The Influence of Fathers on Daughters | Hina Khan-Mukhtar

[@RuhulAmin-tm7hj]

"when you feel love in the home, you don't look for anywhere else."

[@mindsoulbody]

Something that used to be a common sense but we live in a world where it had to be injected into the head... Almost forcibly.

[@javierandrade144]

Beautifully said sister!!

[@fariha6025]

this woman is magical, i feel calm just by hearing her voice and the wise words she shared.

[@anonymousbrother9230]

Daughters are beautiful. "When it comes to men trust on your instincts." Couldn't agree more. Being open to children is very important. When it comes to boys it is moms and when it comes to daughters it is dads. How beautiful is this. So much respect to you Hina Khan Mukhtar

[@farhiyaa4880]

I just love the end quote...when you feel loved at home..you dont go searching for it anywhere else.

[@darvaish4552]

sister Hina i am very very happy to see a muslim sister doing such a brilliant job, giving the right messages with +ve head and +ve heart. May Allah swt give you more energy and wisdom. Bless your heart Sister

[@NajmaFazalqfk]

im inspired too - and Prayful

[@thedrasc1491]

This is an important talk because it legitimizes the impact of the father daughter relationship. Many Muslim families have fathers who never wanted a daughter in the first place, and therefore always neglected her. I dont think much can be done to change those father's mind, but they'll have to deal with Allah swt's questions on the day of judgment. For those young girls who felt neglected by their dads and therefore formed a complex, I just want you to know that yes, you're feelings are valid, yes your father should have done better, but no, you are not destined to be weak and people-pleasing. You can gain that strength on your own. It will take trial and error, but you'll perhaps gain a strength stronger and more resilient than those girls who grew up with a positive male figure.

[@kubra_sultan]

Thank you for this

[@zeynepazman9785]

Beautiful to have valuable families who love one another and trust.

[@mujahidalikhan4301]

asalamoalequm everyone...i had this relation with my father where he played a major role in my life..i ws v close to him be it anything i used to share with him ...he ws such a beautiful father where after his demise a kind of a vacuum hs been created n its irritating at times to whom shud i share my things with...he supported me he valued my opinion he used to guide me n above everything a strength to face all kind of trials of life...i miss him somuch every day every moment n yes i ws blessed to have a father like him...loved him somuch n still feel the emptiness which no one can fill...

[@ashaarjuman1353]

I wish I had same relation with father. You are lucky girl coz

[@jannahsalim8527]

Tooooo let.. to hear this i m so sorry ... now that my daughter is 17 yrs old, so difficult to fix anything ,, i was a very bad mom , now all i can do is taubah and pray to Allah to fix every broken piece i ve made to her... may one day after or before i die my daughter will be qurrata a'yun

[@habibawest9253]

This is spot on, alhamdulillah!

[@isaackid09]

I LOVE THIS. THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS. ❤💖❤

[@swedensy]

God bless all the dads who lost their kids due to family courts and false accusations.

[@jessg438]

Mashalla I have a great Dad

[@sidraharoon5359]

Mashaa-Allah you are doing very nice job

[@fatmawarda1639]

Masha Allah Jazak Allah for the inspiring talk

[@GoldenSphereity]

Ma sha Allah, Amazing

[@ayselk5930]

I used to have my father take care of me everyday of my life till i was 9 years old and he got married. He was divorced when i was 3. And after being married besides paying for my expenses, i lost connection with him as i used to get beaten up by him and my brother uptil now. Im 16 yeara old. I never had an uncle or my grandpa or anyone in my life to assist. My mom moved to scotland never heard from here again since 3 and recently i contacted so she would let me move with her but she found all excuses not to. I've done haram things and i cant say its bcz i didnt have someone to support me, it was my own choice. May Allah guide us all Ameen.

[@Ayu-mq7yz]

Aysel K well i pray that Allah will help and guide you love^^

[@1728-s3n]

You poor thing. First things first, if you're being physically abused at home you need to let someone know. A teacher, a doctor, any trusted adult. You can rebuild your life but only once you're safe and secure. I feel very sad for you that your mother didn't want to be part of your life, but it's her loss. You'll be an adult soon and you can start making good choices. You're only 16, you're a child, everyone makes mistakes. Remorse and regret are beautiful things, just make tauba and be certain that Allah will forgive you and help you move forward in life because HE WILL. Regarding your parents, they will have to answer to their lord one day. The best advice i can give you is (1) make tauba and never turn away from Allah again - he is your power in this life and the next, (2) Stay in school/education. It is the key to success in worldly matters. Pick something you're interested in and study for a degree, and a masters, and even a phd! With knowledge comes respect and security, and (3) cut out any bad influences in your life. The fact that you clicked on this video shows you have deen in your heart. Dont waste time hangimg with friends who are bad for you and your deen. above all, Just remember you're only 16, you can absolutely turn your life around InshaAllah!!

[@jack6m]

Salam aalaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh my sister~ Allah is all forgiving so never think that Allah won't accept your sincere repentance~ Do not let Shaytan trick you into believing in that. I am terribly sorry for all the pain and trouble you have gone through. I can't imagine what it must feel like to be in that position. But please remember that you are important. We as a Muslim community care about you, and you are not alone. Know that Allah chose to guide you. That you are special to Allah and then He puts you through hardship, its something you can definitely handle because says in the Quran that no one is tested with something that they can't handle. So know that you are very strong. Stronger than I am and many others. Remember that as a Muslim, Allah is sufficient for us and Allah provides for us with everything that we need. If you ever feel like you need someone to talk to. There are many women in the Muslim community who would love to talk to you as well. So please reach out to us in the time of need and never lose hope in Allah~ May Allah guide us, forgive us, and bring us closer to Him~ Ameen~

[@nasheemashahbazi6055]

May Almighty Allah forgive you. Forgive us all. I can only suggest to you to make your bond stronger with our Creator the most merciful and the most Beautiful. I'm sorry that you endured such hardship but it is not in vain in the real life. This world is only but a pass time. Start your days thinking about Almighty Allah. End you days thinking about Almighty Allah. All your wishes and hearts desire will be realized in the time that has been ordained for you. I wish you all the best in both worlds. Repent. Repentance brings you closer to your Creator and all will be fine. I make duah for you and the entire Ummah. إنشاء الله آمين. Always remember. You are not alone. الله Is omnipotent! Closer to you than your Jugular vein.

[@sheikhasalim1190]

I'm so sorry for what you are going through. May Allah make it easy for you. Did you try to talk to him privately? Or ask even his close friends to talk to him? Maybe you should seek help from the women to the nearest masjid. May Allah make it easy for you

[@NajmaFazalqfk]

JazakALLAH Khair :-)

[@Tilesandfabrics]

SubhanAllah.

[@GuidanceSeeker]

Very true

[@abdulkh338]

Nice

[@Milkie.3x3]

But what if there isn't a male figure?

[@halamilktea]

Scarlet anzu same I don’t have a male figure in my life, but I’m not really falling into the wrong path either and I would like to say that I have a high self esteem. I’ve been raised by women who have a supported and loved me unconditionally, but I can’t say the same for my father lol.

[@lianafrancisca8380]

same.I have a father but I don't know if I can call him father.He is just there and nothing else.But I have a pretty good relationship with my mother.When it comes to body image I am confident but when it comes to success in academic or job level I always second guess myself and yes I look for the fatherly love elsewhere.May Allah guide every human beings.

[@mariamimi8497]

🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺❤❤❤❤❤

[@kkhan4933]

I disagree with dr that fathers who go to their girls events don’t do risk taking behaviors .. their are girls who’s fathers have not attended their single event and still strong and don’t go for risky behavior . Girl or boy teenager needs support and people who can understand and help them ...it can be from parents be a it a mom or dad or any adult .

[@halamilktea]

kkhan4933 I also disagree with that but I do think that a girls relationship with her father can impact her character and her self esteem. I’ve seen many girls who have amazing fathers yet aren’t exactly on the right path, and girls who have fathers how aren’t so great on a good path. Some girls are still strong enough to be able to steer themselves into the right direction without a father figure’s guidance. But I definitely agree that a father can impact his daughter negatively or positively based on their relationship.

[@karimb972]

It's not a 100 % effective. Even Prophet Yaqoob (as) had 9 bad boys. Nonetheless, the results of parenting are not random. There is still overall a major difference between people that had absent and/or affectively distant parents in their childhood and people that had present and affectionate parents.