The Man Panel: Do strippers make better wives? || STEVE HARVEY

[@alwaysarcastic]

Whether the nanny is hot or not, isn't the problem. Your partner/significant other shouldn't be cheating especially if they made a commitment to be only with you. These men cheated with the nanny, because it is convenient, they don't have to leave the house to cheat. They would have cheated with someone else if there wasn't a nanny that they found attractive. Some have probably slept with other women when they are away from home, or when the wife is away for months at a time shooting a tv show, movie or touring.

[@empressroses6473]

isn't they are heading to a dangerous road. so if a black mamba is there they are just gonna pick up because is there. I think if men stays monogamous, most of those STDS will disappear.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@chrisanthemum7]

+alwaysarcastic men are going to sleep with women whose jobs are service-related. wife and mother counts and is ideal, but if anyone else comes around who also fits this bill then you're in trouble, unless the woman is older and takes him to a more motherly or grandmotherly place. Even then, you gotta make sure he never had any sick mom/grandma fantasies, which is kind of impossible b/c he would likely never tell you that. So yeah, it's kind of inevitable unfortunately, old lady makes it less so.

[@Cougarqueen]

omg.. thank you I said the same thing.

[@alwaysarcastic]

+Christine Donley The men that cheated prey on women they know they can easily get. If the nanny was a lesbian or morally ethical it would be a challenge for him, and if he couldn't get rid of her, he would go ahead and cheat with someone else and somewhere else. Based on Arnold Schwarzenegger we see that the nanny doesn't have to be "young" or "hot", she was ready and willing as he was. It doesn't matter what his fantasies are, if he wants to cheat he will regardless.

[@salem9686]

+alwaysarcastic men dont have female brains.Tell me something lets just imagine in an ultirnet univer, if it were a mle nany that was more secseful then Arny and more atractive dont you think she wold have chited on him, or for that any woman on the planet in a situacion like that?

[@joelle1366]

This was a joke. They make men seem like they’re children that need to be watched over. If a man loves his wife, he will stay loyal to her regardless of circumstances

[@kristinaavetisyan2367]

Jo C i agree with you 100% . This video made men seem like they have 0 self control. Some of the comments too

[@Sylvia-es4ft]

I agree with you but at the same time isn't prevention better than cure. We are all humans and even the strongest or most cautious make stupid mistakes, which means that even the most loyal of man can fall if being seduced too much. Sometimes it's not even the man but some woman do come into ur life to take ur man from u, they'll even make it a goal and u know us woman, when we make something a goal we hardly don't achieve it. So yes the man should be caustious and stay loyal but you as the woman also have to be aware of what you put infront of him.

[@sloebone7399]

How sexually satisfied the husband is, can be a factor as well.

[@kimle190]

Are you a male?

[@Thynqikan]

@Pete Bruzgis never because this show makes content that women watch so it is made for women. Completely biased content. I personally would love to see the episode you speak of because in my experience women do most of the cheating. I have never cheated ever but have been cheated on.

[@MatthewCoast]

You guys can't take the responsibility off of the man. Sure, don't bring a hot nanny into the mix. And don't marry a guy who isn't true to his word.

[@SL-my4fg]

Exactly

[@ElGeneralDelAire]

No thanks i don't like sharing my $$. My $$ my choice! #NoSimpTUesday

[@dgray9020]

Don't marry a woman whose not true to her words either.

[@averagemobileplayergfs7383]

@@dgray9020 yep, it works both ways.

[@quinnmorgendorffer8435]

👏

[@Theindiandaydreamer]

They have double standards though, so if you bring a good looking cook or trainer you expect your wife to be faithful then? Its all an excuse to cheat, if you really love your wife, you have the power to control yourself.

[@serious7179]

But men aren't that foolish... They would never hire a good-looking men to work around their wife... But we as women sometimes our foolish and what hire a good-looking woman to work around her husband... Of course, husbands and wives are supposed to be faithful to each other no matter what, but why tempt yourself or tempt him? I don't understand that mentality

[@iisuperstarii7310]

@@serious7179 but the nanny wasn't even hot. And people agreed on that already. So she just brought a regular woman into the house and expected the guy to stay faithful. So that means that if a guy brought any type of average looking dude into the house (friend, plumber, chef, decorator, etc), he should accept that his wife would cheat too. At least according to these men.

[@jovanleon7]

@@iisuperstarii7310 men, women, differently wired.

[@fidelguerra2164]

@@iisuperstarii7310 agreed. They started talking and one thing led to another.

[@shirin8609]

@@serious7179 There are attractive people everywhere, though, so the point is that people in relationships are already "tempted" on a daily basis. Doesn't mean you have to act on it like a freaking bonobo in heat.

[@littleripper312]

I'm a female and almost dated a male stripper. He wasn't trashy, he was actually in martial arts and in college and didn't drink or do drugs or nothing. He made good money stripping but at the end of the day it was embarrassing having to explain to people over and over again that he isn't a prostitute. There are too many hot construction guys out there who also make good money and I don't have to explain their job to everyone I meet.

[@cindychelsea]

or......JUST KEEP IT IN YOUR PANTS?

[@detruth]

Right!

[@thesaracenmage]

Because women don't cheat?

[@cindychelsea]

i would say the same to them too

[@Daniel-xp1jy]

it's always easier said

[@MrNunchakulee]

You say that like it's even possible.

[@desireecordice]

I was Geraldo’s nanny for his children and it was always a healthy and respectful relationship. He was the one of my best employers.

[@Nattaferg]

He does appear to be a decent man. Good to read this.

[@XxArjaypheonixxX]

I don't agree with what they said. If somebody is going to cheat on you, they will do it on you either way

[@oldtymer9106]

I agree. There will always be temptation. A quality person will have a code of ethics that keeps his (or her) primal urges in check.

[@abby12624]

Ya because u ain't a man

[@CoD_Maj3st1k]

This makes no sense. Hot or not. Does not matter. Cheating is cheating. That's someone who is weak and can't handle temptation. We men have urges and desires, yes, it's in our dna. But if you're in a relationship, hell married with kids it's no longer about you. It's your responsibility to make a good example for your kids. These are bad examples, and terrible advice. So in order for you to not cheat you must have someone you are not attracted to around you? That's a personal problem not anyone elses.

[@xm377Moyocoyatzin]

You sound like a typical tradcuck believing you have all the power to decide your own circumstances and that you can never fall thus feel justified in deriding these men. You hold men fully accountable and you totally excuse women's own actions or inaction which lead to their husbands cheating. When a man has true relationship with a deep connection and understanding with a woman he doesn't cheat on her. What facilitates and actually justifies cheating is when that connection to the wife is broken or was never established to begin with. What are these wives doing to erode their man's sense of loyalty towards them? You assume women are at no fault whatsoever here. You blame it fully on the men as if men are completely in control and in power all the time thus solely and fully responsible for anything and everything that happens. That is a typical tradcuck mentality and one which clever and manipulative women adore because white knights and Captain save-a-hoe types who think like that are so easy to manipulate to a woman's convenience.

[@markcadieux3445]

@@xm377Moyocoyatzin In any marriage, if one partner has a normal healthy sex drive and the other one has shut down, cheating can occur.

[@Latifa-ik9uk]

Well said.

[@ATrueLoveOfficial]

Nah... If you are faithful and genuinely love your wife, no matter how sexy or hot your nanny is, you won't bite into the temptation.

[@i10v3di1f5]

@Blake T yeah but you're still responsible for your own actions. you can't control if the nanny is hot or what she does, it's your responsibility to be faithful to your wife.

[@lexiemaep7930]

That's a unicorn...all men are tempted and fight the urge to cheat. It's harder to fight that urge every second of every day. One day the man will have a moment of weakness. My husband slept with our nanny, don't make the mistake I made. Yes, it would be great if men could control their damn selves but they can't. I divorced mine and I am happy alone.

[@asareaddi950]

That must be a lady saying that- definitely

[@Stupid33]

@@i10v3di1f5 Nobody said the man isn't responsible. And yes you and the woman can control how hot the nanny is.

[@raymondotoole2600]

I think if the man knows he’ll be tempted then put your foot down and say no to having a nanny … show some sense of discipline.

[@Dolida]

So it's the fault of the wife to bring in a good looking nanny because it's not the fault of the husband to control his urges and cannot be blamed if he cheats? Like what?!

[@mr.j3371]

Dolida You’re absolutely right! It’s not the sole responsibility of the woman, however, I really do believe that we shouldn’t start fires that we can’t put out. Why give a foothold for temptation eh?

[@djmix3856]

Dolida so sad I say we are all held accountable for our actions especially when we are married and are one

[@tanisha.r.thomas]

You know they have no dick control...lol. so yes, to answer your question....

[@Nada.AlShingiti]

It's the fault of all parties involved equally

[@serious7179]

I understand exactly what you're saying, but why would you put Temptation in front of him? I mean, do you really think your husband would be okay with you hiring a hot man as your gardener are pool boy? No, because he knows what can happen... Of course the husband isn't supposed to cheat nor is the wife, but don't put Temptation in front of somebody for no reason

[@mikemt4819]

i don't care if your a stripper or a doctor...if i love you..my life starts the moment i met you...its all about appreciate what you have...if you like it cherish it if you don't leave it alone...

[@catt9720]

mike MT 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@keirranorfleet]

It's so sad that their isn't any men advocating on this comment but are advocates on why it's the wife's fault for their lack of self control. Smh no accountability whatsoever in a lot of men nowadays..

[@arron2lucas]

There's alot of lawyers and doctors who used to be strippers...

[@arron2lucas]

@b I know a few

[@arron2lucas]

@b I wouldn't say lazy. Especially since they used it to get through school. Just because you dont know anyone doesn't mean it don't exist.

[@kalaboosqueaks4446]

Shout out to Mr. Chrisley !! He kept it real . All of you did. Smart men

[@MarianHagans]

+Angelica fields that's what I'm basically saying

[@akumaisreal2090]

If you're going to let people see you naked you might as well go all the way. besides, i would imagine as a stripper you would be very money minded inside and outside of work. which is another reason having a stripper as a wife or girlfriend would be pretty bad: they would be even worse than gold diggers.

[@MarianHagans]

Angelica fields​ bruh chill out females have sex for free and get slut shamed some people say the grass is greener on the other side and might as well make some money. Who really cares some men can handle while others can't ugh

[@akumaisreal2090]

Marian1203 Hagans LOL i'll assume you're talking to me. but anyway if females have sex for free with every guy they see then i can see why they would, but otherwise i don't know but that's irrelevant. Lot's of people care actually, and you're right some men can handle it and some can't...become some men have more money than others. If you have the money you can handle it. wtf is "ugh" supposed to mean lmao

[@factnofiction1142]

Todd Chrisley always keeps it real, you should check out his TV show on USA channel

[@scottbrandon9390]

Steve is right about women like your mother being able to detect a stripper. I had a friend in high school who started stripping at age 18. At high school graduation my grandmother who had never met her saw her walking across stage and said to my mom "Who's the 'ho'?"

[@tommoore2012]

Must have had some unintentional sway to her steps.

[@ballershanelle]

Women are so foul with each other

[@lifeofabyoute3674]

Theres no excuse for cheating... u chose to cheat If u were satisfied with ur partner a hot nanny wont affect nothing

[@noramkendamunishi6902]

It is a tiresome to satify another person s every need. It not possible. We women cant the same way men cant

[@lifeofabyoute3674]

@@noramkendamunishi6902 girl if you want to cheat too just say that.

[@TheFreaking4]

But... gosh, what's wrong wth your society?! Am i the only one who thinks that if a man s married to me.. no matter how many hot young girls come into our home to take care of OUR baby. it is good and RIGHT for me to expect him to keep it in his pants?! So it is now my fault if he cheated?!! what?!! Where's the loyalty and the respect?

[@orlaw.8213]

Yeah it's crazy. If that's the case a hot male and female nanny should be hired and hey why not have a foursome. It's messed up.

[@cameronmchugh4153]

Women cheat too

[@tanisha.r.thomas]

Right...I should be able to hire Halle berry and it should be no issue. But, men all say they have no self control and they prove it right every day...

[@querida1809]

Food for thoughts here. Yesterday I was at tge cashier wating to pay. This guy with his wife was in front if me, she forgot something and was talking to the cashier, his man was smilling and winking. He was a good looking guy. There was no one behind me. Some man do not have self control!! No, thanks!!

[@wrathc53]

@@cameronmchugh4153 Yes but women know it isn't alright to do so. The men in the video say it's not the mans fult there is another women in the house... Like what?!!! Even a women wouldn't use an excuse like that.

[@PRETTYBROWNKITTY]

But Arnold swartzeneghars Nanny wasn't HOT lol

[@idomagirlabahi7786]

LMFAO. 😂😂😂

[@lovely1190]

+The softest parf of a woman's breast is? POSSISBLY

[@xoangelicaf0523]

AT ALL!

[@PRETTYBROWNKITTY]

Angelica fields lol

[@xoangelicaf0523]

+Shae G. must been the 😽 but his wife wasnt all that either looks like she gets her face poked at all the time lol

[@jamesh4426]

People need Jesus.

[@artistrg3487]

James H IKR?! :/

[@becky7637]

No they need god

[@tslilbearshoppe9870]

Amen!

[@tslilbearshoppe9870]

@@becky7637 just so you know lower case god is Satan.

[@leonardodakimchi]

The most famous zombie!

[@SiidFaye]

We need to teach men that they have self control and need to use it.

[@dunelsondaniel4544]

Self control is hard though

[@taylorlatimer3428]

Are we not supposed to spread our seed?

[@raymondotoole2600]

we need men to say no to a nanny

[@deliciaperry4684]

No one needs to teach them anything. They’ll find out when they’re alone in the end

[@symonelewis1690]

@@taylorlatimer3428: Spreading your seed isn't always a good thing because too many people are making children that they can't afford to take care of.

[@lovemultani2749]

I am Speechless! These guys are not gentlemen at all. Nor are the people who clapped and laughed on to it! First World??? My Foot! You need to have some values. You guys are not worth being anyone's casual partner, let alone someone's husband!

[@StrongnBeautiful]

👏👏 Preet, Preet, Preet!! 😃

[@nisaigibbs5640]

I'm not a stripper, never have been, however, as long as a woman wants to go beyond the "stripper lifestyle" and grow from her experiences in that former life, she will be married one day. God can do anything but fail! Anyone can change if they truly want.

[@hotcoffee6911]

👍👍👍👏👏👏👏

[@youtubaholic]

Nisai Gibbs I agree but I dont think thats what the point was. The point was do strippers make the best partners. So that says two things; that the woman, currently as a stripper, is a better partner than another woman who isnt and that the woman is a better partner BECAUSE shes a stripper. And I mean we can all agree thats not true.

[@youtubaholic]

Better partner *

[@giabarrone7422]

You might want to check out the usage of moot. It is not a replacement for "point". Most people use it as an adjective as in "moot point".

[@MawuliWare]

Nisai Gibbs sounds like you have a fantasy of what strippers really are, are used to transport strippers on a daily there are a lot of drugs being taken and a lot of alcoholism that is not a road one should Venture down! lots of prostitution too!

[@CarolineJones1994]

Todd's the man, this was too comedy.

[@carlatuipulotu7208]

He is hilarious! I don't really agree with the panel but he is too funny!

[@thecramptons]

I love Todd too!!

[@keannapips1535]

It was fun,not boring cuz todd chrisly is in it

[@nadinedavid1501]

He absolutely, truly is !! LOVE him 🥰🥰😘 Too bad he’s married.

[@ariellastrawberry]

that's sad that they think the biggest job a father has is keeping his daughter off the pole how about keeping his daughter from being sexually assaulted

[@shea2655]

creolejoy. Preach!

[@dalmatinka1032]

creolejoy. Maybe women should raise their kids not to become sexual assailants.

[@hamziioG]

Listen to your dumbass "how about keeping his daughter from being sexually assaulted" bruh you want him to follow his daughter 24/7? Stupid ass

[@JSmedic1]

That is the father's job ... to treat the mother and daughters with so much respect and dignity that low-life is no option. You do not blame the survivor for what a rapist decides to do! Sexual assault is that "loser's"\fault ... NOT the person who was assaulted!

[@rachelmoten2424]

"Why she jiggle when she walk like that? What's goin on..." Steve! Shutup! 😂

[@afeezkasali1254]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@martywatts7274]

Why does she jiggle when she walks like that?

[@Lexmorningstarnz]

My problem with cupcake analogy is that eating a one cupcake isn't going to do damage (unless you have prior health issues). Eating a cupcake will not destroy your family or break your husband or wife's heart and trust. Eating a cupcake won't even destroy your diet, and the only person who suffers from cheating on your diet by eating a cupcake is you. Also if you're committed to your diet, take it from a body builder, saying no to a cupcake can be easy, or at least doable. If a person wants to cheat they will, and if they don't want to cheat, they won't -- it's just easier to do the dirty when the temptation is bought into the house.

[@simplyonehellofa.2854]

Exactly 👍🏼👏🏼

[@cookiesh.4804]

He's answer made no sense because that means he can't be trusted around someone hot. What about work colleagues etc..

[@photographsdaily33]

@@cookiesh.4804 yessss exactly 👏 if he's married his wife should RUN. The audacity to say it so proudly too 🤣

[@callanc3925]

Thank you for being one of the few women in this comment section that was able to admit cheating isnt something exclusive to men.

[@martinhart1534]

👋🏽 Hi Lex! Cupcake 🧁 is the TEMPTATION ! 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@jamesh4426]

Nannies and strippers ...I guess the lines get blurred. In any event, either a man is trustworthy or he is not. Otherwise you wouldn't be able to even bring friends around. No one would be safe.

[@ArmednotTriggered]

"Predatory nannies" is going to be a reality show in a few years.

[@theultimatetitan1236]

I Would Watch It.

[@kimberlymude9375]

Can't wait for that show🤣🤣

[@m.a.156]

What is the point of marrying a woman who wants a nanny, isn't that her job? WTF Dump the useless wife and marry your nanny

[@theprinceofdarkness4679]

I call hiring a nanny interviewing my next girlfriend Hahaha Actually I don't know but it sounds good

[@FouseStar]

This whole conversation is so generalized. First of all I am an ex-stripper. It was a job that paid insane amounts of money when I was supporting my mom and I. I never slept with anyone that came into my place of work. Outside of work I dressed in jeans, T-shirt and sneakers. Not all strippers dress like they are at work. These men are skirting their responsibility as a married man to stay faithful to their wives as they make excuses for why men cheat. Not every husband will sleep with an attractive nanny. If your marriage is solid then her appearance shouldn't even be an issue.

[@markbrown3566]

get on the pole lemme throw these ones at ya!!!

[@FouseStar]

>.

[@neroshanvijay873]

Star Fouse Jesus were you really a stripper? Do you feel any kind of shame about your past stripper life? I mean being a stripper isn't exactly the most honorable and prestigious job to have. Besides what the hell did your dad think about you stripping or did he just not know?

[@FouseStar]

Yes, I was a stripper. I have no shame because I did nothing wrong. I didn't drink, do drugs or sleep with anyone. The policy at the club was look but don't touch and the bouncers were quick to enforce any patron who stepped out of line. My parents knew. I had no reason to hide it. There's a social generalized stigma against strippers to the point that they are perceived as immortal, promiscuous, drug-addicted women with low self-esteem and daddy issues. That holds true for more than I care to admit. However, it doesn't hold true for all. To some women it is just a job. You go home after work, shower and go to bed.

[@markbrown3566]

Star Fouse I got a pocket full a ones and i aint got no draws on!!lol

[@trapsource_goddess]

Why is it always everyone else’s fault that men cheat

[@Dolly351]

Then they get mad when women cheat smh

[@trapsource_goddess]

- kool - 💯 💯

[@trapsource_goddess]

Dolly Joseph LMAO IKR

[@raresabraleaks8216]

Cause everyone is full of excuses

[@anuphulyalkar6807]

what ab when women cheat. Oh wait, yall have to find a reason and then go with it

[@citysouthernbella564]

Geraldo Rivera is such a class act. Met him in an elevator and he was pleasant, complimentary and not stuffy or standoffish!

[@buteful25]

I hate men, I swear. I don't care if you get the hottest woman in the world to be the nanny. Men you should love and respect your wife enough not to cheat with the nanny or any other woman. I do agree that you should not have ANY woman around your man like that but at the same time HE SHOULDN'T CHEAT. NO EXCUSES!!!! #I CAN NOT 😣

[@mimilove7284]

Wisdom

[@buteful25]

***** No argument there. Just made the comment because they were discussing MEN.

[@thesaracenmage]

But you still shouldn't hire a hot nanny.

[@buteful25]

Agreed, my nanny would like Rose from the Golden girls. Lol

[@milesmchugh3816]

im a guy totally agree. its saying men can't control themselves. its stupid. if the couple didnt have such trust issues they could probably talk about how hot the nanny is

[@KpopFeels]

So, I have a few problems with this video: 1. They are basically saying that it is the wive's fault for hiring a hot nanny. So, the wive hiring a hot nanny means that she gave permission for him to cheat. The men should remain faithful to their wives. Period. 2. Not all nannies are harlots hellbent on seducing the husbands. That's just generalisation. It's like saying all men are perverts. 3. Some strippers do what they have to do to solve their financial problems like student loans. They didn't choose it, they were forced into it. Just because they take off their clothes to finance their loans shouldn't make them any less worthy.

[@dsmith9153]

They were not saying that it was their fault they were saying you need to be smarter and if you listen closely Bill said a cheater is a cheater no matter what, but why would you hire an attractive and or younger woman in your house to take care of your kids and everything that you do.

[@thedevilsadvocate3710]

1.) In today's time, faithfulness is only as truthful as how long you can get away with it, male or female. We promote me, me, me campaigns that teach us that we deserve only the best. Just about everyone has bought into that philosophy and these are the results. 2.) Agree 3.) No one forces anything upon anyone. We are only influenced. We are all responsible for the choices we make for everything that happens to us.

[@titanf5196]

I also agree that there shouldn't be any excuses for cheating. If you truly love someone you won't cheat on them, period. However, as far as strippers goes, there's always an another way. If you choose the easy way then learn to take responsibility for it...

[@kristysanden425]

They do chose the lifestyle though.... no one pointed a gun to their head and force them to strip or literally die Lolol. It's their choice.

[@lu.ciel8770]

If a person works in the sex industry because they enjoy it, they still deserve respect. Its a job and there's nothing wrong with that.

[@wholahayy]

This is so insulting to women.

[@roopammondal5934]

wholahayy feminazi 😂😂😂

[@ohmygosh4761]

Men's opinion will always offend women because they don't like the truth

[@kynapple8958]

Ohmy gosh no it’s because some of the things they are saying is degrading to women. I’m saying SOME though because they do have good opinions.

[@thelamnetintheplains]

wholahayy ur opinion is insulting

[@mmsa1755]

Shut the f** up

[@tiniaclark5669]

Well then they don't need to be married if all it takes is for an attractive women to be present. That's so childish and it says a lot about your mindset and how irrelevant the vows even meant to them. Please. I'm a married women and I see nice looking men often. But I see them the same way I see a beautiful women........they look nice.....and?????? You see and go on🙄🙄 Men have the dumbest excuses to cheat.

[@dxr128]

It is a shame that we live in a society with double standards. I have known young women who strip to pay for their college tuition. I've known young attractive women who have to be nanny's to make ends meet. Once again, we are suppressing a woman's right to make a living by setting acceptable and non-acceptable ways. Whatever happened to respect your wife, respect each other, don't judge?

[@millsykooksy4863]

Yep

[@alexanderberyl402]

I know women who did same without getting on a pole or taking their clothes off for a man. Just say y’all are degenerates and lazy. The easy way out is to use your body 🥴🤷🏽‍♀️

[@anushka6559]

No....

[@Elubial]

This was a bit boring because all of them have the same opinions.

[@watdedo870]

Or keeping it pg

[@Elubial]

Samantha Derrick calm the hell down, just because you enjoyed this doesn't mean I have to as well. I just think it would have been more interesting to have another perspective, not all men think like that.

[@padimatshepo2165]

Bcz it's true

[@geoeconomics3067]

MAN are simple and clear as a Arizona summer day

[@imbored1979]

Probably cause we not confused all the time

[@lizabernie]

lol the analogy Bill made about the cupcakes was ridiculous. first of all, in a marriage you have everything to lose. secondly, control yourself. this goes for both men and women.

[@Xx-po1fu]

Ridiculous but truthful.

[@frankkevy]

In my point of view, we are not living in a Barbie world.. Everything is not that simple

[@knshobhin560]

Yeah then wife should sleep with a driver or a bodygard .

[@junevictor8721]

You’re not going to understand this idea but do you know the driving element for sexual drive? Testosterone! Men we have A LOT of it. Very hard to control it. Like women during their menstrual cycle or pregnancy. You guys produce a lot of estrogen during those moments, you get super emotional and can’t control it.

[@Yomama2nite]

You're wrong...men are very visual. Sorry to break it to u

[@JJ-yu6og]

Thank you , Bill, for putting the blame and responsibility on the husband.

[@tadd8210]

Mr. Terminator's nanny was not hot....so what was his excuse?

[@darlenepaul2934]

I think she was kinda ugly actually.

[@amaj_lex]

Same thing I was saying lol

[@hoppergrasa]

Convenience

[@victorjacobo5948]

He saw female qualities in the nanny

[@markcadieux3445]

Maybe Maria froze up on him.

[@Temwachii]

Todd Chrisley 😭😭😭😭😭 100% made this show.

[@Jeweliedear]

💜🙏👏

[@danieleyimin8559]

What's good Temi

[@TheQueenBarb]

Wow. Even strippers can change their life and live life differently. With man it may not be possible but with God all things are possible. Strippers do get married and so do the men who go and see them dance and place money on them.

[@thagrandpubah]

And those men are dumb for marrying cum dumpsters. I would not marry a literal dumpster full of cum.

[@hananburale8387]

I agree, so long as the have stopped stripping. I think the discussion implied that the strippers are still working the pole even after they've gotten married. In which case....hell no.

[@TheQueenBarb]

+Hannan Burale I agree a man should want her to quit stripping once he chooses to get married to her and she should want to quit as well.

[@aj7460]

+TheQueenBarb only if he starts supporting her financially or else might as well strip(work) and make that money

[@dionne3688]

+thagrandpubah AMEN

[@ralstonk1579]

I can't believe how the "Man Panel" consciously/subconsciously (Open for debate) objectified women... It was funny initially but I had to think about it

[@salimahross9871]

Yikes..this is some of the most sexist nonsense Ive seen in a long time. As tho because someone is an exotic dancer, they are not worthy or fit to be loved and cared for. We are all valuable and worthy of being loved. Point blank period. The ignorance is very real. I expect so much more from Steve Harvey and grown men.

[@ajiri_e]

You can't force them to like strippers, it's their decision not to want to marry a stripper, same way it's her decision to strip for other men

[@lu.ciel8770]

We're not talking about "making them like strippers." We're talking about giving respect and leaving behind these double-standard, sexist mindsets. Exotic dancers are people too. They should not be treated as lesser than because of their profession.

[@ericpapendorf683]

Luisa23 yeah they are people but people's decisions tell who they are. Most stoppers are hoes not all most if you're looking to enter into a monogamous relationship, having been a stripper does at least cast some doubt as to whether you are capable of that.

[@lu.ciel8770]

Eric Papendorf The only reason it casts doubt is because of preconceived assumptions. You're making a judgement about a person's character without getting to know the person at all.

[@ericpapendorf683]

Luisa23 such is life choices lead to judgement

[@SrHectorA]

I’ve seen former strippers outside the club. Let me say this on their behalf; they leave the stripper character at the club. The ones I’ve known are smart, confident, and strong willed go-getters. The have upper level degrees, businesses, and happy families.

[@malehlohonolo8463]

Lol I was about to say, do they think strippers don't have other clothes/ambitions.. from what I hear, most of them don't want to be doing that- just bad circumstances

[@NihonKaikan]

Yeah…sure.

[@TheRaghorn]

I know someone who married a stripper and they have been together for 12 years and have 2 great children. If you were to see this lady, you would think she is aa model. Classy, sexy and smart as hell. His friends and all his family was told in the beginning what she did when he met her. Those that accepted her are still around, thise that didnt, he parted ways with. His mother simply loves this women. Just like these 4 guys, people talk about how many men she MAY have been with. Well, I know 2 ladies right now that one has been with over 30 guys and one is at 26 right now and both are under 30 years old. You dont have to be a stripper to be a HO. And the icening on the cake is, this guy has a pole installed in their bedroom. LOL.

[@summershine4809]

Exactly!

[@jjoyce46]

And you're right Selahsmum. Men need to take responsibility for what they do and stop coming up with all these WEAK EXCUSES for what they do wrong.

[@GetTheGrandFunkOut]

Todd Chrisley tells it like it is!

[@ammanyameba9040]

Some people talk like strippers don't have lives outside the strip club or away from the pole (if I may say). Its a job they decided to get into for various and very different reasons. Because they're twerking in your face Saturday night does not mean they won't go home and take a book and read or go for class on Sunday. It doesn't mean they can't dress up modestly and follow you to an art auction. Yes, some can be plain hoes even outside the club🙄 but it doesn't mean all of them are that way. It really hurt me to hear the man say he "can't take u out with fishnet stockings"! Like that's all they have in their wardrobe.

[@bennetttrevor3]

Amma Nyameba you can do better than that

[@jsmum196]

David acts like Jennifer got a family member to watch her baby so he won't cheat. smh. She got her relative because she could trust them with the most important person in the world, her baby. She's smart! If a woman isn't your baby's grandma or aunt, she's not going to care for your baby like your baby needs, or worse.

[@prilissa1338]

"why she jiggle when she walk like that?"...😂😂 I laughed so hard, I'm in tears🤣🤣

[@batoolabbasi2746]

what i hear when these men say that nanny shouldnt be hot is "i wont cheat on u with a ugly woman bt i do think a hottie is more worthy to me than our relationship".

[@yourocks2009]

You don't hire any nanny at all boy or girl. Just take care of your own damn kid/s.

[@kathyalex778]

I agree, the idea of someone else taking care of your kids for weeks, months, or years is so weird to me.

[@blackbutterfly233ify]

@@kathyalex778 dumbass number one and dumbass number two. You are aware both parents work to support the family. A nanny helps with the family

[@andynetful]

they are all wrong, wow is that how American people thinks?

[@flayedcorpse8881]

Yes this 6 minute clip of rich celebrities is how all americans think

[@kristinaavetisyan2367]

ANDENET GEZAHEGN OFFICIAL no its not how all americans think. Duh.

[@andynetful]

They all think all nanny’s will sleep with the husbands. 🤔 aha

[@UGUNII]

It’s how all men think..

[@emoo6620]

"I'm jealous of my wife's high school prom date".... that's soooo my husband... 🤣 🤣

[@MHFtractor]

I was my wife’s prom date. Great video and panel. And this September 21, 2019 will be my wife and I’s 19 year anniversary. 👍😎

[@Kimichi03]

"Why she jiggle when she walk like that?" LOL!!!!!!

[@ReeneZon]

You know what, even though this is not what women want to hear, these men are speaking the truth. Let's start looking at the things they're saying and taking notes. My guy cousins and friends keep it real with me all the time and I'm thankful for it.

[@ujung94]

Arnold had that and Mary Poppins wasn't safe. ROFL

[@reabetsweimanmoabi7911]

Hahahajaja😂🤣

[@DesiMeRollin290]

As a man, I understand that it’s tempting to cheat but marriage is a commitment that should stay between the marriage partners.

[@stacyd8817]

4:41. This guy has got zero chills. Nailed it. 😂😂😂

[@heyhuda56]

Todd is too funny

[@Tony11442]

Damn you hot

[@glorymosbyfloyd3878]

David Otunga is absolutely gorgeous! Smart & all!! Jennifer Hudson is one lucky lady!! Of course he's lucky too , to have a beautiful songstress like her!!

[@kintarri74]

GREAT TWO PEOPLE WHO ARE BOTH IN A HIGHLY SATANIC INDUSTRY!

[@dano8012]

+ORION QUEST when its white people, they are talented and gifted but when its black, they must be satanists, way to go buddy!

[@falo98]

+Dan O there's more white people who are in the satanic industry than black people

[@dano8012]

Young Tiller true!

[@adalyndh6843]

And he's a lawyer lol so yes god

[@Yes-rt5to]

So....strippers are bad but a 70 year old man making inappropriate selfies and posting on Twitter is oke? People please stop with the double standard's.

[@reneegardner8847]

I was a dancer in my early 20's. I didn't dress in fishnets, and body suits while I wasn't working. My last 3 years of my dancing career I was in a serious committed relationship, and his mother loved me too. I was very faithful to my fiance. I've had other relationships since that one that I was faithful as well. Just because you dance, doesn't mean you are loose, and don't have morals.

[@dunelsondaniel4544]

You dont have moral if you do these things No you dont No you dont

[@davidbuffer4815]

Guyz are stupid to know this

[@raymondotoole2600]

The world doesn’t revolve around you. This is reality and as a father when I have a daughter my goal is not to get her on a pole… I respect any other line of work than that

[@chaitanyagupta6668]

Men don't find it worth it to take risk to find out if the stereotype is true or not. No need to indirectly inform men that if they reject a woman just because she is a stripper, he is doing something bad. He isn't. He is just maximising his chances at a good relationship by excluding all the outliers.

[@callanc3925]

The thing you need to understand, is that while we know you might be doing it purely because its good money and you need good money we arent willing to take the risk. Certain groups people are more likely to be morally corrupt, and strippers are one of those groups. Hence a lot of men dont want to bother.

[@kennyrayfinlayson7826]

Men are so attracted to the Nanny because the Nanny is acting like a traditional woman (keeping the home)

[@millsykooksy4863]

This

[@yl7495]

Truth.

[@tamarahenderson3738]

Not all strippers are whores. Totally disagree with that statement. She could be a single mom who's not just trying to make ends meet but also putting herself through school.

[@jankemzkas]

+Tamara Henderson the reason does not change what she is doing sorry.

[@tamarahenderson3738]

Precious one, I never stated that what she was doing is okay. Never did I once say she's not a stripper. I said, "not all strippers are whores." We must be careful with our words. But, I didn't post my comment for contention; therefore, I will end here. Be blessed.

[@jankemzkas]

okay fair play

[@rocknrollch1ck]

+ Tamara Henderson no. just no. lolololololololololol

[@don8668]

+Tamara Henderson Funny, I have never met a stripper putting herself through school but I have met plenty who are getting financed by sugar daddies (a lot of them married) that they met at the strip club on the side.

[@antonjoseph3307]

The mindset of men needs to change even more. To assume that a stripper is a hoe... That is as much prejudice as being racist in the KKK in the middle of Texas or Arizona. These guys are just going along with the script because they want to feed their public persona. The reality is that strippers are women who go to work. It is unfortunate that some have golddigger attitudes but not all. Mostly high maintenance but that goes with the territory. I dated one stripper and she was a regular down to earth homegirl deep inside. No drama or out of the way caricatures or stereotypes. She is now happily married 12yrs to someone she met while stripping and has 2 kids in that time. These outdated and stupid ideas about the character of a person based on occupation must die along with racism and other prejudices and bigotry.

[@ugochukwu2765]

+Anton Joseph No you didn't. You never dated no stripper with a face like that

[@antonjoseph3307]

ziko ramos why is a male judging my face? Lol. I'm sorry you don't find me attractive but lots of women do.

[@ugochukwu2765]

really? lol. And I'm not gay

[@CreativelyKia]

Strippers don't value themselves point blank

[@CreativelyKia]

Sabrena Maddox Preach sista ! Can't pay for dignity or respecting yourself. To be honest though, it's so hard because people like myself are working hard and in school, yet strippers making it out here like Amber Rose and Blac Chyna are set up for life. Like it's so not fair.

[@lilhuney33]

To Be Honest a Pay Check is a Pay Check.....As Long as She is NOT Trying to Be a Gold Digger It Should Not Matter. Change The Mind and Then You Change The Woman.

[@MGTOWUNIVERSE]

+Mrs. G. Chloe Chatfield-Joiner All women are looking to hit the lottery when it comes to getting a man. Every woman can't have a billionaire or a millionaire husband, so they move down from there. #Hypergamy

[@lilhuney33]

That is Why It Is EVER so IMPORTANT To Change The Mindset Of Some Women.......I know We All Are not Going To Hit The Lottery, But I Do Believe in God and It States in Proverbs 18:22 When a Man Findeth a Wife He Findeth a Good Thing.....Now On That Note We See a Boaz, We See Paul and The Others, In Biblical Form But As The Real World We Know Broke Azz and Such do Fall In These Lines Too....Be Mindful and Change The Mindset and All will Come to those who are Looking. #EachOneTeachOne

[@cassiuswatt]

+MGTOW UNIVERSE are you a woman?

[@MGTOWUNIVERSE]

cassiuswatt No I'm not, why?

[@lizagonzalez952]

"Arnold had that and Mary Poppins wasn't saved" Chris Todd..lmaoooo 😂😂 he is very real

[@aubreyodom468]

This video is so old but here I am to say we do make better wives lol. I am a retired dancer. I danced for five years and met my now husband while working. I now am happily married going on 4 year’s with a toddler...and let’s just say strippers/retired strippers are open minded individuals who like excitement in their lives. They know how to dress in an attractive way for their spouses, they are confident and articulate, and they are hard workers. Just because a profession was once deemed prostitution... now it’s more so leaned to the dancing aspect of it. I was a top seller at all the clubs I worked at and cannot name many girls who would leave with a customer. Don’t label us all bad I’ve worked along side professional models, hairstylist, business owners, dentist, college cheerleaders etc. all clean cut woman who just loved the atmosphere of dancing and getting paid to have fun and meet new people. I’m not proud of my past by any means but my marriage isn’t plain Jane

[@NihonKaikan]

He’s banging other girls…guaranteed.

[@marcuswroten2919]

steve havey is too judgemental his debates are one sided he only has people on that agree with him

[@adamj517]

Marcus Wroten but they’re not debates he just got his homies on chairs

[@chelseymichelle9115]

Because strippers wear fishnets in public...um no we are women who live professional lives... Mothers, teachers, students its the stereotype that gets the hype ...."oh my gosh she would be so slutty in public". Usually we are the person leading the choir in singing...... We are regular real business women. Making a living in this bad economy. We are Not all prostitutng and we will never come out in public (except for amber rose etc) because you see us different, and our own womenn judge us sooo harshly. Dont worry dancers, I got your back!!!

You can't turn a hoe into a housewife. Bottom line.

[@leslieangela9114]

Lots of strippers in the comments.

[@godisgood1463]

Im not a stripper nor do I know one, with that said, watching this made me feel like these were a bunch of judgmental men giving advice smh.

[@acer4237]

Confidence is when a person doesn’t have to explain themselves or have no shame telling others their profession. Personable is when it’s not about the money. I commented earlier about the video and inadvertently my comment was removed. It mentioned a person I met (stripper) said that most were on drugs or end up on them to give them confidence. She over explained her past in shameful manner but as I told her, when she gets to point of not having to explain for HER life then she arrives at confidence, she is still a great person ❤️to each his own .

[@deanhmiedan502]

Love how the strippers in the comments are defending themselves. Dont try to make stripping seem like an innocent job. Hint:(It isnt). Your selling your body to stranger and making your self nothing more than a sexual object. I know not all strippers sleep with dudes for money but the majority would.

[@Steph89105]

So what. So what if we sell our bodies. And we dont “sell our bodies” first of all, we sell dances and we strip. And we feel its innocent. Its an act for us. We strip and dance for money, what business is that of yours? If you dont want to strip and dance then dont do it, but dont tell other women how they should live their lives or think that you get to decide what is right or wrong. And no dancers dont have sex, we dance and strip and men watch and pay. That is what the majority of dancers do, but if some few dancers meet up with men outside of the stripclub and have sex with them, then that is their business. If women want to make their money by dancing and stripping so what. You make your money however you want booboo and you live your life however you want, but dont tell others how they should live theirs or what job they should have and not have.

[@chaitanyagupta6668]

@@Steph89105 yeah okay. Men can't tell women how to make their money but women can make men villains for not giving a stripper a chance because of her profession. We are not taking chances to know if you're one of the stereotypical ones or not and we are not going to be shamed for making sure we don't fall into a toxic relationship. Men don't like sharing. It is really that simple. I am surprised you guys are able to talk great deals about complex things but not able to understand such simple concept.

[@kelsey2864]

Ok, this whole thing kind of peeved me. I am a stay at home mom. I am in shape and I can draw attention from very attractive men. You better believe that I fully believe that I would turn my world inside down if I chose to experience something as shallow as an affair. Secondly, who in the hell cares if the stripper slept with four hundred people. Now this is coming from someone who believes that your body is a gift and shouldn’t be given out like it’s cheap. But, if the conversation came up about a man having slept with four hundred women, would their reaction have been the same? I am not a feminist at all, but I absolutely agree that the double standard needs to die. I am not going to go a screw every man that I have the opportunity to screw. Not only because I completely respect the man I married, but because I respect myself enough to realize, my body belongs to no one but me. And, if I chose to sleep around, again, that choice doesn’t define who I am, just like it doesn’t define a man. Jesus lord, when are we going to stop this crap.

[@naw011390]

i think strippers can make just as good a wife as any women. It's just a job. Most of the time you who have no idea who is or isn't a stripper outside of the club.

[@markcadieux3445]

On the flip side, you wouldn't want to buy a used car from a rental car agency. No one wants to put their key in a car that's been driven that many miles over so many rough roads.

[@underwaterseas]

These responses make it seem like men lack self control. But I'm not a man so I don't have much room to argue against what I don't know.

[@bgarnett09]

Finally a logical answer

[@denisenewton1510]

I don't understand these so called men i was a stripper and my husband knew I was when he met me and we've been together for 20 years so I don't understand what these so-called guys are talking about I'm the best thing that ever happened to him he loves every minute of everything I've ever done thank you so very much

[@diosa.loba333]

does is mom know you were a stripper?

[@denisenewton1510]

She died from stage 4 cancer

[@chaitanyagupta6668]

Yeah it's fine your guy took a risk and it paid since you were not bad. Can you imagine marrying an ex murderer who just got out of jail? Sure comparing murderer to a sex worker is not apt, but men go bonkers if they get to know their woman has been doing adultery behind their backs. It's that horrific for us. We are not taking chances to know if the one we are dating is one of the stereotypical ones or not. Deal with it. No need to shame men.

[@chaitanyagupta6668]

Just becoz your husband was ready to risk it, doesn't mean all men have to.

[@awesomesk5578]

1. It doesn't matter if your wife or anyone hires a hot nanny or not. If you really love your wife, it doesn't matter if your nanny is Ms. Universe... Your eyes will always be for your lady 2. It all depends on person and another thing..how much they are willing to change. People go to these businesses...either cause they like it or due to some financial circumstances. Strippers are human as well... So it all depends on change.

[@kuriatimon9486]

I'm married to a stripper (now ex-stripper). Best choice I ever made.

[@leesteal4458]

Kuria Timon Ah, hope everything works out for you and her. The reputation thing is not good but I am sure you got to know her heart.

[@laries9648]

Respect!

[@catt9720]

Kuria Timon 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@catt9720]

Ange I you’re an idiot

[@usarmyisthebest9193]

You can't turn a hoe into a housewife.

[@thefactsaccordingtogabbie149]

I love Todd he natural funny and he don't know it! Can wait fie his new season.

[@ethiopiansunztv]

BS, just an excuse for slack behaviour. Have some integrity.

[@stoledo9120]

And this is why I have trust issues with men. In all the relationships I’ve had, my exes cheated. I want nothing more than to be in a monogamous relationship. Is this really how guys think or am I just choosing the wrong ones?

[@martinolsen007]

You are 100% chossing the wrong men. No man or woman is perfect, but there is always someone perfect enough to your own standards. Trust is key.

[@LoveAlwaysAlwaysLove]

They're a living in, 2r/7, other woman. If you can't have your mom or another older woman relative, to nanny your sweet baby, find a senior aged or older professional to hire.💕

[@dariobejo1823]

Seteve : You gotta get a mary poppins looking chick ME : Emily Bunt is playing Mary poppins . That doesnt seem like a bright idea from Steve

[@quantum441]

Girls may do things because they need to at that specific time but that does not label them as unworthy. Everyone needs a trusting relationship and when they find it they will be yours forever!! Why can a guy do whatever they want then become a "Pillar of the community "and a girl do what she has to to survive and become a tramp?

[@DeepVerma728]

Strippers and prostitutes are for pleasure you are not to marry them or have relationships with them. this is a serious violation of the man code.

[@tiffanygilmore104]

not today these idiots are marrying these hoes

[@ToFunForThis]

+Tiffany Gilmore seriously

[@DeepVerma728]

+Tiffany Gilmore Highly doubt that.

[@leeluv96]

In college I did work-study in the Accounting office. Strippers would come to pay their tuition in singles. 4K in singles. I always treated them more respectfully then the regular students. Those Men and Women have since graduated and are high earning professionals and debt free (at least student debt free LOL). I'm sure they left a lot of others behind with no self esteem, goals, ambition, etc... what I don't agree with is that non of them can be good spouses. Everyone has the capacity to change, or already have the goods but just used stripping as a tool. You never know what a person has going on inside of them.

[@prestigehair5133]

Todd should answer every question, who needs a panel with Todd! 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@MrBmore45]

These guys don't represent men. Most men are not millionaires and therefore don't see the world as these men do. Nor do they have access to the same things. ijs

[@leslieangela9114]

I'd rather be with someone successful though and not a dummy

[@consuelo14]

Todd Chrisley is amazing. I gotta feeling he's going to be doing some other stuff in the comedy realm real soon. his humor is natural. he doesn't need a writer. he could prob do a stand-up routine just by Q/A.

[@Madonnaleilaable]

I agree...Am loving his personality!!

[@Bombo505]

Yeah, he is gonna do a stint at the prison facility for a better part of a decade. Im sure they will love him there.

[@katemunyi]

Now I think being a stripper or an escort is a job and not a personality. I know women who have been in such professions made money, quit and are now wives and good ones and noooo they don't walk like or talk like strippers.

[@chaitanyagupta6668]

If its a deal breaker for us men, it is a deal breaker. End of story. Nobody cares how sex workers actually behave.

[@TheAliAzhar]

Ben Affleck and Jennifer Garner split was in 2017 like two years later.

[@CourtneyGavin]

Not a Mary Poppins but a Mrs. Doubtfire is what you need 😂😂 Mary Poppins is cute lol

[@charity9660]

This just made me mad I’m getting some wine and then I’m gonna become a nanny

[@zaiville]

Steve explaining his mom 🤣

[@pjpj3416]

And the way he does his mouth, too funny 🤣🤣

[@ManeOuattara]

When I was growing up, every maid we had was an elderly woman. Women are attracted to rich or powerful men... and nannies are women, so it's probably best to avoid young attractive ones, if you're married.

[@spybubbble]

Nannies are men too.

[@ManeOuattara]

spybubbble - Not in my household.

[@ChaoticButterfly]

Double standard?

[@ManeOuattara]

ChaoticButterfly - Not at all. I just question the motivation of a man who chooses to care for children, as his living. He may have pure intentions, but the statistics indicate otherwise.

[@jdish1619]

4:49 the black guy with glasses and the plaid shirt must be amber roses biggest fan lmao.

[@jsmum196]

The hand that rocks the cradle rules the world. It's too intimate. A women in a power position in your home, caring for your baby, is going to be attractive to the man. He sees his beloved baby in the arms of a loving woman. It should be YOU who is holding your baby. Get a maid, cook and get your mom to watch the baby when you need to go for an appointment or shopping. But YOU need to be the one holding your baby.