p1i]

Two things scammers in general like to use? Reward and fear of loss. Think about it while watching Mike's video.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

great point Phil

[@Ego-Kills]

Centuries old trick ALL women used to control men. It's carrot and still policy. Even governments use to control people and other nations. When you don't fear losing the person is the time you have control. Never a relationship that you don't have the courage to walk away

[@missjerseyz2008]

My Buddy was dating a teacher. He helped her get a divorce from her abusive separated husband. 40 thousand dollars she got a divorce and promptly got married to her Local Boyfriend

[@glow1815]

😂😂😂😂

[@QuicknStraight]

The bottom line is this: unless you're here in the Philippines, DON'T GIVE ANY MONEY TO A GIRL UNLESS YOU HAVE DONE LONG-TERM DUE DILIGENCE. I came out to Asia way back in 1988, at the age of 25, for work, and have stayed here ever since. I have lived in a number of Asian countries, currently living in the Philippines for the last 5 years (my third spell here in those 36 years!). I met a Filipina who was a couple of years younger than me and, eventually, we married and our son is now 28 years old. She was working abroad in the country where I was working, here in Asia, so we never had the long-distance thing. And, of course, I was a lot younger than those who's first experience out here is when they retire. The issue i found was not with the missus, but with the family and you have to learn quickly to put your foot down and just say "NO!" when they start asking for handouts for various reasons. It's about establishing boundaries and limits. If you don't, you're setting yourself up for a world of hassle!

[@glow1815]

Agreed.

[@rocket9580]

spot on!

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

thank you

[@AussieTonythemexican]

Still not as expensive as the west. I don't offer, i heard all the sob stories, i don't LDR, but I'm moving over soon. SLOW DOWN, is the best advice i heard.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

best of luck. Enjoy your life

[@AussieTonythemexican]

@@mikesphilippineretirement might see ya there, was in Dumaguete recently

[@Qima1]

Correct. Doing LDR is jumping the gun. Boots on the ground is the only way to truly know what is going on. Been here 5 years full -time. Much harder to get scammed face to face.

[@ovlov245]

Hej! You looking younger everyday! Please do happy videos. All this negative is getting me down and will play on your soul too man.

[@derekmarsden8934]

It's not negative it's reality. Just face up to it and be positive and it won't happen to you.

[@Ego-Kills]

Yes sounds depressing but it will save your life

[@dougdorpat]

Good video as always, Mike.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Thank you

[@Jorge-fk8qg]

Iam 62, I think the problem it is feeling alone, then you start thinking wrong, thank you Mike, it is sad, but it is like that.

[@mcelmar1234]

Great video mike

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

thank you

[@johncano3972]

Well said Mike.. Penny wise dollar foolish..!!

[@Ego-Kills]

If you are not a fool, if you are scammed once, you should know their tricks and not get scammed again because their tricks are the same. The hard and most dangerous ones are the ones playing the long game. These ones, best approach is wast their time and move on quickly

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

thanks for sharing

[@derekmills8160]

Ok Mike, a 2 yr relationship, been going back and forth for 2yrs, all seemed on the up and up. Sent her 20kp a month for a yr and half. Paid for her surgery, she accepted a ring. Now I'm here and boom. Basically no contact and excuses. I have been deceived and betrayed once again. So depressing. Where are the good and honest ones. Questioning all of my decisions at this point. Have no trust in any women in this world. At least I didn't sell all of my belongings. Just don't care to return to the US with my tail between my legs. Currently in BGC till Feb 1. Very down bro

[@davidsim5636]

Learn, and reload !

[@Ego-Kills]

Bro approach no marriage in mind, just have fun and let nature take its course. When you are not looking is when it happens. Cheer up, you are not alone. Even Eve Scammed Adma 😂

[@derekmills8160]

Yes Eve. Tks ​@@Ego-Kills

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

It's tough. You never Know when she will show up. Just keep looking and enjoy your life

[@garyhamilton9186]

I am so fortunate, I have been married for over 6 years, and met my Wife 8 years ago. When I started to try and meet girls online, I could pick out the scammers right away . My Wife never asked for a penny from me.

[@B.B.A776]

Always open you 👁️be smart don’t fall in the trap 🪤 And I Agree with you Mike👌🏽

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Eyes wide Open Thanks for your support

[@ivanfitness2371]

I like this guy (Mike)! A big bunch of us guys sure need this podcast rammed up our noses big time. For my two cents; never give anyone any money... not anyone... family; friends lovers. If a person is decent and hard working they will not ask for a handout. After much gnashing of teeth (and giving of money); at age 68 I will never give a dirty cent to a hungry skeleton. No way, no how, never. I bin got some dinero together and I will line my casket with it; I will burn my house down and salt the earth... just kidding... or am I? Be well mi amigos. PS. Always listen to your gut... always ask the difficult questions; eg. how much money do you have? how many lovers have you had? are you in debt? etc.be well from Ivan in NZ

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Thank you

[@badass6656]

"Start small" Not so sure I have had women ask me after a massage for $300 to visit her parents in the village a bus ticket would cost about $6 and a new motor bike because 'boyfriend no good'. Another time I was propositioned for marriage by a massage girl. She wanted $30,000 for a house, $30,000 for a car and $30,000 for a dowry. I asked if I would get free massages she said no that will be extra, not sure if she was joking.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

thanks for sharing badass

[@Mikeyyyy_L]

Mike, It’s exactly like fishing and they have many poles out there.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

And Hooks with great bait

[@rustynail3630]

Keep the stories coming. Maybe some of these guys will learn. Nah, I don't think so. They all say it won't happen to me and a lot of them don't have the money to send but they do. Life is getting more expensive everywhere and you can't just depend on Social Security like many do.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Thanks for sharing

[@Farmboy420-v5i]

🎉 meet many old daddies living on the street. Married to young Filipina. Thrown out because mo money is needed for poppa and momma and the secret child. Imagine if your daughter was with a foreign old enough to be your father! You'd want tax money too

[@strickerzone6749]

You are the savior mike... 🙏 Thank you...

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

No I'm Not but thank you for your support

[@burtonknows9201]

LOL! You speaketh the truth, Mike!

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

thank you

[@barrydanish6008]

My wife died of cancer 2 1/2 years ago . A girl that found me on Facebook was 45/years old , so I thought she was mature enough for me. I’m 72. She claimed she had cysts on her breasts,and maybe cancer in one breast. After sending her $4,300 for cancer surgery, she sent me a message that maybe I should forget about her, along with a ten second video of some ugly guy performing oral sex on her. I got very drunk that day.

[@markingtime9723]

Barry. There are good women here. Honestly. But, they are not on the internet. You have to meet them in person.

[@haighton]

@barrydanish6008 most Filipinas dont like fellatio or cunnilingus. I dont know why. It seems they are not aware of their own sexual body (clitoris, g-spot, egg cell, ovary, womb, menstruation, ovulation). They actually know nothing about their own body. From a human being perspective its a disgrace how little they know about their own body.

[@garyzies3486]

They call that a "quick hit".

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

so sad

[@dave_in_florida]

Thanks Mike!

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Welcome

[@Gary-lj7pi]

Truth .. Thanks Mike

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Thanks

[@knockknock1246]

I've been unable to trust since I've been here. But admittedly, I had an experience in the States with a Filipina. She made up lies that could have cost me my marriage and job. I carried around a small tape recorder after she was no longer in my employ. Not even my type. Madness. I met a cute girl yesterday, she lives nearby, so I decided to pursue. (Today) It was an exhilarating feeling to go to bed with. I woke up with cold sweats this morning after having had a nightmare about this same girl. It's like a cancer, bad learning experiences, and the baggage that goes along with it.. sometimes. I've been traveling since January 2009, but in all other countries, I've been MUCH MORE relaxed. Sad more for them, in my estimations.

[@firstnamelastname6717]

After watching and listening to many videos like this one and reading the comments. , I’m convinced and it’s confirmed that most women are the same , no matter what country. , language, culture, race, color, big, small, fat, chubby, slim, thin, old , Young rich , poor, it’s all the same deal one way or another in different ways, etc. I just rather. , visit the Philippines for a month at a time on / off , rent out a luxurious hotel, in the city, be totally up front with her and not beat around the bush, get to the point and let her know that you’re here for yourself, not for her. I would just chill.,Talk, take walks, go out to eat in nice restaurants and take a nice boat ride to see the beautiful views and relax and just have a nice cool time, would tell her. Look babe, I’m not in love with you, I don’t want to marry you. , I don’t want yo visit your family ( maybe a few friends, depending ) But this is gonna be a one on one thing, just you and me , I’ll pay 💰 for the food. Travel and whatever I want to do, she can come for the free ride with me, and when it’s over, and you make me feel good being with you with no dramas, traumas or BS, don’t bug me for nothing, just go with the flow and we’re gonna be alright, if she says yes to my request and desires then good. , I’ll keep in touch with her for the next thrill and adventures. Of course I’m well aware that she may have a lover , boyfriend or (hopefully not a husband), I don’t want marriage issues. Just plain basic good times, hello and good bye, see ya next time!!!!!🤩👍🏼

[@Ego-Kills]

Bro ALL are the same and the only difference is how much is they give in return. Western women are the worst 0% return and others little return. Asian women give better returns than other women but they are also shit. Thus far best option is Asian women but one needs to just play and if one happens to be the one after playing her longer time then that's fine. But best option is never trust 100% and always protect your $. Remember even Eve scammed Adma 😂

[@Ego-Kills]

Great plan bro. In fact, guys who go in with this attitude win and end up getting a good woman because they are not in rush and don't give a sh!t

[@StanHasselback]

Attractive women cost time and money. In the Philippines there are limited ways to escape poverty. This sets up an easy trap to fall into as a man. Never send money to anyone and expect to get anything in return. If you can accept that than you might be helping someone or you might be a useful idiot. Until you actually meet someone you only have a relationship in your head. Even after you meet her, there are more things going on that you will never truly understand as poverty creates a scarcity mindset just as loneliness does. You creating a stable environment is your greatest asset. Sure your girlfriend or wife may still care for you and or love you but stability is the rock that the relationship rest on.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Stan Well said

[@kennethsouthard6042]

Think about it like this. No young girl really wants an old man anyway, especially one from the first world who plans on moving to the third world, because he is too poor in his own country to take her back there, maybe even too poor to continue living there by himself in a retired state. What they really want is to get swept off their feet versus just living in a better state of poverty in where they've always lived. Perhaps they would settle on age of a move to the first world was part of the deal. So if they have to continue to live in their own country, and just do so on your money with a native boyfriend and just give you the virtual experience, they are fine with that and getting your money just becomes their job. It's really no different than a woman in a strip club looking for lonely customers that will fund her lifestyle versus the ones that just tip and go. So what so many of these guys are looking for is a needle in a haystack situation. Good luck with that.

[@skip2it426-]

This makes a lot of sense, a lot of depends on each individual’s own personal preferences. My opinion is men can be scammed anywhere. Just think about in the USA how men get legally scammed after a divorce. I’ll take my chances with a Filipina any day because if I’m being scammed at least they do it with kindness. Great subject matter thank you for sharing 👏🏾👌🏾👍🏾!

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

thanks for sharing Skip

[@richieredw9218]

You're right in all you said, many will still be scammed even though you laid out the facts, which means they're thinking with their little head instead of the main one😊you recall the saying "a fool and his money will soon be parted"

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

yes lots of old fools in the world

[@RonnieCulberson-cu8rx]

Good video Mike till it like it is yes🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

thanks Ronnie

[@Airraidcd]

Mike great video unfortunately us men are weak when it comes to a young beautiful girls. Sad but that’s reality.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

very true

[@Bilytkid]

"Make them fall in love". "Make them feel pity". "Then zoom (or western union". ("everyone sick here, we don't have a medicine. even caribou sick") Great video, Mike. (many of these scammers are scamming multiple guys at the same time)

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

very true

[@advancedchemistry1028]

Grandma died again lol

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

hahaha. lets hope she is ok

[@justflooreit4me1]

Tuff world indeed, Sir.

[@maryfrancesaugustine1149]

Yes it's true I'm a half Filipino, we my family ,friends we experience that ,that's why I told them some we meet ,they like to travel ,see or visit the philppines just be careful, whoever you meet there, dont trust them right away, just be careful wherever parts of the Philippines you go .

[@Robert-ym1im]

If a woman don't wanna talk to you at all on video that's when you stop

[@kenmac2685]

it is true mike we all been scammed ive been in the phills 10yrs still happens but just little things nothing big

[@Bunnysan2000]

Quite true!

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

yes at times

[@normanwong6129]

Don't fall for this when on holiday just have fun when there & just walk away when u leave no strings attached

[@BruceCinader]

Most men seem to overlook the red flags because they fall in love. Great discussion.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

completely agree with you Bruce

[@Electrichead64]

Love and obsession are two different things. When you are being scammed, you know it. You feel it in your gut, and it makes you scared and nervous, but you choose to drive through it because you want it, really really bad. The right girl is green lights all the way.

[@gst6905]

Yes I agree. Just don’t give more than you can afford.

[@bp51326]

I think the real issue for a lot of men that come here and Thailand is the lack of attention back home for years. As soon as they get off the plane they are hit with smiles and attention. I was in a bank in Boracay and needed to get smaller bills for the equivalent of $100 usd and all the girls behind the counter gathered around and told me I was a VIP. Lol

[@josephgrudza3873]

Great video. I believe that I did find the right one. Since we have been together she has introduced me to all her family and co-workers even the managers at the healthcare facility she works in. She has even gone so far as to buy me clothes so I will not need to bring so much on the plane. If this sounds strange please let me know what you think. She has offered me money to pay my phone. Go figure. It was quite some time before we started talking about a future together so we moved slowly. We talk 3 times a day and are on the phone over 5 hours a day. I hope you and Janet are well. Have a great day.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

No everyone is poor in the Philippines. So you may have a good one

[@JulienSorelEatsSabras]

Thousands? 10's of thousands and loving it. Started out scamming me and fell in love with me. 🤣

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

you turned the table

[@Nemo_IRL]

I heard all those stories way back before all these modern day chat clients. It was a computer program called mIRC. This was late 90's, early 00's. They used the same excuses back then.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

thanks for sharing that Nemo

[@johnanderson9840]

Much further ahead to just hire them by the day as needed, and replace them often.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

not a good way to go

[@cosmiccowboy3063]

You said it, they are living in a fantasy.

[@Underworld-Dark-Moon]

Wisdom!

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Thanks

[@frankellis9627]

When these girls start asking you for money. Tell them to kick rocks and move on to the next one and there will be a next one. There are thousands and thousands of Filipinas in the Philippines guys. I know I lived there for 3 years. Don't fall for the BS 🤨

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Thanks for sharing Frank

[@frankellis9627]

@@mikesphilippineretirement These guys need to realize they are the prize, Mike 🤔

[@missjerseyz2008]

I remember 10 years ago Leukemia was contagious. The next year Cancer got contagious. If it works use it.

[@markthomson170]

My bucket has here house and land paid for . And yes, she met me at the airport. My question is, do you really know if things will work even after 10 years? Life is a gamble

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

life is a gamble so you need your eye wide open

[@BillsTravels996]

Great Vid! Me scammed? Never! They really needed a load, new phone, rent, medicine, school costs, doctor bills, hospital bills, grandma funeral costs, uniform for work plus shoes.. Nope, I'm to smart to let that happen to me. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Bill one of the many smart ones never to be scammed or give money

[@BillsTravels996]

@@mikesphilippineretirement Yeah well maybe in another life. lol Because I am a paying member of the scammed club you and others belong to. I also belong to a philipino dating site and just the other day I met a beautiful girl there. It didn't take her no more than 5 minutes to ask for money to help her because she's so desperate. 🤣 I blocked her! 👎

[@ritzrn630]

My advice to young Filipinas/Filipinos, study and work hard. We have free education even allowance if you choose to study the essential courses like Medicine. Have integrity and be honest and don’t rely and think highly of the foreigners. They are also broke or unable to afford to retire in their country that’s why they are coming to countries like the Philippines. They are no better than us Filipinos. Work your way out of poverty. You can do it .

[@throckleybeyond6854]

Hi from Newcastle uk here . Married woman from bataan 20 years ago in England . We try to go Philippines every 2 years .... I'm looking to retire there. But looking to drive there but looks like it's a nightmare to drive ... question ? How long can I stay in Philippines visa ect ?

[@rockdj63077]

I bet 3 dozen have asked me for a load and food then the phone just like you said

[@oahuguy3918]

This day and age, there are no excuses for falling for these scams. There are tons of videos out there with this same old story. But I guess it makes life easier for these Philippine video content creators to keep repeating this same message. Personally, I'm not a vlogger, but if I were to get into it, I know the most difficult aspect would be to continually coming up with new content. Vlogging to the Philippine expat community is currently over saturated. So those of you expats from other countries thinking it would be a source of reliable income should consider other alternatives. Luckily, it seems this is just a hobby for "Mike in the Philippines" and he does not rely on add-sense for essential expenses.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

You make some good points

[@gowithin9451]

Just pulled into Indianapolis for the Oregon vs Penn State game, I wish I had the Philippine weather right now. Indiana is so cold!!!!! but should be a great game. Listen guys, you have the power because you have the money, giving your money away freely is giving up your power. Meet the girl first, GO SLOW!!!! It won't take a long time to learn if she is good or bad. Once you do find the right girl, it's such a turn on to spoil them. Start off slow and small with the gifts

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

who is going to win. If Oregon wins Ohio St might move up. The best place for the easiest run is being Ranked #5

[@Ego-Kills]

They work together and each get his/her cut. The house owner provided the invoices to help her with the scam and he was paid.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

really??

[@RealGaryGibson]

I was scammed by wife #1 in the USA! She definitely did the long term scam, 13 years of marriage! But she didn't get the house cause I sold it before the divorce!

[@HunkyMan777]

Yeah I got screwed over too

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

been scammed a few times myself

[@fightinspirit]

Rule number one online, never send money. Rule number two, any girl that asks you for money is not legit. Rule number 3 always video chat.. rule number 4, get her story. Rule number 5 meet her family by video... I met my fiance online, we spoke online for 6 months before meeting in person. We have been together for 2 years and couldn't be happier. Marriage next month!

[@chriselmore1969]

Perfectly said, and congratulations to you! I met my Filipina girlfriend online a year ago. We began video chatting almost instantly. I tell her all the time I was paying attention to how she interacted with her family as much as how we interacted. We video chat almost 24 hours a day. That is not an exaggeration. I traveled there in January of 2024 and met her in person. Then I traveled back in September and stayed longer and met her family, extended family, friends, old teachers, etc. Rule #4, we discussed our past relationships, what we are each looking for in a future relationships, why are past relationships didn't work out, family issues, family deaths, past childhood, likes and dislikes, etc. Get her story is much more than a one time conversation and it has to be reciprocated. HC is the Key! Honest Communication! Sometimes you both don't want the same thing. You have to be honest with each other about that and decide if either of you can compromise or not. Sometimes those are difficult conversations. But, its best to have those conversations now, early in a potential long term relationship than to find out later. I also will be getting married in April or May 2025.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

that sounds great

[@fightinspirit]

@mikesphilippineretirement thanks mike! We're living on Boracay island now. Absolutely love it here.

[@AZ_Bill]

We willingly do it to ourselves with eyes wide open.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

personal choice

[@edexter97]

It is hard to tell the scammers from the ones who think I should not pay 300 pesos for breakfast because it's a lot of food.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

yes it is not easy but sometimes you can just tell

[@MichaelStewart-y6b]

My wife & I are very busy with our child and his school yes we are doing the gift exchange from our son's school to kids less fortunate NO ONE HAS SCAMMED ME OR ASKED ME FOR MONEY 5 years now BUT BE WARNED MIKE TALKS TO ALOT OF GUYS

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

your one of the lucky ones

[@Ego-Kills]

Thus far great. But you can never be 100% sure because some play the long game. Still protect yourself bro. I am happy for you thus far

[@danielhuntington2116]

Sounds like the fishing is good in the Philippines...the bait?...pretty smile...kind words....adorable figure....ego willing to accept!....Hey sis...I just caught another one!❤😮😅

[@Thebossfromdc]

Great video , l'm in the Philippines and l get scammed all the time , all day long . 2 days ago , l walked to a hair salon and asked how much to do my pedicure and manicure . The ladie said 300 pesos , because it was late so l left . Now l sated watched this video and stop , then went back to the same salon and got the job done , when finished l asked how much and she said 400 . I told her that 2 days ago you told me 300 . And that idiot tried to justify by saying it's 200 for the foot scrap and 100 for the food nail plus 100 for then manicure . I laughed and told them it's not right , it's because l'm a foreigner . I told them that l Hurd saying to the ladie before me 180 , why are you abusing foreigners l asked . They were a little embarrassed , so l paid the 400 and left . I came back and finished this video . Look like everyone trying to scam foreigners here . The hole country it's a mess .