The Halo Effect - How Attractiveness Flows using the Psychology of Attraction

The Halo Effect is a psychological bias where we give a positive or negative weight based on how people, brands, or things are associated with other things.
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[@hauntedwafflecake]

About the looks example, it also goes the other way around. If you hear of someone as a nice, caring, inspiring person and don't know what they look like, you'll be inclined to imagine them as a good looking person, and also to think of them as more attractive when you actually meet them. But it also has a lot to do with someone's personal bias. If they've been treated poorly by good looking people and now see it as a bad thing, it'll have the opposite effect on them.

[@hairlesscatgiftbasket5600]

i believe the opposite is referred to the "horn effect"

[@870MH]

so basically: be attractive don't be unattractive lol

[@Wheebzee]

It's really how it is in real life

[@sasmidaily7843]

That so brutal but its the reality

[@LongCOVIDAdvocator]

Pretty privilege is real

[@gatoloco3949]

Biology and nature really likes to play a sick joke on us. Ehh real life doesn't have happy endings after all.

[@sharpshooter--00]

i guess im going to be single for life lol

[@raymondbyrd3393]

Obviously looks do matter.

[@heroesp100]

Looks ARE what matter. Take the red pill and you'll realize this. When it comes to getting woman, looks will always win. Check out WAW1.1 by FACEandLMS.

[@evilmorty1440]

If you don't dress well, you are fucked up.

[@belladesa91]

It shoulndt. Judge persons on wht they think, not dress

[@joshwilson5456]

belladesa91 the video literally explained that it is hard wired in our brain to rate people on their attractiveness

[@belladesa91]

That's why i pref staying with a cat rather than a human..

[@LOWTlERWULF]

Being attractive is playing life in easy mode

[@OnMePro2000]

Facts

[@Messp]

It’s annoying

[@ShawnJonesHellion]

being somewhat a good person isn't that hard. a persons body an face warps to what the inside is. ugly people have it very easy too. 👍 they dont have to work out, or eat right, or stop eating, or bathe, or move from the tv ever, or try to learn how to look good (which obviously is very hard an people get paid mad cash to teach these skills an do makeup . these people often just sit in front of a tv eating tasty foods from the womb to the doom. if thats not the eaisest thing on earth then i bet you got a dog in the tv arena

[@Gaminboi2864]

@@ShawnJonesHellion I would disagree, because just because you aren't attractive doesn't mean you shouldn't take care of yourself. In fact, neglecting self care can really effect your mental health, and when people treat you as an ugly person definitely doesn't help. These feelings can cause the person to feel self hate, develop depression, or become horrible people to others. Being attractive doesn't prevent a person from being bad though, if they are often given the benefit of the doubt for doing bad things, they may also become narcissistic in nature and may believe themselves to be more important than others around them. Being attractive will allow people to like you from the get go and give you advantages, making life easy, but it won't make a person good. Self-care and understanding is important for everyone for people to live life to its fullest. But that's just my thoughts.

[@mizachop1620]

Assuming anyones life based on appearance is the exact thing he talked about in the video. It goes both ways.

[@jammiedodger5243]

I can confirm some of this is true, I am a nurse and in my personal time I dress quite casual and don't make much of a effort apart from being clean. The way people treat me in comparison to when I'm well groomed and in my nurses uniform is night and day. I am discounting patients in this comment, because obviously people are going to be nicer if you are responsible for treating them. The difference is astounding. X

[@jjjjjj192]

Text me some pix. LoL.

[@kobinsadvance]

Balance is the key. Perfect!

[@Fonch117]

Beauty and the Beast isn't the best example, friend. In that movie the handsome dude was the villain (Gaston) and the ugly dude was the hero (the beast)...

[@HendraWijayaDjiono]

I though the same with you, then found your comment :)

[@Noctis59]

Fonch Z the funny thing is that the beast turned into a handsome man.

[@nattuesday994]

But the people admire Gaston, the handsome dude, follow him to kill an ugly rich dude (the beast) just because he want a pretty girl (bell). In the end the ugly rich dude turn handsome and blone so people start to love him. Greatest example

[@verynormalusername]

Fonch Z yeah but at the end, when weve decided the beast is “good” and worthy of it, he becomes handsome

[@wisdom-for-life]

Hey buddy. Good video! We see what we want to see. Keep up the good work.

[@MOONCAT666]

When I was running my business I mainly did face painting for kids at public events or parties. On the odd occasion I painted with someone alongside, the public tended to queue up for my lesser skilled team mate more than me and rarely I even got 'off' looks from people in the queues. When it was like that I tended to give the element of surprise each time I finished a painting. I can only assume they thought my better looking teamate was more skilled 😔

[@Benjumanjo]

Attitude and clothes make for a bigger difference than looks. A good looking asshole is not nearly as approachable as someone average who wears a kind smile.

[@whitegoodman7465]

@@Benjumanjo Those help tremendously but nothing gets your foot in the door like good looks.

[@Benjumanjo]

@@whitegoodman7465 No woman will make conversation with an asshole just because he has a nice jawline.

[@Namnamnam93]

Man, I stopped commenting but still watching. Congrats on A million subs. Your videos are always informative keep up the amazing work!

[@GetPsyched]

Great video! The Halo Effect is something I looked at on my psychology youtube channel GetPsyched a couple of weeks ago. Its actually a facinating phenomena. Its also pretty scary how the halo effect influences most aspects of our lives, from our music interest and even how we vote in elections. Thanks for another brilliant videa!

[@josejr.rivera553]

Ohh I'm a psych student and your channel helps me a lot! Thank you! 😊

[@concepcionledezma5027]

It's a piece of reality. We can control how we appear through how we choose to dress and groom ourselves.

[@ITIsFunnyDamnIT]

Yes that helps, but only to a certain extent. If you're really ugly it's not gonna matter how nice you dress.

[@DeanRendar]

how people wield their perceived sense of desirability in public and in front of me says a lot to what I watch our for. Being manipulated for whatever means vs being straight up told truth intent will never compare as far as virtue is concerned.

[@Joelolski]

The Halo Effect is a cognitive bias that makes specific positive traits positively influence the overall evaluation of a person. It's not necessarily attractiveness that is doing the influencing, which you make it seem like in your video. Just wanted to point that out.

[@ContinualImprovement]

This reminds me of the Beyoncé song.

[@aniyahlawrence8356]

Continual Improvement this reminds me of my sister. Which I’m pretty sure is named after that very song...

[@Kian_Nichol]

Halo 3 confirmed

[@terencereyes696]

Short but very loaded and concise video!

[@jwalk318]

I just heard of the halo effect for the first time today and your video is the first I decided to watch about it. One thing you didn’t mention that I’m wondering about is if our judgment of attractive/not attractive and correlating non physical attributes is something that’s human nature or is it a learned unconscious response to observation of parents, peers, media etc.? Because even though I just learned the term for this, I’ve certainly noticed the truth of it, and the effects of it on most people. However I’ve also noticed that some people aren’t as easily influenced by people’s physical appearance as others. For example my adult child who’s on the autism spectrum would have strong opinions about people when younger and still now, that she either liked or disliked based on things like a teacher she didn’t like had “dark” eyes. This came up because I thought two different teachers were the same person, they looked very similar, both very attractive and it was the first few days at a new school. So I was trying to get her to explain to me which one she didn’t like. So I asked what colour eyes the other teacher had? She said they were “both brown”, but the one she didn’t like had “dark eyes, like more angry.” I suppose you could argue that maybe the kinder teacher was therefore more “physically attractive”because of her outward, kinder eyes. However that’s just the only specific example I can think of. She’d also automatically act either more comfortable or less comfortable around different people within seconds of meeting them and it would often surprise me because many of the people she’d immediately like were the people most would judge as not physically attractive at all! I think I just answered the second part of my question. People can appear more or less attractive depending on their personality or even mood, especially over time, and it varies among people who might be more sensitive to seeing a bit deeper. However it still doesn’t answer if this effect is human nature or nurture/cultural brain washing for lack of a better term. Western culture is very obsessed with physical appearance. I wonder if this effect is as profound in other cultures, particularly ones with less exposure to media?

[@ygmjphpoaifbmidhkmg]

Handsome is not a look, its a way of life and I live handsomely

[@LittleLulubee]

I completely disagree when you said less attractive people are more likely to become smarter, be kinder, study harder, and be better people. That just sounds like a judgment against attractive people. The only attractive people who obsess about their looks and use them exclusively to get things are the shallow ones. And the ones who judge them based only on looks are also shallow. I've seen countless examples of attractive people who were kind, good, smart, studied and worked hard, etc. Their focus was on something deeper than their looks. So there are both kinds of people in both categories.

[@lelouchlamperouge5910]

This is in general... You can't talk about each people in the world, they are more than 7,000,000,000.

[@LittleLulubee]

Where is the proof that what he said is generally true?

[@lelouchlamperouge5910]

I only know that the better looking women aren't the most frendly. This is not always, obviously. This isn't to take it badly, I'm not so ugly myself, I have a lot of suitors.

[@LittleLulubee]

Some attractive women are unfriendly because they have many men try to pick up on them every day, and some of those men are very rude, so they get tired of it and put up a wall to deflect unwanted attention (for the record, there's NOTHING wrong with respectful men picking up on women, I'm not saying that at all). And some attractive women may seem unfriendly because they've been treated in an unfriendly way by less attractive women who are jealous of them. So in both cases, that's understandable. However, there are many attractive women who are super friendly. I don't think friendliness is related to how attractive you are.

[@kobinsadvance]

I bet you are good looking @LittleLulubee

[@drummerhere]

Judging a book by its cover.

[@belladesa91]

That's why humans are stupid

[@themilliondollarbaby]

Its usually okay to judge a book by a cover. An attractive girl normally likes to play hard to get, and normally deals with more men than unattractive girls. Therefore, the attractive girl has a higher tendency to ignore your texts, ignore your hangouts, or just be a general bitch. Not saying all attractive girls are like that, but don't be surprised when an attractive girl starts acting entitled, because you would have seen it a mile away.

[@denisdenak]

@@belladesa91 it's not stupidity, just natural selection

[@belladesa91]

@@denisdenak that's why human race has got shittier and shittier. Ur comment proves my point, today's humans have no soul. Keep ur good looking but shitty inside humans for yourself

[@belladesa91]

@@themilliondollarbaby that's not a good reason to act like a bitch. Men get tired as well, not just women

[@mynametrong5508]

Therefore you should remember to dress nicely and take care of yourself.

[@ShinyJarachi]

mynametrong Ye buddy.

[@ceaser8999]

What if you’re ugly

[@coconutthepeanutcoco9291]

No. Terefore you should just be yourself.

[@Lordani66]

You are an idiot.

[@RedPlaystationController]

No. All this means is that evil people get a pass simply for looking good. This means we should treat good looking people worse to restore balance.

[@meganalves9967]

I do have to say this is true I have people helping me constantly when I’m out from holding doors to paying for my coffee & I have never gotten any tickets when I’ve gotten pulled over if I’m with my man though I don’t get the same privileged treatment. My man has made comments that it’s bc females get preferential treatment vs males

[@ezra5514]

It's both

[@Robot404_]

How to not attract a girl: reveal to her that you spent hundreds of dollars learning how to make a girl attracted to them. Learn all the tricks you want, and you can use tricks to get people infatuated with you, but ultimately you can't get someone to love you. They have to do that on their own.

[@Dragoman686]

So unless you won the gene lottery, you're screwed?

[@Robot404_]

​@@Dragoman686 Gene lottery has nothing to do with someone loving you. Everyone is going to be old and ugly someday. Gene lottery can help when it comes to hookup frequency, but ultimately conventionally attractive people have the same amount of difficulty, if not more, finding a long-term partner. Really it all depends on personality and the quality of a boyfriend you are, how you treat your partner, etc... to whether or not the person who has agreed to go on a date with you, meaning you're attractive enough, becomes a long-term loving relationship.

[@MikeOck88]

@@Dragoman686 Yes

[@Dragoman686]

@@MikeOck88 great. Good to know. I will know kill myself with my own self loathing.

[@anthonywe2878]

@@MikeOck88 blackpill is real

[@allesgutnatur]

Theres just one thing and its the ego and the ego is fear based. And now your ego wanta to control everything. So you learn about halo effect and so on. Be aware of that

[@chrispettie1989]

If they dont know they like you then how does it help? (In the context that you want to date them. My reasoning here is that if you date someone you like them. I personally cant be think about someone like that unless the attraction is known and mutual.)

[@eddwiceestivene8711]

Nothing beat first impression 💯💯

[@MrCaesar001]

Great video. Short and clear ;)

[@RigoVids]

Idk if I’m just biased but as someone who often gets complimented on my appearance, mostly for my height, I find myself gravitating towards people irregardless of their physical attraction usually because I find people insufferable if they don’t share the same interests as me, and I find weird nerdy shit cool.

[@mohammadhuzaifa7]

Make a video explaining THE BUTTERFLY EFFECT

[@bradydavis5791]

This video is basically 5 and half mins of proof that unless you're attractive, you might as well go end it.

[@ITIsFunnyDamnIT]

yup, being born ugly is like being born handicapped, because you'll get nothing but discrimination in life and never given any chance to prove your worth even if you are good for something. It's a wonder more ugly people don't just commit suicide, and whats more. No one care about a dead ugly person. People only care if the person who died was killed or killed themselves was a beautiful person. It's just the way the world is.

[@jasontang9192]

im so enjoying on your drawing haha

[@randomuser66438]

It's CGI

[@rakeshraveendra7411]

This is awesome !!!

[@Traveller019]

very nice crisp to the point information

[@stevocanuck]

this is why whenever i see attractice people, i treat them the opposite. all they have to do in life is just smile and they get whatever they want

[@lilaa7851]

I don't treat them badly but nothing special 😞

[@theladyvampire7929]

@@lilaa7851 yup

[@neweden2359]

You see I’m shy and the loner type, but I’m considered attractive by my friends and strangers. This could be a bad thing when trying to pick up girls though. They tend to think I’m stuck up, or believe that I believe I’m to good for them. In parties it’s fortunately easy, since I’m drunk and have courage enough to speak to woman. Usually I’d say 90% of time I get lucky. So there’s definitely perks. But I’m getting tried of parties and one night stands. However, good looks cause unfair judgment. I come home late a few times, and my girl thinks I’m out there cheating. That relationship ended quickly. So we might have it easy when it comes to sex, but when it comes to long stable relationships, it’s kinda of a curse. Also, people won’t leave you alone. Had one girl that made it her mission to change my personality, b/c she thought I was some kind of mysterious bad boy. When in fact I’m just a nerdy guy that likes playing video games. Im honestly thinking of getting a little a fat so people can stop bothering me lol

[@TheresSomethingAboutSherry]

2:00 I think romantic attractiveness happens SUBconsciously, not UNconsciously.

[@Siscon92]

Have you ever heard of chloroform?

[@suja605]

@@Siscon92 haha

[@asstroeongdong-min1709]

@@Siscon92 😂

[@teresemaple4134]

Would this apply to our profile pictures as well?🤗

[@PracticalPsychologyTips]

Yep!

[@Siscon92]

I think you are a nice intelligent person profound person

[@teresemaple4134]

Imouto-moe 🤗🤗🤗

[@Abra_TV]

First impression is POWER. - Anthony Robbins

[@2583060]

lol you bet.

[@osarugue231]

Hey could you make a video about overthinking and ways how to stop it?

[@pumpkinking365]

I've been there, all I did was practice shutting my mind up and not speaking in my head, its not easy at first but you get better the more practice you do.

[@sethfreeman8095]

Maybe I'm weird but when I see an attractive person, I tend to associate more negative traits with them O.O.

[@naythenay9392]

you are so consistent 😃😃😃

[@PracticalPsychologyTips]

Consistency is a key to trust :D

[@justinmiller6493]

They taught us this in social psych

[@janikamahmud9121]

Perfectly done. just a little bit slow while you speak please, it will help your messages to deliver smoothly. thank you

[@bluechucks8666]

Can’t wait to get some money , so I can Buy your course

[@broadwaynicky]

Great video

[@naythenay9392]

Frostymane you couldn't have watched the video yet

[@broadwaynicky]

naythenay lmao I’m woke tho

[@randy52000]

I'd say you put the halo on the wrong girl in the thumbnail, but...

[@pentrubarbati]

+Practical Psychology Can you tell us a book that talks about this cognitive bias as i searched and can't find one Thanks

[@beyourself4996]

Hey ! Thanks making of this topic this help me even if am not man I have issues with pick up my behavior... :))) hope have a good day!

[@Juutube989]

4:30 Thats not true. People who dont focus on their look, usually dont care about other people.

[@sebastianmenning361]

Hey dude. I like your art of the videos:) but I have a question: how old are you?✌ your voice is so nice!

[@PracticalPsychologyTips]

+Sebastian Menning 21 since December :)

[@sebastianmenning361]

Practical Psychology oh dude wow.. seen your "make 2018 your year" vid and I enjoyed it. I will try to make some things you said:)

[@nahidadabi2154]

Thank you

[@freshinformation9744]

Video is useful - well done

[@TheSchakron]

What do you use to create your animations?

[@kezmenflowers8691]

Take this into account and remember how well received Ted Bundy and Richard Ramirez were because they looked attractive and had women willing to marry them and even fighting for them to get out. There were women even defending them but put a guy like Quasimodo there and he can be innocent and they would want to give him the electric chair. Life has really turned me cold.

[@liamcrofton1051]

Love your videos can you do one on teens and high school

[@PracticalPsychologyTips]

Elaborate? What other kind of content would you like to see? How to get a girl/boyfriend in high school?

[@liamcrofton1051]

Practical Psychology ya

[@alvinvaldes5034]

Practical Psychology YES Pls.

[@liamcrofton1051]

Practical Psychology this is so awesome nobody has ever responded before 😂

[@listosity1171]

I watch every video. You need to pin my comment for once. Love you Practical Pyschology

[@PracticalPsychologyTips]

Cool logo/name

[@cledon.]

Comment something creative first

[@listosity1171]

Cledon "Something Creative" I got you ❤

[@cledon.]

Entivate 💔

[@listosity1171]

Cledon This is a good start to our friendship. How did your day go?

[@anaadacosacositas4362]

Halo effect: exists Blind people: no

[@aleksamilosevic8792]

Blind women care about looks almost as much as women with sight do.

[@bumblebeebee0]

Why the glasses???

[@ITIsFunnyDamnIT]

People want someone who looks attractive, everyone wants eye candy. Sex sells, even if you're not selling sex. Lets face it the good looking waitress, or bartender is going to make damn good tips, because they look good. An ugly person no matter how experienced will be lucky if they get any tips at all. I know some places that will only hire beautiful women, because beautiful women can get a LOT more people / suckers, to spend their money, and it's not just in paying job places either. This also applies to some non-profit organizations that have volunteers. I can think of one in particular. An animal rescue in Los Angeles that will only allow good looking attractive women and men to volunteer for them ( NO ugly and or fat people allowed even though it's all volunteers ) because it's a good business practice help promote their business. Although they rescue animals. They also promote the whole vegan lifestyle and an ugly, and /or fat person does not fit that healthy lifestyle. Even though they are not as bluntly open up front about promoting veganism unless you take a tour of the place. Their main goal is re-homing animals they rescue, and only good looking women and men can successfully do that. Lets face it. Only sexy beautiful women can get lots of people/ suckers to donate thousand of dollars to their organization. If I were running such an organization? I wont lie. I would hide behind the camera ( not in front of it ) and only hire beautiful women and men to promote my business, because even I know that beautiful women can get thousands of people to donate a lot of money. So it does make sense if you're running a business and you wanna be a successful business that really brings in the money. It is true the good looking beautiful women will get you lots of channel views more subscribers too, and they will get a lot more people donating to your organization or business. Nobody wants to see an ugly woman and it's bad for business when you need suckers to donate to your cause.

[@jisatsu25]

so you‘re shallow, too. good to know but nobody asked.

[@RedPlaystationController]

This is why you should NOT treat good looking people better but in fact worse. Let's restore balance to this rotten society.

[@ennuiblue4295]

Or, just treat people on how they treat you, otherwise it's just triflin

[@mochacart]

Love your vid

[@MrsSoftLifeGirly]

Nice video

[@Rohitsingh_16]

I do it

[@IntelligentInsights876]

We all do it, it's in our nature.

[@FantazyVideos]

There we have it in black and white, good looking people have a better life, why is life such RNG?

[@chrispettie1989]

It seems more like good looking people have a better chance at a better life

[@belladesa91]

Cuz life sucks

[@ITIsFunnyDamnIT]

@@belladesa91 life only sucks if you're ugly

[@belladesa91]

@@ITIsFunnyDamnIT Thanks Sherlock. I have already isolated myself from the inferior humans. No need for drama/mean things from them, they don't deserve me

[@MoEyda]

What is this wonderful background music!!??

[@PracticalPsychologyTips]

+Mo Eddy Custom music :)

[@upsidedownChad]

This might be why *Villains cannot* be shown in movies with an *iPhone*

[@monkeykingmo-ri777]

this how ted bundy did most of his murders :p

[@DCMarvelMultiverse]

Lesser looks also means they are not distracted by other people's attention.

[@allesgutnatur]

Look my mind portraits itself as alpha and competitive and beautiful and ugly. So now lets imagine me and my mind act as a supervisor and someone comes in me and my mind have to judge. If hes super beautiful and attractive to my mind then my mind might treat him badly because hes perceived as competition. So this is one example that shows that no matter what you are or ehat you do it can always turn out good or bad for you. Its all relative. It doesnt matter. Relax

[@AshOfficialYouTubeChannel]

Is there any theory similar to Halo effect?

[@bitesky]

that should be 76,612,000 views not 76,612 views .

[@bdhdh27mviewsd93]

At school its too overwhelming people like me alot and people ask me out alot but i feel rude to ssy no so i say yes and i have bad social anxiety i want to be ugly

[@tazmania7785]

Yeah you get away anything and I mean anything.

[@coreharlem]

🎯

[@aeciosxtnr]

I'm brazillian and I like to watch videos in English because there's more content and also I can improve my listening. But this guy is one step more to me, because he talks too fast! looks like he is is a hurry to end the video. 😅 I think the video would be cooler if his speech was a little bit slower. Um salve aos falantes da língua portuguesa, tmj!👍

[@AY-pw7hz]

We don’t have time to listen to a slow talker sorry. Go learn on a different video.

[@belladesa91]

Im one the shy unattractive person but im not smart at all. I can be kind but ppl dont hv patience to know ur personality. This world made up of social media is fake and since i'll turn 27 in few days i think i hv run out of time to change my situation....

[@dagobertduck9507]

belladesa91 It's never to late bro. Don't give up you can higher your chances with a good style, charisma and especially humor. Just make people feel good about themselves but still remain confident and genuine. I know people that are not that physicaly atractive but are so confident they still get all they want ! Take care ♡

[@belladesa91]

@@dagobertduck9507 it is tho. 29 and half now and I'm sick of humans. I'll spend my life enjoying my own company

[@dagobertduck9507]

belladesa91 I don‘t think it is to late!! Im 100 sure that you are a wonderfull person that has been through a lot. You are strong and infinitely worthy! Your value does not stem from whatever anyone might say. It does not even come from what you might think or say about urself. You are worthy for being human. You are living, how sexy is that? Super sexy if you ask me!

[@braedondavies9592]

"The Halo Effect is Bad." "Hey guys, here's how you can use the halo effect on the ladies!"

[@marsollansley9720]

Does the Halo effect only applies to good looking people or things? what if you had a different perspective in life; what if you were grown to believe that attractive people are generally dumb and untrustworthy because you think 'they're nothing but 'ATTRACTIVE' and that they don't have the merit to be trustworthy and capable because you think it's they're attractiveness that only let them far as they've come, and so, you are more inclined to believe that the less attractive person is more efficient, trustworthy and intelligent because you believe they'd be, because they're less attractive and less attractive people are efficient, trustworthy and intelligent because they make up for their lack of attractiveness with hardwork and all that.

[@halomcdonald8406]

My birth name is Halo. Lol this is interesting !

[@Brandon-ie2kz]

Personally, from my experience I think that more attractive people tend to be more egotistical and less disciplined.

[@arnbassbaritone]

Anonymous Poop Oh course. Only idiots think otherwise.

[@mabelidove6813]

Anonymous Pop, I like how you didn't state that attractive people are like that; simply just sharing your personal experience that caused you to create that view of how you see attractive people. I agree(from personal experience) that the majority of people I met in my life that resemble that "attractive" appearance, really are highly egotistical. Not all the "attractive" people I know are like that though, just the majority. I don't judge people on first impression when meeting someone. I just observe their personality and style over time while getting to know them. After a while of knowing the person, is when I collect that observation and file it in my head to know how I view that person. From what I noticed, highly egotistical people are people that feel like they look better than others, instead of being "attractive " making them egotistical. It's just so amazing how diverse each person's opinions are. What someone finds beautiful, another will find ugly. Labeling personalities and appearances have just been build up by what the majority of people think from personal experiences. So that's why we grow up with these labels that are formed by society's influence. In highschool, my first boyfriend was a guy that the majority of people didn't find attractive. Tall, gothic, always a black hoodie, and a wild fro, he looked dark and mysterious, but he was different from the majority of guys in our school, which is what got me drawn to him. Becoming his friend made me see a brighter side of him. Among his friends, he was a comedian 😄. His style and personality was very opposite from mine's, which is way many people were shocked when they noticed us holding hands in school 😂😂😂. Beauty is truly in the eye of the beholder 👍 We can break judgmental labels, but we can't break an open eye. It's not a bad thing to have your personal judgement. We should always consider our experiences and instincts before judging someone, to be on the safe side; and not pay too much attention to society labels, so we're more open with meeting new people. Anonymous Poop, without seeing you in person and just seeing your comment, profile picture, and name, I already have an idea of how your personality is. Your comment shows that you're kind of open with sharing your opinion. Since you mentioned that opinion was from your experience, you show that you mean no disrespect for people who would disagree. You're not fully opened because you dont feel it's necessary to explain a long explanation about your experience(like me 😂lol). So you just speak your opinion short and straight to the point. From my observation, you're personality is reserved, but still kind of open to talk, chill, humorous since you chose a mysterious and funny name. Your profile picture reminds me of Flash, but I can't see clear enough to tell if that's a lightning or an "i" on the character's chest Lol...im being too random and made this too wordy...sorry 👀 I just got interested in this topic and got carried away.

[@hauntedwafflecake]

From my experience as a not very attractive person myself, while attractive people tend to be self centered, they also tend to be nicer and more open, specially to us uglier folk, because they never had to think about looks, were always treated well and are therefore not as judging and not bitter about it. Lots of not so good looking people are bitter and obsessed with being at least better than others so they'll make fun of and put down anyone they can to feel better and will obsess over looks. I have been treated poorly all my life based on looks, but more often than not by people who are just as bad or worse than me in that department. Good looking guys are more judgy, specially to women, but are usually at least not douches. But good looking girls are usually nice because they're not worried about it. Maybe super pretty people are assholes. But most of the above average ones are pretty ok. They don't even think about looks much.

[@mabelidove6813]

Rahvi , it's so sad how shallow some people can be obsessing over looks. Girls who are considered beautiful by society, usually suffer with knowing which people to trust because they attract bad guys and good guys. But some bad guys make themselves appear kind towards the pretty girls, just to win over their body, and once they got what they wanted, the jump over to another one that catches their eye, leaving the pretty girl behind heart broken. So many beautiful people tend to be tough in love because they don't know who is attracted to them by looks or by who they are, so they need to keep their guard up so they dont get heart broken again. But that's just how some people would act because i'm sure many others would change differently after heart breaks. Hopefully over time people become mere accepting over others. Before there was stronger judgement. So if over time, society is less stereotypical towards women, men, races, and religions, then I have faith teat later on in humanity, people will end all this labeling judgement and finally love with pure hearts. Rahvi, if you haven't found someone that appreciates who for who you are as a person, it's their loss for judging appearance before even getting to know you. You know yourself better than anyone else knows you, so be proud of your self-worth by embracing it and not letting society's hate get to you. If you feel really insecure about your appearance, exersize to make yourself feel more comfortable and confident about yourself. Dont exersize for others, do it for yourself 💗. People are more attracted to confidence than looks. But got to pay attention to the difference between being confident and being too confident(being cocky). No one is attracted to egotistical people no matter how good they look. So stay humble and you'll attract good people you can trust and they want judge 😊

[@Brandon-ie2kz]

Mabeli Dove you’re somewhat on point about my personality trait(and yes that is the flash). However, I am currently a freshmen in high school, and a lot of people at my school are very arrogant and undisciplined. Many of the pretty attractive girls at my school tend to either be hoes or care about recognition. Just giving you a little bit of my experience and how my opinion came to be :).

[@lolhai6430]

I'm handsome

[@gabrielecafiero9014]

i got fired so many times for this

[@gabrielecafiero9014]

@fast cash manager or supervisor arguing to me for basic or irrelevant errors while collegues do mistakes much much worse and nobody say nothing to em, i understood when its time to retire since the firsts days of new employment if i see bad situation i leave for first in this way i avoid the annoying manager bullshit talks

[@gabrielecafiero9014]

@fast cash if i work with woman is much easier to get in trouble, i recently worked as food and beverage and i quit at second day, manager told me that everyone should share tips and in the second day i worked with a waitress didnt share nothing plus i was just standing on my own doing nothing, i informed manager i quit and i went home, working with woman is a pain in the ass they talk bad about you everything you do with manager and supervisor and they get influenced of their opinion and after a while u are forced to quit or for your own or by firing

[@gabrielecafiero9014]

​@fast cash i am unemployed in my last job i was a baker and of course it have been screwed up after 4months only, even though i really cared about it. the only job seems they let me do is the kitchen porter, for the simple reason is a shitty job nobody wants to do and because i stay on my own, is hironic how certain people cant even speak a proper english but they get involved in management roles while i am always the bad guy everythings i do, and still hironic how all of them are much more attractive than me, male and female

[@IntelligentInsights876]

I start work on monday so

[@neftaliriverajr6767]

Now you understand why incels are describing about society praising chads and Staceys and Downgrading others who don't fit in those physical qualities, society is cruel🤪🤪😲

[@Y2Jerms]

Is there really a big explanation and something called the halo effect? Isn't in just judging a book by its cover?

[@genericchannel126]

OMG LOOKS DONT MATTER stfu, attractiveness is a privilege. Don’t deny it.

[@niara6]

Thats why beautiful girls alway get selected in interviews 🙄🙄🙄

[@vandflaske1]

I think attractive people seems shy and less attractive people are the outgoing ones.

[@hpfusion8842]

Oh shit, i am really kind...

[@AyaMohamed-rf8jl]

I dont know why u were reading in such an amusing way

[@TVC15ohoh]

Hello again. I enjoyed the video but something about it reminded me a bit of some of the videos I've seen by "Academy of Ideas" (AOI). Do you know of them? They're one of the best sources of knowledge, philosophy and psychological insight out there. They and you are my two favorites when it comes to self-discovery videos. Here's one of their most recent videos, I think you'll enjoy it. It's about self-reliance (it's one of their shortest in length.) kzbin.info/www/bejne/hn2zkq2CYtyWra8 I'd be interested in you exploring some of the same topics they've covered - being authentic, the individuation process, the fear of greatness, the psychology behind such things as envy, self-deception, conformity and social justice, among others. They go beyond psychology and into sociology, philosophy and even metaphysics and spirituality. I'd be most interested in your opinion of them.

[@PracticalPsychologyTips]

Very interesting, I'll check them out, thanks :)

[@TVC15ohoh]

My pleasure. I hope you enjoy them and can make use of at least some of their ideas, style and approach.

[@huzayfimohamed8911]

Ok

[@rebelwithoutacause5727]

Shit in a nice wrapping 🤔

[@tazmania7785]

I hate the halo effect it's fucked with my mind one too many times.

[@pumpkinking365]

I've found the majority of ugly people are funny, majority of plain looking people are intelligent and majority of good looking people are nice, perhaps this is how life treats them so they become it? Therefore the majority of us all have a chance & all the victims in life have probably created it all by themselves.

[@Mr.cladmaniac]

Pretty sure you mean funny by their wits not their nose or brows.

[@GreasyOptions]

Bro that’s fucked up

[@monkeykingmo-ri777]

its true though

[@hrdkorebp]

I wanted a Valium addiction because Eminem had one.

[@grantslife]

Profiting off of other's insecurities is not attractive at all.

[@小咲小咲小咲]

incels were right

[@thehoneyeffect]

Big up to all the ugly people out there ! ❤️