The Grief of Fumbling a REAL Woman Is REAL!

[@JaxnVideos]

NEW BOOK: From Heartache to Happiness(E-Book & Audio Book Bundle) www.derricksvip.com/offers/Y9uxoLoR

[@loveslife11]

I love derrek jaxn😊

[@darlingdarlow6415]

👏

[@NettaReed-r7y]

Derrick talk about men who fumble a good woman but dates women who empties their pockets!!! women who only wanted them for a bag...they spin the block express pain and all a sudden they want a good woman back!! TALK ABOUT WOMEN WHO BREAK MEN...WE LOVE U DERRICK!!! 🤎🫵🏾👍🏾✊🏾👊🏾👏🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🙏🏾💅🏾💋aka a fitandfabulous BW...LETS GO 2024!!

[@glam0r0us]

Thank you Derrick 🙏🏽

[@solyball2873]

Hey D ! How do we get the real book? I don’t really like ebooks. I’d much rather have the real book.

[@LonjeMarie7]

To any woman that’s reading this if you are the ‘ball’ that he fumbled. It’s HIS LOSS, keep rolling!

[@acheeksgaming4849]

I'm so feeling the fumble right now. He went back to his baby mom. I'm in my feelings, but I don't want to be his option if it doesn't work.

[@melissacross4769]

Thank u...... ❤❤❤

[@ednablessed1096]

Going thru it now 😢💔

[@tedthajohnson6077]

It’s the energy that some women embody. It can’t be replaced.

[@Love2Love927]

💯💯💯

[@melissacross4769]

​@@Love2Love927🥰 Micheal 😘

[@sailorPinata]

now imagine the pain of being the fumbled woman...

[@Indelibleone]

Thank you.

[@kellileaneriley4263]

It sucks tbh

[@tatianaj7108]

Exactly the healing she has to go through can be very challenging. And then to attempt to date again 😔

[@melissacross4769]

Right.......

[@donitabrown8100]

Been there..... for sure!!

[@victoriabrand2777]

Exactly, there are some levels of disrespect that can never be forgiven or forgotten

[@melissacross4769]

Yes Michael facts

[@msjaneausten483]

Oooo that part 🙌💯 I can forgive but there are certain levels of disrespect... It's like ✌️✌️✌️

[@BeautifullyAwakened83]

Especially when you “Fumble” a “Real Life Natural Born Chosen One”😬✂️💯

[@freshmanjeans]

That part

[@Chosenshines]

Amen 🙏 ❣️

[@janherlihy8301]

Ooooooo you said it

[@melissacross4769]

It's a wrap.......... Period..... Blessing in disguise ❤❤❤

[@naturallaw8377]

‼️‼️‼️‼️

[@empressdawnsomerville1101]

If he’s narcissistic he doesn’t care about messing the relationship up with that woman because he misses HER..Her presence. He cares because he misses what he was getting from that woman…Her presents.

[@sonyea01]

👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏

[@kelisawhite9294]

Facts.

[@theejuicygoldengoose271]

💯🎯💯🎯💯🎯

[@JemLifeMinistries]

Yep. What she supplies

[@navimarlow]

💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@nltinc.4864]

He is 100% correct! My husband lost the best version of me and now I can never be that affectionate, sexually available, loving and flirtatious woman with him again. Ever!

[@INGEN_Dahnie-el-aha-ha]

Why not divorce him??

[@JemLifeMinistries]

Mine did too before I fully got away.

[@sarahmicro]

@@INGEN_Dahnie-el-aha-ha : because most of these women stay even if there are not happy. Just to avoid being alone....

[@theSlamDude1]

Exactly, at that point, you're wasting both of y'all time ​@@INGEN_Dahnie-el-aha-ha

[@monamellj]

Been there. I can relate.

[@RooJohnson00]

Yes I sometimes wonder if he feels heavily convicted in his heart for the hurt he caused when the world is quiet & hes alone with his own thoughts 😌

[@Emerald-1226]

😢

[@shiz1246]

He only regrets it because he can no longer use her.

[@StarS33d3]

I feel he’s receiving what he put out now n it hurts baaaaad..That physical mental beating he gave her does NOT compare to the SPIRITUAL AS WHIPPING he’s receiving now🧘🏾‍♀️

[@SheenaBerry-g5c]

Me too

[@navimarlow]

No. Men don’t love and feel like us

[@gloriathompson6606]

After 19 years and some change, my ex husband has STILL not moved on. At 69 he is stuck in the past not only with me, but our children.

[@shiz1246]

Regret is not remorse. They (you) regret losing the utility of your appliance, but you don’t feel bad for doing what you did

[@navimarlow]

Exactly!! 💯💯💯💯

[@TianaThompson90s]

Thank you 🎉🎉🎉

[@robynhawthorne3160]

U tell'em Derrick, BEWARE !! 😮 Like RKelly said wen a woman fed-up, ain't nothing u can do about it

[@catspyjamas7944]

You can see this one hits him different.

[@SarahGraceL]

I agree. He's speaking of a cautionary tale of his own.

[@queenb3088]

Yeah... this is very personal.

[@sonjacox4874]

Yup! Such a coincidence how my ex has woman after woman but can't find a "good one" after I left

[@hindwidad2723]

Most men think that women are replaceable till they find out the hard way. There aren’t many good people left and they don’t realize that till it’s too late to get you back

[@Mllascelles1]

Self imposed trauma by self sabatoge is tragic.

[@childadvocate8374]

Appreciate yr honesty and admitting yr own challenges with dealing with loss of a good woman. That doesn't take away the pain you caused but at least you can heal yourself. But the truth is you're not responsible for her healing, she is. God bless you both❤

[@KeishaWilliams-e6d]

God is using him. He's preaching from personal knowledge ❤

[@childadvocate8374]

​@@KeishaWilliams-e6dI agree.

[@user-GodIsGood777]

You are so full of wisdom. Thank you for this message today. I am so glad i found you online. 🙏

[@ellawilliams2836]

I agree

[@Jeffreyway]

It Ain't Just with A Good Woman Derrick... It's Losing A REAL 1 PERIOD!!!!

[@melissacross4769]

Aww thanks ..... ❤❤❤

[@amethyst8753]

Starting my healing journey after being fumbled. He will realize I had nothing but genuine love for him. Whatever happens now on is on him.Thank you for the insight.

[@rhondaharris460]

That's true, and we're all different in our unique way, no one can be you❤😊

[@RitaDoran-p4v]

This message deserves Gold Thanks

[@TheGreyArea_LuLaKye]

Blessings KING for ur wisdom and being transparent 🫡🎱🙌🏽

[@jazziewilliams3834]

U won’t miss her until she’s gone 😥

[@iwantcrystals]

BOOM

[@kristengarcia3477]

I hope my ex heals, he can’t ever comeback to me but he needs to be a good example to our baby. He’s too busy chasing a bust down who competes with my baby for his attention(usually she wins) he thinks if karma hasn’t hit him yet it’s not gonna come back around for what they did to me.

[@here.comes.tiffany]

Thank you ❤ i have been watching and listening to you for a while.. dropping love, videos like yours NEED to blow up. You have great messages..went through this in a 14 yr relationship … Thanks for keeping it real❤

[@lynnanderson6831]

It’s interesting to hear this. The relationships I’ve had have been so damaging I’m forever changed. I’ve often wondered if they even think about me and wonder how I am. We are damaged, but hearing this, it’s damaging for some men too. Thank you for sharing. I think women just want men who have harmed to become aware of their actions and try to work on themselves and become better people. We hope someday that they could just say I am so sorry for hurting you that way. That would be healing for both parties. ❤

[@lydiahaynes4974]

When you tell him you have lost yourself and you are in pain and all he can say is "that’s your problem" or "don't be so negative" or "I'm sick of you being negative" when all you are trying to do is open up and pour your heart out choking on tears. He laughs in your face repeatedly and feels more empowered to scream when he sees you upset. Nothing hurts more.

[@ford6321noone]

Thank you for telling the TRUTH!!

[@TheHighPriestess111]

I’m only here to say.. I told you so!!! 🤭🤭

[@JenniferSimonis]

It’s beyond mental illness. Ownership. Humility. Many years of therapy. I pray for eyes to see and ears to hear constantly. We share children but we are not together.

[@HeyokaGirlSpeaks]

My ex-husband ignored my saying I'm with you because I want to be not because I have to be. Keep fukng with me and I will walk away. He called my bluff and lost big time. I won myself and he lost everything. 😊❤

[@ShainaLuckey]

Amen. I am patiently waiting for my day.

[@debranathan4275]

How can you keep moving from woman to woman, and not heal.thats what men and women have to do first, Mind Body and Soul. Finding yourself is worth everything because you can't see nothing until you heal yourself. Know your Worthhhhhhhh

[@starchildsol]

Thank you Derrick! 🙏🫶😊

[@TnL-nt2kd]

You damn sure preaching the truth❤

[@ljubicapopovic8811]

Derrick, good as always! Thank you for telling things so honestly, 💝!

[@gr8hndz4u]

Thank you for speaking the truth.

[@reginatabb4068]

KARMA IS REAL❤

[@gregbuze9143]

That part !! 💯 💯 💯

[@thefruitfulones]

This is soooooo “spot on”. He is sick about it. Cant seem to find true love. Or find it but fearful she’ll never be enough. Wow!!! The meal analogy was ‘perfection’!!oh, lastly… the chemistry is so strong when the two happen upon each other. It’s so intense and you both walk away pretending not to have sensed that chemistry. Smh

[@sajor1847]

You described my marriage of 24 years that I lost myself in. 5 years and I'm beginning to find the me that I lost while loving someone that wasn't loveable. He fumbled me and drank himself to death. I was the best he was ever going to get. I put myself aside and now I'm finding myself again and for that I will be grateful every day for the rest of my life.

[@sacredxsahara]

I like this derrick, his energy is very genuine.

[@iRockwthMJ]

This is DEEP! Thank you for breaking this down. This is healing information. ❤️❤️❤️

[@kimberlyhamilton8637]

This is So Very True 👍 and Absolute Facts

[@christineribone9351]

THE GREATEST COMEBACK EVER!!

[@kashmoney8697]

My ex boyfriend recently passed away (he was married also) but I was told by mutual friends and family that he was still talking about me saying how he regrets losing me 🎯💯 goes to show he did have regrets …didn’t realize it till it was too late though

[@Harry-o6g]

Thank you for this

[@belindaking1362]

Yes i was working hard, studying for a degree and all he did was complain at me.. The relationship was a joke with him, all he did was make me cry. 😊😊😊😊

[@spirituallyfreewithree]

Dealing with this now with my husband. I want out. It's exhausting.

[@kaymoody396]

UR AWESOME U HELP ME IN SO MANY WAYS THANK YOU ❤❤😊

[@nickinicolesmith9372]

Took me years of therapy but im glowing up now. I took my heart back!.... Back from every 💔.. the resentment i get from them is crazy.. accountability is very important. I took accountability for accepting n even getting even out of anger ( ladies it doesn't work)

[@GiM-ef7ky]

This is why he is able to give a dialogue on this subject. 🎉

[@danielle2247]

I am here listening to this because I'm the good girl and I think he fumbled me and I can legit see him struggling with it and I was wondering if I was just seeing things

[@triamoore2931]

Gives me manipulation vibes knowing what people want to hear, saying it and playing a different angle speaking from a experienced place portrayed changed behavior and ego a real good talker 😅

[@JaxnVideos]

NEW BOOK: From Heartache to Happiness(E-Book & Audio Book Bundle) www.derricksvip.com/offers/Y9uxoLoR

[@MargaretPen]

Oh well, it's good to know that guys will always remember so they don't rake for granted what was given with love. May the Lord our God heal our broken hearts and give us the strength to seek for his presence and let go.

[@DeeDee-zd9ni]

Your videos has heal me….💥👏🏿

[@devinwilliams5334]

Good Message! 💯

[@naureenwalji485]

my ex is regretting it as we speak and has turned to God.

[@simpleliving4205]

Thank you Derrick !!

[@loisendiritu6575]

This doesn't apply only for marital relationship, it applies also to any other relationship with a human being.

[@brigettecannonssorandomsho5918]

STRAIGHT FACTS!!!!

[@SleepyPariah]

Regular men grieve. But what about narcissistic, users, abusive men? Do THEY grieve?

[@mrslady90]

ironically grief actually plays a part in that narcissistic characteristic that they have. They can’t cope with whatever happened to them.

[@LonjeMarie7]

No they don’t. They deny gaslight deflect responsibility, and then they replace ,and then it’s rinse, wash and repeat.

[@kiarisby2471]

Yes, but their grief is different. They grieve the benefit of the good woman. They don’t grieve the fact that they hurt and damaged you. The grieve the access they had and the benefits (love, service, status etc.).

[@katricepittman8209]

Brother Derek tha thank you for the great message that you are saying to all men and women tell me the truth 100 I am

[@LonnieCook-cd9kg]

You are speaking the God's honest truth.

[@sybilamuta6417]

BLESSINGS to you!!!God bless you.

[@leticiamoss4520]

Truth spoken!

[@StrengthNLove]

Woman love you first

[@latashahumphrey769]

You have an amazing topic very amazing

[@RobynMixon-g4u]

Wow! A Great woman is still out there...

[@lifecoachtenirabyrd5976]

A vision board woman..❤ yesss 🔥🙏👑

[@Cecille_the_one]

Great message ❤️ Thank You

[@candacewilson6807]

He broke me when I was very young and wouldn’t speak to me or looked at me since. So I never was told why. The last thing he said to me was cruel. After attempting to stop my pain, I repressed the memories. 43 years later, it all came back, including the pain. I reached out again, to ask why, and he blocked me. Still, no answer. So, I wrote a book about the experience.

[@daniellehalo6923]

So sorry you went through that.

[@candacewilson6807]

@@daniellehalo6923 -Thank you for your words. I am still going through the healing of it, since I repressed it for so long, I never allowed myself to grieve from it until now. So imagine healing from a break up that happened when you were 16, when you are 60!

[@sweetie932]

Question, for this very reason; is it best to unfollow or not have any ex on social media? 💕great video 👍🏾

[@MrY3P]

Awesome information and so true

[@MsTrevia2010]

Yes, OMG, yes!! Please take heed!

[@Suzette-d9k]

My friend studies kaballah, I am Christian. I was baptized born again 43 yrs ago, he's studied kaballah 38. He told ne he'd study Christianity for 6 mo if I'd study kaballah. I agreed, but he never set the computer up foe me to study, and I'd ask him to read the Bible from pg 1 to the end, asking God to Open it, to unfold the code to you. No one can tell you what's in the Bible but God. After you know what is, you share it, and those who hear are of like mind.

[@DianeWilson-b5p]

Real Talk 🙏

[@christineribone9351]

6 ft 5" !!!

[@darlenerush5389]

Thank You Derrick ❤❤❤

[@ImbueU88]

Yes, you better speak from experience!! Thank u

[@SharonShepard-sf3th]

Continue to do the good work.

[@brimoore1982]

Thank you. 💜

[@darlenerush5389]

Love You Derrick 💓💓💓

[@Angel-lm6cj]

Do narsaccist men have a conscience?

[@janherlihy8301]

Brotha You STILL have so much more to learn

[@YazminM2222]

Thank you!

[@ms.tj_love]

Let me find out you intuitive too!🤔

[@SR-hf3hx]

I fumbled a great woman...and everyday pray i can find a partner half as suitable as she was. And she wouldn't even let me apologize

[@nadiaconseillant8616]

My body perceives it as a reality. I see no future in the burning bed

[@SophiaParker-mc3kg]

That’s me 🤚🤚 don’t recognize me at all!😢

[@cindyvazquez4333]

Wow you know peoples pain in their emotions🙏🙏❤

[@ahmedlago6651]

Yes u are correct, I lived it

[@sheilablanton4894]

Ty for this message 👍

[@BrendaOsak]

Is this why my ex kept coming back for years, because of guilt or just because I kept taking him back? Was he just using me when he had no one else?

[@smithsonna035]

Kept coming back because u chose to play 2nd option and not 1st priority

[@madelinemaldonado2717]

I feel so hurt and lost 😞

[@browneyes9507]

It gets better hold on

[@berthaadepa3143]

You will be fine Its just a matters of time

[@KatieForsythe-rl1xp]

Thank you ….. just thankyou ❤

[@Keana43]

Tell'em D❤

[@pallana3701]

I love DJ.. I always have ❤ 😊

[@sheilak2835]

✅ Absolutely right!

[@dwilliams5700]

Amen Derrick ... Amen 🙏🏼❤

[@feeldevine9641]

Love this ❤