The Difference Between Contentment & Complacency - Part 1

A 72-year-old man has worked in the same job for 54 years, having started as a busboy and dishwasher back in 1964. Real fam, do you think he has been content or complacent?

[@distorbia20]

The company owe it to this man. At least give him a driver to bring him to work. He is such a great employee.

[@diysy9431]

A car or a decent wage

[@munashe5413]

T Y I keep on seeing your comments do you hate this man or something?

[@distorbia20]

@T Y Well this man has put in 50 years into this company. There are plenty of ways to reward an employee. If this man doesn't want higher role why not give him a car or driver. Maybe bonus etc

[@TT-wj1kx]

The owners should do something for him

[@TT-wj1kx]

@T Y to show appreciation

[@TeeTee-2016]

T T I'm sure that he gets a big Social Security check a his tips probably outweigh his salary. This man most likely works to maintain his sanity and feel useful.

[@keiph4364]

We should too lol but they should more lol. Some people jus love their job. There's a couple elderly people like that in the postal service and MTA department.

[@Hey-Mr.DJ_PlayThatSong]

like bake him a cake

[@underwaterseas]

It’s really condescending to say he should “want better for himself” as if he shouldn’t be happy with what he’s doing. I do think he should get a raise, though.

[@xxnarutxx3938]

I agree with you on all accounts.

[@osimeon00]

You don't get a raise in waitstaff. Because it's a tipping job.

[@BGriff-]

But we do it "All" the time!

[@Novause]

I don't know why* but this made me really sad...90 minute commute on minimum wage....really sad.

[@roka2031]

mad you sad... but he turned down an offer for more...so makes him happy

[@TeeTee-2016]

Ap M Don't be sad, im sure he's doing well. He most likely gets full benefits from Social Security and his tips could definitely outweigh his salary. He probably took a pay cut so that he could continue working and drawing all his social security without out being penalized. It's a very smart thing to do.

[@teri_p]

Me too I just started to tear up. I dont know it just affected me

[@Novause]

@@TeeTee-2016 pay cut to continue working?

[@TeeTee-2016]

Ap M Pay cut, so that his full social security benefits wouldn't be penalized. That way he can stay active. The city of Chicago hire senior citizens but they work for little pay. They usually don't work very hard, just stay busy. I'm sure that he does it for the tips and not the pay.

[@Cbell27]

That’s actual commitment right there all respect for him

[@yamzieful]

I hope the employer at least afforded him the courtesy of setting up some sort of retirement fund or education fund for his children,just as a gesture of appreciation for his loyalty.

[@candicelopez5535]

Yamkela Nduzulwana but why? He did his job and they paid him for his work. He loves it. I’m sure there’s more to the story, but everyone knows you needs to handle your own retirement. His tips could be 4x + his hourly wage. they kids can mind their own education.

[@bashabashment9426]

ppl find his lifestyle weird because our society doesn't teach contentment .....our society teaches that u should always be striving .... my mom has been a teacher for a long time and she could have been a principal etc that pays more but her passion is in the classroom and she is happy.....money or perceived success doesn't make one happy ....just look at Hollywood...drugs , alcohol , suicide and the list goes on

[@DeeL3]

I can relate to your Mom. I'm a teacher as well and recently graduated with a Master's degree. Everyone is telling me to look into leadership or something that will allow me to "climb the ladder" and I'm just like naw. I prefer the classroom, it's my passion and where I enjoy being. It's stressful as hell, but worth it . . . loool most days.

[@shakellseymour9346]

Not disputing that he is best fitted doing the job he enjoys. The main concern is He SHOULD NOT be making minimum wage after 50 years of dedicated commitment to someone else's success. And don't talk about him being content with the money he makes, because if that was the case he wouldn't be walking 90 minutes to get to work. Either he would have bought a car or moved house. Also if he was making enough money, he and his family could have eventually opened up their own restaurant, after all it is his passion. If the owner truly saw his value, they would offer him longevity pay and seniority. Because of him this business is saving thousands in such costs: employee turnover, theft, retraining and job know-how. Moreover, consider the economics of it. $1 usd has a lower purchasing power today than it did 30 and 50 years ago. He's getting the same pay, and having a lower standard of living because he can buy less things since prices always go up. Poor man probably could not even afford to put his child through university. This is a clear case of a hard working man being taken advantage of.

[@bashabashment9426]

@@DeeL3 follow your passion 🤗🤗🤗🤗.

[@bashabashment9426]

@@shakellseymour9346 I do understand your point . As loni states they did offer him higher position with a higher wage but he didn't want it . I'm sorry but maybe the job is saying there are pay grades so the company can't just increase his salary .

[@fayepatrice1672]

Shakell Seymour I hope hey are taking care of him in other ways like a 401K

[@Cbell27]

I do believe the employers are taking advantage of him for sure. He should be in upper management imo EDIT: I KNOW HE DOESNT WANT IT! I’m simply putting my opinion. If you can’t accept it. Keep scrolling.

[@AdelaideAnn]

Maybe he was offered a management position, and didnt want it? He really seems to love his job

[@jamiespence1879]

He didnt want that

[@Cbell27]

Jamie Spence nobody denies a raise come on now. But upper management. True he probably didn’t want

[@Cbell27]

Adelaide Agbozo not what I’m saying at all

[@Cbell27]

T Y I’m saying at least a raise

[@shakellseymour9346]

Not disputing that he is best fitted doing the job he enjoys. The main concern is He SHOULD NOT be making minimum wage after 50 years of dedicated commitment to someone else's success. And don't talk about him being content with the money he makes, because if that was the case he wouldn't be walking 90 minutes to get to work. Either he would have bought a car or moved house. Also if he was making enough money, he and his family could have eventually opened up their own restaurant, after all it is his passion. If the owner truly saw his value, they would offer him longevity pay and seniority. Because of him this business is saving thousands in such costs: employee turnover, theft, retraining and job know-how. Moreover, consider the economics of it. $1 usd has a lower purchasing power today than it did 30 and 50 years ago. He's getting the same pay, and having a lower standard of living because he can buy less things since prices always go up. Poor man probably could not even afford to put his child through university. This is a clear case of a hard working man being taken advantage of.

[@natdivaz5348]

It's all about PERCEPTION. Positive vs Negative. Contentment vs Complacency. Greedy vs Ambitious.

[@shawnhall3849]

Nat Divaz complacency is when you don’t like something but you’re dealing with it. Contentment is when you like where you’re at

[@marshacreary2442]

In 54 years he barely makes over minimum wage? 54 years?

[@mgmt7550]

Marsha Creary that's what I'm saying give the man his,freedom papers he's got to be slow and don't understand you are not an indentured servant tip him 50 a week get him an uber something

[@rushiannaclemons1757]

I think it’s very hypercritical that those who have money say it’s not always about money. If it’s not about money then how are you wearing what you wear or live the way you live. It took money to get you there. A dollar and a dream can take you but so far...

[@tiaraw872]

Rushianna Clemons you completely missed her point. Just because someone chooses a career that they love & it so happens that you can make a lot of money doing that job doesn’t take away from that person saying it’s not always about money. Its true not everyone is in a job just for the money. Not everything is about having the highest paying job possible some people are happy where they are even if it doesn’t pay a lot

[@_KrystalAlexis]

I agree. It is about money . That is how we live and survive in the states. She just has too much to understand the people who have degrees and work a good job but still can’t afford their bills since the cost of living is so high.

[@cheragirl]

I agree with A and Loni if the man is happy then let him be. The company offered him higher positions and he didn’t want it. He raised his kids and owns a home 🤷🏽‍♀️ sometimes happiness really doesn’t equate with money, for him this is what he loves to do and that’s not a bad thing.

[@rikanejose2611]

I'm with April Ryan on this one. Just because someone is comfortable at a situation, doesn't mean that he/she should be taken advantage of. And just because someone says they're happy truly mean that they're content. Some take being comfortable for happy. You will struggle somehow if you don't make a certain amount and No Adrienne and Loni, you don't have to be a millionaire to live a decent life. Many people aren't millionaires but they make enough money so they don't have to struggle. Yall ladies have it backwards.

[@ItsJamieon]

Rikane Jose yea I think they head to pumped up about everyone wanting to be famous and mega rich. That’s just not true. People just don’t want to be stressing how something going get paid.

[@sarahgivens7182]

If he happy then what's the problem. I see people chase money always looking for more. Most are not happy. Happiness is priceless

[@goldenyonis8287]

True

[@deegee113]

Wadges are important too however.... it costs to live, so a living wadge is important. Groceries, utilities, home repairs etc all cost. Home ownership is extremely costly when your home it getting older, not to mention general maintenance.

[@luckyarchery]

My great grandmother worked a normal job until she passed at 84 years old.... For her she felt more productive with the job than without. She felt that it kept her young in a way.

[@NorryaParsa]

Is he happy? Yes. Is he legal? Yes. Is he healthy? Yes. Is he competent? Yes. ....Then what's YOUR problem?!?! Sit down, shut up, and let him have his life!!

[@NorryaParsa]

@@anabali6301 Not breaking any laws. I know it sounds like it implies immigration status, but not in this context. He's living his life without breaking any laws! That's what I meant!

[@maryamyusuf660]

@@NorryaParsa "Is he law abiding" is more appropriate i think

[@TheRetroWoman80]

Love this comment so much!!

[@totsysmith5408]

Slave drivers

[@alexsousa551]

I agree with you adrienne but you´ve been rich for a very long time !!! can you relate ? can you really ? I don´t mean this as a diss at all because I´m a big fan but you have a lot of money and so does your husband and you live in an enormous house. And the same goes for Loni. Both have been famous and rich for a long time.

[@AdelaideAnn]

I believe Loni can relate. She speaks a lot about how she grew up in the projects and her mom was a single mother, they barely had money.

[@paulag1474]

@@AdelaideAnn I agree, i tend to mostly listen to Loni and Jeannie during topics like these.

[@e.m.a.8862]

You are so right. Coming to tell us everything is not abt money. Can you imagine if she was told Loni has a higher pay check than her on the real. Will she continue working since all of them professed their love for this job? This is so annoying. Who doesn't want to be like the kardashians or bill gates in terms of success or even more. They want success. If he loves his job so much he should go by without the pay or tips. I don't think so.

[@zeesummers]

E. M. A. I think loni does have a higher paycheck than her.... can’t confirm obviously but Loni was the first one on and is a producer so

[@lunajack9947]

Alex Sousa of course she can relate even if she have the money now she wasn’t rich so she understand the struggle also she worked hard for what she have now

[@e.m.a.8862]

Everything is really about money. Marriages fail bc of money. Children die if parents can afford good health care. That's an insult to his effort. They should have forced him with the raise whether he liked it or not. After using it for a while he will see the essence. Like what the hell is that? Everyone wants to be successful even thieves. This is not contentment. My people will say " they have tied his destiny. Let him go for deliverance. "

[@paigez7680]

Not everyone is meant to be the CEO. Not everyone is meant to strive for the next top position. That is okay. It is OKAY to be a peon. Really, we need people for those positions. We need variety that's how business works. I give him so much respect for recognizing what makes him happy and this does. People do not have the right to judge him. Seriously what does striving mean? He may not be "striving" in his work, but there is other ways to strive in other parts of your life. You dont know his story, and you dont have to understand but you cant judge and tell him what he "should" do.

[@vickss9306]

Paige Z we actually need people to work in McDonalds soo... I see no problem with this

[@totsysmith5408]

We are not saying he should give up the position he love and feel comfortable in!! We are saying his boss should consider giving him a better salary than minimum wage !! Slave drivers!!??

[@turquoiseskies9790]

He's humble... most people cannot even fathom the mere thought of that these days. He's also happy. Everything isnt a story, but perhaps the masses can learn from his experience.

[@babygirl4949]

What part of “he doesn’t want it” don’t some of you understand? Stop thinking about what makes you happy and think about what makes him happy. If he’s okay, why do you care?! Not everyone’s happy with the same thing. Even if he is complacent, how does that have ANY affect on you?! This man made it to 72 years old and is able bodied. He’s three times my age. I think he knows himself and what he wants better than anyone else. He’s not the problem. His employer isn’t the problem. Wanting more or less for yourself isn’t the problem. People telling someone what should make them happy because it makes you happy is the problem. People can only use you if they are withholding something you want. If they aren’t giving him something he wants then how are they using him?! My brother turned down a supervisor position at his job because it was too much responsibility and it didn’t pay much more than what he’s making now. At the end of the day, Mind. Your. Business.

[@DeeL3]

Exactly! I've seen comments about "slave mentality" and how "he's been in his comfort zone too long" and should want more". Smh. Let that man live his life.

[@babygirl4949]

Dee Dee people don’t understand that supervisor/manager jobs at restaurants are STRESSFUL!!! You gotta always Be available and responsible for everything. And you sometimes don’t get paid much more. This man is happy where he is. Leave him alone.

[@JennHayden]

@@babygirl4949 facts! preach!! and something else to keep in mind is we dont know the perks of working there. it's not always about the money, but the connections. my brother works at an average job car shop and doesnt make much BUT.... by working there he has access to all of the car supplies/parts etc he needs. never has to pay for repairs, etc etc. he makes good money on the side because of that and they pay for his school.

[@TheRetroWoman80]

If everyone possessed the outlook you did, no matter their demographic or occupation, things would flow so much more peacefully and profoundly. It's so sad how many hundreds of years have rolled by and people just can't simply be different yet supportive of each other without judging.

[@GiGiHerz]

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@ravello3971]

So they keep talking about He raised his family and what not but what did his Wife do? Like come on don't be ignorant to believe they did it all just on his salary.

[@ravello3971]

@xBelloGiorno yep exactly and it's like they're praising him for it as well like if the wife was just at home doing nothing for those 50 yrs

[@osimeon00]

Another ignorant ass commenter that doesn't understand the restaurant business. You can make well over 50k a year as a waiter in tips and have the income equivalent to a career job. He works in a WEALTHY neighborhood and has an excellent rep. That means beaucoup money sweetie. Not to mention Chicago cost of living and homes were WAY lower than they are now 50 years ago. It's entirely possible to have bought on a waitstaff salary back then.

[@ravello3971]

@@osimeon00 Well from what I read they could of barely make to have food on the table some times and as of now he makes roughly $14 an hr including tips before taxes with no benefits at all. That is NOTHING equivalent to a career job. So my point still stands and if you're choosing to comment on someone else's comment atleast be right with your disrespectful attitude.

[@bossytweed6664]

Watch part 2!

[@KiaraMariex93]

If he was offered more opportunities but said no, then that’s his decision. People sometimes are stubborn and you can offer and offer and offer them more and more but they won’t take it. If the man is happy let him be. I promise you this man knew and still knows how to manage his finances along with his wife and could stop working today if he wanted to. But he’s happy being there, it’s crazy because lot of people do this. They could retire easily but choose not to and do jobs like this not for the money but for the enjoyment. Of course he should be celebrated for his loyalty to the company and I bet they appreciate him greatly.

[@tinaloveseddie]

Did this job provide health insurance, pension, 401k? Anything for his retirement?It would of been nice if they had profit sharing benefits.

[@rochellethundercloud346]

I'm happy for this guy,doing a thankless job, barely made minimum wage, owns his own home, raised his family, on a 1960's minimum wage. Yes,he could have gotten a better job, making more money, but he's happy where he is.I wish more people had that strong work ethic.

[@tianna3622]

What you need to realise is that it’s better to have a job that you love and happy with and your life is fine and you wouldn’t have it anyway else then working at a job that effects your mental/physical health, just for more money. Happiness and health Over all.

[@Cbell27]

Loni is slayinnnnngggg

[@allyshaw]

*Soooo* random, but they better tell us when Fernando the fish dies. I hope they haven’t secretly been replacing him! Also, they need to give him some showtime!

[@sweetcaramel4750]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁I could be wrong but maybe Fernando the fish has been replaced but they haven't told us hopefully not though maybe one of the staff members take care of Fernando 😊

[@shaynanichelle8621]

If he likes his job more power to him, that’s how he wants to live his life. I on the other hand, couldn’t imagine working at a grocery store for 50 years. I hate where I work, and want to work somewhere better for myself.

[@osimeon00]

People don't do their research. This man works in a wealthy neighborhood and has a excellent reputation with customers. He probably rings in well over 50k a year from his salary and tips. Putting him at the same or better of some career jobs. And he only works FOUR days a week. He's had it made for several decades.

[@JennHayden]

facts!

[@TheRetroWoman80]

This is why I read a lot of the comments and don't just type the first thing that comes into my mind because I possibly might not have all the information to make a legit reply. I appreciate you advocating research before just speaking foolishly.

[@dyamondindia5812]

This type of humble deserves all the good blessings❤❤😫

[@phoenixmoon3]

That man is working so hard for his money. Bless him. WOW!

[@katesyms2456]

Only commenting on two points...one of the hosts remarked that his employer should have offered him advancement, etc.(paraphrased). How do we know that they (employer) didn't. Some people like the dependability of knowing what is expected of them. That is their comfort range. Many years ago, while in college I worked in a restaurant and this was the case with an older worker. She loved her job and didn't want to upset her life. She came and went each day knowing that she did the job and didn't have to worry about tomorrow. She rejected advancement because that messed with her contentment. (her comfort zone) For every one person that hasn't been offered advancement, there are hundreds, thousands, everyday that are afforded that opportunity in small and large companies. The problem I have with this show is that there should be more diverse opinions (if they're going to tackle social and political issues) in the mix. Its too much "group think" and VERY one-sided. This is the reason that I have stopped "regular" viewing (youtube) and only catch an occasional clip.

[@passengerprincesspodcast]

at first i thought they were cheating him, but then i remembered most wait staff make like $5 an hr + tips, and this guy is making double that! he's coming out pretty nice!

[@luwamalem9537]

"Everything isn't about money!" Huh? That's easy to say when you earn more money than the average person! 😩 lol if Adrienne was to go broke now, she wouldn't be saying that because she has adapted to this 'prestige life's

[@Blaq_Asiann]

Shut it! Adrienne, the thing is hes been dedicated and he loves what he do! After 54 years, come on what's decent about making 2.75 more than minimum wage!? Everything isn't about money! But you definetly need money to survive. And whether he didn't want another position, they could have still offered him more than 2.75 of an increase! Period point blank. 54 years of commitment! He deserves an award!

[@nikkipowell5667]

he loves his job and he is a dedicated worker

[@mariam9967]

I literally worked 8 different jobs in just the last year lol I quit when I want something better and that's that 😔 I disagree with Adrienne the point of a career is to hustle and grind and move up , you put in work to reap what you've sown weather it's money , higher position , success and status with in your field lol this whole " it's not about money , be happy where you are" mentality is why you have people so okay with just surviving instead of living. Don't just be happy , be your best and don't be afraid to excel

[@mandys1038]

Preach Loni! This man raised a family on that income, like Adrienne pointed out he also owns his home. He is happy doing what he does and didn't want another position.

[@lil.miss.crispy.avocado]

I agree. If someone is happy leave them be, money isn't always the answer but at the same time you can't take advantage of people's kindness.

[@indigobeauty1]

I worked at my last job for over 7 years!!!! Had NO idea of all the opportunities out there for me, just was too comfortable in my surroundings.Now I question how I stayed that long 🤔😩.

[@marshacreary2442]

April is correct, many people are underemployed

[@peanutjelly727]

A lot of these companies want you to show loyalty to them, but they have no intention of doing the same to you.

[@alienredemption]

No one better ever yell at him for the wrong order 😭 but pay this man more !

[@eyo6812]

As a business minded person I think this is disgusting on the part of the owner not to pay him well. I would buy the guy a car !!!!! This guy's love & loyalty to the business as a employee deserves a great pay

[@BellaBaileyVito]

I think part of the issue with people today, and my generation in specific is that we ourselves are struggling to be home owners and car owners and make something ourselves in order to sustain ourselves and our families. My personal experience, I want to continue to strive for more not because i want to be rich, but because right now, i can't own a home and i'm barely making my car payments, and i know that with what i make right now, in this economy, there is no way that i will be able to raise a family. So when we see situations like this, we put ourselves in his shoes and feel like there is no way that he could be content with that. But good for him for being able to own a home and raise his family and have a job he enjoys. Not everyone has the same journey.

[@t.b2913]

my First Thought is oh Hell No Better Job ,and he should become part owner or something

[@tashawilliams8093]

When you love what you do no one can take it away from you.

[@deem132]

No ones saying he should leave if he is happy but they are absolutely taking advantage of his loyalty. Give that man a raise! 90 minutes to get to work for $2 over minimum wage? That is ridiculous.

[@TheAmc91]

To address Adrienne’s comment: people strive so much for all these great things, but we have to learn the secret of contentment. It really does change your life. Contentment!

[@23kensie]

Wouldn’t he know if it was enough? He’s a homeowner. He raised his family in it. They said he turned down a previous job offer with more money. Let the man live by his own standards.

[@kyrab8108]

I am enjoying their comments lately. That's right some people are happy with what they do at whatever amount of money. I do feel as though he should make way more money. The company should give him more, after all those years, wow.

[@victoriajohn7079]

I coworker of mine said that when she worked at Ross there was a women who worked as a sales rep for 20 years and did not want to change her position. She turned down being the manager.

[@dance4life1208]

I was wondering if they gave him the option of working in management or something like April said

[@JohnneseP]

I definitely agree with Loni and Adrienne. So many people get that job they were dying for but five years or so down the line they want something else because they aren’t content with what they are doing. Say if he did take that other job, would it be worth it if he hated what he was doing just for a better paycheck. After 54 years his job should do something for him.

[@jonnydavis6066]

This is the Adrienne I like💕 I wish she would have the same mindset about politics too 😂

[@PrettyGirlBuzz]

If he is happy and loves what he does, I don't see what's the problem. Money doesn't mean happiness.

[@raineray1]

I'm with april

[@krishernandez7259]

I just hope he will be able to retire whenever he decides too and not struggle, as long as hes happy thats what matters but I really hope that company has a 401k ira something for him

[@Cbell27]

Loni. PREACCHHH!

[@harmonismith3569]

I don't understand why Loni and Adrienne would have these views! Everyone deserves more as life progresses! Minimum wage? Really? The other thing is he comes from a generation where some people internalised their own oppression, believing they "dont deserve or should be grateful" I believe he doesn't know he has a choice so is taking JUST what he's given! This is very sad and if he was my father, well it could'nt be!!!

[@AdelaideAnn]

I feel like if he's happy working there, then why not. I'm sure if he wanted to find another job, he would've gotten it. They state that the company offered him different positions and he declined it. He's happy where he is right now. Why should he have to keep moving up? If hes happy, leave him.

[@poetry_on_standby6440]

That's a loyal man right there.

[@jonnydavis6066]

Adrienne completely shutdown April Ryan😂😂😂

[@MariFenty21]

I honestly think it goes back to knowing and understanding your worth.. yes i do agree you should do what makes you happy however this individual has shown dedication work ethic and providing excellent customer service throughout the years... I feel that even if he didn’t want to move up with the company they should compensate him for his hard work. I know someone who did the same thing for a retail company and when they went under she was left with a measly 1 week severance check... I feel that at the end of the day certain jobs will only view you as a number and not a hard working individual and he shouldn’t be taken advantage of!

[@Getitgirlllll4717]

Bless his heart!!!! I'm glad he loves what he does; However....... I feel he should've spoke up, and said "Im commited and loyal to the company, I love my position and I'd like to continue with that position. However, my pay needs to be increased significantly because I'm valuable, I've proved myself and I deserve it! Same position and more $$$ will suffice and i would say it jst like that!!!-What pisses me off is, he worked there 54 years the the company is ok w/ letting him continue to be paid 2 dollars an hour???!!!!🙅No mam and No Sir!!!!! They couldve surprised him with a permant raise on g.p. alone! He deserves wayyyyyyyyy more than 2 dollars. His loyalty and commitment is unmatched!!! Respect!

[@candicelopez5535]

The entitlement and shade in these comments is insane. Be kind!

[@jeremyceniza]

Albert Einstein's Theory of Happiness "A calm and modest life brings more happiness than the pursuit of success combined with constant restlessness."

[@Rashida_TX]

And because he loves his job so much, they should pay that man more.

[@msrainbowbrite]

Its not up to the company to baby you into applying for more senior positions ... If he wanted a higher position he could have applied and because of his loyalty we know he would have got the job. If this man is happy, that should be the end of it. It is well known that the majority of people change their careers atleast 4 times in their life. If this man is happy with his one position then that is a very lucky place to be

[@conniechoward]

Adrienne thanks for breaking it down

[@lil.miss.crispy.avocado]

Hey, that's a good strong name and was my grandpa's name too! 😂

[@ricodiamante7099]

I know money isn’t happiness, but there’s a lot of things I’m worried about rn that a lot of money would solve.

[@ValerieAbena]

I was going to say the employers are taking advantage but if they offered more money and he refused... 🤷🏿‍♀️. Couldn’t be me but to each their own I guess

[@samanthawh8272]

Honestly if the man is happy and can support himself and family I see np with him staying at a minimum wage job bc that's what matters at the end of the day is happiness and the problem is people who stay at jobs that make them miserable just bc it's easier then taking a risk at doing something that makes them happy but I do agree the company definitely should do something to honor him for his hardwork

[@MimiHawk]

Even if he doesn't want another position, he should be getting paid more.

[@NellieKAdaba]

I agree.

[@fagolsagol1874]

Someone set up a gofundme for this man and let's fund his retirement!

[@sabrinaz670]

Adrienne has a good point but her man is worth 8 million so.

[@freemindsloveforever]

You can't want something for someone more than they want it for themself. If you want it you will at least aim for it. If not stay happy where you are. Also you can't teach motivation, it's born of desire. If you don't want it No body is gonna dream it for you. Contentment v ambition

[@duckiie15]

2 dollars more than minimum wage? Yeah you don’t have to be puff daddy but you don’t have to be on the verge of homelessness neither lmao. Idk where he lives but in LA definitely not guna be a home owner

[@jessicathinks8379]

I think this is sad. A dish washing job can only be so hard and he must have perfected that craft a long time ago. I do not admire people who do not want more for themselves and who do not want to grow and be challenged in every aspect of their lives. If you are in your relationship and you are pretty much where you started 5 years ago, wouldn't you think something is wrong? I think it's the same when it comes to careers. Yes, it's his life but I find this to be pathetic. You don't have to be a slave to money or super rich but having ambition and believing in oneself enough to aspire for better is inspirational to me.

[@funnycentral3695]

For that many years he probably has over 1000 regulars and makes great tips

[@rubia102386]

I feel lik his lack of exposure n fear to leave is wa caused him 2 stay complacent at the job he should b makin way more than 3 bucks higher than current ppl employed there...period that's the issue for me but at the e.o.d it's his life m wa makes him happy

[@realSimoneCherie]

People totally lost me with this. Want “better” for himself? The man just said he loves what he’s doing. It’s one thing to campaign for more money for the man, but to belittle him? Tf is wrong with people?

[@TheRetroWoman80]

Yes, all that bashing is unnecessary. You have a beautiful smile by the way.

[@lissettedelarosa6679]

Rich people saying not everything is about money......lmao you saw Adrienne face when Loni brought up the Kardashian’s for one second

[@lauracovi8664]

I love how the guest on the show was trying to delve into a much deeper and political issue in this story and literally ALL of them cut her off. She was making a very good point. A VERY intelligent woman indeed. They (the company) were taking advantage of this mans generosity, and naivety. $2 more than minimum wage does not warrant a nice or easy life in the US no matter where. And a 3 hour commute is too much to be paid so little. On the extra $2 he makes, he's gotta think about money to commute. But this gentleman probably doesn't know anything else so of course he isn't going to complain. And if you don't know you're being abused, or are so used to it (think about it, he starting working just before the civil rights era) then are you really aware there's better treatment out there or that you deserve more?

[@lauracovi8664]

That's why they say "ignorance is bliss" ..but it's gone too far in this case...At least I think so anyway

[@crazyanimeloveable]

The company should've raised his salary while hes doing the same job! Some companies raise their employers loan for every year they work for also based on experiences

[@tarawrr20]

Typical of a politician. Always trying to convince us that they know what is best for us and we don’t know anything. If he is happy with his conditions and what he has who are we to judge? Also, something NO ONE mentions here is that if the man wanted more money he could ask for more! Being there 50+ years has certainly afforded him the ability to ask for a raise if he wanted it.

[@naanamendez1123]

That can’t be me bro. You gone give me that raise.

[@safucci]

I would do the same tbh because being a manager is STRESSFUL!

[@krishernandez7259]

My mom was a branch manager for years and years, she owned her own business for a while, but after my dad died (they werent married when he passed) my mom decided she wanted more time to spend with us and our kids so she closed her store, went back to the bank, asked her why shes just a teller, she told me, ive been the big boss before and I don't want the stress, I just want something to help pay bills and give me time with my family.

[@Blaq_Asiann]

And another thing, Adrienne, since its not all about the money, how about The Real pay you what he makes, since money isn't everything. I think you love what you do and I think you're doing your dream job. So let's see you make his salary. He was able to raise his kids and buy a home. So you should do well on his salary of 54 years!

[@osimeon00]

And the company offered him opportunities to move up to management SEVERAL times through the years and he consistently refused. Because why? He makes an unlimited amount of money in tips that you can't make with any other position and he liked the simplicity.

[@seygra20]

People should mind their business, some people just want to go to work, get paid and live. If he is happy at his job who are we to judge. We do not know his relationship with the owners of the place. Mind your business. I am more surprised that the company has been around for 54 years. that is an achievement considering the restaurant business.

[@TheRetroWoman80]

These are the type of posts I am drawn to. No attacking, no blaming, no judging...more open minded. Thank you.

[@enjinks]

My dad was born is 1964! Wow...

[@Lindasuella]

That's a bunch of malarkey..him not wanting more money. He's raising a family and the cost of living is steady on the increase..Maybe he didn't want another position and his loyalty to the company should have been compensated without them having to ask.. Had they given him a raise I'm sure he would not have given it back...

[@charity9660]

I just don’t like people to love my cashier job. I’m 21 don’t have a clue what i want to do but retail the only thing that hires me

[@indigobeauty1]

Those wack a** Employers are taking him for granted...sometimes people dont know how much better things can be until they're out of the situation they're in.

[@anahiescobar5728]

I hate that adrianne said "everyone wants more.... just relax" that is what her career is based from. Moving on to the next. She can be so contradicting!! Everyone wants to do better a d it's good to have goals after you met a goal.