Tom said something like "I worry that, if we have a son, she'll tell him he always has to pay--when it comes time for things like that" or something to that effect. Honestly, neither seem great at expressing themselves and both seem pretty conservative (in different ways). I understand Tom's concerns--Maria was raised very differently. Yes, she's strong and confident, but she was also raised with the mindset that the man carries the house. Over different conversations, Tom basically tried to express concern about that kind of mind set and how rigid it is. (Which is not to say that Tom doesn't have his own things--he seems a bit caught up on status or ignorant about less conventional jobs, for example) And, regardless of any of that, they come from extremely different backgrounds religiously and culturally, which can be very, very hard to reconcile.
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Ahhhh okay yes I actually do kind of remember this, thank you for clarifying!🤗 ya they definitely are just two different people with two different sets of values, it wouldn’t work between them for a marriage but I do wish both the best in finding their partners whos ideals align with theirs!