The Most HATED Husband on The Internet

[@rose23976]

Hannah was writing a blog about her life when she had their first baby. It’s so sad. In one of her posts, she says how Daniel leaves for work at 7am until 10pm and she’s at home with her baby and no car, so she’s trapped. Another one is when they’ve moved to Brazil and she doesn’t speak the language (Daniel does) and she’s crying because she’s so lonely and has no friends, trapped in an apartment with her baby. Awful.

[@AustinForbis]

Oh god

[@dcarter455]

I really wanna go pick her and those kids up and get them outta there like she’s my own sister!!! Breaks my heart how obviously unhappy and isolated she is. That channel has to be her grasping at connection with someone anyone who will share her interests!

[@aldomoro69]

​@@Sammiejammie521just because you had a different experience doesn't mean she has to feel the same way you did

[@k0htp0t]

But her recent post suggested that she chose this lifestyle. Aaahhh, so infuriating to be trappedm

[@rose23976]

@@Sammiejammie521 That's a really nasty comment telling me to grow up. My boyfriend would never dream of treating me how Daniel has treated Hannah, because he loves and respects me too much to let me go through that alone.

[@Llyd214]

this is so fucking dystopian it could genuinely be a psychological horror novel

[@ahumanistpotato]

This feels like it's straight out of The Handmaid's Tale

[@approximateknowledge5577]

It's crazy how this used to be the norm :( and then women were lobotomized because this type of situation had a very understandable impact on them :(

[@K_whatever24]

it's quite literally a morman version of don't worry darling

[@rosesweetcharlotte]

A girl being chased by a billionaire and then tricked into becoming his trophy and slave is a horror story, not something to aspire to. Woman can't even go get Starbucks if she wants

[@GrubbyPigeon]

This is every other relationship in Utah. This kind of abuse is rampant there.

[@Bathwatergardenhose]

I saw someone say that she is the ballerina that he keeps inside of a jewelry box for himself

[@mrstiddwellbiggestfan]

Sound perfectly accurate tbh

[@thepinkelephant2520]

That’s so true

[@Smoothbrain-nvrm]

This is so sad i

[@alexussk]

Awwww that's so heartwrenching

[@blackqplaylists6751]

OHHHH

[@FishareFriendsNotFood972]

If an epidural is the highlight of your year, please please leave your marriage.

[@caseyw.6550]

And for the love of GOD, stop having more kids! There's no way to be as busy as they are and be attuned to all of their kids' needs.

[@MI75436]

Fuck I hate this man

[@AnisaIslam-jj5pj]

@@caseyw.6550 exaclty smh

[@jeil5082]

​@@caseyw.6550at this point I don't think she has a choice but have his kids. considering everything he's done, allowing his wife birth control is not something he'd do

[@caseyw.6550]

@@jeil5082 Oh I don't doubt it. And it's also a feature of their belief system. Mormanism encourages women to have all the babies...that is the greatest purpose of any Morman woman. Who cares about the kids' wellbeing. We need MORE MORMANS, damn it!

[@asholatte]

The whole “sometimes she can’t get out of bed for a week” thing sounds a lot more like depression than exhaustion to me

[@solus8685]

Depression and exhaustion are very much linked

[@prklemens75]

I was thinking maybe she is "healing" from a "fall" , but definitely depression and exhaustion.

[@Queenofdacastle]

Yes soooo very sad 😢

[@momhplyfuk9284]

That's what I was thinking!

[@zah936]

She looks depressed to me. Her smile is that of a person's who is constantly suicidal and has given up fighting back

[@josiemcgarrigle2741]

the egg apron is even more insane when you hear that he didnt even buy it for her, she ordered it and it took ages to arrive, he was home when they delivered so he accepted it on her behalf and gave it to her on her birthday.... he got her no gift he literally just handed her HER OWN PACKAGE

[@ingridamaliaracila6403]

i’m sorry WHAT

[@lol-np5vp]

is this true??????? what the actual fuck??

[@jules2440]

i'm gonna go insane

[@mikewazasski]

i was wondering why she said “my egg apron” :(

[@sarahobah]

The rage that went through my body when I read that.

[@fromloverboy]

He literally promised her to create a ballet studio in their unused barn and then switched it to be their kids’ classroom instead. He’s literally replacing any semblance of relief she can get with reminders that she’s trapped.

[@harleymanifesto1907]

You can go listen to the voice recording of her saying she was the one who decided not to do it anymore 😂

[@CL0WNP4RTY]

@@harleymanifesto1907 Ever considered abusers make their victims say things that aren’t true using threats? He literally has control over EVERY SINGLE aspect of her life, he can rip that away at any second and leave her alone to tend to 8 kids he forced her to have all alone… unless she agrees to lie and retract her statements. He is an abusive, manipulative millionares son. (PS. you are the reason Christianity is controversial.)

[@TarisLuna]

​@@harleymanifesto1907 you really think, after all the manipulation the husband already did to her, she REALLY decided that without his input.

[@ayesaid]

​@@harleymanifesto1907 In a broader context, she hasn't stopped loving ballet, and hasn't stopped dancing herself, there's a reason she didn't feel she should have that dance space afterall. A good husband would have insisted. A husband with means could have just built a place for the kids to learn independent of her plans for studio space: it shouldn't have been a one or the other situation where she's selfishly taking that space away from her kids just for her, if you get what I'm trying to say. She knew she was being selfish and what has priority (the kids over dance). All I'm saying is, kids didn't "need" a school until she wanted a studio. And that's something the kids should have been provided with regardless (could have just made a school instead of refurbishing the barn she wanted for herself).

[@Shortandnerdyy]

HE’S THE SON OF A FUCKING BILLIONAIRE HE COULD HAVE BOUGHT ANOTHER FUCKING BARN FOR THE KIDS

[@abbthebabb]

“i was a good ballerina” ☹️☹️☹️ she can’t even say how good she was. she went to julliard at 14. she was GREAT. and she can’t even say that

[@notericforeman]

not denying her prowess, but MOST ballerinas go to Juilliard at 14. Your career essentially starts at 17/18 so you need to start training EARLY

[@endoplasmatischesretikulum4999]

Maybe the ballerina of the century. Prodigy or something

[@Mewsette1]

​@@notericforeman No, it's 10 to 18 for dance, most 18, to consider movement up to college level. Most start dancing at 13 so they can't go up to college level by 18. -Julliard dancer

[@boundtobebones]

She was AMAZING-

[@Ibrahim-gm2bo]

You empathize more about a rich white woman than the 50,000 dead Palestinian children.* eye roll*

[@Samzillah]

The worst part is she didn't really HAVE to give up anything. He had the finances to allow her to pursue her dreams. He could have hired a whole host of people to fullfill his farm fantasy, without her having to lift a finger for it. He could have afforded a homestead and a nice place in new york. He can afford nannies to care for the armada of children he wanted. His financial support could have helped skyrocket her career and lead her to becoming world renowned. She could have had the best teachers and opportunities. Instead he clipped her wings and stuck her in a cage.

[@mariayo4284]

Great perspective

[@Random.sachen1]

Narcissism and jealousy. No wonder he wanted to marry fast, cause dating for a year would've exposed him.

[@BASSFZz]

You say this...like the woman didn't have a choice...She did. Honestly, she could have given him custody of her child and just abandoned the family all together. What is he going to do? Sue a student for Child support? XD There's a nasty narrative you guys want to create here, but perhaps I'm the only real Feminist. Because I see a woman getting the Soft life Tiktokers say they want all the time for no other reason than she was a beautiful woman. I mean...most people...are so ungrateful to have people to love them. I hope you're not one of them.

[@spicehurls]

“Instead he clipped her wings and stuck her in a cage” made me tear up.

[@BASSFZz]

@@spicehurls No reason why...she has 8 clones that will love her until she dies...plus a husband. Let's not pretend like she's hurting in life.

[@gothicvomit4894]

Rich people cosplaying as common working folk bugs the crap out of me. I hope she one day escapes that creep.

[@xxxxxxxxx1652]

This dude has all resources to destroy her life if she ever decides to leave

[@Sammythat_B]

I’ll never understand cosplaying a hard life when the person literally has enough money they’d never actually have to work a day in their life if they didn’t want to. That’s probably the issue.

[@michiganscythian2445]

I’ve spent time in the Balkans and compare these two playing ranch family with a family with a small farm I saw in Bosnia, wife in a floral print dress and a kerchief tending cabbages with a hand made rake that’s probably seen 4 generations of use (I’m not stereotyping, I actually saw this) while they have a stand by the road selling produce and home made butter and cheese. And given the age of the couple, at least lived through the Yugoslav War and communism (didn’t look old enough for WWII). These people have probably endured some hardships and have some stories and have learned to adapt to upheaval and who knows what else. Then you have Cowboy Daniel in his ironed shirt and fancy hat playing rancher with billionaire money

[@ruthie8785]

It’s so disgusting isn’t it?

[@Douchebag97]

I mean if he’s rich and wants to work on a farm there’s nothing wrong with that

[@Mrsgameandwatch_]

Real southerners immediately clocked that his "farm clothes" cost more than my rent 😂

[@Dvgteeth]

Hey now, us northeast rednecks could tell too!

[@raccoonman2562]

Bro I'm no way connected to farming except for my interest in it, and I immediately clocked how much his clothes cost. Like bro, no actual farmer is wearing that with the amount of manual work required.

[@SalamanderTeeths]

Those are Sunday clothes fr 🥴

[@CampCounselorCeivn]

That and the wearing the hat inside. My dad literally told my sister he didn't like her boyfriend because she brought him home and he didn't take his hat off when he came in.

[@TheseVioletDelites]

IDK about southern farmers but every millennial and Gen x Midwestern farmer wears a Carhartt tee and jeans and the old guys wear plaid shirts and suspenders 😂

[@gothbimbo9470]

in another universe she rejected his marriage proposal and he murdered her

[@irios1066]

THATS WHAT I WAS THINKING! they're morom and he's mega rich. He's Untouchable.

[@Lily98760]

Yep

[@moviewatcher4323]

I was honestly thinking this sounds like the start to a true crime episode?

[@fionamcgroddy1178]

yeah. i hope she can safely find more freedom some day

[@excelbia08]

I'm pretty sure they would have framed her murder as some suicide but sadly she probably would get more freedom in the afterlife than her life currently

[@buttersky4451]

Sad thing is, she obviously had the right feeling about him when she did not want to date him for 6 months

[@ttthecat]

Exactly- trust your gut friend- trust it.😢

[@AnnSisuLiv]

But she chose to be with him. She saw $$$.

[@JessicaPradoHanson]

Yes and No, guys like this make it clear if they want you then they will follow you until you do something crazy and harm them which they might harm you for or you can just do what they want. They have enough money to follow you anywhere on earth so you just do what they want. Gary Zerola was like that trying to marry me and I didn’t lose him until I moved in with a spy to escape him which then I had to escape the spy…. She was able to find me until I was trafficked. Then I had to escape the traffickers….. but in my case I am alive writing this because my family is taking care of me and I don’t need a man to stay alive being disabled. But most others aren’t as lucky and that is why they can’t say this. So I speak for us all. But many women died trying to escape men and women like them because those kids literally don’t know how to say no. They do the most insane shit because they are taught they can control people with money. If you don’t care they love you more and the ones that want to crush the smartest women really get me because I was a promising young woman that went to Berklee College of Music and I had to change all my dreams because two rich kids felt entitled to damage my brain so much that I an disabled with MS (videos about some of this on my channel). I learned that if they have more than me in this hierarchy I lose, when one dropped an AC on my head to break into my place and it landed on my head while sleeping the cops wouldn’t even go to her house… my parents had to come and then they got my stuff back but they didn’t give a shit about the allegations. She is above the law and she can get away with dropping an AC on someone’s head that only grew up with a few million… far less than her. That is how the world actually works, so I am growing stronger to be more honest in upcoming videos about the things I was too weak to share before. But I shouldn’t be ashamed of what these people did to me…. Andrew Dawson, John Mayer, they should be ashamed because they went after me when I was 19-20 and they were abusing their power. It is time for this to end and its really nice seeing people here care. After having a relative rape and try to marry me the kindness of strangers in these comment sections helps heal my soul. The more I heal the more I can reveal about the truth of what I was forced to deal with growing up a millionaire among predators that wanted to make me their sex slave as I wanted to be an artist.

[@KujiraJrBake]

​@@AnnSisuLiv No, obviously not she was coerced into it she was manipulated into it Tell me, are you by chance projecting?

[@AnnSisuLiv]

@KujiraJrBake No I'm single by choice because I'm not dumb. 🤣 You have so many creative excuses for why someone can't be responsible for their decisions. Sounds like you're projecting.

[@coll4455]

Dude she escaped her Mormon upbringing on her own by her own merit and he freaking trapped her and drug her back.

[@nosiphodywili35]

Now that you say that.. Could it be possible that her family could also have a hand in her being trapped with this man.. She left and they got him to drag her back?

[@eo0-g9j]

She probably loved the donations she gets from mormon churches to promote the lifestyle

[@k0htp0t]

​@@nosiphodywili35 I would believe so!

[@jojowhite.54390]

@@eo0-g9jshe wouldn’t be getting donations

[@strawberryfox8819]

​@@eo0-g9j Not that she can do anything with the money because she obviously can't buy anything for herself. Even her little barn for dancing got taken for the kids instead. If anything, he loves the money. She gets nothing.

[@elainascott7496]

He absolutely trapped her and uses coercive control on her. She was a ballerina at Julliard and one of the top ballerinas in the world and now he won't even let her have pain meds when popping out one of his 8 freaking children.

[@RenaissanceRockerBoy]

Oh god that's awful. Julliard is ridiculously hard to get into, no one just gives up being a top athlete of their own free will unless they have to. I wonder if he deliberately went after her because of how successful she is. JAIL!!!

[@Dvgteeth]

Ding ding ding! This man is hurdling straight into family annihilator territory.

[@palemeadows]

@@RenaissanceRockerBoyhe harassed her for MONTHS, until she said yes! he kept pushing her boundaries, she didnt want to hear married for at least a year! he didnt listen! that poor girl, being a ballerina already breaks your self-esteem

[@k0htp0t]

​@@palemeadowsNo, he didn't listen and somehow managed to find a trigger point given their similar backgrounds to coerce her into being his ballerina. Unbelievable.

[@ruthie8785]

Power and Control. Typical abuser.

[@AmethystEyes]

Some men consider it an achievement to force/make a woman to give up her dreams. Just gross.

[@geministrial950]

They feel so high up in the power scale, they don't even realize how horrible they seem. They don't care.

[@otakujennii]

That's why it's called a trophy wife 😢

[@pianokeys71]

Caging the free bird. Free bird theory.

[@thepinkelephant2520]

Stay strong ladies 💪

[@adjadenisedoumbia9305]

It's disgusting and so scary

[@gnomeconspiracy9]

The fact that he has hired help for himself to run the farm, but not for his wife who is saddled with eight kids, is very telling

[@singingofsilver]

Seriously _what the fuck_

[@marlynmeow]

I think Trevor Noah put it best in his book Born a Crime: "The way my mother always explained it, the traditional man wants a woman to be subservient, but he never falls in love with subservient women. He's attracted to independent women. "He's like an exotic bird collector," she said. 'He only wants a woman who is free because his dream is to put her in a cage.'" In this case, the "exotic bird" hasn't just been put in a cage, but her wings have been clipped as well.

[@Jordan-bm8lp]

This is exactly the quote this story made me think of. I’ve actually written a song with that sentiment too. It’s just such a sad concept. She deserves so, so much better

[@thepinkelephant2520]

Disgustingly true and heartbreaking

[@ferociouslioness]

Incredibly real and incredibly sad

[@sharondestiny1111]

👌👌👌

[@rosesweetcharlotte]

Her wings were more than clipped. She has nothing. Fuck, I'm poor and I have more freedom than she does.

[@Kyiecutie]

“The first undergraduate at Julliard to be expecting in modern history” makes me indescribably sad.

[@alyupde9337]

I feel like he possibly messed with the birth control.

[@-chenlanying5818]

​@@alyupde9337 the fact that he didn't allowed her to used epidurals, i have no doubt that he messed with other stuff too

[@b3nt079]

​@@-chenlanying5818Oh absolutely. Probably sees birth control or contraceptives as bad, if he thinks his wife shouldn't be allowed meds while PUSHING A HUMAN OUT OF HER BODY. This guy is literally the worst. I'm really hoping she eventually is able to leave.

[@missanthropy6174]

Former professional ballerina and ex Mormon here. This situation gets even more depressing when you know that as soon as Hannah got pregnant, her career dreams were dead. There are plenty of pro dancers that have kids and resume their careers after, but they HAVE to have supportive partners and they HAVE to resume training ASAP. Being at that elite level, you are training and rehearsing 8 hours a day 8 days a week. When other people have weekends, you have 5 performances in a row. Most ballerinas that become moms while dancing married a fellow dancer that understands her passion. It’s a commonly understood trope in the ballet world that when a ballerina marries a man outside our world, it’s only a matter of time before she announces the deathnell of her career- pregnancy. Add on top of that that Hannah married a Mormon man, her career was over before it started. He was never going to let her continue dancing. And final tragic detail that you wouldn’t necessarily know as a non dancer- Hannah will never dance professionally again. Even if a miracle happened and her husband and family stopped being an obstacle, she’s just too old to make a comeback and she has been for about 10 years. There’s a saying in the ballet world- it takes twice as long to come back from your time off. It basically means that the longer the period you take off training, you have to double that time training just to get back to where you were. And that only gets harder the older you get. It’s not uncommon for dancers to retire at age 30 because of the tole ballet takes on your body. I had to retire at 18 because I broke my back in rehearsal. I can’t imagine how hard it would be to try and get into professional shape at the age I am at now (26) let alone at 34 after having 8 freaking kids. Hannah’s husband stole any possibility of being a ballerina from her. As someone who made it professionally for only a few months before my body and my dreams were broken, I can’t tell you the heartbreak I still feel. But my tragedy was an accident. Hannah’s tragedy was deliberately taken from her. I can’t imagine the resentment and rage she lives with.

[@cosmari245]

"a dancer dies twice"

[@missanthropy6174]

@@cosmari245 indeed she does. It’s like being born with the ability to fly only to lose it forever and have to live the remainder of your life on the ground.

[@trishcallaghan934]

Amazingly stated! I’m so sorry for your accident !

[@jennamichie7245]

I was curious it looks like she still stays insanely active with the home gym, I know nothing about ballet but could that be a good thing for her if she ever got away from him?

[@meme101RE]

❤

[@lili.z9950]

Sadly, it’s not even Hannah’s account anymore. As soon as she started gaining traction, all the branding, trademarks, LLCs, etc got put under his name ONLY. Even if she left, ballerina farm is his.

[@4F_G]

wtf that's actually terrifying i couldnt even imagine getting trapped and when people actually notice my struggles I get silenced. I really hope she gets help soon I'm praying for her.

[@nanomia]

it seems this is common with mormomns another Mormon trad wife who was divorced and started sharing tiktoks said that her name wasn't on anything and when she started her own business her husband put his name on it

[@breannanorthrup5498]

MAYBE THE WORST PART OF IT

[@Lacamina5]

Is that true!?

[@Messycandy_17]

😱 he’s probably cheating too 😞

[@dolliesgaming9951]

"oh my egg apron 🙁"LIKE SHE ORDERED IT FOR HERSELF AND HE USED IT AS A GIFT??? DIVORCE HIM.

[@Waldo-in-walls]

I didn’t even think that. She probably did order it for herself

[@bunnymoonh127]

maybe she bought it for herself and he kept it „hidden”so he had smth to give her and didn’t have to put any effort in.. cuz he says smth like „had it for a while”.. :(((( and the fact that he didn’t even wrap it? she jst opened the box the apron came in.. wtf 😭😭

[@orangejuice682]

omg he did say "look where it came from" in the video.

[@jasywhore408]

​@@bunnymoonh127 the fact his dad owns an airline and they couldn't take a trip somewhere

[@caseyw.6550]

​@@bunnymoonh127Seriously. It's so bad. It's honestly hard to believe they didn't post that as rage bait.

[@Baked_and_booked]

The worst part is the fact his dad literally owns an airline and he couldn't get her tickets. She gave up everything; her life, body, dreams and passions for nothing in return. He didn't even wrap the egg apron and gifted her another chore. To him she is a prize to be won, an object to be abused. I really help she gets help because 100% the husband is abusing her

[@63tara]

I just wanted to add to the egg apron: in the video of her unboxing it, she said MY apron when she opened it, meaning she either ordered it herself or had an identical one. she wanted to go to Greece and her billionaire husband couldn't even give her that

[@lauryntonio]

couldn't agree more. she gave up everything for nothing but disrespect and constant subtle diminishing remarks/actions. he'd reduce her to nothing if he had his way

[@makennarodriguez2866]

I don’t really feel bad for rich people but this breaks my heart. She is trapped

[@jasywhore408]

​@@makennarodriguez2866 I feel like it's very obvious that even if your rich, you can still have problems

[@k0htp0t]

​@@makennarodriguez2866 Given how she said no many times and still got somehow trapped by this, I do feel horrible for her. He's a psychopath.

[@literallydolly]

“I was a good ballerina” is such a sad line

[@sr8vya]

i almost cried

[@marissawatson8292]

That’s the line of a character in a book who was put through horrors unknown and it’s so sad she likely had to live that

[@literallydolly]

@@Sammiejammie521 I’m not gonna argue with you

[@marissawatson8292]

@@Sammiejammie521 if that isn’t what she wanted, then yes. She is a good woman for being there for her children, but it is clear that this was the life the man wanted and that she was dragged into.

[@Sammiejammie521]

@@marissawatson8292 it is what she wanted to do, go see how the journalist who wrote this article had to re-write an article retracting her statements. She let her personal bias get in the way, and she wrote a slander piece. You can also hear the audio from the interview and how far this journalist took everything out of context. It’s looking quite disgusting and you should probably look into doing your own research before you comment things on peoples lives. This guy just posted this because it is a hot button subject, and wants to make money off of it. Even though in five minutes you can find All of the true information

[@slayespa]

Not even billions are worth putting up with this man

[@emmad1234]

Especially since he doesn't spend any of it on her

[@calliew311]

​@@emmad1234This is what I was going to say, well a version of it: It's not billions if it's not hers, and she has no control over it.

[@mckennadishongh2160]

“If you marry for money, you will pay for every penny”

[@luvloxqy0rp]

off topic but I LOVEEE your user

[@AnnSisuLiv]

Obviously she thinks it is, she's with him.

[@cantalope123]

I despise guys who want a "traditional life", but will actively look for girls that arent into it, so they can mold them and tell everyone "Yeah, she used to have dreams, but she left everything to be with me". No...You stripped her from her identity and gaslighted her into thinking thats what she has wanted all along. 💀

[@pianokeys71]

Free bird theory

[@claida339]

My ex tried to pull that shit, breaking all my boundaries little by little, went as far as secretely putting a downpayment for a house in Liverpool, a place I'd specifically said I didn't want to live in, since my training as a tour guide makes me very skilled in the town I live in, and love. I'm so thankful for my education that made me see through his shit, instead of having been "prepared" as a child to give up everything for a hypothetical husband. I despise those guys too, and he didn't even have the guts to admit to anything. These men are cowards who know they couldn't achieve more than their wives so they dismantle them.

[@baddie1shoe]

It’s like breaking a majestic wild horse.

[@shipper-of-heart8898]

Or you get those guys who insist the woman be a 'tradwife' and when she's like 'ok yeah I'm all for it! You'll be a trad husband right and do things like paying the bills and supporting us?" They instantly are like 'oh so you're a gold-digger lol!'

[@peacefulchaos333]

Not only that but they don't want to be a traditional husband either 💀

[@smidgenpigeon6648]

No one’s talking about the fact that this could easily be turned into a type of psychological thriller movie with how insane this plot is, especially if she finally decides to try to divorce and leave the stalker with billionaire parents.

[@siennajade4885]

exactly I'm genuinely concerned for her safety, someone like David will stop at nothing to control her and he's not going to be happy about all this bad press. I doubt she'd ever try to divorce him because clearly with the amount of money he has there's just nowhere she'd ever be able to escape him

[@AjaNeRheaLawson]

This screams true crime documentary

[@emmy372_bce0]

That’s exactly what I was thinking

[@bluehairedvixen]

Sounds like the movie Enough with Jlo before she went insane

[@fralanasko2900]

This situation is devastating

[@emmad1234]

The fact he "needed" ger to get married ASAP, was so much more disturbing when I remembered he was mormon and had to wait till marriage for sex. 🤢

[@euphoriaya]

It's seriously disgusting he's treating her like a baby making/fuck machine

[@Killbb12]

The whole week in bed thing sounds an awful lot like some kind of depressive disorder.

[@thaloblue]

BECAUSE IT IS. She could also be suffering physical conditions like fibromyalgia, chronic fatigue syndrome, chronic exhaustion, or a post-partum heart conditions. The human body was NOT built to spit out eight babies one after the other.

[@thesinfulgypsy]

Absolutely a depressive. :(

[@thesinfulgypsy]

@@thaloblueand she didn’t recovery in any other physical way either! She literally never stops working.

[@D3cora_Kai]

Exactly, or even a physical issue! I have chronic pain and may have fibromyalgia and cfs and that sounds like me a lot of the time. Honestly i feel so badly for her :((

[@kitsterangel]

It's estimated post partum depression is missed a lot more than we think, which could be especially likely for her if she isn't recovering properly and not being followed by a doctor :// My mum didn't even realize she had post partum depression until several years after the fact.

[@Glitterandgoldfinds]

NO ONE is talking about that recovering from birth is painful. And you’re not supposed to engage in “activities” a few weeks if not a couple months after. So if it’s exactly 9 months after, I’m genuinely concerned for her from a physical and psychological standpoint because I can tell you VERY few women are in the mood post partum for a while

[@paolaashe2474]

YES! Exactly what I was thinking!

[@arisanchez112]

it’s honestly sick 🤮 abusive and cruel

[@hey_thatsmyname]

I think they were meaning 9 months after she gives birth, she's ready to. Not that the kids are all 9 months apart. Also, I've had multiple friends tell me nature's cruel joke is it makes you horny af shortly after giving birth, except you're still icing yourself and have disposable underwear on, so 🤷‍♀️

[@addysart5027]

I wouldn't be surprised is he forced her into it to try immediately postpartum, and so she sneaked birth control pills behind his back for a few months so she wouldn't get pregnant

[@umbrie11a]

i was thinking this too.... hes a disgusting person

[@carolinejohnsonn]

cooper is the only reason why i know whats going down on social media lately😭

[@ems_228]

same!!!

[@obvi.charlotte_213]

So real 😂

[@Xiomy._]

Fr 😭

[@MotherTuck]

Ditto

[@MotherTuck]

Who needs news? 🤣

[@Crybabyblue]

THE “GIFT” WASN’T EVEN WRAPPED I’m in tears for her

[@kanizshamma_20]

- Stalked into relationship - Married before finishing school - Quit ballet - Dropped out of Julliard to live a farm life - Continuous pregnancy - NO epidural for 7 deliveries - No ready meals just cooking from scratch - No nannies - Feeding animals - In bed for A WEEK from exhaustion "Gets an shitty looking egg apron as birthday present after clearly wanting a vacation to Greece, from the billionaire husband who's daddy owns an airline" And there's still people in the comments saying she's not a victim, she's in a happy marriage.

[@halfpintrr]

It’s worse, she ordered the apron. She said ‘my egg apron’. He handed her her own package.

[@candyme8980]

She should've married Daniel's dad instead of him 👀🍵

[@Random.sachen1]

​@@candyme8980😂😂😂

[@scarycarrieee]

@@candyme8980 bro propably would have been even worse-- he raised this dude

[@AnnSisuLiv]

So she has zero responsibility for her choice? She chose the life. She could leave if she wants.

[@swearimnotarobot3746]

I love that in the article about them, the writer said the husband does help, he does the laundry. Like what? That’s it?

[@partiallyhealedsunburn1881]

tbh for how many kids they have, helping with laundry probably does a lot 😅 not that it justifies his lack of support

[@naomiroes4818]

True, but it’s not even close to the most time consuming thing that she has to do. Cooking meals can take several hours depending, and also cleaning every day, if the only thing he’s doing is laundry “sometimes” which is probably like once a month, I don’t think it’s actually super helpful. If he were doing laundry everyday that would be different

[@miliejones3900]

@@partiallyhealedsunburn1881not compared to her cooking, cleaning, and schooling for all them kids. She’s not even allowed to have a nanny for help. Laundry is a walk in the park in comparison. Could’ve had 10 kids and it still ain’t anything compared to what his wife does.

[@blyndeaf8503]

@@partiallyhealedsunburn1881I mean yeah, but you can’t really use the “they have 8 kids” argument, because he wanted lots of kids. You can’t opt out of helping out with all the other things that you know you should be doing just because you CREATED a scenario where helping with one thing is now a big task. Pretty much EVERY chore with 8 kids and a farm is time consuming.

[@naomiroes4818]

I in fact did not get to that part of the video yet, sorry

[@1997fordtruck]

8 kids and doesn’t even get a loving and supportive husband actually so sad

[@rose23976]

Eight kids now!!

[@Happymind-happyworld.]

@@rose23976 ok 7 kids and she doesn’t even get much support from her partner.

[@Lily98760]

She looks fabulous for having 8 kids. I question if they have surgery to keep her thin or trainers

[@alwaysrootingfortheantihero123]

@@Lily98760i think she’s doing physical labor and also ballet for fun at home so that probably keeps her pretty in shape

[@nicki6892]

People are making TikToks about how Hannah’s privileged and how we should respect her choices (“she CHOSE this”). I keep seeing people saying that “feminists are only feminists until someone’s a housewife/tradwife” “what if she’s just happy with her life??”. How are WE FORGETTING THAT IN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIPS THE VICTIMS CANT GET TO OUT. They’re often gaslighted and manipulated into being okay with the abuse, and also getting out is super hard??? Her money is TIED TO HIM. She’s a HOUSEWIFE. The chance that she’s gonna show off how unhappy she is with her husband is MINUSCULE. Like… of course she’s gonna look happy if that’s her only chance at a life.

[@lydiagentry6467]

Not to mention, even if she did leave, what about her kids? I’m so heartbroken for her

[@ABETTA-kz6mt]

AND she grew up mormon. her whole life she´s been fed the narrative that this is the best and correct life for her to want, to the point of her believing it was her choice

[@scarycarrieee]

not to mention that as soon as her account went viral, he made all of the money go to him instead of her.... she has nothing but the house and her kids.

[@AnnSisuLiv]

She did chose it. And if she left, she'd get half the assets and can keep her future earnings. She choose$ to stay.

[@nanomia]

she did chose it though. and she have millions of supporters who can help her out. she can leave she has a good brand. this mentality of abused women can't leave seems defeatist like they're helpless and can't do anything but they can if they really want to and plan it especially someone who has millions of people following them.

[@Plexxis_SugarPom]

This woman's boundaries were broken so many times she's at a point of submission, and it shows every time she's talking without her husband in that interview

[@geministrial950]

Sounds similar to learned helplessness, something that happens with horses. Once you learn that it's impossible to escape, you just stop trying. It breaks your spirit.

[@Plexxis_SugarPom]

@@geministrial950 Jesus Christ I'm horrified for this woman and horses now

[@wingberry123]

It's also because she also had many siblings she probably felt unheard of and lost from the many voices.

[@sadiemakesmesmile]

@@geministrial950 learned helplessness is a very common human psychology as well, doesnt just apply to horses

[@chadfromsleepingbeauty]

Someone get this girl a divorce and some tickets to Greece with ballet shoes

[@BreeValerie]

Even with her staying in her location, but with Daniel out of the picture. I imagine her teaching little children ballet. With such love for ballet, she could be an amazing teacher ❤❤❤

[@chadfromsleepingbeauty]

@@BreeValerie not to mention she went to camp at Juilliard when she was FOURTEEN, she’s incredible and you can see it in her face, I saw her response to the article and it seemed so fake, it was just photos and a written caption :(

[@angieblake3424]

👏

[@AB-ce3nn]

Woman*

[@Pippin_pie]

“He’s not a cowboy, he’s a cosplayer.” BAR. 🗣️‼️

[@lexythatsme.3064]

why can nobody quote correctly ? he said YOU’RE

[@Pippin_pie]

@@lexythatsme.3064 and yet… time has not stopped, the earth is still rotating, there is still air to breathe, and this is a KZbin comment, and not a research paper. It has never been that serious. 🩷

[@Pippin_pie]

@@lexythatsme.3064 and if we’re getting political about comments, spaces don’t go before punctuation.

[@Happymind-happyworld.]

@@Pippin_pie Yep, also each sentence must start with a capital letter.😅

[@Pippin_pie]

@@Happymind-happyworld. YOU’RE SO RIGHT- LMAO

[@naturallyrad]

Sounds like his daddy needs to be investigated for giving out peoples confidential flight information for stalking purposes. That's got to be illegal, even for the owner.

[@vf1923]

Yeah, good question. Presumably, she didn't tell him what seat she was in, so he would have had to ask his father or the company to look up what flight and/or seat she was on, and then move the person booked to sit next do her (potentially bumping them off the flight, if it was full). Romantic tragedy movie idea: The person originally in the seat was a nice young man who would have supported her far more fairly.

[@mikejackson7881]

THIS!!!!! NOBODY IS TALKING ABOUT THAT LIKE WTF!!!!

[@naturallyrad]

@@mikejackson7881 I agree. How did he even know she had purchased a plane ticket? His Dad must have told him. And then for him to purchase the seat next to her, so creepy.

[@retsa]

“i was a good ballerina” tore me apart. her life brings me such grief and i’m not even the one living it.

[@queenemmers]

Me too. A woman was robbed of the ability to safely pursue her passion because of an entitled rich boy. I can't even imagine what's going on in her head every single day.

[@Ibrahim-gm2bo]

@@queenemmers You empathize more about a rich white woman than the 50,000 dead Palestinian children.* eye roll*

[@Ibrahim-gm2bo]

You empathize more about a rich white woman than the 50,000 dead Palestinian children.* eye roll*

[@Bullen_3]

I just found this out and I have been crying. I don't even very cry easily.. especially over people I hear of over the internet.

[@candisew.1669]

Something about being reminded that men like this exist, not in the money but the mindset, is so chilling as a female in society…

[@farahhxo]

Ikr I would rather be kidnapped by aliens.

[@candisew.1669]

@@farahhxo aliens I could almost rationalize by thinking they didn’t know better, men I just cant say the same…

[@kentuckyroutezero]

It’s honestly one of the reasons I pushed so hard to be sterilised so I can’t have kids. The thought of a man being able to not only trap me, but also force a child into the world is more horrific than any scary movie I’ve ever seen. I saw it happen in my family over and over and I’m not letting that happen.

[@Zaguzah]

And the menfolk are confused when women choose the bear....

[@amethystrox444]

correct me if im wrong here, i may have misinterpreted some of what was said here. but 8 kids times 9 months of pregnancy equals 72 months of pregnancy or 6 YEARS OF BEING PREGNANT with next to no recovery time in between. If they met when he was 23 and she was almost 2 years younger (assuming she was 22) and she’s 34 now, they’ve been together for 12 years. So for HALF of their ENTIRE relationship/marriage, she’s been pregnant. Just to put it into perspective. That’s fucking insane.

[@anush_agrawal]

Normal for mormon families.

[@thepinkelephant2520]

What a nightmare 🤮

[@MariaLunaDelRey]

And he’s probably been out of her and her kids life for even longer than that…. So so sad

[@zorro......]

No, there's a 9 month recovery period. Hannah said it was a matter of prayer, and Daniel said that it was suspicious that it happened after 9 months like clockwork

[@amethystrox444]

thats what i was confused about. so they would have a kid, wait 9 months, and she’d get pregnant again? even in that case, shes been pregnant for 6 years of their marriage, just not straight. and thats crazy. i cant imagine 9 months being enough recovery time (physically and mentally, especially without pain management and for that amount of consistently having children of varying sizes). thanks for clarifying!

[@deonshunnn]

genuinely hit hard when you showed that vid of her tiktoks of her dancing, that is painful. "i was a good ballerina" nahh girl you was astonishing fr

[@Illbebetteronsaturn]

I'm sorry but when your wife "doesn't get out of bed for a week" because she is that tired from doing all the cooking and sitting with 8 kids and u still have the audacity to say u want her to do more,then u are very Fed up

[@noazoelevin5462]

i just wonder what they eat when shes in bed for a week i bet he orders pizza

[@savannahrorke6715]

@@noazoelevin5462and then still expects her to clean up and put away leftovers🙄

[@slayespa]

You would think he could afford to hire a chef and nanny for their 8 children with some of his billions of dollars

[@erinoutsomegrievances]

She is the modern day version of “awwwww grandma… you little victim wtf”

[@Katfall2012]

I know what you mean but my nana was a pure victimizer... she had my pops giving her his paychecks and he got a small allowance. Actually.. still. She's ruthless! My mom too! My dad's so nice I think he made me lose it... oh and my dad's mom too

[@youcantdiealonewithcats]

​@@Katfall2012I believe you completely, but that's not the norm. It was and is the other way around 99% of the time. Especially for our grandmothers and great grandmothers and literally all before them. And even when I was a recent high school graduate in2010ish, my best friend was handing her pay check over to her man so he can decide what to do with it. I have another friend who just got out of a 13 year relationship with a narc and they lived with HIS parents, neither of them worked but even when she worked and he didn't, he expected her money to become his once she got paid. It's wild how often this happens. I don't know the story behind your grandparents, but I do know back in the day men expected women to pay the bills with their money (it was more of a process back in the day, going to or mailing to each individual place actual money or a check, there was no auto pay in those days) and men who had families with like 5, 6, 9 kids and would try to drink their paycheck away would often give their paycheck to their wives, he would get an allowance for himself only, while the rest was used for bills, food and clothing for the children. Alcoholism was a major problem for housewives and mothers back in the day, when they weren't allowed or able to work, and that's largely how and why Prohibition came to be. Because women were tired of getting beat and killed and rpd by their drunk husbands, and tired of him blowing all the family's money on liquor. But again, not saying that is the case with your grandparents, your g-ma may have been a complete anomaly. There are bad and narcissistic and abusive women and mothers out there too, though rarer. I can't imagine giving even one of my measliest paychecks to anyone, it's so degrading and demeaning and would greatly impact my will to work.

[@LizzyGiggles]

He hires a crew for himself but not for her and STILL expects her to work the farm AND raise the kids. Dude.

[@Lily98760]

You give him too much respect calling him dude, if his wife was treating him bad everyone would call her a b. So he’s a huge bitch for treating her baf

[@lqmon._.]

Ironically, her life sounds like a ballet tragedy

[@fallenlucifer]

The fact he called it "Ballerina Farm" is just cherry on top because when people look her up with "ballerina" it's the only thing that pops up. Not a single picture/video of her dancing. Just to erase everything she ever was. Both to the public and to Hannah herself. Such an obvious move and he's just taunting her at this point. (Not to mention that it's Ballerina Farm because he indeed trapped a wonderful and incredibly talented ballerina in that godforsaken farm.)

[@lili.z9950]

Also the Ballerina Farm LLC, marketing, branding etc is only in his name. As soon as her socials stated becoming popular, he put it all in his name only.

[@lilipad5514]

Great point. Ugh this is such a horrible situation for this woman and the children!!

[@fallenlucifer]

@@lili.z9950 This too! Absolutely horrible situation. I hope she finds a support system and makes it out. So many women get trapped this way and it's heartbreaking.

[@aesj8166]

@@lili.z9950srsly?? that's so fucking awful...he's a disgustingly self-centered human being. i can't even imagine having to spend a day with that guy.

[@noelanisinclair1520]

my sister got into Juilliard but we weren’t able to send her because even with a half ride scholarship it was insanely expensive. It makes me incredibly upset to see someone that was actually able to go and chase their dreams just to have it ripped away by this monster of a man.

[@thepinkelephant2520]

Spot on, it’s such a privilege to even be able to attend Juilliard and she got in to be dragged away by the cosplayer

[@_zzofiom]

i refuse to believe daniel actually loves her. he just used her to make a life HE wanted. he never wanted a wife, he wanted a servant

[@Ibrahim-gm2bo]

Awww so you empathize more about a rich white woman than the 50,000 dead Palestinian children? * eye roll*

[@ian562ADF52E]

I'm sure he loves that his accessory is a pageant queen, and put together housewife ballerina. But I don't think he has the capacity to love another human, or even really empathize with another living being.

[@AnnSisuLiv]

And she chooses to be.

[@eulennachathen449]

He sure loves to own her.

[@_zzofiom]

​@@AnnSisuLiv ah yes, because YOU would know! theres definitely not a lot we dont see about their relationship, because YOU know everything there is!

[@horses4555]

“He wants to feel like a man because he grew up in his father’s shadow.” This is all that needs to be said.

[@jade3904]

I feel so bad for her he literally stalked her and kept her pregnant. He could have taken her to Europe :( - ALSO IMAGINE YOUR FIRST DATE IS BEING TRAPPED ON A PLANE WITH A STRANGER FOR HOURS

[@dovesraven]

literally like ,,, she didn’t wanna date you so instead of taking “no” for an answer ,, you stalk her and coerce her into dating you and then catapulting you both to marriage n endless babymaking ???? tf ???

[@d.k.s.5919]

What broke me was this billionaires birthday present for his wife was an egg apron... After leaving hints of wanting to go to Greece. Of course... Who would take care of the farm while the family is gone?

[@chocobug0]

not even a stranger ! a man that she rejected for 6 months 😭😭

[@fischl-von.luftschloss]

@@chocobug0 arguably even worse

[@k0htp0t]

He kept her pregnant so she cannot leave 😢

[@ariellareyes8937]

Her name not being on the company’s legal docs is a major red flag to me.

[@strawberryfox8819]

Yes. It means everything belongs to him, making it impossible to leave because she has no penny to her name.

[@MI75436]

It is also what Mormon priests recommend

[@noot-noot-pingu-noot-noot]

also it's very likely that he made her sign a prenup when they got married, and since she's barely able to leave the house she probably only has the money her tiktok makes (unless that's also done through his business), making it even more impossible for her to leave him

[@Lulz-bg1mz]

And everything else isn't???

[@StormSought]

If she were somehow able to get in touch with a lawyer, they could maybe help her just because of how much money he has. The stuff being in his name could be contested, and this could get ugly enough to cause problems for his dad, so they might just give her whatever it took to make it go away. I don't know how it would go with the kids, though. I hope she can at least talk to someone and have some options.

[@kaylynnirvinesthetics]

As someone who has parents who are very Mormon, I know for a fact that vasectomies are okay with the church. Every single one of my mormon uncles, grandpas and dad have had one to NOT have any more children.

[@AuntLoopy123]

Yes, they actually DO teach the men that it is THEIR RESPONSIBILITY NOT TO OVERBURDEN THEIR WIVES with endless pregnancies.

[@jellyrolly]

which makes daniel even more of an asshole.

[@mistybraun9973]

It’s not even birth control that could solve this problem. He could also simply leave her alone for a little while. The idea that she is working so very hard all the time and he is likely pushing himself on him right after giving birth is super gross to me. She can’t even be left alone for six weeks? If she says no, he’ll just go somewhere else though. Then Hannah will lose everything. The power imbalance is scary.

[@rosesweetcharlotte]

​@@mistybraun9973The man basically doesn't even let her leave the farm except for approved visits that include him

[@Katfall2012]

@@AuntLoopy123he obviously missed that memo. Probably a narcissist so anything that's negative to him that could help her shoots straight over his head

[@gladitsnotme]

It's called Ballerina Farm LLC but her name isn't on the LLC, so she's left penniless without a dime to her name, and she's also not a ballerina anymore. Wow. Scam of the century. She better wake up and get her name on these businesses. The business should be renamed to Billionaire's Son Farm.

[@grandpa_the_kid]

It is so disgusting how so many men want a strong well rounded woman to break them down. Like someone else said, there are so many LDS women who would kill to marry a billionaire and be a stay at home mom. But he HAD to pick the woman who wasn’t interested and couldn’t take no for an answer.

[@hailey7596]

He wanted to feel self made and have something to conquer. There's no conquest in finding someone who wants to be molded and led in a biblical context. There is conquest and pride to be had in finding someone with passion and drive and having such an all consuming gravity that they are pulled into your orbit despite their previous trajectory. It was his way of saying "look I'm important too. Look, me and my dreams are so important that this beautiful talented individual chose to make me and my dreams theirs too before pursuing their own."

[@Crashesdown253]

@@hailey7596 💯 I lived in the richest zip code in Connecticut for a couple years, totally out of my comfort zone. But I noticed once these people have everything they want, they start collecting people! They don’t see it this way, but it’s clear as day. The business men will find cool former Seals to hang out with, or celebrities, and keep them as close friends, and take them on vacations. Young men will find talented and beautiful young women and break them to be at their beck and call. Rich women will find slightly less attractive and depressed other women and invite them around to feel schaudenfreud. It’s wild!

[@lovelymill]

@@hailey7596 he is enjoying the fact that she lives the life he chose for her. he likes the fact that she is trapped. i absolutely despise people like him

[@hailey7596]

@@lovelymill so you agree. She was a conquest that he's, for all intents and purposes, held on to through tactful means.

[@AnnSisuLiv]

Strong women don't let a man break them down, at least not keep them down. Temporary lapse maybe, but not a life choice.

[@arisanchez112]

he literally could afford SEVERAL live-in nannies but instead he INSISTS on torturing this woman 🙄 also, literally no one should have more than 5 kids (and that is like extreme outside max) for the physical and mental health and safety of everyone in the family. any more than that and you are neglecting both yourself and the children, plus inevitably parentifying your older children, which does lifelong psychological damage (speaking from experience)

[@kittycat5736]

THIS! I am the oldest daughter of seven in my family and I still remember helping my mom with the younger siblings.

[@beanybabyrabie]

Let’s not forget that it isn’t all on her… She has older children.

[@MI75436]

Also she has so many kids in just how many years? If she was still dancing in 2018 Back to back pregnancies are awful for your body I hate this man

[@kayd9405]

Im not convinced they don't still tbh

[@rileysnell-s2g]

@@beanybabyrabiethats kinda the point, older teens shouldn't be forced to take care of their younger siblings, obviously they have responsibilities, CHORES not children to look after.

[@JacksonLarkin]

the birthday “present” made me so mad. i buy my girl better presents than that for no reason. and i’m a 15 yo unemployed boy

[@MI75436]

You’re a better man than many 😊

[@lucynosbisch]

Keep being one of the good ones

[@akatsukiowned]

Way to be bro, we gotta be the better men we wanna see

[@dnbsvitkona3802]

Yk what you’ll be happy in the future because you care about your loved ones. My great granny always says that you eat your own heart’s bread. That may sound weird but it is not in English. Go brother, you are a real men!

[@nava1436]

I swear teen boys are so fucking mean its so exciting to see a teen guy who is nice and actually cares about his girlfriend

[@rachel_ellingson]

“You’re a tumor that fell off your dad” underrated insult 😂

[@AnymousScreams]

The fact that their unused barn, that could have been a ballet studio for her, became their childrens' classroom, is so sad.

[@AnymousScreams]

@@floatinjellies That's even worse.

[@deborha]

It's genuinely scary how her husband treats her

[@M_k-zi3tn]

Yall gotta read the second article cause you're doing too much

[@piratepenquinn]

"She'll say yes because of *the implication* " was definitely this guys strategy.

[@SB-my8fi]

I see you are sunny in Philadelphia. 😂

[@WhatWouldLubitschDo]

The part describing the neglected and parentified kids in term of: “there are so many that they seem to have become an almost self-sustaining entity” is disgusting

[@zoeb3573]

Exactly, they describe it like it's a good thing... if you have so many kids that you can't take care of all of them and they have to take care of each other, you're having too many kids. And you're not being good parents. The older children will have stories to tell of how they were parentified in a few years.

[@vf1923]

Yeah, it's a throwaway line, but it's powerful, because it shows that actually the amount of work is now taking up the older children. And also, the Dad takes the kids out to help with the animals? Helping is one thing, but they are his nannies and farmhands. He's a multi-millionaire.

[@purplbee4442]

What does Daniel even do at home? Does he contribute at home at all? I feel like he sits in his mancave in his clean cowboy hat while she works herself to the point of exhaustion. Imagine stalking a girl that doesn’t like you, pressuring her to marry you, taking away all the opportunities for her dream, turning her into a birthing machine, while refusing her any epidurals during the births, to the point she is so relieved to take it in secret, and giving her the most lackluster amount of joy and consideration. Imagine being so rich and giving her nothing to ease her exhaustion, having that much money and not funding her dream, not even giving her a good gift that she clearly wanted and that you could clearly give her, not even bothering to hire staff to help your wife that you force to make food all from scratch and do all the chores. Imagine being that selfish and idiotic of a person. If I was Daniel, I would hate the person I was.

[@shabadvirk195]

i feel like she has no access to a car or something. he prolly doesn't even use any form of birth control with the way she's always pregnant

[@rosesweetcharlotte]

Seriously, what is the point of all that money if you don't give your wife anything? She can't even go to Target just for a break.

[@Katfall2012]

@@shabadvirk195it said they don't believe in contraceptives

[@Katfall2012]

@@shabadvirk195more like he doesn't believe in it and she just doesn't feel like arguing

[@radioactiveferrets]

"Aw, my egg apron!" has the same energy as "A avocado. Thanks."

[@lillianastorm6985]

Ngl, the avocado kid sounded happier and more genuine 😂

[@cosmari245]

@@lillianastorm6985 LOL actually true, the way he said "avocadooo!" sounded more excited😆

[@halfpintrr]

It sounds like she ordered the apron. That’s even worse.

[@4F_G]

@@halfpintrr I think she did order it but it took forever to come and when she wasn't there, Daniel was and took the opportunity to be lazy enough to just use that as a present.

[@TheMirandaCowles]

I was with an abusive man for YEARS. When he let me work, I paid for everything and had to clean everything. When he stopped letting me have a job he would do the dishes for me once a year for my birthday. This...makes me remember that. 💔

[@Yoursleep_paralysis_demon]

ew he's YUCKY I'm glad you got out ❤

[@callmekitto]

I'm so glad for you that he's your past and not your present. I know that took unbelievable strength.

[@cosmari245]

I'm proud of u for being able to get out of that tough situation!

[@sailormoonXx]

Omg I’m glad you got out love

[@carlisagiselle3197]

So happy you got out of that sister ❤

[@Ambrily]

That isn't a marriage, it's a life sentence. In the death row. I can't say what I think about that guy, but it isn't good.

[@lolztina13]

Any man that gets mad at their wife for taking an epidural is a horrible human being... The lack of empathy is gross especially for someone you "love"

[@dollytanwar4918]

Cant expect empathy from narcissist

[@lolztina13]

@@dollytanwar4918 yeah thats true!

[@eveofwonder]

Why are men against epidurals? I’ve heard so many other stories of women who wanted epidurals during labor but the men object and I cannot fathom as to why you would want someone you love to experience the absolute worst kind of pain.

[@carnevalmefisto]

@@eveofwonder Dude's rich AF so I can only wonder, but from some vids I've seen, men are having tantrums over spending extra cash on epidurals [as I'm European we don't pay for labour anyway, but I googled the costs at some sample US hospital: The AMA suggested fees for epidural services are up to - $1,050 for in-hours services - $1,550 for after-hours services]. Another thing that comes to mind: some men just like when their partners suffer horribly.

[@kajlir5802]

@@carnevalmefisto $1000 is literally NOTHING to a billionaire. You literally cannot use up a billion dollars throughout your lifetime that's why he rented that NY apartment for fun which was probably 7-10k per MONTH

[@SquirmieWormington]

She looks so genuinely happy in her old ballet photos, everything with her husband looks so empty :(

[@ItsMuffinTimePls]

The worst part is, she doesn't want to see it. She'll never be free because in order to do so she would first have to admit that she's living in hell.

[@melomodiba4919]

I think this is a symbiotic relationship in some way.

[@Window4503]

@@melomodiba4919Codependent would be the term

[@bee_sponge]

@@melomodiba4919parasitic more like

[@rmercedes971]

She keeps saying she’s happy with her decision, so I will take her word for it until she comes out and says otherwise. Can’t want better for her than she wants for herself

[@ItsMuffinTimePls]

@@rmercedes971 Exactly why it's so tragic. The world missed out on more than a _good_ ballerina, who knows how amazing she could have been had she been allowed to live her dreams.

[@DioShiver]

I think what makes Daniel even worse is the high probability that he's not just self-sentered, but as a lot of mormon men (and sometimes women) he doesn't think that any woman actually could have any desire and purpose except being a wife. There are a whole bunch of these men who think that modern women are deceived by capitalism and feminism into thinking they have "dreams" and in actuality the ONLY thing that woman is supposed to do is being a wife and a mother. You remember that guy on the graduation ceremony who gave a speech about how all the graduating women are deceived and they are wasting their lives by getting a degree and they should all be married instead? I bet Daniel is the same kind of guy ALLEGEDLY. He didn't steal Hannas dream and future, he just didn't think it was relevant at all and that she shouldn't have one except to get married to him.

[@queenavocado9441]

This is Christianity

[@_day_light]

I don’t see enough people talking about how the egg apron ISNT EVEN WRAPPED like an actual gift. It’s a power play, he’s telling her she’s not valuable past what he can do for him.

[@Ak97410]

And the cardboard box... And her mentioning Greece so many times... I'm so sad for her

[@CloudyOrchards]

It's also a package she ordered for herself, he gifted her a purchase she made for herself and didn't even wrap it or write s card

[@b3nt079]

AND She says "Oh. It's MY egg apron!" Like she already owned it beforehand. .. Which very likely means she picked this apron out for herself, he took it and hid it, and used it as her birthday gift instead of getting her something she clearly wants.

[@abbsk.1]

The flight thing creeps me out the most, like imagine just meeting someone in passing and then they insist they “court” you - to the point of getting your information so they can sit next to you on your daddy’s airplane. Idk man, this story is icky

[@dcarter455]

The way I would have called and changed flights is ALARMING😂

[@strawberryfox8819]

Worse, his daddy's airplane. She was trapped in a plane that his family owns. Everything is wrong about that.

[@jamesonharbaugh1990]

This guy is the worst kind of creep. A creep with money. Able to both financially and emotionally control her. She could want to leave but just not be able to now because of the kids and her not being able to get a job. This woman is literally in a prison.

[@annabelledrake2027]

she needs to run away with her kids and open a dance studio somewhere, that’s my dream for her😢❤

[@k0htp0t]

​@@annabelledrake2027 I'm sure that's her dream too but with zero cents to her name and nothing of her own... Doubtful that it'd happen.

[@strawberryfox8819]

Even if she can, he has the money to get her killed and cover it up. Happens a lot, sadly.

[@cosmari245]

@@k0htp0t Yeah and plus she doesn't just have 1 or 2 kids, she's got EIGHT. That would be so damn hard... and his control? yikes

[@k0htp0t]

@@cosmari245 I somehow believe she'd manage it on her own but without the funds or any stable income while being a single parent to 8 kids? Oooooooh

[@lily-um1ze]

bedridden from exhaustion for a WEEK a chill just ran up my spine why can’t he just fucking help her 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 and no pain relief for her births im gonna cry

[@Gretelsbetterhalf]

When he’s ready to trade her in for a new model, it’s going to be even more tragic. She has no means to live on her own. No job skills, a hoard of children to care for, removed from the reality of society as a normal non billionaires wife…this is not the life you want, kids. Do not EVER leave yourself behind for another person. If they love you, they’d never even ask or expect that of you.

[@Crashesdown253]

Yes it would actually be super smart of her to leave now. She probably feels trapped, but honestly she is still so super talented and physically capable and has an audience, she could still do something with dance and hire childcare. And she wouldn’t have to endure the nearly guaranteed ending of her getting dumped for a younger version. Clearly he hates her.

[@sophiatesla7069]

They are married and have kids so he needs to pay her childs support when they break up. And because he probably earns pretty much, He also needs to pay pretty much. So she and the kids would be financally safe.

[@carnevalmefisto]

@@sophiatesla7069 Truth is that it's a lie women win custody as a default every time. The person with cash wins. He can basically buy himself a full custody over the kids if he wants. Very easily. He holds all the power. IDK who holds the cash from her tiktok/YT account [she's super popular, so I bet she should earn pretty dang much, unless she has no access to the funds or they share what she earns]. But if she doesn't earn as much to comfortably raise 8 kids, it's an easy argument for him. "She struggles, I can hire an army of nannies and properly care for all kids".

[@noodles5004]

This happened to my friends mother but those 10 kids all grew up to be things like doctors, engineers and pilots. They treat her like an absolute queen and brought her a beautiful apartment of her own. They do not speak to their father. Not all situations end so well though.

[@memyoldie]

@@carnevalmefistoI’ve read from other comments that because they are Morgan, everything is in his name, even all her accounts. She doesn’t get those funds directly, hopefully she gets an “allowance”.

[@Kassiton]

"Is it wrong to kidnap a woman? IMNOTSAYING-" He did in fact, practically kidnap a woman

[@lexie7753]

The amount of comments I saw like "but did he force her, did he have a gun to her head?" are filling me with burning hot rage. Not understanding the whole dynamic of this situation, the power dynamic between how boys and girls are raised in mormonism??? Girls are beat into submission before they even know their own name. Not understanding the power dynamic of him being a billionaire, stalking her, bait and switching her by getting an apartment near her school, as if he was willing to let her follow her dreams and not trying to baby trap her. How much you wanna bet he either messed with ehr bc for that first pregnancy or he straight up coerced her into unprotected sex??? How is anyone seeing this as anything else except an absolute tragedy and a perfect example of what patriarchy does to brilliant women, even as they're actively trying to fight against it?

[@cawingcrows2072]

It's genuinely so sad

[@drooooop]

THANK YOU!! Great comment

[@fefelarue2948]

I grew up in and married into a very similar situation. When I left my husband I had so many WOMEN say that to me.

[@Emotional-Support-Demon-Sarica]

Where are these comments?

[@pensivecircles]

Yes!! I'm exmo now but I was pressured into dating/going on dates with so many questionable men because they were "good church members" and return missionaries. If I'd listened I would have ended up in a very similar situation- and that would have been the "correct" thing for me to do and would have made my life socially SO much easier. I'm married now to an amazing man - but he'd never served a mission so I had to go against all of my family and friends. I lost my whole social circle- it's definitely not as simple as "well she chose this"- this social pressure is crazy.

[@liesla1958]

I grew up in the Mormon church and I recently left, for this exact reason. I was LITERALLY told that I "could have a career" but that it was my duty to prioritize being a wife and mother. I just couldn't handle it. I have bigger dreams.

[@Random.sachen1]

Was that also taught to men, that they can have a career but they should prioritize being a husband and a father? Just curious. Because I'm the Bible the man is supposed to sacrifice and die for his woman. But it sounds the opposite happening

[@Probably_Squido]

This feels like a webton where the writer romanticizes kidnapping, just because the male love interest is “hot”. (Please don't reply if you're going to say something along the lines "but it's fictional" or something like that. Or if you read Yoai, I'm gay, you make me uncomfortable.)

[@jasywhore408]

Dreaming freedom.... Although not kidnapping

[@matchacookiez]

Except this time, "the male love interest" looks like Humpty Dumpty in a cowboy hat.

[@Probably_Squido]

@@matchacookiez that's criminal but accurate 😭😭🙏

[@matchacookiez]

@@Probably_Squido 😭😭😭

[@isabellathetiger4802]

lmao this is actually so real 😭

[@lulapaloozi]

an unwrapped and sad little box, and she probably ordered that apron for herself, what a sad excuse for a man

[@caseyw.6550]

Exactly....the way she said "my egg apron!" Like she already knew it was coming but had forgotten about it.

[@cawingcrows2072]

I believe she actually did order it, but he was there when the package came, so he presented it as a gift

[@tealeaf02]

Daniel abused his power to manipulate a situation in which Hannah would be forced to sit next to him in a plane, a space that she can't leave for hours. And this is after she had said no to him for 6 months. Absolutely disgusting.

[@Justwatchingyoutubeforfun]

It feels like he had a fantasy of having a tradwife who he controls into doing everything. They’re living in the past with all the unnecessary doing everything from scratch when he’s a millionaire. He saw her as this thing that fits perfectly to his fantasy. He didn’t seek her out. He sought what a fantasy, a fetish, maybe? He forced her into a life of labor that even in the past was reserved to the poorest poor who hated their life. It’s sick.

[@tealeaf02]

@Justwatchingyoutubeforfun Exactly. Trevor Noah's mom has a very good quote, "He's like an exotic bird collector, he only wants a woman who is free because his dream is to put her in a cage." This happens to so many women on an uphill trajectory in life who are suddenly stopped short when a man enters the equation.

[@Pariah_Larry]

H.R Pickens 😂 that’s my favorite SNL skit of all time. “Look at me boy!” “I filled her with my festering seed!” & “This dead bird!” Are some of my favorite lines of dialogue ever written.

[@jesusforgives-helovesyou]

It's giving phantom of the opera "SING FOR ME MY ANGEL. SING!!! 😠" and kidnaps her and puts her in a cage. This is him. this is him in real life.

[@thepinkelephant2520]

Omg so true 😭

[@NoopyP]

no this dude is much much worse

[@ohsnapitsandie9933]

“Dance for me”😭

[@camillevoyage9727]

The phantom sucks but at least he tried to advance Christine’s career lol this guy is worse

[@dharma6481]

He’s one of those guys “she’s not interested, she thinks she’s too good for me, I’ll show her.” And he did show her. He stalked and manipulated her into his life and out of her dream.

[@lin-rh5pf]

fr he makes me so mad and feel gross. poor woman

[@lauracocroft3116]

Another thing to consider with the whole "she gets pregnant every 9 months" thing- you're supposed to wait 18 months after birth to get pregnant again in order to let you body fully recover, or both you and the fetus can suffer. If it happened once it would be fine, but 7 times? I can't imagine what that did to Hannah AND her children.

[@aurora_skye]

My sister-in-law got pregnant with Baby #3 9 months after after having had medical complications after Baby #2. I'm a bit worried, but they know what they're doing. My sister came along almost 23 months after I was born. Once seems to be fine, but doing this so much is clearly dangerous.

[@theendtimes1]

Cardi B is on her third baby with her unfaithful, s3x addict husband and ya'll praise her for it 😂

[@timelyferry]

when he says that she gets pregnant every nine months, doesn't actually mean she gets pregnant every 9 months. it probably take 2 to 3 months to know or find out you are pregnant. so she actually gets pregnant every 6 to 7 months really.

[@Dulcmonica]

I’m just scared that article puts hannah in danger 😭 I hope it would and could potentially save her instead

[@zoeb3573]

I know, the articles exposed what she thinks and says when she thinks her husband won't know about it. He knows now...

[@avocado_trashhhh]

she’s being abused it’s not physically but she CLEARLY doesn’t want to be there and she’s miserable. i’m sure she loves her kids but she never wanted this at least not for awhile. she has such a beautiful future in ballet and he’s crushing her dreams…. i hope she gets out of there i wish i could do anything to help her get out.

[@Froggele]

We don’t know if the abuse isn’t physical… Not saying it is and I hope it’s not but we don’t know that for sure.

[@avocado_trashhhh]

@@Froggele yes that’s true, she could very well be being physically just we don’t see the damage. i also hope it’s not.

[@savannahs8914]

Someone needs to rescue her and the kids

[@MissNelMarie]

If she’s having babies 9/10 even 12 months after having the last baby, with the physical and physiological needed for recovery she IS being physically abused.

[@avocado_trashhhh]

@@MissNelMarie i don’t know anything about birth so i didn’t want to step in that territory. i don’t mean this as rude so i hope it doesn’t come off that way.

[@jacielopez2280]

Not only could he have easily gotten first class tickets to Greece, but they more than likely have a family private jet. Let’s be real: if your dad owns airlines you think they wouldn’t also have a personal plane??? Like bro just call up your pilot. He makes me SICK

[@VEKY_]

The sad part is that even if she wanted to leave him she probably couldn't because of how much money and power he has, and she would never be able to support 8 kids on her own

[@Ella-g2m]

She would get alimony and her platform ensures a very fat income just from social media clout. She could leave if she wanted. And if she couldn't support 8 kids, do you know the woman isn't mandated to take them just because she's a woman? She could sign away her rights and give up custody. More women need to realize that she doesn't HAVE to take the kids. The man has an equal responsibility.

[@yuzu-tsuyu]

​@@Ella-g2m Yeah, but most women love their kids enough not to want to leave them with a horrible abuser...? It's probably terrifying to think about abandoning your children to be raised by someone like that. That's part of why abusers use the threat of taking away the kids as a weapon against their spouse, they'll do it to keep them trapped in a miserable marriage.

[@vcvcvc9216]

@@Ella-g2mthe other caveat you didn’t acknowledge is that she is Mormon, it is a very high control religion that teaches women to submit to their husbands, divorce is so incredibly out of the picture if you are a true believing Mormon. it is taught that to be in heaven with your children (as a mother) you need to be sealed to their father, the patriarch (the husband). If she truly believes (as it seems that she does) she would legitimately believe that divorce would mean eternal separation from all of her kids in the afterlife, while her husband could remarry and be sealed to another woman who would then live as the children’s mother for eternity. It’s an incredibly coercive belief system, it teaches women that their biggest life’s purpose is to get married and have children.

[@vcvcvc9216]

⁠​⁠@@Ella-g2mI also just realized what you are trying to say with the last part, I don’t even have or want kids but the implication that since she “can” leave her kids with him, then she should/would to escape abuse is WILD. that isn’t how humans work, like at a chemical, evolutionary level we are wired to protect our progeny. “she could leave if she wanted” is an absolutely unhinged statement to make when the idea is that she would just leave her kids WITH HER ABUSER. THINK.

[@AnimeAffair]

She CAN leave and he can have primary custody...

[@Hope-p9y]

My stepdad bought my mom a kitchen aid mixer around Christmas time and my mom told him she would have been pissed if it was her Christmas present. She said “do not buy me a present so that I can do things easier for you. That’s not a present for me, it’s for you.”

[@athenajaxon2397]

Depends on the person. My mom loves stuff around the house and hates useless stuff like jewelry and perfume

[@lifeislife489]

My grandpa once bought my grandma a vacuum as a present. I'm told my grandma was mad ASF lol. It's hard to see that because my grandparents are so innocent in my eye's. I also can't understand that because I would have loved a vacuum as a present lol

[@vf1923]

@@athenajaxon2397 It's all about knowing the person and what they ask for. Don't buy someone who doesn't want frivolous stuff frivolous stuff, don't buy people who don't want household stuff household stuff. If you're not sure, just... ask.

[@alienenby]

Its absurd that his dad owns an AIRLINE and he wouldnt get her PLANE tickets. Instead of giving her a vacation for working and taking care of HIS kids and HIS BS "farm lifestyle" he gives her something to keep working for HIM. Just.. disgusting.

[@alienenby]

It's also depressing that he's playing dress-up for this farm and she's the one doing all of the work

[@burrito_bunny2436]

exactly, this woman was wronged in so many ways, the LEAST he could do for her was get her plane tickets to Greece cuz hell does she deserve those and so, so much more.

[@KCsFunHouse]

His dad started Jet Blue & she had a full ride to Juilliard, they accept 12 women & 12 men per year. She wasn’t just a good ballerina she was among the best of the best.

[@sunstardrummer]

Exactly.

[@Jac527]

Behind every unsuccessful woman there is always a man.

[@harleymanifesto1907]

She's a multi millionaire mother who homeschools her kids. She's killing it. But nice try

[@IvoriHonor]

@@harleymanifesto1907… did you not watch this entire video???

[@pop1923]

@harleymanifesto1907 blue did NOT watch the video 🤣🤣💯💯🙌😭😭💯💯💀💀

[@IvoriHonor]

@@pop1923 for REAL 😭

[@Window4503]

@@harleymanifesto1907That’s what you want, not her.

[@fleshandglory]

this makes me so heartbroken….to see a woman have her full potential taken by a man is so common and devastating

[@eulennachathen449]

Yes, it's heartbreaking and such a waste of talent. Her gift is exquisite and she threw it away. A good and loving husband would have supported her dreams. Her life is almost like a cautionary tale for women to not sacrifice their whole identity for a man.

[@littleblueclovers]

Write the stereotypical “I fought against all odds and made it big. New York City, here I come!!!” Story, but end it with the main character becoming a depressed, dissociated, housewife, trapped in the middle of nowhere. People would complain that it’s too tragic and messed up.

[@eulennachathen449]

She failed at the final boss: a malicious man.

[@sarahwillmott7620]

“She can’t get out of bed for a week” sounds super sinister. Either she has some kind of mental health issue and is very depressed or maybe there’s other reasons she can’t get out of bed. So sad, I hope she gets help soon.

[@0_chi_hiro]

as someone who gets bedridden due to exhaustion quite often (I don't work hard or anything, just weak/mental health lol) I can attest that it's awful. Not being able to do your tasks, knowing they'll be piled up, but literally being too weak to even move, it's difficult and means you need a ton of support, especially if it's mental health (honestly, in her case she takes care of 8 CHILDREN and literally the entire household while being pregnant for HALF THE DURATION OF IT, so who wouldn't go comatose every other week). I personally need my mum to do a lot of things for me despite being an adult, now imagine that was an abusive POS husband instead. I'd be willing to bet my kidneys the guy shames her for it the entire time and just lets everything pile up for her to take care of as soon as she barely can get back on her feet.

[@hannahlang4703]

CFS

[@cawingcrows2072]

I think it's from major exhaustion because she has babies so often and does basically everything around the house every day

[@Momma_Stina]

"can't get out of bed for a week" sounds like overwhelmed and depressed. God that's awful.

[@EggoBeggo__]

As someone who is a chronic bed rotter, that’s not exhaustion.. that’s depression