The Final Verdict: Age Of Aisha

[@ARON_1100]

17:50 how truthful this guy is.... He answers straight that he is not well read on this topic... Unlike other people who tend to malign and add their own opinions...

[@Diamondraw4Real]

I didnt catch that but he made some good points

[@yousefantonio1494]

InstaBlaster...

[@danyto]

It's debatable whether to judge a regular person in the past, but a Prophet should have moral revelation, so did God forget to tell Muhammad that this was going to be immoral in the future? It was out of lust that he married a child because he also stole his adopted son's wife 😮😳😳

[@madaxwayne]

​@@danytogod's morals are eternal Humans morals differ from era to era We don't care what humans think about morality Only god

[@danyto]

@@madaxwayne yes yes we agree God's morals are eternal and God reveals his morals to prophets so they can follow God's morals! alhamdulillah!

[@Witnwisdom70]

The conclusion is what every muslim needs to hear! jazakALLAH khair

[@MrKHAN-mb3qh]

You know my brother in Islaam , I've been bothered by this Question regarding the age of Aayesha R.A for quite a while , and I have tried and searched for answers for quite a while , This Question creep up again in my mind last night while I was at work , and wallah I felt like drifting away from my belief , shaitan kept whispering to me all sorts of bad things , and I felt absolutely terrified for loosing my faith , because as far as I am concerned my life without my faith in ALLAH and his messenger s.a.w and in Islaam would be absolutely meaning less and worthless . And I was terrified by this thought last night that if I don't find a satisfying explanation on this matter , then I'll bee doomed for eternity in the here after. And then I whispered to ALLAH in my heart and I asked for guidance and clarification as shaitan was bothering me non-stop . And alhamdulillah ALLAH s.w.t brought your video in front of me and I am 100% satisfied and clear on this issue now . I have heard shaikh Aasim al-hakim , Dr Zakir Naik , Mufti Menk of zimbabwe and a couple of american scholars , but subhan-ALLAH it is your explanation that I found most logical and satisfactory . May ALLAH reward you abundantly for this clarification and explanation . جزاكم الله خيرًا كثیر

[@nufailanoon]

May Allah protect you brother

[@mohammadfaizan2814]

Watch this too :)

[@nufailanoon]

What people say shouldnt matter, God is the One Who decides what is good and what is bad, not them. If they think something that God sent is bad, then that is their dumb opinions and opinions dont change facts. Whatever God permitted is good - a fact. What these disbelievers say - an opinion. And opinion wont change facts And also, you said that you were looking for an answer to satisfy you. What if the truth wasnt satisfying to you? Will you reject it? The truth is the truth, whether it is satisfying or not.

[@jawed__akhter]

There are many Hadith, in English, about Aisha's age they generally state as this Hadith does : "It was narrated from 'Aishah that the Messenger of Allah married her when she was six years old, and consummated the marriage with her when she was nine." Grade: Sahih (Darussalam) Reference : Sunan an-Nasa'i 3255 It is graded as Sahih by some, but that is wrong. These Hadith were transmitted by Hishaam ibn Urwa or sometimes it's just stated Hishaam, one and the same person. When Hishaam grew old his memory suffered very badly and it was then that he transmitted these Hadith. In the science of Hadith there are five conditions that must be met in order for a hadith to be graded as Sahih. One of the conditions is that the narrator have a high precision of memory. Hishaam had a very bad memory and therefore doesn't meet the criteria in fact as his memory was very bad the Hadith is Apocryphal, Daef or false. There is a Hadith transmitted by Umaartubnu Ghazeyah but he is listed as being Daef and therefore the Hadith is Daef. The Hadith such as these are Apocryphal, Daef or false and many people do not know. Asma, Aisha's sister, was 10 years older than Aisha. Asma died in 73 AH at 100. Which makes Aisha around 17 at the time of Hijra to Medina. She was conducted to her husband, Peace be upon him in a later Shawwal making her 19 years and 10 months old. In The Holy Qur'an Allah says "...Marry who seem good to you from THE WOMEN...' 4:3 Marry THE WOMEN NOT CHILDREN. Extra knowledge: The fourth chapter, The Women, starts with "O' Mankind…" 4:1 and therefore the address is to Mankind. In Hadith 10 from 40 Hadith an-Nawawi It is noted that : "Verily Allah commanded The Believers* because He commanded with it The Messengers and Allah said "O' The Messengers Eat from The Good and Act Righteously" and He said "O' Those who Believe* Eat from The Good which We provided you"..." We note that Allah addresses The Messengers separately from The Believers* and this is true throughout the Qur'an. Therefore, Allah begins Chapter 4 with : "O' Mankind…" 4:1 and the address is to Mankind and excludes The Messenger, Muhammad, Peace be upon him. As the chapter continues it still addresses Mankind and says : "...Marry who seem good to you from THE WOMEN...' 4:3 This address is part of the address to Mankind and not to The Messenger Muhammad, Peace be upon him, who is excluded from this address. However, Further along in The Chapter, The Women, Allah says : "Allah wishes to make clear for you and guide you to The Practices of those from before you…" 4:26 In this verse which is still addressing Mankind Allah says He makes clear for you, Mankind, and guides you, Mankind, to The Practices of those from before you, and The practices of those before you is to, as Allah says : "...Marry who seem good to you from THE WOMEN...' 4:3 and those before you are The Prophets. All The Prophets from before their practice was to marry Women NOT children exonerating them from any and all blame. and Allah says : "...Never will you find in The Practice of Allah A Changing…" 35:43 and their other verse from elsewhere in The Quran. And no changing in The Practice of Allah in respect to The messenger of Allah, Muhammad, Peace be upon him. The Prophet Muhammad's practice was already in line with The Practice of The Prophets from before that he and they only married women and therefore it was not necessary to address him,Peace be upon him, when Allah began The Chapter, The Women, with " O' Mankind…". Allah makes clear and guides Mankind to The Practice of those before us namely The Prophets and The Practice of Muhammad, Peace be upon him, in which there was no change in that practice from before to : "...Marry who seem good to you from THE WOMEN...' 4:3 Marry THE WOMEN NOT THE CHILDREN. There is more evidence but it would make this too long.

[@Spear-to7cv]

Let me share some of my research with you too on this very sensitive topic.... There was NO … historian in the 1st 80-90 years of Islam who sat down to write history. This history was written down through oral traditions after about 100 years. These oral traditions were common among the people of the time. These are the same oral traditions that our Hadith scholars use to compile their history books. These are the same narrations that our historians use in their books. After researching and reviewing said…( Javad Ahmad Ghamidi) these narrations some people had try to formulate our history. For that reason, it became popular knowledge that Aisha ( RA) was 6 years of age at the time of marriage and 9 years at the time of consummation. Javad has written an article in his book called “ MAGAMAT” and has presented questions in it. These questions are based on the same sources that historians have compiled based on oral traditions. Let me mention those sources to you…. Then you tell me what is been said in those sources (does it really sound plausible) This entire event and how it is been described is sourced from the first history book “ Tabqat Ibn -e- Sa’ad” it is said about Aisha(RA) one can read the translation of it and, Javad, explain that he has presented his points from this source in his article. So what is the event? The prophet married his 1st wife Khadija, it is said she was a widow who had children and was about 38-40 years old. They stay married for a long time (25 years) until the prophet was 50 years old and passed away. The prophet continued preaching but also had to provide and take care of the children. With all these responsibilities he used to be worried, and grieving the loss of his wife. It is been said that a female Muslim named “ Khaula” met the prophet on the way. She mentioned O! Prophet of Allah, I have been noticing for quite some time that you look very sad. She asked why you don’t get married again for someone to look after your household/children. The prophet replied…have you got someone in mind? (Remember his 50 now and have small children in the house) She mentioned that the prophet needs a woman to take care of his house and a companion too. Therefore she mentioned that she think he needed a wife to take care of the family and made 2 proposals, a maiden, and a widow. The maiden was Aisha (RA) daughter of his friend Abu Bakr, and from the Believers there is Sauda who is 50 years of age and a widow…The question is …This Muslim lady who we all think is counseling the prophet intelligently, do you really think she was proposing a 6-year-old girl? Why do men need to marry, for a marital relationship? Then it cannot be fulfilled (for her age?) is it for taking care of kids? Some of the kids in his household were older than Aisha(Ra) is she ( Kaula) suggesting adding one more child to the family? The prophet asked her to propose on his behalf. She went to Abu Bakr's house and put the marriage proposal in front of his wife. She replied, that although Aisha is betrothed for quite some time since we are Muslims now, they don’t seem to be interested anymore in that engagement. If she was really 6 years of age, then it means she was engaged when she was 3 - 4 years old. Can COMMON SENSE…Justify this? When she ( Kaula) found this out she went to Sauda and made the marriage proposal, and was accepted. In the meantime, Abu Bakr went to the family where Aisha( RA) was engaged, and they broke the engagement. Therefore the prophet committed himself to both marriage proposals. He married Sauda. Although both marriage proposals were accepted, he did not marry the younger lady Aisha, just because he did not want to be unfair to Sauda. He gave preference to Sauda, also because she could appropriately look after the kids. Aisha although married to the prophet did not cohabitate with him for 5 years, until Abu Bakr, her father enquired about it to the prophet. Only then she started living with the prophet. He asked for permission from Sauda if it was ok for Aisha to come live with them, or if she(Sauda) would prefer a separate arrangement. Sauda said she would like to remain in his marriage, then only Aisha (RA) came to live with the prophet So this is the whole event. Is this about the 6-year-old girl, then what did actually happen? In the Arabic language, numbers are READ as broken numbers just like in English. For e.g. 22 (twenty-two, i.e. Twenty and Two) Therefore the age of 16 in Arabic is SIX and TEN. For some reason the 10 dropped out of the ORAL TRADITION and it remain six only. This is the entire story and not FACTUAL that she was (6 or 9). NEITHER THE INTELLECT ACCEPTS IT…. NOR THE EVIDENCE SUPPORTS IT. A famous historian Ibn-e- Khuldoon, stated a principle. If an event is being presented, then 1st based on intellect whether or not it is ACCEPTABLE. Javad says he has presented all the facts… and that there is more other supporting evidence that she was between 16 and 19 when she was married and then went to live with the prophet for a few years after that. You can look up Javad’s book “ MAGMAT” in his article by the name “Age of Syeda Aisha” a great scholar from Deoband who has written a detailed book on this topic. Good day

[@richthessolonian1842]

If an 18-year-old man comes to you and says he’s getting married, you’d question his decision-making skills. You’d think he’s getting married too early. Similarly, if an 18-year-old woman tells you that she’s getting married, you’d ask her to do a “reality check” and may be even discourage her by telling her she’s too young, and she should go to college or build a career. Even though 18 is the legal age most countries, no one really believes that an 18-year-old is ready for marriage! Should it be same for girls and boys? Or, should girls have a different minimum age than boys? Should the fact that girls mature earlier than boys be takin into account? Does "one size fits all" really work for determining a minimum age? In pre-modern cultures, girls would look forward to getting married and start a family. They did not see it as we see it today. They saw marriage as a benefit, not a burden like we do. That was the norm for them. And this was true in all religions, cultures, and regions of the world. The minimum age for marriage has been increasing worldwide. In all pre-modern traditional cultures, it wasn’t unusual for girls to consummate marriages between the ages of 10 and 12 and that was considered normal back then, but not today. In most modern societies, girls are highly discouraged from getting married, even at 18. Early marriage is considered bad. They’re told that education and careers are far more important and beneficial for a young woman than marriage and having children. Today, we’ve been indoctrinated into believing that it's always better for a woman to have a career and work than to have children and raise them. Women are taught to delay marriage for career. How has this impacted women, men, children and the society at large? The result is that most Western nations are in decline-population is imploding. Marriage is ruined. People are having fewer and fewer children than the previous generations. Corporations and business do not like early marriage because it’s bad for the economy. Women entering the workforce helps increase the supply of labor which in turns lowers wages. Business and corporations benefit when there are more women in the workforce. Women who work consume more and spend more. So, it’s good for business to have working women. We’re even told that it’s possible and perfectly normal for a woman to have both a career and raise children at the same time. While this may work for some, it doesn’t work for all women. Many women get burnt out trying to juggle jobs and raising kids. It's such a huge responsibility. We expect women to work like they have no kids. We expect women to have kids like they don't have a job. All this has put unrealistic demands on women. Stress, depression, and disintegration of the family. That statistics are there. It is unfair to women. Women have been tricked into believing that having a career and family are the norm. Modernity and liberalism have changed everything. Today we find early marriage shocking, but the pre-modern people lived in a very different time period. They didn’t go to schools or colleges. Liberalism has brainwashed us into rejecting early marriage. Girls are denied the freedom to marry early. Yet, girls are told they can sleep with anyone they want, have sex with anyone, “discover”, and even change their gender any time without parental consent! Liberalism is stupid, dangerous, and destructive. It’s ruining lives, families, communities, and societies. Thanks to liberalism, most Western nations are in decline-population is imploding. In pre-modern societies, girls did not care much about careers because there weren’t any to begin with. There was no vocational or job training for any jobs because girls didn’t get jobs. She had goats and cows to milk. Why won’t she get married and enjoy sex and have children? Early marriage was not only the norm, but also the most sensible and financially beneficial thing to do. That was then. Still, we have many poor villages in India and Africa where this works. As long as there’s no harm, let them do it. In the history of the world, there’s never been a universally agreed upon minimum age for marriage. Every religion or country has its own minimums. So, what’s the perfect age for marriage? What should be the minimum age? Depends on who you ask! There’s no perfect age as there’s no magic formula. People mature differently depending in their age and cultural norms. Some say minimum age of marriage should be 18 for both boys and girls. Some say 16, and some even say 12 or 14. Regardless of the number, the modern laws setting minimum age for marriage completely ignore the obvious biological fact that girls mature earlier than boys. Consequently, girls should have the legal option to be able to marry earlier than boys.

[@Solemn_G]

Well said

[@omaradan5446]

Beautiful 🤩 love it

[@User_47536]

You read my mind 😅 beautifully written

[@DonBean-ej4ou]

9 year old child is not designed to have sex with 54 year old man, not now not in 7th C, not ever. God must know that.

[@Kassalawy56789]

Who said 18 years old isn't old or intelligent enough to get married???? A lot of young boys & girls are taking enough responsibility to take care of their houses in Africa, middle east where are a young kids in the west can't even fix a sandwich or wash their clothes or cook for their younger siblings....!!! Go to Africa, you will find a 10 years old working to support his mom's or family in cases of dad sickness or death....!!! You can't generalize.

[@aa1izera488]

I think we are often forced to use modern values to test Islam against. Therefore some feel pressured into appeasing this narrative. I agree with the brother that it's about time that we where proud of the Devine laws of Allah and how they stand the test of time! If anything the Quran should be used as standard for man made laws.

[@emolasker]

Do you know why we judge Islam by modern values? For Islam claims that it is perfect and eternal and Muhammad was a perfect man.

[@XHitsugaX]

Divine law is a law for you in private. It has no basis and no justification in secular society.

[@heinzke8512]

Aa1izer A if it doesn’t hold up against modern guidelines it shouldn’t we shouldn’t use them as moral guidelines in the modern world it’s called progress and it’s always been a hard to swallow pill

[@aq4356]

@@heinzke8512 ok, nowadays in Japan people are marrying and having sexual relations to inaninmate objects like robots or dolls and a lot of people accept it and some endorse it. So much for progress, it means its ok? In South Korea, a lot if not majority of women go do plastic surgery, its common for their 18th birthday present to be a plastic surgery, is this ok now because its happening in modern times? Such logic is extremely flawed. People can morally go down or up no matter what the timeframe is.

[@ohana_is_family]

@@aq4356 But biology is relatively stable and eveolves over 10s of thousands of years. So we can easily say that Muhammed in his 50s having intercourse with a 9 year old put her at serious risk of harm. So. Not a perfect example to follow. Toss in the rejects basket please.

[@ChimmyQ]

From 18:00 onward , What a beautiful reminder. The word of God is final regardless of our opinions on the matter. May Allah make it easy for us to truly hear and obey

[@anniemouse111]

👎🏻🤢🤮

[@dempirozzolo589]

No hate from me, just interested in what you have to say.

[@myyoutubepassion573]

me too

[@tabassumkhanbushrabushra7670]

Kindly watch "Age of aisha :historical marriage age of human kind" by Adnan Rashid KZbin channel

[@Khaledf]

And?

And this is the most important part of this video 18:32

[@sweaous5738]

@@Khaledf what do you mean and?? Most Christians and atheists come here for the dislike button. Dude

[@TrevorXStrydeR]

I always says this, you can't enforce today's value to someone in the past.

[@XHitsugaX]

you can however criticize people for liking the ideology of a warlord of the 7th century?

[@shoaib2369]

@@XHitsugaX if a warlord according to u is defending yourself and your companions after being left to starve in the desert then u need to update your dictionary 😏

[@Ibrahim-pe9ti]

@@shoaib2369 RT

[@HH-er4qh]

Tony King no you can’t 9 years olds don’t even reach puberty today and in islam it is clear you can only marry someone who reach puberty and physically and mentally ready

[@prabhuthomas8770]

@@Mishusays He was not a warrior, not even close to that. He was designated as a military general by numerous tribes (a general with no skills or experience, but with popular appeal). As I read about these accounts, and as many Muslims have told me, he was not a fighter and it's hard to find out more about his martial skills.

[@gooddeedsleadto7499]

Islam allows consensual marriage as long as the couple has attained puberty. Parents consent or Wali is also required. Hundreds and thousands of people accepted Islam during the life of the messenger of Allah, SAAS, and nobody ever raised fingers. In fact, hundreds and thousands of people accepted him as truthful, trustworthy, best of character when Allah claimed in the Quran he was the best in character, and the companions became devout muslims. This issue about marriage to Ayesha, RA, has never appeared as an issue in the entire recorded history, only recently. This is a recent phenomenon. Abu Bakr R.A and his wife married their daughter to the messenger of Allah. Abu Bakr RA sacrificed all his belongings to the messenger of Allah for the sake of Allah. Because he knew the Prophets high morals from his early life. The companions competed to have the honor of having a family relationship through marriages with the prophets or Prophets family, SAAS. Definitely marrying younger has been a norm and still allowed in some states and many countries. Even, If we check our earlier generations, we would be amazed to find, our previous generations married at a much younger age too, not like today. Today it seems odd, because, girls like boys have become career or College education minded or want to graduate first, and mary much later than our previous generations did.

[@ddll6709]

There is a huge problem here, there is no minimum age in Islam for marriage and a child bridge can be penetrated as long as her father the husband "thinks" she is capable of handling it. The little child has zero say I'm the matter.

[@LeafSouls]

well said

[@SamirSiraj8542]

Islam also allows màrriage before puberty. Aisha ra was pre pubecent during màrriage

[@DonBean-ej4ou]

I dont think you understand 65.4

[@hahaloser3914]

@@SamirSiraj8542 it dont

[@A11878]

It was not a cultural norm. Bend over backwards defending this is absurd. Salafia messed up claiming Bukhari is infallible caused many to leave the tradition. They F'd up unfortunately.

[@SamirSiraj8542]

Sahih muslim, sunan Ibn Majah, sunan an nasai, sunan Abi daud all say the same thing. There's consensus among scholars that she ra was 6 during nikah and 9 during consumation

[@saadtirmizi96]

@@SamirSiraj8542 just bukhari said so, where in the Muslim it says. Just stop giving Bukhari as authentic as Quran, Bukhari can be challenged. There are scholars who have come to conclusion that age of ayesha is exagerated

[@SamirSiraj8542]

@@saadtirmizi96 Sahih Muslim 1422 b 'A'isha (Allah be pleased with her) reported: Allah's Apostle (ﷺ) married me when I was six years old, and I was admitted to his house when I was nine years old. Sahih Muslim 1422 d Narrated 'A'isha : 'A'isha (Allah be pleased with her) reported that Allah's Apostle (ﷺ) married her when she was six years old, and he (the Holy Prophet) took her to his house when she was nine, and when he (the Holy Prophet) died she was eighteen years old Sunan an-Nasa'i 3255 It was narrated from 'Aishah that the Messenger of Allah married her when she was six years old, and consummated the marriage with her when she was nine. Sunan Abi Dawud 4935 Narrated Aisha, Ummul Mu'minin: When we came to Medina, the women came to me when I was playing on the swing, and my hair were up to my ears. They brought me, prepared me, and decorated me. Then they brought me to the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) and he took up cohabitation with me, when I was nine. Sunan Ibn Majah 1876 It was narrated that: Aishah said: “The Messenger of Allah married me when I was six years old........And mom handed me over to him and I was at that time, nine years old.”

[@SamirSiraj8542]

@@saadtirmizi96 I just quoted sahih muslim, sunan Ibn Majah, sunan Abi dawd, sunan an nasai where hadith of her she is there. This hadith is is in many other books

[@SamirSiraj8542]

@@saadtirmizi96 Ibn Katheer (may Allah have mercy on him) narrated that this is a matter on which the scholars were agreed, and there was no report that any one of them disagreed. He (may Allah have mercy on him) said: The words “he married her when she was six years old and consummated the marriage with her when she was nine years old” are a matter concerning which there is no difference of opinion among the scholars, as it is proven in the Saheehs and elsewhere, and the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) consummated the marriage with her two years after he migrated to Madinah. End quote from al-Bidaayah wa’n-Nihaayah (3/161)

[@revdznet]

i think people put to much emphasis on Aisha'as Age , it is not an issue of Aqeedah at all , you are not going to Hell because of her age LOL

[@brace_yourself]

If it's a SLANDER, yes they will.

[@auivn5726]

@@brace_yourself Allah can still forgive them even without repenting

[@brace_yourself]

@@auivn5726, This the verse of that incident- "Verily those who brought forth the slander (against ‘Aishah) are a group among you. Consider it not a bad thing for you. Nay, it is good for you. UNTO EVERY MAN AMONG THEM WILL BE PAID THAT WHICH HE HAD EARNED OF THE SIN, and as for him among them who had the greater share therein, his will be a great torment." [Surah an-Noor verse 11]

[@absolutelynobody3837]

It is a symptom of modernism

[@SamirSiraj8542]

It's important. Liberals lie against family of prophet Muhammad ﷺ. We must defend

[@gilabola4642]

the non muslim (esp christian) to ridicule this marriage is so hypocritical considering that Joseph who was almost 60yr older married Mary. Its unfair that christian dont call Joseph was a pedophile or rapist too.

[@celestialknight2339]

Gila Bola Lol according to the Christian sources, like History of Joseph the Carpenter, he was actually 92 years old when he married 12 year old Mary (peace be upon her). That’s a 75+ year difference. Yet the Christians hypocritically only look at Islam.

[@gilabola4642]

Abdul S. oh i thought he was in his late 70s. Thx for the correction

[@celestialknight2339]

Gila Bola No problem. And in case anyone asks for your sources, they are mainly ‘History of Joseph the Carpenter’ and ‘the Proto-evangelion of James,’ both of which make this fact clear and are from the early centuries of Christianity and were accepted and held true by the majority of the Christians, including the early Church fathers. Salam

[@blackmancool9983]

Abdul S. ....mmm it's not there😑😑

[@mercenaryknight5419]

WRONG. This is not in the Bible and was written by Catholic fundamentalists CENTURIES after the death of Christ and his family. You people are desperate dumbasses.

[@divinity176]

I agree entirely about presentism, if it could just be left at that. However, because it was done by Muhammad back then it became sunnah for all time. We can't on one hand claim this to this to be halal forever, and on the other hand hide behind the presentism.

[@sy6553]

Muhammad never made the order to marry 9 year old so it isn't Sunnah. The Prophet pbuh actions is divided into two, Sunnah like praying some rakat before fardh, and his own time-bound actions like riding a camel or wearing a turban. We should not ditch our cars and buy a camel. Plus when it came to marriage, there were many rules for the Prophet pbuh and not anyone else, such as him allowed to have over 4 wives

[@divinity176]

@@sy6553 The actions of the Prophet are most definitely Sunnah (Sunnah al-Filiyyah) - it is surprising that a Muslim is unaware of this. Most Muslims don't ditch their cars for camels, but nor do most Muslims ditch their modern health supplements for camel waste despite the latter being prescribed by Muhammad in sahih hadith. This doesn't mean that the sayings of the Prophet are not also Sunnah - it just demonstrates that at some level there is an implicit acknowledgement that some of religion is just kooky. As a general rule, if Muhammad did something and did not explicitly ban it for others (e.g. more than 4 wives) then it is Sunnah. In this particular case there is nothing to suggest that marrying a child in particular is preferred over an adult but - as stated in my original comment - it becomes halal for all time.

[@derekosgood3230]

@@divinity176 Did he make it obligatory to marry a 9 year old? If you live in a country and it is not legal or culturally acceptable to marry that young then you can't do it. It's not that hard to understand. It's not obligatory so use common sense. Unless you think most Muslims can't use common sense.

[@WeAreGhuraba]

@@divinity176 My dude, literally his first wife and all the other wives were around his age and older than him. His 1st was 15 years his senior. Aisha became a very powerful women and much of the religion benefited bc of her. Anyways would marrying an older women be a sunnah according to you?

[@wazzup7912]

@@divinity176 Actions of the Prophet are not Sunnah according to Dhahiri usool.

[@ishaqjalil6964]

JazaakumuLLAHU Khayran Brother Farid and your team, people who are unbiased are benefiting much, please continue in this carrier your reward surely is with Allah, God Almighty. I really enjoy your programs because of your evidencing and being humble to say you dont know when the need arises.

[@dhmg8344]

Doesn’t matter what century Islam is meant to be for all time

[@Karim-ik5ij]

Exactly , he couldn't wait a few more years to consummate?! He had so many other wives and concubined

[@hahaloser3914]

it says in quran that the woman has to hit puberty which aisha did when she was 9.Most girls at that time had puberty at that age,even atheist hadith schoolar says that she was an adult

[@thestealth2448]

Great work as always

[@ArifRahman-te8ry]

Because of your profile picture I thought you were David Woods

[@Tarz2155]

me too 😂

[@mahadahmedbaloch]

Me too 🤪

[@gooddeedsleadto7499]

also, Dating is a norm today, and leads to fornication and even later term abortions today, much earlier in life in lot of cases. Marriage was the norm then and people married young according to today’s standard.

[@444TripleH]

Murtards and liberals today: "OH NO MARRYING SOMEONE WITH CONSENT IS WRONG REEEEEEEEEEEEE" Also murtards and liberals today: "hehe its okay to fornicate... hehe its okay to change gender... hehehehehe" The hypocrisy

[@Yeahbruh200]

What does this have to do with your 53 year old marrying a 9 year old 😂😂😂. The same reason it would be disgusting for today is the same reason it’s disgusting 1400 years ago

[@naeemmuhammad8216]

In India the british government increased the minimum age of marriage from 10 to 12 in the year 1892 (130 years back), and prominent hindu leaders like Bal Gangadhar Tilak opposed this new law.

[@kissmybeard2378]

Bhai aap india se ho?

[@naeemmuhammad8216]

@@kissmybeard2378 yes akhie

[@metoo5908]

MaSha Allah. Tabarak ArRahman. Perfectly put. Jazzak Allah khair wa barak Allah feek.

[@petergullick1500]

Thanks for your insight and you are right when you say societies allowed children to marry and should not be judged by our modern ways. As a non Muslim I find Islam hard to understand due to the language but I try my best. Would you be interested in going on Joe Rogan's podcast as your view's on Islam should be more widely spread. I'm a new subscriber and want to learn as much as possible about your religion. I am also sorry you have received hate from ignorant people as you do not deserve it. We are not all like that. I can dislike Islam for some reasons but not its followers who are human and should be treated with decency. Thanks once again.

[@madaxwayne]

I watch the podcast too but for one reason or another he has a great bias against islam even though he has a lack of knowledge and likes to bring on people who make unsubstantiated claims against islam etc.

[@Sarajune188]

Peter Gullick You seem like an open-minded person. May God guide you :)

[@Sarajune188]

@Jay Mathews You do know she was PHYSICALLY & MENTALLY grown & girls back then in the 7th century had developed much faster than today.

[@Diamondraw4Real]

Jay Mathews that's if girls were not ready for marriage, which is your assumption here. I have a friend in her 50s whose mom and grandma both married around age 10 or 9 and had a baby the next year. Her grandma is younger than my mother of course bc my mom married in her 30s and had me when she was in her mid 30s. However it's assumed that there are many narrations where girls married at 9 or 10. We assume that Safiya was a young jewess when she married. And when she married the Prophet Muhammad later she was a teenager at least. I think a medical opinion would say that a pedophile is a sick person. But that a person who married many women and enjoyed sexual relations with women isn't a pedophile. But what was done is what Allah permitted at the time. Atheists who insist we are just animals and no better should be the last ppl to criticize ppl who married young. In some countries there are even boys who married young to preserve the houses and wealth their father owned bc the govt would have taken their property away (some unlawful claim) That happened only the last few decades not even 100 yrs ago. And ppl ask if Allah knew it's evil why did He permit it. Obviously Allah knew the marriage of Aisha to the Prophet would be very beneficial to her as well as other women who took knowledge from her. Actually all the Muslims believe she is like their mother. Finally, it's not impossible that ppl have changed. For example, ppl today usually have problems with their wisdom teeth but that likely wasn't the case b4. We have evolved somehow. Whose to say ppl like animals weren't capable of sexual relations at a young age 1000 yrs ago or even 150 years ago. What will humans be like in 200 years? What about this #babyboo and kids who are claiming that they or their friends are gay etc in grade school? Why are ppl shocked considering the teaching and "grooming" they get from family or society today. I'm sure even in the past such grooming was a part of growing up. Anyway, hope you can think about this without letting ur culture and personal views blind you to reality. ✌

[@Diamondraw4Real]

Jay Mathews Actually it says she played with her friends. As for taking dolls with her, that's natural bc a married girl would want to give her dolls to her own children. Ppl didn't just throw things away in those days like kids often do now. I used to play dolls at age 14, lol. It was something we did to pass the time before we had cable TV 😊

[@loltiktok5451]

Ignorant imam tawhidi lies against the family of prophet muhammad s.a.w is exposed,keep up the good work brother tabaraka ALLAH ,islam is perfect ALLAHU AKBAR

[@ibnamanot]

Tawhidi? More like Mushriki

It is confirmed that he is not muslim

[@ibnamanot]

@Retomon 🤣. Or Murtadi

[@jameslog3431]

@@ibnamanot Tawhidi? you mean the only actual peaceful muslim that doesn't discriminate non-muslims?

[@intranext1359]

@@jameslog3431 he caters to non muslims. Learn Islam from actual scholars

[@the.otheropinion]

Jazakallah brother.... May Allah reward you nd bless us also to serve our deen in any way possible

[@voiceforpalastinerohingyau2507]

The thing is I feel like the age of our mother could be our test for our faith from Allah. Whether its 9 or 19 prophet Muhammad sallalahu alaihi wasallam is the best man ever walked on earth then no need to have problem with his marriage and simple logic Allah choice is always best and if he going to choose someone as prophet definitely there will be no wrong with that person .

[@danyto]

It's debatable whether to judge a regular person back then, but a Prophet should have moral revelation, so did God forget to tell Muhammad that this was going to be immoral in the future? It was out of lust that he married a child because he also stole his adopted son's wife 😮😳😳

[@majeedm689]

The difference is that his actions are applicable to ALL time for ALL man. If it was fine then but not fine now then let's do this for ALL his actions. Salah - fine then not fine now. Fasting - fine then not fine now Etc etc.

[@1001011011010]

I don't think this reasoning works. Here's why: A messenger isn't receiving divine inspiration for every single little thing he does. Maybe a messenger likes a certain vegetable. It doesn't mean his followers all have to eat it just because he likes it. It's just a matter of taste. But if he is enjoining law unto the people, he is thereby making them follow it. So if a messenger enjoins prayer and fasting, his people now must pray and fast. Did any messenger that you know of ever say "the marriage of a 6 year old girl must always be allowed"? Or is that merely something that may have occurred in a different culture, and if it is frowned upon worldwide it is something that can be avoided? I hope I'm making sense. I am not a Muslim so if there's something I am not understanding in the Muslim worldview I would not dislike being educated.

[@sy6553]

Muhammad never made the order to marry 9 year old so it isn't Sunnah. The Prophet pbuh actions is divided into two Sunnah like praying some rakat before fardh, and his own time-bound actions like riding a camel or wearing a turban We should not ditch our cars and buy a camel. Plus when it came to marriage, there were many rules for the Prophet pbuh and not anyone else, such as him allowed to have more than 4 wives

[@majeedm689]

@@sy6553 Yes Im aware that actions cannot transcend the time he lived in but we're trying to establish is if his actions are morally acceptable if we apply it to our time, since his actions and legacy applies to all time and not just his own time. I can certainly carry a sword and ride a camel and follow his example as close as possible. Nothing wrong there. The question is - is it morally acceptable to marry and divorce pre-pubescent girls according to the rules of Quran and sunnah, in our current time? Would you support a referendum calling for the legalisation of child marriages according to the Sharia? If the answer is no - does Muhammed still qualify as the perfect pattern of conduct and the best example to follow?

[@sy6553]

@@majeedm689 Aisha was not prepubescent: Narrated `Aisha: I had seen my parents following Islam since I attained the age of puberty. Not a day passed but the Prophet visited us [in makkah] Bukhari 476 She was also engaged to someone else before the Prophet pbuh. Islam doesn't give an age for marriage as they vary across countries and centuries, but both parties must be physically and mentally capable, otherwise you're causing harm which is haram

[@knoobiez]

@@majeedm689 the whole reason he married her was to show to set an example of what requirements a lady has to be to get married. Mentally, physically, and reproductively ready

[@banndell]

It doesn't matter because 500 AD are different from today. Only non Muslim make a fuzz of this matter.

[@Nevebrownie]

It was still wrong to marry a child back then too. In pre-Islamic Arabia, most men married ADULT women who already passed puberty.

[@banndell]

@@Nevebrownie are you so sure she not reach puberty at that age? Today we know some girl are "early bloomer", do you make any research about her genealogy begin from her parent, sibling age down to her?

[@MrRaiders209]

Nice video brother, Alhumdulilah, just one more thing to add, even the prophet's (p) enemies that hated him during his lifetime and wanted to kill him didn't bring this marriage to Iesha (r) up as an 'issue' in any way shape or form.

[@syd8bpl]

Because he didn't.

[@jawed__akhter]

There are many Hadith, in English, about Aisha's age they generally state as this Hadith does : "It was narrated from 'Aishah that the Messenger of Allah married her when she was six years old, and consummated the marriage with her when she was nine." Grade: Sahih (Darussalam) Reference : Sunan an-Nasa'i 3255 It is graded as Sahih by some, but that is wrong. These Hadith were transmitted by Hishaam ibn Urwa or sometimes it's just stated Hishaam, one and the same person. When Hishaam grew old his memory suffered very badly and it was then that he transmitted these Hadith. In the science of Hadith there are five conditions that must be met in order for a hadith to be graded as Sahih. One of the conditions is that the narrator have a high precision of memory. Hishaam had a very bad memory and therefore doesn't meet the criteria in fact as his memory was very bad the Hadith is Apocryphal, Daef or false. There is a Hadith transmitted by Umaartubnu Ghazeyah but he is listed as being Daef and therefore the Hadith is Daef. The Hadith such as these are Apocryphal, Daef or false and many people do not know. Asma, Aisha's sister, was 10 years older than Aisha. Asma died in 73 AH at 100. Which makes Aisha around 17 at the time of Hijra to Medina. She was conducted to her husband, Peace be upon him in a later Shawwal making her 19 years and 10 months old. In The Holy Qur'an Allah says "...Marry who seem good to you from THE WOMEN...' 4:3 Marry THE WOMEN NOT CHILDREN. Extra knowledge: The fourth chapter, The Women, starts with "O' Mankind…" 4:1 and therefore the address is to Mankind. In Hadith 10 from 40 Hadith an-Nawawi It is noted that : "Verily Allah commanded The Believers* because He commanded with it The Messengers and Allah said "O' The Messengers Eat from The Good and Act Righteously" and He said "O' Those who Believe* Eat from The Good which We provided you"..." We note that Allah addresses The Messengers separately from The Believers* and this is true throughout the Qur'an. Therefore, Allah begins Chapter 4 with : "O' Mankind…" 4:1 and the address is to Mankind and excludes The Messenger, Muhammad, Peace be upon him. As the chapter continues it still addresses Mankind and says : "...Marry who seem good to you from THE WOMEN...' 4:3 This address is part of the address to Mankind and not to The Messenger Muhammad, Peace be upon him, who is excluded from this address. However, Further along in The Chapter, The Women, Allah says : "Allah wishes to make clear for you and guide you to The Practices of those from before you…" 4:26 In this verse which is still addressing Mankind Allah says He makes clear for you, Mankind, and guides you, Mankind, to The Practices of those from before you, and The practices of those before you is to, as Allah says : "...Marry who seem good to you from THE WOMEN...' 4:3 and those before you are The Prophets. All The Prophets from before their practice was to marry Women NOT children exonerating them from any and all blame. and Allah says : "...Never will you find in The Practice of Allah A Changing…" 35:43 and their other verse from elsewhere in The Quran. And no changing in The Practice of Allah in respect to The messenger of Allah, Muhammad, Peace be upon him. The Prophet Muhammad's practice was already in line with The Practice of The Prophets from before that he and they only married women and therefore it was not necessary to address him,Peace be upon him, when Allah began The Chapter, The Women, with " O' Mankind…". Allah makes clear and guides Mankind to The Practice of those before us namely The Prophets and The Practice of Muhammad, Peace be upon him, in which there was no change in that practice from before to : "...Marry who seem good to you from THE WOMEN...' 4:3 Marry THE WOMEN NOT THE CHILDREN. There is more evidence but it would make this too long.

[@abdullahassaffah]

In Islam puberty is when you becomes men women not age like 18 hence she was a woman

[@SamirSiraj8542]

The video refutes you. There are many narrators without Hisham and marriage before puberty is halal

[@jawed__akhter]

@@SamirSiraj8542 The other hadith are daef also.

[@SamirSiraj8542]

@@jawed__akhter no. All hadiths about age of Aisha ra is sahih

[@7XjakelX7]

Isaac married Rebecca when she was 5 years and blessed by Yehwah. According to Jewish Dictionary

[@imranasghar9571]

Please give ref

[@ohana_is_family]

Does anyone present Isaac as a perfect example to follow?

[@ohana_is_family]

@Zakituio Zaki I have never ever heard anybody promote Isaac as someone who should be followed in his footsteps. In schools in "the West" we were all told to take the Old Testament with a large grain of salt. The Old testament was presented as a more mythology and legends with unrealistic ages and numbers of wives that were not realistic nor credible. We were told to largely ignore the old testament, since it was not particularly reliable and focus on the more peaceful and better documented new testament. I have also come across many 'Christians' who refute the age of Rebecca as 3 or 5 as you claim. I think it is a useless exercise because Christians accept that the laws are not left up to religions, so churhches are valued for group-support, moral support and guidance, sense of belonging, etc. but not to dictate laws of the land.

[@khalil7011]

Cope

[@Ali-wg3lj]

Well said my brother.

[@kevinm3337]

Ali Sunan Ibn Majah, Book of Nikah, Hadith # 1934) Narrated Aisha 'The verse of stoning and of suckling an adult ten times were revealed, and they were (written) on a paper and kept under my bed. When the Messenger of Allah (SAWW.) expired and we were preoccupied with his death, a goat entered and ate away the paper." Forget gradual changes due to translations & editions, why didn't Almighty Allah even stop an animal like the goat from entering, taking verses from under Aisha's bed & gobbling up what are supposedly His words of instruction to mankind?

[@Ali-wg3lj]

Off topic comment that has nothing to do with the video, however, a detailed response is given here- www.twelvershia.net/2013/07/20/response-to-open-challenge-to-the-sons-of-aisha/ Read it, you might learn something ( ;

[@Ali-wg3lj]

In the future, what you said will be said about you with regards to some things that you consider morally ok today. Or do you believe Mr/ Mrs sun stillshining that you are living at the pinnacle of morality in human history/ future?

[@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543]

@@sunstillshining3927 yea it wasn't immoral then and its not immoral now. ppl lived shorter then and developed earlier, also everyone develops at different ages, there is no one age for anyone thats against biology if not then what is? in 1900 avg death age was 48, now its 78, over 50% difference! you are an idiot who doesn't know biology, even in the west sex education is given at age of 9, 75% of ppl are reported to have sex before 18 which is consent age, so your laws are fake and not working, also its illegal for a 17 to marry a 19 year old due to consent age but its legal for an 18 year old to marry a 79 year old, the hypocrisy. you are just an ignorant child using age of consent marxism, which is what it is. even age of consent globally differs world wide, you are an ignorant person!

[@Ibrahim-pe9ti]

@@kevinm3337 This hadith has been rejected and is regarded as Daeef (weak) so...

[@kafi2464]

Alhamdulillah this is the best answer on this topic especially this here 19:00

[@sonata6863]

Wallahi I Get Very Sad When Haters Insult Our Nabi Sallalahu Alaihi Wa Sallam 😢, Why don’t people understand that it was normal at that time? 😢

[@sabrinagelatina]

No. There is no evidence to say it was. I also hate when people insult the Prophet, but these narrations are the main cause of the insults.

[@cowdyimammurrahtabari973]

@@sabrinagelatina There are tons of evidence that suggest it was normal. Even many orientalists agree it was normal. Soon you'll start insulting the prophet for having multiple wives. Later you'll start to insult him for ordering fornicators to be lashed. After that you will start insulting him for ordering women to wear hijab. A time will come when you make fun of him for kissing the black stone and throwing stones at jamrah. If you believe western lifestyle is the perfect one, you're going to become an apostate any time soon because Allah will take guidance away from you.

[@sabrinagelatina]

@@cowdyimammurrahtabari973 I never insulted him, you invented this. And who guarantees that you are guided?

[@SM-sc5ku]

@@cowdyimammurrahtabari973 kissing the black stone, that's idol worshipping which is shirk

[@cowdyimammurrahtabari973]

@@SM-sc5ku Bowing down to jerusalem is grave worshiping which is shirk.

[@arjumandayub9049]

I also watched sheikh Uthman ibn Farooq's video in which he was supporting the claim of age as 18 yr old.

[@lbrahimmuhammed2296]

This is not correct, he didn't say she was 18 yr old, infact he said if she was 6 we Muslims are proud of it

[@maazmustafa2322]

@@lbrahimmuhammed2296 Absolutely

[@Think_pls]

@@maazmustafa2322he was implying she may have been 18 Trying to be in both boat, due to embarrassing act

[@abdullahassaffah]

​@@lbrahimmuhammed2296 usman ibn faruk has dodgy opinions from aisha radiallahuanha being 18 to khadija radiallahuanha being 28 not 40 so he is unreliable on these matters

[@SamirSiraj8542]

​@@Think_plshe is wrong. There's consensus among scholars that Aisha ra was 6 during nikah and 9 during consumation

[@abzmouse]

For all you Christians & muslims brothers & sisters,please do your research before you just blindly read of a screen or hear something,and believe it without knowing the truth about it.The hadiths about the marriage of Aisha(ra) to the holy prophet(saw) we accept them and don't deny or feel ashamed at all in anyway at all.Every sahih hadith we accept,now Aisha(ra) said I was married to the holy prophet(saw) when I was 9yrs old,but then in the other hadith she said 10yrs old then other 6-9yrs old.She said marriage was consummated at age 9yrs old,another 10yrs old,another 6yrs old and so on.Npw this shows Aisha(ra) didn't know her own age,also before Aisha(ra) was married to the holy prophet(saw),she was engaged to AZ-Zubair to get married.Then the revelation came from Allah(swt) that the holy prophet(saw) is to marry Aisha(ra).So the engagement was ended and Abu Bakr (ra) accepted the proposal from the holy prophet(saw).Hadith 3682 in bukhari tells of this and hadith 3607 in bukhari tells of this.Ibn kathir reports in Al bidaya wa nihaya reports Asma(ra) older sister was 10yrs older than Aisa(ra).Asma(ra) was 100yrs old when she died in year 73 hijra,she never lost her memory,not a tooth neither senile.Asma(ra) was 27yrs old when she did hijra.This proves Aisha(ra) was 16-17 when married to holy prophet(saw).Consummated at age 18-19yrs old.Ibn hajar askalani confirms ibn kathir in his book (al isaba tabir sahaba).Then theres multiple other scholars who confirmed these facts,check the sources I've provided plus hadiths,so you can stop comin with these pathetic arguments.Fellow muslims,if this question is out to you,if your not educated to answer,then don't engage in trying to answer that which you dont know,as you'll only make things look worse.

[@seearyari]

Can I get the Hadith where it show she contradicts her age?

[@abdullahassaffah]

​@@seearyari there's a few hadith where she says she was 7 and 10 and 6 to 9 either way she was young not anything older then 12 when she married the prophet salallahualayuwasallam as she was undoubtedly born after prophethood had began

[@SamirSiraj8542]

False. The màrriage happened to 6 and cônsumàtèd at 9. There's consensus among scholars about this.

[@SamirSiraj8542]

​@@abdullahassaffahthere's consensus among scholars that she ra was 6 during nikah and 9 during consumation

[@unknown2u967]

Why do we even need to explain ourselves to anyone This is our religion And their rules that changed Not our religion Simple what was the age of Mary mother of Jesus at the birth of Jesus??? Mary mother of Jesus was 12-14 years old at the age of the birth of Jesus The age of Joseph was 90 years old at the birth of Jesus son of Mary

[@mercenaryknight5419]

WRONG. This is not in the Bible and was written by Catholic fundamentalists CENTURIES after the death of Christ and his family.

[@unknown2u967]

Mercenary Knight And??? Your point being??? I’m just pointing out what’s out there it’s your religion your happy with it who am I to have a song and dance about it Just leave us to ours

[@mercenaryknight5419]

Unknown2you That your claim is full of shit. Also, I never stated my religion, so nice way to put words in my mouth/ Welcome to the internet.

[@mercenaryknight5419]

اسماعيل ابراهيم First, that is irrelevant. Second, different tribes of Jews, scrub. Third, still does not apply to the Bible or the Torah as they make no mention of this speculative bullshit. ^^

[@mercenaryknight5419]

Except, again, what you speak of is not in the Bible or Torah. So irrelevant bullshit.

[@alvaradoac21]

3:52 is not accurate, there was Roman canon law of the Roman empire before and after Christianity was legalized, which made the minimum age of marriage of girls was 12 and boys was 14. The actual practice of marrying that young was that mainly for nobility, to merge kingdoms and form alliances. Christians and atheists easily condemn any people who engage in this act then, and now. We also can condemn Muslims and Muhammad, because the same canon law existed at their time. The reason Muhammad is under greater scrutiny isn't because any atheists or theists hate Muhammad, it's because the Muslim belief asserts that he is a moral exemplar and that his behavior should be followed. It calls into question the validity of the Islamic faith.

[@zahierabaloch8118]

I always thought that the idea that Aisha R.A. was 18 made no sense in a historical context. 18 being the accepted general norm, even in the west is only about 100 years old. Ask your grandmother or, if you are fortunate enough, your great grandmother how old she was when she got married. By the 1800's 18 was the age for European nobility, not all European women, just the nobility. Go further back in history, choose any country and see how young people were when they got married. This applied to both men and women. We should stop judging people of the past through our modern lens, especially when that lens is so new compared to the history that came before it.

[@sheikhmashoor]

*DID AISYAH MARRY THE RASULULLAH AGED 6 YEARS AND LIVE TOGETHER AT AGED 9 YEARS* This is the question of non-Muslims attacking Islam and the Prophet Muhammad SAW. Let's look at the following explanation which is correct and logical* because it is impossible for the Prophet to give an example that is not correct and for the knowledge of all of us in the Muslim community.. _Hopefully it is useful_* *Historical Aspect*. 'Aisyah's marriage age needs to be seen from a historical perspective. According to Ath-Thabari, the four sons of Abu Bakar As-Siddiq were born to his wife during the Jahiliyah period, meaning that they - including Aisyah - were born before 610 AD. If Aisyah was married off when she was 6 years old, then she was born in 613 even though all of Abu Bakar's sons were born before 610 AD. Referring to Ath-Thabari, 'Aisyah was not born in 613 but before 610. If 'Aisyah was married before 610 AD, so she was married at the age of 10 years and lived as a wife with the Prophet at the age of 13 years or more. According to Abdurrahman bin Abi Zinad, Asma was sister to 'Aisyah, she was 10 years older. According to Ibn Hajar al-Asqalani, Asma was 100 years old and died in 73 or 74 Hijriyah. This means that at the time of the Hijrah, Asma was around 27 or 28 years old (100-73). Because 'Aisyah is 10 years older than Asma, Means 'Aisyah's age when she first shared in house with the Prophet was between 17 and 18 years.____ ___ MAY ALLAH BLESS YOU ALL___

[@rkinczel]

You are using histories from the 300+ years after the events to disprove sahih hadiths that all say she was 9. Why use weak histories and weak hadiths to disprove sahih hadiths?

[@usta6573]

Hello I am not an Islamophobe or an arrogant hater, I just have an honest question. One of the Muslim responses concerning the age of Aisha and the Prophet's morals is that a girl marrying at such a young age to a 52 year old man was OK by the standars of 7th century Arabia and we shouldn't judge a man from that time by today's standards. Fair point but shouldn' the Prophet be *above* the moral standards of the time he lived? He is supposed to be such a person that every person-no matter the race, the age, the gender, *the age when it is lived in* -thinks him as a *morally perfect person* as stated in the verses 33:21 and 68:4. (I can safely say that the Quran tells about him as a person which every person no matter the age when it is lived in can think him as a morally perfect person , because the Quran is supposed to be sent to *all* of humanity (humanity from the time when the Quran was sent to the time of the end of humanity.).

[@maazmustafa2322]

@Suleiman Bro give these sources. Bcoz I'd like to learn too and provide them as evidence. YOu're saying she was a grown up but all I've heard is she played with dolls. A grown up doesn't do that. Jzkh

[@maazmustafa2322]

@Suleiman Watching dragon ball is different to playing with dolls

[@gumzy3000]

@Suleiman I hear the argument that kids grew up faster in the prophets time due to the hot desert climate and the general difficulty of life. They had a lot of responsibilities placed on them from a young age. If Ayesha was playing with dolls, she was probably not mature enough to have sex and she was a child. I don't think it was normal for adult woman in the prophets time to play with dolls when they had to work so much for survival.

[@KnowledgeWalaTheWarner193]

​​@@gumzy3000there are many girls who is 23 and they r also playing with dolls !so according to you the r also child ??😂!r you mad !go read that aisha r.a is participating in war at that age when she consumate her marriage!! And she is physically and mentally mature and she is happy in her full life !and it is mentioned in hadees that aisha r.a passes her puberty !! so what is the problem if the girl is physically and mentally mature and she become adult at that age and she merry by her own consent and she does not have any problem in her full life then who r you to question about historical character which is nothing change our rules !because according to islam when girl become physically and mentally mature and she become adult and then she consumate her marriage by her own consent when she does not have any problem !!! !! !

[@KnowledgeWalaTheWarner193]

@gumzy3000 listen to me there are many girls who is 23 and they r also playing with dolls !so according to you the r also child ??😂!r you mad !go read that aisha r.a is participating in war at that age when she consumate her marriage!! And she is physically and mentally mature and she is happy in her full life !and it is mentioned in hadees that aisha r.a passes her puberty !! so what is the problem if the girl is physically and mentally mature and she become adult at that age and she merry by her own consent and she does not have any problem in her full life then who r you to question about historical character which is nothing change our rules !because according to islam when girl become physically and mentally mature and she become adult and then she consumate her marriage by her own consent when she does not have any problem !

[@saabirw0160]

Due to climatic conditions and her own physical wholesomeness, she had reached puberty at the age of nine years. There is, therefore, no ambiguity in the matter of her living with him.

[@RSG882]

very well said akhi... jazaakallahu khairan

[@BaronSlayer]

The only question is: Could Aisha have known her birth year? The answer to that question is a resounding no. The speaker in this video fails to address this point. At that time, there were no birth certificates. Additionally, there is a hadith in which it is stated that all the children of Abu Bakr, including Aisha, were born before Islam, which makes Aisha at least 15 at the time of marriage!!!

[@karimmezghiche9921]

You need a birth certificate to know when you're born? So your parents and relatives are completely ignorant about your age and they need to check your birth certificate?

[@BaronSlayer]

@@karimmezghiche9921 If we had no calender yes!

[@karimmezghiche9921]

@@BaronSlayer Nonsense 😂😂

[@BaronSlayer]

@@karimmezghiche9921 You are the only one talking nonsense here. Do you remember when the docter pulled you out of your mother? The only way to know for sure is if there is a birth certificate.

[@karimmezghiche9921]

@@BaronSlayer The doctor that pulled me out remembers, and my parents remember. You are delusional if you think neither Aisha nor her father Abu Bakr nor her mother remembers when she was born.

[@aspiritfromallaahtheomnisc3245]

Chapter: In defense of Imam Al-Bukhaari (رحمه الله), and Abu Bakr As-Saddeeq (رضي الله عنه) Laws of England by Sir William Blackstone, says that the law of England allowed, at the age of 7, a girl can be betrothed and married with the consent of her parents. This was a book that was written about the jurisprudence of English people in the 19th century. The cultural aspects of marriages between cultures have similar aspects in maintaining modesty and chastity before the 19th century. Aisha (رضي الله عنها) was betrothed (engaged) to the Messenger of Allaah (اللهم صل على محمد وأزواجه) at the age of 6. The Messenger consummated the marriage WITHOUT having sexual intercourse at the age of 9, by bring her to his living quarters. She didn't see his (صلى الله عليه وسلم) private parts UNTIL a day after Ghazwa At-Tabuk, which means she was about 14 years of age or older. I believe this is a hadith in the Sahih Sitta which I read more than twenty years ago (possibly this hadith is in the Sunan of Abi Daud or Jami' At-Tirmidhee).

[@procrastinator8817]

The laws of England aren't meant to be the perfect example for man kind though are they? Not sure why Muslims act like thats an excuse...

[@sahildhillon562]

@@procrastinator8817 because the English are hypocrites western people always use this argument against Muslim’s little do they know their own Rules 😂 France also jus recently BANNED INCEST with brothers and sisters HAHAHA 🤣 also in Serbia older priests in their 50s marry young young girls where is the outcry ?????? And same thing in Armenia lol

[@UmarIbnAlKhattab1]

Disgusting way to make your point Have some honour and respect when speaking of the Messenger of Allah salAllahu alayhi wasalam

[@MuhHuda-su2sf]

There are several reasons why Bukhari wrote Aisha's age when she married so young: 1. The age number is only approximate because there was no calendar at that time. Aisha married at a young age, then Aisha estimated her age when she married and conveyed it to Hisham bin Urwan. Urwan was Aisha's nephew. Hisham was Urwan's son. So Hisham could be said to be Aisha's grandson. 2. When Bukhari wrote that age number, it was not something embarrassing at that time. No one criticized the prophet at that time for Aisha's age when she married with the prophet. Or maybe that age number was a source of pride when it was recorded that she married at a very young age at that time. Something that in this time is something inappropriate. 3. Hisham conveyed the hadith of Aisha's marriage age when he was in Iraq at an old age. So it could be that he had forgotten what Aisha said about her age when she married the prophet, then Hisham estimated based on his memory. 4. Hisham never met Bukhari. Since Hisham had died before Bukhari was even born. It is possible that Bukhari heard the story about Aisha's age of marriage from the Iraqi people who heard it from Hisham. In this case, accuracy can be problematic. Moreover, Iraq is a base for Shia followers who do not like Aisha. There are several things to consider regarding Aisha's age of marriage: - In the hadith of Bukhari, it is reported that Aisha was present at the battle of Uhud (3 AH) and her job was to provide drinking water to wounded soldiers. It is difficult to imagine a small child under age to be invited to attend a war full of violence and blood. - After Khadijah (the prophet's first wife) died, a company Khaula offered the prophet to marry again. He put forward 2 person as candidates, namely the first was Saudah a widow, the second was Aisha a virgin and the daughter of the prophet's friend Abu Bakr. It is difficult to imagine that Khaula offered a small child to be the prophet's wife. It would be more reasonable if Khaula offered a girl who was old enough to marry, by the standards of that time. The prophet accepted Saudah to be his wife. Then the prophet accepted Aisha to be his wife when in Medina. Because the information about Aisha's very young marriage age is recorded in the book of Bukhari's hadith, this makes it difficult for Muslims to protect the honor of the prophet. Even the hadith might be problematic.

[@learnzz9255]

There is no way for sure to actually know how old she was. I know Arab today who were born about 60 to 70 years ago but don’t know their actual birthday. When they got a passport to come here to America they just guested their birthdate. And I can understand if there is Hadith stating she was 9 but it doesn’t mean it’s true, her being ,9,12, 14 , 18 doesn’t change anything in Islam. Ashia her self saying she was 9 doesn’t mean she was nine, back in the days no one really kept count of birth days or calendars or even books period. There is no final verdict about her age, she could have been 9 or up to 18 and it shouldn’t matter either way

[@Diamondraw4Real]

Learnzz that's true. They didn't even have birth certificates in some cases. And if you read the bio in some books, dates for birth or death missing or even in some cases off by decades! That's the Hadiths collectors never mind the Sahabis. But it doesn't change Islam anyway. In Islam there's no forced marriage. Women can get divorce by a judge. And all the Hadiths show that Aisha RA herself was very happily married. The only reason ppl bring this up is to hate on Islam.

[@learnzz9255]

Yes people try to find something that is different from today’s culture. Like I said I know many older Arabs who don’t know exactly how old they are, so when they were asked age when coming to this country they just guessed and some regret because now they cannot get their retirement and have to work more . Like if you are 60 you can retire but if the papers say you are 50 then you have to work till 70. Yes they didn’t have certified papers like 60 years ago. So how must it have been like 1400 years when there was no paper period. Subhanallah this a new challenge for modern Muslims to deal with that was never rasied in history, it’s like every time period the believers must be tested, may Allah make us stronger against all these modern trials and tribulations. I don’t think many people understand how modern we are, compared to just like 60 years ago, like simple indoor plumbing or AC besides the new inventions like the internet happened before our eyes or the invention of this KZbin.

[@abuhanzalah5321]

lol on you, if they did not count the age back then. Would you please explain how they would start Praying when they turn to 10, as commanded ? Just because some old man did not remember his age does not mean Aisha (A Scholar of Hadith + Hafiza of Qur'an) had memory loss issues or talking without certainty. Fear ALLAH and do not say which you do not have authority of. Accusing Mother of Believers and Wife of the Prophet (Peace and Blessings be Upon him) of not knowing what she's saying is truly disrespectful. Fear ALLAH when you stand before Him and have to answer for such accusation. Better for you to say "I DON'T KNOW". Repent, may ALLAH make you among those who Repent. Ameen

[@arandomperson1042]

When those who hate our prophet accept the explanation of aisha's marriage, they wont stop, theyll bark about polygamous marriage and when they accept the explanation for that they will bark about something else, only bother explaining those willing to learn and ask questions, not those who pick fights just to attack Islam and say its evil without evidence, if a dog barks at you non stop dont bark back, they wont understand you or listen to you, just walk away.

[@aceedgington2762]

I agree with your points 100% there is no excuse for using todays standards to judge aything from the past. Since we expect to progress as a society, I would hope that we have learned from the mistakes of the past. The fear is that many take these kind of examples out of context to justify doing similar things today. There are uncounted examples of people quoting passages from the Bible out of context to justify hate and violence today and there is no doubt that there are Muslims doing the same with their litrature. The one point that Imam Tawhidi does not get wrong is that there is a need for reform. Christianity had its reformation in the 1500's and yet it still needs to modernize to remain credible. Historical examples have no bearing on todays world. The only enduring truth is that we continue to strive to be better humans, be kinder and more accepting of each other and become closer to God. In my opinion there is no room for intolerance in Godlyness. All hate moves us further away from Him. Peace be with you my brother.

[@ohana_is_family]

The Anachronism is to drag Muhammed to our time as a perfect example to follow for all time. Of course we will judge him by our standards. For all time requires it holds up in the future. He had intercourse with a 9 year old which put her at serious risk of harm. Nope not a perfect example. Sorry. Toss in the rejects basket please.

[@riiaz]

@@ohana_is_family You say this like you know exactly how aisha looked like. Can you provide me with any source showing that she was still a child when the consummation took place, for her to get harmed? She obviously wasn't, no narration of that whatsoever. How can you really judge by our standards on old standards? People used to grow old and die at 40, now 40 is Middle aged. It just doesn't work like that. Also, how can you prove your standards are objectively correct, and if the standards are not met, then it is objectively wrong? What if the standard changed where you have to be 40 to get married? Will you be saying the same thing to people getting married at 20? Would you call yourself a you know what? If you were to take something from this marriage for all time, it would be marry early and when you are mature. Maturity varies; not one value will be suitable for everyone. Islam promotes this. Then again, it's not necessarily the cultural norms to follow for all time (cultural and societal norms change), it's the religious practices and teachings.

[@Diamondraw4Real]

@@ohana_is_family marriage to a mature person who reached adulthood in her time and was ready. She said "i prepared myself for you" and had put on her finery and jewels.

[@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543]

@@ohana_is_family "which put her at severe risk of harm. " - clearly not what she said or modern science that everyone develops different so you made this up - thats at least 2 points! toss in the rejects baskets with double bags while you are at it.

[@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543]

Maalik, al-Shaafa’i and Abu Haneefah said: the marriage may be consummated when the girl is able for intercourse, which varies from one girl to another, so no age limit can be set. This is the correct view. - Prophet peace and blessings on him was indeed the perfect teacher!

[@jimmykahn5431]

Only Christians now bring it up as they have lost any other argument. Aisha was already engaged to someone else so it was gods will that she married the prophet.

[@nayemkhan3732]

@Raj pst When guru nanak married 14 old girl,Guru Angad married 13 yr old girl,Guru Hargobind Sahib married 15 yr old girl,Guru Tegh Bahadur married at the age of 12 to 9 yr old girl,Guru Har Rai married at the age of 10 to Kishan Kaur ... He had his 1st child Ram Rai when he was 16 yrs old..he himself was 10 so maybe she was 5-9... ALL OF THESE ARE VERY RECENT COMPARE TO PROPHET MUHAMMAD PBUH...SO ALL OF THIS HAS NO ISSUE WITH YOU BUT PROPHET MUHAMMAD..WOW..????

[@user-kv7yn2js2h]

*You only told a half truth. The Seek Gurus were only a few years older than their wives. So they were NOT pedophiles. You also overlooked the fact that Buddha, Confucius and Mahavira married only ONCE. Buddha married at 20 to a girl aged 19! They lived 1500 to 2000 years before Muhammad was born! Muhammad is the only founder of a major religion who had many wives and sex slaves and had sex with a 9 year old girl when he was 53 (FORTY FOUR YEARS AGE DIFFERENCE!)*

[@a..d2062]

Nayem, historically Indians got married early for economic etc purposes and both are about the same age and often marriages are not consumated till they are older etc. Further more the gurus were just a few years older then there wives. Pro Mohammad was in his 50s and Aisha was 6 and consumated at 9. This is the issue, it would be very strange for a man in his 50s to have relations with a child. The Gurus were devoted to god and wanted to tell every one that salvation is in the name of god. Chant the name of god. They were against sex slaves etc.

[@newanas5271]

Aicha opposed many hadeeths before that are narrated by some closest Sahaba to the prophet. Like her rejection to Ibn massoud narration that the prophet urinated while standing. And she even said "any body that said that is lying " . And there are many subjects where her accounts contradicts Sahaba 's account. She could also mean 16 by saying لست and 19 by saying لتسع .

[@goodman5391]

👉Read the truth, defend the Messenger👈 🔸️ This's [Part 2 of 3] 👉 Was Aisha the mother of the believers 6 years old when The Messenger of Allah Almighty sermoned her (Engagement)! and was she 9 years old when got Married to the Prophet? (peace and blessings be upon him) 🔵 And Sadly we still find many muslims try to proof this Lie against the Messenger and the Mother of believers, snd give the Islamophobes and haters a reason to Attack the Messenger with falsehood. Let Stop this wrongdoing, and these are the truth. 🔴 4) Aisha's Islam before Omar Ibn al-Khattab: (This's a clear strong evidence) According to Ibn Hisham's summary of the Prophet's biography of Ibn Ishaq, Aisha (Abu bakr Al Sidiq Family) embrace Islam before Umar Ibn al-Khattab embraced it, which means that she was at least 14 years old at the time of her wedding to the Prophet, peace be upon him, thus dropping the age of 9 years completely. 🔴 5) And This's an ultimate proof: Knowing the Age of Aisha (MOB) by calculations, based on het older Sister Asma (may Allah be pleased with her): According to Abd al-Rahman ibn Abi al-Zinad: Asmaa was ten years older than Aisha (biography of the flags of the nobles, al-Dhahabi: Maj. 2, p. 289, Foundation for the Message, Beirut, 1992). Ibn Katheer also agrees with Ibn Abi al-Zinad’s narration and says that she is - Asma: Ten years older than her sister Aisha (The Beginning and the End, Ibn Katheer Maj. 8, p. 371, Dar Al-Fikr Al-Arabi - Giza 1933). Ibn Katheer agrees with what all historians affirm without disagreement that Asma "witnessed the killing of her son during that year (73 AH), as previously mentioned, and five days later she died. And like other accounts, she did not die after 5 days, but rather after 10 or 20 days, or a few days later, or even a hundred days after the accident, so that the most likely story remains that she died a hundred days later, when she is 100 years old. (Beginning and End Ibn Katheer, Mug 8, p. 372, Dar Al-Fikr Al-Arabi, Giza 1933). And bin Hajar Al-Asqalani narrates that “Asma bint Abi Bakr Al-Siddiq [That Al-Nitaqain], the wife of Al-Zubayr bin Al-Awam, one of the great companions, lived a hundred years and died in the year of seventy-three (Al-Tahdheeb, Ibn Hajar Al-Asqalani, p. 654, chapter on Women, Harf) a thousand). According to the opinion of most historians, Asma, Aisha's older sister were ten years older than the last, and if Asma 'reached the 100 years of Hijra, then her age at the time of the migration would necessarily be 27 years old, and therefore Aisha’s age at that time would be 17 years old, and she also began living Along with the Prophet and she was 19 or 20 years old. Based on the narrations of Ibn Hajar, Ibn Katheer and Abd al-Rahman bin Abi Al-Zinad, the age of Aisha at the time of her marriage to the Prophet was between 19 and 20 years at least. 🔴 6) The date of Aisha's death determines the date of her marriage: It is also mentioned in Al Maarif by Ibn Qutaybah that Aisha, the mother of the believers, died in 58 AH at the age of 77. Thus, the age of Aisha, the mother of the believers, immediately before the emigration, was 19 years (77-58), and since she married to the noble Messenger in the second year of the Hijra..so she was 21 years old at that time. Even if we take the minimum approach, the presence of other accounts in other historical sources that determine Aisha’s age at 66 years of age, assuming that her age was only 5 years + 12 years (from the fourth year before the mission until the second year of migration) = 17 years at least. 🔴 7) Sahih al-Bukhari prooves Aisha's age: This's another narration confirms for us Aisha's participation in the Battle of Uhud. “Anas narates that on Uhud: I saw Aisha bint Abi Bakr and Umm Salim, rolled their hands ready (Sleeves) - I witness the work of their arms - transport water containers on their bodies, empty them into the mouths of the people, then return and fill it, then come and empty it into the mouths of the people (Bukhari, Al-Fath. No. (2880). This is a clear evidence of their grown age. Her age and her ability to serve the army during the Battle of Uhud. (As it's well known fact the Messenger never allow young children to participate in battles). Thus, it is confirmed once again that Aisha witnessed the battles of Uhud and Badr. 🔴 8) Al-Bukhari narrates to us in another hadith: On the authority of Yahya bin Saeed, said that Nafeh said, on the authority of Ibn Omar, May Allah be pleased with them, that the Prophet, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him, he offered himself to the messenger on the day of Uhud when he was fourteen years old, and Messenger didn't allow him, and offered himself at the Ahzab, and he was allowed at the age of 15. (Kitab Al-Maghazi, Chapter of the Battle of Al-Khandaq, which is the Ahzab or Trench). This is a very strong evidence that the Prophet, peace be upon him, was not permitting to let someone under the age of fifteen in the Battles. 🌟This is evidence that the age of 9 years has no validity at all. 🔴 9) Participation in the battle of Badr: In Sahih Muslim, a narration confirms Aisha's participation in the battle of Badr and is attributed to Aisha in the course of her discussion of her trip to Badr and about an important accident that occurred while traveling: “... even if we were in the tree ....” Which is clear evidence that she was among the delegation Traveling towards Badr, and the Prophet does not take children with him. (The Book of fighting and travel). ▪︎Continue to part 3

[@khairiyusoff5040]

The fact is self-evident; there is no need for any further debate. It is what it is.

[@samasher948]

Aisha older sister contradicts your view if you were well studied you would know this. People who agree with his talk are blind following the blind

[@ck20173]

Stfu go educate yourself

[@SamirSiraj8542]

False. Report about age of older sister of Aisha is weak

[@Abdullahal-Benghali]

Ver lo que pasó hace 14 siglos con lentes de siglo XXI es caer en la falacia del presentismo. Las normativas de hoy en día no se pueden aplicar al pasado si se quiere hablar de él de forma justa.

[@adamahmadbey714]

masha Allah farid bro you look like an arabian warrior a knight. so good to eyes.

[@Inferno-ob9td]

Adam Ahmad Bey true. I like Salahuddin too

[@islamcoranico8427]

SallaHudin was a great warrior. This man is just a nice person, very sweet and soft, that is dressed in middle eastern clothes. Which is ok.

[@alhomsiyyah]

C N He's from Bahrain buddy

[@frankzappa951]

Lol, he looks like Farid in a thobe. Funny guys

[@vanessayeboah2175]

I agree it may seem unfair to single out the prophet Mohammed about this issue when many other important historical figures also had very young brides however they key difference here is this, We are talking about Islam which claims to be the most logical scientific and true religion. Allah told humanity to use the prophet Mohammed as an example and follow him so now it ALL of his actions become highly relevant. The real meat of the issue is not ‘Did prophet Mohammed marry a child ?’ But rather ‘Was it moral for the prophet Mohammed to marry a child?’ I agree that biological age is not always consistent with mental and emotional age. I know (anecdotally) that there are many adults in their 20s that behave like 5 year olds. Does this mean the reverse could be true? That a girl of 6 or 9 could have the mental maturity of an adult ? This is something I am still researching with an open mind

[@islamisamess6160]

1:12 - Isn't Muhammad supposed to be the example of all times? 2:16 - are there people in the USA that believe that it is immoral to have sex with 14, 13, 12, and no age limit to have sex? Why is it that Muhammad did what is considered immoral by the masses in the USA and he is the perfect example for today according to the Quran? Was Allah not aware of what people would think about Muhammad? Would YOU allow your 9-year-old to have sex with anyone?

[@sy6553]

Muhammad never made the order to marry 9 year old SO it isn't Sunnah. The Prophet pbuh actions is divided into two Sunnah like praying some rakat before fardh, and his own time-bound actions like riding a camel or wearing a turban We should not ditch our cars and buy a camel. Plus when it came to marriage, there were many rules for the Prophet pbuh and not anyone else, such as him allowed to have more than 4 wives. Islam doesn't give an age but the woman must be past the age of puberty for consummation. And Aisha was past puberty, as in this hadith in Makkah years before her consummation in Medina: Narrated `Aisha: I had seen my parents following Islam since I attained the age of puberty. Not a day passed but the Prophet visited us [in makkah] Sahih Bukhari 476

[@JaefarSABNW]

There are narrations in Muslim and Bukhari that show that the marriage wasn't consummated for several years and Abu Bakr pressured Muhammad to consummate it, but he lacked revelation to justify it. Their are sound narrations list 13 as when he noticed she was a woman and asked her. There is even a manuscript listed as by Aishah, instead of later generations, that includes a narration that says it was arranged at 6, she moved in at 9, and it was consummated at 13. The narration centered on 9 stem from a person who it is also narrated that before he moved at got older that he said 19. Those who look at the details in the Big Ten collections, know that there is external evidence to those narrations. People forget that, in most societies child marriage does not usually mean sex with preadolescents. Quran shows a marriageable age in multiple ways, but this is in finalizing the marriage. There are different ways of being engaged and moving in on proposed terms to be considered in the future would not be a contradiction. We can not look at what was written two to five centuries later as the same as what the first two generations as if they are eye witness accounts. Even the narrations about the Companions and the Imams are better in a historical sense than even mainstream claims of history during my life. The Bible requires no consent for marriage and includes justification for forced marriage. Many secularists are advocating legalization of non-violent child molestation-actually fornicating and adulterating with prepubescent individuals where they are not scarred. In the USA, marriage is legal with people Islam says are not allowed to be married and sex is legal with even more. A sociopath will be governed in his morality by the laws and customs or popularity of the society he is in. A psychopath will decide ethics upon their own preferences or desires. We should be neither.

[@MB-tb6jy]

Regardless of the age of Sayyida `A'iysha (RA) during the consummation of the marriage, the Shari`ah does allow marriage at the age of sexual maturity, which according to our modern society would be counted as an age of a minor. Nevertheless, the biology speaks for itself and even in the animal kingdom do species begin a quest to mate when they have arrived to sexual maturity. And yes you cannot compare the Shari`ah to secular laws. The Sharu`ah sets the proper boundaries whereas the boundaries of secularism are only centured around consent. And that is one reason why they have to settle on an "age of consent" in order to set boundaries. They have trapped themselves in a strange situation where even pre-buscent paedophilia could be legalized, so long so long as the child "consents". The Shari`ah on the other hand is perfectly balanced with what is natural. Just look at the wisdom of why women can't have multiple wives. If they do you wouldn't know who the father is. Men, can create entire clans out of some few wives and there wouldn't arise any confusion on who is the parent of who. Most mammals do this to except without boundaries. With the animals you can have one alpha male win an entire herd of females. We humans were gifted with reason so we have an obligation to serve God instead of our own desires, therefore we can't have more than one wife. Before the Prophethood of Muhammad (SAAWS) there were no limits of how many women a man could marry. That is another thing which secularists don't keep in mind. They think that Islam came to let men oppress women. But that is false. Islam came to remove oppression and in still proper justice. Islam chooses justice over equality and wisdom over feelings. And that I found beautiful even before coming into Islam.

[@TheCalmfury]

Assalamu alaikum. I just want to point out, that it is also reported according to some hadith that the Holy Prophet Muhammad (saw) retired himself with Aisha (ra) in his tent in the zone camped nearby the battlefield after the marriage. Now it is also reported that the he (saw) forbade youngsters under the age of 15 to stay there. So Aisha must have been more than 15. I don't believe about those reports saying 9 y o. No need for a long justification about that, it is enough that hadith to show that she was not so young.

[@bosbanon3452]

Yes jf we compard other hadith we will found that , but they followed hadith that explicitly talking about the marriage age of Aisha radhiyallahu anha

[@davidwoodislife8548]

Hilmi Prabowo she was definitely 19 or 20 years old. I like Farid but he’s making mistakes in this.

[@auivn5726]

Even ana's bin Malik was in the battlefield but not battling and he was under 15 see the vid carefully

[@auivn5726]

And btw the people who say that marrying a person under 18 is immoral still can't prove that thier morals are objectively right it's just thier subjective opinion and I don't care about what they say in this case It's like someone saying :you love red I love blue therefore you are immoral and ..... Blablabla

[@davidwoodislife8548]

auivn nonce

[@clvaclva]

No one can defend the prophet marrying his friend's daughter for no reason.....keep making things up. purely wrong then and wrong now.

[@celestialknight2339]

Jazak Allah khair brother. We know from the Sirah, Hadith, and even the Quran itself, all of the many insults & mockeries that Quraysh, the Christians, and the Jews all made against the Prophet (saw), such as a magician (sāhir), a poet (shā’ir), a soothsayer (kāhin), a liar (kathāb), and madman (majnūn), yet *NEVER* did they call him a pedophile or a child molestor (a’uthubillah). This alone should prove that such marriages were perfectly normal at that time & society, which makes it completely absurd to judge it from our 21st century Western moral standard 1,400 years later. On top of that, we have nearly *THOUSANDS* of Ahadith from Um al Mu’mineen (Aisha ra), and we know already that she was treated amazingly by the Prophet (swt) and loved him more than anyone! So why do we need to prove anything that she hasn’t already done herself?? Subhan’Allah! People need to wake up and stop dragging this subject- there are so many proofs & evidences of the incredible character and Prophethood of our Prophet Muhammad (saw), this subject is just a barrier to real Daw’ah and to discussing real important issues of Islam amongst ourselves as Muslims. May Allah (swt) increase us all in knowledge, imaan, and guide us all. Ameen.

[@aqxico]

It also indicates that perhaps she was NOT so young. This all comes from hadith that were compiled several decades after her death, 3 or 4 degrees removed, and from questionable sources.

[@user-ev8lv2rk8i]

Bonehead you do realise you’re talking about a prophet - a man promised paradise and who serves as the ultimate example for humanity

[@H44mza]

Excellent video ‎جزاك اللهُ خيرا‬ bro Farid 🤛🏼💙

[@Anskurshaikh]

What about one of the arguments that the word 'ashrah was somehow lost during narrations, thus age of 'Aisha was 16 when Married and 19 when marriage was consummated.

[@7amido12]

Simple, does this argument fall back on an authentic hadith with a reliable chain of narration? This argument got popularised by the likes of Adnan Ibrahim and so on to try and reconcile modern day laws with Islam

[@abdullahassaffah]

It was impossible for her to be anything more then 12 when she married prophet salallahualayuwasallam as she was born after prophethood

[@SamirSiraj8542]

​@@7amido12she was 6 during nikah and 9 during consumation according to consensus of scholars

[@saabirw0160]

In Shawwal: There was an interval of three years between the marriage and then living together. May Allah be well-pleased with her.

[@hugovandeen9403]

It’s ironic but the wahabis have attacked Islam and the Prophet (s) more than any non-Muslim. This pathetic argument is an insult and displays their blind allegiance to Hadith over Quran and reason.

[@wiseupriseup4170]

Its not that anybody is shaming the Prophet (PBUH), its just that there’s other evidence that suggests she was older , so i dont see the point of even discussing this. At the time it wouldn’t have been immoral but at the same time it’s also possible she wasn’t that young anyway, so to be honest who cares. It doesn’t matter. It was like 2,000 years ago. I’m also not convinced that alternative views coming later even matters either, because even Bukhari wasn’t even born until 178 years after the Prophet (PBUH) died.

[@fitrik7248]

You comparison is deceitful, they will not allowed 50yo man to marry 6 years old girl.. like your prophet did, and he is a prophet.. and u lie about Joseph.. there is no historical record on his age?

[@7amido12]

If you’re a christian, you have no leg to stand on in particular when it comes to teachings on consummating with girls or even slaves. Do you know why?

[@7amido12]

@@fitrik7248 are you copying your role model Christian prince? Can you tell me what is happening and what are the implications of Numbers 31:17-18 ?

[@7amido12]

@@fitrik7248 also hypothetically speaking, why do you still recognise solomon who has deviated according to 1Kings11:4 and tell us to abandon our prophet? 🤔

[@fitrik7248]

@@7amido12 🤣🤣.. In Christianity Prophets are NOT important, *the only important person in Christianity is the PERFECT Jesus,* while in Abduls religion the prophet (especially the PED0-one) it is as important as God himself, thats why there is Shahada, and Sunnah Rosool a satanic cult teaching - which does not exist in Christiantiy and Judaism..

[@shabzriverspeaknicelytopeo7851]

@@fitrik7248 there was no letter J in ancient Hebrew language. So there was nobody called jesus

[@TheSaramontano]

"The Messenger of Allah [ﷺ] married me when I was six years old, and consummated the marriage with me when I was nine, and I used to play with dolls." Aisha [RA], in Sunan an-Nasa'i 3378; Vol. 4, Book 26, Hadith 3380. Don't put flowers in dry land because the land doesn't bloom, but the flowers die: Not even the physiology of a girl who still played with dolls (an immature girl, because human figures are not allowed to mature/adult Muslims) is prepared to receive the physiology of an adult man. This is disturbing....but the most disturbing thing is to see apparently ''educated'' people defending obvious barbarities. And I imagine how many children suffered because of this dark example...

[@vazbudak5346]

Well said. Would it be moral today ? No. But did it happen then ? Yes .... just like how solomon has 300 wives in the bible ... it is what it is .. we still beleive in hr one true God Allah and the quran and the message bought 1400 years ago by our noble prophet and messenger Muhammed. Subhanallah we received the message of islam. I pray that we all enter jannah together by Allah's mercy ameen🤲

[@SamirSiraj8542]

It's still moral and halal today. Islam is for all time

[@User_47536]

Age of consent is subjective on social norms,physical and phycological maturity and mental capacity

[@AbuMuslimKhorasani]

Beautiful background!

[@trajictempr8574]

But brother Farid Uthmaan ibn Farooq said it's possible she was 18-20. So is he wrong or just difference opinion.

[@markorbit4752]

Opinions don't mean anything. Facts should be what we look for. And Islam contains too few facts and too many opinions

[@Arifking553]

@@markorbit4752 watch Abu laut video with proof

[@markorbit4752]

@@Arifking553 I'm tired of watching videos with fake proofs. If you have evidence, provide it yourself

[@abdullahassaffah]

Definitely no possibility of her being anything older then 12 at Marriage so she was 9 to 12 nothing g younger nothing older

[@SamirSiraj8542]

There's consensus among scholars that Aisha ra was 6 during nikah and 9 during consumation

[@latiq28]

I don't know much about you but you speck good English mashallah😁Aisha was young but hey King Henry married 6 year old😂

[@zizla3830]

This is why I dont respect some of you muslims , because your logic is backward like Mohammed. Now tell me 1 person who follows the teachings of king Henry ?????

[@latiq28]

@@zizla3830 who backward? What are you talking about some muslims? Or have you forgot we submit to the One God! Lord of Moses ! 🤨 what has king Henry got to do with Islam? Wake up 😂

[@sht30090]

Sweet Lailla This topic is really frustrating as the whole 6-9 age is based on weak hadiths and every scholar agree on this even the guy on the video says so. Why don’t you guys just reject the statement since these are not even hadiths! If you do the math it clearly goes with 16-19 slot. By the way Kings used to marry in their family just to keep their bloodline intact and we know how those practices ended up, now are you guys compering these people’s ignorant and incetual practices with our Prophet PBUH and trying to normalize it!?! Wow!! And how could you believe that our prophet pbuh would marry a girl who was not even reached the age of praying salah and doesn’t have her own choice to marry. I would like to see every person marrying off their 9 year old girl to a middle aged guy since they see it as a sunnah based on a weak hadith. Such strong blind belief will surely makes people ignorant.

[@sht30090]

@@abubeast8816 NO, I said the narration of age 6-9 is based on a weak chain and everyone agrees with that. Read again. then why should I have to blindly follow it in the first place? There are other narrations from Aisha (R) herself regarding the marriage that goes against the narration of 6-9 years. Then why don't we just reject the weak single narration? aside all the logical part you pulled.

[@sht30090]

@@abubeast8816 the hadith(story) comes from one chain which is classified as weak. It doesn't matter how many books record it. That doesn't make it Mutawatir! If you know Urdu, you can refer to Javed Ahmed Ghamidi on this matter or refer to his English books (knowing something isn't a waste). He explains it very delicately, logically and theologically aligned and with other proofs of Hadiths of Aisha (R) which is more reasonable than a hadith story. If anyone don't accept it, that doesn't matter since it isn't a Hadith of our Prophet PBUH anyways. If you think the age is 6-9 years is your choice and I have problem accepting it. This doesn't befit the loving characteristics of my beloved Prophet PBUH.

[@omarz2145]

I recently thought about something which gave me a lot of sakina with regard to this issue. That is how come the biggest opponents of rasul Allah(s), who would look for anything to attack his character and cause doubt in his credibility, never once attacked him from this angle? This shuts down any claims of deviancy for me, because it clearly indicates that this was a cultural norm for the time. Not just that time but even going as late as pre industrial revolution, none of the orientalists even thought to criticize rasul Allah(s) for this. This is the response for the non believer, for the believer it is quite clear to see the truth in rasul Allah's(s) statement that Aisha was chosen for him by Allah as she would go on to be one of the foremost transmitters of hadith and sources of knowledge for this ummah.

[@TanvirRahman-yd9xm]

Assalamualaikum Brother, that Hadith directly contradict to the Quran. I do not understand why should we even consider it a Hadith. There are many so called authentic Hadiths which are irrelevant to Islam. Age of Aisha (Peace be upon her) is totally irrelevant to Islam. Some Hadiths put the Prophet (Peace be upon him) in wrong position and directly contradict with the Quran. I think all Hadiths should be rechecked. Hadiths are not words of Allah and not directly written by the Prophet (Peace be upon him) himself. Scholars may made mistakes and now we are the sufferer of answering stupid questions from both believers and disbelievers. I am not concern about the authenticity of Hadiths but their relevancies with the Quran. In nowhere in the Quran Allah command the Prophet or the Muslims to marry a 6/7 years old kid. That Hadith is disturbing and should be thrown out.

[@blackmancool9983]

Tanvir Rahman ......yes it does. Chapter 65 Verse 4 allows you to divorce "women who are too old and stop menstruating.....idda is3months and for girls who haven't menstruated is also 3months😨😵😧

[@TanvirRahman-yd9xm]

Dear Jackson Jones, I guess two things about you 1. you are a blind follower of David Wood, and 2. you have no intellect. For your kind information Allah tells in the Quran - "O Prophet, when you [Muslims] divorce women, divorce them for [the commencement of] their waiting period and keep count of the waiting period, and fear Allah, your Lord. Do not turn them out of their [husbands'] houses, nor should they [themselves] leave [during that period] unless they are committing a clear immorality. And those are the limits [set by] Allah . And whoever transgresses the limits of Allah has certainly wronged himself. You know not; perhaps Allah will bring about after that a [different] matter." (Chapter 65: 1) "And when they have [nearly] fulfilled their term, either retain them according to acceptable terms or part with them according to acceptable terms. And bring to witness two just men from among you and establish the testimony for [the acceptance of] Allah . That is instructed to whoever should believe in Allah and the Last day. And whoever fears Allah - He will make for him a way out, And will provide for him from where he does not expect. And whoever relies upon Allah - then He is sufficient for him. Indeed, Allah will accomplish His purpose. Allah has already set for everything a [decreed] extent." (Chapter 65: 2-3) "And those who no longer expect menstruation among your women - if you doubt, then their period is three months, and [also for] those who have not menstruated. And for those who are pregnant, their term is until they give birth. And whoever fears Allah - He will make for him of his matter ease." (Chapter 65: 4) The three months Idda period is for checking pregnancy of a Women. Only a stupid like David Wood and peoples like you trying to relate this verse with 5/6/7 years old kids. And how can you relate the verse "if you doubt" to a 5/6/7 years old girl while you clearly know that she is far away from her menstruation. The verse "those who have not menstruated" clearly indicates the early stage of pregnancy when it is not confirmed yet. Are you familiar with the term "False Pregnancy"? And some time Miscarriage also happen within the first three months. When will I look pregnant? - BabyCentre UK www.babycentre.co.uk/x25006275/when-will-i-look-pregnant "If you're a first-time mum, you could begin developing a baby bump any time between 12 and 16 weeks. But if this isn't your first baby, you may start showing sooner. This is because the muscles in your uterus (womb) and belly may already have been stretched from your last pregnancy." So Three months Idda period is a perfect way to check and confirm pregnancy that time. Please next time use your brain before comment. Peace.

[@TanvirRahman-yd9xm]

Assalamualaikum Brother, Do you know the difference between a Muslim and a Munafikh? If you know then do not spread any hypocrisy. It is not about good or bad evidence, but about is it a Sunnah or not. This Hadith totally contradict with the Quran. I personally do not believe this Hadith, but my main concern is that some Munafikhs use this Hadith and justify child marriage. And some disbelievers also get the chance to insult the Prophet (Peace be upon him).

[@TanvirRahman-yd9xm]

Only the arrogant people laugh Brother. And please do not try to label me as Quranist. I am not denying all the authentic Hadiths which are relevant to the Quran. But there are so many so called authentic Hadiths which are problematic and directly contradict with the Quran. No Muslim is blaming the Prophet (Peace be upon him) and Aisha (Peace be upon her) for this Hadith which is totally irrelevant to Islam. May be the scholars made mistakes when they written down those hadiths, by not scrutinized them in the light of the Quran. I hope you understand the difference between the Sunnah and cultural norm. This Hadith can't be considered as Sunnah from Islamic view point, because it promote injustice towards kids. Many Munafikhs use this Hadith to justify child marriage. So the best way to stop injustice towards kids is to reject or nullify this Hadith. This fabricated hadith has nothing to do with Islam.

[@beluga9744]

@@Bilal-vh2bf a person who plays with dolls is obviously mature...

[@mahimaabm6286]

The Prophet Muhammad,was honest about his life ...We wouldn't had know about any thing about Prophet Muhammad's life,he let Alisha tell this information.

[@franciscoscaramanga9396]

"It's extremely unfair to judge Muhammad by 21st century morals and standards." No, it's *extremely* fair. He's supposed to be a perfect standard of conduct for all mankind, right? He's just not. It's clear that he gained followers through war spoil, and a promise of a hedonistic afterlife. He had almost no morals himself, and clearly made up the Quran as he went, whatever part of it he's actually responsible for. Nobody really wants to follow a pedophile when you're not holding a sword to their throat.

[@ArcanumArcanorum17]

Tell this to the billion brainless muppets on this cursed planet

[@haydenweiner2133]

Except they did follow him. And we're persecuted for it.he had no morals? He gave the arab pagans morals and was known as the most truthful. People bring up aisha but what about his first wife who was 15 years older then him?

[@ArcanumArcanorum17]

@@haydenweiner2133 Sure he gave the Arab pagans morals, but everyone else? Let's even say no one else had morals, if muhammad was so perfect why didn't he abolish slavery? Why did he allowed women to be captive as sex slaves? Why did he promote the killing of apostates? Not a perfect human being by any standard. You don't need to reply to this, just please have a think about the religion. And don't let the Islamic failsafe of "this kafir is trying to sway me away from sirat al mustaqim" pop into your head

[@arasen6843]

@@ArcanumArcanorum17 Just watch Muslim skeptic. He addresses all these topics. Peace.

[@sy6553]

Muhammad never made the order to marry 9 year old SO it isn't Sunnah. The Prophet pbuh actions is divided into two Sunnah like praying some rakat before fardh, and his own time-bound actions like riding a camel or wearing a turban We should not ditch our cars and buy a camel. Plus when it came to marriage, there were many rules for the Prophet pbuh and not anyone else, such as him allowed to have more than 4 wives. Islam doesn't give an age but the woman must be past the age of puberty for consummation. And Aisha was past puberty, as in this hadith in Makkah years before her consummation in Medina: Narrated `Aisha: I had seen my parents following Islam since I attained the age of puberty. Not a day passed but the Prophet visited us [in makkah] Sahih Bukhari 476

[@khalidalahbabi3394]

I know it could be wrong to assume this, but all the sources mentioned in this video was based on Aisha claiming that she was 9. Could Aisha be unaware of what her age really was when she married the prophet, or misjudged the age at that time, because we trust Aisha narrating from the prophets Hadith, but in this particular point, we are relying on her understanding of what her age could be when she married the prophet Sala Allah allayh wa Salam

[@Basheer245]

He discusses this at @16:00. I want to add: she didn't say the hadeeth (which was later narrated and transmitted) when she was 9. She did it much later in her life. So she was an adult and was fully aware of what she was saying.

[@auivn5726]

@KZbin Funny and no reference

[@abdullahassaffah]

Aisha radiallahuanha also says in other hadith she was 7 and 10 and of course the famous hadith where she says the verse of surah najm was releases when she was a playfull child a playfull child meaning she could have been 3 4 but at the same time 5 and 6 is also possible meaning 3 to 6 but she was nothing more then that because she was at minimum born in the year of the prophethood so she would be max 12 when she married the prophet salallahualayuwasallam minimum 9 so 9 to 12 is thr age she married prophet salallahualayuwasallam we know certain differences exist with age with fatima radiallahuanha some narration say she was born 5 year before prophethood or 5 years after prophethood began

[@SamirSiraj8542]

She definitely knew her age

[@thavelasco]

I saw a video with historians that calculated her age in her late teens when she was married. Based on historical evidence.

[@IbrahimKhan-ri6qx]

Can you send me the video? I’ve always heard of this but it’s only an opinion, I still stick with 9 being the most authentic but 17 can also be a debate due to historical evidence

[@aisyahdelia8213]

@@IbrahimKhan-ri6qx All Muhaddithin and Historian of Islam have agreed that Mother of the Believers Hazrat Aisha رضي الله عنها was 10 years younger than her older sister Asma. Hazrat Asma رضي الله عنها died at the age of 100 in 73 Hijri. at the time of the Migration/Hijrat Hazrat Asma was 27 or 28 years old. As per this calculation if we minus 10 years then at the time of Migration/Hijrat age of Hazrat Aisha رضي الله عنها becomes 17 or 18 years and at the time of departure/Rukhsati it becomes 19 years. هذَا مَا عِنْدِي-

[@IbrahimKhan-ri6qx]

@@aisyahdelia8213 ah yes from sheikh Uthman ibn farooq? But then how did Aisha RA mess up her age by 10 years? Makes no sense to me that’s why I stick with 9

[@aisyahdelia8213]

@@IbrahimKhan-ri6qx there is a hadith where Aisha becama an eyewitness when prophet Muhammad 40 yrs old,if prophet Muhammad married Aisha when he is 51 and Aisha is 6,and if we minus 51-6=45,it means Aisha has not been born yet,how is Aisha became an eyewitness when prophet Muhammad 40 yrs old?she has not been born yet. Aisha also participated in Uhud and Badr battles,in that time kids under 15 is not allowed to be participated,BUT Aisha participated,that means Aisha older than 15 years old. Uhud and Badr battles happened in 2H. 1H=622 M And prophet Muhammad married with Aisha AROUND 2H that means Aisha was older than 9 years old,and that means in Uhud and Badr battles Aisha is way much older than 15 yrs old. You also refuse a hadith HISHAM who narrated the hadith(9 yrs)HISHAM can't be trusted due to his age,also it says HISHAM hear that from someone not he sees that by himself

[@IbrahimKhan-ri6qx]

@@aisyahdelia8213 ok look I’ll take your word for it if you provide me the Hadiths for the ones you tried to mention like the witness thing and scholars who support this as well in terms of Hisham RA not being reliable. Sorry for being stingy I just want to be fully sure and so I can accept this opinion as more authentic than the 9 year old claim

[@moucheali3911]

Thank you so much I am a 47 year old unmarried man My Poor neighbor is giving me permission to marry his 10 year old daughter Alhumdulilah She is my little maliaka Alhumdulilah I AM Practicing the SUNNAH and i feel blessed Alhumdulilah Thank you for your wisdom I would feel soo much better NOW on my HONEYMOON I was feeling a lil GUILTY before Thank you Alhumdulilah

[@FettoMarzani]

Don't do that. She's too young

[@moucheali3911]

@@FettoMarzani bro Im a MUSLIM I WOULD NEVER COMMIT SUCH AN ABOMINABLE ACT But the SUNNI prophet made this a SUNNAH bro AND BIG GROWN DICK SWINGING MUSLIM MEN thinks that this is GREAT and HONOURABLE ACT And Defend pedophilia with their lives Thanks for recognizing truth YOU KNOW ITS WRONG

[@moucheali3911]

@@FettoMarzani but its SUNNAH bro Alhumdulilah Well daz what dey say

[@moucheali3911]

@@FettoMarzani bro im MUSLIM Hence would never do such a thing Its disgusting And ANYBODY who justifies it IS ALSO Thanks for being human

[@moucheali3911]

@@FettoMarzani why do you think that is not kool for a 53 year old to be with a 9 year old It was a custom long ago Practiced by GODs people Apparently So this makes it OK Plus the prophet was sent as an example for us to follow

[@antiochorontes6374]

Needs more books.

[@kaashee]

Antioch Orontes open one and see how important these books are

[@haara1238]

@@kaashee It was a joke 😂

[@kaashee]

Haara 123 who said he might not have been joking

[@boriserjavec6470]

all weak chains of narration...

[@SamirSiraj8542]

​@@boriserjavec6470no. All chains are sahih.

[@mahimaabm6286]

Like Prophet Muhammad know us know in the books he is only a man ,he is not God (Allah)He was only a human being.

[@zahidpathan2827]

May Allah bless you and preserve you and increase your ilm ❤️can you please mention other narrations for the age of Ayesha ra

[@asifosman]

The conclusion is a must watch

[@manytookthischannel9394]

If you say hes a prophet for ALL times then why would all times not Judge him ?? Take that false hadith that has many problems with it and toss it Stop saying your fabrications are from allah Stop trying to justify that you want to have sex with kids because if you justify this hadith Then your saying its sunnah for you to marry kids There is no discussion with a such person Your sickos .

[@SamirSiraj8542]

The hadith is sahih according to consensus of scholars

[@saschahoffmann1813]

You can judge one individual if they are the supreme moral example. If Aisha was “mature” at 9 enough to have “consensual” sex at 9 then Muhammad would have been very old and near his death

[@gobindlalli5228]

These Muslim explanations never seem to make their case any better. They are counter productive. It makes them sound even worse.

[@gobindlalli5228]

You justify Paedophilia and expect us all to say "Wow, now that you put it like that it makes total sense and iv been wrong all these years" Disgusting justification for a dirty disgusting act

[@gobindlalli5228]

اسماعيل ابراهيم And you have a disgusting Paedophilic view.

[@XHitsugaX]

@my name is my name haha so funny. So you youre showing your true intention that islam is not the religion of peace and instead of conquest and subjugation. And if you have not forgot Chinese are putting muslims in concentration camps. And will absolutely smash you in military warfare. So yeah. I rather be under Chinese Rule than under the religion of "peace"

[@al-muwaffaq341]

G mac Harry watch mufti Abu layths video

[@Islamis4all]

Please be respectful and say رضى الله عنها When you say the name of Aisha رضى الله عنها

[@baseera6532]

Salam brother, thank you for the presentation. With all due respect I found it incredibly tedious and simplistic. You glazed over crucial aspects of Islam and made some very concerning simplifications. This sounds like dogma rather than a nuanced and scholarly view. I don’t claim to be right or wrong, but rather this is a critique of the integrity and validity of what your saying

[@markorbit4752]

It is dogma. That's the final verdict

[@sabinarahman1339]

Salam brother I watch a lot of your videos and find them quite knowledgeable Alhamdulliallah. however, the mocking way you have denigrated other scholars who have in my opinion, brought forth quite compelling evidences contradicting the Hadiths that say the blessed Prophet married Aisha RA at age 6, consummated age 9. Whether you agree or not, we are talking about Hadith and they are not perfect,, once again I urge you to consider the Quran before any Hadith which clearly states you can only marry women, not children.

[@pobjedaistine2177]

Also,all this chains of narations have Hisham Bin Urwah in them as a first person. Chain of narations are valid but all of them go to the one person,Hisham which had dementia in Iraq in the time of narating this hadiths.

[@KingRapz13]

Well said brother. To be honest they make themselves look like even MORE fools than they already are because in the old testament etc. And even in those cultures at that time. They used to marry when young anyways. Can any Christian tell me how old was Mary when Joseph wedded her???? In English we dont call this...hypocrisy... they contradict themselves at every turn yet can't see the truth and reality right under their own noses. Allah yahfadhak ya Farid...

[@XHitsugaX]

yes. The reality is there is no god that we live in a gigantic universe and there are trillions of stars and even more planets.Mathematically and statistically there are countless planets with life on them in for us unreachable galaxies.

[@KingRapz13]

@@XHitsugaX mathematically and statistically u didn’t say anything. And u have no proof to say there is life on other planets apart from droplets of water on mars or some far place away. The probability of all ur stars and planets and intricate details of nature coming into existence BY ITSELF is laughable. If I said to u a car just randomly pieced itself together without the help of humans, u would call me mad. Yet when it’s the UNIVERSE with all its vast organisms and the intricate details of how our bodies work u wanna say it’s random or evolution. If I gave u a bag with balls numbered 1 to 10, what’s the probability u would take each ball out in numerical order??? 1 in 10? Yet the universe is so big and u wanna attribute it to randomness?! May Allah guide us all. Ameen!

[@XHitsugaX]

@@KingRapz13 a car is a manmade structure. Planets and stars and cosmic gas isnt. Its just there. Thats why gold even exists. And platinum. And the rare gases, they exist only because of stars exploding. Not through some mythic level of creation by a mythic omnipotent being. Yes its hard to understand for people that can not grasp basic physics ( most religious people). Quantum physics allows us to understand things like that. Because even if quantum physics is based on scientific theories at least those things are based on scientific consensus. Not fairy tales made up by humans in the Middle east 4000-2000 years ago. Youd think if god was real and created the universe he would have spoken to all homo sapiens across the globe for the last 150 000 years. But god did not. He for some reason decided he wants to speak to random goat herders, horsemen and tribesmen warlords in the Middle East. The monotheistic god did not speak to all the other great civilications and their people. Weird innit? Some of them far more advanced than the remnants in the middle east later on. Like Sumerians, Egyptians, Angkor Kingdom you name it were all in their height of power and culture and education standards. Scythes in Europe later the first horsemen riders ever even before the Mongolians. Yet To NONE of them universally he spoke. He chose random middle eastern places in decaying empires. Sounds like manmade nonsense. Sounds like you feel too small and scared and need a "father figure" to protect you from the entropy and randomness of the everexpanding universe.

[@9Rehankhan19]

Nah! You’re say in some states of US the age to get married is 12 years or 13 years if your parental consent. But is that for a 54 yo to marry a 12 yo? Also, prophet Muhammad is considered the prophet for all mankind till the end of this world, right ? So that means things we do now we are supposed to follow him. That’s means the life he lead we should mirror that in every aspect. So should we also marry a 9 yo if we are above 50? Fine, if you look at the history, even till recently girls as young as 12 or 13 would be married, but not to a 50 yo, but to someone who is just a few years older to the girl. Yes there were some who were much older, but then you can’t compare those people with a prophet ? That too a prophet of his stature. I would accept if everyone back then did the same thing, but I can’t accept him doing this. I mean come on, he’s the prophet of the prophets. Not acceptable for him to marry a 9yo.

[@valour6530]

He married a woman 15 yr older than him, widowed, for around 20 years of his life( when he was 25-45 ), and didnt marry anyone till after she passed

[@ranasfoodworld]

Two acclaimed historical books namely Tahdhib-al-Tahdhib and Al-Bidaya wa’l-Nihaya report that Hadhrat Asma died at the age of hundred in 73 AH[8]. Calculating from this, it becomes evident that Hadhrat Asma was about 27 or 28 years of age at the time of the Prophet’s migration to Medina. This puts Hazrat Asma at the age of 28 or 29 at the time of Hazrat Aisha’s marital consummation, which occurred in 2 AH. All of these facts indicate that Hazrat Aishara should have been 18 or 19 years of age at the time when her marriage was consummated.

[@rayanrayan4923]

Javed ahmed ghamdi, a scholar, opines differently and i believe he is right. (On you tube)

[@shaikhusman5332]

Javed ghamdi is not a scholar he is hadith rejector

[@ahmedharris7148]

Shaikh Usman A more objective statement would be to say that he is a scholar that rejects Hadith which itself is untrue.

[@abdurrazzak305]

@@ahmedharris7148 I doubt his Islam

[@ahmedharris7148]

Abdur Razzak Khan That's all right. But you won't be the Judge on Judgement Day.

[@muhammadaaus105]

@@ahmedharris7148 He has heretical views, may Allāh Increase him and us in knowledge, Amīn.

[@wylderose3878]

The problem for me is that he is supposed to be a perfect example.

[@SamirSiraj8542]

Yes. He ﷺ is perfect example

[@spotthecat2412]

_“It’s extremely unfair for one to judge Muhammad according to 21st century morals and standards and it is extremely due to a bias methodology in which he is criticised, especially once we are aware that he should not be singled out for marrying someone who was so young, he was not the only person to marry someone that young and this was a cultural norm”_ No, it is not unfair at all, this man claimed that he was the final prophet of God, that he was the perfect example of conduct for all of mankind for *all of time* , he could have and should have put a stop to men having sex with little girls (in Islam at least) but instead he indulged himself and as a direct result there are little girls being abused throughout the Islamic world by men who believe that it is sanctioned by their God. In the USA you can get “married” to a girl at a young age but the “age of consent” (the age at which you can legally have sexual intercourse) is 16 yrs of age, sex below this age is “statutory rape” with a defence in law for those that are close in age. Nowhere in the USA can a man in his 50’s legally have sex with a 9 year old girl. The simple fact is that the “cultural norms” of any society throughout history is irrelevant when you are talking about a man who claimed to be the perfect moral example for all time. Aisha was also 9 *lunar* years old, so not quite 9 solar years old !! _"Who are you ? At the end of the day you are a slave to "Allah""_ No! You're the slave and it shows.

[@spotthecat2412]

+Grim reaper No, I got the point! I never said he married her because she was nine, only that he had married her. He married her when she was younger than that but the marriage was consummated (they first had sex) the when she was 9. You say it is a "fact" that she had reached puberty but your sources, sources which this man has defended, suggest otherwise, she was still playing on swings and with dolls (they would have been forbidden if she had reached puberty), this is understood by some Muslims www.sunnah.com/bukhari/78/157 Would you allow a man in his 50's to have sexual intercourse with your 9 year old daughter/sister if she showed signs of the *onset of puberty* (not when the process was complete which could take a couple of years)? Don't bother with the usual "we have to obey the rules of the country we live in" and "if she consented and the man was acceptable to us" nonsense, a simple yes or no will suffice! I don't know how or why the age of 16 was chosen, it maybe that for the vast majority of girls would have completed the process of puberty and matured mentally by that age, there will always be exceptions but you cannot legislate for a very small minority.

[@shudini985]

Grim reaper wow, you have amazing knowledge mashallah!

[@spotthecat2412]

+Hani Salhab _"Nothing wrong in marrying a 9 year old at the time........etc "_ That does not answer the question I asked !! So I will try again. Would *you allow a man in his 50's to have sexual intercourse with your 9 year old daughter/sister* if she showed signs of the onset of puberty (not when the process was complete which could take a couple of years)? If not why not?

[@spotthecat2412]

+Grim reaper My last response appears not to have posted so I will try again. _”NO these Sources Do Not Suggest Anything but that you have no knowledge of what you are saying and in case you desperately believe that dolls are forbidden then you must show us the hadith regarding that”_ I have knowledge of what the entry for this hadith says on Sunnan.com ! Can I suggest you look again ! Especially at the comment:- “(The playing with the dolls and similar images is forbidden, but it was allowed for `Aisha at that time, as she was a little girl, *not yet reached the age of puberty* .) (Fath-ul-Bari page 143, Vol.13)” www.sunnah.com/bukhari/78/157 I note that it does not say she was allowed to play with these dolls because they were “faceless”. These are Islamic sources not mine. _”1) You are trying to give an impression that Hazrat Ayesha had not completed her Puberty and was Immature and that too when almost all the evidence indicate that she was not. “_ Please show me your source that states unequivocally that Aisha had *completed the process of puberty* as opposed to reached the onset of puberty! _”2) You are giving an impression as if it is obligatory for us to marry our young girls with elder men, well you might disagree but at lest this Strawman proposition indicates that”_ Absolute nonsense! Nowhere have I suggested that is obligatory for you to marry off your young girls I have merely pointed out that it is acceptable due to the example of Muhammad and you have the neck to accuse me of making a “strawman” argument. _”“When a girl reaches nine year of age, She is a woman." Sunan al-Tirmidhi, Kitab al-Nikah “_ Yes, that’s the claim! So, if you “mother” says it is ok for a nine year old “woman” to have sex and your “prophet” set the example. Would you allow a man in his 50’s to have sexual intercourse with your daughter or sister at the age of nine if she showed signs of the onset of puberty? A simple yes or no is all that is required but I doubt you will give one. _”Now you have a right to disagree and believe what you want but you cannot claim your belief to be true unless you have logical reasons to support your claims because in a debate emotions don't count.”_ Nor can you!! I have given my source that says she had not reached puberty you have made claims and offered no supporting evidence. _”Thus you have no right to blame my prophet __-(SAW)-__ .”_ I have every right! Young girls around the world are being abused by old men because they believe it was sanctioned by their God, it was the example of Muhammad that gave them this belief and it is he alone who is to blame.

[@spotthecat2412]

+Hani Salhab Typically you are hiding from the question. You are not living in a time where it is a social norm, you are living in the 21st century and you are using the "we have to live by the laws of the land" excuse! In doing so you accept that the "man made laws" of the land in which you live take precedence over the example of your "prophet"! Even though he claimed to be the perfect example for mankind for all of time (that would include now)! Let me press you on this. If there was a resurgent Islamic caliphate imposing the Sharia and they took control of the country in which you live would you then allow a man in his 50's to have sexual intercourse with you 9 year old child ?

[@theiyrosthenes1639]

Let it be known, there are scholars on both sides of Aisha’s age. No matter what you believe her age was, you will still be Muslim.

[@SamirSiraj8542]

There's consensus among scholars that she ra was 6 during nikah and 9 during consumation . Only Laymans disagree

[@theiyrosthenes1639]

@@SamirSiraj8542 the problem with consensus is that most scholars don’t look into this aside from regurgitating what previous scholars have said. That’s why you see a resurgence of scholars who deny the proposed age in recent decades

[@SamirSiraj8542]

@@theiyrosthenes1639 no. Scholars don't accept something just cause previous scholars said , they check it themselves. And through oil history, all scholars agreed on her age. Even today, no scholar differ about her age. Only Layman and few student of knowledge disagree

[@TheCalmfury]

What kind of proof is that of an hadith? These are reports after many years after the Prophet (saw) and the companions passed away. Even if the narration say "I was 9 y o" this is a report from other people you were'nt present and did'nt hear her say that. In other words you put your trust in something that is not 100% without any doubt correct. Infact there are other hadith with other age reported, other hadith that states contradiction to that you quoted (I stated in my other comment), and so on. We don't know with 100% certainty of how old she was. People who attack the Holy Prophet (saw) will always find something to criticize him. It is better in my humble opinion to say that all this is not confirmed because hadith are not 100% reliable like the Qur'an, even if it is possible that are correct, but not with certainty. To base a line of defence on something that is not stable could do more damage than help. When a year a non muslim say "your prophet is a ***** (I don't want to write here the word) because he married a child" my answer is simply "were you present to see that? Do you know the exact age of her?"

[@nikobelic3306]

The quran allowed the prophet to have sex with his concubine mariyah who was a christian, how do you explain this lol

[@abuhanzalah5321]

@@nikobelic3306 just as Solomon (Peace be Upon Him) had Concubines and also other Prophets as well. Being a Concubine and/or Christian/Jew do not prohibit Muslim man to marry them. It is allowed in Al-Islam. It better than having sexual relationship behind closed doors and playing with dignity and honor of the women, exploiting them for the mere pleasure of man and not giving back any rights. Rather I would have a women in bed whom I MUST take care of and fulfill her needs in a manner which is honorable and dignified.

[@nikobelic3306]

@@abuhanzalah5321 Do you even understand what a concubine mean? that's pure slavery Mariyah al Qubtiyah was mohamed's sex slave she was a gift from the egyptians, just because other people do it doesnt justify him doing it that's called whataboutism.

[@abuhanzalah5321]

@@nikobelic3306 I know exactly what concubine is. But you lack understanding of Islam that's why you have issues with MUSLIMS having concubine. We have rules that are set in place so no concubine can be exploited. Give me one example where a concubine rejected or tried to set her free or tried to kill any companion while she was with them ? This shows you how well they were taken care of. Anyhow, you don't know what wars do to the society and how they are left after words, especially women. Human trafficking and prostitution gets prevalent which ends in destruction of the whole society. So Islam legislated to have concubines in order to keep things in check and whoever gets a concubine will make sure that they are well taken care of. No one can share them or do immoral things with them, you don't force them to have sex with you. They live as if they are your wife. This is a war situation and if someone comes after war to take back their womenfolk then we have to give them back.

[@nikobelic3306]

@@abuhanzalah5321 According to ahadith hafsah and aicha were against this inhuman act and also according to ahadith the prophet sold and bought slaves and was into human trafficking lol...

[@asgar_ali_263]

That means that prophet is not a good example for every time. He was good in 7th century but in 2022 , he is not a good example. Is it, you want to say?

[@knoobiez]

U missed the point completely

[@slaveofallah73645443]

Excellent video, jazakallahukahir brothers!

[@azkamalik993]

Does that mean men now can marry a girl as young as 9 years old? Was aisha RA marrying our prophet PBUH was just a miracle or an example to be followed? If it was the example to be followed then why haven't we seen any sahaba doing it?

[@1.N.Decent]

No the Quran doesn't specify the age but there are other important requirements. As for "now", the answer depends on what's the norm in where one lives. No it wasn't a miracle. Nobody thought it was such in the hadith and sirah. To take it as example one needs to look at the internal and external reasons behind and the outcomes

[@SamirSiraj8542]

Yes we can

[@SamirSiraj8542]

​​@@1.N.DecentQuran 65:4 talks about divorce of pre pubecents. You can read tafsirs. Màrriage with pre pubecent g1π|s is halal according to consensus of scholars