The Final Tweets From Regina King's Late Son Are Absolutely Devastating

[@dmvnewbie6938]

It’s crazy how someone can look so normal and unbothered but deep inside fighting a battle that the next person could not even imagine

[@lisafarris1870]

Right depression is not seen it's within you yourself as a person might not even realize there depress 💔

[@ms.reonalove9408]

That's how depression kills! Depression is a silent isolated killer! Softly, quietly and internally! It's a everyday battle within and unless a person has and does experience it... No one can truly understand! Only the strongest of the strong can survive it but many fall victim to it's grasp. Unfortunately... Seek therapy counseling for any form or signs... It's okay to have an outlet and the support! Mental health is a Real issue.

[@maryalston7991]

Amen outside you look happy but inside never know what a person is really thinking only a,step away from breaking down all my love Regina to you @your family

[@pezavenk696]

We all wear a facade from time to time and no one really knows the pain we go through internally. The brave face we put, "I'm OK", "Yeah, going good"...that is what mental health looks like.

[@ms.reonalove9408]

@@pezavenk696 Exactly! No one truly knows!

[@candyzamarripa9015]

It goes to show you no matter how much support you have around you, inside someone's head and feelings only one knows. RIP

[@liltcup76]

But GOD.

[@miraclekalunga1561]

And what’s breaking is people are cruel!!! And they don’t realize that just telling someone something cruel no matter how small the insult could seem, it triggers /piles up what already has in there system

[@pinky-ud1rt]

Amen candy xx

[@Blue-gx9lo]

People could stop retyping how he passed away .. People know by now and if not go to the internet to find out .. Regina don’t need the Repeat around the world in social media about her Lovely Son who She Love Dearly . Just think if it was you .. No one want to keep hearing that Reason .. I m not here for my grammar, it’s not important at the moment What about he passed away… 🙏🏻🙏🏻💗💗

[@Blue-gx9lo]

@Abby A 🌼 My opinion @ the appropriate time, not the Lose of a Love one , it’s a very hurt breaking time for Mom and Dad / Family .. and people post all kinds of what ever …

[@LoLowashere]

You can tell how much he loves his mother, therefore I believe the pain that man was feeling was absolutely immense to leave her... Mental health is such an important topic that should never be moked, imitated, or ignored. Rest In peace, Ian.

[@DixonDixon65]

♥️

[@pecolsnelson8085]

He didn't love her that much by killing himself real talk not hating

[@onniekadanclar1118]

@@pecolsnelson8085 it just shows that his pain was so immense that even his strong love for his mother couldn't stop him.

[@alisonhall4403]

Mental health have nothing to do with love, it’s not something one can control in their own. Please educate yourself on mental health

[@daphnemcbride6929]

Agreed

[@hollywoodhair4u]

When I heard about this I sent all my kids a long text telling them how much Iove them and I apologize for anything I ever did to hurt them, to never live with guilt and regrets! I want them to know how much I am here and will never judge.

[@ST-kk7eh]

This made me tear up bc sometimes we just "mother" and we as parents don't realize they maybe hurting. I think I need to do the same with my boys 🙏🏾

[@eggedon6112]

What a beautiful thing to do. I love it.

[@brown_buddafly9315]

Just remarkable, many parents don’t feel the need to apologize ❤❤️‍🩹🩷

[@Simplyunashamed]

THANK YOU, for using the terminology “died by suicide” instead of “committed suicide.” Also, thank you for highlighting the positive things he had said and stood for on his social media and not only the dark stuff. I appreciated the empathetic coverage of this story.

[@cindyortiz4552]

Killed himself is the right terminology. That's what he did.

[@trinity8756]

@@cindyortiz4552 keyword: empathetic. We know what he did, ma’am.

[@jaynekeller3652]

I wonder what he knows

[@AngeliaNicholeLayton]

@@cindyortiz4552 You wouldn’t understand unless you have had a close friend or family member do this. Believe me, it makes a difference. Be compassionate for others.

[@brittanydoss1799]

@@AngeliaNicholeLayton Im genuinely confused what’s wrong with saying someone committed suicide? Serious question.

[@erykahwillisms-farmer5817]

I’m still in shock… Regina is such a talented and beautiful woman and I know her son was her ENTIRE world. Social media can be so cruel I hate it played in his death in anyway. I’m happy that he did let her know that he loved her unconditionally. I’m sooooo sad. Stay strong Queen. 💔😞😔😢😩

[@lindamiller8952]

My heart is broken for her. My son committed suicide and loved him more than life itself. We never know why love isn't enough to save our children. I will never be the same person nor will she. Losing our kids is hard enough without losing them this way. My world exploded. As I know hers did. Prayers for her. God bless parents who survive the most horrible loss of our lives.

[@confidentalways7526]

Sending hugs your way 💕💕💕

[@vicky_uche8349]

Sorry for your loss 🙏🏾.

[@yitzchockkatz5320]

May God always comfort you. I’m sorry 💕💕💕

[@shamekajoseph1636]

So sorry

[@CoExist64]

Linda, I am so sorry for the loss of your son. I can’t even begin to try and relate, but I can say stay strong and pray for you and your family. God bless you

[@barbarakirby3907]

I lost my only child, a son, as an infant, but that does not, even remotely, compare to to losing an adult son with whom you have the greatest of bonds. This young man had his mother’s deepest love, support and admiration. What a truly tragic loss!

[@stellamary204]

🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@leahtaylor7322]

I'm also sorry for your loss.

[@neosogorgeous4336]

Same here my unborn child R.I.P.

[@Justanotherfuckingobserver]

I'm sorry for all of the mother's...

[@JB-hb7fd]

Your lost is in no way less or not as bad as hers ! Losing a child is absolutely soul destroying and devastating, and for that I'm am so very deeply sorry for your loss😔

[@leahrenea2709]

As a mother who also has a 26yr old son and he's my only child, I can't begin to fathom how you deal with a loss like this. My heart goes out to her ❤️

[@vashtikelly6837]

I ALSO HAVE AN ONLY CHILD WHO TALKING THE SAME WAY NOW....PLEASE PRAY FOR ME AND HER....

[@leahrenea2709]

@@vashtikelly6837 oh no. If you can please get help. I will absolutely be keeping you in my thoughts

[@ms.southerngurl7240]

Yes! I also have a 25 year old son and he's my only child so I can't imagine the pain.

[@Thisisityall]

@@vashtikelly6837 I have a niece and a nephew who both took to SM on FB and were contemplating suicide. But this was over a month ago now And Thank God They're Both Better Now. I hope and pray 🙏🏽 that she was just upset about something and now she's okay! "Is she?"

[@mariebelsanti4677]

I am the mother to an only child and he’s 26. If I lost him my life would be over.

[@Fiftay]

It really puts it into perspective, you never really know what a person is going through. You can tell his mother meant so much to him. Strength and healing to her💚. May he Rest In Peace 🕊

[@JosedeJezeus]

Also, anti-depressants are known to CAUSE suicide. This needs to be known by everyone taking anti-depressants! Anti-depressants can cause you to commit suicide. It’s a point that must ALWAYS be made, because it’s the truth. How many of these suicides that happen “out of nowhere” are actually caused by anti-depressants?! I have zero faith in the pharmaceutical companies. They lied about the effects of anti-pain medicines, and they are most likely hiding the truth about the link between suicide and anti-depressants!

[@mreneekennysqueen6137]

@@JosedeJezeus you’re absolutely right. But no one talks about this.

[@JosedeJezeus]

@@mreneekennysqueen6137 I'm glad you see it to! The medical industry is a *money making business.* They caused the opioid epidemic. *We cannot trust them.*

[@inmythoughts718]

it is not good when a woman is faced to raise a son.. sometimes they lose that masculinity and become to feminine and emotional

[@Thisisityall]

@@inmythoughts718 Hmmm! I've never heard it told quite like this before? Interesting!

[@loracpay1639]

God give her strength like never before. We love you Regina, cherish the memories those can never be ripped from your heart.

[@infinitedrip2647]

TO LOSE A CHILD AT ANY AGE LEAVES A GREAT BIG SAD HOLE IN YOUR HEART,BUT YOU HAVE TO GO ON .

[@alicethomas9637]

I pray for you, but the unconditional love ,is important, luv ya

[@kathie1499]

What an UNBEARABLE LOSE. I couldn’t ever imagine loosing a child. Condolences. Sending good vibes & Love during this difficult time. Much ❤️ & strength to carry on.

[@colenexoxo8939]

@Kathi...Losing a child is something you can't imagine, before or after it happens. I Know this Pain. My heart is 💔 for her. My Prayers to Regina for Comfort and Strength on this Unbearable journey she now travels.😭💙🙏

[@skorpio1119]

💔 /* Loss *Losing

[@BB-ts2gu]

Terrible loss! Losing a child before a parent isn’t the way life is supposed to go. So terrible!!!

[@BB-ts2gu]

@@skorpio1119 shame on you. This is not the time for the grammar police. Grow up and grow a heart!!!

[@skorpio1119]

@@BB-ts2gu ...Grow up & learn to read lady. 💯

[@tasibho]

This is so sad. Suicide leaves so many unanswered torturous feelings and questions. Its a pain that never heals or finds peace. You know its not your fault but You always wonder if there was something you missed. Something you could have done differently. And to have that be your only child must be unbearable. Prayers for Regina.

[@sharonmurry2127]

Perfectly said....

[@BriaBarrows]

Yea that’s so true. I wish he could have opened up to someone.

[@constancefields8329]

@@BriaBarrowsMe too bein they was so close makes me not understanding n hurts for her 💔

[@tammi67able]

Absolutely

[@gugulamahlubi]

You said this so perfectly 👌🏽😩

[@Karen-dm5lb]

I'm so sorry for her loss. I know exactly how she feels, losing a grown son whose also your best friend. I lost my son to covid back in August & it's still devistating. I have a pain in my heart that'll never go away. I miss him so #RipIan 😢

[@kathyammons758]

I can only imagine the pain she feels & I'm sorry for the loss of your son...but please don't compare your pain with hers...it's pain I know, but it's a little different

[@jerrilynpapilon9611]

I'm sorry for your loss may God bless your sons soul.

[@Karen-dm5lb]

@@jerrilynpapilon9611 Thank you ❣️

[@OfficerSuperman_she-her]

I’m SO sorry, love.

[@Karen-dm5lb]

@@OfficerSuperman_she-her thank you ❣️

[@breefitzgerald2037]

I'm in tears, my deepest condolences to Regina, her family, and close friends. She is such a light going through what seems to be her darkest time. We are all here for you, and will pray for the healing of all.

[@theresaoneill6525]

Nobody should have to go through loosing a child, doesn't matter how old they are... I'm sorry prayers for you and your family..🙏

[@BL3SSed-Bliss]

Sweet sentiment, Theresa, but it's happened since *the creation of humans.* (And to *all* animals.) Gotta take it up with GOD. 🙏🏽

[@theresaoneill6525]

@@BL3SSed-Bliss I will when I get there. Hopefully not too soon

[@BL3SSed-Bliss]

@@theresaoneill6525 😎 (JSYK, one can learn answers while still on Earth. Simply, one must ask the right questions, and listen. 🙏🏽👂🏼) And yes, DEF *NOT soon,* Theresa❣️ 🥂 Be well.

[@theresaoneill6525]

@@BL3SSed-Bliss thank you God brought me back from the brink of death from Covid. So I hope that means he's not ready for me yet. Please be safe and God bless you and your loved ones..

[@BL3SSed-Bliss]

@@theresaoneill6525 ❣️🙏🏽😇 Thank you, same to you and yours!

[@lyneteshun4973]

"He cared so deeply about the happiness of others..." He was an angel that couldn't handle the negative energy of those on this planet. I pray that his family's heart is comforted as hard as it may be.

[@paulettebanks3217]

Amen 🙏

[@BriaBarrows]

I agree

[@didineanatol5949]

He was most likely an empath. Social media is terrible for such an empathetic person, it could destroys he/she. If you're an empath, please prioritize self care and give yourself break from social media and technology, stay grounded by communing with higher self and nature.

[@enthroned_one]

Amen ooooooo

[@gerardinecizmar]

His pain was unbearable. Rest in peace, Ian. I feel so sorry for Regina. No mother deserves this.

[@suestone6156]

The medications those Drs. put you on is what causes SUICIDE! My only Son went straight from Boot Camp Over to Combat War in Iraq 2002-2006 USMC Was next to his best friend get his head blown off while driving a jeep he was suppose to be driving that day! He suffers with a lot of Mental disorders; He threw those medications in the trash; He told me the friends he had left on those drugs put a bullet in their head!

[@sharronhankins7722]

@@suestone6156 I'm sorry to here that. It usually depends on what is prescribe for that individual. Some help,some don't. 🤔

[@Aponi1111-e3x]

@@suestone6156 i am sorry for your lose may that person RIP 🙏🙏🙏 But your last statement got me confused not understanding what you mean?

[@oreoreo1534]

@@suestone6156 I'm sorry but PTSD and a lack of support for war veterans is what is really to blame.

[@suestone6156]

@@oreoreo1534 Yes it Is !! I? Nightmares are the worst!!

[@zulakakarim5083]

I lost my mom to suicide in2016 and my father literally drank himself to death this past year. I don't think anyone can ever fully heal from a loss more so from suicide... There are so many unanswered questions. What helps me to just keep going is to know that while it is unfortunate that their pain was larger then my love at least their pain is gone it's a hard pill to swallow but once you do you can at the least accept it

[@ngwatomosadi1531]

Most people spend years contemplating suicide before they do it. You probably are the reason why she lived as long as she did. Try and remember the love she poured into you while she struggled with her own pain. I pray that God grant you all the strength you need. And thanks for sharing.

[@Yemi927]

So sorry about this noono. If you ever want to talk... I know you don't know me but still I wish you the very best!

[@maryjenkins8043]

I'm so sorry for the death of your parents. However I admire yours feelings about them no longer being in pain

[@eggedon6112]

Nooni, that is a huge load to carry. I feel for you, and hope that you've found local support, both social & professional, to help YOU in this time. Grief lasts for as long as it lasts, and unaddressed, leads to depression. Take good care of yourself now.

[@Pkai-hd3gm]

I am so sorry 4 u r loss. May God hold u, keep u and comfort u🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@marieb3630]

My heart breaks for this family. As a mother I couldn’t even imagine losing my one and only, my greatest love, my baby!

[@shannonjones5498]

I have struggled with depression my entire life and was suicidal a few times. The pain I saw in my parents faces when I attempted it when I was 16 was horrible.my momma was worried about me til the day she passed away. I feel for miss Regina and her family. May God give them peace .

[@binky1339]

❤❤❤❤

[@aball7654]

I struggle with depression in my early twenties and was suicidal at times due to my children father, I was All My Children had I didn't want to take myself away from them thank God and praying for you too, anyone that's going through any type of depression, mental issues please get help 🙏

[@binky1339]

@@aball7654 XOXO....So glad you are here.....I am very interested in starting a support group for people in need of support. Communities have to come together for this cause.....❤

[@aball7654]

@@binky1339 Thank you so much, it wasn't easy but I made it thanks to God and my children, and yes wish there was more support out there, There are a lot of young women that I work with going through the same thing I went through I try to be a big support (big sister) for them, I know their pain I know what they're going to say before they say it been there 🙏

[@binky1339]

@@aball7654 ❤

[@grannyofeight8357]

Oh Regina, the world mourns with you🙏🏿 this is every parents’ nightmare. Please don’t think this is your fault. You were definitely active and your baby knew that. This world is very cruel, but you gave him an unconditional love beyond measure, My deepest condolences ❤️

[@tammi67able]

Indeed

[@reneejacobs435]

People are cruel. He's not suffering anymore. May God be with through this difficult time. I love you Regina I'll be praying for you and your family.

[@o.g.millennials]

@@reneejacobs435 You don't know whether he's suffering or not.

[@reneejacobs435]

@@o.g.millennials I didn't say he never suffered I said he's not suffering anymore because he's not here. When you go be with the Lord there's no more suffering I'm just saying I'm not here for any debate if I've have offended anyone please except my apology.

[@o.g.millennials]

@@reneejacobs435 No offense taken but my point was that you don't know whether he's suffering or not. You don't know anything about where he is. Few find eternal life. Very few.

[@TheLeonWaldo]

This is another sad reminder that you never know what someone is going through. 💔 Prayers to Regina and her family. 🕊✨🙏

[@419iam]

Being a Mom myself my heart hurts for Regina. I have four children and I can’t imagine and hope to never experience that kind of pain. My prayers and condolences to Regina King, her family and all that loved and cared about Ian. ❤️

[@Eddie-bu6uu]

Social media is not helping anyone. My heart goes out to her. This is so sad.

[@sylviacarlson3561]

the addiction from social media is very evident in the classroom where I work as a Paraeducator. They let assignments, tests slip because they would rather be gaming and don't really care if they are failing. Let's not talk about how spelling has gone out the window. I feel so much compassion for Regina. What a shock. May his dear soul rest in peace. Why is it young people feel they can't talk to their parents, even the one they were so close to about their depression. It's mind boggling..

[@happy2bnappy575]

This is heart wrenching. To lose a child must be the most painful thing a parent can ever experience. My deepest condolences goes out to Ms, King a her family. Let's keep them in prayer and respect their privacy.

[@grumpiesngiggles4581]

My son had medical issues. Losing him is my worst fear. It would kill me. I feel hurt for her. How unbelievably awful. I hope she finds some healing. Such a strong woman and she is going to need all her strength right now.

[@indicajane4721]

Same. It’s difficult because it seems like the one mommy can’t make go away for our baby no matter their age. I feel you. Keep loving them.

[@arielle452]

Prayers for you 💕

[@202triciae]

So sorry about your son having medical issues, dont think of the future, treasure evey moment he smiles. And trust me, you do live, your other kids are pained but they have full lives. My daughter suicide was traumatic for her husband of 3 years he found her. So ya know what, you will feel like you are dying, that u wont survive, I still believe 20 months later that this will kill me. Still seeing therapist, but work a full time job that distracts me and co workers have been sweet.

[@binky1339]

@@herpaderp-bp4pe She's right..... They prey upon our fears......

[@binky1339]

@@CamiCamH You are spot on..... This is TRUE....

[@jerseywomeninc.8640]

I been riding with Regina King since she was Brenda Jenkins on 227, LONG before we were mother’s and as an Actress and Human Being, she has NEVER disappointed. I’m sending My most Sincerest Prayers and Deepest Condolences to her 🙏🏾💔 Regina is a Class Act, this is Truly Heartbreaking 💔

[@ctruth6990]

Jackee was the best looking. The rest of the pack not so much

[@trawlins396]

I definitely remember her as Brenda! And Calvin ♥️

[@CherWallacePeters]

DITTO!!!!!

[@FreedomofSpeech865]

Same

[@jerseywomeninc.8640]

@@trawlins396 YES !!!!! 😂

[@kimberlynicholson5262]

I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost my only son in 2006 to senseless violence. My 19 year old was stabbed while being robbed and his daughter was only 19 months old when it happened. While losing a child is the worst pain you could ever imagine, losing them to suicide has to be excruciating. My heart really goes out to you. Although the pain never goes away totally, it does get easier to live with eventually. May God bless you sister.

[@nancynkirote9532]

Having lost my only child too I understand the pain this woman is going through. My condolences

[@Wareaglegirl9960]

My heart hurts for her and her family. Praying for comfort

[@veronicapowledge6125]

Sending my Deepest thoughts, Sympathy, love to you!! GOD BLESS YOU Regina!! BUT GOD!! But God!@... May God continue to you strength through this difficult time!!😪😪😪Peace and love always!!😪😪😪😘🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🕊🕊🕊🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@erinwilliams57]

So trying need to cry again. Since I heard about this tragedy, it definitely had me thinking about my own kids grown or not I will never stop worrying about their well being.

[@feliciaadams8545]

AMEN 🙏

[@31crimsonrose]

Me too...😪♥️ I also wonder what was going through his head, that he was so sad. Could it be that he couldn't be up to par with a level of fame like his mother had? He was a DJ, and had some gigs, but not as famous as his Mom? Maybe he felt overwhelmed, at his Mother's level of fame, and he couldn't match it. Then again, who knows what was going through her child's mind...😪😪💔💔I know depression very well, and it doesn't matter how everyone tries to help, and its not really anyone's fault, its just a cold abyss of pain, that you can never get out of, no matter how you try. Maybe his mother knew what he was experiencing it, but because he was 26 yrs, he probably told her he could handle it, and she allowed him to be himself. Then maybe, he never really told her how he was feeling because he didn't want to rain on her parade. But I know that with the proper mental care of medication, and therapy, he would've done well. It worked for me. But... every one is different. 😪😪💔💔RIP child...

[@TTSantiago821]

Unfathomable and unbearable loss. May the most high keep Regina and her family close during this time. Losing a child is like losing your heartbeat.

[@everydayeveryday982]

Thank you Nicki Swift for publishing this video. You are a wonder. Compassionate and thought minding the way you introduce a person with empathetic communication and coverage of the stories you tell. I for one appreciate your thoughtfulness.

[@jahlive1243]

I’ll never do this to my mother. I’ll spend the rest of my life trying to repay her all the love she ever gave and more. I’m so sorry, Regina. I hope she knows it’s not her fault.

[@ericamoore7128]

Show your mom your comment!! I was so touched by it!!

[@refugeofthoughts8870]

Good for you. 🙄

[@goku23florestal26]

I get it you’ll never do this to your mother maybe you don’t know what he was dealing with, because someone Healthy have money that don’t their life is going great, most of the time plenty men are getting suicidal because they don’t have a father in their life, it’s takes both party to raise a children with some sense in theme specially now days.

[@deva190]

I agree. When I was at the absolute depth of depression many years ago I thought about my parents. No matter how much pain I was in, the thought of them grieving stopped me. Afterwards, I mentioned it to my father and he told me he would never get over it if I died. I hope others on the brink take a moment to think.

[@eggedon6112]

@deva190 Some people have depression in a way that doesn't allow them to think clearly. Unfortunately, taking their own counsel leads them to feel suicide is the solution. I wish that all of us had a loving community around us, filled with people who love and care for each other. I wish we always had emotional support in place for when we needed it. This is so, so sad.😪😪😪

[@rosiecastillo1432]

she's a beautiful women may god bless her and her family in this time of sadness

[@drearperry8727]

Why would u make this about her. Sick

[@rosiecastillo1432]

@@drearperry8727 i didn't make it about her if you can read right its called condolence paying your RESPECT duhhh

[@Oletechiegirl]

Twenty. Six. Damn that’s hard. As an older person, he hadn’t begun living yet. I cannot even IMAGINE what 1/10th of 1000 of her pain feels like. 🙏🏽

[@MsLi-ef1xp]

He looked so much like his mom....lifting the family up in prayer

[@amazinggreat3089]

This was articulated and thoughtful. I love how making such a heavy and deep video one could still show the love and positivity. Thank you for this video.

[@Allthingslatanya]

My heart goes out to Regina. I loss my eldest daughter 6/3/20 and the pain will never go away 😢

[@deejo1823]

God bless you, really sorry for your pain

[@caribbeangirl7876]

Someone can be smiling with you and they are really hurting inside. Sad that he didn't speak to someone before he left. God is the only One that can give mom the comfort that she needs right now.

[@neb-roqket8739]

Can you imagine how much he loved his mom to still do this? He must have suffered so much. Depression to me is the most silent killer ever.

[@BriaBarrows]

I agree

[@MrWatchcollector]

And what is the saddest part… as black men we are not allowed to talk about this. We are ridiculed. Women can talk and no meme will be made. No jokes. But as men? You are labeled many demeaning derogatory names and spoken of by late night pundits. I am so fed up of the double standard. We all should be fed up.

[@ForessaAnn]

@@MrWatchcollector I completely agree as a mother of two adult sons! I raised them that it's okay to cry & express your feelings but the young ladies today are ruthless! I am praying for the millennials & all suffering with depression. Hang in there...Never give up on yourself. God loves you & will never leave you nor forsake you @Kwame. 🙏

[@maureenbennett809]

So heartbreaking they were so close - Her only child. May his sweet precious soul R.I.P He was a sweet looking young man. ❤️🌹❤️🌹

[@commentguru7952]

She loved and adore her son respectfully, unfortunately it still wasn’t enough for his own soul. Very devastating. You just never know someone’s mental health even ur own child that’s the dark, selfish evil part about mental illness/behavior. Sending 🙏 and condolences 💐

[@dotlee]

That was touching I can’t stop tearing up for the pain that I feel for her and her family.

[@Canaday291]

My heart breaks for her . May she have so much love and comfort to help her heal from an unimaginable loss.

[@unknown-lf6zx]

I’m so sorry for her and all that loved him. Suicide is so hard. Many prayers to Regina and her family

[@jassn6957]

I can’t even imagine his last thoughts during the taking of his life. I’ve thought about it but never attempted. That alone was terrifying and unbearably painful. My heart is open to this young man as he transitions on to the next realms and phases of his spirit and soul.

[@lalunabelle3]

The world isn’t a good place glad people are waking up to that and taking action

[@queencerseilannister3519]

I've attempted twice. That dark pit of despair is definitely no joke. 😪

[@denicemitchelle2354]

@@queencerseilannister3519 oh my thought about it researched it but don't want to give my stalkers that satisfaction

[@BriaBarrows]

The thoughts must have been so terrible and sad. :(

[@jassn6957]

@@queencerseilannister3519 and I’m so glad you failed !!!!!!!!

[@ladycattstephenia9535]

As a mother my heart goes out to you RK I can't even imagine how you must be feeling. may god carry her through this 😥

[@genevadawson9370]

I too have a child with some changeling issues,I pray everyday that he can keep dealing with the life God has laid out for him! My heart and prayers go out to her and her family.

[@maryweber9322]

I can’t imagine the sorrow and pain she is going through. My prayers to her and the rest of her family.

[@bernicesmith1173]

🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@alisonhall4403]

Regina, is a family member of mines. Thanks for being compassionate towards her. God bless you

[@daisyr8921]

La deprecion es egoista no te deja pensar el dolor quee puede causar a tu Madre y familia muy triste enfermedad

[@bobdollar937]

Mental Health is complicated, private and Very Personal. I feel everyone has some form of Personality Disorder, which is not as insulting as using Mental Health Disorder Labels that cause people to be secretive and defensive when dealing with their disorder. Some disorders are more severe than others, however as long as a person is responsible and independent there is no need to worry about the type of shortcomings he or she has.

[@smokyquartz5817]

🙄

[@9290SC]

Demonic, is what it is

[@bobdollar937]

@@9290SC Believing in the Supernatural Non-physical Entities, such as angels, demons, gods and spirits that originate from a Voluntary Thought Process in a person's mind is not like Personality or Mental Disorders which originate from Involuntary Thought Processes in a person's mind. Thanks for the reply.

[@miriamsamaniego3335]

I lost my sister, my cousin and my father to suicide. Devastating is not even a deep enough word to describe what effect it has on you. You simply cannot wrap your brain around it at first, you feel sad but there’s still a part of you that’s in such denial that you really think they are coming through the door at any moment. Then you get so f*cking angry with them!! That’s because the why of it is never answered, no matter how hard you try to put yourself in their shoes. It is all compounded when there was no clues or hints of it coming at all!! We were a very close family and this was so out of the realm of reality! I still catch myself thinking I want to give them a call. I truly feel for Regina. So many families are suffering with this type of despair and loss, and when it happens to either a celebrity themselves or a loved one of theirs, it gets pushed to the forefront again, and those experienced in this pain will feel it all over again. I hope she has a really strong support system, because she will need it. She may isolate at first, and her friends should just keep checking in, and when she’s ready to talk about it face to face, just be there for her. 😢💔

[@cindyp1337]

I'm so sorry for your loss. May God comfort you and heal your heart. Memories are all we have. My son died in 1996 from murder. My mother told me in the beginning it is difficult but over time it gets easier. It does.

[@reneetaylor2307]

May you find peace and comfort through the Father, the Son and the Holy Spirit. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💔

[@miriamsamaniego3335]

@@cindyp1337 I cannot fathom getting that knock at the door to be told my child was murdered. My heart goes out to you and I’m sending you many hugs.

[@miriamsamaniego3335]

@@reneetaylor2307 if it wasn’t for my steadfast faith in the Holy Trinity, I might have lost my mind. Thank you for your kind words.

[@JosedeJezeus]

Were any of your family members taking anti-depressants? There's a link between anti-depressants and suicide.!

[@sburris65]

My heart goes out to her for her profound loss. Hopefully at some point we can destigmatize mental health and understand people do not choose that no more than they choose cancer. I have a friend who's daughter has mental health issues and she refuses to get help because what would people say. And I just pray she doesn't end up in this situation.

[@marisolreyes6502]

You are so right. My eldest, wonderful. Funny, heart of gold sister suffered from severe depression. But because she was always so funny, and loving we never acknowledged that she was deeply depressed. We NEVER took the time to understand her. When she’d get in her sad blue, non-talkative moods, we would tell her to “get out of that stinky mood” or “it’s not like you to be in the dumps”, etc. she passed away 4 years ago, and to date I wish our family would have been more sympathetic, she left this world feeling unloved..though we did, we just didn’t know how much she wanted us to support her. I miss her, always will.

[@sburris65]

@@marisolreyes6502...I'm so sorry for your loss. My friends daughter suffers from depression and is a hoarder. They are moving from Hawaii to SC and she keeps saying this will be so much better on her daughter as she can go take walks and will feel better. Pretty sure you can take walks in Hawaii but taking a walk helps but it will not be a magical cure. I asked her if her daughter developed MS would she not get her to the doctor. Of course she would. But she acts like she doesn't need to get her to a doctor for her mental health.

[@marisolreyes6502]

@@sburris65 thank you for your kind words.

[@sburris65]

@@marisolreyes6502 ..of course. Prayers coming your way.

[@DKdollars50]

This is terrible and unbearable! God help her recover!

[@nettenee9926]

I can't imagine what he seen in his young 26 years that made him make such a quick decision to leave the world. GOD bless him. He's right about Instagram cause I don't even have one. I refuse to Fall in line like a robot cause some people on Social media are so unhealthy and IG contributes to it.

[@didineanatol5949]

Wise decision

[@o13sweetboy]

This is too heartbreaking, I can't imagine what Regina going through😔 I can't imagine putting my mum through that pain leaving her broken and left to pick up the pieces.

[@leighcunningham756]

I hear you. Sadly, when people get so low that they no longer care for themselves, there is nothing left in them to care for those who will end up feeling the pain of that loss. Terrible situation.

[@colenexoxo8939]

@@leighcunningham756 There are no Truer Words. I Agree.😪😪😪

[@gigilamoore2656]

@@leighcunningham756 I think once a person gets to the point of suicide, they aren't in their right mind to think it through. There is no thought of the pain others will be in because their mind is no longer their own.

[@ladylydia762]

Well she did rehearse the role of a grieving parent for six months.

[@michaeld.williamsiii9026]

@@leighcunningham756 So very true, and well said. As someone who just lost my adopted mom, it’s been a deeply devastating blow to me. While during the dark grief, 😰💔😰 I considered also taking my life, because I can’t stand the unbearable pain, or grief of my mom being gone. So as much as no parent wants to bury or lose their child, it’s the same way around on the other side. No child wants to bury or lose their parent, I’m so sorry for Regina King and her family, she’s an incredible actress, and often yes stated her son meant the world to her. Beyond the fame, and overall success, so terrible that he was hurting and couldn’t take it anymore. But as someone who has, and often feels like leaving this world I do get it. It’s hard being in this life especially when there such tremendous loss and despair, I can’t believe my mom is gone, and I don’t know how to be alive in this world without her, it’s incredibly hard...😥😔😢

[@tiffmarie14]

As someone who suffers from severe depression i think i know some of what he must have been going through and our loved ones like to blame themselves when stuff like this happens but it’s no one’s fault all the love in the world don’t matter i guess it’s just some of our brains are wired bad. If someone u love struggles with depression all u can do is just be there for that person . Unless u know what it physically and mentally feels like to be in a dark hole u can’t climb ur way out of u wouldn’t understand. It’s so exhausting and takes such a toll on ur mind & body that u just wanna sleep & never wake up. I’m so glad i got help before it was to late & if anyone reading this who understands what I’m talking about & needs help or someone to talk to u can reach out to me and I’ll try to help u in anyway i can. Sending prayers to his family & loved one’s..💔

[@Zamauria91]

💯💯💯🥰🥰🥰😭😭😭

[@kendimuturua4144]

Am depressed help

[@audreyheart2180]

🙏❤

[@karenking1920]

Thank You for posting because it may help another person 🙏🏽

[@slimy5209]

Oh no..this is heartbreaking and my thoughts and love goes to the family...rest in power.

[@MarlonAlvarez7]

This video just left me in tears. So heartbreaking. Sending prayers out to Regina.

[@shunjay2978]

I teared up. I have been so impressed by her and her career…so to hear this (as a mother) I couldn’t even imagine. My heart broke for her and her family 😔 my condolences 💐

[@vincentsaunders5617]

As a parent of two grown children my heart goes out to Regina king, the unconditional love i have for mine can never be repaid from them, so I understand your pain and hope i never get feel the devastation for that loss my prayers and thoughts are with you Regina.

[@erincarr6029]

This is so sad I pray that God will send his peace that passeth all understanding and May it guard their hearts 💕 and mind In Jesus Christ Name Hallelujah Amen 🙏🏾

[@trishaann1616]

Loosing a child at any age is the greatest pain a mother can feel. She's so right. You don't actually know what real unconstitutional love is until you have a child. Most mothers would gladly give their own live to save their child's. That's a real unbreakable bond.

[@444Billie]

Unimaginable. Miss King, all of my love and thoughts are with you and your family. I am so very sorry.

[@traceymburnett7969]

This is a terrible loss! We are praying for Regina King and Ian Alexander Sr in the loss of their son. Praying without Ceasing.

[@RasberryTwist]

Sometime... It can also be accidental over-medicating also in trying to chill out... Every time - It's not necessarily one trying to end things...I send All my love to Regina and her family - And Prayers... Knowing that God has you in His loving arms... Keep Praying as we Pray for you also... Prayers have a Beautiful and Mighty Power. When we feel weak... He will hold us up... When we need Someone He is Always there... And will be with you... And send you Assurance always, and forever, I Pray this Prayer for you. ~ Amen & Amen... .

[@marucole8791]

I watched a kid to and adult I was proud so I know he was your son I glad he told you and you was so close and shared so much love blessings blessings blessings we love you and God do too

[@cherishp1626]

I'm so sorry for her loss I couldn't imagine.

[@naturistfred]

This is horrific. I pray for Regina and wonder what demons Ian was facing that would make him end his life on his birthday of all days. RIP

[@Klove70]

2 days after his birthday

[@wakandavibranium5053]

Sadly, he's taken a big piece of her heart with him. Really heartbroken for her. Can't imagine how she's feeling right now. As a mom, just wish that moment would be redone. May he find the peace he needed.

[@ronijohnson6137]

He passed on my birthday…..so sad! Condolences to Regina!

[@thatssojess07]

A bond between a mother and son is like none other. My deepest condolences to you and your family Regina. May God comfort you and give you peace during this difficult time.

[@annettegoode8239]

Regina I pray you find peace from losing you only child, but you did love him.......... unconditionally ❤️ and he knew that. So just know he thought of you when he left here.

[@ChocolateDon929]

This breaks my heart sending healing energy to the king family 🕊🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

[@reeorchids]

As a mother to a 26 year only son myself, I had tears for this amazing mother to have lost her one and only precious son😥😥 Can’t imagine how her heart must have shattered into million pieces!!! Much love Regina♥️ No parent should go through this pain😔😔

[@ShanecaRene]

Losing a child is always heartbreaking..but losing your only child 😩 I can't even begin to fathom the pain she is going thru..this makes me want to hold on to my son and daughter just a little longer before releasing them from my hug..RIP Ian..prayers and condolences to all who love him 🙏🙏💚

[@lemostjoyousrenegade]

Well said. I strongly agree. My heart goes out to Miss King and her family and friends. Just a few weeks ago I watched several episodes of 227 in a row. I love her acting. She seemed to ABSOLUTELY LOVE being Ian’s mom. So proud and grateful to have such a loving son. I cannot imagine the depth of her pain. 😔 💔 DO hold your children a little longer. I doubt any of you will regret it. Hugs are comforting and healing. MUCH love to you and your family. (Hold them tight, kiss them and tell them that you love them…often.) 💐 ♥️ 💫

[@marucole8791]

Miss King we have all lost someone and our life but not like yours I am so sorry for your lost blessings

[@1004445]

May he R.I.P. May The Lord God give Regina the strength and fortitude to bear the loss 🙏🏿

[@louieporcarelli2959]

When I was younger my dad took his life in a violent way in front of my family...it altered the rest of my life...she will find a new normal but a huge piece of her heart will always be gone💔 my condolences to this beautiful woman🙏😢

[@eggedon6112]

It seems unbelievable that this happened. My mind keeps wondering if there was some foul play, but I haven't seen anything to that effect. It's very sad. My heart goes out to you, and I hope you have found a center in your life where you can be yourself in freedom.

[@OneAdam12Adam]

My deepest condolences to the King family. This is just horrific. It is never easy losing a loved one, let alone a son. May God give you comfort.

[@tracytuten5116]

My heart goes out to her, that's a mother's worst nightmare to lose your child. Regina is absolutely right, you don't know what unconditional love is until you have a child.

[@pinkiemitchell791]

Look like males commit suicide more than females

[@kujichaguliaself-determina7388]

There's a reason many celebrity's children stay in the background and enjoy the wealth/connections instead of trying to be famous like Regina's son was doing with a music career that was not successful at all. He had less than 50 KZbin followers on his Desdune official page at the time of his death. His mother gave him an Instagram post advertising his latest single Green eyes to encourage him to stop smoking, but didn't tell her followers he was her son just days before his death. The single was not successful despite celebs like his mother and Taraji P. Henson praising the song. He probably was extremely sad.

[@ieshaanderson1317]

I think you hit the hammer on the nail . It seems like he was desperate to get more people to recognize his music talent or to get more attention on social media. I think he suffered from an identity crisis. Trying to make a name for himself instead of always being recognized only as a son of a long time and popular movie/tv actress

[@reneetaylor2307]

I lost my daughter 3 yrs ago and the pain is still fresh for me. Watching this video brought tears to my eyes. I don't have to say I can't imagine the pain because I know it . Regina may God hold you firmly in His mighty Arms not only to hold you up but to carry you during this difficult time. Please take comfort in knowing that you'll see your baby again. Peace & Love my sister.🙏🏾💔

[@sharonmurry2127]

Whew chile. I can tell by these comments that some people have no idea how depression works. 😕

[@consciousleepr6267]

Preach!

[@BriaBarrows]

That part

[@didineanatol5949]

Wise words.

[@Raun18]

If you are reading this I just want to let you know that you are LOVED and you are doing your best. I am proud of you. ❤️

[@bevwood8210]

This is heart breaking 💔, sometimes hanging on just one more day seems impossible, trust me, I've been there. Please hold on, one foot in f

[@bevwood8210]

in front of the other

[@cali.songbird]

So so deeply sorry and hurt for her.. My prayers will continue to be lifted for Regina and family. 🙏🏼💕🌷

[@renellsherman9118]

Regina so sorry for your lost. You such a beautiful person love on all your movies. Rest in peace. Ian 🙏

[@msbrown763]

MY DEEPEST DEEPEST CONDOLENCES!

[@cherlynk.8403]

So sorry for your loss. There's nothing that can fill that void. It's the hardest moment you will walk through. Hold down to the Lord as hard as you can. That's the only thing that has gotten me through since my son was murdered. May God comfort and bless you and hold you in His loving arms. 💖 🙏🕊️🌹

[@gaigaiwilson1244]

he was a Capicorn/Aquarius so his post are understanding to me and the fact people say it's devastating is interesting.... Imma Aquarius and this brother was a very deeeep person.... Imma promise to Ian to make a post explaining but I can say this-when u say you unconditionally love someone you show it through actions and he tweeted that so it's hard when you only get words and/or money. I truly hopes this helps whoever read this and if anyone dealing with loneliness, isolation, feeling lost understand that's the enemy and it's SKRONG and most people getting attack spiritually are greatly misunderstood and considered "mental" when youre not. Dude would've been my best friend had I met him so y'all go support his music, turn it up high and just vibe with him..... Let's stay in prayer of protection for everyone...Amen 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@horlicks3920]

Stop trying to be relevant.

[@WorthieOne]

My heart fills with pain for her lost. The family has my condolences 🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@lenoramarine7224]

Motherhood is amazing! Obviously she’s experiencing unimaginable grief. May God overwhelm her with His comfort!

[@ethelgill2431]

So sorry to hear of her lost may God give u strength at this time to help u through this u have my sympathy and prayers.keep faith in God.

[@bloates8276]

I know the feeling of losing a son. I lost my baby 2/19 and it still hurts. My condolences to you and prayers.

[@binky1339]

❤

[@uka4447]

so sorry for your loss ❤️

[@rubylimey7614]

No words 🙏🙏🙏🙏💕

[@Lee-Leee]

I remember her in poetic justice. Mental illness should not ever be taken lightly. It's often the people that care so deeply for others that can't take the pain of this world. 💔 if you're thinking of ending things, pls reach out and I promise someone will take your hand. Including me.

[@Mslele4100]

OMG what kind words. God Bless you.

[@BriaBarrows]

♥️

[@jacquelynennassuna7003]

May Ian's soul rest in eternal peace. God strengthen you Regina King. I know the pain of losing a child

[@carmenrosario6254]

I have only one son, he is in his 30's, he has put me through some trying times but I can't imagine loosing him.. my heart is broken for Ms. Regina and her family Sleep in Peace Ian. 😢

[@andromedanative6677]

I do not know this actress, nor of her son but for some reason this upsets my soul so deeply, it is as if I can almost sense the horror and pain this poor mom is going through, with all the tragedy in this world this for some reason seems to really pull on the heart strings. Prayers for this family, I cannot even imagine what they are going through, my heart breaks for her and the family, 💔🙏🙏.