The Journey From Family Scapegoat to Empowered Super Empath

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The Journey From Family Scapegoat to Empowered Super Empath // The Journey From Family Scapegoat to Empowered Super Empath can be an arduous, difficult, and painful process. It can also be enlightening and empowering.
For those of us who’ve experienced being cast in the role of the family scapegoat, in a toxic and dysfunctional family system, the profound impact of that experience is negative and painful, to say the least.
In this video, I unpack the transformational journey required to go from being cast as the family scapegoat to becoming a fully embodied and empowered super empath.
I’m going to begin by delving into the characteristics of the scapegoat, the struggles they face, and the steps they can take to heal, and reclaim their power. Permanently.
Enjoy!
~ Tamie M xx
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⚜️ WHO IS TAMIE M? ⚜️
Tamie M is a Life Coach specializing in Empath Empowerment. She is an expert in the areas of codependency and narcissistic abuse recovery. She teaches people how to transform their lives through the use of many powerful healing, recovery, and ascension modalities. She does her best work with those who identify as being highly empathic, as well as those who have been cast as the family scapegoat. She is on the planet to support awakening Light Leaders to step into their personal power, divine purpose, and mission.
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[@TamieMJoyce]

Hey Friends! Thanks for watching!! If this resonated with you, you'll want to sign up for the FREE WEBCLASS I'm offering on how to heal and recover from codependency and narcissistic abuse so you NEVER fall prey to emotional manipulation and psychological abuse ever again! HERE'S THE LINK: www.tamiem.info/freeclass

[@Susan-nm3sx]

Hi Tamie, this is so my story! I left home at a young age, 17, because my family is very toxic, I had a miserable childhood, was poor, emotionally un-nurtured, and physically hit, often, I had to leave. This sealed my fate as the scapegoat. I wasn’t at home, like my siblings, I had escaped, which made me a target. Yes, as you said, lots of hurt in my part, I couldn’t understand why? The most painful encounter, I went home to see my mum as she was unwell, my brother as soon as I got in the house, said why are you here? No one likes you, no one wants you here, and proceeded to punch me in the stomach. 😢 I made sure after that, I only saw my mother when she went out shopping, and I’d meet up with her. Lots and lots of examples. I’ve literally cut them out now, I blamed myself for decades, it’s only recently I’ve realised it really was nothing to do with me? Thank you for this Tamie, got to say, I cried at listening to this, validation that these things happened? Is everything. ❤❤❤

[@1talhambra]

I completely resonate with your experience. Same same here...but different. Heal well, Susan.

[@nicolecarnevale3226]

Hey Susan, I was the scapegoat only my Dad was a professional and I had quite a lot of material things compared to my friends. This was a double edged sword because I appears spoiled to the external world unless they witnessed a family “ event”. I know I was identified and I understand your pain. I want to heal, set healthy boundaries, determination of safety v. Danger and self love. The work will be worth taking a realistic look at the past, myself and the quality life it brings.

[@Susan-nm3sx]

@@1talhambra 🙏 thank you for your kindness, it’s definitely a process, and some days are more difficult than others as I’m certain you understand. Love to you. Xxx

[@Susan-nm3sx]

@@nicolecarnevale3226 Hi Nichole, I wish you love on your journey, yes,it’s a true saying, no one knows what goes on behind closed doors? Do they.? Stay in your truth, best wishes, Susan. Xx

[@arenee118]

I have three brothers and three sisters. I am the family scapegoat. When my younger brother got hurt riding his tricycle in the dark through the cow pasture, I was the one blamed and punished. When the same brother got hurt running in a department store, I got blamed even though I was in the changing room. As an adult, I am blamed for all the conflict with my older sister who is a narcissist who targets me. I went no contact with all of them in 2020 and have not regretted it. I wished I had done that a long time ago. I can honestly pick out all the dysfunctional roles my siblings played in the family. The thing about being a scapegoat is that you have no control over what people do. If you are a mascot, caretaker, lost child, etc, you can overcome those roles because they are based upon your actions. But a scapegoat is based on another's action. You can't overcome it because the abusers do not usually see what they are doing as being wrong. The only way to deal with it is to cut those people who abuse you out of your life.

[@chunka66]

It is so disgusting and unfair.

[@MBroome1028]

This was my entire life beginning at age 15…I’m 61 now and just went no contact 9 months ago. I’m going to start therapy with a certified trauma counselor and for the first time in 45 years, have hope for healing.❤

[@markcampbell1795]

Tamie, this was me almost all my life, the healing began when I experienced a dark night of the soul, which lasted months, and I awoke with forgiveness in my heart, for both myself and my abusers, a spiritual awakening kicked in, I had a succession of epiphanies and finally found what I had been searching for all my life.... Happiness, I had made the mistake earlier in life, to search for it outside myself, and to put it in the hands of others, not knowing at the time that true happiness comes from within, the healing had begun the road to my authentic self on the horizon, no more ulterior motives, no more expectations, manipulation was no longer a tactic I used. I opened up and let the truth in, it was liberating, and has allowed me to see things clearly. I am aware, and more awake than I have ever been. I resonate with this podcast, thankyou for affirming my journey.

[@TamieMJoyce]

You're welcome, Mark!!

[@user-mf7ll4nm4n]

Very wise insights and very necessary.I have been down these paths so many times.I wish you very much kindness.

[@mskinetik]

Hi Tammie, THIS is exactly my story. I went no contact with my N-mother 2 years ago, and as you said, the attacks continued from a distance. The stress from a life time of abuse has caused me health issues. I'm proud of myself for finally walking away, but now I don't have family and it is very isolating. I'm aware now of how much of an impact this abuse has had on my life and self image. I'm 46, single, and now realizing I need to do inner healing. While I know I deserve good things and happiness and good friends and finding a healthy partnership and creating success and joy in my life... Somewhere, deep down, there is still a very wounded person who was abused, humiliated and hated for over 40 years and I don't know how to fix what's broken. I've been in therapy before for years. That helped me realize my mother is a narcissist and understand the family dynamic. Anyway, I really want to heal and move on from this. I haven't experienced a lot of the joys in life that I would have if I was raised in an emotionally safe and loving family, but I hope I can experience more joy and happiness in the 2nd half of my life. I'm glad your video popped up today. Thank you.

[@TamieMJoyce]

You’re welcome! 💕 If you would like to learn more about the possibility of working with me in my 8-week transformational coaching program The Freedom Class, please visit my website and click on "programs" and "reviews" for all the details. Here's the link: www.TamieMCoaching.com It’s a game-changer for the family scapegoat!

[@infj3432]

Narcissism became a normalcy within my family, awareness really helps, and faith in God, self healing ..

[@richardcavallo9850]

Spot on once again! You just described my two brothers, sister in laws, and my gas lit mother! They lie, am the liar! They provoke all the problems, am the trouble maker! Ya da ya da! Thank you!

[@mac0219]

This is my exact situation in a huge family. I am exhausted.

[@arenee118]

Hugs.❤

[@barbaraedwards5675]

Yes, hang in there!

[@nostromois]

Yes. Scapegoat in a big super toxic family, super exhausted by now

[@jessebelanger9753]

What a beautiful, and eloquent monologue. Scapegoated empath here!

[@johntracey4196]

good afternoon Tamie from the UK

[@TamieMJoyce]

Hey, John! Thanks for tuning in!!

[@koley357]

Everything in this video pertains to me. I was the only child and scapegoat. My father was my saving grace, but the mother wound and trauma was way more powerful than my Dad's love many times. I'm now 50 and needing to go through much-needed healing. Now my parents are gone and most of the people that caused me pain, are dead as well. I know therapy is much needed, but leaving my narcissistic husband of 17 years had me financially limited. Thank you so much for sharing and helping so many of us.❤

[@TamieMJoyce]

@koley357 I hear you! This is a game-changer for anyone who has been cast in the role of family scapegoat: www.tamiemcoaching.com/the-freedom-class-self-study

[@faridaashu5505]

Thank you for this video. Came at an apt time for me. I love the part that referenced developing self-preservation. Of all the aspects of this journey, realising I had zero sense of self-preservation was the most painful. Developing that and seeing myself exercise it every time, has been an empowering feeling. Finally, being able to reclaim the power of 'I', was a huge one for me yesterday. I caught myself anticipating fawning for a future outcome I'm working towards. I paused and asked myself why I felt the need to put others on a pedastal for work I did? The most powerful thing happened. It dawned on me that I don't have to give away the glory of work I did, even though I felt inclined to. It's okay for me to bask and live in the glory of the reward for all my hardwork. It's okay for me and my life to be for and about me. But I also grieved the fact that this was something I had to go through the journey I did, to realise and reclaim. But the journey was worth it. This is a state I'm not used to being in. It's totally new and unfamiliar. But unlike in the past, I'm allowing myself go through the discomfort, and still choosing to keep going. I'm choosing not to sabotage myself. To better days ahead🥂. Peace be unto you.

[@IrishRushandSmiling]

I can relate to being 'Bullied' when I was a child and now that I'm old 70+ , my youngest who is 35 took $25K from a line of credit I provided when he went to Italy for his last year of college, then he married a class mate and repaid only $200.and refuses to talk to me.

[@PaulHanson-zo5qj]

Banger video. It's time now !

[@TamieMJoyce]

Glad you liked it, Paul! Thanks for watching!!

[@tims9434]

Thanks Tamie for this upload. Just what I needed as I've been thinking about reestablishing contact but i don't want to go back to that situation

[@TamieMJoyce]

You're welcome, Tim! Thanks for watching!!

[@tarilauer1818]

This is how my entire life has gone from as little as I can remember but what’s really the hardest is when your family Takes your narcissistic abusive partners side and believes them over what you have said and you have been called a liar and the abusive one when yo😢had absolutely nothing to gain by telling the truth of what was happening but everything to loose I have been struggling and stuck in a debilitating depression for months now he’s gone but I will always be at fault for everything 😢😢trying to force myself now to get past horrific anxiety and panic attacks to just get out of the house plus I’ve gotten sober now and cut off all ties to the using world so I’m really feeling lost and alone and sad a sadness I can’t explain one that I’ve never ever felt before

[@tarilauer1818]

Thank you for this video ❤

[@TamieMJoyce]

Hey, Tari! You're so welcome! Thanks for watching!!

[@TamieMJoyce]

Tari, I strongly encourage you to start attending AA 12-step meetings. Keep going until you find healthy meetings to attend regularly. Women-only meetings can be a very safe place. Doing so will not only support you in staying clean and sober but will also help with the sense of isolation as well as your ongoing healing and recovery journey. Just google meetings in your area and show up. You'll find the support you need there. 💕

[@cliodhnadoherty2409]

Bravo again Miss Tamie 👏🦋💜 as difficult as this journey can be , it's people like yourself sharing your wisdom , that is so informative , and in that it brings forth the acceptance and understanding that I seek, and giving me the will to keep pushing forward. Thanks for your videos 🙏😇 we are not all alone in this 🩷

[@TamieMJoyce]

You are so welcome! 😉

[@gcrichman53]

There are some cases of family scapegoat abuse that are so extensive, so persistent and so extreme that are totally unforgiveable!

[@allieeverett9017]

It's so hard. But Tamie is here for us, we are here for each other. We'll all hang on to sanity together 💯

[@izawaniek2568]

Thank you Tamie❤ God bless you ❤

[@TamieMJoyce]

You are so welcome, Iza!! 🌸

[@warriormom5843]

Always BRILLIANT!! Thank you Tamie!! 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

[@sighberscamp1]

Good Morning

[@TamieMJoyce]

Good morning!! 💕

[@raginald7mars408]

… as a German Biologist - Impulse Control With intense Endurance and Inner Strength Training I repel the Predators with my Firewall and No trespassing Weakness attracts all sorts of Predators and Cannibals

[@J.DaviesArt]

I relate 100% , this happens within families and extends to all relationships and work environments especially when you have multiple other traumas to deal with.

[@jupeter24]

Hi! Great material, Tamie!

[@AshLeePriscilla]

What an on time video

[@TamieMJoyce]

I'm so glad! I hope you found it helpful!! 💕

[@Sam-pl3yd]

Thank you 🙏 Tamie ❤️❤️❤️

[@TamieMJoyce]

Hey, Sam! You're so welcome! Thanks for watching!!

[@chrisj170]

Everything you teach is benefiting me greatly. But ultimately I know what the true answers are.

[@annamaegold]

Goood morning Tami! ☕

[@TamieMJoyce]

Good morning, Anna Mae!! :)

[@jamesmoore869]

Yup, I'm working on healing. I'll get out

[@lorettaknox154]

You betcha!😊

[@Fertilty-Israel]

Mira from Israel ❤❤❤

[@TamieMJoyce]

Hey, Mira! Welcome to the channel! Thanks for watching!!

[@Fertilty-Israel]

I love your channel ❤

[@RomeshiaYvette]

Definitely the scapegoat !! I’ve been treated so bad since my teenage years by certain family members to the point it has hurt me with many life decisions!

[@LUVMYPITTIE]

LOVE YOUR VIDEO'S! 🥰 THANKS TAMMY! ✨

[@TamieMJoyce]

You are so welcome! 😊

[@OldBillOverHill]

While doing inner work I realized this dynamic and even ask my Mom what she thought about me being singled out like I was. She said, "I knew it was wrong. I just didn't know what to do.". Now I realize, after reading her memories, she was also a scapegoat. She was blamed for having too many children and making it hard for my father to support the family. She did know what to do. She took me out of the toxic situations as much as she could and solved the money problem too. She became a newspaper distributor and she and I drove all over the county in her brand new station wagon delivering newspapers and made them take care of their own needs. I was only 8 when I became a paperboy for her.

[@user-ds2kk4fe1t]

Your right,

[@debbieg1406]

Hi Tamie, Thank you for explaining this toxic dysfunctional family system. This is my story and situation , …except for I think my toxic brother used to be the scapegoat years ago? Since my father passed away the roles seem to have reversed. I have also left my toxic Narc. ex-husband last year…so have become a scapegoat in both sides of my dysfunctional family system! I’ve worked out my mother has BPD/NPD too, my alienated son is also abusive, plus I can’t even trust my daughter who is trying to stay on the ‘good side’ of the Narcs.😢

[@cathy3613]

Everything you said has and still happening tome

[@1talhambra]

Thank you so much Tamie! Every single thing you say here describes my life experience perfectly. At the ripe old age of 66 I am still falling for the narcissistic games and still being targeted in the small local community where I live, but I don't ever see my family after going back time and again to be abused again and again.

[@Sam-pl3yd]

Hia Tamie 💕I had to listen to you today as I am standing strong and not ever going to be abused again! 🙏❤️❤️❤️

[@yamozaki1]

Another excellent video. Thank you Tamie ❤

[@TamieMJoyce]

You’re welcome! Glad you enjoyed it!

[@DesignLB]

@tamiemjoyce, I cannot tell you how much this latest video has opened my eyes to healing. Forgiving myself for allowing the emotional abuse to my inner child has affected my childhood, and adulthood, and conflicted with my career. I can't thank you enough for giving me the advice that I needed to hear to start healing

[@user-hu7dd9ji9f]

I DON'T LOVE THOSE PEOPLE THAT ABUSED ME AT ALL ! Can you tell me why for 60 years I have been rejected at every job every church every neighbor just like my family. And the weird thing is the morgority of those years. I was a people pleaser. Not any more. I know I'm an EMPATH because i can read a person so fast i can pick up on the tiniest put down or gas lighting i can tell right away if im liked or not. I really want nothing to do with anyone. This has been a prison for me how can anyone get past this much pain.

[@fox39forever]

You're brilliant!

[@davidhalldurham]

Beautiful video, Tamie. Thank you so much!

[@wendyclark387]

Oh, Yes!!

[@deborahbloem1325]

Thank you Tamie, wise lessons to learn again.

[@catherinewambui4595]

This Video was an eye opener for me.Thanks for sharing 🙏❤️

[@melsteverding3117]

I am empowered you give me reassurance thank you 🙌😊

[@sighberscamp1]

Oh, and yes, I'm new.. so hello everyone

[@TamieMJoyce]

Welcome to the channel! Thanks for tuning in!!

[@cindywambugu4308]

Thank you so much for this great information 😊

[@TamieMJoyce]

Hey, Cindy! You're so welcome! Thanks for watching!!

[@robinchilds7492]

Hi Tamie. I had a couple narcissists in my family. I ended up in a toxic relationship with a narcissist. I'm an empath and I tried not to let them affect me. I was an unwanted child and I had a narcissistic sister 9 years older than me.

[@ms.c7158]

Good morning Tamie ❤

[@TamieMJoyce]

Good morning!! 💕

[@srsizzle]

You’re the best 😘

[@dgvfsa66]

I feel like I was a complete fool for the first 60 years of my life. Then, after a light bulb moment, I went NC from my entire family. I actually thought they loved me. Unbelievable

[@OldBillOverHill]

Hi I commented on some older videos so I won't repeat it other than I've been at this for a very long time. I started with "Bradshaw on the Family" many years ago to deal with my toxic family of origin after I up and married an unapproved woman and tried to walk away. Hasn't worked to this day. Like you say. Give him 10 or 11 years and here comes back around dangling the bait.

[@catherinewambui4595]

Just recently l realized that lam the family scapegoat 😭😭😭 To an extent of apologizing instead of being apologized to 😭😭 Oh my God!!!! I have really gone through hell 😭😭

[@yoshabaker6270]

It all makes sense to me now

[@jehan9]

I left and got out! Been 16 years!

[@jasrussone]

Hello, I am new to the channel but I would like to know if there is a series about being a Scapegoat in the workplace. I’ve gone no contact/low contact with my family of origin but I find the pattern persists in the workplace. So frustrating.

[@TamieMJoyce]

Good morning! In my view, the pattern persists outside of your family of origin because you still carry the wounds of your experience with your family of origin. When you do your personal healing and recovery work as it pertains to being the family scapegoat, you'll find you are less likely to be targeted in the same fashion elsewhere. 💕

[@sanjeevbains690]

❤

[@user-tw9zn9jc4b]

Hi,friends ,im Mareldia Benting, im this person

[@TamieMJoyce]

Hey, Mareldia! Welcome to the channel! Thanks for tuning in!!

[@etaokha4164]

5 years no contact with my family

[@kellywalsh4596]

Does the scapegoat always start in childhood because I feel as mine started as a grown woman, youngest sibling, after my father died and everyone saw me as the favorite? Thank you for your guidance 🙏🙏

[@TamieMJoyce]

Hey, Kelly! For clarity, yes,we can be cast in the role of family scapegoat at any age.

[@chunka66]

Help! I know I was the scapegoat, but now my adult daughter has made her only daughter as the scapegoat! It makes me so upset and angry! How can I help my family? My daughter was not raised this way so I don't know why she is doing this.

[@barbaraedwards5675]

I believe as scapegoats we expose our own children to this madness, and therefore put them in harm’s way.

[@NatashaOConnor-ww4vq]

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