The Help Movie: Date Scene

From "The Help" Movie. All right belong to Disney, Dreamworks, Touchstone Pictures, Reliance Enterteinment, Participanta Media. (I own nothing.)

[@aaliyahgriffin781]

When 11 dollars was expensive

[@thenosieyartist6924]

1960s

[@garethbarrowman8574]

@@thenosieyartist6924 try 60s

[@buttercup141312]

Still expensive to my cheap ass.

[@Jobe-13]

Ikr

[@ajallen9674]

91.60 in 2018

[@tinytt854]

"Sure you dont just want the whole bottle and a straw?" "Excuse me, were you dropped on your head as an infant, or were you just born stupid?" Yep I like Skeeter.

[@keyanna2633]

"Working with a bunch of greasy stinking men in the middle of the ocean" Another line that was good.

[@PioneerGrrrl]

I do too!! Want sequel

[@muncealopez2747]

Me too lol

[@AntiStraightMaleSociety]

They should do a movie on how Skeeter become the woman she is today.

[@10Peter25]

Yup, Skeeter was a straight shooter.

[@mauvebassetgirl21]

The headshake at the end 😂😂Hilly’s husband manages to be so funny for someone who hardly has any lines

[@No_Name6970]

In the maid needs a loan scene he talks and goes "woooooo I'm late bye sweety"

[@jenny-doe]

When Hilly finds out about Skeeters book he says “don’t hit me”

[@jenny-doe]

When Hilly finds out about Skeeters book he says “don’t hit me”

[@FreedomWriter3]

Stuart and Skeeter were doomed from the start. They meet, they hate each other, then they turn around and start dating, then he calls her selfish and leaves once she publishes The Help, which practically means he has the same views as Hilly or he's just scared of what'll happen to his reputation if he stays with her after that. Either way, they were doomed from the start.

[@AndromedaDBlack]

THEY? Oh dear, you must mean HE.

[@19EHF]

I believe in second chances, but sometimes you get it right the FIRST time

[@ellainecabiles]

hmm I think initially they were kinda okay for each other. I mean, he seems like one of those guys who actually like girls like her. She matches him in wit. The problem with him would be that he lacks spine, or rather, he's a man of his time. and skeeter was a woman of another.

[@catarinafalcon7189]

FreedomWriter3 I write a book

[@meldelgado8376]

argell exactly

[@naar1991]

Skeeters' mom is so like my mom, she would be more exciting more than me about dating a guy, lol.

[@annasthinaful]

i'd like to have a mum like that. mine just calls me a filthy whore whenever i was on a date

[@naar1991]

C'mon Peli, you know you're awesome :P

[@19EHF]

She cant help it, mothers love to live out their youth vicariously through their daughters

[@GablesHorse]

+19EHF I think in this case, that wasn't it exactly. She was really desperate for Skeeter to get married in the book.

[@okayyymae7339]

wish my mom was like that

[@jadefire2817]

My husband always says that a person's true self shows when they're under the influence. Turned out to be true in Stuart's case, too. He ends up being pretty much an asshole while sober , as well.

[@danielkoher1944]

Back in AD77, Pliny the Elder~Truth comes out in wine 🍷 Thus en vino, veritas.

[@shelbeepollino6025]

Was Hilly being a good friend by helping Skeeter get fixed up, or did she not want to be embarrassed by her? I can’t decide

[@cgreen399]

Shelbee Pollino After reading the book and seeing movie...I think it’s a little of both.🤔

[@shelbeepollino6025]

Ciari Green Agreed!

[@brir5527]

Well she had been wanting them to meet so I think she wanted to help

[@TheJamieKeely]

Shelbee Pollino Only time she is nice

[@LilyZerep]

🤔 I always thought she genuinely cared about Skeeter's appearance in front of Stuart.

[@lilmeenga33]

Those awful Mexican man shoes lol gets me every time

[@elizabethdiaz7560]

Lol Attacked! I have some hahah

[@karymer7340]

My gramps has them

[@shawneegirl1980]

Lmao

[@oooh19]

they were actually cute but probably not for a date at a fancy restaurant or nice restaurant

[@demolition.]

That One LMAO

[@hayz691]

1:11 I love seeing Hilly's face twist in a flash of anger, like she's about to lose her mind again, before quickly correcting herself.

[@poppyymoore7537]

I think she was just cringing and tried to hide it. To be honest, even if she was a bitch, she was a good friend to her group of little minions a few times.

[@fatehahyusoff3758]

She should have won the Oscar for Supporting Role that year, or at least got a nomination!

[@TheJamieKeely]

NipahMotherfuckers No, it was more of a shocked face

[@xavierbeurre8064]

@@fatehahyusoff3758 over Octavia Spencer or Jessica Chastain?? I think not.

[@cherryberry9468]

What are you talking about lol, that’s just different levels of shock

[@anonymousanonymous4522]

I wanted Skeeter and Cecila to be friends

[@DreamyCityGirl]

Emma and Jessica didn't share a scene.

[@pawcoaa]

@@DreamyCityGirl no the person is saying they wanted Skeeter and Cecilia to become friends at any point. not just in the movie.

[@DreamyCityGirl]

@@pawcoaa Oh now I get it. Thanks!

[@TDW8964]

I always found that peculiar Skeeter and Cecila never formed a friendship, both are outcasts of the social circle they both are connected although Skeeter wants out and Cecila wants in. I waited for a moment that they would come together, but never happened in movie, im not sure about book cause i have not read it.

[@taniamanik2012]

I wanted Skeeter to marry one of Johnny's friends, but maybe she'l meet someone in New York

[@sloops_brain7541]

"You sure you don't wanna just make it the whole bottle and a straw?" I DIED😂😂

[@ameliabee5045]

The entire time, I was chanting "slap him slap him slap him slap him"

[@elisejackson2854]

@JNike facts.

[@foolslayer9416]

@JNike That's why you only punch once. A single hook to the jaw will knock him out.

[@AnsaIthalSaysHi]

That's physical abuse. What would your reaction be if the roles were reversed?

[@Ella_bellacoconut]

@@AnsaIthalSaysHi as a women I agree. Laying your hands on someone is wrong either way.

[@sopopular09]

2:04 that eye roll gave me life!

[@koekkiekoelkastrijder4272]

10/10 for that insult

[@pandaismynickname]

I just love Hilly's husband in this scene. Like "No. No don't you get me roped into this. I'm not apart of this. Don't you make me -Fuck she's looking at me."

[@bibianaguadalupeislasherre9880]

Poor William didn't want to be involved in this mess.

[@Tylenish]

that guy is so hammered not even a hammerhead would get near him and their hammered all the time

[@Jahof20s]

Is it me or does Emma seems a little cute when she curse?

[@ellainecabiles]

Justin Holland yup, she does something with her face

[@luzmadinamunoz6366]

Well she's always beautiful, for sure 😂 but yeah it's kinda weird and beautiful.

[@Pip-ti9xp]

The book is fantastic!!

[@thatsriskybutilikeit]

I'm that person that walks around saying the book was better..haha

[@summertime5582]

A man just randomly so disrespectful in the beginning with anyone is just no good. There is no justification for communicating like that - bad mood, alcohol. I have not seen a decent man doing those things. Of course they were doomed and in real life anyone else would be doomed as well being in a relationship with a manipulating narcissist, who does not really care about your feelings will not lead you to happiness but only into a toxic, vile connection.

[@terrybardy2923]

That's telling a rude date off. Way to go Skeeter!

[@sistagalsistagal8136]

A fantastic part of the movie by Skelter, and quite a useful line: "I'm sorry, were you dropped on your head as an infant, or were you just born stupid?" And he proved that it must have been both 🤪. Sad Fact: All the actors said their parts and characters were very difficult to play and do. They said they were exhausted emotionally st the end of their scenes.

[@topherh5093]

Ohh please, you know he was right.

[@Lioness_Es]

My, my how far women have come. Good for you Skeeter!

[@elenasoto77]

"I feel the hope in your fingers." Gets me all the time 😁😅

[@VelvetGal5]

My sister & I just watched "The Help". It's such a wonderful, thought-provoking, important movie to watch. In the movie, that oil rig guy was a jerk to Emma Stone's character. He wasn't supportive of her writing the book, "The Help". I relate to Emma Stone's character because she likes to write & she treats everyone as equals. No one is beneath or subordinate to her. She treats people with compassion, patience, & she truly cares to listen to them & their experiences. My sis & I loved this film!

[@christinaluna2055]

VelvetGal5 You said it

[@DreamyCityGirl]

Amen.

[@BadAsh915]

I hope you got an A on your book report there

[@melanienelson1148]

Allison Janney is perfection, as always. And every single girl from the South is very familiar with "humidity hair".

[@user-wh5ir4fo4r]

Or the midwest in summer. Even before she got to the truck it had already started. 😆

[@weightycarlos]

1:12 Her reaction gets me every time 😭

[@starcherry6814]

Imagine going to college for 4-6yrs busting your behind for a man to tell you that it was to learn how to be a housewife 🤣

[@topherh5093]

ohh please, you know how many girls go to college to get their MRS degree

[@austinpaula8188]

Did that guy call Skeeter a gold digger? "Professional husband hunting" ?

[@lexi7749]

In the 60s women pretty much needed a husband as it was rare (and looked down upon) to be single and financially independent. So husband hunting was what women needed to do to have a stable life. So rather than a gold digger, I think he was just pointing out she might be desperate for a husband in general

[@CandyPinkcake]

It was basically their job back then so it wasn’t like gold digging. They had to look for a husband to survive

[@JJ-yn4cj]

Most women chose to stay home - they have actually always had a choice. There were female doctors before women had the right to vote, parity in college education was achieved the first time between men and women in the 20's (although only among the wealthy), and even middle class women could be homemakers for hire for rich families. The only thing was while men were expected to use their money for their own financial independence and to support their wife/ex-wife/kids/and any and all unmarried female relatives, women who choose to work got to keep everything they made to spend on whatever they wanted. In the 60s, with the end of a major war, middle class men finally got the opportunity to go to college as well as a few middle class women due to the GI bill - primarily awarded to men because of the draft. Feminists complained about 'male privilege' and got middle class women not previously enlisted in the war to attend as well. Sure, the guy was an ass - but in the context of actual history: men were expected to financially provide for everyone while women weren't expected to financially provide for anyone so it kinda made sense when guys acted this way back then. Now, of course, women are actually expected to pay for themselves as a grown adult so it is going to be seen as offensive nowadays.

[@Jocelyn_Jade]

@@JJ-yn4cj Nope. You’re undervaluing the work women had put into the household. The man provided finances while the woman worked day and night to care for the house, him, and his kids. “Sure, he was an ass, but-“ Yeah, he was an ass. Period. It did not make sense for a man to “act this way,” as a woman was providing just as much as he was, if not more. Your tone is as though she was able to freeload off his work and do whatever she wanted. 😂 You obviously do not appreciate homemaking, nor a woman’s work. It was technically a trade off, an agreement, a give-and-take. The man’s finances for the woman’s labor. But the patriarchal society taught that men were dominant and superior thanks to the marketing strategies of the 1950s. Yes, all of the nuclear family, men being dominant and woman self objectifying, was all thanks to marketing and not some pseudo sociological natural order. In the Victorian times it was about extended family. Social structures and times constantly change. Women did not have as much of a choice as you’re saying. A woman could be a teacher, wife, nurse, or secretary. Let’s be real here. Not all men let the woman spend their money. Women were not even allowed to own bank accounts until the 1970s. And if she was able to spend “his” money? I’d say she earned it since she had to put him out the door and get him ready for work every day, work all day, and continue working when he got home and he gets to relax. Remember that. 💋✨

[@katehu7194]

Sad thing. Hilly was genuinely kind to Skeeter, in her own way. Helping fix up her look here. But, core values trump the "sisterhood". Skeeter and Hilly really outgrew each other. Thank God :p

[@jackieblue3464]

In the book her mama does't know about Skeeter's date

[@kennethcarl1872]

her mother really wants her to have a husband,,,, but at the end,,,, she said this,"courage skips a generation",,,, (^^,)

[@PioneerGrrrl]

She figures out that it's better for Skeeter to take the job than be in an unhappy marriage with guy who does not respect her or her talents

[@cosmicreef5858]

Her private life is none of her mother's business and if she loves her that should not even bother her at all

[@nawr494]

the mexican man shoes were actually quite cute

[@colleensilva3670]

nasche ...called huaraches...very comfortable 🙂

[@amyernst2912]

I’m 45yo and had a pair of those old shoes, lol, they were comfy 🤗

[@Leahh823]

Amy Ernst lol I was just thinking the same thing! I had a pair in the 90s too.

[@colleensilva3670]

Amy Ernst ...huaraches... very comfortable 😊

[@NahualliUoxtitla]

I'm a Mexican man, and I don't own a pair!

[@tenrc26]

“Don’t sit like some squaw Indian” lol I am a squaw Indian 😂 but I do sit with my legs crossed.

[@kittykatkittykatkitty]

Stuart looks like a young Jim Halpert, albeit a more snooty, rich and entitled version of him lop

[@klausoshaunacey8429]

I love her mother, she’s so sweet and tries her bet to make skeeter a proper woman for the time

[@VelvetGal5]

Thanks for your reply to me. I agree with everything you said, 846cookie. :-) "The Help" is a wonderful film. My sister & I loved this film. My sis is planning on reading the book, too. This film is so deep & enlightening. You're right that this film talks about issues that many people have avoided talking. All people NEED to be treated as equals. No one is superior than the other. Everybody can learn from each other. I'm glad to read that "The Help" changed your views on life. Have a nice day!

[@MegaJacko4]

"Dont sit like some squaw Indian! CROSS YOUR ANKLES!!" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 By far the best line in the movie.

[@savannahantwan4036]

Where can i get skeeters dress🙃

[@DreamyCityGirl]

No idea, but i want one

[@FC-hj9ub]

The website "stop staring" has several like that

[@keyanna2633]

@@FC-hj9ub Definitely will check that out.

[@FarhatC28]

Try the 1960s

[@masterk2197]

Charlotte is such a kind person, she loves Skeeter for how she is and then she realises that Hilly is a bad person and decides to kick her ass of the property. Charlotte gave Hilly a chance but Hilly showed her true colours

[@serst45]

I remember reading the date scene in the book and totally relating to Skeeter, thinking Kathryn Stockett knows what it's all about....and then when Stuart starts acting all nice and gets interested in Skeeter I was like oh Kathryn, I thought you were on my side :(

[@onebraincellleft2563]

When he whistled for the waiter 😠

[@rebeccashuman6199]

I want Skeeter’s dress! It’s beautiful ❤️❤️❤️

[@OlgaJanina-fi3nh]

She took the trailer & all 🤣

[@JanelleNilesComedy]

"Don't sit like some Squaw Indian" that hurt the soul, but how some non-indigenous fishermen in Nova Scotia talk about us today.

[@vesperrose666]

1:13 her expression gets me everytime

[@bibianaguadalupeislasherre9880]

That could be a meme.

[@rechoice9010]

Emma has such a soothing voice.

[@bicuriousdirtbikeboi2594]

"Well you figured out my whole scheme." I think about that quote at least once a week

[@FC-hj9ub]

The dress is beautiful, as are many of this era, the hair was a fail

[@laquettawest5844]

At 3:08 the other guy was just like that was not good

[@bibianaguadalupeislasherre9880]

The face Hilly makes at 1:13 has the potencial to be a meme. 🤣🤣🤣

[@846cookie]

I just watched it the end of last year, it was such a wonderful movie! I feel it's an important movie to watch because this issue isn't talked about as often as it should be I feel. This movie completely changed my views on life! I reccomend the book to if you haven't read it!

[@sarcasticallyrearranged]

This issue isn't discussed? You weren't aware that black people were treated like crap?

[@arianedealswithsocialanxie8170]

I swear the version of this movie I saw had the date being the son of a senator was this a FEVER DREAM

[@Annabarbaric343]

Whoop Whoop!! Thank God 4 2020!! I am just so happy and pleased with this fire-ly red head! You go girl!

[@valereirenfro9040]

@1:39 One can always tell how well a man is interested in you by the huge quantities of alcohol he consumes :(

[@tenzinnoryangbhutia6757]

Really is that so?

[@sarcasticallyrearranged]

Or they could be nervous, be an alcoholic or just want a drink?

[@coolwater7699]

This scene features to Academy Award winners = Allison Janney and Emma Stone

[@VintageRose75]

Cool Water And, Octavia Spencer (who won Best Supporting Actress for this very movie), Also, Sissy Spacek (Best Actress), Viola Davis (Best Supporting Actress), and Mary Steenbergen (in other movies) have each garnered Oscars in other movies. Jessica Chastain has been nominated for the Best Supporting Actress Oscar twice--one for this movie and then another, different movie. Cicely Tyson had won several major awards in her stellar career as well. 😊

[@CountryCowboy008]

@@VintageRose75 Jessica has two noms but for one of each - Lead and Supporting

[@DreamyCityGirl]

Viola also won the same night Emma did.

[@simplylivesimply4612]

I know this is not a popular thought, but I really think Hilly was a good friend to Skeeter. Hilly was supportive about Skeeter's job, setting her up with Stuart & telling Skeeter she was worthy of him even if her mother did not have the same faith in her daughter.

[@MsBest450]

"Ad after having sex don't sit like some sqaw indian.Cross your ankles"

[@MsBest450]

Jasmeen Grewal That's what the mother says when running after Sketter as she gets in the car.

[@Fumi007]

+may edwards No. She said "and for heaven's sake".

[@pikanova]

+DaPopoloinParadise yea that makes more sense. But that sex comment was hilarious XD tho

[@jessicavictoriacarrillo7254]

I wish they kept the part from the book where Skeeter keeps her hair frizzy but grows it longer, wears shorter skirts, dresses more boho and in Pucci. Aibleen and Minny thought the new look flattered her as opposed to when she was trying to fit the Southern Belle look her mother was forcing on her and that her peers were into.

[@bluebell8557]

"Jesus i can't think of anything worse than reading a cleaning column except maybe writing one" lmao I actually really love him. That was hilarious.

[@cosmicreef5858]

he was rude not funny

[@bluebell8557]

@@Sarah-yy6hv omg touch grass and relax. It’s the wittiness that’s funny, the way he delivered the joke in a clever manner. Insults, when told as a joke, are sometimes hilarious when they’re meant in good spirit. Take life with a better attitude and take jokes on your person every once in a while because it’s healthy to laugh at yourself. Clearly in this situation, they’re throwing insults at each other and is mutual. His intention is not to offend her, since he really likes her. No one’s hurt in this scene, no one’s dying, and no one is traumatised. It’s a joke. Just laugh. And anyway, the joke being demeaning, offensive, or hurtful doesn’t take away from the fact that the joke is funny. That’s why dark humour exists in this world, and it doesn’t work for everyone and that’s fine. You don’t have to laugh at anything you don’t want to, but I’d appreciate it if you didn’t throw insinuations at me cause I think a line from a movie is funny and you don’t.

[@bluebell8557]

@@Sarah-yy6hv girl you triggered me at 2 am

[@sabrinashelton1997]

Good-natured ribbing is fun., funny, and sexy. And she gave it back as good as she got it. Calm down. @@Sarah-yy6hv

[@lyncressler2608]

Love love this film !! Everytime it's on I'm watching it lol

[@WhitestWaters]

I want to see this movie so bad, it was an awesome book.

[@heathermetz6576]

1:47 “you sure you don’t wanna just make it the whole bottle and a straw?”

[@keyanna2633]

Funny part.

[@bethelmenil8786]

ugh this movie.. so beautiful

[@Strix07024]

Charlotte Phelan is my mother down to the letter! Lol

[@romiladatta3678]

I simply love watching this movie.....💝💖💗💓💞💕❣

[@stephenfermoyle4578]

ALL of them..this was their best work

[@fashiongoddezz3462]

Skeeter is me on a date😂😂😂😂I cant with guys

[@levertfairley4603]

FORGOT HOW GOOD THIS MOVIE WAS

[@Joey_huang]

That was his first date. He was drunk and was trying to recover from the divorce from his ex-wife, since she cheated on him. But later in the book, he is actually a really nice guy :)

[@scanovi]

Joey Huang he was never married or divorced. His fiancé cheated on him and he intended to forgive her when she apologized but when he found out she slept with a white civil rights activist he broke it off permanently for fear that her liberal views would interfere with his father’s election. He ultimate leaves Skeeter for the same reason.

[@taniamanik2012]

Yeah he really was a nice guy and didn't judge Skeeter for her looks. The problem in their relationship was that they never talked about anything serious (like politics) so when he proposed to her and she confessed about her book, he all of a sudden realized that he didn't really know her at all.

[@elenachristian9860]

He was never a nice guy. When sober he had manners, but he was always an asshole. Skeeter was out of his league.

[@KyleEvra]

First impressions are always important.

[@AgentPenelopeMorgan]

thank you!

[@846cookie]

I agree, you said it perfectly! :-)

[@lynxadventure21ana44]

I haven't had time to watch the whole movie yet but so far I really like this girl. I mean, she drove a truck while in heels!

[@randomgaygirl]

Damn for a second I thought that was John Krasinski lol

[@itoe07]

I can't believe I never realized that the guy who played Stuart was Piz in Veronica Mars!

[@matthewrainey4191]

Damnit making me cry every time

[@MIA2023A]

Loved the movie!

[@omega8568]

Minny actually doing something nice for someone.

[@deadlybug]

oh well, at least he's hot.

[@fairoadiary]

Sara J LMAO 😂

[@prueXo]

@@diamond_lover2826 YUP

[@heatherchando5873]

sure but a jerk so

[@anomallie]

Looks go out the window if they don't match with what's on the inside.

[@sam8192]

@@anomallie omg so true these days everyone only cares about looks, but forget about personality, and when they get to know the person...

[@gulyaswift1503]

Underrated movie

[@missm8067]

0:17 POV: you see yourself in a dress when you’re used to wearing sweats 😂😂😂

[@rayraygreen-yh3rn]

2:10 his smile. YES THAT HAD ME.

[@prenimystic]

I love Skeeter so much

[@Bloombaby99]

You were right, Flora75005. It is Yule May. Hilly even addresses her by name. My mistake.

[@tamarascott1193]

First impression on point

[@soniaf9855]

i love Skeeter

[@ashleytrout7452]

The one time Hilly might’ve agreed to Skeeters “rebellious” ways, a drunk man misbehaving in a public place, leaving might be the best way to go

[@princedakkar2251]

The Shine-o-later really came through

[@mjremy2605]

That's how men where those days - obnoxiously sexist and patronizing. Ugh! Skeeter had so much more than that limiting role which Hilly filled. I'm so glad she dished it out to her date that night. A good verbal punch. At last, someone with integrity and dignity!

[@Richard-vq7ud]

the food back then was soo delicious

[@chuckecheese3161]

That was my truck I had one... Same color awesome 👍

[@Jobe-13]

Good movie.

[@keyanna2633]

1:11 That would be me walking in with my hair messed up. Lol

[@Magdaleno2]

I love the part of the movie 🎥

[@kylerainey6315]

As someone who went to Ole Miss I can vouch for what he said

[@kennedythedford9102]

Kyle Rainey is it still true. As someone who goes to a women’s college ( in the south) many people think we all are looking for husbands

[@filippomancuso2905]

what is the name of the song in the backround of the date scene

[@animeaddict13]

+Filippo Mancuso Swinging on A Rainbow by Frankie Avalon

[@seancourtney5548]

Chris Lowell👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@lt.erintraeper]

Hilly falling back in her seat gets me every time.

[@linahghostie5971]

I'm just here to say I READ THE BOOK 😊

[@aminaht5694]

2:24 it's a lace front