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@TheULMOnaut Жыл бұрын
In all honesty, I hav never seen a person really change. But I know many people break over that fact. Love means you accept the other as he or she is.
@jahvonnewton5557 Жыл бұрын
It’s not necessarily about CHANGING who you are as a person inside, it’s about being able to continue to be yourself and progress your life even if they aren’t there. You are untethered.
@ONEOFNEOАй бұрын
@@jahvonnewton5557 precisely, a lot of ppl get stuck on CHANGE, "I don't want to change you" , "ppl can't change" , etc. When in reality love, like many other things in life, is about IMPROVEMENT, GROWTH, PROGRESS. Once ppl realize and accept this, they'll be able to communicate their wants and needs, also be able to communicate in a healthy manner in general. Leading to being able to accept someone and love them. This is why it's important to practice self love and really accept who we are and work hard on improving who we are. How we love ourselves will directly translate to how we love others.
@NoahHeil-mo4sq Жыл бұрын
my ex broke up with me because she thought she liked someone else, shes an unbelievably intemite woman. her dad was abusive and her mom is a drug addict but out of all of this she is the most kind a generous person ive ever met. she says she liked someone else, but i believe it was because i was extremely emotional when my dad lost custody of me. i was insecure and was scared of other men in her life and when she was with friends. im ready to make a crazy change. weve known each other since we were in elementry. shes always been the one. i cant let my fuck ups stop what could be.
@dr.orange899023 күн бұрын
Any updates?
@lalaheart762 жыл бұрын
The advices are golden. Thank you both and please keep them coming.
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for watching!
@arniep740 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video. Very well taken points. Second marraige, now divorced after 20 years (First wife of 21 years died). My problem is that my ex is totally tethered to the past and terrified of the future. She tells me that she loves me but unless she can have a 100 percent guarantee that I will not repeat some past bad behavior that broke her trust in me, she cannot stand having to possibly go through the same thing again. I have done a great deal of work and have changed alot but it seems that she does not want to even look at my changes unless she feels that they are guaranteed to be permanent. SO my analogy is that I can bring her into my movie theater to see a movie of the new me, but she will not even look at the screen. That said, we do talk or text frequently on a friendly, not needy, basis, though most of it relates to the granchildren we have in common.
@chibuzornora3633 Жыл бұрын
Thank you guys for this video. I'm too emotional and I guessed that was what caused the break up, please how can I change from that, I really want him back
@districtlivesports Жыл бұрын
You guys are truly the best. I listen to you guys podcasts/episodes on youtube for keeping my faith in bringing this love back with me and my woman.
@phantomx1498 Жыл бұрын
Did it work for you?
@lukamatic549810 ай бұрын
Amazing and actually useful advices❤️
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity10 ай бұрын
Glad you like them!
@Joeinnnn Жыл бұрын
she doesnt want to talk to me anymore the only way i can do so i giving her a letter telling her ive changed hoping for a second chance to talk to me again and let me prove that ive changed how should i write her the letter is it a good idea to say ive changed some part of stuff? I hope i can get a respond from you i dont really have much money to hire a coach
@asia111182 жыл бұрын
Powerful video- Thank you💖
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity2 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome!
@terileventhal93092 жыл бұрын
This was fantastic thank you
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching and following! Coach Alex
@deanmcmahon64712 жыл бұрын
My baby momma said there was no chance of getting back that she loves me but no more relationship how do I fix that it's been a few months I worked on myself better since we broke up but she said there no relationship she wants to be friends I said I'd be friendly towards her for my daughter but I would like to get her back and I don't what steps to take I can't afford one on one with ye but a message on this would help me I love my girlfriend I'm nearly over her but I'm still holding onto hope
@vf9382 жыл бұрын
Happy new year bests coachs
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching! Happy New Year Coach Alex
@hazardtwo2 жыл бұрын
Hi. My ex left me because she wanted “space & time” and since the BU, I was still going over to her place, hanging out and being mutual. That lasted about a month. Then she told me she couldn’t do it anymore, and blocked me on everything. 3 year relationship.
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Have you considered booking 1:1 session? We might be able to help? www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ Thanks Coach Alex
@LawOfEconomics2 жыл бұрын
Shoulda pulled away and given her that space and time like she said give her that time and space away from you to miss you and let her emotions process
@xtuxbux2 жыл бұрын
Happened the exact same to me however it was 6 month relationship , I discovered that she was on a rebound and was using me and wanted to be in love with me that worked for few months but then she felt out of love and moved on to find someone else to be "in love " with in my opinion also for distraction , so all this it is not about you
@paigesfitnesshabit61872 жыл бұрын
What do I do…. I got pregnant by my ex (we were just sleeping together not dating even tho I want to) and now here I am pregnant and he’s ignoring me and it’s pushed him away further?
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the comment and sharing your story, I am sorry that you are dealing with this, especially when you are pregnant. We would need to learn more about the situation and discuss possible scenarios with the action plan. Please book 1:1 session using link below www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ Thank you Coach Alex
@victoriaaguirre2943 Жыл бұрын
Hello,me and my ex had been together for 7 years till last year me n my kids moved out of town to start a better life after my ex husband finishes his probation but after 3 months after we moved he broke up with me.n he did the no contact wit me but recently said my step daughter wnts to see me but by myself.what does that mean
@aakashkardam13192 жыл бұрын
Happy new year 🥳 sir
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching! Happy New Year Coach Alex
@sunflower-de9ku2 жыл бұрын
first 💋 I always wait for your videos. You guys are helpful.
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching and following! Coach Adrian
@deepubagrechaАй бұрын
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@mukulmhembrom Жыл бұрын
The interesting part is that she do not care at all whether I change or not. She do not care about anything about me whether bad or good.
@konstantindzanev6779 Жыл бұрын
Guys my ex lost feeling to me because i was very rude to her, know im really hopeless and truly sorry i miss her and i love her, i want to give her the attention she deserves, what should i do
@phantomx1498 Жыл бұрын
I’m going through the same thing, what did you do?
@cuscos1866 Жыл бұрын
update?
@Vishnu295 Жыл бұрын
I'm also going through the same..
@SusmitaSarkar-hl1ll Жыл бұрын
In no contact he does not call me back still 3 days after so what can I do
@shobharani1557 Жыл бұрын
It has been 2years that he didnot contact me over call but he is in contact with msgs. Will it work?
@jositafernandes2605 Жыл бұрын
Pray he call
@aaniganidileepkumarreddy320 Жыл бұрын
Hi, My girlfriend broken up with me bcz of my behaviour. She made her mind not to stay. But i forced her to stay and she dont want but at the end she conviced to observe me for the change in my behaviour and gave a time of 2 months. She is talking to me but completely in negative way. I cant meet her directly. can you help me how to change her now.
@husseindaiissack93832 жыл бұрын
Alex what does it mean when she dating someone else and that man left her and she start tooking with you and try to ask about that man while you the fast to date her is their any way to get it back
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity2 жыл бұрын
Hello Hussein We would love to help you, but to answer your question in detail we need to know more. This type of analysis is usually done 1:1 in a coaching session. www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ Thanks Coach Alex
@chrisszpond238711 ай бұрын
I have been investing in our relationship but she says I wasn’t investing in our future. Or the important things. Can you help me please?
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity11 ай бұрын
I answered your comment you posted on the other video, you should check it :-)
@TimoCasa-Frontera Жыл бұрын
Guys and Ladies. My ex has a new partner and it's not going well. When the new partner moved in I didn't take it well and for the past month have done everything wrong. He was getting ready to block me. But three days ago I was watching this and no contact is not an option because of business and agreements we decided to have a morning video call (his new partner hovering) and then only necessary business contact. Of course I couldn't keep that together. After I watched this video I reassessed everything including my intentions. Modified my behavior to less than agreed ....Two days later he's calling ME and we actually talked for an hour like real friends we both laughed! We did some sharing. I promised to keep my distance and give him and them space just like I have the previous two days. I got the opportunity to explain what changed and it was my valuing myself and loving myself and telling him with 100% sincerity that I want him to be happy even if it's not with me.... And I meant it. He even commented that he could tell in a very short time I had turned back into myself... Which he likes, and he knew I was sincere. We stayed in the present and when it drifted into future or past mode I redirected to the now. Yes our circumstances are different but I've fully embraced being his friend, which we've been since we broke up 4 years ago and he admitted that I am his soul mate and he's miserable in his current relationship. Told be over the past weeks he's thought about how much he fights with the new guy but how harmonious we were. But he has also stubborn and will stay in this relationship until it completely implodes...I give it maybe 6 more months. But I'm willing to wait and stay socially active and working on myself. I'm more determined than ever to do what is necessary to keep his interest piqued. I already lost 54lbs but I did it for me and my health but he's really helped me by pushing me to take better care of myself. So I give him a pay on the back for that. It only took 2 days for him to start seeing a difference and made him start coming my way.... I will keep you updated Timo Casas
@marcussale718 Жыл бұрын
I’m interested in personal advice
@beckymitchell6477 Жыл бұрын
If you meet up with your ex' when had 4 hours of great happy conversation. He said he was going on a trip we had talked about. I said I could not believe he was going without me. I know I probably should not have said that. Do I apologize for it or just let it go?
@tupacshakur8277 Жыл бұрын
Let it go
@Skid0413 Жыл бұрын
How do you apply the no contact method when you are separated from your wife and want them back but you have kids?
@marycentoni8785 Жыл бұрын
You give it time. But she can’t keep your children from you… just be a better version of yourself, and you never know, you might not want this anymore
@craighughes8765 Жыл бұрын
What if u have kids together
@aakashkardam13192 жыл бұрын
First comment ❤️❤️
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching Aakash Happy New Year Coach Alex
@amishababychauhan57982 жыл бұрын
How to Know that this is the right time to Connect with Ex?
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Amisha This would be dependent on your personal growth and experience during no contact and where you stand emotionally and physically. Thank you Coach Alex
@rubinayaqoob8489 Жыл бұрын
Hi I’m Muslim from india and I’m very very sad I’m in USA and I got divorced from my husband and then my b f left me too
@MDDR-io7nh2 жыл бұрын
Please do a video on monkey-branching
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity2 жыл бұрын
Thank you, We will take this back to the team and certainly consider Thanks Coach Alex