THE DELIA DAY CASE

[@beth641]

Who here thought that Delia was going to be the one to die

[@Njc0le]

Luna Lovegood me😬

[@emilym7251]

Why did I come to the comments only 1 min into the video ughhh

[@cupid5222]

Me

[@Lexi-ku9wd]

lol u just ruined it for me

[@scarlettrobinson557]

delete this

[@theamandafiles]

I 1000% believe that Delia is telling the truth. In fact, it says EVERYTHING that she ghosted the internet for like 10 years- if she had really been writing the blog, she probably would have valued her followers and her “fame” would have meant something to her. She probably would have gone right on her blog immediately to update her fans and try to tell them her “story” to get them to believe and support her. It was also a large source of income for her, so if it had been her blog to begin with, she probably would’ve wanted to keep it up. Instead, it seems as though she abandoned the blog because it wasn’t even hers to begin with and it probably made her sick to look at. The fact that she shut down and didn’t turn to the internet to explain herself is textbook trauma-victim behavior. Anyone who suffered the kind of trauma she had would probably want to fall off the face of the earth and keep away from the thing and the people that associate with her old life of torture and abuse. We gotta believe victims!!

[@missmasquerade228]

I agree

[@krsc1506]

Exactly, she doesn't need to write now to "get away with murder". She already has. It was declared self-defense by the courts. She's now trying to educate others and explain the nature of her abuse.

[@dallasoch]

So many good points! I 100% agree with you. Also if it was their lifestyle that they both got off on & they were both equally as into it as the other & they were married/in love with one another what would be the point of her shooting & killing her husband & destroying their life, taking away their form of income (blog), killing her children's father etc etc. Occams razor...

[@Lady_Crispr]

My heart goes out to her. Imagine being a literal slave to someone who was supposed to love you. Honestly, good for her that she finally ended it for good, because had she not and had she just tried to leave him, she probably would have been the one who ended up dead. People who are capable of the level of evil he attained are capable of anything.

[@tessadennis6311]

Amanda Sargent I 100% agree with you. Truth fully if it was all made up just to get out of murder then she would of went to the fame she had off that blog. But instead she didn’t and went ghost. Nobody that is lying about this kinda stuff would go ghost for years at a time like she did.

[@alittlesealgirl]

I'd love to see more cases like this! There are some shady men out there trying to pass themselves off as "Doms."

[@feliciaadams7666]

Right? These guys don't care about safe words or consent and boundries or aftercare. They're just bastards wanting to trap someone looking for a genuine relationship.

[@alittlesealgirl]

@@feliciaadams7666 It's really scary out there. I can't believe how naive I was when I was in my early 20s... yikes. I've kind of given up on the community at this point.

[@feliciaadams7666]

@@alittlesealgirl I understand that, I really do. I've had some bad experiences myself cause the amount of abusers who get into the community and prey on others. Though as a dom i've mostly had issues with subs. I'm what I like to call a soft dom, I'm not much into the SM part as I prefer to use bondage and dominance with lots of affection. I prefer to have a beloved pet rather than a slave but some subs think that they can push past those limits or force the issue even when I've explained that I do not want to do that and have remained stead fast about that position. I had one guy once he realized I was serious about where my lines where and how I prefered to play and be dominate get pretty emotionally manipulative and started talking down to me about how I couldn't be a real dom of I didn't do xyz or started making comments about my body that hurt me. I know that's not the same cause I was in a different position, but we in the community have to be more vigilant about abusers and those who don't want to take others feelings into account or listen when limits and do's and don't are being dicusses rather than thinking they can just break those limits.

[@yallaintit]

Women be like that too. I know that you didn’t say that and that’s totally fine! I just wanted to put that out there if anyone thought that it was ONLY men. It ain’t.

[@scarlettwilliams5935]

@@yallaintit she never said it was ONLY men she said it was some men 😐

[@cryptiecreep]

I believe her. Unfortunately, there are predators out there who hide behind a lifestyle to justify their actions because the public at large doesn't understand it. Tbh if I wanted to get away with murder, I'd just disappear. But she chose to come forward, even knowing that people would discount her story and claim she was making it up, but she did it anyway.

[@savannahstargaze]

Oh for sure. I definitely believe that he could have done it as a front to make it look normal, or that she originally was consenting to it but he began to use it against her because they were making money and gaining attention

[@okidgaf7643]

@@savannahstargaze for sure i believe her too. not to mention the blog for the most part was clearly written by a man by the way he talked abt women it’s like he clearly wasn’t one himself

[@samanthaburns6956]

before i got too far into the video I checked out the Delia Day live journal and it was definitely written by a dude who doesn't get women. I am a reader and a writer and the write that was on the blog felt like when chauvinistic pulp sci-fi writers try to do a chapter form the undeveloped love interests perspective. Also there are a couple of times the blogger uses britishisms such as 'fellow' when refering to a man which isn't something people do in North America was her 'owner' british?

[@denaturner8871]

Samantha Burns there are pockets of the USA that still use words that harken back to our forefathers, keeping various aspects of the original English vernacular. Now, I have no.clue where this all went down (I must have missed it in the video prior to writing this) but it is a possibility that he and/or they were from an area that still uses some of that language... maybe? If you think about it, you can pinpoint some of those areas. For instance in the use of the word fellow, many areas of the American south, and heavier so along the south eastern coast (mid to southern atlantic coast more specifically) will say fellow in speaking however it is said with the colloquial accents and pronounced either fella or feller but would be written correctly. Just throwing this out there. I want to add the disclaimer that I am in no way a language scholar just a nerd from the midwest (in a lower accented state) that has worked in many different call center settings speaking to people all over the country so I am only going on personal *ear witness account.

[@Shazza006]

Not gonna lie, but us Brits don't use the word Fellow, so that dude was weird anyway

[@maggots7131]

I’m American and I say fellow a lot I’ve never heard my English friends say it though

[@enwe6487]

English is basically my fourth language, I've never been to england and use 'fellow' on the daily when interacting on english - which is mostly with americans :D It's certainly not a specific british thing at all.

[@Oreztar]

British, rarely ever hear fellow. Bloke is very common, though.

[@tieganatherton8611]

all I look forward to after college is ‘suhh todaes videuhh’

[@juliadiaz5333]

Tiegan Atherton 😂😂 I say it like 100x a day

[@NunyaNomi]

😂

[@OtterGvtz]

valentines deh

[@brodieleighhx6747]

That is so accurate😂

[@ithoughtwelivedinsidetheea7138]

MmmLame HAHAHAH

[@kendramendoza1232]

Her makeup always looks good

[@jamesrichards2661]

kendra mendoza she's a makeup youtuber

[@charlottegallivan4086]

kendra mendoza she's so good

[@hannah-lb4en]

@@jamesrichards2661 her foundation is yellow

[@user-et7iz4dr1n]

@@hannah-lb4en But at least it matches her neck

[@minun653]

Maybe it's the lighting but yeah her foundation looks kinda yellow for her skin

[@beccadallas]

I think she was being abused. And I agree. Being in the community, EVERYTHING is consensual, even for a slave. Everyone should have a safe word and it should be honored. Submission doesn’t equal abuse. And anyone that lives by that idea is a sick individual. Unfortunately, guys like this one aren’t a one off, and many more masquerade in this community as it can be an easier cover up than in the vanilla community. Thank you so much for the disclaimer at the end and I hope anyone interested in the BDSM lifestyle does so fully educated and knowing their limits. ❤️❤️

[@JuliaMarieH]

Cough cough Beg For Jay cough

[@beccadallas]

Julia Homola OMG yes!!! I was thinking about him but didn’t know if anyone here would know who he was!!! I still can’t believe all the evidence that came out against him, and he is still acting as if it was all consensual. Poor Milkwebs. :-(. And all the other girls too.

[@pgakt]

@@JuliaMarieH He is just disgusting, I didnt realise milkwebs was involved ;;

[@oiloi5394]

@@pgakt Wait who, plz explain

[@pgakt]

@@oiloi5394 Huh? Milkwebs is a kink content creator on here

[@SneakySalaXander]

I believe she’s telling the truth. As stated in other comments, if it really was a cover-up for her simply killing him, she’d value the notoriety she’d been receiving prior to the murder, and would have posted about the story right away to gain even more fame and keep the blog going. As far as the writing styles changing over time, she left the Internet completely for ten years. Since the site was shut down, she’d have no way of going back to look at the writing styles in order to change the way it looked when she finally came back to tell her story. Sure, one could remember certain characteristics in their typing, but there are so many differences, I feel she couldn’t have remembered every possible detail. Especially after ten years. I can barely recall my personal writing characteristics from two years ago, never mind ten.

[@cometvaudin2850]

Also, the fact that the posts stopped when the husband was killed just points to it being his

[@ivyluna3057]

her blog was archived so finding the old writings would not be difficult at all but i agree with what you said

[@shawtygotlo1]

"I'm kinda thinking at this point maybe I should've given a disclaimer for children not to watch this but you shouldn't be watching true crime videos anyway so..." "Russian roulette is a very very dangerous game, don't play it" -Elle 2k19 😂

[@officalbluey3865]

I'm 11 watching this 😂 and I understand all of this

[@lilil1461]

@@officalbluey3865 you might not want to reveal your age on the internet, especially if you're a minor :)

[@sleepylilwolf1749]

@@officalbluey3865 same

[@janellemarshall8378]

Best comment ever 😂🤣

[@theotter7021]

​@@sleepylilwolf1749 stop revealing your ages pls, kids.

[@mia-jx2dg]

*these videos are literally my favourite things to watch. i love you more than netflix ;)*

[@addisongraham2735]

Me Too

[@estopesto2647]

Yes!

[@mia7312]

Clover Milk yass

[@shoobonx]

That's a lot of love

[@violetcow3790]

Mia 699th like yeet

[@wildk4tmc421]

Love me an Eleanor alert 😘😘😘 happy Valentine’s Day hun, fab week of content ❤️

[@EssiBunny]

Thank you so much for the disclaimer at the end! Works like 50 Shades of Gray have done a massive disservice to the BDSM community, making abusive relationships seem somehow sexy and desireable if it's under the guise of BDSM. These disclaimers and clarifications are important, and the main rule of BDSM is always "Safe, Sane, and Consentual".

[@breakfastattiffanys741]

Yes! And all the current dating apps (not even specific BDSM apps) are overflowing with men wanting a sub to hurt and humiliate. They're not even charming about it, they will state I want a young girl to control.

[@kitfisto3036]

Ugh don't even get me started on 50 Shades of Grey!!! The dude in that was manipulative and it wasn't really consensual. His idea of "aftercare" was buying her stuff. Disgusting. I'm so glad to see so many positive comments about the community and that it isn't as bad as people seem to think it is

[@lurji]

bdsm is abuse

[@jeanmichellelaurent]

@@lurji lies

[@maonimii]

This isn’t BDSM, Master/Sex Slave relationship, this is just abuse

[@kadylouise2571]

who votes for her to become a Netflix series then ?? i sure definitely do

[@shushh4669]

imagine how hard eleanor works literally thoughh

[@PennyWenny224]

Are you Gordon Ramsey? Your pp looks like him.

[@givemeattention4163]

the devil works hard but eleanor works harder

[@kaydencetrotter5414]

Why doesn't she have a Netflix series?

[@miadavis4837]

It would be awesome if Netflix gathered some of the big youtube True Crime people and had them all investigate and explain interesting cases; maybe even unsolved cases. Part of the show could be them all talking about what they discovered from their research and another part could maybe be them traveling to the sites of some of the crimes and talking with law enforcement or people involved in the case. I would 100 percent watch a show like that.

[@khadijaa.5968]

Mia Davis this is such a good idea!!! I hope she sees this, or even better, Netflix. Just imagine all our favorite true crime tellers working together to tell stories aghshshs

[@melr2803]

@@miadavis4837 smart

[@GR-sx9ri]

They would ruin her videos tbh, it’s better for her to be able to post whatever she wants instead of being told what to do.

[@gomezlove4190]

that’s be awesome but netflix would ruin it by forcing her what to talk about when now she has her own channel with her own choices.

[@maddiebyrne4924]

If it wasn’t self defense and she was trying to get away with murder, I can’t see a reason why she’d go to the extent of starting a new blog and consciously changing her writing style in the hopes that people would look far enough into the case to take that as some sort of evidence if she was already exonerated in the killing of her husband. Like if she really did just want to kill him and spun this whole story to get away with it, why wouldn’t she just start a new life once she got away with it, why would she take the time to write a new blog explaining the relationship between her and husband unless she was being honest and telling a cautionary tale? Does that make sense or am I just rambling nonsense

[@omfgaufo]

Maddie Byrne I disagree with what you’re saying but for all be exact same reasons! She was found not-guilty, she was totally exonerated, why would she come back and further try to defend herself if she had already got away with it? To have to change her writing style and remember every detail (which if you’re right are lies. it’s a lot easier to recount a story if you’re telling the truth.) Why would she go to the effort of consciously changing her writing style when she has to no reason to. She got away scot free, she has no reason to turn up and further defend herself, i i believe she wrote the blog post to try and stop what happened to her, happening to other people.

[@maddiebyrne4924]

8bitcait no I totally agree, I think you might’ve misinterpreted my post (I apologize it was a little rambley lol) I was trying to say exactly what you just said, I think the only thing that makes sense is that she’s telling the truth, because if she was lying why go to the trouble of starting a new blog to try and claim your innocence when you’ve already been proven innocent

[@omfgaufo]

Maddie Byrne No, i just realised i read the start of your comment wrong, my apologies!

[@ashleigh2243]

I had the same thought. As well as she had no motive other than just to get out of the relationship. She wouldn't have known that the self defense excuse would work and clearly there was no new Romeo that she ran away with or large amounts of money on an insurance policy. If it was just to get away with murder it would have been far too risky. I'm convinced it was an abusive relationship.

[@stacybear2438]

Agreed! Be careful who you let in your life!

[@Transylvaniatwist]

pLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! make may miracles a thing! where people have been rape and abduction survivors. or murder attempt survivors!

[@yalocalwhiteegirl8878]

YES!!!

[@autumnp9019]

OMH YESSS

[@girlmath-abolisher]

Yes!

[@God-nz4yu]

No that's really boring

[@Koleman27]

@@God-nz4yu you’re boring, shut up

[@brooklynjensen2494]

Can you do the case of Maple Batalia. She was a college girl that was murdered by her abusive ex boyfriend. I think it’s not only a true crime story, but it’s a good lesson for people who are or know or think someone is in an abusive relationship

[@Peachy019]

I'm more incline to believe Susan and the court's decision when it comes to this specific case. However, I kinda think it was a bdsm relationship at first but eventually Travis became obsessed with having control over Susan. A true bdsm blog would discuss about consent and safe words.

[@squishygrumpkin]

This is a really good point.

[@pigcatapult]

I mean, she’s already gotten away with it if it was murder so why bother going to those lengths? I’m willing to believe she’s telling the truth

[@femkepaanakker1062]

I feel like she's being sincere, having experienced sexual assault myself its so hard to defend yourself, so her being in a 'marriage' for so long (or as I believe a sex slave 'relationship' idk what to call it) doesn't surprise me. You never know what goes on behind the scenes, this just emphasises that... love ur videos btw xxxxxx

[@harithascorp]

I am sorry you had to go through that. I hope you are safe and doing well now.

[@femkepaanakker1062]

thank you, I'm okay, getting better every day

[@reverendsquirrel]

I appreciate how you're not judgy about ppls' lifestyles, even when you're not fully-versed in what it's all about.

[@nell3593]

This hits so close to home and I've been in a relationship in which bdsm was an excuse and thank you for talking about this and about the risk I've never heard the possibility that bdsm is just abuse in some cases talked about online so thank you for bringing light to this ❤️❤️

[@danielcarney6593]

Please do Jennifer pan! It relates to Valentine’s Day - thank you

[@mustycrusty2524]

JustExposed mhm

[@nala3055]

No that case is super overdone

[@danielcarney6593]

Nala 305 I know but she’s never covered it and it relates to Valentines Day

[@leilanim7338]

JustExposed there’s soo many videos about her, there’s really no point of her covering it just bc she hasn’t lol. I wouldn’t watch it 🙆🏻‍♀️

[@danielcarney6593]

LeiLani M cool but I would.

[@BridgetteTurco]

Okay sure, kinky couple but what I really want to know is what lashes Eleanor is wearing.

[@rayac578]

oh my god lololll

[@eriw22]

I think they are Lilly lashes

[@katiescallon4049]

Porcelain I wanna know the lip glossss

[@hollyyyyyy]

Fenty beauty bomb she said on insta !!

[@gmc5618]

@@Alex-xs2vg mikaela long is gorge

[@VUzoEs]

Eleanor can you please do the honeytrap case next is about the girl who lured shakilus to his death in a cul-de-sac in Thornton Heath in July 2008. Samantha, who was 15, texted the gang as she rode on a bus with Shakilus. He was beaten with baseball bats and stabbed six times by a gang led by her boyfriend Danny McLean.

[@georgia8592]

That story made me cry my eyes out 😢

[@Ivy-og5xd]

This is so awful. There’s a short movie of it on KZbin called honeytrap. The short film is really good. And makes me so sad for this poor boy who was so lovely & just a happy soul.

[@hollypitura8203]

Amber alert in Ontario, Canada today !! (Feb 14. 2019) - kid was killed (assumed) by father an hour after amber alert was released, victim is Riya Rajkumar! Please do a video on this when more info gets released!

[@fangirlingfailure]

I think most people that think/thought it was an accident or murder were probably fans of the blog and can't cope with the fact that something they enjoyed following was a cover-up for horrible abuse. I'm glad she defended herself and is finding help to cope with what she went through.

[@patriciacurtis349]

exactly

[@beeswaxx7880]

Only thing I'll be doing this Valentine's Day is watching this

[@diamanterivera2828]

Briar Mackenzie lmao me too sis ✊🏼

[@samiramensink9251]

I hate myself for loving all her videos, I CAN’T EVEN WALK HOME AFTER SCHOOL AND NOT BEING AFRAID TO GET ABDUCTED!

[@carmensavu5122]

I know, right?

[@hxdiclxud973]

Saaaame I'm always scared even in my own house but I do still enjoy true crime

[@nataliebarton3049]

I felt this one

[@lolar2162]

same also 69th like lmao

[@lorimoore5589]

That is the best thing about true crime video's. They teach us what not to do. If anyone ever pulls a gun on me an says get in his car, I am not getting in. Nothing good happens if you get in. If you try an run you have 50/50 chance they won't want to shoot you an cause a scene. But I am not going!

[@bunnyhunny4417]

Thank you for the disclaimer in the end about how the bdsm community isn't like this, too many people demonize it.

[@madisonl3401]

#1-Happy Valentine's Day everyone 💕💕💕 #2- I absolutely believe that Susan was in a domestic violence relationship and she had to endure torture day in and out. I'm glad she finally got out of that and made it so no woman would have to be hurt by that POS ever again.

[@SaraReffler]

I so appreciate your commentary about the BDSM community and how this is not representative of that community. I honestly do think that Delia was abused and I hope that she feels closure and justice.

[@bry9772]

*Eleanor uploads* wow something to live for today

[@rosebordelon107]

u still alive?

[@bry9772]

@@rosebordelon107 barely 🧍🏻‍♀️

[@rx500android]

Shane Dawson who? Don't know who is sheee This is the one and only conspiracy queen Edit: lmao chill ya'll, it's a joke. Both are great, and before you start cussing, know this is a joke and take it. I'm sure you have better things to do than misinterpret a joke on KZbin. Have a good day, guys.

[@user-pm9tk7kw5r]

shane dawson is the only conspiracy theory queen 🐖

[@deadontheinsideandout4061]

april honestly they’re both queens

[@mimi-ig5kr]

april that’s okay! everyone has their own opinions

[@mroons7316]

🤨🤨

[@aassyyatheend1201]

april we all have different perspectives I love him so much but I do agree with you he is overrated and toooo dramatic

[@sophiawebb5521]

Thank u El! I have one more hour left of my night duty shift and this will DEFINITELY help get me through xx

[@TheClaireWitchProject]

Hope that last hour goes smooth!

[@megmcc5969]

Disclaimer for children... but shouldn't be watching true crime anyway... 💁 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@berrybrooks1403]

@^@

[@i_am_a_cunt8967]

Me who is a 13 year old 😔

[@megmcc5969]

@@i_am_a_cunt8967 pursue ur interest but know yourself/limits whether own or from guardian! Def some crazy crimes with deets that are.... “not suited for 13 year olds”.😉

[@missm9476]

@@i_am_a_cunt8967 OMG SAME!

[@antismart8167]

I'm 11

[@jasminetravisreyes9603]

I’m sobbing such happy tears at your statement about the difference between BDSM and manipulative relationships where BDSM is used as an excuse for abuse. Thank you so much for that! Honestly I wish I’d heard it when I was still in a similar situation, and I hope it helps someone who’s currently still stuck in a manipulated mindset. I was in a very toxic relationship for most of my twenties; I’m 29 right now - I left him when I was 27 and we moved in together when we were 21. Sometimes I stayed because it was comfortable, sometimes I stayed because I felt like I owed him loyalty, sometimes I stayed because I have disabilities and I believed him when he said no one else would want me, sometimes I stayed because I didn’t know anyone else anymore after being isolated and I liked when he hung out with me, and sometimes I stayed because he blackmailed me with the photos and such that he had of me. Now I live in a beautiful loving relationship with a man who’s also in a wheelchair and is endlessly kind to me. There’s a rainbow after the storm - if you’re stuck in any relationship that makes you feel like less than the radiant person you were meant to be, hang in there and know you CAN start over! By the way, I’m an educated accomplished person. I was the breadwinner the entire 7-8 years I was in that relationship despite him being significantly older than me. I went in public every day and “could have asked for help” if that was something I wanted to do. It can happen to anyone! Don’t judge.

[@bluestgemini]

i’m feelin really nostalgic because i started watching u exactly a year ago today ily

[@erindixon555]

As soon as this popped up I knew I had to click, such a queen 💋👑

[@gollumvibes8089]

I just can't get over how pretty you are!! Your nose is so perfect!

[@abyrojas9597]

I’ve never heard of this case! I was hooked on it as you were talking about it! I do believe Delia tho. I mean that collar tattoo?? That’s way too controlling

[@pgakt]

For a lot of people something like that is a consensual experience

[@moonbubbles3046]

I knew Delia back then. This video is either going to be accurate or it’s gonna piss me off. Edit part way in - it wasn’t just a padlock. It was a padlock with a bucket of water hanging from it. Further in - the photo IS her. I know her face.

[@k3upikachu]

Oh. My. God. That is fucking awful and sadistic and I can't imagine that any woman would consent to that for an extended period of time, no matter how kinky she is. I hope she's doing okay. And good for her for freeing herself for good from that torture.

[@AveryCreates]

So Laura is this accurate?

[@moonbubbles3046]

Obsidia most of it appears to be. I wasn’t there so I can’t give any firsthand verification but yes - this is pretty much right as I knew it.

[@krumplickapipinkova2388]

holy shit A BUCKET OF WATER?? Oh my god I can't even imagine

[@berchyzgb4423]

How can labia even hold a bucket of water without tearing? God, if I don't shave for a couple of days my privates becomes irritated and sensitive, I can't imagine having a piercing down there, not to mention the padlock and the bucket of water, it hurts just thinking about that 😭

[@beauty2333]

As a subscriber of yours who is in the bdsm lifestyle i was really keen to see how you would portray the lifestyle. I am so pleased with the way you do it and the way you made it so clear that everything has to be consensual. In fact that is one of the founding principles of the community.

[@xotbirdox]

Thank you so much for the disclaimer at the end, it means a lot. Us kinky folk get a lot of shit simply bc some awful people use our lifestyle as an excuse to abuse their partners. I am a submissive and I've known this about myself since I was a young teen (don't worry, I only started participating in the community when I turned 18). I felt like a slut when I first started to discover BDSM and what I liked. There's so much stigma surrounding it and it needs to stop. I think she was abused. I hate that there are these abusers who try and insert themselves into our community. They will NEVER represent BDSM. BDSM relationships are some of the most healthy relationships I've ever come across and if it isn't Safe, Sane and Consensual (the guidelines for BDSM), it isn't BDSM. Full stop, end of story, no arguments. I hope that if she was abused, she's found healing now. She looks happy in the picture at least so that's good. :)

[@AngelDeed]

If BDSM people want to be accepted then maybe they shouldn't start with saying how they are better than average people? Like seriously I've never met anyone who didn't allude to this even gently... I get it, no kinkshaming, but in this day an age it should be 'no vanilla shaming'. Who are bdsm people to decide whose relationship is healthier or more intimate? To an outsider it doesn't look healthy or sane or good but we try to accept it because we don't want to offend anyone. In fact to an outsider being faced with things like this can even be deeply traumatising. But we can't talk about that because we have to accept everything nowadays and always be positive.

[@kitfisto3036]

This comment is beautiful! Thank you, from a sub to another sub :)

[@georgia8592]

@@kitfisto3036 subway x

[@Jadef0xxxx]

@@AngelDeed As someone who practices BDSM, do ppl really dp this? I'm legitimately curious because I haven't seen anyone do it, I'm not trying to be passive agressive or anything

[@Jewpire]

@@AngelDeed BDSM relationships need a lot more trust and communication, much more than regular relationships. It’s not really about kinks and sex, it’s more about the bond and strength of a relationship. D/s relationships tend to be healthier than other relationships because of the boundaries that have been set and multiple talks they have to go through to keep each other safe and comfortable with the relationship.😂 No one in the community (that I know) has ever vanilla-shamed and have even had vanilla sex themselves. BDSM isn’t always 100% rough and kinky.😅😂

[@isa.belle.alison]

Please can you do a video on the killings of serial killer "Samuel Little" who is 78 currently and has allegedly killed over 90 people! I am so interested in this and as you're so talented and put it into such good perspective and detail, i think this could be a good video, with all due respect to the horrificness of this matter. I love your channel btw 🖤🖤

[@BettiePagan]

This was perfect! Being occasionally involved in the BDSM community myself, this case really fascinates me, and I've only ever seen one other video on it. The disclaimer at the end was flawless, thank you Eleanor, happy Valentine's Day.

[@CaptainMadd]

Watching your videos calms my anxiety. Thank you for what you do. Not only for me, but especially for the victims of cruelty that you bring awareness to.

[@chtar2242]

in my timezone, i should be sleeping. thanks for ruining my sleeping schedule, you queen❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@michellekitten8324]

15:00 thank you so much for the disclaimer about our community. BDSM gets a very bad name a lot of the time, so thank you for reiterating the importance of consent being paramount.

[@disappointedbutnotsurprise3311]

I never felt loved until I got a notification for a new Eleanor video.

[@AshleyEhSMR]

You're really good at story-telling. I love listening to you explain these stories to fill my unusual interest.

[@Emma-gf5yf]

Imagine being one of her kids.... Getting pulled out of class and getting told that your mother shot your father and having to live with the after math. If they didn't find out about the blog before would you be told this way? I'd feel like a whole part of my life was a lie.

[@ameliarose1141]

*I left hegartymaths for this and I don’t regret it tbh*

[@Ana-sw3fl]

Omg same! Literally just turned my laptop off, I hate Hegarty maths so much 😭

[@fyoung2523]

Omg same 😂

[@sarahfeechan2464]

Amelia Rose I did the other day haha. We had 14 tasks and it took 10 hours. *ugh* I hate Hegarty maths

[@maddyphilpott1807]

He has a lisp he’s so annoying

[@zahraaz6846]

OMG! SAAAME! MY TEACHER GAVE US 300 QUESTIONS TO DO DURING THE HOLIDAYS!! UGHHH!

[@heartmugi4467]

happy valentine’s day to all reading! i hope all the victims rest in peace and i hope you are having a good day! 💌

[@miabennett04]

rip all the victims❤️ annnddd.. my days been pretty shitty ahaa single life

[@yseulttravers955]

Is that chat noir?

[@heartmugi4467]

Cutieno100 yeah it is

[@bonniekemp646]

Never heard of this case 🤷

[@aristichatzipanagioti6518]

"you shouldn't be watching true crime videos anyways" Me,who has been reading true crime articles since I was 8 👀

[@carmensavu5122]

I should stop watching them. I'm becoming paranoid about random people and cars.

[@emilyplaysroblox1676]

Carmen Savu me too. I ran away from someone because they were walking the same direction of me

[@Ivy-og5xd]

A serial killer in the making 🤣 ( I’m only joking )

[@ville666sora]

Ikr? I've been interested in true crime since I was around that age too. It's probably a good thing for some kids to be into as they learn there are dangers out there and they shouldn't be so naïve and trusting of random people.

[@jazar4160]

my mum use ti watch them when i was like 5 só ive been watching for a long time

[@wasntme5686]

OMG THANK YOU!!!! I love that you put in that this does not represent the bdsm lifestyle as a whole so many dont and thats bad for everyone in the community lol

[@strawberripoppy]

Ugh I’m getting this notification while I’m in school but I just guess I’ll have to watch it when school is over, which is in literally one minute lmao.

[@jorah2856]

To all my friends that are committed, Happy Valentines Day. To all my friends that are single, Happy Independence Day. AND last but not least to all my friends that just broke up, Happy Freedom Day 😂😂😂

[@tobeythetobe]

Autumn Rain thanks

[@victoriahann8593]

The thumbnail looks so scary! Hope you had a great valentine's day Eleanor 💗

[@h0willy698]

anyone else been binge watching Eleanor's videos during the quarantine? 👉👈

[@tallyfitzpatrick1889]

When your collars in the bdsm lifestyle it is out of respect and love for your dominant/master, maybe at one point there was love and willingness, I honestly believe it was self defence, if she was in pain then she had a right to act out, especially if he didn’t respect the safe word or listen to her, bdsm is about trust and you can’t trust a man that hurts you with no sign of pleasure x

[@RavenTheRebel]

I’m prone to believe her since she doesn’t have much to gain by coming forward. It’s already been ruled self defense. I think she’s lookin for closure, but it is odd that her husband would make a post about his own abusive behavior? What’s that about?

[@mariahstechelin47]

he made money off of it !

[@williamfleach]

He was bipolar

[@darcyrutherford1993]

Notification squad! Can't wait to watch this, you're slaying this valencrimes week x

[@paige4814]

Who else likes it and haven’t even seen the video yet,u always know Eleanor does amazing videos

[@sydney58279]

When you talked about the padlock, I gasped. Let my man try some shit like that on me!! He’d get slapped so far upside his head.

[@cathrinebutler9114]

Loving how respectful you can make even this case. You should talk about a local case from Canada of the disappearance of Ryan Shtuka. He literally disappeared into thin air after a party in British Colombia. No known enemies, loved by everyone and then just suddenly gone. His family I still looking for him and I think that such an influential person like you could keep his story in the light. I love your channel and again just how respectful you are of all the cases you cover.

[@jkook7721]

ever see a comment and be like " i wish i wrote that"

[@aspensky7456]

mimella I wish I wrote this

[@scrunklychunky]

I wish I wrote that

[@bakalauryn6753]

Yes

[@TheFruitiestCake]

No

[@311sweetsian]

The hard work you put into your videos really shows and is very appreciated. You keep this stay at home mom entertained😂 Thank you Elenor 💕

[@mellow1821]

This is my favorite True Crime case. I don't know why. It just fascinates me for some reason.

[@ailishatkinson7281]

Derpy I’m like that with gypsy Blancharde and jonbenet My boyfriend always looks at me weird when I say it’s my favourite true crime case because people legit died

[@tobeythetobe]

I like the Shanda sharer case because it’s just heart wrenching yet fascinating

[@omgitsjen12345]

"I dont know how to play I dont own a gun" is the most innocent response to explaining Russian Roulette I have ever heard XD

[@gabriellachristie4571]

You need a Netflix show !! I’m constantly binge watching your videos and you really deserve more recognition! x

[@bethanynicole9472]

just in from work! the whole day i’ve been thinking ‘eleanor’s video will be up when you get home c’mon you can do this just get through the day’ 😂😂😂

[@savannahross5520]

Me too though 😂😂

[@dilaraselingun2809]

I hope you read this. I love you so much, you are sooo inspirational and an awesome youtuber/influencer and I am obsessed with true crime and your channel is a gem luv u ! Keep being who you are and you will shine like a diamond honey 🤩🤩🤩

[@jackpollard6147]

my heart tells me that she’s telling the truth. it’s just my gut feeling.

[@cultishh]

your icon :)

[@catT5236]

Loved what you said about Russian Roulette, had me in stitches.

[@demichisholm38]

when she said ‘children shouldn’t be watching true crime stories anyway’ i was like well then 😂🤭

[@braydinsisco7856]

Eleanor: he put a padlock on one of her labia piercings Me: fuck I felt that

[@avafinegan7684]

Please cover the Anastasia Kriegel case from Dublin x

[@meganwhitfield1337]

I love valencrimes week💗

[@bubbl33_bubbl33]

I don't know why, but I really love listening to you voice! You're always so professional!

[@gurepup8924]

she’s so respectful and well spoken 🥺❤️

[@ninaaishling7873]

me: having a bad day El: suhhh tuhdaees vidiouhh

[@louisascott1113]

Is anyone satisfied by the time being 17:17

[@bby04]

“This is kind of more like a conspiracy theory but it’s got a murder in it..” *shane dawson has joined the chat*

[@lilithspookypants7789]

I'm so glad you put that disclaimer at the end. Great video!

[@mothgames9466]

Also whilst i watched this and the Russell missing case i cleaned my bathroom, kitchen and had a shower. Now for changing the sheets and then ill be straight to bed with another one of your vids. Love you Eleanor, your videos bring me so much joy and are great to motivate me whilst doing jobs.

[@phillipscharlie4113]

Love how you did not diss the bdsm community💕💕 use safe words!

[@vampcarcass5200]

I think she's sincere. I don't think anyone would even think to change their writing style lmao

[@seren9354]

This is the only week that I pretty much care about 😂💞

[@sarahfeechan2464]

seren what about momicide week, 10 days of terror etc

[@sarahfeechan2464]

seren jk, I know what you meant 😹

[@seren9354]

Sarah Feechan that’s a good week too...

[@sarahfeechan2464]

seren I was joking, dw

[@bobbyboynton3813]

I literally am so obsessed with your videoed I have watched nearly all the true crime cases and have being for over a year

[@maidenofmoths]

I'm so happy to hear your PSA at the end of the video about abuse versus BDSM. It's an important distinction, and should be known! Don't stay in an abusive relationship, get out as soon as it is safe to do so!

[@lizedits8253]

everytime you upload im doing my homework

[@jasonbates8674]

I absolutely think she is sincere, she had already been aquitted what would have been the point?

[@sydneymasry8851]

my favorite part of my after school routine

[@jennywhite3508]

Happy Valentine’s Day Eleanor 💕💕💕

[@everythingSTEPH]

Eleanor! Just a tippp: you can find most websites which are no longer available on the way back machine, as long as you have the original url you can search them