The hardest parts of living in Japan

[@RachelandJun]

Also, the lack American style cupcakes brings me great distress.

[@garlandnight9130]

Bull. As long as you eat everything with moderation it is perfectly fine.

[@frogradar]

^aggressive.

[@XSebi0815]

1. you two can open a cupcake store in Tokio 2. name it "2 broke girls" 3. ??? 4. Profit

[@candicehoneycutt4318]

Who needs to be slim when there's cupcakes??

[@lizsmith247]

lol

[@DaveyGranger]

In the U.K. Everyone hangs their clothes out to dry! Not many homes have dryers, and when it's rainy (which because it's England, it is ALWAYS) we just hang it up inside! I always assumed that was the same everywhere! Interesting to learn little things like this!

[@willywonka6384]

In Portugal is exactly the same. I know very few people who have dryers. I think we all prefer to hang them out lol.

[@TheVincentLoo]

Nah in the US buying a washer typically means bundling a dryer in there as well, so most families have both washer and dryer. If you have one, might as well use it right? I just don't like the fact that clothes shrink, so I hang my shirts out to dry instead

[@jyllian3990]

Everyone in America has a dryer. To see clothes hanging outside would be extremely rare.

[@mrs.garcia6978]

Where I live in the US everyone hangs their wash out.

[@jyllian3990]

Jamie Garcia Where in the hell are you living?

[@teraphIl1000]

Finding out that they don't have subtitles IRL was the hardest thing for me.

[@FryingBerries]

Best comment on the internet LOL

[@person2.022]

+

[@indiecloud100]

love love love your profile pic

[@culwin]

I prefer dubbed

[@saami9606]

loooool

[@EddievanderMeer]

I arrived in Tokyo just a few hours ago ^-^ Going to rewatch some of your videos to know what to do haha

[@MCShvabo]

Good Luck!

[@ShonaSaurus]

Have an awesome time!

[@johnvaldez8711]

eddie love your covers man!

[@daffo595]

Are you gonna collab with joey again??

[@Linusmama]

I hope you had a great time in Japan

[@lemoncravings]

I hope you make a video about the different types of apartments in Japan or tips for apartment hunting or how difficult it is to own a house in japan. (prices)

[@FunSizeMagic369]

They've made a series on Japanese houses, not sure if that's specifically what you're looking for, but it's a start.

[@lemoncravings]

+Randi Kelly yeah, they did.. ;) I've watched that and it was awesome but not what I was looking for. It was a series in partnership with a company. I wanna know the other options and their prices. ^_^

[@Obbliteration]

They already did that

[@lemoncravings]

yeah, but I want them to feature more affordable apartments and what they think is the best kind. ^^

[@bobbiusshadow6985]

hello there

[@chefimnetz3]

I find it kinda funny that some of the "problems" are totally common in germany. We hanging out our clothes too.

[@94Chiko]

yes, because it's cheaper!

[@Riomy13]

Yes. I guess that germans would have it a bit easier since our mentality is more similar to japanese people. Maybe that's also why we get along pretty good.

[@chefimnetz3]

Thats true. I am currently 17 years old and want to visit or maybe live in japan but it would be so expensive :/ I hope I can get enough money after studying.

[@TheFalloutBunny]

haha thats what I thought too :'D most of these things are totally normal here too. I live in Berlin and I dont have a car so I walk a lot or take the trains everywhere. I hang my cloths on a drying rag outside in the backyard and I am used to dress professionally when I have important meetings and stuff. I have to cover my tattoos and look businesslike ^^ the only thing I really do worry about considering moving to japan (and thats what we do!) is that I dont get along with japanese people. I dont speak the language so there is this barrier - my boyfriend speaks japanese fluently bc he studied japanology - and thats why I depend on him in several ways. Another thing is that Im not much of an outgoing person and its not so easy for me to make friends. I have heard that there are very often group activities where you are supposed to go out and drink/eat with your co workers and the boss. That scares me actually a lot because I dont like alcohol all that much and I never know what to say when I meet new people ...

[@TheFalloutBunny]

@akagami ich empfehl dir erst mal dein Abi zu machen und dann zu schauen ob du im Bachelor oder Master einen Studentenaustausch nach Japan machen kannst. Im Idealfall finanzierst du das mit einem oder 2 Stipendien oder Auslandsbafög und danach hast du auf alle Fälle was, was du im Lebenslauf für einen potentiellen Job in Japan vorweisen kannst. Es ist sehr wichtig, dass du Kontakte knüpfst, dir einen guten Ruf verschaffst und sehr gutes fließendes Englisch sprichst - japanisch wäre noch besser. Ich seh es grad bei meinem Freund, der japanisch studiert und sehr zielstrebig auf Japan hinarbeitet. Kontakte und ein guter möglichst lückenloser Lebenslauf sind enorm wichtig! Viel Erfolg :D

[@eatyourkimchi]

Hey I like the room you're in...it is so familiar...almost like it is the upstairs of my house... ;)

[@RachelandJun]

+Simon and Martina WOW WHAT A STRANGE COINCIDENCE 😂

[@User80319]

I'm the person who ruined the perfect 900

[@sayorinko403]

Killer AvreeBode same

[@User80319]

We need more people to get this to 999 likes and hope it'll never go up the one point

[@Alis_Grave_Nil]

@@User80319 it's ok, I made it 915

[@RachelandJun]

Thank you Dominika Wakuła for the English subtitles!!

[@RidleyOh]

at 3:52 Sharla says "Yeah! I know, honestly if you think about it like of course 'jeenz'" the 'jeenz' is suppose to be genes, as in DNA genes.

[@patterbay]

Hardest part of living in japan: SHOE SIZES. I'm a US size 10 and I am forever sad. There are so many cute shoes, and my friends are always showing off the new shoes they buy, while I'm here wearing the same shoes I brought with me 6 months ago. If any of y'all know where to get cute shoes for Sasquatch feet in Tokyo let me know!

[@LifelsGreat]

Dang how tall are you lol

[@patterbay]

5'7! So pretty average, just huge feet.

[@KonataTanaka]

+lifeisgreat you dont know anything about real women, do you.

[@simranthapa6480]

Marissa Blake I feel you. I always have to buy shoes from the men section lol

[@iliveforjibooty6153]

Same lmao

[@animock3051]

How annoying is it to deal with godzilla attacks?

[@Jnaga199]

10/10.

[@RachelandJun]

Sharla! kzbin.info kzbin.info

[@locvan1533]

Fff

[@saifis]

Well even the muslims seem to be lax here, I heard of a muslim man eating pork, his logic was, Japan is't Allah's "turf", so he would let it slide.

[@ambersunnyamber]

seriously? that hardly seems right. Do muslims not have a belief that Allah is omnipresent? Despite the fact he's in Japan, Allah would be watching him....

[@simplesmich_]

Well, we believe that Allah is omnipresent. lol. I won't eat pork or drink alcohol in any countries but some people do that instead. It means that they are lax in their believe not the other way around. heheh.

[@saifis]

Lesmi Mitra I don't think the muslim dude meant it literally, he himself may be lax, but I took it that the atmosphere of an religiously lax country gave him the ease to make exceptions in his religious beliefs while being away from home.

[@BTkaykay]

I've lived in Shinjuku-ku for a few years and I feel like some of these I can agree with and some are things that have been changing constantly over the 12 plus years I've been in this country. The one thing I find particularly hard (something that was touched on in the video) is that there are different expectations for 'foreigners' and you can never really escape those. No matter how long you've lived in the country or how much you have absorbed the culture. Nearly every day I see people visiting for the first time struggling with this paradox of trying to 'be Japanese', but never being able to 'be Japanese'. I'm an engineer and I can talk your ear off about nano-tech in Japanese, but I have stopped trying to 'act' a certain way because unfortunately the same rules don't always apply to me (especially in a business setting). In the end you have to embrace who you are and enjoy yourself. You'll earn more respect from others and be happier overall.

[@BugalydoshOG]

The lack of cheese options really saddened me when I lived in Japan, thankfully there was so many other delicious foods to enjoy, Onigiri and egg sandwiches became my new "comfort food".

[@tedcruzforgayrights2045]

Lack of cheese? That might be a problem.

[@dailyblunts3935]

When I crave it I go to Subway and get the cheese chicken sub with extra cheese and bacon added. Idk how subway manages to have the perfect exact same ingredients in japan. The bread is literally the same as back home for me :D

[@BugalydoshOG]

There was no subway in the prefecture I lived in (Niigata)

[@bunnyfreakz]

Takoyaki is greatest comfort food

[@LoyaFrostwind]

I love onigiri and egg, but I couldn't live without good cheese. Living in California is so nice, foodie-wise.

[@Amy-si8vt]

When you go to japan and you realise they dont have subttitles

[@jaiyapapaya]

That's why it's racist. (Video reference)

[@SnoozeTheRecluse]

Still waiting on the English dub...

[@Fizzgg]

I've recently seen so many videos and pictures that make me feel a lot more comfortable. Almost every sign is written in both languages, at least in the more populated areas. I have a feeling a lot of Japanese people also speak some English. With my limited Japanese and their limited English, I really feel a lot better. I don't think it would be too difficult. I noticed the same thing while visiting Mexico. It really wasn't too hard to find some people that at least had some idea about what you are trying to say. I suppose it could make some people nervous, but to me I don't really find it a problem. It wouldn't deter me from visiting.

[@monique10j]

You will be fine, just know Thank you very much, excuse me, sorry, and where is the toilet. That will be appreciated. Also just know where is the accommodation, and how to get there, as well the sights you want to visit, beyond that get off the train at the correct numbered stop(you don't even need to know how the place name looks, or sounds. Easy we self toured, and the people when they commit to helping are soooo helpful. We had a great time, and you would too. Love Japan!

[@Freeeeeeeee27]

LOL!!

[@Silentgrace11]

The first week I was there the walking was rather exhausting, but after awhile I grew to absolutely love it. I even opted to walk 9+ miles a day while I was visiting Kyoto and Nara, as opposed to taking trains to areas in the cities. I actually miss that now that I'm at home again, where you need a car to get anywhere and there's really no means of walking for leisure.

[@Rtcmanga_YouTube_Channel]

I am perfectly prepared for Japan I guess! In Europe's metropolitans you also walk a lot, specially here in Munich. Many people don't own a car either. I am used to carry my groceries. We also don't use dryer here in Germany, since it is not good for the environment and as well bad for the clothes. Also we don't talk nonsense in meetings. It's mostly strictly business. Germany is also well known for rules and we love to follow them for the best of society! :)

[@JonGPxl]

Yep. Many are differences for those moving from North America

[@azakive]

no wonder germany and japan got along so well in the forties :p

[@ginaC53]

If you feel in between America and Japan, you clearly belong here, in Europe.

[@ginaC53]

Well, maybe Western Europe.

[@ginaC53]

haha :)

[@BlueSwampyCraft]

+ginaC53 Eastern Europe too. But I know, you all think we are poor and comunists. But we don't like Western Europe either, just your money.

[@ginaC53]

I don't dislike Eastern Europe, I only put in Western Europe because I think it is more "in between" America and Japan culturally. However, totally willing to be proved wrong.

[@pandaabro5484]

Lol, I just commented almost the same thing. Austrian here and I feel Europe is right in the middle of the two too :-)

[@danielirvin4420]

The thing that I noticed on my visits was how rarely (despite the heat) you see adult males wearing shorts. I couldn't do long pants, except when required on a few social occasions. And there were times when I could tell the shorts ( and maybe also the tattoo on one leg) did draw attention. I was always a little amazed to see guys in black denims and jackets who were able to function outdoors.

[@eaglenoimoto]

Shorts for adult males are considered very poor style in much of the world, apart from holiday resorts maybe (where it's also something people make fun of)...

[@Peorhum]

I understand tattoos are more a gangster thing, only gangsters have them...or at one time. I guess they maybe looking at you with that in mind and judging you.

[@danielirvin4420]

Didn't happen often... and the tattoo can be seen only from one angle. Actually, I had a few positive comments on the tattoo the last trip, but yes, it draws attention. Fortunately it's a cartoon character so is on the "kawaii" side. : )

[@emilycreamer1307]

Really? It's a common young cool guy type of style in America. Very casual, khaki shorts.

[@mafatimadechavez6276]

Tattoo has always been associated with "yakuza" in Japan so tattoo has a bad reputation there. It is also one of the reason why most onsen does not allow people with tattoo to go and have a bath.

[@gw9631]

Yah. Yaaaah. Yaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah. Yah. Oh yah. Yah.

[@stephanieperez2370]

Lmao that's so me when my friend has a conversation with me

[@StonkeyKong]

Gannon Walters rightttt rrrrrighhttttt yah.

[@debrisboy9663]

Yah

[@BharathiChristiano]

Yeah Yeah Yeahs

[@jcoulton4]

I know this thread is old, but for those that are curious: This is something most people do sometimes, but doing it to this extent, might actually be a sign of them getting used to, and developing Japanese habits. Aizuchi is used to let the other person know that you're listening and following along. If you don't do it regularly, then the other person might think that you're not listening or ignoring them. www.fluentu.com/blog/japanese/aizuchi/

[@spiderliliez]

In 2019, I lost almost 4 pounds just staying in Japan for just a week. I walked so much in the autumn weather. I loved it and didn't notice I was tired cos I enjoy my walks.

[@Shintilla08]

lol the walking thing is just a north american problem 😂😂😂

[@xkareninaxgjakova2555]

Noo not really :D I'm living in Europe and It's the same here :)

[@Shintilla08]

I'm italian and we walk around all the time. In heels too! :P

[@TheJinxyB]

@xKarenina xGjakova don't know where you live but it is not the same in majority of Europe at all

[@Kxd5160x]

North America is super huge and spaced out, so it makes sense! Most people definitely can't walk to work because the commute can be 30 minutes to 2 hours by car. China is also really large, but the cities aren't spaced out as much and public transportation there is way more efficient. America's public transport system is pretty crap. Not sure about Canada but I'm assuming its genera

[@kimmyymmik]

I agree Kayla DeStefano, it would take me 3 hours to walk to my nearest walmart. haha

[@larsstoerloes6619]

Just a small PSA to all the girls "addicted" to high heels. PLEASE be careful, learn to walk in them properly - ask an older woman or better yet a dragqueen about it. And try your best to vary your footwear. My sister who is ten years older than me (37) was addicted to heels from she was about fifteen and when she was about thirtyfive her back just couldn't take it anymore. Her back is completely ruined and almost contorted, and she is in constant pain because of it. Ladies, please be careful. Yes, high heels can be beautiful and glamorous, but it is not worth spending the rest of your life in pain once you reach that breaking point. Just thought I'd mention it since high heels came up. - Sad brother having to watch his sister suffer because of her own vanity

[@princessthyemis]

Oh my gosh, that sounds awful, I'm sorry.

[@lunarequine7734]

I only wear heels if they’re like kitten heels. Really high heels can destroy the bone structure of your feet and can result in broken bones.

[@themerovingian4252]

"You wear cleavage to the office" uh no, only skanks do that Rachel.

[@GlitchedLink1]

What about making friends with native Japanese people? Is it hard? I don't think I've ever seen you or Sharla hang out with people who aren't foreigners.

[@animekitty4218]

They mentioned in the video that they both have Japanese friends.

[@RachelandJunAdventures]

We've made videos on ways you can make friends. If you study abroad I think it's pretty easy! Japanese people (and non-KZbinrs in general) tend not to want to be on camera, though, so it's not as common for us to make videos with them. I'm pretty sure most of us stick to filming with other KZbinrs the majority of the time. It's kinda awkward to break out the camera otherwise. Don't forget though that a good half of this channel is already Japanese. ;)

[@GlitchedLink1]

Rachel & Jun's Adventures! Thanks. :) I'm moving to South Korea soon, so I'll be sure to watch those videos.

[@GlitchedLink1]

Den V. Quick question: Have you ever lived in Japan?

[@flameavenger]

+Den V. How long have you been living there?

[@nakami2001]

ネガティブな情報も分け隔てなく提供してくださって大変勉強になります。 常に真摯、正直、親身、フェアネスな姿勢に敬意を評します。 これからも日本での生活を楽しんでください。

[@william160833]

Walking for hours... That may explain the running cut-scenes of anime

[@Akasan]

Camera looking good ladies!!! Great video!

[@RachelandJun]

Thanks!! :D

[@pinkespluescheinhorn9979]

I'm now living in Kobe and the walking distances are much much much shorter than back in Germany. I mean, I do not come from a big city but I can get to the train station in like 12 minutes and my bus station is 170m away. And since I am living up the hill it is kinda handy to take the bus after you bought groceries but I usually walk because it's cheaper... It can get annoying but I can try a different route every day without even getting lost. It's absolutly awesome to just define "I have to go up the mountain and should not cross the big street. Other than that I will get to my home.". Back in Germany I would arrive in Timbuktu by using that method xD

[@DSpaceCF]

It always depends on where you're living in your respective country I guess. Iam also from germany living in an urban area and everything is super convenient and easy to get to. So it definitely differs depending on the area. Congratulations on making it to Japan though, I am kind of jealous, because I plan on moving there after my bachelor as well. If only for a short period of time :)

[@pinkespluescheinhorn9979]

My stay here is kinda my gap year. One year and then I'm probably back in Germany, where I'll miss the transportation system here... and I'm originally from a more rural area, meaning that if you miss a bus an hour long wait is absolutely nothing xD

[@BuzziMuzzi]

Pinkespluescheinhorn XD may I ask you what you're doing with your gap year in Japan for a year? What Visa did you get?

[@pinkespluescheinhorn9979]

***** working holiday visum and I am volunteering at a german school~

[@BuzziMuzzi]

Pinkespluescheinhorn XD how did you get credit of eligibility?

[@petrichorbones]

i really like the topic about the atmosphere of american vs japan like being more polite etc. i feel like one reason i'm drawn to japanese culture is bc of the more polite-introverted style of it where in america, even as someone who's lived here my entire life i have an extremely hard time living in the loud, outgoing culture. making friends for me is really difficult bc people think my quietness is like "snooty" or something and job interviews are really hard for me bc i have to be smiley and upbeat and im just not. at all. idk i think it's interesting to think about how different cultures may be more suited to certain personality types :0 also, one thing im so jealous of other countries is being able to walk. i love walking. i cannot walk anywhere at all even if you don't have a house in america you'd have a car you live in probably just so you can move around

[@crayonjambe7515]

agreed!

[@purenkool2024]

I did not drive in America, NYC.

[@undergroundalcoholsi]

i have a curvier figure, so getting clothes in japan is the worst. i often have to buy large or XL clothes just because things won't go over my boobs or hips 😣

[@thefriendlysenpai]

When I was an exchange student I gave up on shopping after going home in tears D: I would just dish out the extra cash to order stuff online, because nothing would ever fit right even as a US small.

[@BlueSwampyCraft]

Have you tried international brands? When I went to China I had the exact same problem (including the crying part) plus I am also quite tall. I bought some clothes from H&M and Uniqlo which have bigger sizes I think.

[@mayqpat]

hey, i wanted to ask, how hard is it for vegetarians or vegans in japan?

[@mikep621]

same

[@megjoyce18]

You can ask Sharla. She's recently gone Vegan and she can tell you more I'm sure :)

[@LisaMichelle98]

Or Taylor! She has a lot of video's I think :) At least that's what I notice most about her.

[@hanniffydinn6019]

Japan was originally by law, vegetarian !!!!!!

[@crow_fashion]

depends where you live! I lived in a very small city up north and found it very difficult to eat out, even with a Japanese friend to clearly explain my diet to the staff. However, produce in Japan is delicious and plentiful so cooking at home was never a problem. In big cities it's much easier! In Sapporo I went to an all-vegetarian restaurant and in Tokyo I ate at a Buddhist temple that was all vegetarian. Those were two of the best meals I had there because they were authentic Japanese just without the meat. Otherwise I would often wind up at Indian or Italian restaurants because they usually have a vegetarian selection.

[@星的-u9e]

I am Japanese a high school student. I am studying English now . I am living in rural.So,when I go shopping,I drive a car.This is because there is no store and supermarket near my house!! The problem that walking is so hard is only in urban. Finally,I will support you forever.

[@RachelandJun]

Your English is great! :D Thank you so much! Jun and I are fortunate enough to have a car now, too. It's much more convenient!

[@星的-u9e]

Thank you for replying! I will study English harder because you said my English is great! It really encourage me! Thank you!!

[@Cinderbloom]

The "super much walking" makes me a little worried. Could you please make a video on how it would be in Japan with disabilities? Personally, I have pretty severe foot drop, and I can't walk that far without getting a lot of pain. Is things like wheelchairs accepted/common? How do Japanese people view it?

[@acasualyoutuber1075]

i love rachel and sharla colabs

[@Astrobuni]

Yeah, when I was in Japan, my Japanese language teacher gave us Umeboshi to smell. My face wrinkled up so much and I inwardly shriveled up at how bad the smell was. I mean, in America that is fine. But afterwards, when I thought about it, I wondered it if was super rude.I felt SUPER apologetic for it, because as an American, I act... American. Obviously. But since I've admired the culture since I was young, I've picked up a lot of things and mannerisms. (Even when I was there.) I'm like you two, I'm more in the middle, but I prefer Japanese politeness.

[@Astrobuni]

I apologized afterwards if my facial expression had bothered her, she just laughed and said it wasn't a problem. That a lot of people have the same reaction. I tend to be very animated with my facial expressions (as well as writing it to be more dramatic.) I wrinkled my nose, but on the inside I was cringing. :/

[@Astrobuni]

She wanted us to smell how bad it was. It was a very common reaction with all of us foreigners. Some people make weird noises-- mine was a weird face lol

[@Astrobuni]

Yeah, I felt so bad

[@CurtisScoucek8818]

The hardest thing in japan is getting some kind of train I think. When I tried to go to a station in tokyo from the station located in countryside, I had to change train 2 or 3 times and it still makes me confused a lot.

[@straysheep5312]

Nice Vid Rachel and Sharla. I can understand the feeling of returning to your origins. No one wants to stay in the unknown. People simply want to either find a home or make a new home where you can fit in with the world around you. It's really normal to begin to cherish your family after they are not part of your everyday life. You learn what is important in your life and that's simply what it means to experience new things. Hopefully, I get to study abroad in Japan soon!

[@lucasvarela9088]

wait... in North America you don't even hang your clothes?? why having to be so dependant of machines?

[@sinistersparrow3499]

Some people do but most houses come with both a washer and or dryer.

[@Catigizmo]

some people also will have an apartment that doesn't have a washer or dryer and they take their laundry to a laundromat that has a washer and a dryer.

[@MagiaGirl]

If you live out in the country you probably hang out your clothes more than other people do. Also I am sure many Americans are nervous about people stealing their clothes. If Ohio weather was not so unpredictable I would hang my clothes out all the time.

[@RachelandJun]

Well, it's just convenient and time-saving. I mean, why have a dishwasher when you can do dishes by hand? Saves time. Why have a microwave when you can just cook on the stove? Saves time. Why have a stove when you can just go chop up some lumber, build a fire, and then roast your meal?! :D Technology is just about making our lives easier.

[@johnsmith2875]

Often time people don't have room to hang their clothes

[@user-1995-]

サラさんと一緒の動画はなんだか2人の仲良し感が感じられて好き〜〜😄

[@konstantinoschrysikopoulos3522]

She's is like Misty from Pokemon.

[@HoshiChan]

I'm there with you when it comes to missing your family. I'm from Mexico and have been living in Canada for more than a year already and I think that's the hardest part. I only lived in Japan for 6 months and still thought about how far I was from home. Good luck to you guys and best wishes!

[@minibus1351]

take a shot whenever u hear yeah. cannot win this game.

[@krulen12]

minibus1351 Callenge accepted. Visit me at the hospital :D

[@Lz1906.]

I sur*hic*vive *hic*

[@3yearsinjapan893]

I love these videos you guys helped me prepare for my move to Japan!

[@natashalovejae]

I'm wondering about "getting away with things because you're a foreigner" because what about Asian foreigners who look similar to Japanese? Do they get to "get away" with things when they aren't Japanese but they could be mistaken as one?

[@RachelandJun]

From what I've heard, they often are mistaken for Japanese and expected to know the unwritten social rules, and when they invariably don't people get like "wut r u doing" until they realize you're a foreigner. And then they feel embarrassed.

[@sig4311]

A person that can give a good example of that is a baker in Tokyo born in France who's grand parents were japenses immigrantts in France. He came to Japan to be a baker there, and people have often mistaken him for a japanese born person. And apparently the begining ooof life in japan has not been happy fun time at first ...

[@KiryuuTeme2]

roxanne from personal experience I was kinda viewed as half Japanese ....? Like I'm half Indian, half german and I kinda look Turkish because of it but in japan I managed to blend in pretty well except for being tall and overweight but people treated me like that could be explained by being "half" something and half Japanese. I was talked to in Japanese and be treated Japanese and people expected me to act like them. And when my (german) mom and my friend visited me I was treated much more like a foreigner, they suddenly talked English to me more and were more mindful of "us not knowing how things work" (regardless if we knew or didn't). So I agree that looking anything that might be considered Japanese will make them expect you to know the Japanese rules

[@HaileyAngele08]

These videos are so helpful! Keep them coming please. I'm moving to Japan in 3 months.

[@1godlessmonkey]

My gosh, Rachel! You are just incredibly gorgeous!!!

[@darkeraine1]

I just watched your video, and I totally get how you put family on the list first. I've lived in Japan for a few years, too, and I would put missing family as the number one most difficult part of being abroad. I enjoy your videos--thanks for sharing :)

[@libbytwzz2032]

I've been planning a trip to Japan, but I have plantar fasciitis. Would it be weird if I brought my own indoor slippers? With special insoles? Especially like the temples? Thank you! I'm not sure if any of the vloggers have ever mentioned anything about plantar fasciitis?

[@RachelandJun]

Oh, good question! I can't see why anyone would have an issue with that. :)

[@libbytwzz2032]

Thank you! I've been really worried about this. Lol. Since the Japanese culture includes not wearing shoes a lot, I wasn't sure if I should go. Should I bring a note, maybe, in Japanese that explains my problem? I'm not sure how forgiving the rule is for bringing my own shoes. :)

[@RachelandJun]

I think that would be a good idea for peace of mind! I don't really think there's anywhere that would have a problem with you bringing your own slippers. There are certain cases where you might need to step on tatami mats in which case you can only be barefoot or wearing socks, although that's likely to only be a very short period of time (either crossing through a temple room, or moving to a seat if you're in a super traditional Japanese place).

[@libbytwzz2032]

THANK YOU! I feel a lot better. Now to look up a translation for my note. I also want to say I love your videos and Sharla's of course! Maybe one day I can make it to an event and meet you and jun. And sharla and Texan in Tokyo. Lol

[@sahayeda5220]

+Rachel & Jun I heard that some homes provide slippers for their guests to use and switch into?

[@jakeirrahearts6474]

I like the idea that you guys explained how things work in another culture and county, it's best to always know what to do and how to act💛 when your in another new country. anyway thanks you guys for the good advices💛💙 really helpful.

[@lilisart]

It's great I also get to know more about north American culture through these videos.

[@anthonysalas6599]

You girls are great together,good job.

[@BillieFingers]

Walking 20mins to the supermarket and hanging your clothes out to dry is a thing Americans don't do??? That sounds so weird from an English perspective.

[@gwillis01]

Americans are very lazy and individualistic. They do not want to be thwarted or restricted by public transportation schedules. And Americans are lazy enough that they do not walk more than five minutes because they like automobiles so much. This is a trustworthy comment from a lifelong American.

[@shannonbailey6494]

I will fully admit that Americans have the well deserved reputation of being lazy, no arguing that. When I lived on the west coast in a fairly large city i would walk or ride my bike everywhere, only taking the bus when i had too many items to carry on my own. I now live more towards the middle of the US where the closest convenience store is a 1 hour walk away and the closest grocery store is more like 2 1/2. I don't even live in a rural area and the capital city for my state is only 15 minutes away by car.

[@amandawhitney4163]

Americans actually aren't lazy. Don't listen to that response. We are extremely hard workers, we get one of the worlds shortest amounts of annual vacations and typically look for things that assist us as when we are finally done work we are very tired yet still have much to do. I choose not to hang dry my clothes because I like soft clothes with scented dryer sheets. I personally feel it keeps my clothes less wrinkled and stiff and therefore in better shape.

[@Anonymous-cv8uh]

I'm American and I love this channel! It's so interesting to get a global perspective

[@Zukias]

after watching this I feel like the UK is right inbetween Japan & America on all these issues

[@mephistopheles0375]

I am glad, you make these videos about things to know about Japan because I'm moving to Japan!

[@peregrination3643]

I'm good at being quiet and polite, but I'm poor at interpreting social norms and reading "between the lines" when interacting. Considering North American culture is more direct and I struggle with reading these things, and with the individualistic society it often doesn't matter, I suspect that'd be a major issue in Japan. But at least it's obligatory for foreigners to mess up at something.

[@mnickrowe]

I always find culture norms so interesting. Especially when its completely opposite from what your used to. These videos are always fun and educational to watch. Thanks for making them Rachel :)

[@staceyearnshaw9164]

I realise this isn't something you guys would think about but, how difficult would it be for a disabled person to live in Japan? I know you said there's a lot of walking and stuff but I have a walking stick and hearing aids (with possibility of wheelchair being needed). When I was there I noticed a lot of stairs too. Any advise or thoughts would be much appreciated.

[@eaglenoimoto]

Some places are better than others. I feel Tokyo, Yokohama and Osaka pretty inaccessible, especially the subways. Medium sized cities tend to be much better!

[@vickst0892]

Hi! Greg from the Life Where I'm From X channel made a mini documentary on the topic is called 'Travelling with a physical disability in Japan'. It's very informative and well made! Check it out sometime :) I also highly recomend his other channel Life Where I'm from for aditional info and cuteness from Japan.

[@mercurialfox]

I was going to ask the same, what is t like for people in wheelchairs, having to walk so much everywhere. I have a severe chronic illness so this would be impossible for me, but I wonder how accessible it is to get around.

[@N3UR0M4NC3RRR]

I actually think they've done a good job in Japan for disabled people at least from my perspective of only seeing how disabled people get by. I mean, there are ramps, and elevators often for the disabled. Also the grounds are covered everywhere with a sort of "ground brail" I guess to let the visually impaired know where streets or stairs stars and stop or where it's unsafe to cross in the subways. Things like that. Of course the train, subway and bus systems take care of lots of the walking. If you have the money, there are also always taxis at most stations. I just know that I have seen what I thought sometimes was an alarming amount of disabled people in Japan of all types seemingly being able to get by. This was primarily in Tokyo though. I have seen similar things though in Saitama, Chiba, Osaka and Kyoto as well though. I think that's it's probably not as hard to traverse as you may think. Good luck.

[@alexusbeacham8876]

You guys are such a good pair! I love to watch videos with the both of you

[@clearlythuydoan]

Great video. I'm subscribed to you guys because I want to go to Japan someday. I feel very attached to it and I've never been. I blame anime - not that I expect Japan to be like an anime!

[@DSpaceCF]

I was in japan for the first time this year. At least for traveling it is way better than one might imagine. :)

[@MrJapanApan]

I´ve been a anime-fan for about 20+ years now and been to Japan ten times, and i can tell you that if you watch alot of anime it really feels like that. Alot of the culture and manurisms are there (sometimes exaggerated for comical effect though) and so much of the environment/scenery is depicted the same, that you can come to a place for the first time and swear you´d been there before. It´s pretty cool. Also why it feels like a second home to me and why i keep coming back. (not the only reason ofcourse).

[@annikatan378]

Thuy Doan Same!! I've always, always wanted to go to Japan again even though I've only been there once...

[@skatardrummer1]

Speaking of which, one thing that is so weird about anime is that they are super familiar with each other in a way that I dont believe people actually are in Japan. It almost seems like anime is geared towards the western world. I dont understand it.

[@hellopsp180]

Cycling in the rain is awesome! A way to bring your groceries home "dry" is to get a waterproof cover for your bag pack.

[@doms.6701]

Do you have or will you make a video about great places to eat/visit that are not tourist traps. I want to visit where all tourists do, but I do love those hole in the wall places.

[@morganmcinroy4211]

And for the walking I found that we did a lot of it when we visited, but, especially if you are visiting, there are so many cool things to see that you don't notice how much you are walking. Even in the smaller towns there was always something interesting to see. It may be more of an issue when you live there though because you walk the same streets regularly.

[@RaphaelMelozzo]

Congrats on trending in the Leading Woman section. Well deserved!

[@eightbitsify]

Thank you so much for having subtitles in your videos. :D

[@coletanner5193]

Funny you mention the rules. My Japanese friend WILL NOT go to parties where other Japanese are here in America because he feels he cannot drink too much or act silly or get loud if they are there. He said it's almost like being with his parents because they would look down on him quickly and even maybe ask him to quit drinking or quiet down or interrupt conversations if they felt he was not being professional in his conversations! I will say when it comes to anything like programming, finishing projects, etc..he was 2nd to none on talent. That is something Americans don't realize about Japanese, their average is probably our excellent or at least very good.

[@ShiroKage009]

Missing one's family hits a chord with me. I stayed for over 7 years in the US and I missed my family, friends, and all the events that happen around them.

[@yavormoskov]

From a Bulgarian perspective I can say that everywhere in USA we are considered really loud and even not polite. Also the rules of behavior in USA are much more stricter. Something I still struggle with the people's sense of personal space. Even in New York I was told I should respect it more. In Bulgaria the personal space is non existent so there is no way you can offend anybody because they are used to not having one. Walking in Bulgaria and caring bags is still a big thing and probably this is why Bulgarians are usually much slimmer than the average person from England or USA. Also the fast food is not really popular and most of the time people just cook at home so it is healthier as well. It is interesting that a friend of mine from Serbia (we have very, very similar cultures and traditions) told me he could not ever date a Japanese girl because so many social unspoken norms and subtle ways to do things. On the other side he mentioned as a fun fact that people were really not offended by the East Europeans at all because the people in Osaka thought that people from Bulgaria, Romania or Russia are a lot crazier than most of the foreigners from Western countries such as Germany or USA, so the expectations were very different depending on where you come from. Sometimes I still think everything is much stricter in USA, sort of self censorship, and really can not imagine even stricter society.

[@sandramansfield255]

I am American and I agree. as a toddler we are tought about personal space. Always be respectful of other people's personal space. Don't let anyone invade your personal space. Unless you allow then into it. I never thought about this until I read your post. I also think compared to Europe we are more uptight about a lot of things.

[@kerstas10]

@@sandramansfield255 Europe as a continent has loads of diffrent countries and cultures, what in USA consider subttle in the norther european countries would be loud as fu/k.

[@sandramansfield255]

@@kerstas10 wow.

[@gwillis01]

As an American, my opinion is that touching me is a privilege that has to be earned. Keep yourself at arm's length until we fall in love.

[@purenkool2024]

As a New Yorker: “Keep your filthy paws to yoself!” Hate my personal space being invaded! 🥺😡😏 New Yorkers are NOT subtle of respectful at all. It is a tough place. Here in UK people say “sorry” 100 times a day.🤪🤓🤪

[@My_dailyL1fe]

I love both your channels and you ladies are lovely as always

[@EpikLiv]

I'm surprised that you guys didn't talk about the racism that can happen at times.

[@qx4n9e1xp]

That's because racism isn't real. Racism is an antagonizing buzzword used against people just trying to hold on to their learned traditions, in fear of other people changing the way they know the world. Call it social caution.

[@Kairos_Akuma]

@@qx4n9e1xp Racism exist. You hate Asian People because there Asian and call them "Sliteyes" and whatnot? That's Racism. End of story.

[@metaknightex]

Maybe they didnt experience it themselves

[@kessyandro654]

We have transportable drying racks. You can fold them together and just carry them to any room or your balcony you want

[@JAN0L]

I feel like I learned as much from this video about America as I did about Japan.

[@beaukuebodeaux8159]

Amazing video and really helpful! I plan to move to japan after I get my degree which will be around end of 2018 or beginning of 2019 depending if I take more classes per semester. All of your videos have been really helpful and very informative, keep up the awesome work!!!

[@espoppelaars]

What's wrong with carrying your groceries on your bike? (Just wear a backpack for the heavy stuff and put lighter stuff into plastic bags to hang on your steering wheel. It won't get wet in the rain, only you will.)

[@dailyblunts3935]

I've noticed a lot of people here have a special cover for their bicycle basket to protect their things against the rain. :)

[@culwin]

In America, groceries for 1 person can be way too much for a bike. I need a car. Unless I want to go to the store all the time.

[@espoppelaars]

That's because in America they sell huge packages. That's not the case in Europe and assume also Japan... Easily bike-able in that case. :)

[@franciscosariles5048]

Groceries on a train seems pretty common for cities I've lived in like Boston, MA or Long Beach CA and seen it plenty of times in New York City.

[@culwin]

Francisco Sariles Why don't people just get groceries on rollerblades

[@alanadietz1772]

My husband and I are stationed in Misawa and it has been such an amazing experience. But I relate SO HARD to these. Thanks for your video!

[@HAZEL-i-TIGER]

I'm disabled and cant walk very far. What accommodations do they have for the disabled

[@lullemans72]

4:25 i have a very convenient system in my apartment here in kanagawa where two small contraptions on each side of the walls in the room allow for a reinforced aliminum(?) wire to be connected to each side. made especially for hanging clothes during the humid summers for example. really fucking useful.

[@hanafruit98]

Another pro of the walking thing is Pokémon go ;)

[@Obbliteration]

pokemon go is dead already

[@DQABlack]

still see groups playing it all the time in my city

[@shata867]

Correction, Pokemon Go trend is dead.

[@noxiebobo]

Haohmaru HL "I bet if you have a two storied house in USA people don't go upstairs, they drive upstairs by car." That's ignorant and close-minded to say, whether it be a joke or not.

[@TremereTT]

@@noxiebobo Everyone knows, you don't drive upstairs by car, as there are carlifts to your livingroom. Your car get's lifted-up-stairs.

[@Themisssarcasm]

I can't get over how awesome both your hairstyles are omg c:

[@mandas677]

With all that walking it doesn't sound like Japan is very handicap accessible :-/

[@djticson8571]

I don't know how I stumbled across this but this was actually interesting sense I'm currently in Okinawa I've been here for a year now and hearing yalls opinion and experiences of Japan and everything was entertaining

[@guile108]

* watches anime once

[@Gutzle1990]

Watching all your Videos continously since one week, so much fun 😅

[@davidfc9753]

non redhead girl : yeahhhh...yaaaa...mmmmmyahhhh..yeahhhh...,yaaaa.....right yaaaaa....

[@miki1964]

Regarding the groceries thing, if it's a far walk definitely invest in one of those metal carts that you can put a reusable bag in! Or just a bag on wheel (probably not a suitcase though). My local grocery store even sells insulated bags on wheels, and it's those bags that have a set of three wheels in a triangle shape on each side so you can more easily go up and down stairs with it.

[@lemoncravings]

I really like this type of video. I want to visit Japan someday. ^_^

[@CookingLessonsforDad]

That was so interesting!! I bet people there are also thinner because they do not buy any extra food at the grocery store if they have to carry it home. I would love to visit Japan someday!

[@MrTheWaterbear]

I hear there is a sore lack of cheese, as well as rye bread, or good bread in general, which makes me super sad :( Anything European-style like pate or good salami has a scary price tag from what I've seen... D:

[@dailyblunts3935]

Cheese Chicken sandwich in subway is the perfect food in Japan when you crave western sandwiches. You can even add loads of extra cheese and bacon if you want, it's great.

[@alitaschratwieser7976]

There are actually lots of good bakerys, both chains and small family run ones. The French place near me has amazing bread and pastries.

[@Kxd5160x]

Cheese is not native to Asia. Most Asian adults are actually lactose intolerant, so there's not a high demand. It's a very Western thing. You can't expect foreign countries to have all the same foods.

[@alitaschratwieser7976]

+Kayla DeStefano that is true, though more and more people are taking a liking to dairy products (even if many of us even non asians experience discomfort) and there actually is a growing cheese demand and market. Hokkaido cows produce the best milk so the cheese is amazing. and even ic European cheeses are still not so common, processed cheese is actually very carefully prepared and tested and surprised even European cheese experts who came to Japan to test it out. love the kind that melts and crisps if toasted in the microwave

[@danielirvin4420]

Don't worry about the bread, the bread is excellent and plentiful. Cheese though, I understand is a different matter.

[@WeyounVI]

When Rachel really laughs she has the most "xD" face of all time I love it haha

[@ermab85]

I live in a small city in Japan, so I have to ride a bicycle a lot. I have huge boobs, so when I lean over to ride my bike (it's a mountain bike), even modestly cut t-shirts will open up a bit and show cleavage. It's kinda funny watching people's reactions, but I do try to cover them up as much as I can, ha ha.

[@RachelandJun]

+Amber Watanabe haha somewhat similarly, at the gym I go to one of the workers told me to hang a towel around my neck to cover my cleavage when I was on a machine where I was leaning forward and it was mildly visible. Tsk tsk, all that distracting cleavage!

[@freedomfighter2463]

Damn I have a big buldge with desires to see the world and live in Tokyo. Women would come to me and compliment a lot. I usually wear pants and go to the gym.

[@CaptainHamsters]

Marry me

[@Lestrangest]

That fanart of Rachel and Jun at the end of the video is so freaking cute!!

[@GLaDOSandMe]

Hi, I really like your videos! I was wondering if people in Japan act differently when they see someone with red hair to America or wherever. I understand it isn't common but is the reactions positive or negative? I'm just wondering

[@LiquidusSnakeX]

I remember they made a video on this like 1 or 2 years ago. So look for it down the list.

[@elsa_g]

I think they made a video about that with "unicorn" in the title. Something like "what its like to be a unicorn"

[@NotAMuse]

LOL yes! I remember Rachel's video--the title of it is something like, "Being a Unicorn in Japan." It's really good! Check it out. :)

[@jrlemony]

I've been stared at a few times while walking by but that is pretty much it. It is not a normal hair color here and I don't think I've seen anyone with red hair since I moved to japan. It's not really negative, but other than the looks there isn't really that big of a reaction. At least so far that I have personally encountered. No thing like in the U.S when someone would run up and ask the string of questions like if its dyed or start touching my hair :/

[@ButterflyLullabyLtd]

I agree! You do miss your family when you live in another Country. It is really hard. Thanks for sharing this video. I will have to share it with my daughter Melody. She wants to study Manga art in Japan when she is older.

[@Nivrad6Dmanindahouse]

Hold on, taking about dress code thing. what do you guys think for men walk around town with their shirt off just like here in North America in the summer?

[@RachelandJun]

+Nivrad6 Oh, you're not supposed to do that. You might get stopped by the police. :/ I had a friend try to go jogging shirtless and he got sent home by a cop lol

[@Nivrad6Dmanindahouse]

Well I see people do that all the time in Canada where I live

[@aboot2754]

lol that's actually super funny

[@itsBEchannel]

You guys are so helpful!! I plan on moving to Japan in 2018 so these tip videos are lifeeee!!! :)

[@thereilway]

A friend of mine lives in Japan, and she has to have friends from home send her deodorants cause they just don't sell them there

[@bolwerkx]

I love when you two make this type of videos together

[@iwakeupat6]

I'm a little disappointed you didn't talk about standing out as a gajin/foreigner and the treatment you get. Although to be fair it depends on location and places like Tokyo will probably have a lot less of that problem. My boyfriend (who is a heavily bearded white man) told me how living in Japan, he didn't face discrimination but he can tell people were staring/keeping on eye on him and could sometimes sense concern/discomfort when interacting with him.

[@elizabethennoshita8713]

I’m so glad that I’m not the only one that thinks that about family! I’m currently going to school to become an English teacher. I’ve been worried about somethings about moving abroad. This has eased my anxiety🙂

[@aniluvswesties]

:43 Rachael, your American is showing 😂😂😂

[@deagolsdeagols1431]

Just want to let you know I really enjoyed this video. First one I saw about living in Japan. I have no plans but alas was fascinated about this country.