The ENFP Ne Fi Heart with Alexa Crozier | Type Talks E15

[@NateNocte]

"Enfps reserve a part of themselves for people who they let into their Fi heart" - I 100% relate to that statement

[@JoyceMeng22]

Yep! Fi heart is where you get the status of "irreplaceable" with certain ENFPs. ^-^

[@fattysl26]

Really interesting to watch as an enfp, especially when Alexa talked about how you can be charming/engaged but detached from Fi. I can happily engage with people, be entertaining, enjoy their company and then walk away and perhaps never speak to them again. I've often thought our natural skills could be used for evil with the wrong person 🤣

[@JoyceMeng22]

It's a powerful skill! You have the ability to charm without getting attached. "With great power comes great responsibility" they say :)

[@DeezyRYG]

I LOVE ALEXAAAAA!!!! This was great especially to see both her more serious side and the comedic side. She is definitely one of the most emotionally mature people I have come across and I love her insights. Her explanation of how she as a 7 can see the seriousness of a situation but still wanna make it fun was eye-opening, and I respect that approach. I think that makes for a great leader.

[@JoyceMeng22]

Alexa is lovely, I agree!! Her insights are legit gold. Hearing her explain her thought process as a 7 shed a lot of light!

[@mcgil8891]

Great talk as always ❤️ 1. So many people assume they're in my Fi heart when they're just in my Ne heart. 2. If you think I'm quiet or an introvert, chances are 99.98% I find this conversation/you boring. 3. If you allow me to totally be myself 100% around you, you're in my Fi heart 4. Ah I'm an ennagram 7 too ✨ 5. Spot on about downplaying with humor

[@NicStride]

ENFPs, you think they like you, but 99.9% of the time, they don't.

[@PowerRedBullTypology]

Most likely they're just indifferent

[@PowerRedBullTypology]

If a person seems hyped all day about everything, then I can imagine they're not really hyper about everything. The downside is though that it can certainly be unclear what the ENFP really thinks to other people. These days I just kinda "ignore" trying to know what the ENFP really thinks. If the ENFP says something is "awesome" and "we should really do something with it or meet up", who knows what it really means and who knows if they really want these things. So instead of wondering about it, I just take this sort of ENFP behaviour with a huge grain of salt.

[@JoyceMeng22]

Hahaha THIS IS TOO TRUE

[@pugninja7037]

@@TheLategates I actually had a invite to see a lady looking for her wedding dress, and invite to the wedding , yet she worked in a supermarket.. know idea where she even lived..

[@JonasAnandaKristiansson]

@Caitlin Hawekotte - MBTI and Strengths Coach Makes 100% sense!

[@melissaholm1988]

I have thousands of friends. Love people. I shared this with everyone who has my FI heart. There were four. ENFP

[@asiabelle88]

Wow, this really resonates with me. I always felt like an extroverted introvert as whenever I was around people, and if I didn't feel interested in conversation or the environment, I become extremely quiet and just observe. When I am around the right people and environment, I am extremely lively, bubbly and outgoing. Super contradicting personality type we ENFPs are :D.

[@PowerRedBullTypology]

I wonder if connecting long term with ENFP's has also to do with their Si. Who has always been there though good and bad times? It kinda seems to work that with ENTP's. Actual bonding long term = Si, short tern "super awesome deep connections" Ne?

[@liveforthemoment08]

Great point actually ! There’s so much I want to add now after watching this back. Consistency is important, even if we don’t speak every day it’s like a preserved notion that this person will always be there. I think the only people that really come and go are romantic partners or people that have served their purpose. In unhealthy cases perhaps Fi wants to cling to these relationships or friendships from shifting or ‘ending’ as I mentioned bc it doesn’t see them as separate to themselves which is aka codependency haha.

[@JoyceMeng22]

This is a REALLY good point. Nice deduction! :) While Ne is why they explore new things in a detached way, their sentimental heart most likely connects back to Si. What a sharp observation, bravo!!

[@alexandra9944]

12:43 happens to me all the time in my corporate environment where conversations are so boring :(

[@filipposa212]

The way you nod your head is really cute.

[@PowerRedBullTypology]

It's Fe in action!

[@JoyceMeng22]

Thank you! *nods head to your comment* :)

[@filipposa212]

@@JoyceMeng22 :D

[@jenluckhardt6302]

Everyone falls in love with Alexa and everyone thinks she's flirting. She's the most ENFP person I have ever met haha

[@JoyceMeng22]

Haha my ENFP best friend in high school had this exact same issue!! It must be fun being Alexa's friend, never a dull day. Nice to see you in the comments, Jen. ^-^

[@jenluckhardt6302]

@@JoyceMeng22 It can be fun...the once or twice I year I get to see her lol. It's nice to be here, Joyce. I think I'll stick around ;)

[@espressoshot21]

Great type talk sesh, Joyce! As an ENFP 8w7 (tritype 862/863; still trying to figure out which one lol), I really frigging love your type talk series with other ENFPs and various enneagram types! I've been really enjoying your interviews. Keep up the awesome work, girl! Been a huge fan of your channel for several months now, ever since I got into enneagram stuff

[@JoyceMeng22]

I'm happy you like my content, Eunice. 💕 The Enneagram is a great personal growth tool, so it's awesome that you have been exploring that recently. It's a complimentary instrument with the 16 types. It's nice to explore the connections between both theories. :)

[@sirbradfordofhousejones]

I’m an esfp married to an ENFP- Alexa is so much like her it is unreal (even down to those ENFP eyes). The flirty thing is so true- she’s always got guys crushing on her. Especially guys with not the greatest social skills.

[@kellikakes81]

20:46 is me and my INFJ bestie. It's so cool lol. And she says i do the same for her, explaining her Fi. She said she comes to me with a general feeling (Fe) that's hard to express and I naturally break down all of the feelings she has bit by bit, and she does it for me with her Ni and Ti, but especially her Ni.

[@caitlinfox1758]

OMG This is my whole life. People thinking that I am flirting.

[@nelsontello1470]

I 100% FEEL U! I been told that before and apparently I can come off like I like the person. I am also an ENFP 🤭....😔

[@kd-yt3gl]

What do you mean by “Fi work” and how is it done? Great video Joyce and Alexa!

[@savagestudio9666]

Is it Emma Stone ? Lol she remind me of her. Great interview 👍

[@JoyceMeng22]

Haha she does seem like Emma! Thanks for watching =]

[@thesimsarchitect9432]

what is alexa's full type?`

[@Invisibility397]

Sure then in 5 years you will be asking where are the good men. Check your friends zone. Oh so you ignored and rejected all the previous options. Deal with it and contribute to the lowering of testosterone levels in men's genetics. It's kinda important because it's how sperm is created so that for your entertainment I hope that women will own up to the mass extinction event that their behavior is leading up to. A man knows he not special, it's just his turn. Don't give out participation prizes. We do not see that as anything important men use logic to operate on not the Limerence of emotions and illusionsof Egotism. No thx I'm not going to be developing those cognitive functions I will hunt for other more interesting functions. Because it's my choice to shift each on individually. I honestly do appreciate the display of your interaction. You have taken the edge off her yet. Her door slam is permanent. Hypersensitive INFJ-T

[@kssgpv]

Typical misogyny 🤢 A woman doesn't owe you attention. If you are not lovable and wanted , stop blaming women and demand from them Also, where are the good men? That's the eternal question! Men still rape , abduct, abuse women.. But you don't give a shit .