The Hard Truth About Commitment: Why Narcissists Never Choose You

[@kattrinaj6575]

Thank you

[@Milwaukeelisa]

Why won't you choose you?? Oh, SNAP!! Never truer words!! I was scared to death to leave for Texas. Truth is, I'm down here living my best life and I feel great doing it!! It's like I had a lead blanket super glued to my back for a long time and it was suddenly removed! He had the nerve to keep calling my sister, asking if he could come visit. Hahahaha yea, right! Nobody told me hell froze over ..... 😂He doesn't know this side of my family. Not even their last name. Good luck finding the place, Slick Nasty! For me, the hardest part was getting free from the trauma bond. The constant two steps forward 4 back was exhausting but I kept trying and one day, I just kept going. I had help though. My family finally seen what he really was and once that happened, my removal came swiftly. Still love your videos, friend!! Keep up the wonderful work!! Xxx People need you!!

[@RawMotivations]

Thank you. Would love to help you on your healing journey. Check out this video to see if you connect: www.rawmotivations.com/breakthrough

[@georgewatts6790]

I did the same thing but I wasn’t married but dating

[@ElleryRobertsJr]

I need help . Im the narc husband how did you do it ?

[@RawMotivations]

Hi there, I started getting honest with myself. Start your journey here www.rawmotivations.com/breakthrough-call-for-men

[@anitaaustralia]

How did you become aware of yourself? Did you always know something was up with you?

[@gwendolynwehage6336]

There is no change in our hearts unless Christ changes us. When we repent (change our mind), we confess our sinfulness and desire to be changed by Christ. We can only be committed to righteousness if we have the Holy Spirit living in us. Even those who do not cheat on their spouses are not committed even though they never commit adultery, adultery is in their heart, in the sense that they prefer themselves over God and anyone else, this is a form of adultery to God. When God makes us one in marriage we can never be alone again. When one person leaves there is a sense of loss that cannot be filled with anyone else. The more God changes our heart the more we hate sin.

[@phoenixrisin2269]

Narcs are anti christ. They can’t be helped

[@unomeecj]

I really, really, really want to send this to my husband's messenger, but I think he will just see the title and turn it off.He won't even listen 2 minutes... He's so deep in the muck that he's fooled himself greatly, and I don't want to turn him on to this page

[@michelles2715]

Sounds like you need to respect yourself more than you need to respect the marriage. The marriage doesn't deserve respect.

[@caroleminke6116]

Plz don’t but trust yourself to get out & go no contact because that’s what his wife had to do… the choice is his

[@martarousselet6432]

Telling him will just make him step up his game. Nothing in there for you. Just leave a serial or serious cheater.

[@Caroline-up8nl]

Why bother having a partner and getting married… terrible 😢

[@ThatgirlRoG]

A deep seated, pained hatred for the person, place or thing that broke his/heart the most..and seeing someone love, care, and want them in the purest form gives them an opportunity to make this one person feel that exact same pain…I assure you even when you find them out or try to expose them, their actions toward you are never personal..it’s all to see the part they miss most about themselves get destroyed in you and to find out what the person, place or thing that destroyed them must have felt. They give power to them/that because it was able to affect them so deeply and they don’t understand why it happened or what they did wrong so instead of forgiving they live life intentionally damaging people and validating there behavior because simply put they have a “it happened to me..🤷🏽‍♀️..get over it”…Whatever you do don’t be mad at a lost, damaged soul, to be picked by them attests to your beauty inside and out.

[@kristinm2577]

I can't love that enough. I just healed a little more just reading that. I had to screenshot it because of the naked, profound truth of it!! Thank you!!! I know he had childhood trauma and he projected that all onto me and countless others!.

[@kristinm2577]

​@@ThatgirlRoGmy comment was to you!! ❤