One time at a lake I looked around and my three year old son wasn’t there by the water. I got up looked around began to panic my mouth became dry my hearing became dimmer. My gut was gripped in fear. It happened very quickly. He was found in a few minutes. I got stuck in that mode for about two weeks. I couldn’t snap out of it. I was out of myself. I have been diagnosed with CPTSD from severe constant child abuse. I get stuck In Flight or flight very often in fact I think I’m just stuck in it period. To be out of it would not be normal to me. I’ve pretty much always felt exhausted even as a small kid.
@smallhouseinthemeadow61312 жыл бұрын
I am so sorry that you are going through this.I suffer from it too and it is brutal, although I feel that sometimes my body is out of wack, and that is what causes the feelings of fear, which then feed the whole cycle. Thank God your son was ok.
@waterdragon54182 жыл бұрын
Check out crappy childhood fairy.
@creationoflove84 Жыл бұрын
Where can I find more information on how to fix this? You seemed to nail exactly what’s going on with me. I keep trying to gather all the crumbs of exactly how I got to the dysregulation that I’m experiencing. I feel in over my head trying to figure out how to heal.
@Sarah-jn6mr Жыл бұрын
This lady has some great videos on it if you go from oldest to newest and start at the beginning. kzbin.info/www/bejne/iIHcq4N-bdh1aA Patrick Teehan is also great. Both helped me SO much xx
@BenjaminFry11 ай бұрын
have a look at www.theinvisiblelion.com
@zairahs673710 ай бұрын
@creationoflove84 the crappy childhood fairy
@ab7800118 күн бұрын
All of this can be complicated to resolve when there are actual (perceived) threats in the present environment - say, you're scared of dying from Covid or, you're not scared of Covid but you're scared of government overreach and vax mandates ... either way, you're in a state of flight-fight which links up with your pre-existing fears and intensifies your dysregulation. How does one regulate under such circumstances ... it's hard.
@whiteowl02272 жыл бұрын
What are the best modalities regulating the nervous system
@BenjaminFry9 ай бұрын
Usually somatic therapies, like Somatic Experiencing or Sensorimotor Psychotherapy, and Polyvagal Informed approaches