The Doctor Divulge Ft. Dr. Umar Johnson

[@jeninec222]

When I see Dr. Umar, I click immediately.😂

[@staceybottoms1504]

“Sooner or later, her cookies get crushed!” 😂😂 I’m cracking up

[@C-Lyfe85]

So he just relegated his Queen's organs down to cookies?

[@Muslim_Sneakerhead]

That’s a fact. Especially working in the healthcare field in the hospital I seen it a lot.

[@mathewreef3572]

Nick claims he’s tapped into that spiritual realm but he hesitates when doc starts spitting real fire…

[@johnbeauvil7122]

Bro one of his bms is white

[@jayc5756]

He gave the best answer at the end about the different religions and different paths we all have to take in life. Everybody has a different journey.

[@tonithompson1158]

Dr. Umar worded and delivered that so eloquently and beautifully. He was dropping gems 💎.

[@nicolejames3054]

It opened my eyes real clear! Cause we don't know💯

[@jayc5756]

@@tonithompson1158 FR

[@jayc5756]

@@nicolejames3054 Exactly

[@niyoleo]

@4:47 Dr. Umar it shoulda been the other way around. If you weren’t ready to marry yet, you shouldn’t have got them pregnant to begin with.

[@Pebbz9990]

Period!

[@Hiphop_Love]

I’m pretty sure that was in his early stage before you even knew dude

[@juliap5457]

Smh he clearly states it’s before he was woke lol 😂 that came later in life. He from north Philly.

[@teresamccraw8791]

@@juliap5457He never stated that he doesn’t think that way anymore. He criticized Dr Bryant for not having any children and when she stated that she wasn’t going to have children w anybody but her husband he didn’t agree. So clearly he still thinks that way.

[@theaprescod5515]

But he’s still justifying the decision, therefore he still doesn’t recognize the mistake he made. He’s still blaming them because they didn’t “humble” themselves when he said he didn’t know them enough to marry.

[@paulgabrielkelechukwu7071]

I love watching and listening to Dr umar johnson

[@blackestknightx8881]

You love being lied to

[@AuthorDLeach]

I've been following Dr. Umar for quite some time now and this is the most vulnerable and transparent I've seen him by far. 😍

[@FashionablyTall]

Thank you Dr. Umar for always uplifting black women! It makes my heart smile to know that there are men out here that see us for who we really are ❤ Thanks King

[@higherrealms5309]

I am a priestess in Santeria and my life destiny strictly forbids me from being in any kind of “love triangle.” Any relationship I decide to be in MUST be monogamous, and I was actually open to polygamy.

[@Mz.WisdomWise-w9u]

See!!!!! I’m in a similar practice and these men think they can just go around and do this. Especially unknowingly to other women involved. My friend was told no love triangle bc they would off one another. Let these BM think what they want and believe what they want. The outcome may never work how they feel. I know a man told the same thing he can’t cheat bc of his wife spirit will well. I’ll leave it alone.

[@higherrealms5309]

@ Yes, in my religion, when u initiate u have your life destiny revealed to u through ritual. It was specifically stated that I can never be in a non-monogamous relationship arrangement of any kind. I can’t be in “groups of 3” or anything of the sort. There’s no “one size fits all” when it comes to relationships. So ignore ppl that try to argue that polygamy “is the way it should be” etc. Everyone’s destiny is different.

[@theaprescod5515]

There’s a reason the most intelligent animals on our planet mate for life.

[@nicolejames3054]

Dr Umar verbally expressed the DIS appreciation of the black woman to a Tee! He worded it perfectly.🤌🏾 If we all Really knew how vital the black foundation is

[@bricesonautry3902]

4:54 Dr. Umar " I will not get married to you solely because you are pregnant" Also Dr. Umar " I would have married either one of them because they were pregnant " 🧢🧢😂😂

[@tabi-kat1313]

“A double-minded man is unstable in all his ways”

[@Tubbsmuzik]

Never thought I would say this but I agree with you Nick! 2 wives is the same as 12. They both equal more than 1. That’s where religious beliefs differ. Great interview though.

[@AWAGIL239]

Dr.Umar is one of the Realest to walk this Earth "Salute" 👏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾💪🏾✊🏾🙏🏾🎓👀👑💯

[@theaprescod5515]

The “realest” said, “ I didn’t want to make a lifelong decision just because they were pregnant.” When is having children with someone not a lifelong decision? “We need to learn more about each other before we get together.” But didn’t need to know about them before you made them the mother of your children? It’s not even that he made this mistake. It’s the fact that at this point in his life, he still doesn’t realize it was a mistake.

[@DaChosen1-h5g]

Dr. Umar cooking speaking like a true general 💯🫡🫡

[@tso_lit]

We need to see you on the front lines putting in work during times of injustice to black people Dr. Umar… that’s what’s holding you back.

[@theaprescod5515]

You can’t expect an empty person to truly provide for others. There’s nothing there to give.

[@jaylovd8773]

What is Dr Umar building, He is 50 years old, it is clear that this man does not want to be married. He is not an example for building anything.(schools, families, community). You Will Know Them by Their Fruits

[@Pebbz9990]

That biblical verse thoooo. So true 💯

[@Stylestrstegist]

Thissssssss 😢

[@juliap5457]

lol 50 is not old for a man though he got time to do what he talking about.

[@_keepingupwithshi]

This was soooo good!! I LOVED his explanation for the differences of religion!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@theaprescod5515]

He is clearly spiritually bankrupt. If that’s what his religion offers, it’s a false god because he is arrogant, ego driven, and consumed by a lack of self awareness.

[@NBnNC]

There’s only ☝🏾 one Way, Truth, and Life - all other paths are fake news….. I do agree that sometimes it takes going down the wrong path in order to find the straight and narrow way

[@theaprescod5515]

I pray they both find Yahweh, because this is so sad. 🙏🏽😢

[@pan-africanisms]

Thank You for All The Love and Support Brothers and Sistas. Peace and Pan-Africanism.

[@WaTZReaL07]

Why is it that we have a logical explanation as to why we want to wait out the process of marrying someone but lack that same thought process of making a baby with them?

[@mitchellvogel8119]

Getting of work and seeing this upload is just it👌 Christmas for me has for damn sure come early. Really been enjoying the talks and the chemistry they share on cam.

[@williejones178]

This was so Deep I had to watch this twice definitely when he talked about your Destiny. Dr Umar is the ultimate Teacher/Builder✊🏿🔥✊🏿🇱🇾

[@wittlemami]

Why not ask your wife to be your assistant?😂

[@MrSmoothboss]

That’s what he said

[@Owari19]

you didn’t listen did you

[@thetechconsultant]

That’s what he’s saying lol

[@juliap5457]

Lmmfao that’s the point of having two wives. 😂 yall just be commenting and not actively listening.

[@moniquejohnson1315]

These conversations are a true Blessing! Educational and Enlightening. Thank you!

[@jupiterqueen7986]

SOMETIMES SETBACKS ARE SET UPS FOR COME BACKS! A WORD

[@TiaPatricia365]

I love what Dr. Umar says but when he speaks on having two wives he loses me, then I get disinterested in anything else he has to say. B/c I will never understand how any woman will want to share her husband. I will NEVER!

[@leojohnson3406]

Most of y'all do that with your partners anyway without knowing it

[@mayajohnniea995]

@@leojohnson3406 and that makes it okay?

[@richardredmond1480]

That’s the true African love

[@AndreCHatchett]

Most of the world does this. Expand your small mind.

[@yannickm.2648]

​@@richardredmond1480don't mix everything. Africa is a continent, not a village. Some countries don't tolerate/accept polygamy. Plus, in some country in Africa, polyandry (woman with 2 or more partners) is legal.

[@nicolejames3054]

Nick is so immature down to his posture. Salute to him for his career paths👍🏾

[@famu53]

One question I have is why is having children ok before I get to know you, but getting married off the table? Feel like both are a form of lifelong commitment. Actually, marriage is probably less of a permanent commitment than having a child together… 🤷🏿‍♂️ serious question though… 🫡

[@rachelbeavers5487]

I always say this a child is a way bigger commitment than marriage u can be married have no kids and move on but I understand marriage is a huge financial risk if u marry wrong

[@rachelbeavers5487]

But he should’ve def waited if he wasn’t sure why would I get someone pregnant then when they wanted to do it correct way tell them no cause u not ready yet u made another person become ready to bear and raise a child for u that’s crazy

[@KBTheGeneral]

Exactly Dr. Umar is making excuses for his ratchet behavior

[@momswithbodsllc]

Not saying it's ok but how many people actually plan their children? A lot of people have children that were not a sit down discussion, it just happened. Again not saying it's right but it happens and happens often. Myself included. So I can understand the having a kid but not being married to that person. In a perfect world I would have loved that but my child's father would never have been husband material for me. I am financially capable of taking care of my child on my own with or without help from the father so as long as he is physically present in a positive way then it works. But marriage would've never been on the table he is absolutely insane 😭🤣

[@lilboyblue3000]

Children aren't lifelong to a deadbeat father like Umar. His baby mothers raise his daughters while he gives you advice on relationships and parenting. When do you ever hear him making off-hand comments like I'm getting gifts for my children. I attended my child's birthday party recently. My children and I went on a trip together.

[@staydownpromo]

Salute to Dr. Umar Johnson.

[@swisstella]

Dr.Umar & Nick Cannon Show🎯✔️💯‼️✊🏼 🤣😂😅

[@onGod_B92]

14:34 as a 33 year old white man, just the appreciation for women in general is truly important. But needs to be reciprocated in a culture where men act like women and women are acting like men.

[@mnandyboy]

Me as Zulu person Here in South africa polygamy is our thing ❤ as long as I can manage both wives and each wife must have her own house ... our king Shaka Zulu Approved 😂🎉

[@juliap5457]

Facts some just don’t understand what poly actually is. Western culture lost

[@theaprescod5515]

But neither of them have done this….soooo, seems like they both are avoiding marriage, and the responsibility that comes with it, but they want the benefits of legacy, love, home, and family, while offering no commitment or real protection that only comes from marriage. Supposedly aware, but still creating broken homes and damage is crazy work.

[@zethesjourney4389]

Mxm... Awubhedi

[@wari_art]

This particular segment was powerful.

[@kingtynes1133]

Bruh all 3 of these sessions have been great! Drop another 3

[@TJ_Thekidd]

4:07 is a child not a life long decision?

[@lilboyblue3000]

Not to a deadbeat father. You dont even hear offhand comments about them. He doesn't say I bought my little girls' books, went to a movie, took them on a trip, visited for a birthday party etc.

[@Stylestrstegist]

Yep

[@UnLisable]

If he wants two wives….he should marry both of his children’s mothers 🤷🏿‍♀️

[@lilboyblue3000]

He wants hoes not wives. He's 50 he's not going to fool any grown woman with sense. He doesn't have the funds for them to entertain his nonsense either. Nick can get away with it because he's relatively wealthy.

[@Pebbz9990]

Lmao yup!

[@lakenbanks9426]

Dr umar love you but I’m CALLING you out! Pregnancy is *enough* to be married. You talk about community… you should have prioritized the kids over your own selfish desires (I heard you blaming the mothers for not being patient). Truth is you created 2 BROKEN HOMES that’s why you don’t like Dr. Bryant’s assessment 🤷🏽‍♀️.

[@Pebbz9990]

TALK IT! 💯

[@GregoryTowler]

Love and honor the Black woman throughly ! Great insight by Dr. Umar

[@vernonhampton5863]

Too bad he doesn't practice what he preaches

[@EliyahuJabari]

5:25 That defense was spoken like a true narcissist cus that was a horrible rebuttal. Dr. Umar is no better than Nick he’s a narcissist too no matter how he wants to defend his actions he’s just as the same I’m glad Nick called him out💯

[@Pebbz9990]

FACTS

[@KoopKoop-zn1te]

That's B's you don't believe that nick

[@EgyptBXO]

Wow Dr. Umar said several good things I’m so happy Nick is doing these interviews

[@devindecasso]

This show is just Nick Cannon’s therapy session lol

[@juliap5457]

Free therapy. He must be tired of paying for it lol 😂

[@Queenism93]

So - let me get this straight - a life long decision is marriage but isn’t getting her pregnant a life long decision - no?

[@SupaBlessedAries]

Thank you someone said it smdh

[@cam3ron105]

obviously not 😂 your children grow, Abe eventually move away. your partner is with YOU till you die, big difference, idk if arrogance or ignorance made you comment this

[@SupaBlessedAries]

@ so what about special needs children life long commitment well let me just say for alot of parents our children is a life long commitment we just change how we parent and become more of a as needed advisor because grown married and all they still need you and for the other parents 18 and their done

[@teresamccraw8791]

Ironically, arrogance is why you made your comment. Deciding to have kids in a major decision as it binds you to r that person for a lifetime, your whole bloodline is created through that child w that woman and u say it’s not as big as marriage. He could’ve spent the next 18 yrs getting to know her if that was really the issue. Black men will start a whole family with a woman, attaching themselves to her forever, establish their family’s bloodline through her but Marriage is way too much?! Trifling

[@SupaBlessedAries]

@ well said ♥️

[@hi-fisvisual]

14:30 he said he been in this work his whole life how it take him until recently to start valuing the black woman?

[@adelaidefrancois185]

I usually love Listening to Dr. Uman, but this 2 wives ideology is some bull!😂😂 This also goes against his claims of valuing and respecting our "black queens". How about you hire a male assistant? why does a woman have to accept sharing you emotionally and physically because you can't find or don't want to invent other ideas to Keep you committed to 1 Queen 7:20 1 2 wives sounds very convenient, SMH... But as long as these women agree to the arrangement, that's their prerogative.

[@C-Lyfe85]

OK, it wasn't the two baby mamas out of wedlock that raised your antennas? It was the two wives that bothers you?

[@BlackDiasporaFamily]

Peace and Pan-Afrikanism 4 life great profound conversation my brothas keep it up very informative! 🔴⚫️🟢🔴🟡🟢✊🏾🇱🇾🇬🇭

[@theaprescod5515]

85% of Melanated Americans are descended indigenous people. The majority are NOT African and have no reason to “return to someplace” our ancestors are not from. There’s a reason the powers that be want to continue to redirect us to Africa.

[@jonjohn1321]

Ninja you already got 2 families

[@Stylestrstegist]

😂😂😂😂

[@ibukayov]

😂

[@abehampster]

It's always interesting when men say they want 2 wives, when they haven't been able to maintain a relationship with one woman or wife.

[@clarkpetion305]

A legacy of offspring is CRAZY!!!

[@alicetheegreet]

When Umar says he wants 2 wives, my grandmother's words come to mind: 'why don't you concentrate on getting one woman to like you first?!' LOL 😂 Why put the cart before the horse? 🐴

[@akainest8320]

Thank you Nick Cannon & Dr Umar. Good experience, great knowledge. Well appreciated. Glorious and Gracious

[@kingnyame2119]

There you go! Let’s rock

[@hi-fisvisual]

minister Farrakhan, Malcolm x, Denzel Washington are great examples of monogamous kings that could have but chose not to be polygamous

[@stevaughnwilliams467]

Dr. Umar is a SURGIENE with his words kinda similar to Kanye West! Kudos!👏

[@nicolejames3054]

I can't tell you what religion to serve because I don't know their destiny is a Major eye opener Jewel 💪🏾

[@rebby825]

I love listening to dr umar periodtt. This man is doing the work

[@Pebbz9990]

Calling all your exes arrogant because they wanted to be married is CRAZY WORK. The arrogance and narcissism and delusion of this dude is on 100

[@teresamccraw8791]

I said the same Thing!

[@tabi-kat1313]

I agree and I actually liked a lot of what he had to say and the psychoanalysis, but just for that, those ladies dodged a bullet lol. It would be interesting to put him in the hot seat and let him be the interviewee 🤔🤔😂

[@azariahbratton-bey3069]

Great I needed this

[@FloydPhillipsII]

15:38 - "But the schools almost done, we've just got to lay some floor"... 10+ years of donations, and nearly 6 years of having a building and you still need to lay the flooring... Intelligent, well spoken guy, but not a builder for sure...

[@rebecca4829]

Wait another 10+ years

[@3fitspiritmindbody812]

I support Dr. Umar perspective on his life and what he desires for himself but why continue to profess the virtuous magnitude of our Queens, only to follow it with he needs more than one, to shape shift his life. It's a backwards slap. Again, I support this King however, he's more smoke than fire.

[@ladaca-yi1xm]

💯I’m definitely starting to smell smoke

[@AshliAlexandria23]

Oh please ! 4:45 b.s

[@narajphilip3011]

Are you one of the mothers?😂

[@Anonymouslytired]

@@narajphilip3011 judging by her ability to see his excuses are just ways to sound smart while excusing ratchet behavior, I’m assuming she’s smarter than the mothers cause she can see his bs

[@BamboNafe]

😂😂😂

[@mnandyboy]

Me as Zulu person Here in South africa polygamy is our thing ❤ as long as I can manage both wives and each wife must have her own house ... our king Shaka Zulu Approved 😂🎉

[@tamiasmith5883]

Hey 👋🏾 Counsel Culture and awesome conversation and have a good 😊 Friday and have a blessed weekend.

[@StLouis83]

He never fails... Dr U and Candace have been the best on here. Just my observation 😊

[@ibukayov]

I like his perspective on religion 🙏🏾

[@Thisguyecm]

Pain to purpose 👏🏾

[@REEDERTHC]

He said you got 30 !!!😂😂

[@jzloveinfinite]

HOLLERING!!!!🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

[@michealmcintosh5930]

So I’m the only one that notice those loud ass sips😂😂😂

[@Cloudness457]

He was drinking the Shit 💩 out of that coffee or whatever he was drinking

[@1stone379]

I couldn't hear it. The shoes were waaay louder

[@AfricaonFocus]

Must be some herbal tea 😂

[@Houstonstandup713]

I just Love Dr Umar ✊🏿❤️

[@Lil_Robya]

I just love his racism ass so much😂

[@Rachel211]

The birthing analogy was the perfect way to end this conversation 💎💎💎💎💎💎

[@aaronbrutus2654]

There's only one path to Jehovah and the kingdom of God, and that's through Yeshua. All praises to the most highest of ALL other gods.

[@sharlaamysamuel]

Amen!🙌🏾

[@lyndajoice9065]

Hallelujah 🎉🎉

[@shakurpeace8020]

I’m convinced nick brings him on to have a good laugh

[@DC-yn8yl]

Umar's in his 50s and never been married 😂

[@1stone379]

You say that like it's something to ridicule. I laugh at people who get married just to avoid being talked about for not being married. See how that turns out 😂😂

[@DC-yn8yl]

@1stone379 it's laughable because Umar knows black women aren't worth marrying 😄

[@DC-yn8yl]

​@1stone379 deleting comments about black women huh? 😄

[@6figuregainz856]

​i agree 💯@1stone379

[@tabi-kat1313]

I watched this for the psychoanalysis aspect , I’m a 28 year old white female, hopefully that is no disrespect lol. I’ve known about nick cannon’s lifestyle for awhile and watched a lot of interviews. It’s interesting but in a morbid way. I liked a lot of what dr. Umar had to say and the space created for self reflection, but from the jump as he was talking about women and his “two wives” I looked at his finger for a ring…no wedding ring… he had some good to say but it’s hard to totally respect the opinion of someone who hasn’t walked the walk 🤔🤔🤔

[@paulomoteso]

Atleast he's honest about having two wives instead of cheating and lying. I respect his opinion.

[@thechosen1.581]

Yeah this episode hit especially towards the end!!!

[@user-gh1ed8ne5k]

I like Dr.Umar, but I don’t understand him sometimes. How do you feel you know enough about someone to create a child together, basically guaranteeing that you have to be around that person forever, but not enough to marry them?

[@caresavvyAisa]

8:18 😮that’s a slippery slope statement

[@mjackson507]

Facts

[@Dbznation2055]

Its been 15 years still no school do anybody know when Umar Johnson is opening the school

[@crystalj3617]

You on everybody page about this man! Go build something of your own!

[@ShaGod-nd4eh]

Sad to see this did not get the views of Candice. the brother is on point.

[@larrelllewis9407]

When Umar was talking at the end about religion and spirituality he was speaking some facts

[@Itsxiiaaa]

I’m so happy he believes in astrology

[@1stone379]

And what's your sign?

[@LvndrBeez]

Hold up, I had this guy wrong lol “had they been a little patient” EXCUSE ME SIR, they grew the seed you planted in them out of love…. I had to shut this sht off lol 😂

[@Pebbz9990]

Right! The arrogance and narcissism 😂 both are hypocrites

[@LvndrBeez]

@ I can’t.. I’m sad I liked this guy lol. Wish I hadn’t started this one lol

[@keepsit100atalltime9]

Nick: Why not 3 or 4? Umar: Because I will not be able to financially take care of them

[@GS-gd8tc]

The fact that he can’t understand that he and Dr Umar are different, baffles me.

[@Ednoxious1]

The 2 wives thing is crazy.

[@thetechconsultant]

It’s a natural desire for men with options and everyone hides from the truth because it doesn’t sound good.

[@jussara1036]

I love listening to dr. UMar. But his 2 wives explaining is some BS😂

[@SummerJ200]

I’m trying to figure out why he thinks this sounds appealing to a woman? She’ll be a second wife (share him) and then the purpose he has for her is to build? That’s an easy pass 🤦🏽‍♀️.. what’s the gain?

[@ninab6258]

@@SummerJ200men do not seek to marry women for women’s gain…only for their own gain.

[@JonathanJonesSpeaks]

😂😂😂😂😂… yeah so intriguing.

[@moneymaverickstv]

Right. That was crap. One woman Men are a different breed of Men. Celebrate one woman Men.

[@leojohnson3406]

It's the man's choice respect it, you are definitely not his future wives but there are women out there who are truly happy with that arrangement. Majority of y'all would rather have your husbands cheat om y'all with two or three women out there rather than been one of two wives to a husband that is faithful to you too rather than go out there behind your back cheating with countless numbers of women and coming home to bring that negative energy and STDs

[@tiktokplutomars70]

More more more dr Umar more please 🎉🎉🎉

[@feliciah8758]

SOMETIMES SETBACKS ARE SETUPS FOR COMEBACKS!!!!!

[@mrecholss7605]

I love the timed comments lol

[@kilsession]

I hope that my brothers and sisters in the states realised that beside Europe and the US, poligamy is a norm (not the norm) for the rest of world. Polygamous and monogamous men have always exited simultaneously so it always make me laugh when y'all are baffled by it. It only took me one trip to the US to see that the same thing is happening there y'all just call it something else and it's not "official" or as organised.

[@MissAnonyLink]

I think the key is not ending up with a narcissist who pits the women against each other and who plays mind games with them to feed his ego. I think it goes to the character of a man if multiple wives could work properly in the states. He’d have to truly be a man of integrity and not greed. But often 2 wives lead to three and four and a concubine on the side. Greed can never be satisfied so it’s a very tough road to hoe. No pun intended

[@spiritualbridger]

Cookies get crushed is so unhinged🤣🤣🤣

[@user-kp7bi1ug9e]

Nick will really take five minutes to ask one question.

[@keepsit100atalltime9]

How many channels do Nick Cannon have?

[@JB23OOWEE]

Both of them need improvements, but Nick was just looking for flaws because he got checked. Dr Umar never claimed to be perfect.

[@bricesonautry3902]

2:28 they drink liquor when they play spades , and now they are sipping tea 🤯🤯

[@ethanrobertson3008]

"Sometime setbacks are setups for comebacks"

[@sybaldwin259]

ReaL Talk. Thanks for sharing 🙏

[@colorfulsin]

Can your wives also have another husband?

[@dancemomerika]

The people highest up got the lowest self esteem.

[@onGod_B92]

11:12 what he just says go for both whites as well. I can relate 1000%

[@shootingsavannah8976]

I see Umar. I click. It’s Simple.

[@shariel1920]

Them 2 women might have been you raising and fathering your daughters .