The No Children Manifesto

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AaronClarey

AaronClarey

11 жыл бұрын

A case and argument against having children while everybody else desperately tries to convince non-child-bearing people to join their misery.
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@thedanielgunner
@thedanielgunner 7 жыл бұрын
The original "Howdy lieutenants and economists."
@tomlindsay7861
@tomlindsay7861 2 жыл бұрын
Iconic
@SisypheanSeas13
@SisypheanSeas13 2 жыл бұрын
Legendary
@raulyaeger
@raulyaeger Жыл бұрын
OD
@FunOfTheChase
@FunOfTheChase 9 жыл бұрын
Having children is an opportunity for slaves to play master.
@vendictum
@vendictum 4 жыл бұрын
This is one of the blackest pill there is.
@jamb027
@jamb027 4 жыл бұрын
hahaha, brilliant
@joshbyrnesuk
@joshbyrnesuk 4 жыл бұрын
Childfree life is best
@joshbyrnesuk
@joshbyrnesuk 4 жыл бұрын
I wanna see the picture
@x7Votorious84x
@x7Votorious84x 3 жыл бұрын
That’s too much power for women. My mother wrote on a baby picture that she wished I was a girl. I found it and went down the rabbit hole of how fake my family is.
@burritoburnett
@burritoburnett 3 жыл бұрын
Bro, turning 29 in a week and I have to say I feel this on a spiritual level. I have no desire for kids
@jaioncebollero1168
@jaioncebollero1168 2 жыл бұрын
27 going back and fourth with this in my head often. But fuck it, I have so much free time and money. Trading that for any other life seems dumb
@jakerickytan1232
@jakerickytan1232 2 жыл бұрын
@@jaioncebollero1168 feeling the same. I’m 25 years old and my gf of 2 years wants kids and marriage. I feel like I would be throwing my success and simple life away. I’m also afraid of missing out on a family. Very tough decision.
@newagain9964
@newagain9964 2 жыл бұрын
Kids are overrated. Don’t do it! Sometimes u can’t listen to “nature”. It will have u eat...even tho ur still stuffed from the meal one hour ago!
@RR-et6zp
@RR-et6zp Жыл бұрын
@@jakerickytan1232 get a 15 yo younger girlfriend who will make a morning coffee if you gotta protect the house at night, summer lemonade, wont advertise herself to others, fit feminine friendly affectionate etc
@SteveB88
@SteveB88 Жыл бұрын
I said the same thing when I was younger. I’m now 34 and still feel the same way. I’m telling you, having money, freedom and a few nice toys is definitely the way to go. Most men who have kids and families are stuck at jobs they hate. you have the freedom to not have to work and if people start messing with you at work you can just quit and go somewhere else. This freedom is not worth the trade-off for kids or a worthless wife
@tomtoumpas4139
@tomtoumpas4139 7 жыл бұрын
Having a kid is a choice with no return. Really think about it, before you choose it.
@dodopoopinpoop
@dodopoopinpoop 6 жыл бұрын
He looks like a Resident Evil character here lol.
@ChroniclesofAJ
@ChroniclesofAJ 6 жыл бұрын
dodopoopinpoop he remind me of Leon lol
@breahs9358
@breahs9358 5 жыл бұрын
😂
@MOONCAT666
@MOONCAT666 4 жыл бұрын
Looks like Leon, sounds like Fritz the cat!
@obvioushieidude7668
@obvioushieidude7668 4 жыл бұрын
@@MOONCAT666 I actually think he sounds a bit like Randall from Clerks.
@delphi-moochymaker62
@delphi-moochymaker62 5 жыл бұрын
I'm 57 and chose not to get married or have kids. 20 years ago, men used to say "what's wrong, you gay?" or "can't you find a woman?" Today, when I tell them such, married men pull me aside and whisper out of range of their wives "You did the right thing...stay single!" P.S., the most damage you can do to the environment, isn't driving a V8 SUV, it's reproducing.
@boxelder9147
@boxelder9147 Жыл бұрын
Yep brutha. Same here at 56 yoa. Sniffed that shit out early.
@doovplayz
@doovplayz 11 ай бұрын
@@boxelder9147proud of you guys
@PedroHernandez-uj9oz
@PedroHernandez-uj9oz 7 жыл бұрын
Dont want kids because of early retirement. I rather have a better quality if life with no kids then have kids and live miserably and always worrying about working, paying bills, picking kids up from after school activities, plus college. Also if the child has autism, or a significant learning disability the child would not be worth the investment and only be a liability. The less liabilities the better and more money for me.
@henrikhans467
@henrikhans467 5 жыл бұрын
As an autistic gut I agree. Although my Dad has autism and has a good job at GM. Both of us high functioning, but I have seen low functioning. Autism (even high functioning) + declining economy = no way.
@neomatrix4412
@neomatrix4412 27 күн бұрын
there is Aspergers
@Giggiyygoo
@Giggiyygoo 6 жыл бұрын
After I got my vasectomy at 32 with no kids, the response that I heard really often and always made me laugh was - don't you want someone to carry on your name? How selfish of a reason to have kids is that? Like my name is so important it must live on. Plus, when I'm dead I don't think I'm gonna care too much what goes on.
@Toxic_Male_Minimalist
@Toxic_Male_Minimalist 3 жыл бұрын
Also, what if the kid doesn’t want to have kids? Then the name lineage stops. Also, what if the kid turns out to be a serial killer - then your last name is forever tarnished.
@ricksanchezsflask8794
@ricksanchezsflask8794 2 жыл бұрын
Ironic that your profile pic is Quagmire, a character with a bunch of children from unprotected sex 🤣
@boogitybear2283
@boogitybear2283 Жыл бұрын
I got a Vasectomy with no kids at age 27. I’m now almost 42. I am still giddy to this day I did it! Not knocking up women is a good feeling!😂
@Datastreamx
@Datastreamx 11 жыл бұрын
This is actually very accurate. Everyone I know that has an IQ of 120 or higher doesn't want kids...
@s.b.decompressionchamber9688
@s.b.decompressionchamber9688 Жыл бұрын
The story of idioxcracy continues As usual..... smart Humans phase out and cease to exist Less intelligent humans continue to breed, and future generations of smart humans get phased out.. and humans stagnate and don't progress.... it seems we can't find the solution to this problem
@naimatazi9108
@naimatazi9108 Жыл бұрын
@@s.b.decompressionchamber9688 We can. We need eugenics and genetic engineering. Thats controversial because people are ignorant of it and engage in stupid moral considerations while it truly the greatest thing we can make for mankind
@s.b.decompressionchamber9688
@s.b.decompressionchamber9688 Жыл бұрын
@@naimatazi9108 ok ?
@TheLastOutlaw289
@TheLastOutlaw289 8 ай бұрын
No natural selection has to stay natural. Intelligent people would breed if society wasnt so fucked up.@@naimatazi9108
@Msangel06
@Msangel06 5 ай бұрын
I don’t want kids.
@chewface
@chewface 9 жыл бұрын
I hate how our society has conditioned people into thinking they NEED to make at LEAST $50,000 per year. Get married. Have kids. Etc etc. Being perfectly content making $20K per year, and never getting married or having kids....and you are seen as some kind of "loser" or not striving for enough things. Or you're selfish. I think it means you are SATIABLE! Which is the best thing anyone can be. But, apparently being satiable....is anti-American. You're never supposed to be happy.
@GustavoRodriguez-qr5po
@GustavoRodriguez-qr5po 8 жыл бұрын
I agree, I've noticed that money is the root of misery, and children will suck you dry financially, and emotionally.
@aquamarinedream8304
@aquamarinedream8304 7 жыл бұрын
chewface I'm not very materialistic but if I can't make 60k in California I will be rather upset with myself. Also, though I don't think I want to reproduce my partner has 2 kids so if I stay with him I have additional financial responsibilities to meet.
@HOTRAILProductions
@HOTRAILProductions 8 жыл бұрын
I believe that most people having kids these days do it just because they want more attention pieces during a conversation at the coffee table.
@morgangreen2526
@morgangreen2526 8 жыл бұрын
Creating a child is possibly the dumbest thing a self-aware person could do. And if someone wants to raise a child, adopt. It is just like recycling it is a goddamn win, win, win situation.
@kalekoi
@kalekoi 7 жыл бұрын
Plus money. All the government money.
@HOTRAILProductions
@HOTRAILProductions 7 жыл бұрын
Karlo Kupres That too! Along with the ultrasound pictures.
@HOTRAILProductions
@HOTRAILProductions 7 жыл бұрын
I hate that!!!
@destinedtochill7777
@destinedtochill7777 7 жыл бұрын
nice NS rig
@RandomAnonn
@RandomAnonn 4 жыл бұрын
When you really think about all the major problems in the world, many of them stem from poor parenting. Poverty No education Drug use Homlessness Jail time Crime Etc But if there was a mother and father that took the time to read a damn parenting book or 2, saved money and PREPARED for children this world would drastically different.
@henrikhans467
@henrikhans467 2 жыл бұрын
Agreed. I plan to use my time to help spread Transhumanism so people can transcend biology by using technology to make the human body (and brain) less shoddy. Break the cycle, rise above biology, focus on Transhumanism.
@mso008
@mso008 3 жыл бұрын
I agree, most people want "to have kids" but don't want to be parents.
@rickycates8734
@rickycates8734 6 жыл бұрын
I am 45. No kids here just enjoying life. One trip at a time.
@1983jcheat
@1983jcheat 5 жыл бұрын
34 almost 35 and I'm ok without kids. I look much younger than my friends with children. The grey hair and the stress filled faces are starting with these 28, 29 & 30 year-olds. I see guys my little brother's age (30) who look old as hell. Cappies right, these cats look like they were in Vietnam. They need permission from wifey to go out and get coffee.
9 жыл бұрын
Be thankful for people who realize they don't want kids, and then refuse to have them. That's a very mature thing to do. What a damned foul thing it is to bring a child into this world you actually don't want, OR cannot/will not adequately provide for. On top of that, with a world population approaching 7 BILLION people, this planet is being stretched to the limit and quite frankly there's no REAL NEED to expand the world's population any bigger than it already is.
@cmack-bz3re
@cmack-bz3re 9 жыл бұрын
Walter Strong Very good points.
@imadn4147
@imadn4147 7 жыл бұрын
cmack 1990 you mean extremely good points
@phuhuynh1045
@phuhuynh1045 7 жыл бұрын
Spreading fear again? Let me set you on the moral path. If you kill your kids I have to share the same air, water, and food sources in a globe with 50 million abortions a year. I am tired of breathing in all the dead Posterity, drinking their remains in our waterways, and having hands that aborted a baby making my food! Look at the universe, and imagine the mastermind principle in play, expand through out the cosmos, and when life flourishes faster than the rate in which the universe expands then create a new universe to let life flourish endlessly. We need more minds to find a way out of this orbit around this Sun that will eventually kill all of life! Now, for the current moment in time what is the supreme law of the our land? The Constitution, which is designed to build a more perfect union. Can this union be more perfect if we the people are not securing the blessing to ourselves and our posterity? Perish the thought!
@phuhuynh1045
@phuhuynh1045 7 жыл бұрын
Yeah follow his advice and don't have sex unless you plan for children. There I summed it all up for you.
@phuhuynh1045
@phuhuynh1045 7 жыл бұрын
Black and White, reserves Yellow for me. Please no more of this 2 year old game...
@honest8bob
@honest8bob Жыл бұрын
Finally someone else that believes its not right for a dog to be left alone for 8+ hours a day. I have had so many people tell me its ok but I just cant do it, of course those same people also assume I'm going to meet someone and have kids at 39. It never occurred to me that those people might be doing things for selfish reasons, thanks for the eye opener.
@taunoctua245
@taunoctua245 9 жыл бұрын
Every man that has had a vasectomy or a woman who has gotten a tubal ligation, and haven't had kids, is a hero to me. We need real world heroes like these.
@bartstarr2371
@bartstarr2371 5 жыл бұрын
My ex had a tubal ligation after her fifth kid.I really enjoyed smashing her raw.Smh..
@childfree83
@childfree83 4 ай бұрын
Absolutely
@MsSukiC
@MsSukiC 8 жыл бұрын
As a child from a broken home I can say everything you said about parents not really caring for their children is correct. Even when I was volunteering as a youth group leader the kids stories all started to have a similarity, bad parents. It's been over 11 years no contact with my biological mother because I couldn't handle one more day of her narcissism. When I read a statement on Facebook one day that said "all mothers are awesome, and should be respected or else you're being disrespectful" I left an honest reply (It was one of those days lol) We need more honesty Aaron, it may not sound pretty or politically correct but it creates change for the better so thank you for telling it like it is. The truth hurts but it also sets you free and if people enjoy running in blind circles in the land of smoke and mirrors well I suggest they become a politician, I hear the retirement plan is pretty good lol,
@ThreeCoast
@ThreeCoast 5 жыл бұрын
Most women my age are becoming more available outside bars and would initially announce they are looking to settle down and have a kid. Noticably available. The most common response i get after asking why they need a kid to settle down was to raise it to have it take care of her when she gets old. Like some sort of a goddamn retirement plan. If this is as universal and natural a reason can get when deciding to have a kid, then i want no part of this matrix.
@ThatGuy-ns8de
@ThatGuy-ns8de 2 жыл бұрын
I’m so thankful for my vasectomy. 26 years old and a life with no kids!!
@lifeisabadjoke5750
@lifeisabadjoke5750 Жыл бұрын
Winning.
@cyber6sapien
@cyber6sapien 6 жыл бұрын
NOT having things is one of the most selfless things you could possibly do!
@wanderingman8921
@wanderingman8921 7 жыл бұрын
It's simple logic. If you have the income, go ahead and have kids. If you don't have the income, *don't even bother*.
@edwinspellcaster6394
@edwinspellcaster6394 7 жыл бұрын
Only rich people should have kids?
@stirnersretrowave5094
@stirnersretrowave5094 7 жыл бұрын
Even if you do have income you still shouldn't have children. Money doesn't make breeding any less morally problematic.
@henrikhans467
@henrikhans467 5 жыл бұрын
@@stirnersretrowave5094 Agreed because the world is going to shit.
@kingonduty2825
@kingonduty2825 5 жыл бұрын
@Henrik HansYou're too much of a coward to do anything about the world so now you abstain from creating people and trying to solve issues?
@henrikhans467
@henrikhans467 5 жыл бұрын
@@kingonduty2825 A coward? What a laugh. No I'm a realist. Even if I did change the world, the majority of our species will forget history and thus it will repeat itself. Including what's happening now with the economy when we should have learned from 2008. That's why this planet is not worth investing in and never really was. I think you're selfish to give the next generation every goddamn burden that was solved previously, but so easily forgotten while putting new ones on top of those. Good day Sir!
@TheDoug88las
@TheDoug88las 4 жыл бұрын
I would rather jump into a wood chipper than bring kids into a terminal dying society. Like "hey kids, welcome to the fucked up nightmare merry go round because reasons." Hard pass.
@blakeb4583
@blakeb4583 8 жыл бұрын
I'm pretty liberal on a lot of things, but I enjoy watching your videos. You're a genuine conservative libertarian who actually believes in the core principles of libertarianism and that's very rare to come by nowadays.
@andrewb9708
@andrewb9708 9 жыл бұрын
Well, I don't have kids nor want children. My dad (who has a Ph.D.) left our family and provided no financial support. My mom worked her ass off to provide for us, she sacrificed the entire way without any government help. She's an exception to the rule and her credit score is 854 (I know this because I was with her recently when she bought a new car). My mom is a boss.
@NirajC72
@NirajC72 9 жыл бұрын
Andrew B respect to your mother :) !
@superiormusic
@superiormusic 7 жыл бұрын
Why is it that you have to have a licence to operate a vehicle on the road but you don't have to have a licence to have kids? Why not? They can both do great harm when not handeled carefully.
@vision.8
@vision.8 6 жыл бұрын
Honesty that's a really great question so many people having kids and ruining thier kids lives just for the sake of them having kids and appearing normal
@henrikhans467
@henrikhans467 4 жыл бұрын
@Johnny Five So you would rather have uncontrolled breeding resulting in countless humans suffering? Most humans think eugenics is evil because it doesn't allow them to act like animals in the worst ways possible.
@ubiquitousdiabolus
@ubiquitousdiabolus 7 жыл бұрын
Childless people are less selfish because we are saving the world's resources for OTHER people's kids.
@kingonduty2825
@kingonduty2825 5 жыл бұрын
Childfree. Calling them "Childless" is pretending that they are being deprived of something.
@krazeemetalchickstewart9961
@krazeemetalchickstewart9961 4 жыл бұрын
Hey think about how much money you can save when you go childfree
@sovietsandvich8443
@sovietsandvich8443 3 жыл бұрын
Let’s be honest, you’re doing it to reduce your own stress and financial obligations. There’s nothing wrong with that, but don’t pretend like there’s some noble motivation behind it
@singhatar0912
@singhatar0912 3 жыл бұрын
@@sovietsandvich8443 THIS
@Canadian_Eh_I
@Canadian_Eh_I 8 ай бұрын
@@sovietsandvich8443 Oh? There are many that choose not to have children exactly because of their morality. They believe its actually unethical to bring a child into texistance without consent. Have you considered that? Probably not.
@emotears151
@emotears151 6 жыл бұрын
As a black make my elders talk to me as if it's not my choice and say I'll regret it a already had a women false accuse me of a baby that wasn't mine DNA test proved . And many traumas caused me to see the world for it is
@awfawf4546
@awfawf4546 4 жыл бұрын
Dogs are the best companions one can have. Highly recommended, much less expensive than having kids and unconditional love/constant entertainment (for you).
@cmack-bz3re
@cmack-bz3re 9 жыл бұрын
Kids ruin lives
@kingonduty2825
@kingonduty2825 5 жыл бұрын
Irresponsible-Parents ruin lives.
@TfwNoGiantGF
@TfwNoGiantGF 5 жыл бұрын
@@kingonduty2825 Both.
@kingonduty2825
@kingonduty2825 5 жыл бұрын
@@TfwNoGiantGF it's either one or the other
@TfwNoGiantGF
@TfwNoGiantGF 5 жыл бұрын
@@kingonduty2825 No. It's both.
@bartstarr2371
@bartstarr2371 5 жыл бұрын
I believe the children are the future.
@russellstephan6844
@russellstephan6844 6 жыл бұрын
Yes. Parents really don't care about their kids. This is why they *demand* the rest of the community pay for their kid's education through taxes while they get a bigger house, more luxurious cars, and more lavish vacations... Actions demonstrate true intentions.
@kyjelly5524
@kyjelly5524 9 жыл бұрын
just found your channel man I love it. I'm on a marathon watching your videos. so far I agree with everything you say. all my family and friends constantly ask when im having kids and I always say never. I love kids but im happy with being an uncle that's it. the crazy part is almost all of them are miserable. hate work, kids r a pain in the ass, and they constantly fight with their spouse. I don't get it. I haven't worked in over a year its great. im not broke im not bored I have a condo and a car. FREEDOM. I thought about a dog too but once im working again it will be stuck in the house all day? F that
@krazeemetalchickstewart9961
@krazeemetalchickstewart9961 4 жыл бұрын
Anyone who has no kids is saving themselves the embarrassing thing
@henrikhans467
@henrikhans467 4 жыл бұрын
@@krazeemetalchickstewart9961 Not sure if the kid is embarrassing thing or more likely having to beg the government. Either way since the world is going to shit it's best not to have any.
@alonaballard7636
@alonaballard7636 8 жыл бұрын
Agree with you wholeheartedly Aaron. As a school teacher I'm reminded everyday that most people shouldn't have kids. I'm childfree by choice as well and people's latest question is "Who's gonna take care of you when you're old." Does anyone else get that one? And how do you answer it?
@skylinefever
@skylinefever 8 жыл бұрын
The people who argue that nobody will care for you when your old has one flaw. Nursing homes have many people who raised children, but their children rarely visit them.
@whowhatwhenwherewhyandhow
@whowhatwhenwherewhyandhow Ай бұрын
That is a sick reason to have kids. Although I stepped up and took care of my parents for 25 years. They had me in their mid forties so they were always old to me. Middle class they provided so Im thankful for that. They died broke so I didn’t do it for that reason. No regrets taking care of them. No regrets having no children of my own. And I had the opportunity to have them. Lifetime of freedom wasn’t too bad. Still free at 63. I hear the constant complaints and struggles of friends and family.
@wayneo7220
@wayneo7220 4 жыл бұрын
People want you to do what they do because it validates their choices, whether its not having kids, accepting a belief system, or political ideology. Its ego-based.
@MOONCAT666
@MOONCAT666 4 жыл бұрын
Very well said, my partner and I considered having 2 kids but as time went on reality kicked in and lots of parents around us seem miserable and exhausted. That 2 kids idea became 1, to mabye 1 to quickly: do we even want kids? So glad we spent many years thinking about it, my mum on the other hand says, "Just have kids!!" and I fell out with her over it big time. She's still 'disappointed' but that's tough luck. We've been together over a decade, and we just want a more relaxed, chilled out life.
@Toxic_Male_Minimalist
@Toxic_Male_Minimalist 3 жыл бұрын
“Don’t you want you name to continue?” Uh, what if the kid decides not to have kids? Or what if the kid turns out to be a serial killer? Your name would be forever tarnished.
@henrikhans467
@henrikhans467 2 жыл бұрын
Agreed. Besides the only objective thing in the universe is science. Especially if it can create technology in order to make the human body and brain less shoddy. Break the cycle, rise above biology, focus on Transhumanism.
@skylinefever
@skylinefever 2 жыл бұрын
I like making the point that my DNA is diseased, so who cares if it goes extinct?
@InfinityDz
@InfinityDz 10 жыл бұрын
I honestly fail to see the point or the appeal to having children. I don't find children that cute, and I won't "create new human" like people "create new folder"s on their computers to perpetuate my genes or my philosophy, because I think THAT's selfish. You never ask the child's opinion, you FORCE him to be alive. You put a new human on this sick world that even you haven't figured out yet, only because YOU decided so. So who's actually selfish?
@henrikhans467
@henrikhans467 4 жыл бұрын
Agreed. I'll admit it sounds ridiculous, but if we could talk to the kids we want to have and if they can be able to consent that would be awesome. Unfortunately even then humanity never learns from history (I mean more like economics and related subjects) so that's why the world is and always has been sick.
@pbonfanti
@pbonfanti 4 жыл бұрын
I have a friend who when his mother ended any argument using the claim 'but i put you in this world' his response was 'why do you think was a good thing for me?''
@InfinityDz
@InfinityDz 4 жыл бұрын
@@pbonfanti "but I put you in this world" YEAH THANKS MA!
@InfinityDz
@InfinityDz 4 жыл бұрын
quick update, 6 years and 1 kid later: I still agree with what I was saying.
@morgangreen2526
@morgangreen2526 8 жыл бұрын
THIS IS THE BIGGEST NO-BRAINER.
@SmashingBricksAU
@SmashingBricksAU 2 жыл бұрын
You have the same message today at the end of 2021 and at the start of 2022. So very true.
@zabu7912
@zabu7912 5 жыл бұрын
I just recently visited my brother in Oregon, after he was doing nothing but complaining about how his marriage sucked, he was giving me the 3rd degree as to why I wasn't dating or married. Well duh, I can't wait to share in your nightmare. I was married for 10 years and lucky enough to come out financially unscathed, I'll never do that shit again. This is a bit off topic I know. Keep up the good work!
@meganhulan
@meganhulan 10 жыл бұрын
This is a great and refreshing video. I'm 27 and married to my husband for 2 years (been together for 6 years). No plans for kids now or ever. :) Ever since I was in high school I became aware that I didn't want to have children. I wrestled with this because of society's view being "When are you having kids?" and if you don't then that must mean: you are a selfish person who will be lonely with no one to take care of you. Just to note that, it really drives me when people say these things: if they're afraid of being lonely or that they need someone to take care of them when they're old then maybe they should be producing better retirement plans vs possible retirement child. There's never a guarantee that your needs will be met by your children (nor should that be asked of them) and if those are your reasons for having children (having a care taker and to have company) then you shouldn't be having any. If you do want to have a child then you give them everything you can and the best of everything. It's about them now, many parts about you are put aside. You're doing this to have someone to share your love, watch them grow, share traditions and want the best for them. It's not right to expect anything in return. That is not the reason you brought this child into this world and this is a burden that shouldn't be expected of your child. I for one, do not like children. I find them annoying, time consuming, dirty, loud, expensive, rude, greedy, exhausting, and sure, they're kids! That's normal! What do you expect? I just know the pros do not outweigh the cons when it comes to me having a child. I don't want the responsibility or the commitment because cute babies are not babies for long (like puppies which I would much rather have) and your life is never the same. I like my life. I like to spend my money, use my time and make plans based on myself and my husband. Not a kid. It's frustrating when people seem shocked or judge or ask why? First, how rude of you to ask! What if I can't have children? Thanks a lot for pointing that out. Secondly, what's it matter to you? You gonna raise it? The backlash and the shock was hard to deal with but I'm working in a much bigger city where the majority of my coworkers seem to be more on my wave of thinking. *I'm choosing to be child free. *I'm more comfortable in our relationship admitting I'm happy to be a fur mom (I have 5 kitties and I'm slowly moving up to a dog). I'm very lucky to have a husband who feels the same way as well. *My parents are not the type to be hounding for grandchildren. They agree that not having them can lead to a life that can be just as fulfilling.
@Canadian_Eh_I
@Canadian_Eh_I 8 ай бұрын
So.....Did you end up having kids?
@96anniken
@96anniken 6 жыл бұрын
It's a joy listening to you. Thank you! For giving the childfree a respectable, reflected, honest and true voice.
@SundayMorningRunner
@SundayMorningRunner 2 жыл бұрын
2012 was 40 years ago
@Joeyal123
@Joeyal123 7 жыл бұрын
Kids get on my nerves and plus in this economy having kids is a bad idea
@predator0010
@predator0010 9 жыл бұрын
One of the best videos I've seen in a long time on YT! So glad I found this channel. Salute! Subscribed.
@MisterN1
@MisterN1 4 жыл бұрын
Holy shit, Leon from Resident Evil really got addicted to vice.
@keithkennedy9065
@keithkennedy9065 8 жыл бұрын
having kids is not for everyone..the people that realize that and chose not to should not be looked down upon.
@ExoticSpotting
@ExoticSpotting 11 жыл бұрын
Bravo. One of the best videos I've seen in a long time.
@TeutonicTrickster
@TeutonicTrickster 8 жыл бұрын
Ive been MGTOW for 2 years but all my life ive had high expectations of myself & whatever woman i may have ended up settling down with, which was what i hoped to do for a long time. I was let down by women time & time again. i improved their lives immensley & didnt get anything back but whining & an empty wallet. I was very direct about my views on kids with them so much so i think i scared them into not getting knocked up without my permission & if i couldnt see them take the pill i didnt screw them. By the time i hit 35, it wasnt looking good with women as my standards had gone way up & their attributes had gone way down to the point where i didnt even date much. So, i did the responsible thing & got a vasectomy at age 36. No woman can steal my money,house,use me as a wage slave or use kids against me. I refuse to conside marriage & let them move in. Its just better for long term peace of mind & security. I dont rely on government & want to live an independant life on my terms, not governments , the courts or some disgruntled exs.
@TeutonicTrickster
@TeutonicTrickster 8 жыл бұрын
Joe Joe Im a stickler for details. Details matter to eliminate assumptions or misinterpretations. Deepest apologies if i strained your concentration while you were reading it.
@Moreoverover
@Moreoverover 7 жыл бұрын
UOY KCUF Loser
@hillsideonly
@hillsideonly Жыл бұрын
​@@TeutonicTrickster bro, your sentence construction is really good. What are some books that you can recommend that helped your writing, rationality and abstract thinking.
@childfree83
@childfree83 8 жыл бұрын
Keep living the dream the breeders need to be taxed higher than us single childfree by choice.
@JohnDoe-ds9cx
@JohnDoe-ds9cx 8 жыл бұрын
that's fucking stupid
@numerology1138
@numerology1138 8 жыл бұрын
They should tax single and divorced moms who chose to leave the man
@indriddragon
@indriddragon 8 жыл бұрын
Extremely stupid. Married couples who breed are the ideal establishment to raise future productive citizens in society, therefore alleviating the state's responsibility in taking care of said citizens. That is primarily why marriage has tax benefits. Otherwise the state wouldn't give a shit if you were married.
@indriddragon
@indriddragon 7 жыл бұрын
That's utter bullshit. I do agree that in many ways we're not being efficient with the resources we have, but we have not out populated the capacity of the earth. We only need to work on using resources more efficiently, which I believe we have in recent years. There will always be some form of work or paid opportunities. Even if bombs fell, the survivors would have needs and barter with each other. Forget the idea of being a victim of external circumstances. Equality and a comfortable life for all is not guaranteed, and the idea that anyone deserves it as a right is bullshit. Life is sacred. The major purpose of this world is to house us. Without us, it would practically be worthless. It is a God given plane of existence for us to grow, learn, and choose or reject Him. The greatest opportunity you can give a human spirit is to offer it the opportunity for life. Doesn't matter how crappy this world is. There have always been ups and downs, feasts and famine. You should never determine a child shouldn't be brought into the world because life is tough. I believe it is immoral to waste your ability to have offspring willfully, if it is for a selfish reason.
@amynguy
@amynguy 6 жыл бұрын
Not stupid, you pump kids out so you pay for them simple.
@ViolaHGlaze
@ViolaHGlaze 6 жыл бұрын
I have been called selfish because I didn't want kids and later had my tubes tied. Sad I spent more time and energy making a conscious decision about the biggest responsibility on the planet ...and I'm selfish? Keep up the good commentary
@Alexn1067
@Alexn1067 11 жыл бұрын
the sad truth is that most of the people having kids are people who should not be having kids...and they make horrible parents....9 out of 10 times...its the people who don't want kids who would make the best parents...because they realize just how serious it is. that being said there is nothing wrong with wanting a child in the future at the right time and right place but you got to be patient and you got to be very discerning because once you slip one past the goaliethere is no taking it back
@babatundeonabajo
@babatundeonabajo 5 жыл бұрын
I agree with you that there is a huge segment of the population that just want children like they want accessories. There are many that want children simply to "fit in" with their friends. This is even admitted by the people themselves: "I figured I wanted children as all my friends were getting married and having children". I was always told this as a child. I never quite understood why some bring children into the world only to leave them off at daycare for most of the time. You are right that when that is considered it is more honourable to *not* have children at all.
@shrugger1
@shrugger1 11 жыл бұрын
Or to put it into language that even a Feminist can understand- MY WALLET MY CHOICE MY WALLET MY CHOICE
@corentinc.948
@corentinc.948 2 жыл бұрын
Can you please explain? I do not understand that :p :D
@danielimmortuos666
@danielimmortuos666 3 ай бұрын
I spent a whole year trying to explain all those things to my brother, trying to convince him never to have children, he ignored my advice and went on to have children anyway… Guess what happened? Now he complains about his shitty low paying job on a daily basis but he can’t quit it because he has to provide for his kid and doesn’t have any savings 😂😂😂😂 I can’t stand dumb people anymore
@BA11YO
@BA11YO Ай бұрын
lmao poon-tang is too addicting for these fools!
@peterlightning9235
@peterlightning9235 5 жыл бұрын
Why are there so many single moms when there is so much birth control?
@robertchristian3763
@robertchristian3763 3 жыл бұрын
When u said the people that choose not to have kids care way more about kids then the people that have kids that’s straight facts
@angelikabrown4247
@angelikabrown4247 3 жыл бұрын
yup
@LeviFlint
@LeviFlint 9 жыл бұрын
Fully agree with you on this. I know I don't want kids, but I have this internal guilt that just pulls at me from time to time. Good to know guys like us aren't alone.
@athenastarbrite2955
@athenastarbrite2955 3 жыл бұрын
The shock wave from the glasses hitting the table. It warmed my heart. 😂
@Rocco_Dimeo
@Rocco_Dimeo 9 жыл бұрын
Awesome, I've literally said all of these things, glad there are more of us out there. Great video.
@wifi2166
@wifi2166 5 жыл бұрын
Im against kids but if you really want kids, pick one of the millions in poverty or foster homes rather than bringing in a new human into this crazy world
@athalia3661
@athalia3661 10 жыл бұрын
I don't see what is so selfish about not wanting kids? It is more selfish to not be sure, or know you don't want kids and then have them anyways.
@joep2642
@joep2642 9 жыл бұрын
This society punishes smart people for having children.
@studentofsmith
@studentofsmith 9 жыл бұрын
Having a child is an 18 year commitment in which another human beings needs come before your own. Sounds an awful lot like slavery to me but apparently you're 'selfish' for not wanting to sign up.
@whowhatwhenwherewhyandhow
@whowhatwhenwherewhyandhow Ай бұрын
It is not 18 years. It’s a lifetime.
@cumquatsarentsweet2760
@cumquatsarentsweet2760 10 ай бұрын
as a mother of a special needs kid i approve of this message you're not selfish you're infact a good parent who spared his kids 👏🖖🧿🕊⚘❤ congratulations
@angelforfreedom
@angelforfreedom 8 жыл бұрын
Everything you said here is SO bloody true.
@DeemanThomas-bn9qi
@DeemanThomas-bn9qi 2 ай бұрын
I love my childless selfish peaceful life
@WhiteWolfBlackStar
@WhiteWolfBlackStar 10 жыл бұрын
If I could thumbs UP this video A MILLION TIMES- I'd do it TWICE! MORE PLEASE!
@chintz7428
@chintz7428 6 жыл бұрын
Pfff Selfish not having kids? No, not selfish having kids because Muscular dystrophy runs in my family, and I do not want a male child to suffer like crazy, end up in a wheelchair by 13 years old and live to the age of 16 or 17 while suffering. I throw that in the person's face who calls me selfish. Thanks this is a good video.
@skylinefever
@skylinefever 5 жыл бұрын
I also refuse to have children because I have chronic illnesses. Those children would be a drain on the system, and yet some alt-right people still want me to have children simply because I am white.
@jong8876
@jong8876 3 жыл бұрын
Its nice that use 2 thought carefully about your situation well done
@ishiiblanks
@ishiiblanks 3 жыл бұрын
MY GUY!! Homie, I’m late... I just discovered these gems. Thanks, homeboy!!!
@HOTRAILProductions
@HOTRAILProductions 8 жыл бұрын
My reasons for not having kids include not only the burden of not enjoying life, but also that I do not want to expose them to what the media is spewing out and brainwashing them with!
@donteatpaint
@donteatpaint Ай бұрын
Ah the early days of Asshole Consulting. This is a classic.
@sweetcara14
@sweetcara14 11 жыл бұрын
There is a lot of truth to what you say for about half the people out there who have children. However, it is only half the story. I don't begrudge you your right to not have them, and I never asked for, nor do I support, anyone else paying for the care of my children. A better argument would be that our children do not belong to us anymore, since the government has become powerful enough to assume control. They promised free stuff and everyone played the fiddle while Rome burned....
@FunOfTheChase
@FunOfTheChase 9 жыл бұрын
Most kids are mistakes. A good dose of Schopenhaeurian anti-natalism will bring amusement to any rainy day.
@vaibai5869
@vaibai5869 5 жыл бұрын
Killer argument , Aaron! Liked it a lot.
@stratagize
@stratagize 7 жыл бұрын
This is SOOO good!! Wish I could give it 100 thumbs up.
@amourelie.s9564
@amourelie.s9564 7 жыл бұрын
i love kids and would love to have one, one day... but, I most definitely agree with what you're said here in this video
@wewewops5050
@wewewops5050 7 жыл бұрын
here's another thing though. your more selfless than others because if your child become self aware. self aware to the point where you realize existence is by chance, nothing special, and painful your sparring those who become like that. so keep doing what your doing mane.
@Selrisitai
@Selrisitai 11 жыл бұрын
I'm really enjoying this video. Excellent job.
@johnsondailysports1341
@johnsondailysports1341 2 жыл бұрын
I’ve literally been watching since 2012. He has taught me a lot but too bad I already have a worthless finance degree lol
@jonathandoe69
@jonathandoe69 8 жыл бұрын
The selfishness arguments comes from the fact that your parents had to do the exact same thing with you. Not wanting to improve yourself enough to be able to support a kid can also be seen as stubborn and childish. I respect your view though and that of others who don't want to raise children.
@sexysadie2901
@sexysadie2901 3 жыл бұрын
That makes no sense. They had to do that because they chose to have him. Cf are not selfish, because there's no one to be selfish against.
@MrSteve0311
@MrSteve0311 9 жыл бұрын
Friggin amazing video right here, spot on. There was another awesome video by Stefan Molyneaux that addresses similar points, I wish I remembered which one! Basically, these parents (if there actually ARE two parents, since that's too much to ask nowadays) are running around, stressing, scrambling to make with 2 incomes what could be made with 1 income 30 years ago. They are coming home tired, sheep shepherding the kids from one thing to another, going to sleep and then doing it all again the next day. Haggard, tired and impoverished wrecks who spend 40+ hours a week paying OTHER PEOPLE to raise their kids for them. Who the hell wants that?
@Benjaminovsky
@Benjaminovsky 9 жыл бұрын
I will never have children, NO, NEVER
@imadn4147
@imadn4147 7 жыл бұрын
Benjaminovsky I hope you are not lieing, I have heard the Same thing from many people before they had became parents
@adambakas13
@adambakas13 7 жыл бұрын
Recently i have been going in the direction of getting licensed as an EMT and then going into firefighting which could get me 50,000 dollars a year and i have no children, what do you guys think?
@mardigbidanian7119
@mardigbidanian7119 3 жыл бұрын
I think what it comes down to is that some cannot afford kids . Because life is too expensive in Canada , there is too much competition for good jobs or any job for that matter . There is also too much competition for resources like real estate . So putting kids in situations where it's very clearly above our ability to properly take care of kids is perhaps is better option while for ourselves we can find other solutions to structure our lives.
@nightfire4107
@nightfire4107 7 жыл бұрын
Love how the video is all natural. He even pulls out a piece of paper lol
@TampaBayMoFo
@TampaBayMoFo 11 жыл бұрын
I completely agree. Well said my friend. Thanks.
@Flacodanielon
@Flacodanielon 4 жыл бұрын
Give this guy a medal!!!
@kyodante
@kyodante 2 жыл бұрын
So this is early 2010's aaron.
@lifeisabadjoke5750
@lifeisabadjoke5750 Жыл бұрын
He was a Chad back then
@lifeisabadjoke5750
@lifeisabadjoke5750 Жыл бұрын
This Cappy was elite CHAD level
@toddjohnson7610
@toddjohnson7610 Жыл бұрын
Love the passion. The Apostle Paul said it's better to remain single.
@krazeemetalchickstewart9961
@krazeemetalchickstewart9961 4 жыл бұрын
So many benefits to not having kids
@enjoiKID24
@enjoiKID24 8 жыл бұрын
Idk about this one Clarey. Comparing a dog to a child is dumb-woman-think. My older brother had a daughter about three years ago and she has probably been the best thing to happen to my family in years. Definitely more enjoyable and undeniably more important than some stupid smelly mutt. But I do agree with the notion that a lot of kids are born to uncaring parents, people ho should have never had kids in the first place.
@mark7362
@mark7362 Жыл бұрын
Tbh I always thought the chair scraping noise was like one of those super old toilets that have a chain flushing sound effect
@Kenji314159
@Kenji314159 10 жыл бұрын
I can't believe I watched 1:30 how you got ready for this video, but it's already entertaining.
@dmike3507
@dmike3507 7 жыл бұрын
I agree with the basic sentiment behind what you're saying. I don't like kids and enjoy living a childfree life, but to be perfectly honest I think the reasons you give for not having kids in this video aren't very good. In fact there are far BETTER reasons for not having kids than those you present here. For instance, as a matter of pure fact, it is MORE selfish to have kids than to not. The only reasons people seem to have for wanting kids is they get warm fuzzy feelings and they want to carry on their legacy. Parents make this decision themselves without caring about what other people think, regardless of how irresponsible and shortsighted the decision may be (and, of course, it often is!). Um, really? Those sound pretty selfish to me. Versus NOT having kids, which is a very selfless act: you are sacrificing your own personal legacy & warm fuzzy feelings in order to do great things for the world. Such as, get an education where you can get a higher paying job and use that money to care for your existing friends & family. And you also prevent the #1 cause of global destruction: human beings! Overpopulation presents a serious threat to the global ecosystem. Not only that but the world is a horribly shitty place, if you really loved kids would you really want them to have to experience the horrors of life?
@PaulGreen11
@PaulGreen11 7 жыл бұрын
Why I never had children; I wanted to pursue myself AND FIND MYSELF first. Don't get me wrong, I wanted the love of a wife and kids and a stable home. But, I wasn't able attract a wife to create a stable with. So, was I supposed to make the kids anyway? Wouldn't that be incredibly irresponsible of me? Wouldn't I only blame my kid(s) for not having enough time to pursue my happiness because I spent most of my time securing and protecting their happiness? Was I supposed to tell myself and everyone else, "I live for my kids." "My kids are my everything!" Was I supposed to Just Understand that I can't be happy so I'm gonna have a child and make them as happy as they can and thus, at least, a part of me will be happy? Yes, to have a 20something who loves me as Dad and looks in on me from time to time and gives me grand kids to enjoy would beautiful. Now, at my age, my heart aches for that. But, 30yrs ago, my heart ached for me. And I didn't want to let myself down by not giving myself the best chance possible to be ME. Did I become who I wanted to be? Not completely. In fact, I'd say I fell way short. But, that's the road I chose. And I'm glad I didn't have to ask anyone to carry my burdens for me. When I die, I'll be dead. My funeral may not be as pretty as yours. In fact, I probably won't have a funeral, just a standard state cremation of an unclaimed corpses. If I don't get a chance to before then, Goodbye, Peace, and I wish things could have been better between us. I'll see you in a hundred years.
@RAHULTMNT100
@RAHULTMNT100 6 жыл бұрын
who are you talking to ?
@WhiteWolfBlackStar
@WhiteWolfBlackStar 10 жыл бұрын
THANK YOOO! I LOVE YOOO! I APPRECIATE YOOO! People have NO CLUE what FEMALES go thru who make the childless choice.... no clue How I even survived my own childhood is still a mystery to me- WHY on EARTH would I want a repeat of that? Childless and HAPPY thank Yooo :)
@WhiteWolfBlackStar
@WhiteWolfBlackStar 10 жыл бұрын
Don't get me wrong - I LIKE KIDS- but as a girl you HAVE to make THE CHOICE- and it can brand you FOR LIFE. Many people don't realize that as they're shredding away on MY PERSONAL CHOICE nor do they take into consideration, maybe I'm on a different path than they are on, maybe I have my OWN REASONS for MY CHOICE. I don't EAT babies for lunch, I chose to do my own thing... BIG DIFFERENCE. Also I ROCK as Auntie Wendi :)
@andrewbest1449
@andrewbest1449 Жыл бұрын
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