the feminist turned trad wife

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[@thelittlestpika]

Fun fact: It's not premarital if you never get married.

[@justjade256]

I fucking love this comment

[@Mag3.1415]

Fun fact: it’s not a prefix if there’s no base or suf

[@worldsbiggestholdthegirlfan]

My mom was a “housewife” for many years and is the reason I’m a feminist. She is 100% the person who taught me everything I know.

[@TheMonarchofMonarchs933]

Was her example intentional or was she a what not to do guide?

[@HenrySimmons1225]

What's wrong with being a housewife? It's how she chose to live her life.

[@screamingbegins4688]

​@@HenrySimmons1225i think the implication is that she was not happy and did not choose it

[@galactic_gaymer]

@@HenrySimmons1225 I believe the problem comes in when the woman either didn’t choose it, or is trying to convert every woman on the planet into being a housewife and saying it’s wrong to not be a housewife

[@ttintagel]

@@HenrySimmons1225 No job security or employment rights, for one thing.

[@wendypierce5621]

The people who argue that things were better in the past forget how prevalent “mother’s little helpers” were. Pills and day drinking are not new phenomena.

[@gailasprey7787]

And the fact that in those times there was no sewage system, you had no bathroom in the house, cholera was in the water and people didn’t know what germs were. Yeah, I’d totally love to go back to that. /s 😂

[@oculttheexegaming2509]

Cue the song by The Rolling Stones.

[@bottomofastairwell]

people also forgot that most of the crap they know about 1950;s housewives was PROPOGANDA pumped out after world war 2, because women all had to go to work during the war, and once they realized they could, they didn't want to go back. so instead, they started putting out a ton of propaganda about being a "housewife." the people who think things were better in the past forget that the "past" they idolize so much is just made up bullshit

[@rabbitfloss]

@@gailasprey7787think you’re a bit too early on the era!! i’d guess the original comment were talking about the 1950’s not the 1850’s 😭

[@gailasprey7787]

@@rabbitfloss 🤣🤣lol

[@meritmarinarainfo7338]

I got assaulted two days ago by a guy who I trusted to drive me home from a party. It wasn’t feminism that hurt me telling me to drink or party it was the misogyny that told this much older man he deserved something in return for helping me. So fucking tired of seeing conservatives blame women for getting hurt. I just wanted a ride home. He didn’t leave when I asked. I’m tired of being told shit like that is my fault.

[@AeonZhang]

@ Merit Marinara Info ✨🫂🫂🫂✨ 💫✨🌟❤️🌟✨💫

[@kickyourhead1910]

I hope you’re doing ok

[@kaylapounds1359]

I'm so sorry. I know you're not okay but I hope you can heal.

[@ronjatuovinen6907]

Sending you all the best vibes!!💜💜💜 Take care, get some help and when the doubt hits, remember that you did nothing wrong

[@borntodiy]

❤

[@ThatFont]

“More women than ever…” Yeah, we’ve gone over 8 billion in overall population. There are simply more women than ever.

[@stylis666]

Also, people have been shamed and financed out of testing when there were tests and medicine and there was also a couple of years before science and medicine where we knew little to nothing. With a couple I mean quite some tens of millennia. I once heard in a docu, back when some of them were still relatively well researched, that some ancient dead celeb was thought now to have probably died of syphilis way before anyone knew STD's were not some punishment from a god. They thought that because the bones were preserved and it showed signs of syphilis. And how many people's bones from 10k BC are preserved? I don't think it's billions. And we didn't always keep records of such things, and people live longer, and people are more aware that you can check for it, and there are more people, more people have access to tests. And let's also not forget that if we find one person in the past with an STD and one person today, it's also more than ever and it only keeps increasing! Because time just works that way and not in reverse. And last but certainly one of the most important ones, so severe that even media and governments are worried about it: More an more people are convinced by influencers that anti-conception methods are all bad and the best way to protect yourself is to stay natural and just count the days and measure your temperature and just not get r@p#d by gay strangers in public bathrooms ( we don't need to worry about family members or "friends" of the family because that's just statistics of the evil leftist agendas). And they're also told to ignore that historically the most STD's and unwanted pregnancies happened in places that have little or no sex ed or taught abstinence only, and now it's spreading through communities that take their sex ed and medical advice from social media. We're basically just going through new dark ages where people rather have a sense of control believing nonsense than trying to actually gain control by acquiring actual knowledge and checking it.

[@lakegroce685]

I agree that this is just the same man pretending to be his wife.

[@bimbo-jk6gq]

i literally saw the title and i immediately went "oh yeah that's for sure a guy pretending to be a woman"

[@kayleescruggs6888]

The bio does say all opinions are his.

[@madsgrams2069]

100%

[@sunitarai983]

Saddest cope ever lmao cry

[@fimbles4211]

I'm a young asexual and I get slut shamed by ppl who ASSUME I sleep around, then judged for NOT wanting any sex at all. Standards are bogus.

[@nienkeachternaam2938]

I've had the same experiences as an aro-ace woman. When I told a (male) friend of mine I've never had sex and didn't ever want to, he tried to tell me to just try to have sex, because I might like it. And that the experience could possibly be with him. I seemed like he got off on trying to "take my virginity". Safe to say we're not friends anymore.

[@Kotifilosofi]

The times people have assumed I must be a devoted Christian in celibate since I don't show interest towards anyone are... numerous 🙃

[@ishaalimtiaz6715]

​@@nienkeachternaam2938what the hell. :( My therapist didnt understand my aro aceness after multiple explanations and thought that my strong desire to become friends with certain people (squishes) were romantic crushes I was suppressing.

[@nienkeachternaam2938]

​​​@@ishaalimtiaz6715I'm sorry you had to go through that😢 This dismissal of your aro aceness is especially unproffesional coming from a therapist! It seems they were not even trying, or maybe even refusing, to understand you. I guess there are bigots and close minded people everywhere...

[@witheringlunatic]

Some people don’t understand how being asexual and aromantic people work so they always try and tell us that “we just haven’t tried it yet!” And that we’re lying or something. People are stupid.

[@KatherineAcosta20]

It's wild being anti- something and not knowing what that something really is. There are a lot of anti-feminists that don't really know what feminism is.

[@blakewhite3131]

All bigotry boils down to anti-education, so it tracks.

[@Princessbuttercupish]

same way anti-choice people don't understand what a fetus is.

[@TheDarwinProject1]

True, but they know publicly arguing against strawmen is still going to be more socially acceptable than the outrage they would get voicing their real bigoted views.

[@sistermadrigalmorning233]

Definitely.

[@jesusgarza7960]

​@@TheDarwinProject1that's the point sadly

[@benjulesrun9057]

it's hilarious to say musicians dancing sexy on stage is a new phenomenon

[@b1ueb3rrybush]

Bed oven

[@ttintagel]

@merulaamethyst2248 IKR? And Cab Calloway, and Josephine Baker, etc., etc.

[@Turquerina]

If you go back far enough, you can probably find people working it on the opera stage in the olden days. Some dances and songs are just hella RAUNCHY even back then!

[@jacktadash]

The Can Can.

[@NachtKaiser666]

Hell, Mozart had a song about eating ass. Truly classical music is art! 😂

[@captainngoose]

Another issue with them banning birth control, is that it doesn't _just_ affect women/AFABs that are using it to prevent pregnancies. I have endometriosis, and birth control is one of the easiest ways to help treat it. I vomit and pass out EVERY time I'm on my period. Its brutal, and unfortunately, because I'm 20 years old, nobody will approve a hysterectomy for me. Ever. "What if your future husband wants kids?" "You may want kids later on." "What about your husband!?" I am 20 and am a s*x repulsed aromantic. I don't like kids, I don't have interest in dating or intimacy. I just want this to stop.

[@rubberdinghy7708]

That's horrible, that doctors care more about some imaginary husband than the patient asking for help right in front of them. You deserve better.

[@allysontousignant591]

I hope one day you get the surgery you so right deserve, I’m a fellow asexual as well❤

[@allysontousignant591]

Edit you said you were aromatic my bad but I still stand by my statement that you get what you deserve❤

[@ronjatuovinen6907]

"What if your future husband wants kids?" Wtf, you can just bring the issue up on the first date like hey I cannot give birth and thus every insecure man who wants only biological kids that were birthed by his wife can turn away. You know, there are a lot of men who do not want kids

[@robfortune6]

​@@allysontousignant591I was looking at your @ and was trying to figure out "is it... allys onto us I..." and then I checked your channel name and it's Allyson Tousignant lol

[@rachelppython]

All opinions are my husband's is a wild bio

[@bruhmoment2578]

It’s probably a joke don’t worry

[@destinyh3717]

​@@bruhmoment2578still wild even as a joke lmao

[@rachelppython]

​@@destinyh3717💯

[@withcharmtospare]

@@bruhmoment2578jokes require humor

[@stylis666]

@@bruhmoment2578 It's probably serious.

[@BadPabda]

It's not even just about if the marriage ends in divorce. If the partner dies, as can happen, you need to be able to get by!

[@Moonpie90]

Dies, gets injured, gets fired and struggles to find employment for a while or at the same pay level, their living costs go up for some reason, struggles with his mental health/stress and has to reduce to part time hours for a while. So many reasons to keep both people in the workforce as long as possible even if it's just 1 shift a week or short term seasonal work a few times a year to keep something current on their CV

[@kaybrown7733]

I have been around both feminists and trad women, and the only one shaming women for their choices are trad cons.

[@overlordfemto7523]

Objectively incorrect. All women shame all women.

[@trixjoyce]

I don´t have a job and I´m a feminist. Don´t really understand the correlation this woman trying to make with her tweets between all women have to work and feminism. It´s all about equality, right? Some women don´t work due to disability, or something completely else. Feminism is about everyone having the same inherent value as human beings. How is that so hard to grasp for some people??

[@StonedHunter]

Because those people seem to genuinely believe that some people DESERVE to be valued less

[@trixjoyce]

@@StonedHunter yeah unfortunately that is true, but can’t they just be open about being bigoted then?! Instead of coming up with all these false narratives…

[@blakewhite3131]

​@@trixjoyce because they need to justify it mentally. If they used logical thinking, they wouldn't be a bigot. So they need to distort the truth into something that "explains" their behaviour.

[@trixjoyce]

@@blakewhite3131 Sounds exhausting with all the mental gymnastics. I guess I’m happy being autistic, so I won’t need that sh*t. But of course, they think people like me are the worst lol.

[@blakewhite3131]

​@@trixjoyce they don't think "oh I hate women" they think they are "helping" women be "true to their nature" when it's just men pushing all household responsibility and childrearing onto their wives.

[@ttintagel]

"...to be aware and able to discern moral men from immoral men." Lady, immoral men don't go around in T-shirts that say, "Who's got two thumbs and no morals?"" You're just as likely to find a dangerous man in clerical garb, or a police or military uniform, or a CEO's business suit, as you are to find one in a nightclub. I get so tired of the victim-blaming.

[@ThatFont]

I was thinking this too. People trying to poke holes in things they don’t understand expect people who advocate let’s say, Feminism, to be permanent teachers for people who don’t know any better, and contrarians will create bad faith arguments to try and tear down those ‘teachers’ like, they love living in this space of limited ideas and lack of knowledge.

[@fictional-girl_05]

As the child of a stay at home mother with two autistic children (including myself), one of whom has fairly high support needs, I can confirm that being a mother is in fact a full time job.

[@fictional-girl_05]

Especially since my brother's needs are so high that she's probably going to be stuck with him until one of them dies.

[@the_agate_gate3782]

I disagree with the “have him come to your place for a one night stand” because if he’s crazy, he now knows where you live.

[@streamerssaymyname]

True, but he also could have been working on converting his basement into a dungeon the weeks prior to meeting you, take him to your dungeon first.

[@selkrasouza6262]

If only we had love hotels 😔

[@johannageisel5390]

I also do not think it's a good idea. Lots of women have been assaulted in their own homes and then they cannot even feel safe there anymore.

[@rivkatraum]

The main problem with tradwives is that they assume that what works best for them is best for every woman. I just saw this account on twitter too, and they blocked me over a comment

[@user-yx3xz9qv9d]

oh they're so violent

[@Iwouldn_tdothatifiwereyoU]

“unless your a billionaire and then it defines you as on the dinner menu” I’M PUTTING THAT ON A STICKER OMG

[@Revelwoodie]

Hi! Middle aged housewife with teenaged kids here. Parenthood definitely is NOT the "purpose of my life." It isn't, or shouldn't be, the purpose of ANYONE'S life, male or female. If you think parenthood is the purpose of your life, then please, for the love of all that is green and good, do NOT have children. Because you clearly have way too much psychological investment in something you cannot ultimately control. Talk to someone, wait until you're in a more balanced and grounded place in life. Then consider kids. Maybe.

[@andrewdrewandy]

if every woman’s purpose in life was to just reproduce their life would be meaningless. you’d be raising a girl whom you expect to also potentially raise a girl and it would just continue. reproducing for what? to continue reproducing? their logic is insane

[@theysay04]

16:56 someone drugged my water at a birthday party. The victim blaming was insane.

[@AeonZhang]

@ They Say ✨🫂🫂🫂✨ 💫✨🌟❤️🌟✨💫

[@jesusgarza7960]

I'm sorry to hear that

[@laurennelson3918]

I hope your okay and nothing happened.

[@SarastistheSerpent]

There actually is a pipeline between feminism, especially radical feminism, and extreme social conservatism. Andrea Dworkin wrote extensively about conservative-feminism back in the 70s. You especially see the union of extreme feminism and extreme social conservatism in trans exclusionary and sex worker exclusionary “feminism”, and marxist-leninist hard-left feminism.

[@FarmSimDaddy]

Dumbest comment of the day

[@i_ate_a_cat_]

Why did you remind me that terfs exist

[@wingednotepad]

​@@FarmSimDaddygenuine question do u just like hatewatch this channel

[@KingOfGaymes]

@@FarmSimDaddywhy are you here then

[@Koronia047]

The reason is because many feminists are reactionaries in the same way that conservatives would be. They either have deep-rooted misogynistic or archaic views about themselves and also have bought into the lies dispensed by reactionary media. All to really generate division between the masses and political pundits know this, so they ply it to their advantage to get votes and support.

[@fictional-girl_05]

Wtf? Most feminists do in fact say that you can 100% be a housewife if you choose to, just don't try to force it on other people?

[@andrewdrewandy]

exactly, from what i’ve seen, most of them solely want you to ask yourself why you want to be one. i think thats reasonable, as when you become a housewife you can expect to have years between your last work experience, and potentially being left, if not the husband becoming ill

[@trillionbones89]

Trad wives want the 1950s suburb tv commercial esthetic without having all the downsides of the sociocultural system that demanded women to be this way.

[@vixyn_]

"jobs don't define you. how much money you make does not define you. unless you're a billionaire then it does define you. it defines you as on the dinner menu" 😂 i love you kiwi, never change

[@lekiscool]

I heard this happened to Laci Green. Which saddened me because she was the reason I became more familiar and comfortable with female anatomy as an asexual non-binary afab.

[@devikapradeep1258]

My mother who is a housewife/homemaker and got married as a young adult due to parental pressure, is the reason why I am a feminist because she always says every human should be able to stand on their own 2 feet n should be not have to ask another human being for a dollar or 2 for basic necessity. No adult should rely on another adult for everything. Like how demeaning is that, if u need a bottle of water, you dont have money of ur own and have to ask someone for that... It was her life n she will not allow that happening to me n brought me up with those ideals

[@sreyanandhini3944]

Ya but what do there are lots of woman think Housewife is a choice

[@robyns5977]

Going under the assumption that this is actually written by the husband: I think Rammstein concerts traumatized him.

[@heavensgate2245]

I love Rammstein ❤️

[@johannageisel5390]

@@heavensgate2245 I'm sorry to have to tell you that Till Lindemann was accused by several women of abusing his status to lure female fans into having sex with him. He even had people "cast" attractive young women for him under the guise of "after show parties" or "pre-show parties". One witness also reported that some of the women at those parties seemed to have been drugged. The criminal investigations against him have been dropped but I still think there was an abuse of power and status going on. I believe the victims and witnesses; it's just that it's hard to make an actual criminal case out of the evidence that is there. It's a bit of a legal grey area. Lindemann, of course, claims that all those sexual contacts were consensual.

[@Romaine_Letttuce]

I don't understand why feminist and housewife have to be mutually exclusive. Both of my parents worked until my mom had my older sister and the plan was always for her to go back to work but then they had me and I'm disabled so she wasn't able to go back to work. But you know what, my mom is also a feminist.

[@streamerssaymyname]

Feminist and housewife are not and never were mutually exclusive. It is a strawman argument to "feminism destroying the home, because mommy isn't doing what she is SUPPOSED to be doing"

[@ChuckleFuks]

A person who truly happy in life doesn’t need to constantly post about how happy and “traditional” they are

[@Cinnamonraisin_Bagel]

this has to be a troll (i mean the feminist turned trad wife) right? RIGHT!? i'm praying this is a troll

[@Ironsuaba]

I'm sorry friend, but terfs exist, are rooted in certain streams of feminist thought and are on the same level of conservative deranged brainrot, so even if this specific one is a troll I am pretty sure people like this exist.

[@MegaMonsterhighrocks]

Children were always raises by other people. Servants, the enslaved, tutors. Black and Brown women raised so if not most children in the United States, while having their children taken away constantly, up until the latest 80s.

[@ttintagel]

Not to mention extended family!

[@elpis_ezechiel]

@@ttintagel And in some cultures, the whole community raises children, it's not exclusively their parent's work.

[@LakinMae5]

It takes a village!

[@Peekabye]

If anything having a trustworthy adult to look after your child every once in a while gives parents more time to be good parents. I wouldn’t want my kid to have only me as their support system.

[@arklestudios]

19:02 And that's the clearest give away that this is all a grift. No trad wife would go to the kind of concert where there was even a chance of someone taking off so much as their socks. Or probably any concert for that matter.

[@user-pu9yy8tq5t]

Ive also seen a trend of gen-x LGBT members who claim they fought for gay rights (I dont know how the specific people online that I've seen have contributed, so i say claimed as a caution but not necessarily out of doubt) now saying they regret having fought for their own rights. They say this in videos stitched to videos of people who are trans, nonbinary, and otherwise out of the cisgender label. This is so frustrating to me, partially because theyre often stitching people filming videos while in emotional states who are just ranting and not necessarily in a state to articulate themselves properly. Basically theyre trying to say theyre sad that they stood up for their own rights, that they fought so that theyd be less likely to be murdered by ignorant assholes with no help from cops meant to protect EVERYONE.

[@redarrw1633]

Honestly it's hard for me to guess whether they actually believe that stuff. The fact that there are gay and even trans people who are being so against equality makes me wonder.....did they inhale too much asbestos as kids or are they just hoping siding with bigots will make them one of the cool kids and not a target. The "I'm one of the good ones" argument. Except we all know the minute they aren't needed their new side will throw them under the bus so hard.

[@SarahBent]

The thing i find funny is how many men forget how many men stopped dying "falling down the stairs" after no fault divorce came in.

[@shannonz3018]

I'm a feminist and *gasp* was a house wife for 5 years while my daughter was little. It made the most financial sense because of the cost of daycare in our area. Thankfully my husband was never a jerk about money, but I still hated not earning my own income (I have had a job since I was 15 years old.) but it was all worth it in the end- I got to stay at home with my beautiful daughter and now I earn about 50% more money than my husband. 🤑

[@heavensgate2245]

it's almost as if one thing dosen't cancel out the other, crazy i know wish these Twitter twats learned that already 😑

[@KingOfGaymes]

How can someone go backwards so hard

[@ilikecookies9796]

Nice username and icon.

[@redarrw1633]

A few ways: -pressure and/or even gaslighting from family or peers -despising an aspect of feminism that had more light shed on it in recent years (or in their mind "took it too far") -past trauma, had a bad experience with one or two people and it made her think thats how they all were (kinda like how if someone cis-het commits a crime people talk about them by name, but if its someone LGBT all they'll emphasize is that they're gay or trans and represents everyone in the community. Or if a journalist who happens to be a feminist writes an article about an idea or potential changes to a movie that represents all feminists somehow)

[@ChaosTheoriesLux]

I need this woman (man?) not to speak for me.

[@ErutaniaRose]

Imagine hating birth control. Like bro, it's valid to use it to prevent pregnancy, but there are SO many women, and people, who use it to help with debilitating medical conditions that medicine can't bother to research more...

[@rosieg6989]

Yup, I’ve been on birth control for over 6 years, but I’m asexual. I do it so I don’t die from my period every month.

[@Rakeruchan]

WHY DOES THE BIO HAVE A PORTUGUESE FLAG?!?!?! Here I was thinking we were safe 😢. Awesome video as always Kiwi! 😊

[@i_ate_a_cat_]

Damn I get it. Ukrainian here. The conservative disease can be found anywhere, across any ethnicity.

[@Sodomio]

My Portuguese heart broke ☹️

[@b1ueb3rrybush]

Portugal isn't a real country

[@witchytaedragon]

@@b1ueb3rrybush What?

[@b1ueb3rrybush]

​@@witchytaedragonIt was made up by the government

[@destinyh3717]

I really hope the life she's building is worth sacrificing her free thought. I feel sad for people thinking this way, they must have incredibly deep-seated insecurities.

[@JustN7]

The “turned tradwife” finds logical contradiction in feminism. Here is a logical contraction: “all opinions are my husband’s”, then what she is tweeting is a man’s opinion. Why is she is tweeting if she doesn’t have any opinion? Why would any woman want to learn what a women’s life purpose is from a man? The tweet uses the subject “I” which means she is trying to explain it from her perspective how is it for her as a “feminist turned tradwife” but it isn’t actually how she feels at all????!!!🥴🥴🥴🥴

[@sreyanandhini3944]

Yes trad wives are like this

[@rainpooper7088]

It's probably just a fancy way of saying that it's her husband making these tweets in her name as though using the profile of a woman gives his bs more validity. It's r/asablackman (or in this case, a woman) 101.

[@callmedanny535]

I think the person who was talking about concerts looking like a strip show might have been talk about Olivia Rodrigo's GUTS tour. I remember a lot of people throwing hissy fits over it because they thought it was too sexual

[@Eibarwoman]

There's other stuff that could set the tradwife conservative off like Chappell Roan's "Eat Me" shirt at Coachella when the guitarists and drummer have "Eat the Rich" shirts. Come to think of it, almost everything about Chappell would irritate the bigoted tradwife.

[@BeelzeBubblesTheBee]

I misread the title as "feminist trad wife" and thought we were gonna look at videos of someone talking about feminism while videos of them making bread from scratch or gardening, whatever trad wives do, play in the background

[@aleridream7105]

I left this video running on my phone and my cat (who loves to watch tv) tried to pet you and was very curious about you. You made my kitty happy thank you

[@sen_mei]

I love the juxtaposition of being seen as a baby maker vs. a sexual object. Like, how do you think babies are made?

[@streamerssaymyname]

It's like the madonna/wh*re complex many sexists internalize.

[@Arcadian-Nova]

its Hilarious that this account keeps equating feminist to sexually active women, bc like hello i am an adult feminist i am also asexual! the only times i am shamed for my (lack of) sexual activity is by people being weirded out by my asexuality, which are usually exactly this type of people.

[@ronjatuovinen6907]

Lesbianism is the answer. I can be a housewife (as well as my fiancee can) without feeling like I am conforming to a role that is expected of me

[@andrewdrewandy]

that seems much more pleasant than being a housewife for a male

[@BiggestIbukiKinnie]

Feminism. I love feminism This is modern feminism talking-

[@starletnight2849]

I expect to run the world in shoes I cannot walk in-

[@IEatChildernForLunch]

I CAN BE WHO I WANT TO BE (Srry i had to)

[@blakewhite3131]

Certified banger

[@Ace_Greymoore]

Can't stand when people are like "Oh people are happier? Then why are so many people on antidepressants?" It's like complaining about people being cleaner but more people are using soap

[@USSAnimeNCC-]

How does someone think feminism is telling women to have causal sex when it abiut not shaming wome for doing it because men dont get shame for it instead men get shame for being a vrigin while women who are virgin are treated as ideal how about we dont care about it let people do what they want with their bodies be male or female

[@OpaloAzul]

Correction: women are expected to not have sex except when a man demands it from them.

[@overlordfemto7523]

Feminism objectively tells women not to get married and to have as much sex with as many people as possible

[@seansteele6532]

Literally first tweet and I’m like “Tgats the dude’s sock puppet.”

[@atate43]

I worked at a daycare and we had 6 week olds because their moms had to go back to work or lose their jobs 😢

[@twilightwillowglade7214]

My mom was a single mom before she met my dad, she had kids early in life, my brother and sister, and she was raising them well. It was certainly a struggle, but she could have kept going without my dad. But she met my dad, they fell in love practically instantly and they eventually got married and had me. My dad worked hard so that my mom could stay home with me and raise me until I started school. Something she wished she could give my siblings, but it just wasn't possible being a single mother. And my dad never thought less of her, not for getting pregnant at a young age, not for wanting to be a stay-at-home mother, all he thought was, "I love this brave, selfless woman."

[@mandlerparr1]

This feminist housewife knows that it is my husband who depends on me, not the other way around. My life would improve if I got to go to work 8 hours a day while someone else did the nitty gritty daily household stuff and then my husband had to help me do the rest at night. My work hours would decrease while his increased. If my going to work means that he has to work more, then that means my staying home is a boon to him, not me. And I was the breadwinner for 9 years, so I do know what the other side is like and even with having to still do most of the housework and all the afterwork child-rearing.

[@G1GUJK]

Okay i love the fit! Im so jealous of you, definitely my idol

[@ratthew_patthew7408]

Kicking my feets and playing rdr2. Love the videos Kiwi, they make me happy :3

[@USSAnimeNCC-]

You'll love the character sadie

[@ratthew_patthew7408]

​@@USSAnimeNCC- i really do love her lol Im ab to finish my 3rd playthrough actually and ahes in my top 5 forevs

[@b1ueb3rrybush]

Licking your feets :3

[@nonesiste]

Lumbago

[@asum7213]

Great game, but gave me Lumbago.

[@catrakitten]

Love the rainbow heart earings. Pride month is comming soon. 🌈🏳️‍🌈

[@heavensgate2245]

my body is ready

[@madisontucker649]

It’s so weird because in feminist spaces in 17:12 there are like guides on protecting yourself and knowing if your drink is spiked or stuff like that so to say it is encouraging it is wild.

[@ttintagel]

But sex is always consequence-free for men in the kind of society these people want, where men have all the power.

[@andrewdrewandy]

it is. imo its just another way of controlling women, adding onto their fragile egos

[@AmbDG]

hehe the way the plushies just fall lmao 4:46:

[@unngjerde5064]

Feminism just means you belive in equal rights. That includes mens rights.

[@tessmary1831]

No, feminism is for women.

[@indigofeilds9520]

⁠@@tessmary1831no, unng is correct. feminism is for equal right for everyone.

[@tessmary1831]

@@indigofeilds9520 no, feminism is about women’s liberation from patriarchy. Saying feminism is “equal rights for everyone” is the equivalent of saying “all lives matter!!!”. FEMinism is for FEMale rights.

[@indigofeilds9520]

@@tessmary1831 dude- originally, yes, but things change, words and meanings change over time. it's for equal right for every gender.

[@tessmary1831]

@@indigofeilds9520 So because it's become bastardized we have to accept that instead of challenging it? Why do women have to share their movement with everyone, including their oppressor? Should the gay rights movement include straight rights? Should Black Lives Matter include white rights?

[@emilydavis9915]

i’m a stay at home mom rn and it’s given me the freedom to finally start school. i’m lucky my partner genuinely sees the money he makes as ‘ours’, if i’m ever down on myself and say something about it being his, he gets mad lol

[@Senin_Anonim_1]

they honestly dont know feminism is about CHOICE.

[@ripwednesdayadams]

Only 2 or 3 states have paid maternity leave by law. Something like 20% of women go back to work TWO WEEKS after giving birth in the US. You were exactly right when you pointed out that these politicians claim to be “family first” but do not want to implement anything real that would actually help families.

[@stylis666]

"What concerts do you go to?" She went to Rammstein and had backstage passes. Too soon? 🤣

[@crazyratlady3115]

I'm a feminist and I wish I was born wealthy enough to live like a gentleman's daughter - reading, learning languages, playing music, walking in green spaces on warm afternoons. Unfortunately I was not, but at least I have access to birth control, education, voting and a decent career that isn't just doing some rich guy's laundry with a side of secretly baring his illegitimate children in shame.

[@borntodiy]

Fantastic point with the first tweet - about what they expect people to do. If men can and women can’t, who are the unmarried men supposed to do it with? 😂 I think gay is the answer!

[@liabowden8526]

🙋‍♀️ I'm a housewife with a working husband. Hate this fundie style tradwife trend. Def not one of them! 😅 Def wearing a pink dress today tho, 😂. You can pry my petticoats & my bonnet from my cold dead pro-feminism hands.

[@youcallmejr4683]

The answer to all this ain't showing up during our life time. So relax and make the best of life.

[@ttintagel]

No, but unless we keep working towards it, it won't be there in the next generation's lifetime, either.

[@destinyh3717]

Definition: dinner lmao

[@lekiscool]

Under feminism, we support stay at home moms, but we also want to give them the option to leave the household if need be.

[@ttintagel]

Or even if they just WANT to.

[@sreyanandhini3944]

No i dont support them i only support egaltarian relationship or single woman.. i dont support trad relationship

[@emmag9890]

26:20 "more children are being raised by strangers than their own mothers" I genuinely thought this was referring to adoption/foster homes, but Kiwi seems to interpret this as being about kids being raised by maids? I know some terfs are against surrogacy, so i wouldn't be surprised if a trad wife was against adoption. P.S more kids in foster homes is technically a good thing, since they would've been taken out of bad homes.

[@ttintagel]

I think they're probably including kids in daycare while both parents are at work.

[@ThisIsTheJob]

Many foster homes are abusive. Just saying, this is a very ignorant take.

[@emmag9890]

@@ThisIsTheJob Sorry?

[@streamerssaymyname]

This is about kids being raised in any way outside of the AFAB parent staying home and exclusively focusing on said child and home. Daycare, nannies, babysitters, grandparents, all of them awful strangers in tradwifeland. Forget about how wet nurses were the standard and nursing your own child used to be for the poors. Also forget how the nuclear family was a modern design.

[@streamerssaymyname]

​@@ThisIsTheJobmore bio homes are abusive. This was an awful take.

[@PokhrajRoy.]

For a moment, I thought it was mentioning a satire account, but I guess not.

[@_0zymandias_]

Oddly enough, my father taught me to not be discrimitory towards anyone and to be feminist and all lmfao

[@Matty002]

whenever i see someone talking about feminism i know im about to read some garbage. the good ones are talking about patriarchy

[@Kim-iz5fx]

Oooh i'm earlyy ! Can't wait to watch the video, thanks Savannah!

[@liamodonovan6610]

Not all women want babies it is always expect women to always want kid's you are always interesting love your videos

[@madamemelone4947]

My mother is the reason why I have a job while being a mother. Sure, I’m just working 20 hours a week, but I still work! I grew up with my mom being at home and not being happy about being home… she did everything for my sister, me and our father to be happy, but herself wasn’t happy… also she had to take care of me and my sister, twins, for years before we got into kindergarten. And what did our father do? Well he worked and when he was home he did nothing. At all. Maybe just empty the dishwasher. But he didn’t take care of us, he worked always late and worked on weekends. Sooo… we grew up essentially with an absent father. I still don’t get why they didn’t divorce honestly….

[@cheesedemon88]

I recently went to a Witch Club Satan concert, where the female band played black metal naked on stage. It was amazing and raw, but it was hardly a strip show, even with full nudity it was not sexy.

[@oculttheexegaming2509]

This reminds me of Rockbitch's concerts, although the band members did sometimes engage in direct sexual shenanigans (as far as I know).

[@AmberBoBamber9681]

10 weeks is super generous for the US. Most women I know went back to work after 6 weeks, and paid leave is not legally protected at all in my state, so when I worked in restaurants and retail, there were women that went back to work after only a few days because they couldn't afford to take the time off, as it was not paid. It's absurd and sad.

[@sarahcox1197]

I kinda did the opposite of your title, I was deep in right propaganda until I realized that it was so hateful towards women. Now I'm a feminist and 4B and I don't think I will ever look back.

[@athywren]

What I find really weird is that the only time I’ve ever heard anyone say that being a housewife is unacceptable and undermines feminism is from anti-feminists arguing against us… I’ve never heard an actual feminist endorsing that idea.

[@kateemma22]

Oh man, I went to Matchbox 20 last month and no one stripped. Heartbreaking.

[@Diamond.H.514]

I don't think she's ever been to a concert

[@EMD1594]

29:05 Not to mention, even if the DON'T divorce, there's a chance some accident or health issue could suddenly leave the husband dead or unable to work. Now the wife has to provide for what must be their 8 children if they're so against birth control/abortion

[@Moonpie90]

In the UK at least you have to pay a minimum amount of taxes for a certain number of years to qualify for your state pension. It's not a huge pension amount but funds are funds. If someone can afford to stay at home then great, but make sure that your old age plan, employability and ability to leave if needed are all thought through.

[@AbsolutelyAri1]

Shes acting like women cant both have kids and have careers 😭 My mom owns a business and had me

[@Senin_Anonim_1]

i just saw the title and said fuck no they dont know anything about feminism

[@houselightkell]

2:50 it's a twoot

[@abrummello460]

SHIRT MATCHES EARRINGS I LOVE IT

[@Nortarachanges]

It’s yet another system where the fact that there are people who are punished and ruined forever is the point

[@Itri_Vega]

Nothing wrong with repeating yourself when these people have made the same redundant points over and over again despite having been proven wrong.

[@InfernalFreakshow]

I go to metal rock/metal shows (and one rap show) and there has only been ONE band that dressed provocatively. And I've been to 10 shows and have seen 34 bands in total.

[@drowsyZot]

About a quarter of women in the US who have babies return to work within TWO weeks of having their babies.

[@fuhgetabatit1051]

"If a woman truly is a feminist she cannot be a housewife"? excuse me?! I am a feminist and I was a housewife for many years! There are a lot of SAHM and housewives who are feminist.

[@May-nt3ow]

"Just being a wife and mother" proping it up while throwing mud on it so it doesn't get seen. And where does he think the STDs come from? Golden rain?

[@alisaurus4224]

I did in fact have soul-crushing guilt & shame after premarital sex… because i’d been raised in purity culture to slut-shame myself. I also got no sex ed beyond how pregnancy works-nothing about consent or boundaries, which would have kept me from being groomed

[@nikitatavernitilitvynova]

Fun fact: the index of childbirth correlated with mortality can give us a very interesting piece of statistics. A higher childbirth rate can mean one of two things: either that the family is poor and/or in need of their child's labour to survive. Or that there is a high child/infant mortality rate. The fact we're now seeing a drop in childbirth is good! It means we're doing well as a society as we don't need to produce as many kids to keep the population alive. But instead we can focus on teaching these kids how to be a functioning member of society rather than be forced to work in coalmines or grow the food he's lucky to get to eat.

[@KellyDVance]

My feminist stay at home wives/moms: You got a new job?! You got a promotion?! You started a business?! You are getting more education?! OMG! We have to celebrate! I am so happy for/proud of you! My feminist friends who are in the paid workforce: You started a new hobby?! You're pregnant?! You are going to stay home full time?! Your kiddo is starting school?! You learned s new skill?! OMG! That is awesome! We have to celebrate! I am so happy for/proud of you! It is almost like both groups can celebrate the joys and accomplishments of the other.