The ONLY Reason To Take Him Back When He Returns Is THIS! How To Get Him To Commit Upon Returning

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@Sparksflymich 10 ай бұрын

Hey Elliot, I've read all 6 of your guides last week, literally binged it all. They are very straight to the point and helpful to my situation, especially the FILTERING MEN guide - where I literally asked some of the questions you suggested on a recent first date, they helped a LOT. Thank you for the gems

@ElliotScottDating 10 ай бұрын

That means a lot thank you so much.

@ghaliazelfo1451 2 ай бұрын

😊@@ElliotScottDating

@AD-hh6dd 10 ай бұрын

Yep! I did this recently. Walked away from a situationship because he wouldn’t commit and went NC. I wasn’t bluffing. I was done. He came back 5 mos later and I told him he doesn’t get a chance unless he commits. He said he was ready now for a relationship. I told him I needed 2 mos to decide after getting reacquainted and that after the end of those two months if we weren’t both committed, that was it for me. I’m still deciding if I’ll say yes even if he’s serious. I may say no. If he backs out, I will be blocking him and I will not desire to talk to him ever again. Oh, and I should mention he isn’t getting any sugar walls this time either. He knows what it’s like. So he doesn’t get to come back for assets. He’s being tested for sincerity. We shall see if he passes. He has one month left to convince me.

@flyandshy00 10 ай бұрын

He has to spend big cash to get anything. to prioce he is serious.

@gracefullyrachel6573 5 ай бұрын

Any Updates, did he commit @AD-hh6dd

@AD-hh6dd 5 ай бұрын

@@gracefullyrachel6573 he did end up committing. I had to bring it up and I was kind about it but firm on my resolve. I told him I didn’t want him to do it unless he wanted to though and he said he wouldn’t do anything he didn’t want and he didn’t want to lose me so we’ve been together now a few months officially. But I’m honestly still not sure if he’s going to be able to show up for me the way I personally need. I guess we shall see.

@leslieiris7093 Ай бұрын

Good for you😊

@basicinfo2022 10 ай бұрын

The man should be the one proposing a commitment. If not then he is not in his masculine role, wants to cheat in peace or is deeply insecure so wants you to chase him and inflate his ego...

@BrooklynBaby100 9 ай бұрын

💯 this is accurate!

@susanboshoff5926 10 ай бұрын

He came back and I wanted to observe a few things by not given all my energy. Only to realise that nothing has change.

@nancysmith6048 10 ай бұрын

I've said it before and I'll say it again: Elliot is a dating genius!! Another gem- thank you Elliot!!

@ElliotScottDating 10 ай бұрын

Only if you mean it:)

@liagrigori 10 ай бұрын

He has a motive. I recently did this and it was the best feeling ever . Dodged a major time waster

@DaniiiDaniii8 4 ай бұрын

😂 I feel like I'm in the corner of the Ring with Elliot giving me water and throwing a towel in my head hahahahaha 😂😂😂😂 this is some ROCKY S**** hahahaha 😆

@ElliotScottDating 4 ай бұрын

Rocky a good series 👌

@LotusSellers-r5z 10 ай бұрын

Im so glad Im single!

@flyandshy00 10 ай бұрын

If he ghosts - you should not want him.

@brownsugarglamour 10 ай бұрын

lol whyyyy does the thumbnail look like you’re doing a super complicated math equation

@wheresmycoffeeineededit3639 10 ай бұрын

Legit. No lies detected. I'm glad you chose this as your life's work

@user_abcxyzz 7 ай бұрын

Love that comment 🌟

@Beautifullysaid 10 ай бұрын

Yes professor scott in town 😊

@Whoeverwhateverwhenever 10 ай бұрын

There isnt any, sorry. He CHOSE to leave so never take him back.

@roser8911 10 ай бұрын

lol 😂 so true. If comes back again… let him go again. lol 😂

@basicinfo2022 10 ай бұрын

If he comes back, have your shopping list ready for your time and charge him a unblock fee. Without consequences or punishment, they won't change their bad behaviour.

@danicaharley6273 10 ай бұрын

@@basicinfo2022 Your terms of conditions would be better then punishment, if you want a win win committment

@ElsaVega-Martinez 9 ай бұрын

Who are your guys???Willie Lujan

@edithk2997 9 ай бұрын

This is very true, always regreted giving someone second chance, they mess everything up at the end even worse than the first time

@pimpumpame3864 10 ай бұрын

OMG board is back! Loved it 🎉

@ElliotScottDating 10 ай бұрын

Hope you like it

@LotusSellers-r5z 10 ай бұрын

I love the black board too.

@ksref 10 ай бұрын

Yay! The return of the whiteboard blackboard❤

@memorablywonderful 10 ай бұрын

Don't stay hoping, actions above words. no negotiations anymore. Period🎉

@RRthee1 10 ай бұрын

"If you both want the same thing and you both want to avoid risk, it would be jumping into a relationship." I like that a lot. 👍🏼

@Ceceee21 10 ай бұрын

Lol I’m intrigued by your board behind you there.

@kimt8162 10 ай бұрын

He' right. In 2 cases. The guy won't even drive across town to see me, yet after I say I've had enough. He's in shock mode and moves to another state for another girl and soon comes the ring for another girl. Sometimes you have to be willing to walk away In both cases, if I would have taken the guy back and told him what a jerk he was-I would have been the girl with the ring. But yes, it's a negotiation.

@claracruz9066 10 ай бұрын

Elliot is the best❤

@DreamyGems 10 ай бұрын

The answer Is : NEVER.. Did I get an A+++?

@theeladyj 10 ай бұрын

Thank you , needed this video. Got back together ish with my situationship but im learning to set boundaries

@milenamijatovic1480 10 ай бұрын

Can you do a video diffresnses between assets and relationship? How to know man is commited, and onest and emotionaly ready ❤

@CD-ct6fc 18 күн бұрын

Always on point! Truth!

@kahleesi-queenfire179 9 ай бұрын

Best explanation ever and so true

@AD-hh6dd 5 ай бұрын

I had this scenario a few months ago. He came back. I told him I’d only see him if he wanted a relationship and he agreed. We’ve been together now but I can’t shake the feeling that he only did it so he doesn’t lose me not because that’s what he really wanted. Thoughts?

@leahsamaniego4507 9 ай бұрын

I think that if a man and I broke up because he didn’t want to commit, and then he came back later, saying that he wanted to commit I probably would be skeptical. I probably wouldn’t be 100% in and there would be a significant period where he would need to prove himself before, I would go for it. That being said this has never actually happened to me. Most men seem to just self disqualify once they know that I’m serious about a commitment. And I don’t need to move in with someone right away or get married but I need some type of verbalization that there is a commitment between the two of us.

@gothicyid 10 ай бұрын

@ELLIOT I was dating a guy for 3 months. We both had said I love you. We were in a ltr. On our last date he said we were taking things day by day. We broke up after that. Why would a guy see things as day to day in a ldr?

@MarleneForester 8 ай бұрын

You are just like me and I love your lessons you’re helping so many women

@michaelvideos4672 7 ай бұрын

I want to get married and he knows it from the beginning of our relationship and he just lead me on about he will marry me. But when we broke up, I heard from his friend Helena that he is never be ready to get married. So it helps me move on fast knowing that the 3 yrs relationship we have is just a big LIE. So no for a LIER

@misaberry 9 ай бұрын

Could you make a video on how to get princess treatment?

@ElliotScottDating 9 ай бұрын

That's not a thing lol

@sylviab.791 9 ай бұрын

I think this guy was love bombing me.🤣 He brought me everything I wanted took me everywhere. Then he said he wanted me to buy him something and or go half. I said na. I can't afford it I never asked for nothing I always said I would pay for myself. He always said no it's ok. 🤷